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Of all the things you listed, it's him watching red pill content that you take the most issue with? You're not a stranger to red pill content yourself since you're here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 05:43 PM
-1

Perception is reality. Doing things to not appear needy is being non-needy. Time is finite. Balancing relationships with other things is a zero sum game. Nobody can tell your motives for doing things and there’s no need question yourself. Perception is reality
/r/seduction10/03/26 04:56 PM
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“Dirty old men” is a nice attempt to mischaracterize all men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:16 PM
-14

Sad is when children die in war. Making tradeoffs to get in a relationship in normal life stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 02:20 AM
1

There are exceptions to the rule. But probably not the guy he's asking about it here
/r/seduction15/01/26 05:34 PM
7

Wait, so you’re saying that if you’re not white but have got the yen, then it’s still possible? I’m a little confused
/r/seduction09/08/25 08:10 PM
5

How many men pay for OF only to then turn around and complain about it? That’s certainly not the main issue with OF. Besides, there is such a thing as consumer protection. So if the complaints are due to legitimate issues then yeah, they have the right to complain about anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:48 AM
3

They said young people, not kids
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:36 AM
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There is no gender war. There is a one-sided feminist offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:30 PM
1

Feminism in itself is a masculine stance. If “toxic masculinity” is a thing, then feminists can certainly be its propagators.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:09 AM
1

In the end, after you run out of suitable candidates that match your ideology, ya’ll will date whoever’s willing to settle for you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:20 AM
-1

Being altruistic and being obligated to help are not really the same things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:15 PM
3

You’re a woman. You can take a look at the profile of an average immigrant and answer the question of whether they are a competition for the native born men yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:20 AM
0

Then we might as well just get off reddit for good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:26 PM
10

First was clue was always the unwillingness to support a women’s military draft. There is no equality without sharing burdens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:37 PM
2

Everybody’s competing for the 20% candidates of their respective partner pool. Women and men are different and have different requirements. People don’t wanna settle. It’s a multi-factoral problem. Not a mens’ problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:32 PM
1

Neither. Especially if they strongly identify as one or the other. If I wanna talk politics, that's what friends are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:37 AM
7

You can call anyone you want "beautiful". What men consider "beautiful" is rooted in human biology. It's not a preference you change on a whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:04 AM
4

If you want to get along with women, then try some of these things out: Clean up after yourself. Be responsible for yourself. Make good use of your time. Don't be misogynistic, abusive, etc. Don't be a creep; make women feel safe and handle rejection with grace. Communicate clearly and honestly. Don't be envious of women and their success, sexually or economically. Prioritize them in your relationship with them, and take an interest in their sexual pleasure. Do what I want or else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:50 PM
2

The goal of those podcasts isn’t to elevate an average guy. To climb the ladder of online fame, they need to get people higher in the hierarchy, not lower, on their show
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:22 AM
2

Barbie movie was misogynistic? Doubt he said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:27 PM
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Yep. They would never do the same shit with respect to drugs, ie. punish the buyer and let the dealers deal without consequences. So why treat prostitution differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:02 PM
0

Out of pocket comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:00 AM
1

You don’t get claim to any assets unless you marry in the first place. It very much makes sense to marry and then divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:46 PM
4

Nobody sleeps with women to lower their value. Bad premise. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:59 PM
1

Fulfillment is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:17 PM
3

Let's discuss ideas on their own merits
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:07 PM
2

They get to exercise their power which is a benefit unto itself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:58 AM
0

Yes and no. Working on yourself, specifically having goals and other shit going on is never a bad thing. It just doesn’t mean shit when it comes from other people. And it doesn’t mean shit if you’re just doing it for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:42 PM
0

The most important trait a man can have is discipline/work ethic to make himself into the best version they can be. Low inhibition only gets you so far
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:44 AM
9

^ intense incel energy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:23 AM
2

Those are red-pill? In what sense exactly? They may red pill dickriders, that's about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:46 PM
2

And when asked for proof, you’d have nothing to show. So don’t speak on it without evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:53 PM
1

Doesn’t matter whether they would or not date a tankie. His argument for prefering a conservative woman can be applied to any man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:20 AM
1

This shouldn’t even be controvertial
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:36 PM
2

Post feminism, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:51 AM
20

Because toxic madculinity is a voodoo concept invented by women for the benefit of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:53 PM
4

What is toxic masculinity? Anything that soesn’t benefit women? Or is there real substance behind the term?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:52 AM
5

Well, it's not proof, it's just a confirmation. You need to show a systemic pattern to assert "proof"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:36 PM
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It's corporate feminism. Which women prefer anyway as they dislike direct confrontation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:19 AM
1

It's good. You are not your profession (at least I hope you aren't)
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:04 AM
30

Tate's just spouting out RP material to further his own agenda. The "manosphere" is a web of grifters.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 03:45 AM
2

