tree_fractal Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"Here’s why men should still pay for the first date"; TL;DR 'Because they're men' Well, I don't think it goes far enough. I think a man should be responsible to pay for an independent valuer to assess the relative strengths, potential risks and likely outcomes of the first date, after which either the man or the woman will need to pay an amount to the other (let's call it a commencement premiun) before the date commences. /s	/r/MensRights	18/11/22 04:24 AM
7	I have a question I couldn't answer myself! I think its inevitable that when you make it easier for one target demographic to enter a field you end up diluting the talent pool. If I want a coder, I want someone who (at least once) ditched a beach holiday just so they could code uninterrupted for 48 hours straight. And if I want a nurse, I want someone who is passionate about that (I'm not, so I'm not even sure how to sell it!). What I don't want, is someone who had to be shoehorned in as part of a gender parity project.	/r/MensRights	14/11/22 04:08 AM
17	"Why Smart Men Should Not Fear Gender Parity"; Article assumes Men fear equal payment of genders Lol - literally got of the phone 30 mins ago with a client who is making over $300K laying pipes and drains. He says most people don't want to do it because it's "shit work!". He certainly doesn't run into many women down there :)	/r/MensRights	11/11/22 04:26 AM
3	The company I work for has put on some sessions for Men’s Health Awareness Month, one of which is titled “A Man’s Guide to Women’s Mental Health” Dr George Integrity Whitebread is right man for both of those sessions.... :)	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 12:58 AM
13	r/menslib is a fucking hellscape. Sorry if i've miss flaired it , just dunno what it comes under. Interesting and astute comment. "Creating a space for something to happen" is an archetypical 'feminine' strength. Here its clearly used in a toxic way - a Lady Macbeth offer-hospitality-and-kill-the-king kind of way.	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 12:40 AM
3	Does anyone else dislike the term “gas lighting”? This a really good, easy to understand, summary.	/r/MensRights	06/11/22 11:11 PM
8	Zero empathy for lonely men She's not your friend. As for Jordan Peterson, he is a great help and resource for young men who want to better themselves.	/r/MensRights	03/11/22 06:44 AM
8	What should I do? lol - this is basically the narcissist mantra :) It didn't happen And if it did happen, it wasn't a big deal And if it was a big deal, it wasn't my fault And if it was my fault, you deserved it She has no self awareness and you won't change anything she thinks.	/r/MensRights	03/11/22 03:33 AM
217	Men killed - Women most affected 🤡 Yeah cos' men get to go an extended wilderness adventure and hang out with their buddies!!! It's a very disingenuous, divisive and downright subversive and unfaithful article.	/r/MensRights	31/10/22 10:24 PM
2	When A Man Does not Feel Appreciated. Yes. The frustrating thing is that pointing it out "inevitable consequences" gets conflated with "conspiring to make them happen". I've learnt (far too late in life) to express things not as "If you make me do X I'll retaliate with Y" but "If I acquiesce to do X then it's going to create toxic environment Y and eventually Z will happen. And Z will suck"	/r/MensRights	31/10/22 10:11 PM
6	Tried to talk with my mother about men’s emotional well-being/needs Well at least she thinks its a good thing (and not toxic) for a man to be strong. I wouldn't give up on her just yet. I think deep down women get extremely frightened when a man shows weakness. Some women understand this and they aren't sure what to do about it.	/r/MensRights	31/10/22 03:32 AM
47	Experts fear rising global ‘incel’ culture could provoke terrorism \| Violence against women and girls I know it's a bit of a segue but I won't be surprised when "growing your own vegetables" is labelled as "dangerous ECONOMIC terrorism"	/r/MensRights	30/10/22 10:25 PM
2	Risk taking behaviors and MRA movements I'd say that the more I clarify my position the more risks I'm willing to take, to the point where I have identified the "hill (or two) that I'm will to die defending." But tbh, no, I havent really been a risk-taker all my life. It's more like I've grown to realise that I'm not going to be helped by being 'nice' like those 'nice' people tell me to be.	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 04:21 AM
2	About the "fragile male ego" and "fragile masculinity" We should have at t-shirt made that say "Whatever you think I said, it was just 'me being open and vulnerable' "	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 03:57 AM
3	What’s your take? I have felt the same. I would have always described myself as a 'nice' person - harmless. I often thought of myself as little bit superior because I never had "anger" problems like so many other people. But the truth was I'd become so passive and submissive that I just wasn't standing for anything to be angry about. I had no boundaries so I never stopped anyone from crossing them! It eventually got so bad [in a situation where it became clear I needed to ask someone to leave my house] that I was…	/r/MensRights	26/10/22 04:46 AM
1	Question from a woman to MRAs I don't have much to add to other comments but, thankyou!	/r/MensRights	26/10/22 03:42 AM
3	Hard-working tired husband on r/Marriage: wife forces sex daily causing him to take a separate bedroom to get sleep, accuses him every time the children cry, chases after work with blaming. Comments: "you are not marriage material", "she wants a partner", "autism" "doesn't seem you want marriage". That is genius!	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 11:10 PM
29	Question for all fellow men Haven't seen it, but.... I can thoroughly recommend "The Critical Drinker" youtube channel for a wonderfully elegant review.	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 04:49 AM