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trashcanpandas/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:49 PM
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Rant/Ventingtrashcanpandas/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 09:06 AM
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Good to know, thanks. We have a snowboarding weekend trip planned with her social club next weekend. I'm going to pretty much just observe and watch everything she does and decide accordingly from there.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 11:17 PM
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I thought this was asktrp? Give me something more substantial ;)
/r/askTRP29/11/17 11:17 PM
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So I talked to her on facetime last night and I found out a couple things about this cunt of a close guy friend that made me understand more about what kind of a person he is. Apparently he told her that I had low self esteem and was a little bitch for trying to enforce boundaries. Then he also said I might be stringing her along a relationship that I was scared to end, because I was afraid to hurt her. She sent me text messages where this little faggot was trying to undermine our relationship w…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 05:31 PM
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She is 22 I am 23. She does have a crude sense of humor sometimes and tries to act very tomboyish but then reverts back to being girly too. She does swear and try to play it cool
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 09:47 PM
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You are right. I thought that would sound a bit controlling or petty, but now that I think about it, that's fucking retarded. This sub is what I needed, someone to slap my shit straight and tell it to me with no bullshit. If it ever comes up again, I will use that line and will walk if needed. Thanks for saying it like it is.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 06:04 PM
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I thought about bringing it up to her, but I didn't want to be a little bitch. She has an easy out saying, "I do love him like a big brother, he's my grand (gbig)." A shitty rock and a hard place. What would you say or what should I say to that? It's just overall a shitty place for me where it makes me put less faith in anything she says at all.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 05:57 PM
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Thank you. I will do so, and next time do what's in my best healthy interest. The only reason I didn't want to let her go was because she tells fucking everything to her guy and girl friends about us. When we have sex, what I say and do. It's like there's no sense of privacy about our relationship and whenever she says intimate shit or stuff like "I'm so lucky to have you" or "I love you" it has no weight to me. When we were leaving that night, she hugged her good friend for a solid fucking 10 s…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 05:50 PM
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Will do. Previously I also talked to her about how she took molly with another close guy friend (her little from her school club) and they cuddled after. Of course this was before we met, but I told her if she ever does anything emotionally intimate like that with anyone other than me while I'm with her, I will drop that shit like a hot frying pan. The more I see these things about her, the more I feel she is immature and isn't ready for a LTR. But then again, AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 05:46 PM
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Thanks bro, man god, those are exactly the words I needed to hear in terms of advice. I need to make sure she's someone who's worth my time and investment and make sure she respects our boundaries as significant others. Thanks again.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 05:44 PM
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Agreed, I will pull back on investment and be less available to her. Thanks for your input.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:35 PM
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Jesus Christ, that sounds fucking terrible. I thought at first my girl knew physical boundaries and limits. When we went to a bar for a birthday party, she clung onto me the whole time and wouldn't let me go. If I ever caught her sitting on another guy's or dance with another guy or go drinking late at night with another guy, fuck that I'm out. I was thinking last night that it was alright if she was physically intimate with a guy friend if he's really close and is like a brother to her, but the…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:33 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I admit, when she said got pissed she said she didn't want to talk to me and wanted to leave. The only reasons she didn't were because 1) it was another shit test 2) she tells EVERYTHING about us to her friends and I didn't want to wake up to a shit storm and 3) I reassured her and talked to her about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:31 PM
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You told her not only do I love you, but "I hate the thought of us being in a state of friction / argument sooo much that I will do whatever it takes to make you feel positively towards me, because that's how much I need us." Ah fuck there it is. Thanks for your input.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:26 PM
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