| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 34 | Don't really have much to say, but.... | trashy615 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/22 05:14 AM | |
| 30 | Found a fantastic attorney and paid my retainer. Wish me luck gentlemen. | trashy615 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/22 07:20 AM | |
| 18 | Getting my ducks in a row to get out of my financially abusive marriage. | trashy615 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/22 08:07 AM | |
| 7 | T minus 2 weeks from moving out. | trashy615 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/22 09:01 AM | |
| 2 | Can I actually file without her knowing if I have no way to get some important documents? | trashy615 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/22 06:48 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Girls Night Out Forever.Fuck that 0/100 cheaters should starve. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | I filed for divorce. Wife retained an attorney. Am I dumb for not retaining?Tldr, yes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/22 09:22 PM |
| 5 | Can I buy a house in my parent's name in order to prevent it from becoming marital property?Lmfao | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | splitting of inside the home assetsShe loved cheap ass furniture because it gave her more money to gamble away. She got to keep all that ikea trash, and as soon as I was out on my own I bought what I wanted. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/22 04:35 PM |
| 6 | How I let a woman destroy my life - 41m. Young men: Do not ever get married.And then when the next woman comes along wanting marriage, and you tell them absolutely not, she will ask you; "Who radicalized you?" "You did." | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/22 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Money... costs... how do you all do itI Essentially gave her the house to sell to go away, but we didn't have kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Wanted to share a victory with you all.Goddamn | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/22 12:35 AM |
| 7 | Delusional wife...Wants that easy life of not needing a job and the freedom to see others. Fuck that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/22 11:41 AM |
| 4 | Having Second ThoughtsDon't pay for bastards. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/22 02:54 AM |
| 4 | Is it ok to track my car's location?And a DNA test on your children if you have any. Don't pay for bastards. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Best Mom Ever!Jesus fucking christ. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/22 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Mediation stage - their starting point is completely unrealistic and I know this will fail"That's unacceptable, we will reply when your terms are valid, or in a court." | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/22 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Last Alimony PaymentWait, did you remarry or her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/08/22 04:56 PM |
| 2 | How did you finance your legal fees?Fuckload of overtime | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/22 08:42 AM |
| 2 | I want to be petty and go full ballistic on social mediaLive your absolute best life, be happy, and succeed. Women hate this one simple trick. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/22 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Future proof my next marriage?Lmao, lost half your shit and didn't learn? You deserve it the second go round. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/22 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Selling vehicle shenanigansCash back at Walmarts too | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/22 07:34 AM |
| 7 | My wife wants a divorce because different views on spending, am I better off just letting her spend rather than get screwed financially by the divorce anyway?If you do not heed this man's advice you deserve everything you get op. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/22 05:21 PM |
| 2 | I need some adviceBang on. Beauty fades, but values don't typically change. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/22 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Fun Weekend Contest for Divorced MenAlmost there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | greive. take the time to greiveThis. I grieved while I got my ducks in a row to get out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Fun Weekend Contest for Divorced MenNothing. No children. No alimony. What do I win? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/22 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Financial PTSDLmao, you lost half your shit and you didn't learn your lesson? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | T minus 2 weeks from moving out.Definitely putting an air fryer on my list. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | T minus 2 weeks from moving out.Moving into an apartment that has grills, unfortunately, but it's 10 mins from my mom's house where I can use hers whenever I want. She's got a really nice grill / smoker combo. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/22 08:10 AM |
| 1 | T minus 2 weeks from moving out.Bought good Tupperware, I plan on a lot of meal prepping due to working 60+ hours a week. I own a Crock pot (love that fucker) and an instapot. I've never used that, but my sister who has 5 children swears by it, so she's going to teach me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/22 08:09 AM |
| 1 | T minus 2 weeks from moving out.I'm excited for when I get settled, situated, and actually get to buy shit I want. The first few weeks are going to be a bed and a chair in my space that's it lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | T minus 2 weeks from moving out.Not worried about the finances at all, even with a "bloated" fake budget, I can make all my bills with 1 check. I'm just worried about getting in a routine and waking up on time. My stbxw is 100% worried about finances, even though she's buying a house outright. Wonder why... | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/22 10:13 AM |
