traumatisedtransman Archive

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1	My(23f) partner (25m) gets angry too easily As someone who used to have severe emotional regulation issues myself due to my BPD I see some of my old behaviours in him. I remember I had a need to control my "favourite person" for a sense of personal safety. All my emotions relied on this one person so when they acted out of turn or hurt me in any way my entire world fell apart. And in my mind it was 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 responsibility to put me back together (because I thought I couldn't...) This will only get worse and escalate OP. His root cause of his…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/01/24 05:06 AM
3	I haven't refused sex in months, but he's stopped giving me pleasure in response Also hopefully you're not giving into doing rough degrading stuff you're uncomfortable with to "fulfill his every request" Forgiving and compassionate shouldn't involve sacrificing your autonomy and comfort to feed his kinks... Also it's concerning you've apparently already asked him directly to pleasure you in return before? And he still has been entirely self centred/inconsiderate towards you in bed? Maybe I misunderstood that part. But I would sure hope not.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/23 08:46 AM
4	Is my bf right to refuse to tell me who he talks about our relationship to? Going to Reddit and going to another woman are two very different things OP. I shouldn't even be here but c'mon.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/23 06:34 AM
1	having sex while moderately drunk isn't rape If the other person isnt just as drunk then it's rape. If it's intentionally getting her under the influence it's rape. If it's unenthusiastic in ANY way on a parties part. It's rape. The legal line is not the line for rape. Even if legally a woman needs to be blackout and completely unable to defend herself for it to be seen as rape that's absolutely ridiculous to base your moral stance off of. That doesn't mean a man pressuring a woman isnt rape. Or a sober man with a drunk girl isn't rape. Be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 12:49 AM
1	What is your ideal relationship dynamic/partner? Being kind sweet and a gentle soul is very important to me I need it to balance. Outside of that I appreciate a sense of humour and I really really value intelligence. I can't be with a woman who doesn't mentally and emotionally stimulate me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 01:31 AM
1	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Go read my other comments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 03:21 AM
1	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. I already did lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 03:21 AM
2	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. I will assert that submissive and supportive behavior can absolutely co-exist in a mutually beneficial/respectful/loving relationship. I want my husband to take on a lot of responsibility and I can imagine how it would be frustrating to have these expectations of him without giving him the power to do it. It's very enjoyable for me to submit to a man I respect and to receive love in return. I want to build him up and to help him achieve; I like how he carries himself, I like how it reflects on m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 11:39 PM
1	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Funny I'm getting upvoted then. Which means I must be fucking nailing it because this subreddit is overrun with incels who downvote anyone who's not blatantly sexist 😂 Incel cope of yours perhaps? And yes darlin I was saying my comment was going to be a long response because his post is long so there is more to address and call out. Is that a difficult concept for you to understand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 11:01 PM
3	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Okay I read your comment and I do want to apologise. You're right it was honestly sexist of me and wrong to just put conservative women in a submissive box. I know of course not all of them are like that and I'm sure the vast vast majority are not like that to the exaggerated degree I was describing. I was saying it like that for emphasis but that was dehumanising, I'm sorry. I do believe conservative women are just as capable intelligent and strong, I'm sure that's true. I was saying that so cr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 10:20 PM
3	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. I actually did not realise you were another commenter 😂 consider me embarassed 😔 Lemme read the fully reply and respond in a bit I'm working.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 09:33 PM
7	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. You commented practically the same thing twice without adding anything of intelligent value so I'm copying and pasting what I replied to the other one. You're tiring me. "What a brilliant observation. You made an incredibly long winded pointless post so I had a long winded comment breaking it down to call you out. What a shocker. I spent 3 hours interpreting abstract to make this point Okay it's kinda hilarious how you accidentally just admitted to your obvious biases without even realising. "Yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 09:30 PM
2	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. What a brilliant observation. You made an incredibly long winded pointless post so I had a long winded comment breaking it down to call you out. What a shocker. I spent 3 hours interpreting abstract to make this point Okay it's kinda hilarious how you accidentally just admitted to your obvious biases without even realising. "Your interpretations" if you're going to intrepret it to fit your own view. Why are you even using a study?? Jesus dude. What was wrong with the first source exactly And the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 09:28 PM
5	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. I noticed you dodged my question and didn't list what exactly the issue was with the liberal women? Like I said many times yes I made assumptions. You want to tell me your actual experiences and dispute that? Because I'm going to otherwise assume I'm 100% accurate and I just hit a nerve. Go into detail bud. Elaborate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 09:10 PM
8	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Honestly him not understanding the difference between those political idealogies wasn't really my issue in the first place that's why I only left a stray sentence in there saying that other commenters pointed it out already. I'm not about to die on that particular hill	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 07:40 PM