Equal rights are granted in the social/legal sphere. In the dating/sexual marketplace, it's every man and woman for themselves. There are no equal rights on this plane. The premise is confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:56 AM
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You're more picky because you have many candidates for the single position of a sperm donor. Men can't afford to be picky because they don't have a uterus. Horniness ain't it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:26 AM
1

The man's interest is important to the man, less so than to the society. The women are privileged in that their interests are generally granted higher regard by the society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:09 PM
15

A relationship can't fill the void of not having friends. Neither situation is ideal. I'd rather have friends though. It's a less committed relationship that is likely to survive longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:44 PM
2

My favorites are the self proclaimed male feminists or gender egalitarians. Buddy, you're putting in a lot of work trying to be visible online and IRL instead of just living your beliefs and spending the extra energy on other things. The extra work is not as appreciated as you like to think by the people you're trying to impress.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:14 PM
1

An example of how a rich simp will get away with physical assault on live tv. On the plus side, he's made himself look weak af and lose and lot of respect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:07 PM
1

In the game of mating we are all reduced to numbers. Maintaining humanity is part of the game, not a given
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:29 AM
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By the sounds of it, it is in fact affecting their relationship
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:39 PM
1

Most is not all so don't speak in absolutes. Or address white republicans specifically to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:49 PM
1

What other races? Is 'republican' a race?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:34 AM
7

Yeah, haha. If you wear any kind of makeup as a woman you're in no place to talk shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:58 PM
2

I don't have photos on a boat or with other people on my profile. In all of my photos I still look like I'm having fun though and it works
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:12 PM
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No, only people with leverage get what they want. The mating game mirrors a capitalist system
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:08 PM
1

It's a useless piece of advice for men. Loving yourself doesn't automatically make you into a desirable/high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:48 PM
1

Is a player in the club preying on desperate women? The answer to both questions should be the same (what it is I'm not sure)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:29 AM
2

Masculine energy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 08:17 PM
1

Why are women choosing to marry and raise children instead of taking full advantage of everything feminism has to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:01 PM
1

Women get married with the goal of child rearing every single day. What are they choosing? What benefit of feminism are they going get while raising kids? Equal distribution of parenting work? Is that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:00 PM
2

Program during the day and do art at night
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:31 PM
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From a dating perspective, it could be a good thing for women. From a privacy perspective, it'll most likely make me get off the apps. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:34 PM
1

Something I knew already but nicely written
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 05:27 AM
1

Put that plack back into rotation and keep doing what you're doing. Hard next is an over reaction. You got your validation
/r/askTRP05/03/21 06:15 AM
2

You're doing it wrong. Better to design your life around 8 hours of sleep. That means you gotta cut some other things.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:59 AM
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the "a woman gets pleasure from being desired" is missing "by a man of her choosing or one preselected by her peers"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:33 AM
2

sounds like you want to become one of the girlfriends 🤮
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:50 PM
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Because as much as you hate to admit it, men and women are different. The civilization isn't arranged the way it is by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:35 AM
1

Why not fake bobs? Better than a ring imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:50 PM
1

In addition to what's already being said, it's easier to engage and share common experiences with same sex peers. Even if a man and woman enjoy the same activity, it's usually for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:59 PM
7

In a relationship, one partner always settles. If it's not you then guess who
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 03:12 AM
1

Turn the question back on her or don't answer. No need to qualify yourself to her.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:25 PM
3

Large tattoos on women look pretty unattractive. That's hardly a controversial boomer stance..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 07:10 AM
1

Yes, I worry you're not gonna be able to handle.. something.. my balls.. or something. Agree and amplify
/r/askTRP20/11/20 02:04 AM
1

Women are just as visual, on top of a multitude of other things that men don't prioritize as much. Hence leading you to mistakenly think that men are more visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:42 PM
6

I did. You have a tough road ahead of you. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:36 PM
5

You are welcome to hop on over to 'relationship advice' or 'dating'. Bullshit is easier to swallow but it doesn't keep you fed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:00 PM
1

You do it yourself and then ignore her requests for favors. Tit for tat
/r/askTRP18/09/20 11:47 PM
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The thing is even if you vet as much as possible, a woman's mind can always change down the road. You can't predict that
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 03:35 AM
5

Congrats, you got friendzoned.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:10 PM
8

Well, I'm mostly doing it for myself. No need to share financial details with anyone you haven't been committed to for years
/r/seduction11/05/20 12:22 PM
6

It's a generalization obviously. And rich 20 something streamers are a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:56 AM
5

It's easy to display confidence when you have nothing or little to lose. The nothing-to-lose confidence can easily fool people into thinking you have the abundance confidence. Notice that people with swagger are often manipulative. You can mix any kind of confidence with manipulation to achieve some results. 'Fake it till you make' is a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:06 PM
1

By living life in the now
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:59 PM
2

