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| 1 | How to “flip the script” with women1000+!! wtf! I've not travelled ANYWHERE in a minute, so I'm developing all local contacts, day, night whenever, but that is considerably slower than say running LA, South Miami or Barcelona. Yep, I got picture tricks going. I generally don't do straight hit and runs (bang and run?), and since I'm local I don't need any psycho babes killing the neighbors cat and hanging it bleeding over my door. So I have to be somewhat pickier around here right now. Not online at all for dating, havent needed i… | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Plausible deniability reasons to get her back to your place?All good however I was aksing YOU for YOUR comparisons since you said you did both "just hang out" and "a reason": you said: "I've had much better success with giving them a reason - vs - just hang out - " One versus the other, YOU said that. As for me, believe it or not getting girls home usually does "just happen" because I try to keep things local and it's just fits in the flow of what we are doing. I don't know about the lines being said here, but I tend to throw stuff like "no way I'm going… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How to “flip the script” with womenI like the phone move as described. Found a couple good videos and sources on this as well, as you suggested. I will say that these are "how to get numbers" sources , I'm more into how to make number exchanges smoother, as written. And perhaps you have this problem too, but I have a phone full of new numbers I don't have the time to develop by text or call! I literally have to add notes after I get a phone number just so I remember who the heck it was. I am not ready to just sit down bang out 10… | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Plausible deniability reasons to get her back to your place?you said: "I've had much better success.." So, examples of that. How did your "much better success" actually go down, or more specifically, how did you recover from dropping "just hang out" line, since you said you had "better success" with "any reason". It's Ok if you don't have actual examples though, no worries. Actually, no one gave any plausible deniability reasons here except feed the dog | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How to “flip the script” with womenOk will do. Cold approach is my favorite thing to do right now hands down, but I do have these specific little inefficiencies. I get phone numbers often of course, but I am noticing that I do let a couple good ones get away (like at the gym sometimes when I didn't take my phone in, or grocery when I just happened to not take my phone because I just need two things, etc, drats!). Never thought to specifically look at phone numbers as it's own topic, I have also not done that particular phone move… | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Plausible deniability reasons to get her back to your place?Any chance you can give some examples of this- - - | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | How to “flip the script” with womenI like how casual you made the phone number part here, this helps me. I find the phone number exchange can be clunky, giving or receiving both and either way, and a break in the action a lot of the time. I'd go so far as to say you can tell who's more into it by the way the number exchange goes down. I do get what the girls are saying as far as the "hi, you seem cool. Let's go into the deep dark woods together and talk", but that is not what you are talking about here at all of course(!). There … | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Need Help: At a crossroads and not sure which path to takeI getcha. I'm coming from the place of the web interface is just one step of many, but it should not be such a sticking point that your project is just grinded to a standstill. I don't know exactly what you are planning (of course, and it should remain that way for sure), but my challenge for you is that's it's easy to come up with great ideas, and imagine their fruition, but no matter what you have to start with one step and just start going. I may be out of line in many respects because I don'… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Need Help: At a crossroads and not sure which path to takeI'd say if your still in university you need to start building your business right now. Sounds like you have 3 years before you need to make any long term commitments. It also seems like you have the business idea down, but imo you need to start actually doing it right now, at any size you can, at any level you can. Plenty of web hosts you can build your elementary start on, so if you fear it might be obsolete soon (obsolete that soon, hmm), sounds like it's time to get moving and see what is wo… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 05:08 PM |
| 2 | what do you guys do when someone keeps disrespecting youI tend to disrespect them right back. I do so constantly, continuously, and at work every single day. But make sure they deserve it, then let 'em have it, GO TO WAR. It has a lot to do with what your long term goals are, imho. I tend to focus on my long term goal in whatever environment, and consider such irrritants as just part of the process of getting what I want. This methodology requires you have a very strong sense of what your true value is, so if you don't have a sense of that you will n… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 04:34 PM |
