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traybro/r/seduction16/04/19 10:00 PM
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By masculine you mean personality traits associated with masculinity or physical ones?
/r/BlackPillScience23/11/23 06:11 PM
36

Tbh that’s douchy and at that point he definitely deserves getting his ass beat
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:00 PM
29

Dark triad traits are very good for getting women whether we like it or not. And this isn’t just a nice guy rant, I think it’s a very observable reality
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:14 PM
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Go to a club slouching and avoiding eye contact all night long and tell me how much pussy you get
/r/seduction17/10/22 08:09 PM
7

I wouldn’t call a bit of self awareness neediness. If you’re doing something that’s repeatedly classifying you as a creepy, why would you want to keep doing it? Non neediness is a good piece of advice, but like every piece of advice it needs nuance and not being taken too literally.
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:21 AM
1

Telling you she has a boyfriend isn’t just a little resistance, 99% of the time it’s a rejection. Even if it’s worked for you sometimes, it’s not good advice in general to waste your time on girls that aren’t down. Otherwise you’ll look like Todd V on that cringy set
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:53 PM
1

“Investigate it by asking the BF’s name” or you can just get the hint that she’s not into you lol. No girl that’s into you is gonna make it this hard to get her
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:47 PM
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I mean if he overdoes it yea, but the basics like not slouching and learning good eye contact are easy to learn and necessary
/r/seduction02/10/22 01:51 AM
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Frankly using the word alpha is kind of corny, up there with calling yourself a pua. But… good confident body language is important, and that’s probably what he means
/r/seduction02/10/22 01:44 AM
7

Yea but it has to feel truly spontaneous, not “this guy was spam cold approaching every girl on campus” spontaneous. Which is the problem with cold approaching, depending on the setting it can give off the vibe that you’re just there to cold approach women and play the numbers game. But if it can come off as truly spontaneous like it was in this case, your success rate shoots up by a lot.
/r/seduction30/09/22 11:17 PM
6

Oh boy… this is not the sub to cry about your political beliefs lmao. Theres many subs for that
/r/seduction25/09/22 04:48 PM
2

Lmao i feel like you’ve never been with a chick. Consent is important, but it doesn’t always have to be this verbal and formal, if you feel like it does you just don’t have a connection with the chick.
/r/seduction22/09/22 09:38 PM
1

Having the social calibration to know when something is appropriate or not is much better game in terms of confidence. Asking for permission for every little thing during a date sounds like the most unconfident thing to do.
/r/seduction22/09/22 03:00 PM
2

This turned into a weird unrelated rant lmfao. Even if you think its creepy, it worked for him, so whats the point of your rant?
/r/seduction18/09/22 09:59 PM
5

Big difference between meeting casually in a social gathering and chasing after a stranger in the streets like a pua on YouTube
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:04 PM
1

You think the girl you end up with is saving her virginity for you? Even among religious girls that’s becoming more rare, so what’s the point of saving yourself for her?
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:40 PM
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Lol i knew you were talking about totti. Lol yea if that man got cheated on what the hell can we expect
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:25 PM
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Did she cheat on you too or what happened?
/r/seduction10/09/22 04:15 PM
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Yup, there’s no reason to take this as misogynistic because guys can also lose their pair bonding ability, and of course are just as susceptible to stds as they go up in body count. It goes both ways.
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:14 PM
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This is wishful thinking, most guys do have a cut off point as far as their partners body count, because at some point they do lose their ability to pair bond and insecurities about potential stds arise.
/r/seduction03/09/22 05:37 PM
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Did you even read what she said? None of this sounded like bs women advice. There’s a lot of bad advice from women out there, but the same goes for dudes, especially on this subreddit lol.
/r/seduction25/08/22 10:28 PM
1

This sounds like chick advice that never works lmao
/r/seduction25/08/22 07:44 PM
1

