| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Wife took off with my kid in the Dominican republic. | travelingjackwild | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 10:13 PM |
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| 3 | Guys Who've Been Through Divorce: What Was the HARDEST Part to Get Used To?Having no one to talk with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/25 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Five Years of Nonstop Custody Battles Drained My LifeYeah, too many think it is one side or the other. Sorry you had to go through that, it's a shitty club to join | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Five Years of Nonstop Custody Battles Drained My LifeI'll second that. Reconnecting with my religion helped/is helping me survive | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Five Years of Nonstop Custody Battles Drained My LifeI kept moving until I learned more, Eastern Europe is a great place for figuring this stuff out. I would suggest Albania. You can easily get a 1 year visa as an American. For work, I teach English (it's not hard and if you want I can invite you to some classes to show you how) For a person living abroad there are a million things you can do. I have literally had a job where I was supposed to sit at a table near the window. I've never been back so I don't know about problems. I keep my banking fa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/25 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Five Years of Nonstop Custody Battles Drained My LifeIf you need any help or advice about living abroad, PM me | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/25 11:46 AM |
| 4 | Five Years of Nonstop Custody Battles Drained My LifeAfter 3 years of not seeing my kids for one cockamamie reason or another, the court never cared about that.... just if I paid. I left the US. I haven't been back since 2012. Next year my oldest turns 18. I already have the plane ticket for him to come join me :D | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/25 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Regretting leavingsorry about the strong response.... I screwed it up in my own divorce and see you headed for disaster..... haven't seen my kids in 12 years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/25 07:22 AM |
| 5 | Regretting leavingGo home! Get a lawyer! Get photos and document everything! If she does have another dude try to get evidence. KEEP YOUR TEMPER! If you get mad and act stupid you will burn yourself to the ground. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/25 07:21 AM |
| 11 | How can anyone celebrate only seeing or raising their kids 50% of the time?I haven't seen my oldest kids in 12 years. "it's a civil matter" I would love to get 5% | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/25 07:15 AM |
| 7 | Financial shockWelcome to the life of a divorced man.. You can cry or you can laugh.... Sucks dunnit? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Trying to work on myselfDo something about custody -right now- I didn't and I regretted it immensely . Get some legal advice on how to keep her from leaving the state with your kids while you are still married. Some people her should be able to advise you, or get a lawyer if you have the money. If you wait, you WILL get the shitty end of the stick. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Number 2 up in flamesIf you use telegram look for @ meatpuppett Also, for getting laid... Eastern Europe, I would say Ukraine specifically but right now that takes a high tolerance for risk. (lviv, muchachevo, uzhgorod are safe-ish, but don't go east of say... Khelministsky (fuck me if I can spell that) | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Number 2 up in flamesI've been living abroad for the last fifteen years. I've lived in 20 or so countries and visited more than 50. for Europe, try Albania (Sarande is a gem, but Vlore is also nice), also Turkiye is absolutely amazing. Istanbul is a completely unique city. Bodrum, Marmaris, Antaliya (Everyone speaks Russian there) Dominican Republic is dr. jekyll and MR. hyde. You can do the rich tourist thing in Punta Cana or live the simple life in Las Terrenas (get a starlink if you do rural DR) South America is … | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Moral dilemma in divorce - what would you doLet me second this advice. ^ Your kids know your wife, in some ways better than you. Likewise teenagers are natural skeptics, don't make a lot of statements when you talk to them, ask questions (even if rhetorical ones) Finally, kindness is always a good thing. You can divorce her, but also not just abandon her, if she allows that. Even if she doesn't, your kids will see. I teach high school kids. This isn't as rare as you might think. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 09:52 PM |
| 8 | Wife took off with my kid in the Dominican republic.Just an update for those who helped. I followed your advice and contacted: the state department, the Domincian central authority, the local police, the police in her hometown and the police in my home town. I kept all the reports and sent a copy to her mother. My son is here now. Thank you all, from the bottom of my heart. God bless you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Wife took off with my kid in the Dominican republic.If you ever have this come up again the central authority here is easy to contact https://conani.gob.do/todos-los-servicios/sustraccion-o-retencion-ilicita-de-menores-de-edad/ | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Wife took off with my kid in the Dominican republic.Las Terrenas. Yeah, it's pretty obvious now that she was preparing her exit.... Sorry about the OP, I haven't really been sleeping. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Wife took off with my kid in the Dominican republic.Thanks! I have just done so. The child is eligible for dual nationality, but there isn't a Ukrainian Embassy in this country. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 03:15 AM |
| -1 | Wife took off with my kid in the Dominican republic.Do you have some useful advice? We live here | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 02:56 AM |
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