| 0 | That chick with the vacuum [field report]I have to say I liked this entire thing. If she is a business owner, then she is just one of those types of girls. Perhaps it comes off as snobby, but at the end of the day she is both independent and confident. I like the touch move (why not, no need to act like a shy guy every single second) . I also like her test of "do you often talk to stangers on the street", so for you, it's a good time to think up some funny or clever (or sincere) comebacks to that one (I'm not putting mine on reddit ha … | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Things you can do to become more attractiveha ha I had a freind that would grab girls on the ass as his opener. All girls looked him directly in the face after that, and 3 of 4 girls would give him a shtty look, but 1 in 4? 1 in 4 would stick round! Cool. I like the ass grab after she does something sexy, or after we make a joke, ha ha I will try this! much appreciate! | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Things you can do to become more attractivecool. the times i let go and just go with it I do great. I might be over thinking this one. thanks for this i have actually run thru spotify top list just to see what the deal was a time or two but i seriously like your application of this idea VERY COOL | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Things you can do to become more attractiveBAD ASS ANSWER! Ok, will do the dance class sign up, swing, salsa, and tango, will start looking around for classes now | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 05:30 PM |
| 11 | Things you can do to become more attractivewhaddapp letsgetrandy I can tell you're walkin' the walk-- a lot of shy strong-theory guys here in reddit land (you gotta start somewhere though so no probs and 100% go), but yep, you're on it of course, these items are all 100% correct. So for Daringness, what if you kind of suck at dancing and almost dont get too much out of it. How to capture the joy of dancing here? Also, you know it's weird, where girls are so concerned about what other girls think of them (like if they are appearing too sl… | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected by my crush- IT FEELS GREAT!ya 'mon, ya | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected by my crush- IT FEELS GREAT!I think iOvert means it's unnecessary to agree to be friends with a girl, ever. Friends, Lovers is a pretty fine line. From the Guy's perspective, this girl might just change her mind literally at any moment, and they would be lovers. You and I know a lot more goes into it than that, but from the guy's perspective, a girl just suddenly changes her mind one night. In this case jd3406 overstated his intentions, imho. And, she is the one who brought up the word "intentions", not him. Better to skip… | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected by my crush- IT FEELS GREAT!I'm glad you pushed through on this too. Sometimes you have to just put it all on the table just for yourself, especially because at first you generally have so much tension going on inside about the girl anyway. But this way, you won't get all hung up on the girl, and you will keep going for what you want (in life). So now that you have experienced this, and plowed through all the feelings that go with it, next time think of saying something more like this for more fun, for example: a. "oh, I j… | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I think I've found a really effective cold approach strategy: "you look really familiar..."This line works from women to men. I'm super happy when any woman uses this line on me and I give them tons of attention for doing so. From a man to a woman though, this is a very hard line to proceed from. Why? because it's so damn general (it could apply to anyone), so higher value females will have already heard it many times and feel like they "know what you want". In fact, I threw that line on a couple of 10's before I knew game and I got killed, loL, I mean I got completely murdered! I was… | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 09:58 PM |
| 2 | What is your best/go to cold approach pick up line/moveNo way af I'm going to post my best/killer go-to lines on reddit !! But I have learned SOME things from reddit so I'll offer a couple that I have been working on lately: in excitement situations: "I'll show you mine if you show me yours". Any version of that. Words alone, or just actions, or both, but be prepared to show something, a picture of a pet, something you just bought, your sister, your boxers, ANYTHING and in about any situation: "are you really XYZ, or are you just trying to look … | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 08:17 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 32 Progress ReportA cool day here. I like Interaction 1, smooth close, comfortable for everybody. Interaction 5, it's ok, imho, to act manly when you get straight called out. Like when you get cold busted & blown out, you can put your hands on your knees like you just got punched, look up at her in her eyes and nod upward once laughing, then stand up pop with your shoulders back and strut the f^ck off. So most girls see you coming a mile away, well guess what, most also check you out as you exit. As you exit thei… | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 32 Progress ReportAlright dude a mall omg. Remember you have two general types of girls here, the ones that work there, and then the shoppers. IMHO you need to 1st make a curcuit of the girls that work there, then 2nd work the shopper scene. For the first curcuit you want to don a Mr Friendly Mr Flirty game just saying hi and telling everybody where you work. Then hit that curcuit once every couple days just chatting girls up, or straight up every day once you start getting hooks in everywhere. Like, literally ju… | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 03:55 PM |
| 5 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 30 Progress ReportInteraction 4 Ladies Shop hilarious I have done this lots of times. Freaking nerve racking! After about the fifth time one day, I was chatting up this super cute girl up between stores and she was all smiles and we got closer and closer to like victoria's secret or something and she just had this huge grin on her face, and, this sparkle in her eye that got more and more fun as we got closer and closer to the door. I was making all these expressions as we got closer like 'whatever, i'm not afraid… | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 29 Progress ReportLol thanks for this response, I understand what you are saying here better. I didnt mean to be quite so point blank right there. Most of the people on this thread, in one form are another, are super social (they "get it" can be said), but I agree it would be annoying if some random guy rolled up, interrupting you for an interaction. That said many clues indicate if you are social are not. If you are reading and have a certain expression on your face in a given context, you'd likely be left alone… | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 10:33 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 29 Progress ReportAgreed, OP is on London Day Game style mostly | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 29 Progress Reportstellar! do it hanan | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 08:10 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 29 Progress Reportcool | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 29 Progress ReportYou have a lot of intense responses today so you might not get to what I am about to say, because it's not the usual by any means. When I have several blow outs in a row, I noticed that I have to recover and maintain a certain composure, because the next girl you see might be The One (or A One) and you can't bring all that recent blow-out-overhang with you. You have to start fresh! once again and bring the Positive Vibe in with each new said girl. So when you are like "no! no! something is wrong… | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 08:02 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 29 Progress ReportI am part of the No Apology club for sure, but I do find I barrel in sometimes, notice what's up, and need to make an adjustment. E.g. hey "blah blah" open, and if they hesitate in a certain way "oh I see you are doing blah blah thing with the other thing" like I'm going to kind of roll off. I usually get "oh no your ok, blah blah" , or "yeah we are doing blah blah" then I continue. When I just barrel just through no matter what I usually blow out more often than not. I think o.g. is just saying… | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 29 Progress ReportHe got No numbers or social media in this post day, so we are all talking about improving that. You talking about same day lay results or something | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 07:16 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 29 Progress ReportWelcome and nice hearing your persepctive on this ya | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 06:59 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 29 Progress ReportYep if you don't want to be disturbed, stay home. In public your personal bubble will get interrupted quite a bit because, well, you're in public. Things happen. In this way your view is a bit socially wierd, and unrealistic. No worries, if you are giving off this vibe, you are likely not the type that gets approached. | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 28 Progress Report ( 1 instagram and 1 wechat)Never known any girl who had "fun" blocking anybody. Seems like it's a more wrenching experience than something 'fun' per se. Perhaps you are living in sort of alternative universe that no one else is living in, just you. | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day Progress 23 Reportthanks, there are a few real mf's on reddit, not many though! You have maybe 7 or 8 suggestions here, I want to try all of them, but will pm my results so far don't want the lazy guys on this thread getting out of any work- - - | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 20 Progress Report (Insta Close)Well I wouldn't use the word 'weird' per se, but there are lots of other words. I definitely use the pattern though. I'm not sure what you are I don't know you that well. Just saying 3 is ok for anyone who is actually going out there and talking to women, rather than for those just typing opinions about something they know nothing about | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 05:44 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress Reportwow that's cold man! we don't know that yet right? Solid advice on the hand-on-wallet smile though... | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 04:41 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress ReportWell you and I would never get along. I'm super dumb, and talking about sex, I don't even like sex. Ok, I was just checking on this, and yes with your job you are likely WAY over saturated with certain, unname-able forms of communication. Genuine authenticity right. The best way to go, despite all that dreadful vulnerability. I got cold approached by a fem before the pandemic and I was just floored. I was so impressed. It's tough for guys, but for women I'm sure it's 100x. But, my esteem for her… | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 27 Progress ReportI've done worse, I've rattled off non-sensical jibberish and auto ejected in 5 seconds, multiple times | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 27 Progress ReportI gotta go out just so I have food. Perhaps your mother deilvers yours to you. Talk to 'strangers' every time I walk out the door. Flirt mercilessly with full gloves and masks on. I'd flirt with a full respirator on, and I'd flirt even if I had a space suit on. Stay inside and hide, with or without a pandemic. You're safer there. Leave the flirting to me and THANKS ! | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 03:59 PM |
