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| – | If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized?Yeah. As a man, if what op says is true then that means we are dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 03:27 PM |
| 7 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.Goddamn I’ve never heard of conservative women being described so perfectly. I dated one and it took me too long to realize I was being abused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | The phrase "men are afraid of other men" is just a feminist way of calling men bitches or pussies.I personally hold myself to that standard and would therefore accept criticism for falling short of it; However different men are different and some don’t want to be thought of as protectors by society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Men have so it so easyThin? My lady you need to come to the south? We like them rubenesque down here. Anyway, my point is men have highly variable taste and women of all types have found men that would die about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseThis isn’t true. I am good friends with my casual sex partners and a large portion of the time we spend together is simply enjoying one another’s company. You should just pick better guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 03:50 PM |
| -2 | Q4women would you date a trans guy?No TERFs are women who disagree with Trans women having equal rights and being treated fairly. I wouldn’t date a woman with a penis but that doesn’t make them any less of a woman in how I treat them socially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do men feel so negatively towards OnlyFans creators?I don’t. Those guys are nerds. Get your money queen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 05:05 PM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Yeah. Frankly a lot of redpill incel types just shoot them selves in the foot by being awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themI find women generally more fun to hang out with. Most of my friends are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themSame, the dudes in ppd are fucking weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 11:21 PM |
| 4 | If men take what they can get in dating, then why should women bother with relationships?I agree that’s not love, however I think finding someone for whom they are truly singular and without them you would have lost something irreplaceable, can lead to toxic feelings of ownership. I think there is a place where you can love someone and still recognize that there are qualities they have that might not be ideal or perfect. I think what has helped me in the past is loving someone truly for who they are, including their inadequacies and foibles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 07:17 PM |
| 6 | If men take what they can get in dating, then why should women bother with relationships?I think the kind of love you are describing is actually very rare. A lot of the love in my life I get from family and friends but I don’t really expect my romantic partners to be everything for me. I think expecting that from anyone is a set up for failure. think that kind of romantic love is also fleeting. Long term relationships are full of choices and compromise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sexJust because men might use different terminology doesn’t mean that they do not demonstrate the same behavior or are seeking to feel better about said behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 09:00 PM |
| -9 | Left-wing politician body-shaming short menIt’s suggesting that he is insecure because this is a trait often associated with men who are short because men have to live up to masculinity which values height. I’m sorry I’m more worried about Nazis in control of the federal government than taking a short joke at Stephen millers expense personally. Why is left wing male advocate subreddit mainly critical of the left while ignoring the right? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/10/25 09:36 PM |
| -8 | Left-wing politician body-shaming short menHe has a short spirit/soul. I’m short and I didn’t even blink at this and loled. Being offended is crazy work. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/10/25 06:06 PM |
| 0 | If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone?I think you are right in a lot of cases but I do think there are men out there who genuinely want a relationship and not just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:51 PM |
| 13 | If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone?I do think that ugly women have an easier time dating for the purpose of finding a committed relationship than ugly men but both have a harder time than their attractive peers. It’s not anybodies fault and no reason to resent women as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | When people call guys entitled in these debates, a lot of the time it's just the guy wanting it badly and being hurt by that.This is a huge straw man. You are suggesting we believe in a just world fallacy. Sometimes terrible people are attractive and have an easy time getting laid. Just how like most of us guys would fuck a chick with terrible morals if she were hot enough. Human beings both men and women are vain and visual creatures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 04:36 PM |
| 32 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.If you won’t, some other guy will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Women give bad advice because their advice comes from a point of privileged ignorance/threadover You figured it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 01:53 PM |
| 5 | Men and Women need to start settling for the average person“Im not super attracted to her/him but she/he is decent enough looking and she/he is kind to me. We generally enjoy our time together and get along.” an ok relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standardsI’ve gotten compliments from gay men and I find them meaningful existing as a straight man who rarely gets complimented. That being said I wouldn’t be motivated to swipe on Grindr and so I wouldn’t use the app just for compliments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 07:56 PM |
| 2 | (CMV) As a man, pursuing bisexual women is the only serious choice if you're interested in dismantling patriarchy in your relationshipI will say, though I wouldn’t make any prescriptive statements based on this, all of my relationships with bisexual women were less toxic than straight ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Why are you in this sub ? And what make you stay there ?I love arguing with people. It’s a form of entertainment for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 08:29 PM |
