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| 1 | How do I stop being bitter?Maybe you have a personality disorder in addition to autism -- especially if you think that your core is ick and has to be kept hidden. Take some online psych tests and read some posts at verywellmind.com and find out more about yourself (all their posts are doctor-reviewed and many focus on relationship problems). Neural-typical people might experience this from time to time, but not so often it disrupts relationships and connections. Getting a diagnosis from a mental health professional can he… | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 12:27 AM |
| 5 | How do I alleviate the guilt of a married (separated) woman that wants me?Her guilt is based on her values, so find out what her value is that is causing the guilt -- don't assume you know (guilt=the thought that she is doing something wrong/immoral/hurtful.) I discourage you trying to alleviate her guilt; it's her issue to resolve, and if you try to resolve it for her, it could blow up ("You told me to...") or it could become your job in the 'ship. Instead, try some active listening. Repeat what she tells you and ask if you got it right. Then either empathize or symp… | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 02:25 AM |
| 1 | I am 40 years old but concerned about daygame...It's easy to find confirmation of limiting beliefs on the internet like 'regular guys are unattractive.' But it's unhelpful to watch funny clips of Tindr users and then personalize the judgments you find there. Who first told you that being a regular guy was bad? You're an adult now, not some powerless kid, so you can talk back to that early message. I'm a balding regular guy, and I look hawt! (at mirror x3) If you feel resistance to the idea of praising yourself or owning your value as a regula… | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | I am 40 years old but concerned about daygame...I think you're showing confirmation bias towards your personal values here or too much focus on a predefined set of masculine values (and looksism). A woman who is killing it with her stamp collection would be attractive to other philatelists. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 02:18 PM |
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