| 12 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 28 Progress Report ( 1 instagram and 1 wechat)Beautiful, no comments necessary! Liking that event/party close though | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 03:47 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 27 Progress ReportBlackbelt Clinic in The House! Great stuff here. ForeverKarlMalone got that kinda AGGRESSIVE GAME, talkin' about workin' ! Printing, and studying this... | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 27 Progress ReportSo don't use the hampster one anymore. Easy to call out what didn't work, he just told you it didnt work. What should he be doing instead | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 26 Progress ReportYes don't pauses and breaks and fill-ins occur naturally. Plus in a bar aren't we are just standing, sitting, and socializing anyway. Agreed, not freaking out when things fall silent or go somewhat awry | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day Progress 23 Reportlol, duh I should have known right | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day Progress 23 Reportlol, duh of course you did! | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day Progress 23 Reportthis looks fun, I wanted you guys to keep going, I will try to delete this message soon to keep the continuity | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day Progress 23 Reportthis looks fun, I wanted you guys to keep going | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 10:08 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day Progress 23 Reportprops talionrayon coming with the realness, I just dropped a few of your suggestions on, they worked, thanks and much appreciate | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 10:06 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 26 Progress ReportAnybody try this thing at 21:57 ? | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress ReportYes I don't go weather on anybody. But I have had an issue when I'm just talking to girls back to back in day game (and that's all I'm doing). It seems like the really sharp girls (say the smart 9's and 10's) try to identify what I am doing, and if my story "makes sense" more often than the others. Like in a shopping scene, I get smoother interactions with the high calibre girls when I just bought something at Nordstroms, then when I am not. Most girls don't care or notice. But the dimes, a bit … | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 09:05 PM |
| 4 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 26 Progress ReportA good practice day. A decent way to work on getting out of your head is to focus on the girl and what she is feeling. But to do that you have to be comfortable within yourself which is attained many ways, and practicing with interactions is certainly an important one. So concatenating openers from Day 25 comment. I just threw that word in, but when I approach my eyes are calmly scanning things on the girl and everywhere. Every single observation is an opener. Once I hit the spot (eye contact, p… | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress ReportAny starter tips on how to talk dirty to girls? What would turn you on etc? | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress ReportNo probs happy to do it, Ok concatenating posted in Day 26 | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 04:33 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress ReportYep, this fits a solid on-the-move, man-in-motion style, I like it. And sure enough, the goal is the goal (after-all) so why the heck not always be closing. I also agree that OP is 100% in the club already just doing this, and that day 25, well yep it's day 25, so.. One challenge is he is running solo, and has no backing track running behind him, (no underlying reason he is there thru 'female eyes'), right now. In sales you are running place to place, and just hitting girls along the way. [once … | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress ReportDo you mean like on the open? None of these seemed quite number worthy per se today right | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 12:21 AM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress ReportHelps tremendously to hear the other side of this, appreciate this | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress Report Interaction 2: Non response at all is pretty rare, happens though. Don't feel bad, think of it as: you have to raise the bar on what you say, do, and observe. Think: what did you miss? Why would someone not respond at all? Rest assured, there are many things you can say in a non-response situation, but, I have had girls stomp away without saying a word, and make disapproving sounds of wide variety before stomping away. I agree this is quite devastating when it happens, but now I see my approac… | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 12:15 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 22 Progress ReportHa ha I agree - - - | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 11:11 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 19 Progress Reporta ha I see, acknowledging the chemistry right. Um ok I'll try it next chance that presents for this, will let you know - - - - - | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 10:23 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 22 Progress ReportWhat's the main reason girls reject you is likely the more important question | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 19 Progress ReportI agree, having some sort of goal or agenda kills the entire thing that makes it fun. So asking for a phone number like that "I really enjoyed this conversation...your number... coffee later this week?" Why does this feel right to you? It seems very nice, and also, in a way, very direct. How would this type of ask make you feel and why? (if I may, that is) | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 20 Progress Report (Insta Close)What you said here is so good. Thanks for this! | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:38 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 20 Progress Report (Insta Close)I am so glad you just said this! Very much helps me to understand! | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:37 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 20 Progress Report (Insta Close)I'm just going to say it. You are very good at this and I find your expressions quite attractive. | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:35 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 20 Progress Report (Insta Close)False. 