TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

treehugger195050 Archive

View 6 posts and 33 comments by treehugger195050 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Thank you brother
/r/askMRP08/06/25 12:53 AM
1

How do I unfuck myself mentally?
/r/askMRP03/06/25 05:22 PM
1

No, I know I have to find a life purpose. It had been to do a youtube channel but the channel failed. I created about 200 videos and have only like 1k subscribers over the course of like 3 years. I need to find something new, but it's definitely not to work for the "man."
/r/askMRP31/05/25 03:27 AM
1

It took me a few days to think about it, but I think I have an answer. Please roast me good on each point, because you are really making me think about my life and I like it. I don't want to marry the Pakistani, I just feel like "am I making a mistake" by not marrying her. (letting a potential good thing go, letting my parents down, not giving my parents grandchildren, not giving myself children). I am basically looking for reasons to NOT marry her to justify it to myself that I made the right c…
/r/askMRP30/05/25 05:05 AM
2

Okay I like this. Thanks
/r/askMRP24/05/25 08:59 PM
0

First of all. Fuck Second. Yeah, you're right about the Pinay. I am just blind to see it. I keep thinking "mine is different." If pawning the promise ring wasn't enough to wake me up, which apparently it wasn't, then I am fucking dumb. Agreed. Third, is there necessarily anything wrong with being "sold" a Pakistani girl? She is going to be the trad wife type that everyone in the community wants. I am not being forced to marry her, nor her to me. I have the option to go see her this September wit…
/r/askMRP24/05/25 08:59 PM
0

Yea, I'm a retard.
/r/askMRP09/02/25 12:34 AM
0

that's not funny bro
/r/askMRP08/02/25 11:07 PM
27

Leave her with nothing. Try to get custody of the kids. If you can't get custody of the kids then let them know you will be there for them (financially). She will try crawling back to you after she finds out that working as a walmart greeter isn't very glamorous, but she is dead to you. Aside from your kids, nothing about her life should matter to you. Time to trade up and leave the scum behind.
/r/askMRP09/11/24 05:12 PM
2

thank you
/r/askMRP17/10/24 02:39 AM
-2

Probably a dumb question, but what do you mean by map? Haven't heard that term before.
/r/askMRP29/03/24 06:25 PM
1

Thank you brother. I am very grateful for my mother. She has me and my younger brother (who is not a fuck up). I know most parents would probably not tolerate a 33 year old living with them, I know I sure as hell wouldn't. I want to do right by her and move out and pay her back as soon as I can, but for the time being I am grounded with my health problems. I'm applying for government assistance just for the meantime, and I'm going to give everything to her.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:59 AM
1

LMAO "telenovela." Thanks for making me laugh brother, for the first time in weeks, if not months. :)
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:55 AM
1

There were other problems with the scenario with the car that I didn't go into in my original post. I lost my 2003 camry that was totaled in the crash. I received 5k from the insurance company with the stipulation that I had to buy a new car within 30 days, or else I would lose like $600 or something from that 5k. I was in a horrible state with concussion and physical pain right after the accident so I ended up going to carmax on like the 2nd to last day that I had, still feeling like shit. I ju…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:53 AM
2

Thank you brother
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:49 AM
1

Man I feel like an asshole after watching that. It's easy to forget that some people have it much worse in life. Thank you.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:49 AM
1

Thank you brother, I just needed to hear it from others to make sure I am doing the right thing.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:44 AM
1

I try to give people the benefit of the doubt and I try my hardest in whatever situation I'm in. I know I'm naive but I don't know how to change that about me. My parents divorced when I was young and my dad has always been beta. My mom raised me with a lot of love and I never really learned how horrible some people can be, but I'm seeing it now from this relationship.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:42 AM
1

I've definitely had the signs and I've thought about it, and I just let it go. Maybe I didn't mind being manipulated as long as I got the attention from her, I don't know. The money and the ticket to the US didn't bother me nearly as much as all the lying. If she was upfront about everything from the start, maybe things would have been better. Maybe I'm lying to myself. I don't know, I really fell for her hard.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:39 AM
2