| 0 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?Do you think being horny = thinking about sex all the time? Or could it mean something else? Also why do you think you can judge what is on someone’s mind 24/7 off of a single post in a ppl debate thread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?Enjoying and desiring something does not make one obsessed. being a hornball might be unhealthy but so would experiencing *no sexual desire whatsoever* Actually no, let me walk something back. I think Ace and aromatic people are valid but I think its equally problematic to criticize people for having sexual desire as it is for criticizing people for not having it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?The idea that women and men are not equal within society and are capable of having the same human foibles is sexist because it suggest that there is a fundamental difference in the character of individuals based purely on their sex. How about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 10:32 PM |
| 7 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.I don’t think anyone is trying to convince you to use pornography. I certainly haven’t. My point is that even if there is a difference in average consumption; women do consume a lot of porn. I think there is a tendency in PPD to classify men and all of their behaviors as being degenerate in a way that is sex shaming. I also find it strange that you brought up white women in particular. I think a lot of the conservative red pill women tend to mask other forms of bigotry like racism with more soci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?This is sexist definitionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?This seems to be making a lot of unwarranted assumptions about a person you’ve never met. Also I don’t know that it’s healthy or natural to be never horny. Is that part of a condition that you have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 07:17 PM |
| 8 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.Doesn’t that seem to be a goal post move? I think going to a strip club or paying for an only fans subscription is different. I’ve only ever gone to a strip club because my bi-girlfriend took me and she was certainly the most interested out of the two of us. Women also watch pornography. It’s not a strictly male sin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 07:14 PM |
| 31 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.That’s incredibly unbelievable. Do you have a source for any of these? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 06:59 PM |
| 40 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.What percentage of American men attend strip clubs or have an only fans subscription? Neither of these things are appealing to me, as a traditionally masculine man and I’d much prefer a relationship with a woman in my “league” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle itI am sad for you. My friends who are women have been stalwart in their support for me emotionally throughout my adulthood. Not that my male friends haven’t been there for me but I usually turn to a woman when I want to talk about sensitive shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | TEA app is not a big deal, men do it all the time in vanilla spacesI am aware of all those things. However, their existence does not actually support your premise. The existence of Rich people at epsteins island, Sex trafficking across the middle east and india, gangrapes in africa does not prove your position that MOST men in progressive environments engage in lesser behaviors that stem from the same misogyny. It doesn't mean these things aren't problems. They are of the utmost importance. However, your premise that it makes the average man, like myself, a sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | TEA app is not a big deal, men do it all the time in vanilla spacesWhat makes you think "Most" is Bs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:19 PM |
| 0 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?I believe that men and women are generally the same and equal. I think anything else is fundamentally sexist and overly broad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 09:24 PM |
| 7 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?I feel that this has diminishing returns and is…insufficient compared to actual intimacy. But yes this sort of explains the masturbation habits of your average single male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 09:00 PM |
| 6 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?I don’t know if this is strictly true in all cases but I don’t think men should think of sex toys as competition but as partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 08:51 PM |
| 4 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?Must be nice lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Women don't move on faster after a relationship ends. Men are just easier to replace.Hot take: racial preferences are weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:23 PM |
| 4 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?Yeah we don’t enjoy it either but it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:12 PM |
| -3 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?I hope this isn’t inappropriate and I want to preface that we all have self control. However I am a man. One reason I know no matter how bad it gets I’ll never stop dating is because I am extremely horny, all the time. I assume women have this issue as well. How do you deal with that aspect of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:08 PM |
| 3 | TEA app is not a big deal, men do it all the time in vanilla spacesWait. I didn’t say “all men”. Even in. My original statement I specified that these behaviors do exist. I agree men do participate in the worst things possible but I don’t think most men do. I think at least in more progressive and liberal societies “most” men don’t participate in lesser evils such as sexist gossip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 04:39 AM |
| 2 | TEA app is not a big deal, men do it all the time in vanilla spacesYes. Even taking those very real things into account, I am comfortable saying that most men, at least men in first world countries don’t engage in that behavior. Those are all criminal behaviors which most people do not engage in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 04:31 AM |
| 2 | TEA app is not a big deal, men do it all the time in vanilla spacesI think that a lot of men who dislike women are taking glee in the app users being doxxed. This is wrong. That being said, I have not ever engaged in denigrating a woman sexually or in regards to her appearance in conversation and I don’t know any men who would; though I’m sure they exist. I don’t think most men as a group regularly engage in this behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityWhere are you getting this from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 05:49 PM |
| 2 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions.Lol this is wildly sexist and ironically misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 05:41 PM |
| 3 | If the men on here somehow managed to convince all women to lower their standards, (negotiation of attraction) you can’t convince them to genuinely be happy in those relationshipsAs a blue pill guy this is true. As men we have to acknowledge that we are owed nothing and even if we do our best, we may not get it; but you have to do your best to be the best man you can be anyway or failure is certain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 08:05 PM |