3 is perfectly fine. It's the emotional pattern not the words or even the meaning of the words. Glad you don't believe it though. Stay on the sidelines where you are nice and comfortable, bud. Or. Begin to man up. Choice is yours. | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 20 Progress Report (Insta Close)I'm not writing this for you, obviously. And I read what you said very carefully, and I know where you are coming far too well. Enjoy your yatching, sounds GREAT right now | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 22 Progress ReportGreat day, but damn dude-- you just might solve the looks opener ! Ninja pirate!!! and then Interaction 3 !! Hmm, steps 1, 2, and 3, .. yep, you're doing everything right here. Now that you're rock solid, you might roll up on a girl that will be kind of "off" in some way. Just saying that so you know and you'll be ready. Someone offered to wing with you on Day 21!!! Not saying you should do that or not do that (this is the rando internet afterall), but just that acheivement alone is noteworthy f… | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 21 Progress Reportyes indeed, you are correct!! | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 20 Progress Report (Insta Close)Gimmie a sec, I'm writing a whole book on this response here, need to seriously reduce the word count. Bear with me.. | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 03:17 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 21 Progress ReportI think this was another great day. No doubt about it. I like the pause you are putting in before you drop the bomb part of your opening statement in. Sounds like your sincerity is coming through. Who knows man, you might solve the looks opener ! But keep mixing it up of course, being well rounded, etc. Good job getting the verbal feedback in Interaction 4. Nice to know right. And good job noticing deeper things about each girl. It also sounds like you don't mind bidding a good day and rolling o… | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 01:23 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 20 Progress Report (Insta Close)I'm so gald you wrote this because it's important. This sub went from people laughing, saying how this was "cringy", and how it obviously doesn't work, to Day 20 comments full of those who, one way or another, for better or worse, believe. And notably, some of us are already living a life with the knowledge unfolding here. The process is so very diffcult, and kind of embarassing, frankly, that most guys are way to scared to believe it, much less do it. But in walking this walk we do not become m… | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 09:22 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 20 Progress Report (Insta Close)Hmm so what teases you got. I think 4 would be appropriate later in the interaction (like after 30 of the seconds), and would be good for super-nice-sensitive-girls and Divas. Some girls you push/pull too much and it confuses them too much, and then when you push/pull and Straight 10 + DIVA they will push/pull you right back like 3 times in a row just out of habit (only if they already like you so far that is). Ok to disagree with me here of course but thats what I have run into anyway | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 03:18 PM |
| 5 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 20 Progress Report (Insta Close)Thanks for this post. Much appreciate. We are starting to get away from just saying 'blah blah no, it's wrong' and 'something is wrong' and getting into the patterns of what to actually say and do and when, LOVE IT. I really like your tease step here. Thanks for that. Throwing that push/pull falling in love tag is freaking brilliant. I will throw that on TODAY and try it out. SERIOUSLY APPRECIATE YA and A++ | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 02:40 PM |
| 6 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 20 Progress Report (Insta Close)Tom Torero First 90 Seconds! Great vid, the way that girl was having fun, omg. Strong work from Torero. Solid. All your interactions today gave you great learning points: Interaction 3: I like how you identified what you did here, the ignoring the topic she was in to. Interaction 4: good job getting into the bf thing one more step in GOOD JOB Interaction 5: 'Not sure' is better then 'gotta go' GREAT JOB. Ha ha nice phone move! Interaction 6: Good insta game is very powerful, but that's a whole… | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 19 Progress ReportThis ask, can you reveal why this approach would feel good / be comfortable? | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 18 Progress Report ( 2 Facebook and 1 Insta close)That could happen, hope not though | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 03:31 PM |
| 5 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 19 Progress ReportI like your eye contact. Interaction 2: You noticed how she was feeling on this, GOOD, keep doing that. Great job going out and knocking out the 5 even though you didn't feel like it. I learn a lot on days I don't want to approach, but usually because I make huge mistakes that I have to scramble out of ! Seems like you went with looks openers because you just wanted to bang out your 5, and, you got through them with no problems in this way. That's fine. These days happen. Getting in the 5 is mor… | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 02:55 PM |
