travel_by_wire Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Our emotions matter I realized it was a waste of time because we can't even agree on terms. You use the term "class warfare" as a way of avoiding the word patriarchy. As long as you can call it class warfare, (a term that no one else uses to refer to these topics), you feel that you have successfully disputed the existence of patriarchy, a term that I reminded you was inspired by an actual system of rule by fathers in ancient Rome. I can never prove patriarchy to you because anything that other people would define …	/r/MensRights	02/09/20 09:04 AM
0	Our emotions matter I'm sorry, but I don't think that your points (A and B) are very compelling. Right off the bat, you are imprecise with your terms. Your definition of patriarchy is wrong. You say that feminists think men and women are engaging in "class warfare". I don't think it's helpful to conflate the concepts of sexism and classism. That may seem pedantic, but it's hard to have a discussion when the terms aren't well defined. However, if you've found prominent feminists who claim that sexism is class warfar…	/r/MensRights	02/09/20 07:25 AM
-2	Our emotions matter Neither is true. Mothers control parenting. I would argue that mothers do not control parenting. Rather, they are expected to act as the primary caregiver, and most women take on that role unquestioningly. One of the main arguments I see in Men’s Rights spaces- that women are given more parental rights in divorce, would seem to stem directly from the societal view of women as primary caregivers to children. However, even that fact, that women are favored in divorce court, seems to be up for some…	/r/MensRights	02/09/20 04:07 AM
-3	Our emotions matter I live in the US; so I will answer from that perspective. I believe we do still live in a patriarchal society. This is evidenced by the fact that the vast majority of our government leadership is male, most people still identify as members of Abrahamic religions which are patriarchal in nature, and we still believe in strictly defined gender norms that usually code stereotypical male traits as superior. For example, men are coded as rational, stoic, dominant, plain-spoken, and brave. We see thes…	/r/MensRights	02/09/20 01:24 AM
-1	Women are called strong when they talk about experiences but guys are called pussies Women get raised with the same ideas about masculinity that men do. Most women are not feminists; they believe what they were raised to believe, which is that women are emotional and men are calm and stoic. This is a societal issue that both men and women are struggling with. Try r/MensLib if you want a male environment that respects both men and women.	/r/MensRights	01/09/20 10:40 PM
0	We love you, Will. Stay strong, and fresh. r/feminism is a subreddit that has a moderator team with a particular style. It doesn't represent the entire feminist movement. I'm a sex positive feminist and I was banned from that sub for comments I made in support of sex workers. However, I know that in the real world there are plenty of feminists on both sides of the debate on sex work and pornography. Try to keep an open mind.	/r/MensRights	01/09/20 10:26 PM
-7	Our emotions matter I'm about to get down voted into the void, but I see this from an angle that might be something for you to think about. A possible reason that this woman thinks this way is that she has internalized the norms of patriarchy. She was raised in the same system as the rest of us, and she was taught that the purest expression of masculinity is dominance, rationality, and self-control. Of course, in this framework there are a limited range of acceptable male emotions. Anger is acceptable, for instance…	/r/MensRights	01/09/20 10:17 PM
1	I wouldn't want a woman with a high body count Hmmmm, so you would be comfortable if you got rejected by the girl of your dreams for that reason? Anyway, you originally asked if your concern about body count was a remnant of being in the redpill/incel world, and I still think it may be. You said that when you were a virgin, you wanted a virgin, and now that you're not a virgin, you have a ceiling of around ten partners before you would reject another person or at least, view them as someone you could not have a connection with. I'm guessing …	/r/ExRedPill	16/07/20 05:43 AM
1	I wouldn't want a woman with a high body count Hypothetically, what would you say to a person who told you that your body count is already too high, and that you can't possibly be intimate with a person anymore because sex is only for after marriage, and if you do it with more than one person you are desecrating that deeply personal bond? Would you find them reasonable?	/r/ExRedPill	16/07/20 05:11 AM
1	I wouldn't want a woman with a high body count No offense meant in any way here, but is English a second language to you? Your reply makes me think you didn't read or possibly didn't understand what I wrote.	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/20 09:29 PM
2	I wouldn't want a woman with a high body count That's really young to be married. Why do you want that? I'm speaking as a person who was married at 23 by the way, and I would never recommend getting married that young to anyone else. Also, if you happen to hit thirty and are single, I bet you'll change your mind about wanting to die. Just a hunch.	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/20 09:15 AM
1	I wouldn't want a woman with a high body count The phrase "well after you do something with more than 10 people is not really a intimate or personal experience" isn't an evidence based thought and to me indicates that you still are holding on to some of the redpill stuff. I'm guessing you're kind of young and haven't had many partners, but there is no more exciting and wonderful time in a relationship than the first days or weeks. This is very normal for most people. It doesn't matter if someone has more than 10 partners, they can still get …	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/20 09:13 AM
1	Red pill guys criticizing women for doing hookups You think women as a whole won't accept their mistakes or work on relationships because you had two bad relationships? Have you ever asked a woman if she ever "got burned" in a relationship that she tried to work on? Newsflash, women get burned all the time, and getting burned twice is nothing for most people. Sorry, but even if you think you don't hate women, you look at them as inherently less moral or well intentioned than you. You look down on them. So, it's six of one; half dozen of the oth…	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/20 08:45 AM