0	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. this is simply because of the way it is Okay that's even worse than OP giving empty sources to try and back up his claims...like atleast he's TRYING to sound smart and back them up. I can atleast give him that credit. You gonna do that? Because otherwise I can't participate in an intelligent debate with you Careful with any sources you list though if you can find them, because I will take the time to tear them apart if I detect any illegitimacy or bias. You and OP are here making the black and w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 07:20 PM
7	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. I love how you think that anyone who locks down a liberal woman is automatically a loser. I'm going to go into that claim I suppose this can go both ways no? I think you're a loser (not really cause I just can't imagine organically using that insult like wtf) but let's say I think you're a loser because you locked down a conservative woman. You lost your patience? Why do I have a feeling you lost your patience because less traditional women tolerate less bullshit from men. They tolerated less of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 06:55 PM
53	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. And also the fact that OP can't seem to tell the difference between liberal and left? Like really? You're leftist? Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 06:39 PM
13	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Exactly. The obvious bias. Like just because he's spouting a bunch of bullshit sources that don't even back up his claims in the first place doesn't make him sound smart 😂 well I guess to the incels he's a hero. Maybe inspect his sources and claims a little more Hint hint OP, correlation doesn't equal causation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 06:25 PM
13	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Guys don't believe any of the "sources" this guy is posting to attempt to make himself sound smarter. I literally opened ONE (I wanted to see if the first one I opened was bullshit and ... Suprise surprise...) after I saw the very first one I opened had nothing to do with the claim he followed up with that was apparently "backed up by the study" I didn't waste any more time on reading his empty unrelated sources, but I implore an unbiased bluepiller with time to tear apart the rest of his bullsh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 06:24 PM
20	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Guys don't believe any of the "sources" this guy is posting to attempt to make himself sound smarter. I literally opened ONE (I wanted to see if the first one I opened was bullshit and ... Suprise surprise...) after I saw the very first one I opened had nothing to do with the claim he followed up with that was apparently "backed up by the study" I didn't waste any more time on reading his empty unrelated sources, but I implore an unbiased bluepiller with time to tear apart the rest of his bullsh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 06:24 PM
1	Average women who somehow scored a very attractive man a few years earlier who left them and now they won’t lower their standards Why would I wanna listen to you lad?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 07:02 AM
2	Average women who somehow scored a very attractive man a few years earlier who left them and now they won’t lower their standards I'm not sure what you're claiming here? Are you claiming women only go for Chads like incels do? Cause I'm living proof that's very much not true	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 06:23 PM
1	Average women who somehow scored a very attractive man a few years earlier who left them and now they won’t lower their standards Actually maybe lol, I was just trying to point out women have a variety of types outside of "Chad" (though that includes "Chads" too) and many wouldn't want to bang Chris Hemsworth though I agree ofc there is an objective beauty standard, Chris does fit that, and as a result I'm sure many many more women would want to 'bang him' It's just not as concrete "women only want to fuck Chads" as some incels like to put it	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 05:45 PM
6	Average women who somehow scored a very attractive man a few years earlier who left them and now they won’t lower their standards Dude really? How did you entirely miss my point? Yes there are hundreds of thousands of girls who would bang Chris just as there are hundreds of thousands who would bang Loki. Because there are variety of types out there and there is a difference between objective attractiveness and subjective attraction. I can't keep repeating this to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 05:41 PM
3	Average women who somehow scored a very attractive man a few years earlier who left them and now they won’t lower their standards Okay but there's a difference between an objective beauty standard and subjective attraction. My gf can acknowledge that Chris Hemsworth is the objective beauty standard and is physically attractive but she is very much not physically attracted to him. In fact pretty much none of the girls I dated preffered Chris Hemsworths Thor over his brother Loki who is clearly less objectively attractive. Why? Because subjective attraction. They like Loki's personality and that effects how they are attracte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 05:35 PM
1	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Slow clap. I'm impressed by how original your insulting is. That was the first time ever I've ever been called a "woman" just because I had a different opinion than someone else. Truly remarkable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 05:27 PM
1	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” https://www.thecable.ng/fact-check-can-swallowing-semen-relieve-stress-alleviate-psychological-issues/amp Sure bud...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 01:49 AM
1	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” I'm sorry but you just gave me a source on Albany, you just made me chuckle 😂 How dare your source be from Albany NY you're completely discredited. (See how dumb u sound?) Also nice try putting words in my mouth mate, 😉 I never said being lesbian will cause a girl to be happy did I love? What did I say do you remember? Really think hard I believe in you. You don't need to put words in my mouth as some desperate strawman cause you're losing Also nice job not addressing the obvious logical fallaci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 01:45 AM