| 0 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 18 Progress Report ( 2 Facebook and 1 Insta close)You're on this thread, so what does that say about you. You're pretty ass should be doing whatever you and your pretty friends do, or just go back to being the incel you are kid. | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 06:21 PM |
| 0 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 18 Progress Report ( 2 Facebook and 1 Insta close)I do a wide variety of purely situational methods, but I actually have not tried this exact (or similar) statement. I like this idea though, it's more relaxed, I will need to try it.... | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 05:31 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 18 Progress Report ( 2 Facebook and 1 Insta close)Dude what is your 'success rate', if you got better girl game than me I'll listen to everything you say! But if you think youtubers post all their approaches, pranks or otherwise on 100% success without even trying then they would post a different girl every day. But if you get 1 DATE every 5 interactions, then break us off some of your wisdom bro!! | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 04:53 PM |
| 0 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 18 Progress Report ( 2 Facebook and 1 Insta close)"How can we stay in touch", I like that, that works for you, right? | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 18 Progress Report ( 2 Facebook and 1 Insta close) Eye Contact. The magic key right. Ha ha, well keep working the eye contact, IT GETS BETTER So Day 18, you're advancing VERY nicely. Fun as h3ll hearing you do this. Yep all the naysayers, they live on another planet. A dumb planet. A planet inside their own, demented heads. Weird isn't it. Ok yeah, I admit, we have all been there! lmao. Interaction 4: The Pretty Russian. Yes the interaction did not end badly, so great right?? but also feels incomplete (frowny face). Makes you feel like, "Wait.… | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 04:38 PM |
| 4 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 17 Progress Report (first 2 set)Failed in what way, what would be a 'success' here | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 02:16 AM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 17 Progress Report (first 2 set)As above, on proximityzero12's comment. YOU CAN DO IT | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 02:07 AM |
| 5 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 17 Progress Report (first 2 set)You have more going for you than you might think. Next time your not in your home territory, try to chat up every girl you see like hanan019. Feel the panic. Make the mistakes. Ok yeah, the mistakes will kinda suck a little. Just like anything else. After a while there will be no panic, and you will see clearly. Mistakes, you will start not to make. Then after a while, you will UNDERSTAND. Doesn't mean you will date every girl you see, but you will be the best you, inside and out, and that is wh… | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 02:06 AM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 17 Progress Report (first 2 set)Once you know you reached the hook point, yes? | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 01:58 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 17 Progress Report (first 2 set)Opened your first two set GREAT JOB! Your flirt game seems to be working decently here, I agree with those saying to start throwing your flirt game out there more. Solid EYE CONTACT!! FINALLY you SAY this!! Keep doing that, every time. Shockingly, girls that are 10-like can handle it more often, you will find, than not. Surpise surprise and good job. Women with strong feminity and no goofy emotional hang ups tend to give you major props for rolling up directly, honestly, and appropriately. This … | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)I appreciate this perspective. This is an attractive sales professional that travels type of perspective, in my opinion. If you come in contact with a lot of females and you are on the go, I think this methodology is most certainly appropriate. Also, the girls themselves would be a certain demo. Hmm Not being honest, that is interesting. What would being honest be? I'm thinking her looks should not be brought up at all, ever, because girls have that weird super power thing where they quickly dis… | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 09:01 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)At first approach is terrifying! It's like facing every fear you have ever had, but everyone is watching, and listening, and you're thinking the girl is going to just hate you, then she is going scratch your eyes out for fun. But most people in general are very cool once you learn how to initate the right way. I agree eye contact flirting is so much fun. So simple yet so rarely brought up. I have even had this happen for what felt like hours, neither saying a word. The entire world disappears an… | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 07:29 PM |