Shit I missed the part where you said bar hopping
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:14 PM
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Were these all in the same bar? People probably noticed you spam approaching at some point lol
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:32 PM
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Well duh, anyone that denies the importance of looks is either a dating coach selling his snake oil or coping. If the end goal of flirting is sex, and sex is a very physical act, what makes anyone think women wouldn’t take looks into account? Like you said, game can be the difference between you closing a girl that’s into you or not, but it’s not some magic pill that’s gonna turn a hard no into a yes.
/r/seduction18/08/22 04:41 PM
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Who self identifies as a pua lmao, but yea it’s silly to call that a cold approach.
/r/seduction18/08/22 02:15 PM
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You’re not as good at reading girls as you think if you can’t even decipher the most textbook rejection of all lol
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:43 PM
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Sexual preferences are to a high degree animalistic. I get your point on alpha/beta being too black and white terms, but denying the role of animalistic instincts on sexual selection is silly. Sorry if it doesn’t conform to whatever predefined modern gender ideology you hold.
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:23 PM
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Yea especially for people with an already low confidence with women, which is probably most of this sub
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:09 PM
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Idk why people here are obsessed with high volume game like this, to me it sounds like more work actually, for less output.
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:22 PM
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I think there is such thing as an approach that’s too direct to the point of desperation, like if you ask for her number with literally zero small talk to build a little comfort. But that same direct approach, with a little small talk to feel each other’s vibe, will look much less desperate and more confident. Showing your intentions in of itself is bold. I will say tho, some cold approaches like the ones you see on YouTube, where you have the guy literally running on a public street to catch th…
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:31 PM
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Yea this sounds too much like a male fantasy post lol
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:48 AM
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I mean I guess this could be tangentially related to seduction but…
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:58 PM
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I don’t think the eye rolls were out of admiration lol
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:36 AM
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It was no less cringy back then
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:07 AM
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Who self identifies as a PUA lol
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:25 PM
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Can we stop with this “looks don’t matter” bs? Confidence matters, but so do looks. Sex is a very physical act, why would you think looks play only a minimal role in sexual selection? I’m no black pill loser that thinks you have to be a giga Chad to get women, and I’m all for improving your dating life, but this is just misleading advice that helps no one, sometimes you will be rejected because of your looks, and it’s better to know that than to always be questioning what you did wrong with your…
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:11 PM
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I could see how this would work, girls do lower their guard with gay guys, but that just sounds like trying to hard for pussy lmfao
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:59 PM
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Honestly I just don’t think cold approaching (as in daygame) is the most optimal way of getting women, especially for beginners who might already have a low self esteem.
/r/seduction04/08/22 07:05 PM
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I mean, at least this is actionable advice, but no thanks, I meet enough women thru my social circle, I have no need of chasing strangers in the streets all day.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:32 AM
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Where did I say any of what you said. Your weird flex has nothing to do with my point
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:27 AM
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Nah man, taking on a step daddy role is a huge responsibility, one that we’re kind of wired to not want to take because we’re not wired to care for children that are not our bloodline. Doesn’t make you close minded at all, just as reasonable as any other preference.
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:30 AM
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Nothing wrong with not wanting to take on such a big responsibility, and nothing wrong with just being interested in something casual. What exactly is your dilemma?
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:47 PM
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Glad people aren’t just mindlessly accepting substance less advice. You might as well say “to be good with women, you just need to have women”. Well no shit
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:57 PM
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Gosh I hate this abundance mindset cope. You might as well say “wanna be good with women? Just have a lot of women!” No substance advice that brings you back to square 1.
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:56 PM
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It’s not just on you, yea you can do everything right in your part, no need to regurgitate self improvement talking points, but it’s also gonna depend a lot on the girl (whether you’re her type) and the context of the situation (the context usually being a complete random stranger hitting on her, that alone puts the odds against you). Will you overcome these odds in some cases because it’s a numbers game? Sure. Is it more organic than meeting thru social circles and hobbies? No.
/r/seduction31/07/22 09:07 PM
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I agree that in person meeting is the most natural and organic, i wasn’t making an argument for online dating (which has a low success rate if you’re not very attractive like in cold approaching). All the things you mentioned are true, except for cold approaching, hitting on a random stranger is never going to be as organic as meeting thru your social circle and everyday life, you don’t have the social proof and other factors in your favor. Look at the average success rate of cold approaching fo…
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:06 PM
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Yea I don’t think your doing anything wrong, people will say you should me more indirect or more direct, more this or that but at the end that’s the nature of cold approaching, it’s a terribly low success rate strategy because it’s not the most natural form of meeting women.
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:48 AM
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How does your typical interaction look? Opener, conversation topics, etc?
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:38 AM
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Lol cmon dude hate to be harsh but you kind of deserve this
/r/seduction29/07/22 11:14 PM
1