Pain management is a part of life. Don't fool yourself into thinking that other people don't have problems. Some form of chronic pain/illness is common in most adults
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:55 AM
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It doesn't really. Not for me anyway. You do you. And I reserve the right to judge you for it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:52 PM
2

21 years old is nothing dude. You lack a little perspective, that's all. Let me just say this. As long as your best 5 years happened between right now and 5 years ago (regardless of current age) that means you're doing ok
/r/askTRP08/03/20 03:19 PM
1

You citited Berkley and forgot to end your post with "smash the patriarchy". Kind of strange
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:31 PM
1

Don't focus on women too much right, you've got other issues to sort out first. And 19 is very young. Some guys don't start blooming until much later. You should be focusing on fundamentals for now - social skills, education, physical and mental health, etc.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:08 PM
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Conservatism, liberalism, progressivism, radicalism, none of that shit is gonna stop a man who knows what he wants from getting it. Such a man will navigate around any obstacles that appear. He will be comfortable in any system and exploit its weaknesses. Stay away from political ideologies. If your self identity is built upon any political ideology you're fucked. Bruce Lee said it best - "Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall f…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 03:23 AM
3

Next time don't leave abruptly, either leave stoically or leave like you dgaf. Instead of saying "maybe", say you're taking grandma out to dinner and you'll get in touch when you free up
/r/askTRP12/01/20 01:55 PM
1

Honestly you just won't know the answer until you do it and live the experience
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:45 PM
1

This is all psychological brother. I hope you're able to replace the thoughts of suicide with other thoughts like goals and dreams and then start working on building yourself up. Read some self-helps books. They won't necessarily teach you anything ground-breaking but they will help you get in the habit of self-affirmation. You are very young, you can still build your own empire and everything will fall into place. Try to gain some upward mobility - night school, get a certificate, learn a trade…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 01:09 AM
2

You can start by getting off this forum and doing something worthwile with your life. I'm not being sarcastic. Find a way to make people drawn to you and keep at it. Forget the dark triad shit. That will become your modus operandi without thinking about it once you have something larger than women to give a shit about and protect
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:05 AM
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And what if you want to change for yourself? Wouldn't it be better to accept that people may fall out of love with you and do whatever you want?
/r/seduction16/12/19 05:53 PM
1

I don't. Sex is pretty high on my list as it is for other men as well. And if you're going to say you don't agree, I'd like to hear why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:50 AM
1

What do you suggest is the point of male existence then? If you make such a statement it would be nice to hear an alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 12:21 AM
1

Depends on your interests. You could try solving one of the unsolved millenium math problems. You could try to become the next Elon Musk. You could catalog all species of cacti on earth. You could try to invent teleportation. These things are difficult, rewarding and they serve the humanity. But simply trying to climb the social hierachy may be good enough of a goal for most people. As long as you move forward in life towards somehing greater than vegging out on the couch that is a good thing
/r/askTRP03/12/19 09:32 PM
1

If you're worried about losimg your LTR then you simply don't have enough things going on in your life. You should be making her dread at every step instead getting your own ass dreaded silly boy
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:53 PM
1

Chances are you won't find it. Instead you create distractions to stop you thinking about it. Some get married and have kids. That's a good one because it keeps you distracted for at least about 20 years but you lose your sense of self and live thru other people now. You can chase money, women or go save babies in Africa or whatever but every time you complete a short-term, measurable goal you'll be asking yourself the same questions. What now? My suggestion is to set for yourself one 'impossibl…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 02:43 PM
1

The struggle is essential to your future development. Grit your teeth and press on.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 05:30 AM
4

Sounds like you don't give her much comfort. Why call her your gf then? At least you found out what she's capable of though
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:58 PM
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This is not an unpopular opinion. It's a rational, adult perspective. This sub just happens to be dominated by the younger demographic focused on sex
/r/askTRP13/11/19 09:29 PM
1

The only ones to resent here are the parents
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:27 PM
1

You always had to be an above average individual to get the most desirble partner. That hasn't changed. The changing of the trends that affect mostly the bottom of the dating pyramid doesn't concern me because that's not where I aim to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:30 PM
1

What did you plan on doing in the club before she agreed to come? Why didn't you do it? Who goes to a club to have conversations?
/r/askTRP01/11/19 03:10 PM
1

Social life starts getting a bit more interesting once you have a bit of money and independence. Still you want a balance of both before you get there though. Stay out of relationships and learn to say no to stuff when you need to study. It's doable
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:34 AM
1

It's not ridiculous. Otherwise expecting attraction/sparks to build up after several dates is too. Everybody is allowed to have expectations. If you're unsure about a guy after three dates you're wasting his time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:34 PM
1

Why does it bother you? Chances are your looks are average like the other 80% of us. I mean, if you think you're good looking and it's an insecurity of yours then good luck managing it. But you'd be better off getting that weight off your shoulders in my opinion
/r/askTRP28/10/19 10:42 PM
3

Play it cool till you find another job. Fuck her every once in a while to give her a false sense hope and up your dread game. Now is not the time to play the beta game. You need to go into alpha overdrive mode hard until she can't keep up and moves on
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:54 AM
2

Slow down and take a deep breath. This is an opportunity to make positive changes in your life. You probably think you won't be able to move on until you're with someone new. That's not true. Relax. Let life take you in a new direction. Things happen when you least expect them
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:56 AM
3

I'm not sure you have the correct definition of a slut. I wouldn't say that giving it up "too soon" is necessarily indicative of a slut. Sluts go for quantity without much regard for the quality of the guy they're willing to bang
/r/askTRP21/10/19 04:04 AM
4

AKA, reveal your weaknesses or tell people who stupid you are... Brilliant idea..
/r/askTRP08/10/19 03:55 PM
1

I'm having trouble relating to this. Upon reflecting upon my own attitides and behaviors, I come to a conclusion that my outer game is an expression of my inner game. That is, my philosophy and my frame dictate the attitudes and the behaviors that I display in real world interactions. But I may have misunderstood something
/r/seduction02/10/19 03:12 AM
3

You sure inner and outer game are separate things?
/r/seduction02/10/19 02:45 AM
1

You said nothing about what you're passionate about. You gotta find something that you feel more strongly about than your job or hobbies or any other other element of your routine. It doesn't have to be anything complicated really
/r/askTRP29/09/19 01:30 PM
2

Who says we want validation? For some the physical release is the main attraction of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:06 PM
3

Right now. And it's only gonna get better. I'm in control of my destiny.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 06:35 PM
1

I agree that in general tattoos look stupid on women. Even if all other points that you make like flawed desicion-making were unverifiable, it still stands that a tatooed woman is less attractive to me than the same non-tatooed woman. And at the end of the day, I'm not looking to get with unattractive women. YMMV
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:25 PM
3

Alt-right or mgtow? This must be a shitpost
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:49 PM
1

Don't be 'good' in the nice guy sense. Be selfish and stick to your principles. Don't give too much (of your time, energy, resources, rtc) but when you do give, give freely without strings attached
/r/askTRP15/09/19 10:47 PM
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"Economically attractive men." Bend over boys 😂
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 03:39 AM
1

I think most of us shared a similar vision of life at some point. But alas, we are here now
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:48 PM
1

"And I'm glad you don't have a mustache"
/r/askTRP13/09/19 05:29 PM
3

You should be looking for meaning in other things. Non-romantic friendships, shared pursuits with like minded people, developing your talents, philanthropic work, etc. Looking for meaning through a romantic relationship that is a fragile, transactional relation subject to whims and volatile forces is not a good idea. A romantic relationship is better treated as an externality to your life, not a building block of it.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:39 PM
6

Sure you can open up to women. Just not those you sleep or live with or their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:36 AM
5

That's not what I said. I said John should cut ties with the family if he has to and move on. Yes, he got cucked. The rest of the family seems to want to have contact with the baby. So, he's stuck in the middle of this shit instead of moving on three freaking years after the fact. You believe this is the red pill way of handling things??
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 02:52 AM
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I'm surprised at the amount of blue pill attitudes in this thread. The red pill John picks himself up and gets onto new and better chicks instead of holding the rest of the family in guilt over wanting to reconcile with the asshole. They're a family afterall. The red pill John may go as far as cutting ties with all family members who attempt to reconcile with the asshole. But the blue pill John would rather cause drama. The best thing for the blue pill John would be to move on, with or without t…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 10:13 PM
2

Three eggs, chicken sausage, vegetables, sometimes bread, sometimes cheese, coffee
/r/askTRP01/09/19 04:52 PM
2

It was a mistake to not engage in some light-hearted negotiation. Your buddy could have gotten more than $5 out of this. That's where the frame was lost. Imagine someone paying you to get to a girl. That is some good self amog-ing.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:11 PM
1

Don't forget Muhammad and Dimitri
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:20 PM
7

I wouldn't apply the concept of outcome independence to everything in your life. That's a little strange. Rather accept that you're going to struggle at something. Choose that something carefully and struggle for it. Unless you're born into wealth you won't get anything without working for it. Chicks are easy to be a little indifferent about because they're abundant.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:14 PM
0

It's ok state your needs. I think I'd go about it differently though. Preferably you initiate the sex and let her talk about the other bullshit
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:43 PM
2

Say whatever you need to say as long it doesn't hurt you in the long run. I won't judge a man who talks his way into sex. If you plan on never seeing the girl again, who cares. If it's the opposite you're gonna want to speak from your values
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 10:15 PM
1

I think you're complaining about the community, ie. the practitioners, not the core theory of the red pill itself which remains unchanged. Sure, the content of the main sub changes as the population changes and diversifies. About all you can do is familiarize yourself with the sidebar and participate in the discussions.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 05:47 PM
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It's not flawed logic. The OP was making out with a random chick. No where does he say she was his girlfriend. There was no emotional investment as far as I can tell. No bond between them. We're not talking about a woman he has kids with. This literally sounds like a casual hookup situation. What exactly do you want to fight for? Maybe we're talking about different scenarios
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:06 PM
1

This would only work if it's clear that you're being sarcastic and the other guy goes along with it and you make him look silly. Otherwise it's weird
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:59 PM
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"Man up" :D If a woman is attracted and loyal to you, she will tell the other guy off herself. If she doesn't, there's a reason, and fighting over her is stupid. At that point you start evaluating your other options.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:54 PM
2

The best way to punish a cheater is to erase them from your life
/r/askTRP07/08/19 06:28 PM
1

Here's a bit of practical advice for the people who got all amped up after reading this and are about to step out into the real world and start swinging clubs and bashing heads. Avoid fucking fighting. Out of all the possible outcomes only a few really benefit you even if you win. But if you have no other option than to defend yourself then I guess it's a moot point, might as well smile for the camera
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 02:49 AM
4

You have to realize that you won't just be accepted into any circle of adults without bringing some of value to it. First and foremost you need to show interest in the people. Secondly, you need to learn what kind of activities they're into and initiate. Your best bet though is to start your own circle. You still follow the same two rules. That is until you establish yourself as one of the leaders. Then you can step back a little. People want to be led and they will follow when it feels right. E…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:20 AM
7

You got laid. Sounds like a net positive gain. What else were you trying to achieve? And why do you care whether or not they like you based on something as trivial as your accent?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 11:06 PM
1

I'd have sincerely chuckled at those last comments. She really got to you, Mr. "I mantained my frame" haha
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:16 AM
1

Both are vapid fucks. They are a reflection of our culture though. How sad are we to put money in their pockets by streaming their stupid shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:52 PM
8

Yo, it doesn't really matter whether she's joking or not. The medium is the message. You can tell she's got him by the balls and this dude will play along with anything she does because he has no fucking balls. You can read their whole dynamic from the body language, tone of voice, etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 04:27 PM
5

I'm an average looking guy and I have gotten hundredes of matches on dating apps. These are my tinder pictures right now: Main=me sitting Turkish style on a trashed reclinder on a sidewalk in SF, 2=smiling closeup selfie in afternoon sun 3=closeup of my smirking face in a winter hat outside in winter, 4=full body, facing away from camera on beach at sunset against purple sky, 5=me kissing a soccer ball inside an indoor soccer place, 6=me posing with friends at skating rink, 7= black and white se…
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:41 PM
1

Buhahhaha, well, I don't know anything about that, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 12:26 AM
1

I have a facial recognition feature in my brain. Where is the outrage? AI facial recognition automatizes what we've been able to do for millenia, there is literally no new concept here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 07:12 PM
2

You forgot to tell him to wear head protection
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:13 AM
1

I can't image the typical man wanting to deal with kids and house duties at home so for women to take charge in this area is not really a shocking surprise. But that doesn't make the woman the head of the household. Unless the guy doesn't contribute in other areas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 11:58 AM
2

I have seen this same exact reply posted on reddit before. So bizzare
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 03:20 AM
2

Good looks are shaped and carried through by the evolutionary process. They can't be faked and thus have more value than any non-natural trait and women know it on a primal level
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 03:35 PM
6

The "make it up to me" sex part is something you could pull off with someone you've already had sex with it, after attraction is established. Based on what you told us, she had little attraction for you at this stage so your move was a little uncalibrated if you ask me, a little desperate. She was not into hanging out and you certainly didn't change her mind
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:12 PM
11

There are men who are not in TRP who also exhibit the same behaviors. And those are the guys women chase after..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:56 PM
2

I'm 17 cups of coffee tall
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:39 AM
3

When such small amounts of cash bring about such unproportionately high amounts of turmoil in to your life, you need to rethink your life choices Clean up, go back to school and get you an associate's degree, a cozy store manager job in retail and become self-reliant
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:14 AM
2

What women want is pretty irrelevant to an alpha man. But for the average men, this is useful information
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 01:47 PM
2

Once you find your purpose in life, one that doesn't involve women, you'll feel otherwise. Shit feels pointless because your life is pointless because that's what you've made it
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 01:33 AM
4

It's your blue pill conditioning telling you that good women are modest and non-sexual creatures. Kill that shit before it's too late
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:54 PM
6

To the outsiders, the red pill may appear "anti-woman". Who are the ones always trying to put women in shackles to prevent them from fullfilling their potential? I say this with sarcasm obviously but the feminists would have you believe it's the evil conservatives.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 03:13 PM
2

I mean, I like your response man but it is what you did afterwards that matters way more. I hope you didn't start apologizing profusely and give in to her tantrums
/r/askTRP14/02/19 03:13 PM
1

You gotta set your boundaries and stick to them hard or she will run all over you
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:11 PM
1

Nah. Accumulating wealth, status, and everything else that women are attracted to takes time. A man who's on an upward trajectory at 25, will have accumulated more of those things by the time he's 35 all else being equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:17 PM
2

You're right, thanks
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/19 03:33 AM
1

You don't "get an awesome social life" my friend. It doesn't just happen. You create it yourself.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:30 PM
1

Acting in self-interest is a very natural impulse. We are just taught to act against our self-interest, to put the well-being of the society above our own as that is a more "virtuous" thing to do. Some do and some don't. We can see pretty clearly who is better off in this arrangement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 01:20 AM
3

Wtf should I say anything even if I don't agree? The "silence" has become weponized by those pushing an agenda. Someone says something stupid against women, if you don't speak up you're "part of the problem" If you don't speak out against "insert race x" supremacy, you're a X supremacist. If you don't speak up against Trump, you're a Trump supporter. If I say jump and you don't jump, you are against me. No, I'm not your circus monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:51 PM
2

Sheryl Sandberg
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:39 PM
1

"Do you want to be my next ugly girl?" Cocky and funny is probably the best response to bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:40 AM
1

Drink lots of water. It'll hydrate you, flush out the junk and help you think clearly. Then start working on changing your attitude, you need a new perspective
/r/askTRP23/12/18 12:49 AM
2

Sure you are. But when you approach, you lose a bit of power because you openly communicate that the other person has something you want. You can achieve the same end result (sex) obviously but the dynamics are different. In terms of sexual dynamics, what is a higher state than the one in which you're so desirable that you get approached? Surely there is no better position to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:09 PM
1

Take small/manageable incremental steps towards your goal every day. They will add up over time. For example, say you want to read a book in X amount of time. Work out the number of pages to read per day and commit to doing it. Break everything down into small/manageable chunks and don't obsess with tracking progress every day.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 08:57 PM
1

You took that comment quite literally, bud. You could be a 60 yo in-shape, charismatic regional manager of a small paper company in Small Town, PA and still have your pick of hot chicks... facepalm
/r/askTRP15/12/18 08:09 PM
2

60 is not too late. You just gotta take care of yourself and have a bit of status. Look at George Clooney for example
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:55 PM
1

I use Instagram and no other social media platform. I use Instagram to display my hobbyist photography, not to give chicks validation. I don't even look at chicks on Instagram. The only times I'm on the app is when I post. ​ I know most of you don't see past the bullshit but Instagram is a decent way to share visual art images with like-minded individuals thanks to the hash-tag mechanism and large user base. Instagram is my easily accessible, public-facing digital portfolio. ​ Am I going to get …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 11:12 PM
2

If you're a guy, stop propagating the feminist myth of toxic masculity, you pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 01:10 AM
2

Are you trying to get laid or recruit for your local book club? Get rid of the cat and bicycle shots. That's goofy shit. You need to look like you can lift a barrel of coal or two and pound a chick into next week
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:50 PM
1

Who are they suppoused to take advice from? Obviously only people in successful relationships. And what behaviors do you find in those people who are in successful relationships? The behaviors described by the red pill..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 08:12 PM
6

I wouldn't have signed the divorce papers. Not without her aknowledging her infidelity and making her pay YOU instead. OP happily gave up his bargaining power thinking he was doing the right thing.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:07 PM
-2

I have taken the red pill, and I find these topics interesting but I always wonder why we need to question women's choices? We know they do stuff but why is it so important to drill down on why they do it? If I'm rejected by a woman I don't go into hamster mode and make up fantasies about how she's chosen another Chad over me, etc. I don't care. I don't give a shit about those women. Do we get some sort of satisfaction from "proving" some women that they're bitches?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 03:55 PM
0

Impossible to draw any conclusions from your post. It's not a counter-example to OP's claim. Your man obviously had some status, at least in your eyes, to make you stick by him while money was tight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 06:38 PM
24

Wtf is this, high school?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:03 PM
3

You did everything well right up to the point when she left. Then you should have gone back to whatever you were doing instead of engaging in high school drama bs
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:48 PM
7

I have instagram because I like to photograph when I travel. I have very few followers. I do not care. I have not used and will not use it as tool to pick up women. I know some women peep me on there from time to time but I do not care. If you're a photographer and you like to share, Instagram is the place to be, do your thing and don't pay attention to "hoes"
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 03:31 AM
7

If it's consensual sex, how exactly is it using a woman? She either wants it or she doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 12:27 AM
24

Go to a meetup volleyball game OR go the local bar/burger joint OR go to starbucks to read books/do school work OR listen to podcasts OR go watch an indie movie OR go for a walk OR plan my next vacation OR go to gym OR go to sleep early. No shortage of options
/r/askTRP17/11/18 05:20 AM
2

As soon as Chad comes along, this is gonna become an open relationship on both sides. So lower your expectations before you get heartbroken by this chick..
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:35 PM
1

Being vulnerable is akin to risking something in order to gain something else. Being needy is just wanting something, for example out of greediness or need for validating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 02:28 AM
13

You can be a chamelon and adapt your state to the environment/situation you're in (leave your frame to enter another) Or you can be a COG (center of gravity) and impose your state on the environment/situation (pull others into your frame) The TRP way is to be a COG. So, in your bar scenario, if you're an introvert, maintain your introvert state/energy. If you're a fucking badass rockstar maintain that state. Whatever you are - maintain your state. Repeat that a million times. It is better to hav…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 12:55 AM
1

Bro, women on Tinder match with guys they have no intention of fucking. They blow farts into the wind to pass time before the guy they want sweeps them up. Don't read much into the conversations and the ghosting. If you're a normal dude, 1/100 of girls will be down to meet with you. Keep gaming with outcome indifference
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:02 AM
1

One noticed this was a troll post? I mean, it's a good, well thought out troll post. Those are characteristics of an attractive man. I read it with tongue in cheek all the way through. Lighten up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:49 PM
8

Brah, I know some others are gonna applaud your response but I think it was a weak ass come back. You should have said something along the lines "how do you like my tiny hands when they pin you back against the wall before I stick my big Johnson in you?" Why do you have to show how fucking butt hurt you are instead? How much did her comment hurt you anyway? Are you that insecure? You totally lost frame and you know it. Best thing to do now is let it blow over
/r/askTRP11/11/18 02:52 AM
10

If you are a man in your 30's, you should be dating women in their 20's. Don't fall in the trap of dating a woman over 30
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 02:28 AM
2

Get busy with your mission. Text her when you take a break in a few days
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:04 AM
2

You said you are not treating those girls as sexual prospects. That's a crucial detail. Alpha males protect those in the group. White knights would do the same thing in hopes of getting pussy
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:05 PM
3

Fuck your 9 to 5. Go after the nightclub/bar thing with 100% effort. People who are miserable at work cannot lead a truly fullfilling life. Think about it, work takes up 50% of your time on this earth. Assume that getting into the new gig is going to be very fucking tough and prepare yourself accordingly, mentaly and physically. Otherwise, what's the point of doing shit half-assed? The whole point of the red pill is that you need to grow a set of balls and go after what you want, hard. But think…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 04:43 PM
3

This is too funny gentlemen. They are destroying themselves from within. This is literally like a parasite killing a naive host who created and nurtured it for the purpose of destroying everything but host itself. Ironic. Bitter-sweet.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 02:06 PM
2

How about you just show genuine interest in the other person? Ask them a question, preferably an open-ended one.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 08:03 PM
5

My mission is to live a virtuous life. To give more than I take. To contribute in whichever way I can to causes that align with my values. I don't have a specific goal. I'm not trying to become a rockstar musician or a NASA scientist or a CEO. If I do become those things, fine, but if I don't, I won't give a fuck. I don't need to go save babies in Africa to feel good about myself. I may go save babies in Africa one day when I know I can genouinely help. Until then I'm here, improving myself, bui…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:11 PM
1

"Ok" and then retract the dinner invite, politely of course.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 02:41 AM
1

Wanting to avoid conflict if there are other ways to achieve your goal without violating your principles is optimization, smart thinking. It's neither alpha nor beta. There's no glory in getting to the finish line without a limb if you can get there in one piece. Jesus, you guys way overthinking this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 03:10 AM
5

The only times when I think about competing with other men over anything are when I'm out on the soccer field. That is my own little personal fight club. But there are no women there. On the other hand, when I interact with women, I don't think about competing with other men, I don't think about other men at all period. I do not focus on competing with other men over women at all. They are all in separate worlds in my mind. I would like to hear one good argument as to why other men should even e…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 04:37 PM
1

Let's refrain from attacking the poster and discuss the content
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 12:36 AM
1

Don't read too much into. It's not worth it. Women will never tell you directly when their interest shifts to another man
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:38 AM
1

Man whore? Nah, I'm James Bond. Always agree and amplify
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:26 AM
12

I fucking lost it at "the last chopper out of 'Nam" 😂
/r/TheRedPill08/10/18 04:54 AM
1

I think you got TRP confused with the national socialist party there buddy
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:02 PM
8

I am on my phone, on the "reddit is fun" app and I can get on the sub without problems
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:44 AM
3

Did you just generalize all TRP men as weak, false and incompetent? 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:25 AM
1

Attractive in what way? If you're talking about sexual attraction then no, that is purely based on looks and physical features. I do respect anyone who is brave and courageous though. If it's a woman and I'm looking at it from an LTR persective then those are nice qualities to have for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 10:51 PM
13

You motherfuckers made me cry at work..
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:47 PM
26

My favorite point made in this comment -> give more than you take.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 03:13 PM
6

Interesting read. Different from my own theory which is much simpler, ie. assume that attraction exists until proven otherwise and lead the interaction towards your goal.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 11:43 PM
1

Sorry, sexual attraction and social status are not correlated and no matter how you spin it you cannot make them be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 05:37 PM
5

Alpha and beta are easier explained in terms of power dynamics in relationships. Consider just two people. The one who exerts more power over the other is higher in the "contextual" hierchary. There's a social component of power, there's another component for example in a work setting. Total power is a sum of components. Total power determines your standing in comparison to the other person or a whole group. Alpha is not about being the loudest in a group. Loudness is a manifestation of power. I…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 05:06 PM
1

Then it applies to your two people. The figure 5 applies when you have 5 or more people you spend time with because there's a cap on how much informstion we csn reall process. At least that's the theory.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:25 PM
1

That is not something to be upset about. Attraction is chemical and biological in nature. When you don't possess the desirable physical features it's difficult to expect to be attractive on that level
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 05:19 AM
1

" And that's how I knew she wasn't interested in fucking and hit the next chick right away. " Sounds like you failed a shit test, hard
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 01:04 PM
3

"U up?"
/r/askTRP30/06/18 02:13 AM
0

Not all men are disposable. Otherwise the civilization would collapse. About 80% are though. Every man should srtrive to become one of the indisposable ones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 04:48 PM
1

Good read. Nobody has the right to make you feel as though you are less of a person just because you don't tower over someone else. In a free society people should be able to express their opinions. YOU have the right to not give a shit. You have the choice to get hurt over someone's opinion or not. This is about YOU not THEM. Your message needs to be consistent.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 01:16 PM
2

Oh god, don't try and assign other people "social" value. Just don't fucking do it especially if it makes you feel inferior. Instead think - what do I bring to the interaction? Hopefully, the answer is not nothing. Maybe you're a funny guy. Maybe you know the periodic table like the back of your hand. Bring some value to the interaction. By being insecure you'll suck value out of the interaction. Don't do that. That's what betas do.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 10:19 PM
7

A far deeper red pill truth is the fact that you need some kind of bare minimum of food, particularly protein, and water to survive. Please explain how that is a subjective concept.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:11 PM
1

I'm with you on this. Like I said, everyone should navigate these situations using their own values and principles as their compass. I think you handled this well by analyzing the dynamics of the situation first
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 10:39 PM
1

This is a difficult subject. On one hand, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". On the other hand, you can ask yourself whether you owe anyone anything and do you turn down a woman that is into you because of it? I think that is up to the individual to decide. If I'm on the receiving end of this action, I could easily justify either of the outcomes to myself. One way to frame this is - hey, we're bros and I respect your choice to leave my girl alone. My default RP framing would be…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 08:41 PM
3

By the complementary virtue of polyamory a man can decrease his onetis by simply spinning multiple plates.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 03:39 AM
24

I recently reread Rollo's book, The Rational Male, where he states, if you were to have one asset out of looks, game, wealth. Preferably you should have game. Don't get me wrong, I definitely agree. I have seen ugly mother fuckers get some hot girls. Although it comes at a cost, those guys must change their behaviors and personality so much, I’ve seen it time and time again. I disagree with part of that statement. Do not change your personality. Let's say you like to pretend to be a rockstar sin…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 02:47 PM
2

If you want to be with this woman, that's a good thing. But remember - she's happy now, in this very moment. Tomorrow everything could change. Enjoy the moment. If you want this to last, you're gonna have to put work in every single day. The game never stops
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:27 AM
1

Pretty much anything will work if you are attractive enough. Or are we discussing something else here
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:28 AM
1

The Red Pill is a collection of knowledge (about women). Facts, if you want to call them that, or propositions if you want to be more careful. Not conclusions. Conclusions are made by people who acquire the knowledge. The RP is not about knowing strategies or gaming. The RP and the Game are two different things. The RP is strictly knowledge. So, the premise that the RP has a beta mindset or any mindset at all is false. A person can game women with a red pill mindset. Or they can game with a blue…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 06:47 PM
1

The RP is a toolbox. If mating is of interest to you (if you're a man, it likely is) then RP is a straregy you can employ to be successful. There's nothing beta about this. By the way, mating is a primal human instinct. Video games are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 05:32 PM
1

Im sorry bro but the amount of beta in this type of thinking literaly hurts my stomach. If she is in fact sexually attracted to you right now, she won't be soon once she recognizes your inability to take action/betaness. Are you sure you're not mistaking her niceness for attraction?
/r/askTRP19/02/18 04:48 AM
12

Sure we can call Alpha and Beta feminime ideals. If you plan on never pursuing any sexual relations with women you never have to concern yourself with these terms and their meanings. The problem arises when you do want to fuck women but fail to acknowledge the existance of the game. And it's a women's game make no mistake about it. The Alpha is your tool to use in order to get what you want out of the game.
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