trethethrowaway Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Men Need To Focus More On Looks If They Want More Success In The Current Dating Market	Lifestyle	trethethrowaway	/r/seduction	05/12/20 04:05 PM

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23	Has anyone considered that women are just more physically attractive than men objectively, and that’s why there appears to be an imbalance in how many can get dates? Almost everyone would agree with me that the woman is prettier...even straight people who aren’t looking at her sexually. Not really... maybe if you allowed women to use the foundation, mascara, fake lashes, waist trainers etc. Have you seen women without make-up or clothing? I mean even famous actresses without makeup look very...plain. Take your average girl, strip her of all cosmetics, hair extensions, etc and put her in a plain white bra and shorts then have her stand next to your average ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/21 09:33 AM
16	Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)? Getting treated with kid gloves blows. No one likes that. So does being treated like a potential rapist/murderer but it is what it is. I can't blame women for having these gendered assumptions in reasonable situations so I don't know why their getting offended when men do the same. I don't see women complaining about oppressive gender norms when they get negotiated for first in hostage situations, ask their husbands to check the noise downstairs at 2:45 AM or get lighter prison sentences. You do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 10:45 AM
15	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. Lol I've seen drug dealers smash college girls, models, bartenders/bottle service girls, relatively "good girls". Basically any hot chick who parties so like 90% of them. The girls they smash are not all used up druggies, a lot of wealthy, upper class people are into drugs lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 04:04 PM
3	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. If women valued ultra-attractiveness in men, like men do in women, makeup would be a thing for men as well. Obviously women do not value attractiveness on the same level that men do, men twice as much testosterone in them than women. I never stated they did. Attractiveness is not a woman’s top checklist item for a man. "Attractiveness is not a woman’s top checklist item for a man LTR". If a women is looking for a fuckbuddy, FWB or one night stand you bet your ass that attractiveness is going to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 02:53 PM
7	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. Men don’t bother with makeup or waist trainers because they don’t have to, because their looks are not the central determinant of perceived value. No they don't bother with them because society would give them shit for it. Men still "bother" in many other socially accepted ways to improve their looks, like weightlifting which takes a lot more effort and commitment than makeup. Also they improve their fashion, grow beards, or buy anti-hairloss products. If men could wear makeup to get laid you be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 02:40 PM
21	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. Most women have not a criminal/creep on their value list I've never seen a rich drug dealer have any issues getting girls. Women do not give a shit, they helped bail out a lifelong felon cause he looked hot in his mugshot and many are known to sleep with and become impregnated by hardcore criminals while working as CO's in prisons lol. You can absolutely be a scumbag and be considered HV to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 02:24 PM
11	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. Women on the other hand aren't valued for much more than looks. So if they're lacking in that category, little to nothing can make up for that. Maybe if this was in the 100 years ago but c'mon man, makeup alone can make virtually bump any non-obese 3 or 4 to average or decent looking overnight. I mean cosmetics alone women have so many appearance based cheatcodes from waist trainers, push up bras, fake nails, plastic lashes, foundation, fake hair extensions, breast augmentations, butt-lifts, eye…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 02:21 PM
5	This is the way it’s supposed to be. Men are supposed to find a way to become sexually successful No, there are just too many people on earth 😃 and that creates variety, which creates competition Nonsense, population isn't causing this decline, most cities are more sexually active than small towns. The US growth rate since 1992 has since been on a relatively steady decline, yet male (not female) sexlessness skyrocketed from said time due in part to Online dating. Nowadays the average 6/10 small-town women gets more variety, gratification and competition through Tinder than a model would in 1…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 05:05 PM
4	CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20% Humans are not peacocks. Never said they were lol. Women do not divorce men who make their lives better, they divorce men who require so mu cm care that they’re not only not contributing to their ability to support a child, they’re detrimental to it. Yes they do. Women initiate most divorces because they have a high financial and power incentives from divorce. They can easily get alimony, child support and full custody. If they were the ones who had to foot that bill divorce rates would plummet.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 05:01 PM