What in the world this is even creepier lol.
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:33 PM
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Yea simple as that… doesn’t have to sound like a formal business request lol
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:35 PM
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Thats… cute. Just not representative of most cases.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:41 PM
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Ive done it before, and it feels so awkward and unsexy, kills the anticipation and mystery. Consent in general is important, but it doesn’t have to always be verbalized, it can also be given through body language and the overall vibe.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:55 PM
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Because it’s ugly girls that tend to be the most aggressive lol. Rarely will a hot or even decent chick open you, girls kind of have to be desperate to be willing to make the first move.
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:13 PM
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“Are you catching feelings” what do you think
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:59 PM
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Guys hate women advice cuz it’s usually too too dishonest and “feel good”, but when a women finally comes out and says something honest like this guys get butthurt? Lol.
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:55 PM
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If it’s a cold approach, somewhere where she’s not there to socialize, you’re not gonna have that time, you better get to the point. What you said applies to social settings, not your typical daygame cold approach.
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:22 AM
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Cold approaches are almost always by definition direct though. Even if you manage to find an indirect open, at some point you’re gonna make it direct, otherwise she’s gonna wonder why this stranger is talking to her still.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:48 AM
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Im curious lol what religion allows smoking weed?
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:02 AM
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Im not using lame pua gimmicks from some book in the 2000s lol
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:18 PM
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You’re a loser
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:45 AM
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Except one is based on objective reality and the other and the other on gimmicks that were never that good to begin with
/r/seduction27/06/22 06:29 PM
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Who the fuck still references the mystery method lol. It’d not 2000 anymore
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:57 PM
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Yea admittedly there’s also this side of the coin. I think the obvious solution is a middle ground between not giving it up on the first date but also not expecting him to talk to you 6 months with no action.
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:31 PM
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Why didn’t you ask him straight up if he wanted to smash
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:50 AM
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Yea you’re trying way too hard for pussy if you’re talking like this lol
/r/seduction20/06/22 08:29 PM
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It’s called an open relationship, I just don’t know if you’ll like the other half of what that relationship entails (her being free to sleep with other men).
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:02 PM
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“Hey i thought you were cute… what’s your name…” I’m not a fan of cold approach to begin with, but if you are gonna go that route, you’re gonna have to be direct from the get go anyways. You’re way overthinking this
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:47 PM
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Have you been approaching in real life
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:08 PM
1

If it’s a random daytime approach I don’t really think you can unless the girl is already very into you lmao
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:47 PM
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The touch will come naturally as the comfort and later on sexual tension build, it’s not something that needs to be forced in the interaction because “kino”
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:25 PM
1

