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| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Bumble is completely intolerable and attracts emotional vampires for women. Premise: Women's choice/avoid creeps! Actuality: Make women do all the work so "men" become even lazier and more entitled/selfish/self-absorbed than they already are. "Hey boys! Sit right there while room service comes your way every time of day, any way you like, everything you want, whatever you want!" Just terrible and gives women false hope and bad faith. Nowadays no man even responds to you. It's totally dead and fu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020No. Absolutely no response. First of all you don't need to explain a damn thing. A gift at work is major boundary-busting/insecure loser creep mate-guarding stuff. The 'gift' (aka sh*t brick) still implies you are the messed up, deficient one so he can get off scotfree. Still a shameless, remorseless, ignorant POS trying to validate himself and shame/blame/devalue you. Do not say anything back. Block emails to junk. Do not check junk mail. Junk is junk. You have more work to do on your healing. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Baggage Reclaim (web/blog/podcast) Healing from Hidden Abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020I think she has the potential to find her man and is getting closer and closer, given her circular awareness of the situation. At this point tbh neither of those guys are cutting it so that's why I'm more interested in seeing her refine her technique, which in this case is a combo of updating her social style for more confidence/playfulness/flirting as well as emotional resilience to repel low-cost, low-effort men and not even flinch or second-guess. I'm not a fan of the drink date, least of all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020You're right. You don't need to say it but find ways to show it and it seems that you did. He sounds like a verbal guy who needs words of affirmation. Regardless, you did nothing wrong. I maintain my previous comment that you should not do anything at all. Don't reach out, don't block either. Basically, do nothing. After a week, if nothing happens from his end, then delete his texts and number. If you were his #1, a man would not leave you wondering though which is why he's just a low-end maybe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 05:42 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Prospect 1 is a low-end maybe BUT you should not do anything AT ALL and see what happens. I'm more interested in seeing what happens if you were to explore finding more confidence and comfort within yourself to be more relaxed and open on dates so as not to leave men guessing as to your level of interest. It sounded like you got sent into an internal loop of doubt given that he was late. When a man is late and isn't effusive and sincere with his apologies about it, I would not be too impressed a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 06:01 AM |
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