| 2 | When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic"I did. Even though we both worked, I wanted to make her life easier and I enjoyed cooking more than she did. I also wanted her to feel comfortable in my home, so I did most of the cleaning too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 06:27 PM |
| 6 | When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic"I agree with you and I am a feminist who seeks to date other feminist but I’ve never had a date where a woman stopped me from paying for the bill and insisted we go Dutch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 08:58 PM |
| – | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseNo one owes anyone anything true, but I still think men and women need to be kinder to one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 08:26 PM |
| – | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseTo be fair, the vast majority of men don’t either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 08:20 PM |
| – | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseI feel like it’s entirely normal to feel sad about not having found the love of your life. I don’t think anybody should get put down for not being ambivalent about it. I don’t think those sort of feelings are a male or female thing but men are the pursuers and as a result they are more likely to feel bad about failing at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 08:10 PM |
| – | How often are men dating conservative extremist or far right wing women while having progressive or leftist values and views themselves?I have never seen this with men but I see ladies unfortunately do it all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | They are not our alliesOk but how do we know that this is a feminist saying this. I don’t know any feminist that would agree with this. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/25 10:23 PM |
| 5 | The "weaponize incompetence" myth.Goddamn this sounds miserable, I’m sorry you went through that | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Arrested development has led to grown adults STILL looking outwardly to others for their loneliness. It’s ENTIRELY down on YOU to fix it.I feel like when people say “single people who want a relationship are just lonely” it’s low key blaming single people for some personality flaw. No, I’m not lonely, I have wonderful family and friends, I would just also like to be in a romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Do you think a lot of your fears about men, might be purpetuated by the entertainment industry?I would call it racist… But I don’t think they would prefer to encounter anything. If they specified black man, then that would suggest that they would feel safer with a white man. Which is why I think it would be racist. However if the man in the case happened to be black and they picked the bear without specifying the race of the male then that would suggest that those women feel a sense of danger from men. I do not think that they think all men are dangerous, but that for various circumstance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"?I understand the pushback. I don’t disagree with the push back as much as I find the language that the push back uses to be imprecise. Though rarely are short phrases which gain political or social utility filled with the nuance that would avoid most backlash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 07:29 AM |
| – | I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here.I’m so sorry this is your experience, holy shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 06:20 PM |
| -1 | Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20sSome women don’t. Not the ones I want tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20sMost people who aren’t open borders (which is also a complicated and nuanced idea) are by definition against illegal immigration. Usually where opinions differ is what you do about it. I mean I genuinely believe the things I believe. I think most of conservative or right wing beliefs manifest in men by making them assholes and to women, they tend to come across as thoughtless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20sI feel like what you are suggesting makes it seem like more of an effort than it is. I am simply not an asshole, ergo, I’ve never had a problem with even extremely radical leftist women distrusting me for being a masculine and in many ways traditional man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20sNah, it’s not even really about not being racist and misogynist as much as it’s about not being an asshole. I don’t think I’ve ever had a woman accuse me of being a misogynist. Saying misogynist things maybe but never of being a misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 09:03 PM |
| 9 | Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20sI love dating those women. They like men just fine if you aren’t a racist or a misogynist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 07:25 PM |
| 26 | Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20sI feel like I’ve met and had relationships with way more women who enjoy those things than I’ve met men in their 20’s who make six figures lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 07:24 PM |
| 3 | “Decentering” is really just “centering” resentment of the other genderLol I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:19 AM |
| 13 | “Decentering” is really just “centering” resentment of the other genderThis always seemed like kind of useless advice. Just because someone would like to be in a relationship doesn’t mean it’s the center point of their existence. Also I think purposefully not trying to get in a relationship will not make it more likely that one will happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 07:38 PM |
| 12 | Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women?Yeah this is me. Both my male and female friends do all that stuff. It’s strange that this is not everyone’s experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Men’s sexual desire has been socially castratedI don’t know man, I think the neck beard guys wanting the hot super models are seen by society as being more delusional than the 666 woman. I frankly see them as far more delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:25 PM |
| 5 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSThis is way too based of a take for a red pill person to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Why is there such a deep discrepancy between the type of man some women says they want, and the type of man they actually engages with?I think human beings in general can be exceptionally superficial. I think it’s essentialist to state that women do not do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 08:21 PM |
| 8 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Nope. This could be a common phenomenon or tendency but it doesn’t mean that generally progressive ideas regarding dating and relationships aren’t helpful or correct. I don’t feel the sort of bitterness or aggravation towards women that I feel is indicative of the red pill. There are many advantages of being a straight man and I am happy I am one. I’m not bitter about these difficulties in dating because they are not a result of any inherent flaw in men or women but because of the atomized natur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 12:54 AM |
| 9 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.I'm a blue pill white knight and I agree with the OP. Its just true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 07:34 PM |
| 21 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.My Bi Best friend tells me the exact same thing. This is why she has mostly dated men recently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 07:26 PM |
| 1 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.I’ve seen my female friends swipe and they don’t read profiles either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do men claim to want a virgin wife and yet try to sleep with virgin women saving themselves for marriageIt seemed like you blocked me cus I couldn’t reply to you. I mean people can always lie to you being that concerned about it is a bit neurotic don’t you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 05:14 AM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youDifferent men (and women) like different things for example, I like curvier women who do not shave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:32 PM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youI think red pill men are pathetic and full of shit but… We are all inside the house they are burning down with their collective rage. No I don’t think we should have state mandated girlfriends or whatever but I do think providing space for socially isolated men to be heard is probably a good thing. I would like these individuals to improve themselves and have a more hopeful outlook on the possibility of meeting someone who loves them for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do men claim to want a virgin wife and yet try to sleep with virgin women saving themselves for marriageYes. It me. I’m the personality detector. Usually I use conversation and observation as my primary means of doing this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:35 PM |
| – | Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends?That’s fair. I think due to the halo effect it’s easier to be friends with attractive people just like it’s easier to get along with charismatic people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:20 PM |
| – | Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends?I respect this as your personal stance though I do wish less people felt this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Why do men claim to want a virgin wife and yet try to sleep with virgin women saving themselves for marriageI mean you could also just date someone who doesn’t cheat on you? I dunno maybe I’m old fashioned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:17 PM |
| – | Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends?I agree but being in this situation or having feelings for a friend (whether they are required or not) doesn’t make you an egotistical brat that lacks empathy who doesn’t care about women’s feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:16 PM |
| – | Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends?I feel that this is making a lot of presumptions about what are very unique and individual experiences. Do you think it’s impossible that a friendship can survive and even thrive even after an individual within that friendship suggest to the other that they might be interested in exploring romance? Whether that interest was shared or not? Wouldn’t the answer depend on the individuals and the circumstance? In my opinion it seems like this is perfectly normal. People go through romances that eithe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 06:25 AM |
| – | Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends?I find most of my female friends attractive and would if I had the opportunity have sex with them (or have had sex with them) This has not compromised the authenticity of my friendship whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:03 AM |
| – | Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends?Do you think you could be friends with someone who has crossed that line? I am close friends with women I’ve had sex with who are now married or have boyfriends who are not me. I understand not everyone can be this way but I genuinely do not have that thing in my brain where romantic and platonic love are all that different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:02 AM |
| – | Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends?I think like just how women often say that women are different and prefer different things, so are men. Some women prefer being friends with someone first and then becoming romantic later. Some women do not. Some men prefer being friends first and develop feelings over time. This isn’t necessarily indicative of having ulterior motives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 12:11 AM |
| – | Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends?It’s different depending on the woman. I’m the type of man who is friends with mostly women while being attracted to women. For me it’s easy to go from friends to relationship and then back to friends if it doesn’t work out. Not every lady is the same though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 11:33 PM |
| 9 | Why do men claim to want a virgin wife and yet try to sleep with virgin women saving themselves for marriageAgreed. Like who are these men you keep meeting who want virgins? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 05:15 PM |
| 2 | AI and Robots Will Fix HypergamyI guess hypothetically, sure. I think it would need to be improbably sophisticated, no where near where AI is now. But at that point what’s the difference between that and a robot that has achieved sentience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:51 AM |
| 3 | AI and Robots Will Fix HypergamyI think it would be boring to have an AI sex bot who acquiesces to my every whim and is completely agreeable. I want to be with a human being with their own thoughts, feelings and autonomy who wants to be with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsSometimes the convos are interesting here, but this is mostly what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Some men will always be unappealing to all women in a romantic sense.Also I think that a woman who is the fattest ugliest and smelliest would probably date a slightly less fat, ugly or smelly guy because men generally have lower standards, I say this as a man. I do not blame women generally for the sorry state of dating and it’s generally us men who made it this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Some men will always be unappealing to all women in a romantic sense.True. I cannot complain about being single because I’ve turned down women who would have had me. Unfortunately choosers can’t be beggars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Some men will always be unappealing to all women in a romantic sense.I think women are better at being single and maintaining mental health than men, but if I had to guess I think they are probably dating men who are Similar to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 08:25 PM |
| 2 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearI dunno bro. I’m horny as shit and I don’t think I can just decide not to be. Unfortunately that means I can’t give up dating as much as I don’t enjoy it. That being said I’m not lonely and have many close friendships and am close with my family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that if a man fell in love with his female friend, then it is believed that he just “wanted to get into her pants”?A lot of people in my friend group have dated each other and it didn’t work out. Some of them are married and we are all still friends. I don’t think there is often this boundary between platonic and romantic love. I think as long as people respect boundaries a friendship can survive (and thrive) with person having unrequited feelings for another. A person not wanting to be romantic with me doesn’t make me hate them or even reject the qualities that made them a person I’d want to be around in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that if a man fell in love with his female friend, then it is believed that he just “wanted to get into her pants”?But like what if you are married or in a committed relationship, are you suggesting in that condition that an attractive woman could not maintain a friendship with a man who, regardless of whether or not he finds you attractive would not cross that boundary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that if a man fell in love with his female friend, then it is believed that he just “wanted to get into her pants”?Is this insane sounding to anyone else? I mean both this response and the thing that prompted it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that if a man fell in love with his female friend, then it is believed that he just “wanted to get into her pants”?Is it impossible to be platonic friends with someone who objectively you think is sexually attractive. I’m genuine friends with many of my exes and talk to them on a regular basis. As a result I’ve found them attractive. I’m a human being not an animal with no self control. A man can find a woman attractive and still respect them as a person and a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve muchI…genuinely feel bad for you. My most loyal friends who have quite literally saved my life and have been there for me in my most difficult moments happen to be women. I’m sorry you haven’t met a woman like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve muchThis is so weird. Do you genuinely not have any women in your life who you aren’t fucking that you genuinely care for and like being around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:02 PM |
| – | If you feel women are boring, unappealing, and have wrong opinions, then just be happy single.The ones you mentioned. D&D and paintball. One issue I also have is my D&d group is mostly women but they are either in relationships or just friends. When I do a public or pick up game, it’s rare that a woman will join for imo understandable reasons because men are terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 07:20 PM |
| – | If you feel women are boring, unappealing, and have wrong opinions, then just be happy single.One thing I’m finding is that in those environments women are often in the extreme minority, which definitely makes me more apprehensive about trying to get an individual woman’s attention at one of these events. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 06:56 PM |
| 7 | CMV: "Watch what women do, not what they say" is misogynisticThe place I’ve landed is that Men and Women are basically the same. I think in general it is better to watch what people do rather than what they say. Though even in this you must acknowledge that your own perspective is limited and you cannot sample sufficiently through life experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 04:42 PM |
| 13 | CMV: "Watch what women do, not what they say" is misogynisticI don’t think he is suggesting that he is only displaying these traits to get something. He may not be able to be any other way because that’s who he is. It doesn’t mean he could not notice how this has effected his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.What role does the president play in who acts in military ads? What conflict did the Biden and Harris actively involve the US military in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 09:37 PM |
| 5 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.When did Harris or the Biden Admin shit on men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)I mean can you describe what you’ve seen? Maybe if we walk through it we can get an understanding of what exactly you are referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)Imma be real with you chief. I have not seen this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)Rant incoming It’s not even really that masculinity is bad but imo masculinity gets a bad wrap because we’ve conceptualized it as this violent Brutish materialistic thing. For me manliness is about keeping your word and being true to those who are true to you. Masculinity is about Conradery and brotherhood and bravery and diligence. It has nothing to do with how many bitches you have or Ferraris are in your drive way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)But it’s not “boys suck” that’s the message. It’s the idea that you are less of a man if you aren’t tough, strong and brave. The idea that your worth as a man is how much money you have or how many women are interested in you. I mean can you find me some quotes by talkings heads or thought leaders that is “boys suck” without taking it wildly out of context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)A lot of the things that keep those boys down are the expectations from a patriarchal society. They feel they have to live up to certain standards that society puts on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:01 AM |
| – | Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL?This is actually reassuring to me because it tells me that men and women truly are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionBeing kind and nice recently turned what was a rejection from a date into being a friend with benefits. I’d say it’s worked out great for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 06:25 PM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.My relationship went the opposite. As time went on I gave more and more and more, I compromised more and more. Then in the end when I was working two jobs, doing all the household chores, cooking every meal, she left me which damn near killed me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 08:56 PM |
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