| 13 | I hate my ex-wife more every day.Therapy. Focus on being the absolute best father you can. Yoga. Weights. One day at a time, brother. Hatred and spite deteriorates good decisions made with children in mind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Ex wife wants quitclaim deed…help please!!Go ahead and co sign a brand new car for her too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 09:00 AM |
| 3 | Ex Wife is going out with female co workers, but she made it a challenge to find out. Why?Maybe it's an orgy she's attending. Not your problem brother. Focus on your children, not your ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 08:11 AM |
| 8 | Top 5 reasons your marriage failed and who initiated the divorce?Lies / deception Gambling addiction I knew nothing about due to trusting her with finances (I know, I know) Mental health I was the one that files, and too be honest everything is extremely cordial. We're still cohabitating together and it feels like being room mates with a best friend. (How the last year of our marriage felt if I'm honest, just no sex.) | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 05:01 AM |
| 68 | Ex wife wants quitclaim deed…help please!!If she forecloses on the house it shows up on your credit as well. Don't be stupid. Make her refinance or sell and wash your hands of her potential financial woes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Ex Wife is going out with female co workers, but she made it a challenge to find out. Why?Maybe she's bi curious and doesn't want that cat out of the bag yet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 03:11 AM |
| 4 | Hit with a hard dose of realityJesus, man, good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/22 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Wife wants divorce. Moved out, wants to sex’s still whenever she wants.Pppht, nope. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 05:06 AM |
| 6 | Fighting the urge to replyJust send back LOL Then block her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 4 | What should I do ?That's what it sounds like to me. Good luck brother, I don't have any advice, because I'm childless, but I'm rooting for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Where to live?-cries in Phoenix- I'm leaving a 642$ house payment for an 1800$ a month apartment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/22 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Moving outA separation so she can live like she's single while you're still on the hook for her debt? Fuck that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Banned from twat echo chamber that is /divorce.Somehow I'm still not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/22 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Found a fantastic attorney and paid my retainer. Wish me luck gentlemen.She came highly recommended under the notion she doesn't waste time, she's straight to the point, and she can be a really nasty bitch to the other party. Bingo. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/22 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Found a fantastic attorney and paid my retainer. Wish me luck gentlemen.I got that same packet. Ffs there's a lot of stuff. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | This sub gave me the energy I needed to break up with my girlfriend.With her waiting at the finish line thats a good move. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/22 04:35 AM |
| 6 | Found a fantastic attorney and paid my retainer. Wish me luck gentlemen.Calm, cool, collected, calculated. That's been my war cry for months now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/22 08:20 AM |
| 3 | That $1.6m house has her wanting to reconcileLmao, rekt. I saw that post,but decided to not respond | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/22 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Moving to another countrySell house, pay her her lump sum to get her out of your life and watch on social media her squander away the money and be reduced to pennies. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/22 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Thinking about ordering a custom T shirtT-shirt hell has you beat by like 20 years on that one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | "Divorced" but still living togetherShe's playing you like a fiddle. Make her support herself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/22 04:26 AM |
| 1 | If you get married you’re a fucking IDIOTI'm pretty sure when this is done I'm going to subscribe to the "together but apart" mindset. Long term serious monogamous relationships, but NEVER cohabitation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/22 01:31 PM |
| 5 | Don't really have much to say, but....It's always darkest before dawn. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/22 01:26 PM |
| 2 | I got a sock today and 60/40 splitYes, it's all fair in asset splitting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/22 04:32 AM |
| 17 | LostBased on this post, there will be no judgement, only support. You will be ok, you are a good father for putting your children first. You will get through this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/22 04:04 AM |
| 3 | I got banned from r/divorced because a women was moaning about paying alimony to her xThat sub is depressing at best. 90% of it is financial succubi scheming. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Stuck with alimony. I want to retire.Is there a lump sum option? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How to get my boyfriend to take better care of himself.Tell him you would appreciate if he worked out, and buy him some kettlebells asap. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Fake flowers vs real flowersWith fake flowers I prefer them to be unique. Metal or leather flowers are so cool to me. Metal flowers you can put a few drops of essential oils in them and actually get the smell for a few months. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/22 01:32 PM |
| 2 | MonogamyA mans value is not measured in height, abs, or financial prowess. I mans value is measured in his character, his desire to provide, and his standing in the community. Your BF sounds like a narcissistic boy, that's overdosed on REALALPHAMALE nonsense. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/22 02:00 AM |
| 26 | Should I try to salvage the friendship after a hookup?After 16 years of pent up sexual tension he might need time to process everything. He's probably just as confused as you are, and when men are lost, we tend to pull away, process, reflect, proceed. Late December was a while ago, so I'm not sure if it's all just processing time. He may feel guilty? Hooking up with long time friends is always a crap shoot. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/22 04:08 PM |