Important for what? Building comfort? That’s gonna build up naturally as you talk to her, a handshake isn’t gonna be the difference between you getting the girl or not, in fact it’s probably gonna feel too formal, which is not what you want with a girl.
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:00 PM
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Lmao a handshake is not gonna turn a girl on. Physical escalation is important once you’re in a date and it’s established that you guys like each other, not the very moment you meet her.
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:37 PM
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Yea I hate this feel good advice that has little to no application in the real world
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:39 PM
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I was attacking your point that “laws are the only thing that matter” which is utterly false. Laws can also be immoral or not deliver on ethics sufficiently. You’re not being edgy lol, you’re just wrong.
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:03 AM
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Civil laws are supposed to be ethics applied at a social level, so saying they don’t matter is retarded. One is derived form the other
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:17 PM
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I would say online is as much of a waste of time if you’re not above average in looks, but at least it takes a tenth of the effort.
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:26 AM
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One good cold approach is supposed to prove your case? I wanna see one where it shows all of his approaches without cuts, not cherry picked good approaches. If anything, Todd is one of the cringiest pick up artists I’ve seen, his style of conversation feels so mechanical, canned, unnatural.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:23 AM
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If that was the case, the success rate of cold approaching wouldn’t be as low as it is. Attention is nice, but not when when you’re walking down the street by a complete stranger while you’re busy.
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:32 AM
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Lmao don’t read too much into this post, it’s very obviously a troll
/r/seduction30/05/22 04:44 PM
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Lol forreal if she was trying to make some sort of inspirational point she missed by a mile
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:59 AM
1

Did she also suggest to pay for it?
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:57 PM
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Either how many women you interact with or your game. Probably the first one, the second one naturally develops with the first one.
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:44 PM
1

Omg it’s this weirdo again lol. She pops in this sub with this same obsessive question every once in a while. What’s your deal?
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:43 AM
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Really common in those cultures lol
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:36 PM
1

Have your approaches been cold approaches ?
/r/seduction23/04/22 12:22 AM
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You sound like you overthink shit
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:48 PM
1

Wow you must be so cool bro… until you do this to a psychopath and he comes and shoots your brains out. Can’t say I’ll feel too sorry for you.
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:45 PM
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That works because it at least shows that the approach was spontaneous and you’re not just there doing daygame like a weirdo… thanks for proving my point.
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:17 PM
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It’s funny how you understand that for social circle but not day game… if a girl can tell you’re doing “daygame” she’s not gonna want you… it’s a low value proposition
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:05 PM
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If your social circle is shitty yea. Also, you didn’t read the rest of my comment
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:45 PM
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That’s not the only alternative… there’s social circle game like normal people. Heck, you can cold approach spontaneously too, but if the girls can tell you’re there for the sole purpose of cold approaching (aka doing day game), it’s a low value proposition. That’s why something that shows awareness of the situation like “I know this is random” shows that you’re not a weirdo going girl to girl on the streets.
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:31 PM
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Lol your good. It’s sad that it’s just used as a gotcha buzzword with no true basis.
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:18 PM
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I was being sarcastic retard lmfao. I agree with you.
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:11 PM
0

Have you ever actually cold approached women? Rejection rates are inherently high, that kind of proves the opposite of your point.
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:09 PM
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No need to project your alphaness big guy. There’s no denying cold approaching has a terrible success rate unless you’re really attractive. You’re literally a stranger walking up to girls for sex, it’s not exactly a high value proposition to the woman.
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:02 PM
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He called you racist bro he automatically won the argument
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:59 PM
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Are we guys not the same? Cmon man let’s have some self awareness
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:30 PM
3

What’s BS is this comment lmao
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:13 PM
4

At 110 lbs fitness should definitely be a priority though. Give this man something to eat
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:03 PM
0

No you’re just butthurt as hell
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:51 AM
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Oh no she called him an incel! That’s fucking cute 😂
/r/seduction08/04/22 01:50 PM
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Fuck dude that rough. How’d you find out? I’m assuming you broke up with her right after, right?
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:15 AM
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At the end of the day a subreddit is only gonna take you so far, most seduction is learned subconsciously through practice.
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:25 PM
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Not if they call themselves sedditors
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:37 PM
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I can tell you’re swimming in pussy
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:05 AM
8

Im not gonna blame you for what you did cuz it was the right thing in the long term… but kissing another man while you have a boyfriend is cheating lol
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:35 PM
4

Say hi to your “girlfriend” for me
/r/seduction30/03/22 04:03 PM
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Are you a lesbian or just a straight cuck? And open relationships aren’t hard to understand lmfao, they’re just silly.
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:57 PM
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Sorry to hear you haven’t found a proper bull for your wife. Looks like you’ve been looking hard. That’s why I’m here to help
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:45 PM
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No worries brodie, I’ll show her a real man for once
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:35 PM
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Im gonna sleep with your girlfriend
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:24 PM
1

