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| 1 | So, this happens a lot? Women just leave out of the blue with 0 chance for reconciliation?Yep. We even did marriage counseling but she refused to try any of the things the therapist suggested. "Do things together, work on the relationship." Nah, she was already done. So all the work I did in the last year meant nothing (to her, it did good stuff for me at least). Her loss. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/26 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Divorce can be the best thing to ever happen to you or the worst. Which category do you fall under?I would have liked to have worked on the marriage when things got tough before being forced to end things Same. I think 11 years was worth way more effort than she was willing to put in. But that's her loss, I'll keep telling myself that until I believe it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/26 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Had to have emergency surgery yesterday and led me to an important realization... thought I'd shareMy job keeps asking me to add one to my work profile, but same. I don't have one right now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/26 01:16 AM |
| 7 | Saddest Day of my LifeThat sucks man and I feel for you. I had a similar situation, no cheating, we never fought, but she was keeping stuff bottled up for years. Some of it got worked through via therapy but some of it she realized she just wasn't happy with herself and with me. I apologized, I went to therapy, I made a lot of positive changes...but she was already done. But I know what you mean, there is a specific weekend I remember that I was in a shitty mood and it sparked off a lot of things that ended in divorc… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/26 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Rewiring My BrainSame. I've had a few dates and quick little things but I just cannot get my ex's body out of my mind. I know we're not right for each other but I miss her physically (even though our sex life wasn't great! How crazy is that?) | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/26 01:56 AM |
| 7 | ThanksgivingThis is my first one since the separation (divorce is on the way) but I realize I was almost always alone on Thanksgiving anyway. She often chose to work, just like how she often chose to make time for everything except me (work, her friends, herself). So today I'm eating what I want, watching what I want, and playing video games. I have a bunch of friends that reached out, and next year I'll make more of an effort to be with friends on the holidays. This is just one day and one step in my journ… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/25 05:38 PM |
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