trafficstar Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Always communicate from a good place.		trafficstar	/r/seduction	17/04/14 04:51 AM
0	Need some new openers		trafficstar	/r/seduction	19/08/11 03:07 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Always communicate from a good place. That's fair, but that's a whole other level. I mean, I could even say it's a defense mechanism and that was probably my first approach. I thought, "well this chick is nobody, I just met her so who really cares". That's still negative though. For me the right frame was, "This chick is being a little tough, but it's all fun and games. I will win her over because I do want to see her again". Not caring is good to an extent, but it can't go so far as to make you act in the wrong way.	/r/seduction	17/04/14 02:34 PM
3	How to Hold Conversation Like a Man \| Nick Sparks This was great... it's actually one of my biggest challenges with my girlfriend right now, I have a hard time getting her to talk. Maybe it's not my issue, but maybe I overwhelm her too. She's generally a quiet type, but I will try to get more comfortable with those silences and see what happens.	/r/seduction	29/06/13 04:53 AM
9	Saw my gal with another guy, pointers on staying cool? Doesn't sound like you two ever laid out the ground rules, is it monogamous, or just fuck buddies? Don't be too hard on her because it will just build resentment later. Problem is you can't genuinely be cool about it, so your frustration will likely come out at some point. If your just fuck buddies then it doesn't matter, but if you really want her as a GF, this is the chance to have "the talk" and tell her how you really feel.	/r/seduction	02/06/12 04:42 PM
1	Just saw the girl I liked on GW...how do I proceed? I think point one is really important though, I don't think you should dismiss it too quickly, and I don't mean to say you should keep her happy in all areas, just with you. Everyone is responsible for their own happiness. I was lucky on two fronts with my experience. On one hand, my friends were not the type to really talk a lot about sex and it was generally not a big issue in my social circle. I never felt extreme peer pressure to get it done. Secondly, the girl I was with was amazing and tha…	/r/seduction	12/05/12 04:18 PM
1	Just saw the girl I liked on GW...how do I proceed? I'll challenge you on two fronts though... 1) If the right girl came along, do you think you are prepared and ready to make the most of the opportunity? Can you attract her and keep her happy on all fronts? 2) Any girl, even one that you have a lot of chemistry and attraction with will still require time before it can be a truly deep and loving relationship PS. Lost my virginity at 23 to an incredible girl, and had that deep, loving relationship for a couple years before things fell apart. I've …	/r/seduction	12/05/12 06:55 AM
1	Just saw the girl I liked on GW...how do I proceed? Hey buddy, these guys are being far too harsh on you and it's really not fair. Sex is fun, sleeping around is fun, no doubt, but it doesn't mean that you can't have something fun and also meaningful. I will say though, it seems like you are getting far too attracted to this chick for the wrong reasons. She may just want to have sex and enjoy, and that may not be what you are looking for. It's all valid. Anyhow, not everyone has to stick their dick in every hole to be a man. The whole "first" isn…	/r/seduction	11/05/12 08:58 PM
1	[FR] Hilarious situation at a nude beach turns into a threesome This was one of the few posts definitely worthy of a FR! Well played sir	/r/seduction	09/05/12 02:08 PM
2	I'm a natural at everything, except opening. Give me a hand? It's very werrd, but I have the EXACT same problem. I read through the posts and all over your responses and it feels like a VERY similar problem. I think my issues comes down to confidence in the end. I'm very tight, and very confident in general, but somehow when the girl approaches me I became much MORE confident for that spurt which allows the conversation to flow much more freely. When I have to approach, I am less confident because I'm way less sure of if she is interested in me. Not sure …	/r/seduction	19/12/11 02:05 AM
2	The "I can't dance"-Approach in a Club I like it, especially since I'm not a bad dancer, if they really push me it allows me to show my moves. I suspect she'll look at you confused, and be like... ok? So option D will be most important, which means this is like 90% of the openers, just the first step...	/r/seduction	16/12/11 07:50 AM
1	Why a bad date can be a good thing Yep, this makes sense and I totally agree. I had misinterpreted the initial comment as never allowing yourself to get too close to a girl. I've fallen into this trap of quickly falling for a girl before I know her before and it definitely doesn't work. My best relationship came from the time I had abundance and the one girl just impressed me so much that the others couldn't compete.	/r/seduction	21/11/11 01:52 PM
2	Why a bad date can be a good thing Alright, well that is reasonable. Honestly, it didn't seem that way when I read it but thanks for clarifying.	/r/seduction	16/11/11 02:46 AM
3	Why a bad date can be a good thing Are we advocating for not having really strong, dare I say, LOVING feelings for a girl?	/r/seduction	16/11/11 01:11 AM