14	CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20% Nope. Women are hypergamous meaning they will always be attracted to the top males in a given group, not the group itself. If all men were suddenly attractive then their standard for what they consider of "attractive" would suddenly change. On a biological level Peacocks are a great example of this. Sexual selection has made it so that all males have a vast array of exotic, vibrant feathers and are (generally) "beautiful", however female peacocks will still dismiss a significant portion of them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 04:45 PM
19	This is the way it’s supposed to be. Men are supposed to find a way to become sexually successful No ,no, no. This is not the way things should be at all. The fact that this is the first time in the entirety of human history that men literally have to learn how to get women should tell you there is something genuinely wrong with the dating dynamics of modern times. Dating has devolved from being a fun, relatively exciting exchange between two romantic interests to becoming a burdensome challenge involving subconscious mind reading, strict height and looks preconditions and constant mind game…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 04:13 PM
0	If you’re a woman who is threatened by TRP, you’re exactly why it exists in the first place. Half of you women dream of sleeping with mentally disturbed, drug addicted celebrities, models and athletes. Your ideas of "love and romance" consists of endless drama with your love interest as seen from your most popular TV shows, movies and books. You girls bailed out a child abusing felon, cause you though he was hot. There's empirical data to show you gals are more attracted to men with dark, psychopathic traits. If a man was mentally ill you'd probably run towards him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 05:07 PM
6	If you’re a woman who is threatened by TRP, you’re exactly why it exists in the first place. Yeah and these women's life is miserable with these men. Many women are miserable in general with or without these men, which is why they consume antidepressants so heavily. Either way most girls would rather be miserable with a Redpill before they consider dating a Bluepilled beta simp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 04:58 PM
3	If you’re a woman who is threatened by TRP, you’re exactly why it exists in the first place. Sauce: gay man, so I have more experience with men than any of you, lmao Yeah and absolutely 0 experience or interest with sleeping with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 04:56 PM
12	Why is it a problem if only ~70% of young men have sex? The rate for women also increased. No it has not. And if so not nearly as much. The sexlessness in modern times is being driven primarily by young men. Stop touting anything without empirical evidence. https://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-apps/imrs.php?src=https://arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/4C7SSBIXSNFCLOJIGCWUOKDYTY.png&w=691	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 03:44 PM
18	If you’re a woman who is threatened by TRP, you’re exactly why it exists in the first place. I would be really sad to learn that a partner was ‘acting’ and not just being himself. Firstly it sounds exhausting, but secondly it’s just deception. It would be sadder for him once he learned that he would never even be in a relationship with you if he didn't keep "acting" and was actually himself. The reality of social relationships is that a lot of the times being yourself does not guarantee a social life and can even hinder it. A lot of people have to act more confident, funny, kind etc aro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 03:37 PM
9	If you’re a woman who is threatened by TRP, you’re exactly why it exists in the first place. we just want to avoid TRP men Sometimes I hear women say things and I genuinely wonder what goes through their thought process to come to these conclusions. Have you seen men who get women? Women flock to Red Pilled men, which is one of the main reasons men get red pilled in the first place, if being Bluepilled helped men get women TRP would never have existed. Most of the reason you girls decide to sleep with a guy is because he possesses Redpill traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 03:30 PM
5	Did you use fictional characters as role models to imitate when learning to flirt/impress the opposite gender? Oh, here we go. All these high profile socialites hanging out on PPD. "He says as he types on PPD..."	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 12:52 PM
6	Did you use fictional characters as role models to imitate when learning to flirt/impress the opposite gender? You know you're talking to an irredeemable weeb Bruh I haven't watched an episode of anime in like a 10 years. If you notice all of the anime (and shows) I mentioned came out decades ago because I was alluding to media that impacted my social perceptions growing up. You say "irredeemable weeb" like I was referencing some underground, hardcore, fringe Manga and not Popular, mainstream kids shows that played on Western TV for years. Betas/omegas are literally the target audience. Fuck no. One of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 12:27 PM
10	Did you use fictional characters as role models to imitate when learning to flirt/impress the opposite gender? While I was younger I got the impression that being a Giga Chad (tall, jacked, cocky) would be a horrible way of picking up women, from watching Johnny Bravo get beat up after hitting on chicks, even though this couldn't be further from the truth. Lizzie McGuire taught me that the best way to date your crush was to be her friend for 3-5 years. Like damn near every Disney movie convinced me that every girl was a princess in some way and that I had to treat them like such or show immense interest …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 10:19 AM
6	Women’s attraction to strange men Traffic light system When it comes to violent crime, men are by far the common denominator. Yet women are still just as likely to initiate physical violence in relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/21 03:35 AM