Yea good luck convincing a high value woman of that lmao
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:04 PM
1

Jesus Christ you sperged out over literally nothing lmfao
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:02 AM
3

That’s why men never cheat right… cmon dude this just sounds like bitter whinnying.
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:35 PM
2

Did you get cheated on or something pal? This fixation on being a home wrecker comes from a place of deep insecurity
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:43 PM
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Well that’s why I don’t think cold approach is the best method… your odds of success are inherently low unless you’re very good looking in her eyes. But if you are gonna do that,not much to do other than being direct, tell her you thought she was cute, make a little small talk, and go for the number. She’ll either be into you or not, no pua course is gonna change that.
/r/seduction12/03/22 10:21 PM
1

What’s vague is your question. What you talk about depends on the setting you’re in. You don’t need to pay 500$ courses or $5000 boot camps to learn basic social skills.
/r/seduction12/03/22 10:10 PM
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None of them are gonna work. Being that deep in your head and over analyzing seduction methods is already the wrong mindset for talking to women. That’s exactly what these pua’s want you to think, that it’s a complicated puzzle, but thankfully their $500 courses have the solution. Don’t bother with courses, there’s no substitute for real life experience. Go talk to real women.
/r/seduction12/03/22 07:55 PM
1

Here’s what you do you go back to the restaurant with your gf and eat her face out in front of the guy. You’re in the position of power not him, that’s how you let him know what’s up.
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:15 PM
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Treating sex like a sport is exactly how you ruin in
/r/seduction26/02/22 08:15 PM
2

Yea lmao cmon especially in the age of social media validation. If you’re a 10/10 you’re gonna know for sure
/r/seduction02/02/22 09:48 PM
3

Is there even authright women lmao? Tends to be a more masculine domain of politics, and the ones I do see are not very feminine
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:52 PM
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Shit test him
/r/seduction30/12/21 02:48 AM
2

The exception being you of course huh
/r/seduction24/12/21 11:19 PM
8

Ehh, i would say just make the move no need to over explain himself. Vulnerability is good, but not at the expense of his masculine frame, which he clearly needs to develop
/r/seduction22/12/21 05:31 PM
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Number 1 sounds spergy as hell… are you going out of your way to stop them while they’re walking down the street? I don’t get what scenerio that would seem normal in
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:57 PM
2

“Much more cruel” can you elaborate on number 5?
/r/seduction21/12/21 10:41 PM
2

Yea lol idk what his point was
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:34 PM
3

How is there romantic tension with someone that won’t even hug you?
/r/seduction18/12/21 05:20 PM
3

I thought the pull was the pursuing (trying to pull her in) and pushing was showing showing disinterest (pushing her away). Whatever, semantics, same idea.
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:01 AM
2

How not to get laid 101 lmao
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:38 AM
0

Lol cousin fucker
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:39 PM
3

Effective? Go run to 100 random girls in a street from behind and tell me how many of them you lay
/r/seduction11/11/21 11:13 PM
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There’s a lot of people here that think running up to a random chick on the streets from behind is a normal way of picking up chicks because of YouTube cold approach videos, so don’t be surprised if you get a lot of negative feedback
/r/seduction11/11/21 06:19 PM
4

Geez, overthinking it. Just ask her our. Otherwise you’re risking her losing interest. The time window is running as we speak
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:30 AM
37

Im thinking this is satire but with what I’ve seen from this community it very well could be a legitimate post lmao
/r/seduction24/10/21 10:12 PM
1

Who the hell still talks like this even on the internet
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:18 PM
5

Yup, he’s overhyped just because he’s so technical about this stuff people feel like they’re learning something.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:45 PM
7

Idk I get the whole respect thing but this doesn’t like anything too out of line you were clearly being playful. This just sounds like a soft skinned person, you didn’t really do anything wrong imo.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:26 PM
13