| 0 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)lmao! Yes the lilac cover would get all dirty and messed up and the mice would still run free. Poetry books with crushed roaches on it, I don't want to carry that book, plus we'd still have a roach problem! I've read poetry to girls lots of times, I've had girls I didn't know read poetry to me, caught few mice, sprayed a few roaches-- I'm just trying to give dude some options! | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)ha ha you may be right. Plus I am saying this in an extremely tacky way, like it's a trick. Somewhere on here I also say why not actually learn guitar, and as for poems, you do have to actually read the poems. You thought the dog one was ok? I thought that one was the most obvious, perhaps not. We can't be just be randomly hanging around the park though, we likely all agree on that. My idea is dude needs to keep doing approaches, but ultimately he will clearly build himself up to be a better per… | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)Right now dude is doing the London Day Game Model. It's hard pretty core. I agree bars (super, super easy to interact), stores, malls, etc etc are considerably more natural to work on socializing than the street. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 04:58 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)easy there killer. we are all approaching this from a different mindset and talking about it | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 04:52 PM |
| 20 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)Fair enough. Looking at phone, talking on phone, listening to music are different things. You are correct (of course). It's ok make this error (in my view), I learned quite a bit from making a huge mistake that irritated a woman or two. Apologies ladies, we are just trying to learn, and we gotta do it or we die, plain an simple. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 04:43 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)You are 100% correct. It's hard to describe the inner game stuff and the big picture life stuff on this little board but you are 100% right !!!! | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 04:32 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)I've run up on girls, breathless, and ultimately dated them, multiple times. I had no idea what I was doing, but I certainly got their numbers and dated them. But I agree it did take a lot more than just one instant moment. You gotta have that instant moment though or nothing will happen. Right now I can only say this to you: it's better to be the man that is willing to face risk bravely, and passionately, and run up, then the man that sits there, folds his hands, and never tries. As for proximi… | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)Its funny you think this is sad and depressing. It's just that not everyone is as good at giving and getting signals as you. Some poeple dont know how to draw attention like you do. Most guys just didn't wake up and "have it" like you. Many dudes (most naysayers on these threads) had super traumatic bad experiences in adolescence (we all have actually if you think about it right), and if a cute girl straight jumped in their laps they would not know what to do. Or even what it could mean, or what… | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)deleted mine, I like the other comments | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 03:10 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)6 interactions today, 16 days straight, EXCELLENT. "OK DUDE" that's funny, I have gotton worse! The days that you just grind it out are pefectly fine. And you kept going through thick and thin, this is key. Your emotional strength and consistency are ON POINT. I like where febgeekymom is going as far as breaking out of this one style of thought only (london day game), and I like how you are mixing up venues. Ok your parks hits, you need to start adding props: a.) for reals start carrying a gui… | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 03:05 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 15 Field ReportOk I think I have something helpful now. We need to break you out of the London Day Game paradigm a little bit. LDGame is basically trying to have you score dates off the street, and that's the entire training ground. But real life has us (and all the girls) in all sorts of environments, not just the street set. But you are looking for ANY kind of time spent. Whatever works for you and each girl, not just say coffee, although that is a good general suggestion: I'd say go for re-meets with the wo… | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 07:10 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 15 Field ReportNope. Gentlemen, JW_2 is most definately wrong. If you don't believe me thats ok. Go cringe by yourself all you want. It leaves more room for me, so THANKS! | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 05:39 PM |
| 4 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 15 Field ReportAlways the hard close with the London Day game. If these girls are working, seems like you could go for a future meet up on thier break just to get more time in. The hard close requires a girl to cough up an answer. That's a lot of pressure , where girls want to feel like "it just happened" as the rsd guys say. Also, these closes have a "I want to date you" vibe, which is really a "I want to sleep with you" vibe to most girls, where technically, they already know that. We need to smooth out your… | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily field report and my confusion on the comments I get here sometimesI read all the comments and it's understandable your confusion. I'd say, anything negative you should ignore. Plenty of opinions from those that do nothing. Second there are people that MAY be on to something, but they say it in a harsh or overly blunt way. They may be wrong or guessing, OR they may just need to work on how to properly phrase things when they are trying to coach or help another person. Like learning "coaching game" which is a different type of interaction. You should ask questio… | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 14 Field ReportI appreciate your view quite a bit. Cold approach has improved my life so much I do it every chance I get. Perhaps cold approach isn't for you, or the mind set doesn't work for you, but it's great for me. What do you mean by fail, fail in what way. What do