7	Women’s attraction to strange men Traffic light system We assess if you’re a threat first; all other considerations come later Western women, despite being the most safeguarded and sheltered group of humans to ever exist are more paranoid than women walking around in the most dangerous, crime-infested cites on earth. This is peak delusion. You do not live in war-torn Zambia, you are not stationed in Syria, you do not need to be this frightened of literally every male social interaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 11:28 PM
5	Majority of women start off with good looking "exciting" (ie bad) guys then later on they conclude that good looking guys aren't worth it. Yet they continue choosing them anyways. Lets put it this way: Women call an ugly man with a great personality a friend An attractive man with a shitty personality a fuckbuddy And an attractive man with a great personality her boyfriend	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/21 08:04 AM
2	Women aren't "lying" about what they find sexually arousing. Great! Now just make sure to tell people these two very simple, "very linear terms" the next time asks you what you women want in a man, problem solved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/21 03:19 AM
10	Women aren't "lying" about what they find sexually arousing. Lmao but when men (AND science) realize that women primarily desire looks, status and wealth these same girls come out and say "that's not true, we like our partners for deeper reasons etc.". It's not even about getting subtext, it's almost like women intentionally do not want men to know what they really like, cause when women are by themselves they have no issue being as open and honest with their preferences for looks, income and status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/21 02:37 AM
10	Women aren't "lying" about what they find sexually arousing. Is it really coming of as dishonest or can these guys just not picking up on subtext? I would think having a partner that you find physically attractive is implied whether it's said outright or not. And I would think having a partner that you find nice, kind who treats you well would be implied whether it's said outright or not. This is not a riddle, there is no need to add subtext to a simple question about what you want, just say exactly what you want. When you tell someone to "I'm thirsty, ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/21 01:55 AM
5	Women aren't "lying" about what they find sexually arousing. She is saying what she means? She said what she wanted. She wants a good man. No she's not, which is why in the post above you made sure to indicate 2 different intentions by stating "when she says X" / "she means Y". You would have just said women say what they mean in the initial post, but you didn't because even you are aware that women rarely say what they. Why would she bring up what sexually arouses her unless the question were, "What turns you on?" If she values sexual attraction in a par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/21 01:23 AM
32	Women aren't "lying" about what they find sexually arousing. When women say "I wish I could find a good guy." She means, "I want a man I find sexually attractive to be a decent human who treats me well and others with common decency." Then... maybe....Just Say THAT. Say what you mean. If women come to men and ask men what they like in a women the first thing that flies out of their mouths will be something along the lines of "be physically attractive". Women should say the same thing if looks are so important to them but more often than not if you go to a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/21 01:03 AM
2	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Even outside of war most relationships were arranged on behalf of the suitors families, with the older male head of the house (not the younger women) ultimately deciding who will marry who. Marriage meant inheritance of land and wealth, the family was not going to hand their livelihood over to any Chad their dumbass daughter choose to run off with. So if anything men should get as much credit as women for human "evolutionary progress". Furthermore this myth that modern women pickiness is somehow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 01:13 PM
1	If you cant get a date, stop blaming others and take a serious look at yourself. Yeah any man who has not tried to improve himself and is complaining about women is a fool, sitting around expecting someone better looking, thinner and more successful to come date you is for FDS. This is why if you lurk on any "incel" forums whether it be TRP, MGTOW, or PUA forums all of their philosophical tenets involve of self-improvement. Even blackpillers advise looksmaxxing/matching. It is only female dating advice (who constantly blames men for their dating issues) which does not regula…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 10:26 AM
10	We should change the framework from bad boys vs nice guys to the uninhibited vs the inhibited To a man, asshole is the jockbro douche that used to stuff us into lockers. To be far it's not that that far off. The amount of time I've seen girls who seemingly "hate assholes and players" go and smash the most superficial, narcissistic, self-obsessed douche's is enough to let me know that women don't really understand what they want. If you take a nice guy IE a timid, bookish, well mannered guy and take his opposite a tattooed, trouble making, jerk , the douche would have much more success wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/21 12:47 AM
5	Do you think men should wait for your indicators of interest before they approach or do you think that would prevent a lot of potential relationships from happening? I think it's perfectly fine for men to approach any woman that catches their interest. Very soon women will disallow this too, so long as any "unattractive" man dares to disrupt her presence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/21 12:41 AM