1	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” Yep lesbian relationships are happier: https://bmcwomenshealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12905-014-0154-1 And it's bold of you to ask for a source for that sorry excuse of a source you provided. The other comments pointed out the blatantly obvious that that study discounts a ton of contributing factors. Correlation does not equal causation king 👑	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 01:18 AM
1	Study: “Women who are regular exposed to semen are less depressed” Don't get too excited. Single unmarried childless women are the happiest demographic of women. But let's say a woman doesn't want to be alone, Lesbian couples still reported higher relationship satisfaction than heterosexual couples. Seems like women are happiest away from men according to the real stats 😂 But sure let's assume "semen" is what's gonna cure all women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 01:12 AM
4	Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is given I would love a source for an absolute definitive statement like that 🙂 because until a source is provided that's just another bullshit incel claim with nothing to back it up in my eyes. Yes many older women have some money criteria, I agree. Once again how many times do I have to say this...it's okay to have criteria and standards. No one said otherwise. I never said judge a person based solely on their individuality...I said judge them as an individual. See them as a person. Try and not come at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 05:40 AM
7	Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is given I'm starting this by saying you edited it to not say blindly. I remember explicitly reading blindly that's why I put it in all caps but nice try... I'm calling bullshit on your incel claim that most women have a rule to not date broke men, as a very broke man that's so very much not true. Maybe for older women? But that's because at that point in your life you don't have time to fuck around with someone who isn't financially stable and put together, can you really blame them? Yes women have crit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 05:26 AM
13	Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is given You're very right some of the things I directed towards OP was more towards the (sexist) redpillers in general not OP himself. I don't want to bother editing my comment to reword all that to clarify it was meant more for redpillers in general not OP but I agree that was bad wording on my part...I didn't mean to refer to him individually Also I appreciate you giving me insight on the redpill mindset too. It's not fair me to say they all think black and white that's generalising and not judging on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 05:00 AM
5	Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is given Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 04:55 AM
7	Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is given I do judge every person I meet as an individual and that is the healthy thing to do. I never said my past experiences don't influence my decision making (nice try putting words in my mouth 😉), but ultimately I judge people on an individual basis. Im sorry you don't think that's "economical" lol but I think you need to look inward to your own biases and prejudices then. Healthy normal functioning people do tend to grant trust until their trust is broken. That's not a bluepiller thing though lmao.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 04:55 AM
32	Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is given I would also say a bluepiller for me it's just all not black and white. And I feel for a lot of redpillers it's so black and white for them. I don't just blindly trust a woman who is friends with her ex. I look at the situation, I look at their relationship, I would look at her as a person and then I would decide if I trusted her. I think a lot of redpillers are misogynistic and inherently distrust and even hate women and of course as a result will view them negatively. But as a bluepiller OP is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 04:20 AM
1	I think you are all too angry and this anger makes you misrepresent what the other person is saying Dude I stg everything you type makes me think I wrote it I cannot agree more. I think the best most important thing for me to improve as a human being was looks sure for confidence but above all self improvement on myself as a person. Going to therapy and working on my mental illnesses was so important. Nothing can beat a healthy mindset. I've always been charismatic and could fake confidence perfectly so yes I would agree as well 100% that confidence is so so important with women. I always tell…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 03:46 AM
5	I think you are all too angry and this anger makes you misrepresent what the other person is saying Yes exactly! See I was a short indian chubby boy with not even a small dick I literally had no penis (while always looking male my entire life so no obvious lesbian excuse for me) instead of victimising myself and throwing in the towel I've decided, especially this past year, to just make do with what I got. I mean I was never an incel I never struggled with women but I definitely felt not masculine and unattractive in general. so I worked on what I could.. I started working out, losing weight a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 03:11 AM
3	"Behind every great man a woman" should be the proof that "women are wonderful" effect exist You sound confused. Literally yes all of the above men in general throughout civilisation have restricted women and their rights and abilities. They didn't take their intellect seriously and didn't like them in positions of power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 12:08 AM
7	"Behind every great man a woman" should be the proof that "women are wonderful" effect exist Seriously what is the point in debating op. They are barely legible and going around in loops of logical fallacies 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 11:56 PM
3	"Behind every great man a woman" should be the proof that "women are wonderful" effect exist Women in the past didn't have money or intellectual potentional? Really? Or did men refuse to see women's intellectual potential because of their blatant misogyny and refuse to let women collect money or power because they wanted to keep their dominance? Let's word this a little better shall we OP? Because its not that women couldn't offer those things it's that men refused to allow them to. They had to use their bodies and sex as their means of value because that's all men would value them for.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 11:55 PM