you think the goal is. Actually any thing you have skill in, you failed at many times first. If you start boxing in a fight gym for the first time, your going to get punched, and beat, a lot. I got beat up every round for a good while, until o… | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 02:26 AM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 13 Field Report ( Push Pull and Calm)I agree to enjoy it. I met a dude that was 70 that was rocking it. His only wife passed away a few years earlier, and now he was travelling the world with any one of his stable of "lady friends". He inspired the heck out of me with his many exploits, travels, and his lady friends. You never know dude, the pageant of life is long, and what a life! | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 13 Field Report ( Push Pull and Calm)ya, no taking it all overboard acting like an idiot overcompensating right | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 13 Field Report ( Push Pull and Calm)perfect! | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 13 Field Report ( Push Pull and Calm)Cool. I see. A difference from the other (lame) guys | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 05:32 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 13 Field Report ( Push Pull and Calm)Yes I did notice that. I've seen guys say 'hi' so meekly that no one even hears them. Like in a high voice and everything. I almost always swoop in immediately and just straight up blatantly open the girl when I see that. The girl is generally exceptionally pretty when guys do this. Youre right that shtt straight up works. | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 14 Field ReportInteraction 5 I am actually a robot!!! I'm telling you right now I'm going to use that one. So the not-so-great day after the great day. Yes this type of thing is a slight bummer because it's no fun. You get all hyped up on feel-good endorphins (from the good interactions day), and then all you get are duds. But doesn't it bug you though, and you toss and turn, trying to figure out what went wrong? And don't you just toss and turn in your seat, thinking about how to fix it, and what to try next?… | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 13 Field Report ( Push Pull and Calm)Great job! keep going !!! | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 02:08 PM |
| -1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 13 Field Report ( Push Pull and Calm)Talk twice as loud, I have a loud voice and this got me into serious trouble early on while approaching, like escorted by police perp walk style at an outdoor mall for "talking to women". Not an issue now, but a loud voice, can you reveal the reason why this works? | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 01:32 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 8 Progress ReportI agree with ElNinoFerrer to Be Kind, and in real life around 8 of 10 girls are actually cool and you will see it. I also agree, be doing your normal thing or a good thing and weave approaches into it, like don't be just approaching and approaching and that's all your main intent is moment to moment. You can bull in a china shop it like these young bucks do too (this is always good), but being out the game 24 years its ok to take it on a more demure tip. I would go ahead and add a gym membership… | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 09:11 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 8 Progress ReportGreat Job man!! What a day !! Interaction 1: lady at signal Perfect. Interaction 2: lady with a ring on You noticed SHE NOTICED your reaction: WIN!! Married chicks are free practice if their energy is good, keep gaming! Interaction 3: Jogging girl (<-edit) You are doing so great with your stops, completely awesome. Ok so my dude for reals: remember that when you start with a looks opener (you tell them they are attractive) you are really saying "you look good and I would like to sleep with… | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 7 Field ReportA full range on Day 7! I'm glad you experienced this day. Interaction #1 no dice and then you also had Interaction #4 made her day. Those Interaction #4's, I remember many, these are among my favorites. Making a girl's day, week, month is really fun. Full range days. These happen occasionally early on. I've had approaches where girl #1 is straight disgusted at me ( I know what I did wrong now though), then literally the very next minute another girl does everything she can to get my attention (s… | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 07:38 PM |
| 8 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 6 Progress ReportGreat job Hanan019! Interaction 1: hippie chick good open she laughed. yep, go ahead and walk with her Interaction 2: awesome hairs girl Here any negative open will get you blown out super quick (sometimes a neutral reaction though, rarely). Yep if you're complement opening make sure to communicate a positive. Interaction 3: taking pictures girl So here you need a recovery line REALLY fast. Interaction 4: colorful druggie chick Here convey you are open minded. The light change, hmm, jump i… | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 05:42 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 3 ReportI like what you're doing Hanan019, I remember doing exactly what you are doing, ha ha great times. I would like you to keep posting because what you say challenges me as well. Maybe in a different way, but very valuable. Consequently, I have tips: Interaction 1 - girl outside a clothing store Ha ha a bordom hit. Good job I like this kind of opener. All your reasons why are good. Alright, buckle up: Hmm. Ok so when you use this opener, and if you're not doing this already, I'd like you to try an … | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 09:46 PM |
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