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| 2 | How do I gain confidence in myself without any positive affirmations from other people?Hmmm I think I get my confidence out of a mix of things. Part is that I have high moral standards for myself. Knowing that I'm always trying my best at being a good person, making good choices, and being a good presence in other peoples lives, makes me feel valid and strong. Obv I'm not perfect but if I fuck up I try to take accountability as best as I can. It gets easier over time. Another part is that I know myself. I know my values and what I like and I know my needs. I try to prioritize thes… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/24 06:55 PM |
| 14 | This shit really effected my self esteem and I don’t know how to get back to normal againSounds like you internalized some of the stuff you read. That's going to happen when you engage with a lot of that content. Human brains unfortunately work like that - the more often we hear an idea repeated to us the more we believe it's true. I'd say there's two things you should do: 1.) Detox from that ideology! If you realize that a mindset is toxic/wrong don't listen to it over and over again. Instead engage with the ideas of people who are sane and reasonable and kind. Internalize their wo… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/06/24 06:41 PM |
| 61 | If women hate the patriarchy, why do they make conforming to it a requirement for mates?Your main mistake is that you think of women as a monolith. You seem to think that all women think the same and want the same and say the same things. As long as you stick to that belief the world will never make sense. Some women want to have "traditionally masculine" partners, some don't. Some hate the patriarchy and some don't. Some women have contradictory ideas about what the world should look like, just like some men! (Classic example for men would be saying they want a traditional marriag… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/06/24 12:02 PM |
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