0	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Ok incel :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 09:55 PM
1	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Keep coping bud	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 12:36 PM
2	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Idk wtf 196 is I'm sorry I triggered you though mate	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 12:55 AM
1	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Yes you're definitely not coping by trying to accuse me, a man with a long term relationship...that I'm a femcel....😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 05:58 PM
1	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? That didn't even make sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 11:06 AM
1	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Keep coping 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 11:01 AM
1	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Purplepill debate is overrun with incels not femcels	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 10:39 AM
3	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 01:48 AM
0	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? Got a little hurt did we? Fragile masculinity got threatened? And I'm just as likely to call out a woman as I would a man. An asshole is an asshole	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 01:35 AM
16	Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex? As a straight man I'm calling bullshit. Purplepill debate is just completely overrun by incels 😂 almost everyone on this subreddit is incredibly biased and sexist towards women. Try and defend women or be any sort of rational or point out hypocrisy in sexist logic here and you'll get downvoted into oblivion. It's almost all directed towards women specifically and sexuality doesn't explain away anything...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:08 PM
1	Is confidence really tied to dick size? I'm not following you into your little side argument. You don't get to put words in my mouth and then try and force me to argue the words you put into my mouth... this is embarrassing mate I never even made that point Go read my comment history and tell me where I said the thing you're trying to force me to try and prove to you I caught you in your own logical fallacy and sexism/hypocrisy and you just can't handle that can ya bud? That's okay. Good day hope you work on yourself and do some self …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:55 AM
1	Is confidence really tied to dick size? Go read the edit on my last reply 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:50 AM
-1	Is confidence really tied to dick size? No I'm afraid you misunderstood luv let me break it down for you more simply, when I asked you "so just to be clear that logic applies towards men too right?" I was referring to this part of your original comment I just never listen to what a woman says and just look at her actions You said this following: This kinda shows the female lies. "its not the size of the warrior its the way you use it" is what women say but how do they complement or shame a man? small penis is bad and big penis is good…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:45 AM
-2	Is confidence really tied to dick size? I never said that. I said men are constantly hypocritical as well towards women. And they constantly bodyshame them too. I'm not going to give evidence for that just use your noggin	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:34 AM
0	Is confidence really tied to dick size? So just to clarify this logic then also applies to men correct?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:29 AM
-5	Is confidence really tied to dick size? Yes because men are definitely never hypocrital and bodyshaming towards women 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:21 AM
11	Daily Community Chat Megathread I guess cause im not a piece of shit I wouldn't actually look back fondly at the memory of cheating on the woman I love/loved idk tho. Where some people feel pride some feel guilt? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 10:28 AM
5	Do you prefer 50/50 or submission? What	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 04:34 AM
8	Do you prefer 50/50 or submission? I said challenge not abuse... More like she will challenge my viewpoints and debate me and expand my mindset. I appreciate that in my partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 04:08 AM
1	What is your opinion on "Don't Ask a fish how to fish?" Idk it's funny because I've never struggled with women and I would consider myself a very successful "fisherman" and all of my advice that has helped many men before in the past has been based on the experiences of the women around me..	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 01:03 AM
26	Do you prefer 50/50 or submission? I don't want a submissive woman or some servant I want an equal and compatible partner. My favourite thing about my partner is her ability to challenge me	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 08:09 PM
-2	Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a man Yes exactly. God these incels are so creepy and wonder why it doesn't work for them. You can respect women and be confident/charismatic...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 09:24 PM
5	How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts? I wear lifts that make me go from around 5'5 to almost 6 foot (GuidoMaggi shoes super expensive but damn they are discreet and make you tall) I've NEVER had any girl take an issue with me wearing lifts in my day to day. In fact the only time I've gotten push back from them is from other insecure men...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 10:29 PM
2	Men Who Consider Sex a "Reward" Seem to Forget Women Should Also Be Enjoying It Fuck yes I've been saying this for years..	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 11:29 PM
2	The bluepilled meme that "communication solves everything" is just a lazy catch-all phrase Here let me lay it out for you... "communicate properly" all of the things you listed are unhealthy methods of communication. Seek therapy and learn communication skills it will help you not just get a relationship but maintain it	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 08:50 PM