Thank you brother, you are absolutely right on every point. I really needed to just hear it from others instead of myself thinking if I'm losing someone who actually loves me. I kept thinking throughout the years that this woman is bad for me, but she pulls me back in every time I tried to back away. She's gotten me deep psychologically and I've always tried to give her the benefit of the doubt.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:35 AM
1

You're right on every point. I always tried to give her the benefit of the doubt even when I know I am being manipulated. I posted here to see what others think, if maybe she is a good person and I'm not willing to give her another chance, I don't know. I just needed to hear it from other people that the situation is as bad as I thought. Looking at it from your perspective makes me feel better, I do still have options when put in that perspective. I do have a masturbation problem as well. I've t…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:29 AM
1

Thank you brother. I like the idea of monk mode. I'm going to work on myself and try to get myself to a good place. I've tried and failed many times throughout my life with working out, but I want to try again this time seriously. I've also said that a few times and I don't follow through. I can see myself doing it, but when the time comes to do it, I think "tomorrow" and that tomorrow never comes. Then I get super frustrated with myself and push really hard one day, and then back to my normal s…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:24 AM
1

Yes maybe you're right. I didn't mind providing all her needs. It was the lies that really bothered me. The car was something a little more involved, I didn't explain it fully in the original post. I lost my 2003 camry in my car accident, it was totaled. I received 5K from the insurance company with the stipulation that I had to buy a new car within 30 days. At that early point I was even more fucked up with the concussion and physical injuries than I am now. I ended up going to carmax on the 2n…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:18 AM
1

Thank you brother
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:09 AM
2

I know you're right, I've just been in a horrible fog like state with this woman, always trying to help her that I have neglected myself and my family at home. The fog is finally starting to clear up thanks to everyone here.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:08 AM
2

Thank you brother
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:06 AM
1

That's actually really good advise. I've always tried living my life, trying to do the best I possibly can in whatever situation, without really taking a step back and thinking about if it's even necessary to be in whatever situation I'm in. I'm always the "yes" guy to whatever in life, maybe being the "no" guy would be better.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:06 AM
1

You're right, I just needed to hear it. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt, but there are too many things with this woman, and it's not worth it to stay with her if I want to keep my sanity.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:03 AM
4

Thank you sir. I really needed to hear it. I knew she wasn't good for me at many points in our relationship, but too afraid to walk away. I always try to give her the benefit of the doubt, but it is making me lose my mind. I think you nailed every single point. Just thinking about moving on and never looking at the Philippines again is making me happy. I really hope that I can stay strong and never contact her again.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:58 PM
1

I've tried youtube and trying different things in the gym, but nothing seems to work for my body, even if I go 3x a week, I seem to linger around the same weight level and if I try to increase the weight i'm pushing, it's very difficult. I'm not sure how to get over that hurdle. I've thought about getting a personal trainer, but can't afford one right now. I'm 5'9, 150 lbs, but can't bench more than 70 lbs. I feel like a complete loser whenever I get on the bench I'm going to give Goggins a try,…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:49 PM
1

I think that's kind of my problem. I have OCD/anxiety and I feel like I need to try my absolute best in any relationship that I'm in and try to give people the benefit of the doubt. All because I'm afraid of living with myself thinking "what if I made the wrong decision, what if she was real all along and I let her go?" But after everything, especially the big lie that the whole relationship was based on, even a pushover like me can't handle it and it feels like a ton of pressure on my brain. Th…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:44 PM
1

I fell in love with her really hard and there have been signs throughout the relationship like the family members always getting "sick." But eventually she stopped the sick story because I guess I started paying her $300 and that was enough for her. I didn't even mind providing her needs, but it's all the lying that really bothers the shit out of me.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:39 PM
3

Hey man, This has happened to me before a few times too. If you two aren't in a relationship, she likely found another guy and dated him for that week. He likely fucked up and now she's messaging you again. It just means you didn't fuck up yet and so you're still on her radar. At least that was my experience from a chick I dated in the past. Good luck bro!
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:06 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter