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Yeah. As a man, if what op says is true then that means we are dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:27 PM
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I’ve never heard of conservative women being described so perfectly. I dated one and it took me too long to realize I was being abused
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:51 PM
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Goddamn I’ve never heard of conservative women being described so perfectly. I dated one and it took me too long to realize I was being abused
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:51 PM
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I personally hold myself to that standard and would therefore accept criticism for falling short of it; However different men are different and some don’t want to be thought of as protectors by society
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:44 PM
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Thin? My lady you need to come to the south? We like them rubenesque down here. Anyway, my point is men have highly variable taste and women of all types have found men that would die about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:53 PM
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Concede what? Why are you holding this individual guilty for the crime of also being a woman? This shit makes men look insane
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:45 PM
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This isn’t true. I am good friends with my casual sex partners and a large portion of the time we spend together is simply enjoying one another’s company. You should just pick better guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:50 PM
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No TERFs are women who disagree with Trans women having equal rights and being treated fairly. I wouldn’t date a woman with a penis but that doesn’t make them any less of a woman in how I treat them socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:42 PM
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I don’t. Those guys are nerds. Get your money queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:05 PM
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Yeah. Frankly a lot of redpill incel types just shoot them selves in the foot by being awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:32 AM
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I find women generally more fun to hang out with. Most of my friends are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:28 PM
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Same, the dudes in ppd are fucking weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:21 PM
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I agree that’s not love, however I think finding someone for whom they are truly singular and without them you would have lost something irreplaceable, can lead to toxic feelings of ownership. I think there is a place where you can love someone and still recognize that there are qualities they have that might not be ideal or perfect. I think what has helped me in the past is loving someone truly for who they are, including their inadequacies and foibles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:17 PM
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I think the kind of love you are describing is actually very rare. A lot of the love in my life I get from family and friends but I don’t really expect my romantic partners to be everything for me. I think expecting that from anyone is a set up for failure. think that kind of romantic love is also fleeting. Long term relationships are full of choices and compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:28 PM
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Just because men might use different terminology doesn’t mean that they do not demonstrate the same behavior or are seeking to feel better about said behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:00 PM
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It’s suggesting that he is insecure because this is a trait often associated with men who are short because men have to live up to masculinity which values height. I’m sorry I’m more worried about Nazis in control of the federal government than taking a short joke at Stephen millers expense personally. Why is left wing male advocate subreddit mainly critical of the left while ignoring the right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/25 09:36 PM
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He has a short spirit/soul. I’m short and I didn’t even blink at this and loled. Being offended is crazy work.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/25 06:06 PM
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Trumps a huge pussy ass bitch. A coward and a bully As a masculine man who values masculine traits, he doesn’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:08 PM
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I think you are right in a lot of cases but I do think there are men out there who genuinely want a relationship and not just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:51 PM
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I do think that ugly women have an easier time dating for the purpose of finding a committed relationship than ugly men but both have a harder time than their attractive peers. It’s not anybodies fault and no reason to resent women as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:49 PM
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This is a huge straw man. You are suggesting we believe in a just world fallacy. Sometimes terrible people are attractive and have an easy time getting laid. Just how like most of us guys would fuck a chick with terrible morals if she were hot enough. Human beings both men and women are vain and visual creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:36 PM
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If you won’t, some other guy will.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:34 PM
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/threadover You figured it out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:53 PM
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“Im not super attracted to her/him but she/he is decent enough looking and she/he is kind to me. We generally enjoy our time together and get along.” an ok relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:14 PM
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I’ve gotten compliments from gay men and I find them meaningful existing as a straight man who rarely gets complimented. That being said I wouldn’t be motivated to swipe on Grindr and so I wouldn’t use the app just for compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:56 PM
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I will say, though I wouldn’t make any prescriptive statements based on this, all of my relationships with bisexual women were less toxic than straight ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 11:38 PM
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I love arguing with people. It’s a form of entertainment for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:29 PM
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Great. Have a great evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:35 AM
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If I was celibate, I could be happy. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:29 AM
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Whoever said anything about being happy? That’s like saying to someone who said he really likes macaroni and cheese that if they aren’t presently eating it they aren’t happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:23 AM
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Lol Well now you are just playing dumb, obviously the assertion with your suggestion that I make parts of my life more meaningful is that they presently are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:20 AM
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How do you know other aspects of my life are not meaningful?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:08 AM
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Being extremely horny does not equal obsession. You haven’t justified that belief beyond simply stating it. I think you have a unique issue with sexuality that is obsessive based on your reaction to that statement and the assumptions it lead you to make. I think these exist because you associate sexuality and a desire with sex with masculinity and have a very particular image in your head as to what that looks like and how it manifest. This is your ingrained sexism that I mentioned earlier. I re…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:05 AM
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shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:56 PM
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Wrong about what exactly? So far you’ve conceded that men and women both get horny. The rest is just unwarranted assumptions about me that you couldn’t possibly no based on a single Reddit post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:54 PM
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Did you block me and then unlock me. I couldn’t see your post a moment ago. If so you are definitely mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:52 PM
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If anything, I’m just being normal Your rage at the sheer existence of horny people is…troubling. Like I’m sorry we are horny. Do you feel better now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:59 PM
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So are some women and I have been fortunate enough to know a few :) Anyway you seem excessively angry and mean. However you relieve stress you might want to engage in that activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:58 PM
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So are some women and I have been fortunate enough to know a few :) Anyway you seem excessively angry and mean. However you relieve stress you might want to engage in that activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:58 PM
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I think you took that post maybe a little bit too seriously and have made a million assumptions off of it about me and you are now shadowboxing ghost who are not me and exist only in your mind. Women get horny. Sometimes even hornier than me lol I know you might not and that’s ok; but you shouldn’t be cruel to people for feeling that way as long as they aren’t making it other peoples problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:52 PM
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Do you think being horny = thinking about sex all the time? Or could it mean something else? Also why do you think you can judge what is on someone’s mind 24/7 off of a single post in a ppl debate thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:49 PM
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You don’t know me. Talking about my sex obsession isn’t even possible objectively because as far as you know it doesn’t exist, so we must be discussing a larger societal issues. It is absolutely sexist to suggest that women do not experience horniness in equal measure to me or any man because you are suggesting an elemental difference between the sexes. Telling me to grow up isn’t going to bring you closer to the introspection required to see your own engrained sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:43 PM
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Enjoying and desiring something does not make one obsessed. being a hornball might be unhealthy but so would experiencing *no sexual desire whatsoever* Actually no, let me walk something back. I think Ace and aromatic people are valid but I think its equally problematic to criticize people for having sexual desire as it is for criticizing people for not having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:36 PM
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The idea that women and men are not equal within society and are capable of having the same human foibles is sexist because it suggest that there is a fundamental difference in the character of individuals based purely on their sex. How about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:32 PM
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I don’t think anyone is trying to convince you to use pornography. I certainly haven’t. My point is that even if there is a difference in average consumption; women do consume a lot of porn. I think there is a tendency in PPD to classify men and all of their behaviors as being degenerate in a way that is sex shaming. I also find it strange that you brought up white women in particular. I think a lot of the conservative red pill women tend to mask other forms of bigotry like racism with more soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:26 PM
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This is sexist definitionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:18 PM
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This seems to be making a lot of unwarranted assumptions about a person you’ve never met. Also I don’t know that it’s healthy or natural to be never horny. Is that part of a condition that you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:17 PM
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Doesn’t that seem to be a goal post move? I think going to a strip club or paying for an only fans subscription is different. I’ve only ever gone to a strip club because my bi-girlfriend took me and she was certainly the most interested out of the two of us. Women also watch pornography. It’s not a strictly male sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:14 PM
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That’s incredibly unbelievable. Do you have a source for any of these?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:59 PM
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What percentage of American men attend strip clubs or have an only fans subscription? Neither of these things are appealing to me, as a traditionally masculine man and I’d much prefer a relationship with a woman in my “league”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:43 PM
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I am sad for you. My friends who are women have been stalwart in their support for me emotionally throughout my adulthood. Not that my male friends haven’t been there for me but I usually turn to a woman when I want to talk about sensitive shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:09 PM
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I took some time to think about this and I recognized that I do not know where you live and under what context that you live. So I will say that I’m sorry you have to deal with monstrous men and it’s up to men who aren’t monstrous to hold them accountable. I will leave it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:03 PM
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I am aware of all those things. However, their existence does not actually support your premise. The existence of Rich people at epsteins island, Sex trafficking across the middle east and india, gangrapes in africa does not prove your position that MOST men in progressive environments engage in lesser behaviors that stem from the same misogyny. It doesn't mean these things aren't problems. They are of the utmost importance. However, your premise that it makes the average man, like myself, a sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:16 AM
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What makes you think "Most" is Bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:19 PM
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I believe that men and women are generally the same and equal. I think anything else is fundamentally sexist and overly broad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:24 PM
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I feel that this has diminishing returns and is…insufficient compared to actual intimacy. But yes this sort of explains the masturbation habits of your average single male.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:00 PM
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I don’t know if this is strictly true in all cases but I don’t think men should think of sex toys as competition but as partners
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:51 PM
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Must be nice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:50 PM
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Hot take: racial preferences are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:23 PM
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Yeah we don’t enjoy it either but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:12 PM
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I hope this isn’t inappropriate and I want to preface that we all have self control. However I am a man. One reason I know no matter how bad it gets I’ll never stop dating is because I am extremely horny, all the time. I assume women have this issue as well. How do you deal with that aspect of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:08 PM
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Wait. I didn’t say “all men”. Even in. My original statement I specified that these behaviors do exist. I agree men do participate in the worst things possible but I don’t think most men do. I think at least in more progressive and liberal societies “most” men don’t participate in lesser evils such as sexist gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:39 AM
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Yes. Even taking those very real things into account, I am comfortable saying that most men, at least men in first world countries don’t engage in that behavior. Those are all criminal behaviors which most people do not engage in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:31 AM
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I think that a lot of men who dislike women are taking glee in the app users being doxxed. This is wrong. That being said, I have not ever engaged in denigrating a woman sexually or in regards to her appearance in conversation and I don’t know any men who would; though I’m sure they exist. I don’t think most men as a group regularly engage in this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:57 AM
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Where are you getting this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:49 PM
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Lol this is wildly sexist and ironically misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:41 PM
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Lol thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:20 AM
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As a blue pill guy this is true. As men we have to acknowledge that we are owed nothing and even if we do our best, we may not get it; but you have to do your best to be the best man you can be anyway or failure is certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:05 PM
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I did. Even though we both worked, I wanted to make her life easier and I enjoyed cooking more than she did. I also wanted her to feel comfortable in my home, so I did most of the cleaning too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:27 PM
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I agree with you and I am a feminist who seeks to date other feminist but I’ve never had a date where a woman stopped me from paying for the bill and insisted we go Dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:58 PM
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No one owes anyone anything true, but I still think men and women need to be kinder to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:26 PM
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To be fair, the vast majority of men don’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:20 PM
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I feel like it’s entirely normal to feel sad about not having found the love of your life. I don’t think anybody should get put down for not being ambivalent about it. I don’t think those sort of feelings are a male or female thing but men are the pursuers and as a result they are more likely to feel bad about failing at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:10 PM
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I have never seen this with men but I see ladies unfortunately do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:35 PM
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Ok but how do we know that this is a feminist saying this. I don’t know any feminist that would agree with this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/25 10:23 PM
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Goddamn this sounds miserable, I’m sorry you went through that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/25 09:23 PM
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I feel like when people say “single people who want a relationship are just lonely” it’s low key blaming single people for some personality flaw. No, I’m not lonely, I have wonderful family and friends, I would just also like to be in a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:28 PM
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I would call it racist… But I don’t think they would prefer to encounter anything. If they specified black man, then that would suggest that they would feel safer with a white man. Which is why I think it would be racist. However if the man in the case happened to be black and they picked the bear without specifying the race of the male then that would suggest that those women feel a sense of danger from men. I do not think that they think all men are dangerous, but that for various circumstance…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:20 AM
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I think your issue is that you are taking the “bear” aspect too seriously when I think the other guy is thinking about what it means to most women to say that. I don’t think a woman would prefer the bear or the man but if they had to pick and neither is an option, she might do the feminist male? I could be wrong, as I am not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:16 AM
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I understand the pushback. I don’t disagree with the push back as much as I find the language that the push back uses to be imprecise. Though rarely are short phrases which gain political or social utility filled with the nuance that would avoid most backlash.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:29 AM
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I’m so sorry this is your experience, holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:20 PM
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“We shouldn’t have immigration period” This is why girls don’t like you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:46 PM
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How are we defining love here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:39 PM
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Some women don’t. Not the ones I want tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:38 PM
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Because based on your description a simple system would be blind to context and nuance. Maybe we should improve our immigration system so that people don’t have to cross illegally? I think more of us as a species that we have to make barbaric choices all the time and are unable to find solutions to these problems that do not necessitate cruelty and injustice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:38 PM
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I would not want to live in your society where the judicial system makes quick simplistic decisions for the sake of speed and efficiency. This system would inherently result in more injustice, even more than the current system would. In the example the child is now an adult but America is the only home he has ever known. Sending them to a strange foreign land is cruel and unusual. Yes but the concept of scarcity does not apply evenly in every situation and in every concept. Sometimes there is en…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:13 PM
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I don’t have any data to support my conclusion besides my anecdotal experience. I do think that general fondness is a necessary precursor to sexual desire in most cases, though not in all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:08 PM
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Nah I’m in my 30’s but I was similarly oriented in my politics in my 20’s. I did better with women then because I was in college and was living out in LA but I think that was mostly a circumstantial thing. Do you think you would be more likely or less likely to get along with someone who shares your politics? Would you agree that women tend towards leftism more than conservatism?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:56 PM
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Sure but I’m saying this is a benefit not a penalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:54 PM
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Nah I fundamentally disagree with the idea that it is sufficient for a system to work in most cases but to be unable to handle more complex or nuanced situations. That’s the beauty of our judicial system because cases are dissected by a judge and jury of your peers where circumstance of a particular case can be examined. I don’t think for example that a child ought to be held responsible for the actions of their parents. You seem to suggest they should. I think this disagreement is pretty fundam…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:54 PM
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also I don’t know that I answered your question. To be fair any qualification would necessarily reduce the total but in my case, it tends to remove conservative women from my dating pool. This is positive for two reasons: They are just awful And it leaves the remaining pool to be more likely to produce positive matches
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:48 PM
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Only anecdotal but I do not seem to have the same issues as most red pill men when it comes to dating based on the post in PPD. I don’t complain about leftist women and for the most part my experience with them has been positive. This is likely because my politics align but I also think there is a fundamental flaw in a persons ethics that is necessary to find right wing ideas appealing. That being said not all red pill men are right wingers despite it being called the red pill. Though I would sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:46 PM
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Also hot take, I don’t think conservative men want conservative women either. Conservative men and women are lousy lays and inconsiderate partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:42 PM
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What could I do to prove that to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:41 PM
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Nah, I and most left wingers think that if a undocumented immigrant commits a violent crime then they ought to be deported after serving their sentence. What we disagree on is that a person who came into the country with their parents as a child and has lived here all of their lives should not be treated the same as the aforementioned criminal as their inclusion into the society whether as a permanent resident or citizen would be beneficial to the country. The problem with simple solutions is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:40 PM
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I don’t hide my politics. They don’t reduce my chances at all. I have no interest in dating conservative women. I’ve tried it, it doesn’t work. Why do you, presumably a right wing man want a left wing partner? Left wing women probably don’t want a right wing man because his political prescriptions mostly amount to reducing her role and visibility in society. It’d be like a cow wanting to go eat at McDonald’s instead of chik fil a.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:31 PM
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I mean why do you think right wing men hide their politics on OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:19 PM
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Whether a person ought to be deported depends in my opinion on their individual circumstance. I think there are situations and scenarios where it may be more beneficial to the country both socially and economically to offer paths to citizenships. It just depends on the specific circumstance. I think this shows the biggest difference between right wing thought and left wing thought. The right love simple ideas with little nuance. The left prefer nuanced and complex ideas. I think this reflects a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:18 PM
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Most people who aren’t open borders (which is also a complicated and nuanced idea) are by definition against illegal immigration. Usually where opinions differ is what you do about it. I mean I genuinely believe the things I believe. I think most of conservative or right wing beliefs manifest in men by making them assholes and to women, they tend to come across as thoughtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:12 PM
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I feel like what you are suggesting makes it seem like more of an effort than it is. I am simply not an asshole, ergo, I’ve never had a problem with even extremely radical leftist women distrusting me for being a masculine and in many ways traditional man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:06 PM
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Nah, it’s not even really about not being racist and misogynist as much as it’s about not being an asshole. I don’t think I’ve ever had a woman accuse me of being a misogynist. Saying misogynist things maybe but never of being a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:03 PM
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I love dating those women. They like men just fine if you aren’t a racist or a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:25 PM
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I feel like I’ve met and had relationships with way more women who enjoy those things than I’ve met men in their 20’s who make six figures lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:24 PM
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I’m glad you stood up for yourself. I’m definitely happier in a relationship but I recognize that it can be counter productive to actually getting one to permit or perform bad behaviors to get one or maintain one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:53 PM
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No. It’s putting up with bad behavior in order to have a relationship. I feel happier in a relationship too but the fucked up thing is, I’ve had relationships where I’ve put up with horrible treatment and only after it ended did I realize I was actually miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:38 PM
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While I agree with your interlocutors that this is a very unhealthy mindset, I do think they are adamantly refusing to understand your mindset and where it comes from and how terribly common it is. I have felt what you are feeling but you must recognize that it is irrational. I have gotten laid and plain old companionship from decent and good people simply by being myself. As many times as I’ve had a relationship end and felt like I was never going to find anyone and my luck had run out, it’s ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:16 PM
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Lol I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:19 AM
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This always seemed like kind of useless advice. Just because someone would like to be in a relationship doesn’t mean it’s the center point of their existence. Also I think purposefully not trying to get in a relationship will not make it more likely that one will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:38 PM
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Yeah this is me. Both my male and female friends do all that stuff. It’s strange that this is not everyone’s experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:59 AM
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I don’t know man, I think the neck beard guys wanting the hot super models are seen by society as being more delusional than the 666 woman. I frankly see them as far more delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:25 PM
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This is way too based of a take for a red pill person to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:02 PM
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I think human beings in general can be exceptionally superficial. I think it’s essentialist to state that women do not do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:21 PM
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Nope. This could be a common phenomenon or tendency but it doesn’t mean that generally progressive ideas regarding dating and relationships aren’t helpful or correct. I don’t feel the sort of bitterness or aggravation towards women that I feel is indicative of the red pill. There are many advantages of being a straight man and I am happy I am one. I’m not bitter about these difficulties in dating because they are not a result of any inherent flaw in men or women but because of the atomized natur…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:54 AM
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I'm a blue pill white knight and I agree with the OP. Its just true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:34 PM
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My Bi Best friend tells me the exact same thing. This is why she has mostly dated men recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:26 PM
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I’ve seen my female friends swipe and they don’t read profiles either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:26 PM
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It seemed like you blocked me cus I couldn’t reply to you. I mean people can always lie to you being that concerned about it is a bit neurotic don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:14 AM
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Different men (and women) like different things for example, I like curvier women who do not shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:32 PM
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I think red pill men are pathetic and full of shit but… We are all inside the house they are burning down with their collective rage. No I don’t think we should have state mandated girlfriends or whatever but I do think providing space for socially isolated men to be heard is probably a good thing. I would like these individuals to improve themselves and have a more hopeful outlook on the possibility of meeting someone who loves them for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:24 PM
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Yes. It me. I’m the personality detector. Usually I use conversation and observation as my primary means of doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:35 PM
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That’s fair. I think due to the halo effect it’s easier to be friends with attractive people just like it’s easier to get along with charismatic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:20 PM
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I respect this as your personal stance though I do wish less people felt this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:19 PM
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I mean you could also just date someone who doesn’t cheat on you? I dunno maybe I’m old fashioned
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:17 PM
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I agree but being in this situation or having feelings for a friend (whether they are required or not) doesn’t make you an egotistical brat that lacks empathy who doesn’t care about women’s feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:16 PM
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I feel that this is making a lot of presumptions about what are very unique and individual experiences. Do you think it’s impossible that a friendship can survive and even thrive even after an individual within that friendship suggest to the other that they might be interested in exploring romance? Whether that interest was shared or not? Wouldn’t the answer depend on the individuals and the circumstance? In my opinion it seems like this is perfectly normal. People go through romances that eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:25 AM
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I find most of my female friends attractive and would if I had the opportunity have sex with them (or have had sex with them) This has not compromised the authenticity of my friendship whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:03 AM
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Do you think you could be friends with someone who has crossed that line? I am close friends with women I’ve had sex with who are now married or have boyfriends who are not me. I understand not everyone can be this way but I genuinely do not have that thing in my brain where romantic and platonic love are all that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:02 AM
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I think like just how women often say that women are different and prefer different things, so are men. Some women prefer being friends with someone first and then becoming romantic later. Some women do not. Some men prefer being friends first and develop feelings over time. This isn’t necessarily indicative of having ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:11 AM
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It’s different depending on the woman. I’m the type of man who is friends with mostly women while being attracted to women. For me it’s easy to go from friends to relationship and then back to friends if it doesn’t work out. Not every lady is the same though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:33 PM
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Agreed. Like who are these men you keep meeting who want virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:15 PM
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I guess hypothetically, sure. I think it would need to be improbably sophisticated, no where near where AI is now. But at that point what’s the difference between that and a robot that has achieved sentience?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:51 AM
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I think it would be boring to have an AI sex bot who acquiesces to my every whim and is completely agreeable. I want to be with a human being with their own thoughts, feelings and autonomy who wants to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:21 PM
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Sometimes the convos are interesting here, but this is mostly what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:12 PM
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Also I think that a woman who is the fattest ugliest and smelliest would probably date a slightly less fat, ugly or smelly guy because men generally have lower standards, I say this as a man. I do not blame women generally for the sorry state of dating and it’s generally us men who made it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:23 PM
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True. I cannot complain about being single because I’ve turned down women who would have had me. Unfortunately choosers can’t be beggars.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:32 PM
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I think women are better at being single and maintaining mental health than men, but if I had to guess I think they are probably dating men who are Similar to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:25 PM
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I dunno bro. I’m horny as shit and I don’t think I can just decide not to be. Unfortunately that means I can’t give up dating as much as I don’t enjoy it. That being said I’m not lonely and have many close friendships and am close with my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:04 PM
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A lot of people in my friend group have dated each other and it didn’t work out. Some of them are married and we are all still friends. I don’t think there is often this boundary between platonic and romantic love. I think as long as people respect boundaries a friendship can survive (and thrive) with person having unrequited feelings for another. A person not wanting to be romantic with me doesn’t make me hate them or even reject the qualities that made them a person I’d want to be around in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:47 PM
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But like what if you are married or in a committed relationship, are you suggesting in that condition that an attractive woman could not maintain a friendship with a man who, regardless of whether or not he finds you attractive would not cross that boundary?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:42 PM
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Is this insane sounding to anyone else? I mean both this response and the thing that prompted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:45 PM
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Is it impossible to be platonic friends with someone who objectively you think is sexually attractive. I’m genuine friends with many of my exes and talk to them on a regular basis. As a result I’ve found them attractive. I’m a human being not an animal with no self control. A man can find a woman attractive and still respect them as a person and a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:44 PM
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I…genuinely feel bad for you. My most loyal friends who have quite literally saved my life and have been there for me in my most difficult moments happen to be women. I’m sorry you haven’t met a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:12 PM
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This is so weird. Do you genuinely not have any women in your life who you aren’t fucking that you genuinely care for and like being around?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:02 PM
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All of my female friends are either friends with each other or just friends with a bunch of guys. In fact most of my friends are women (maybe like 60/40) whom I’ve either dated before or had a relationship with or there was never any interest. I swear now that I’m in my 30’s single women do not exist and if they do, I’ve already shot my shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:58 PM
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The ones you mentioned. D&D and paintball. One issue I also have is my D&d group is mostly women but they are either in relationships or just friends. When I do a public or pick up game, it’s rare that a woman will join for imo understandable reasons because men are terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:20 PM
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One thing I’m finding is that in those environments women are often in the extreme minority, which definitely makes me more apprehensive about trying to get an individual woman’s attention at one of these events.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:56 PM
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The place I’ve landed is that Men and Women are basically the same. I think in general it is better to watch what people do rather than what they say. Though even in this you must acknowledge that your own perspective is limited and you cannot sample sufficiently through life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:42 PM
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I don’t think he is suggesting that he is only displaying these traits to get something. He may not be able to be any other way because that’s who he is. It doesn’t mean he could not notice how this has effected his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:32 PM
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Unless you have proof that the government, contrary to what they are saying, are actively involved in combat within these conflicts, I don’t know what to tell you. The idea that the fickle ass ignorant public ought to directly vote on our international alliances might be one of the stupidest ideas I’ve ever heard. I’m good on this conversation bro you got it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:15 AM
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I think the idea that the military ought to be primarily composed of southern white men is a disastrous idea and it’s a good thing that this has changed. A nations military ought to look like it’s nation. We are a diverse nation of immigrants and that’s what the military should look like. Yes all of the things you mentioned are non combat roles and saying these describe “US troops on the ground is deceptive”. How do you negotiate with A. Terrorist and B. An invading army invading a sovereign all…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:48 PM
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Why should the military not try to draw recruits from all parts and societies in our country? How does doing that mean that they want white men to "go away"? Do you understand that US troops in both the case of ISrael and Ukraine aren't on the ground in a combat capacity right? Are you suggesting that we ought to not support our allies? ALso are you suggesting that the President started the conflicts in Ukraine and Israel?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:08 PM
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What role does the president play in who acts in military ads? What conflict did the Biden and Harris actively involve the US military in?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:37 PM
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When did Harris or the Biden Admin shit on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:21 PM
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I mean can you describe what you’ve seen? Maybe if we walk through it we can get an understanding of what exactly you are referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:58 AM
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Imma be real with you chief. I have not seen this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:07 AM
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Rant incoming It’s not even really that masculinity is bad but imo masculinity gets a bad wrap because we’ve conceptualized it as this violent Brutish materialistic thing. For me manliness is about keeping your word and being true to those who are true to you. Masculinity is about Conradery and brotherhood and bravery and diligence. It has nothing to do with how many bitches you have or Ferraris are in your drive way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:58 AM
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But it’s not “boys suck” that’s the message. It’s the idea that you are less of a man if you aren’t tough, strong and brave. The idea that your worth as a man is how much money you have or how many women are interested in you. I mean can you find me some quotes by talkings heads or thought leaders that is “boys suck” without taking it wildly out of context?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:54 AM
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A lot of the things that keep those boys down are the expectations from a patriarchal society. They feel they have to live up to certain standards that society puts on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:01 AM
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This is actually reassuring to me because it tells me that men and women truly are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:20 PM
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Being kind and nice recently turned what was a rejection from a date into being a friend with benefits. I’d say it’s worked out great for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:25 PM
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My relationship went the opposite. As time went on I gave more and more and more, I compromised more and more. Then in the end when I was working two jobs, doing all the household chores, cooking every meal, she left me which damn near killed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:56 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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