Lmao how old are you
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:20 AM
3

Lmao
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:50 PM
3

Really? Where are you from?
/r/seduction02/10/21 08:52 PM
23

Church
/r/seduction02/10/21 08:19 PM
4

Ideally you escalate and it happens naturally without any verbal permission. That said, I don’t think it means you completely fucked it up that’s an overstretch.
/r/seduction14/09/21 11:12 PM
1

Hey I appreciate your honestly lol
/r/seduction14/09/21 01:54 PM
1

Maybe but idk some people really are this obsessive with their height insecurities
/r/seduction10/09/21 04:07 PM
1

It ain’t 6 feet but it’s not what’s holding you back lmao. Unless you’re only hitting on 5’10” women.
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:15 PM
1

Well yea that’s a really wide category
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:14 PM
2

Lmao. You’re definitely not tall but damn 5’8” isn’t anything to be this depressed about. I’m not some blue pilled pua that thinks height doesn’t matter, in fact I do think there is a point where you’re basically fucked, but it’s not at 5’8”. Let’s be real, you probably have an ugly face or bad social skills with women to be this frustrated. It’s not the 5’8”
/r/seduction09/09/21 11:04 PM
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Ok at 6’3 I would like to know what you consider short
/r/seduction09/09/21 10:58 PM
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Staying in such a bad set for that long is not good game, it’s being socially uncalibrated and wasting your time. I don’t see the valuable lesson behind that.
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:17 PM
12

Where do you typically cold approach?
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:16 PM
1

Lol wtf? How does some (women and gay men, people that I’m assuming you’re not seeking to attract) liking penis make you depressed?? Straight men (which is what I’m assuming you’re after) are into pussy as much as the other groups are into penises. Vaginas are just as fetishized don’t you hear all the music making references to it? Hope this helps you sleep at night.
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:29 AM
1

Even then what’s the point of posting this 20 times. This is creepy.
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:22 AM
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The better question is what is your obsession with this topic... you’ve posted this same question or a variation of it like 20 times. Almost like you’re a bot account.
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:18 AM
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Yea some people confuse this “work on yourself” mindset with going full monk mode and that’s not good at all.
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:33 PM
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“Have her pay for an entire date” you mean actually telling the woman to take me out and pay for the date? I mean I get it if she invited you out, but you asking her to pay for the date sounds overly gamey and lame af. Shit if a woman did that to me I wouldn’t do it either, I’d feel used. You’re either dealing with very easily manipulated girls or you’re playing this high value gimmick a little too hard lol.
/r/seduction11/06/21 02:28 PM
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I think by definition you wouldn’t be straight if you’re into penises... I’m sorry but this just sounds like some myth by queer people to reassure themselves. I’m sure guys like that are out there but it’s not your typical heterosexual male.
/r/seduction02/06/21 02:06 AM
2

Did you never take a sex Ed class. No, you shouldn’t expect any stds unless she lied to you about her virginity.
/r/seduction02/12/20 02:25 PM
4

There is no text game to critique here lol. This went downhill as soon as it started
/r/seduction09/10/20 04:02 PM
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I mean the general idea of being more assertive is good. But some of these examples would come off stupid in real life
/r/seduction15/07/20 05:25 PM
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Wait... why would he push you towards that? Or am i misunderstanding what you mean by relationships?
/r/seduction27/05/20 01:49 AM
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Why do you post this every five minutes
/r/seduction29/04/20 01:17 AM
2

What is wrong with you
/r/seduction26/04/20 12:30 AM
3

Yea bro it’s over I’m sorry
/r/seduction25/04/20 06:51 PM
1

Ive seen this post like ten times now what is going on
/r/seduction13/03/20 12:44 AM
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What does stephiscold have to do with this though, im pretty sure he’s against cold approaches. Think he called it beta
/r/seduction12/03/20 07:46 PM
1