| 18 | MonogamyA man who refuses to be monogamous is not high value in my opinion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 13 | MonogamyYour mental health is worth more than his sex life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Devotion AKA How I Turned a Wolf into a Border CollieThank you kindly. Never had a Facebook and currently stashing money away for a lawyer. I'm willing to bet she's going to fight when he bread and butters bouncing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Should I take the lower paid job?How far away is the closer job, and what's the pay reduction? If you calculate your commuting hours into your "paid" time does it still make financial sense? 2 hours a day @ 270 work days in a year is 540 hours in a car a year. Is overtime available at the closer job? If you worked 540 hours of overtime a year instead of commuting, even @ 20$ overtime pay an hour that's 10.8k more in your pocket. You don't mention if you use public transport or if you drive, but also factor in extra gas, tires, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/22 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Devotion AKA How I Turned a Wolf into a Border CollieIf I may leave a suggestion, just because you're married doesn't mean you stop dating. Make time for each other, with kids I know that's a massive task, but try your best to show him you love him, and that he is your world. Write him notes in his lunch at work, even if it's a post-it with I ❤ U. I wrote on my interior garage door, "I'm glad you made it home, sexy" for her to see when she came home from errands, it did a lot for her. (Until she painted over it =/ ) Little stuff that makes him fee… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/22 03:57 AM |
| 8 | Devotion AKA How I Turned a Wolf into a Border CollieThis is such a great post, and if it's allowed I would like to add my anecdote from a mans perspective, that's facing divorce. (Not a well received topic on this subject, so if it's inappropriate I'm sorry.) It's definitely a 2 way street. I was devoted to my wife, 100% bought in if you would. We were teased often we had a "childless 1960s marriage" I was perfectly happy working like a dog to provide, working 60+ hours week in, week out, in a manual labor job so she could stay home and take care… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | This sub has made my relationship better!The more I learn about astrophysics the more I believe in God. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/22 11:22 AM |
| 5 | Wife’s boyfriend is marriedFuck the boyfriends wife. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/22 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Are there still men out there who want to take care of their woman financially? What type of guy is he and where do you meet him?Absolutely. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | When all bills are paid and you’re caught up post divorce… what’s the first big thing you’re going to buy?Besides paying off my truck and building a nest egg? Another custom 1911. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/22 04:36 AM |
| 9 | A positive noteHoly shit... | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/22 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Finance question on mariageHave fun with your 60k student loans after she cleans out half your 401k brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/22 08:59 PM |
| 3 | So I’m probably screwedCalm, cool, calculated, collected. Those are the 4Cs you need to live by right now. Godspeed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/22 11:08 PM |
| 2 | I need some supportYou deserve better, you are worth more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | How do I prepare for the inevitable? I have time.Do not try to hide assets, what you try to hide can cost you 10 fold in court. However funny wolverines got it nailed out. You have time, you have a lot of capital on your side, use it to your advantage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Share your gratitudeYou're a good man, and a good father. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | As a man who never wants to get married… is it true that you noticed your women changing after your honeymoon and what changes did you notice ?Bravo. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/22 05:11 AM |
| 28 | How to handle the meeting with the other guyNot your bitch, not your problem. Just be calm, cool, calculated, and collected. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Getting my ducks in a row to get out of my financially abusive marriage.I'm hoping by giving her the house I can skate out with no alimony or assets split. My 401k isn't very big, so I'm hopeful I can get put relatively unscathed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/22 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Getting my ducks in a row to get out of my financially abusive marriage.I'll start reaching out to them then. I feel like a woman in an abusive marriage where they have NOTHING to offer in payment. I make ok money, and I work like a dog (I write my own schedule) so I'll be able to pay them, if they take payment plans. My only assets are my truck I still owe money on that's worth more than I owe, my guns, my few guitars, and my silver stash. (100 ounces) | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/22 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Getting my ducks in a row to get out of my financially abusive marriage.I've actually been very calm cool and collected in the whole situation. I'm actually looking forward to getting out on my own. (I've never lived alone, went straight from mommas to her place.) I'm not looking forward to dropping the talk on her, but it's definitely for the better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/22 11:59 AM |
| 7 | Getting my ducks in a row to get out of my financially abusive marriage.There's literally nothing to hide, I'm starting from a zero balance. We've only had 1 account for 15 years and she did ALL the finances. Let's just say, I fucked up in trusting her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/22 09:21 AM |
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