2	Follow-up: Men are indeed hotter when using makeup. Fuck yes! I've recently (in the past year or so) commited to my skincare physical health and just general appearance. That includes wearing contacts to enhance my eyes, filling in my beard if it's patchy with a touch of smudge proof eye shadow (doing this after I already did the Minoxidil serum for 6 months to grow a full beard) doing microneedling on my skin to fix it awhile back, and a touch of subtle eyeliner/shadow to make my eyes more "hunter" like. A couple times I've lightened the bags un…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 04:39 AM
1	Question for All. What would you do if you we're an ideally attractive male? would u sleep around? who would u date? would u date at all etc. Well that's the goal im working towards every single day. Making myself as hot as physically possible (height one day included 😩) and working towards my MBA to take over my dad's international company. And my plans are the same as they would be if I end up ugly as fuck and poor as dirt. Im going to marry the woman of my dreams, buy a beautiful cabin/cottage somewhere remote and in nature and get lots of animals settle down and have a family when I'm around 35. Up until then travel the world and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 06:06 AM
1	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? Fair enough, I can respect that	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 04:39 AM
2	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? Are you really planning on marrying primarily basing the value on physical appearance? Wdym type?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 04:18 AM
1	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? How did you know he wasn't as attracted to you when you gained weight? That matters a lot to me. You said you didn't mind his chubby phase and were still thirsty for him but during your own chubby phase he wasn't as physically attracted to you... How did you know that? Did he verbalise that to you? Did he withdraw physical affection because you gained weight? I'm sorry but if my partner gained weight and for some fucked up reason that devalued my physical attraction to her (I guess in this unive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 03:14 AM
2	Women do like nice guys. Only when they provide or have status though. Nice is an expectation. You are expected to be nice and kind and respectful to the people you intend to date. That's a baseline requirement. I'm sorry but if that's ALL your offering OF COURSE you're going to struggle with women. Being nice isn't enough to make anyone interested in you that sounds boring and unfulfilling as fuck. What are you offering to her for stimulation outside of being "nice"?? Other than being "nice" have hobbies, have interests, learn to make decent conversation and learn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 12:46 AM
5	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? I feel like everyone has a type. Some people types are curvy people some people's types are petite people some tall some short some in-between. Obviously yes there is an objective beauty standard I'm not denying that. And overweight people wether they be male or female don't tend to fit into that. But that doesn't mean no one wants a short man or a chubby girl. Also even if your type IS thin, that doesn't mean most people exclusively date people they are instantly attracted to right off the bat.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 11:37 PM
3	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? I ain't insinuating shit. I said nobody cares about them and that includes other men. "Jesus ya lot are dense. Its obvious guys want to feel desired, not their fault most men aren't attractive to women unless they're in some top % smh" "𝗪𝗢𝗠𝗘𝗡"	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 10:52 PM
2	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? But not men? Only overweight women are ugly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 10:49 PM
-1	Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationship Nah you're failing to include that a lot of men in this sub feel ENTITLED to women and their bodies and time.They are resentful and misogynistic to women because they expect them to fix their loneliness. It's hard to feel bad and empathise with people who direspect your very existence...	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 10:48 PM
2	Is travel compatibility a big thing for couples? I travel a lot, and the business I'm going into will require me to travel a lot for the rest of my life all over the world. I bring my FP along with everything nowadays on every roadtrip I can fit in because I know I may not be able to accommodate her later when it's international. Also in general I just love her company I mean the roadtrips would feel so empty and bleak and lonely without her. I'm there to go make beautiful memories with her to keep for the rest of my life	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 09:59 PM
5	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? Oh I'm not denying the lonely guys there are many many lonely people out there. That's not really the argument you're shifting the goal post. I was asking for a source on the statement that women are only attracted to the top % of men. See with that statement you're insinuating that women's standards are too high and blaming them for the problem. Which is why I was pushing you to take some personal responsibility for your results instead of blaming an entire gender....	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 09:51 PM
-2	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? Why can't you be with an overweight person? Are you involved in fitness?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 09:49 PM
8	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? I'm sorry but can you back up at all that only the top % of men are attractive to women? Cause the vast majority of men I see are in a relationship so CLEARLY the majority of men are able to find a woman who finds them attractive. Maybe the problem isn't women having too high of standards or even all men being shitty. Maybe it's you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 09:00 PM
1	Unpopular opinion - A relationship lasts longer when the girl is more obsessed with the guy than the other way round (which is the popular opinion) I think they both need to be obsessed with each other. I admit going into my current relationship I felt so much more safe because I knew my partner was much more obsessed and in love with me than I was with her (at first) but if my feelings hadn't grown for her and reciprocated I would have grown bored with her and left her for someone more stomulating like I did the 4 girls right before her... Though I agree our relationship definitely feels more rock solid because she's so into me and I subje…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 11:42 PM