What in summary is the mystery method?
/r/seduction11/03/20 04:59 PM
0

Cringe
/r/seduction08/03/20 10:40 PM
0

“You just don’t have the ball” lmao the same excuse for being a desperate tail chasing loser every pua wannabe uses
/r/seduction07/03/20 09:45 PM
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God I’ve never seen someone harp on so long on such a pointless dumb analogy. You keep purposely misinterpreting seeing cold approaching as not worth the time with being against talking to girls, so I’m not even gonna bother with this anymore. And yes, that’s around the batting average that I’ve heard from most people here.
/r/seduction07/03/20 08:55 PM
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You wouldn’t talk the average job seeker out of getting a job because he won’t become a milllionaire... because no one thinks that’s what they’re after lmao. Forget your stupid analogy, I’m done explaining the same thing over and over. Talking to girls isn’t beta... cold approaching 100s of girls for one or two flaky numbers is. It sends all the wrong signals: lack of women in your real life, desperation, etc.
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:28 PM
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Your analogy still doesn’t hold because I did not say “don’t go looking for girls, it’s too much work”. What I’m saying is there’s better ways of finding girls you connect with than cold approaching 1000 girls like a desperate beta. The “your unlikely to become a millionaire” part of your analogy is again so irrelevant because your average job seeker doesn’t go job searching with these expectations, whereas your average cold approacher does go out with higher expectations of cold approaching aft…
/r/seduction07/03/20 05:35 PM
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No, I see way more threads with the opposite message. Approach 1000 girls bro! It’s a numbers game! Which is true, but those numbers are usually too low for the average man with other priorities to think it’s worthwhile. I don’t see how someone that’s got other things going on can make time to be cold approaching girls all the time. You’d have to be jumping from place to place chasing tail. Horrible analogy, people don’t go to work thinking they’re gonna become millionaires, on the other hand pe…
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:55 PM
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Idk why cold approaching gets so hyped up in this sub, by its very nature it almost always gives off a low status signal to women. It’s no wonder even its proponents admit its low success rate.
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:53 AM
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Lmao you really don’t think approaching 15 girls in the same social setting simultaneously isn’t gonna give all the wrong signals?? And I didn’t say don’t approach at all
/r/seduction29/02/20 07:18 PM
1

What did your typical approach look like?
/r/seduction29/02/20 06:38 PM
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I hope 15 is an exaggeration, because making 15 approaches in a party (really any closed social environment) would look quite obvious and desperate. Maybe I need more context on how these approaches looked. talking to 15 people in a party isn’t bad, but 15 distinct approaches for the purpose of pickup, in a party, would look pretty desperate to most girls.
/r/seduction29/02/20 06:24 PM
0

No this is bad advice
/r/seduction27/02/20 06:07 PM
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Mods here is where you’d be helpful
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:23 AM
4

Booooo
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:05 PM
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That’s about the rate you should expect from cold approaching
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:04 PM
4

Are you a girl lol
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:46 PM
6

I miss the old days of SP
/r/seduction04/02/20 01:52 AM
9

Wait what’s this infield of Todd V that everyone’s talking about?
/r/seduction24/01/20 05:42 PM
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Usually the basics like over pursuing and what not
/r/seduction16/12/19 04:29 PM
2

[email protected] Thank you
/r/seduction11/12/19 05:57 PM
4

That’s what RSD is lmao, glad someone in this community is willing to call them out given how adored they are around here.
/r/seduction01/12/19 07:18 PM
1

These were all in the same day/place?
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:16 PM
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Ok how the fuck did you manage to turn this into a whiny rant about how men are the real victims lmao? As bad and exaggerated as modern feminists can be, this is just as cringy and victim complexy. I don’t know how the fuck fbi statistics about violent crime victims are relevant to a post explaining why women have their guard up sometimes. Congrats dude, you sure owned the feminazis lmfao
/r/seduction20/07/19 07:33 PM
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Yea, that’s what I’m leaning towards too. Especially since it isn’t that big of a school so I do have to protect my reputation (aka not being known as the cheesy pick up artist persona)
/r/seduction17/04/19 05:33 AM
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