traditionalacking Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
41	I think I’m done done	OFF TOPIC	traditionalacking	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/25 06:11 AM
6	Healthy Boundaries with a Porn Addict		traditionalacking	/r/RedPillWomen	15/02/25 08:48 AM
3	Thoughts on his idea of loyalty?	ADVICE	traditionalacking	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/25 01:51 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I think I’m done done This is a very articulate and to the point response. Thank you for taking the time to do so. You are absolutely right in posing the question: who is causing my suffering? I am. And I have a hard time taking ownership of that. I am definitely struggling with letting go of all that I was hopeful for. A healthy marriage full of trust, laughter, sex. A man who I thought would be very involved with our child. A setting where I felt at peace, that I had the ability to raise multiple children in and ho…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/02/25 04:32 PM
12	Being in shape is truly the key I’ve definitely stayed the same weight for the last 6 years, even with a child under my belt. This winter I’ve gained 15 lbs and never been more disappointed with myself. Goin right back to tracking and exercising.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/25 03:58 AM
0	Healthy Boundaries with a Porn Addict The first thing I am tackling is financial stability. I am almost through my associates and plan on getting my bachelors in a high demand field which also lets me cater to my sons needs (teaching!). But I also feel the biological clock ticking away. I’ve always wanted more children, but this environment doesn’t feel safe to do so in. And drugs have never been a problem. You can read below how well he has overcome his alcoholism. Porn has deeper claws in him. It’s something that has been a daily …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/02/25 07:09 PM
5	Healthy Boundaries with a Porn Addict I would rather keep conversations in the public! TY!	/r/RedPillWomen	15/02/25 07:07 PM
-1	Healthy Boundaries with a Porn Addict His faith saved him from alcoholism. Im talking, he has been around his friends and family who are drinking, asking him if he wants drinks, and he can say no. He has had zero relapse with alcohol. We don’t have drinks in our home, every so often he will bring me a bottle of wine. We’ve had a bottle of wine in our fridge for 6 months and it is untouched by both of us. He doesn’t go to AA meetings, he met with a counselor 2 or 3 times. I have faith he can do it with pornography. I know he can over…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/02/25 07:06 PM
0	Healthy Boundaries with a Porn Addict I read through your posts, they are very helpful— thank you! I’ve never actually made a list of my needs. That is a great place to start right off the bat. I guess I feel very cornered and like I don’t have many options. My family lives 1000+ miles away and I would never take our son from my boyfriend. His family lives in this state, so it’s possible I could just move closer to them. Not necessarily for support for myself but for our son. I really don’t want to break up the family. Our son does …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/02/25 03:31 PM
1	Healthy Boundaries with a Porn Addict Thank you for your input, it is very much appreciated. He is the one who suggested scheduled intimacy, because he thought it might bring us closer together and feel more connected. Also he suggested it would be a helpful alternative where he could choose to engage in sexual intimacy rather than going to porn. Praying for you on this journey, be confident that you have the strength and resilience to overcome!	/r/RedPillWomen	15/02/25 02:13 PM