11	How much does clothing influence your attraction to a man? Somewhat. Clothes are basically markers of class. Status, money and appearance that's what it all comes down too	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/21 12:39 AM
4	What proportion of the self improvement you do is solely for purpose of getting opposite sex attention? Self improvement for others is fine as long as your what your achieving is something you genuinely desire or find value in (gym, fitness, grades) I feel it's goes bad when your doing something you don't even like or hate just for the sake of others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 12:41 PM
1	The RedPill/Female Dating Strategies should just date within their own peer groups Really? Because even if that was the case, it seems like I've heard more men complain about manspreading than women. Yeah no shit, cause if we didn't complain you idiots would actually attempt to and instill this nonsense into law, obviously men would complain it's not like we can count on women to lift a finger in the pursuit of making the world a bit more equal for guys. PS You saw more men complaining about the audacity of women to write articles, make videos and initiate media campaigns with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 07:58 AM
1	The RedPill/Female Dating Strategies should just date within their own peer groups Yeah, noone care about manspreading, bruv. Except the thousands of women who made videos, articles and proposals to ban them but men are the ones who are self victimizing. All you do is shamelssly self victimize. Cant go 5 years without you pushing some BS social movement despite the fact that your the most privileged group of humans that ever existed, hush up sweetie. Nobody owes you shit, including the opposite sex. You're telling this to the wrong gender, tell that to all the independent aver…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 05:49 AM
1	The RedPill/Female Dating Strategies should just date within their own peer groups So...you're allowed to have standards but nobody else is? I'm confused, bud. Have your standards but be realistic for your own sake. When your an overweight, 6, with a mediocre job stop acting like you deserve a 6'2, ripped, attractive, rich Chad. And when your 35+ with 0 dating prospects don't say there are no good men or take it out on normal men. men take feedback so personally that they find a way to self victimize Men aren't the ones launching campaigns against people for keeping their legs…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 04:35 AM
1	The RedPill/Female Dating Strategies should just date within their own peer groups And yet poor, ugly people still procreate. Yeah cause they date other poor and ugly people. They do no procreate with attractive or rich folks lol. Also, why would you even want to be with someone who values money over a relationship? Sex. Dating has always been driven by transactional preferences between both parties. Always. As a matter of fact most human interaction is driven by this. It's almost like we're social creatures who have a biological inclination to form graded hierarchies based on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 04:18 AM
1	The RedPill/Female Dating Strategies should just date within their own peer groups I'll ask if their attraction would change if they found out I was worth 2 billion dollars or why they have no issues fucking short, ugly and old multi millionaires.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 03:15 AM
1	The RedPill/Female Dating Strategies should just date within their own peer groups Not enough to make straight men fuck each other, sure. This is common sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 02:46 AM
1	The RedPill/Female Dating Strategies should just date within their own peer groups Open a dictionary and look up sexual orientation for me dear	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 01:15 AM
1	Do you believe that women are sexually attracted to status? DO you think a mans desirability has an effect on women in general?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 12:26 AM
1	The RedPill/Female Dating Strategies should just date within their own peer groups "Just date the Chad, you'll get pumped and dumped plus become a single mother"	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 12:25 AM
1	The RedPill/Female Dating Strategies should just date within their own peer groups Lol "Just Be Gay Bro", that's a new one. The memes make themselves at this point haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/21 11:59 PM
2	Why are women unhappy? Something about the economy probably. No despite being feminized, lower rates of testosterone, and loneliness men's happiness levels have remained stable. Only women have noticed the drop. It's almost like supplementing a gender biological desires to love, nurture and raise children with extra work hours, pets, getting ran through, romantic comedy binges, singleness and ice-cream wasn't the greatest idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/21 11:54 PM
1	Do you believe that women are sexually attracted to status? Omg why can't you just admit the obvious? Men have no issue admitting they desire sex, women like you will argue day and night or make excuses to deny the obvious. You are the prime reason why men claim "do not listen to what women say, watch what they do".	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/21 11:48 PM
1	Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to women Women arent a monolith. Never claimed they were. Of course there are exceptions to every rule but at this point it should go without saying that we are speaking on a general level. Generally women do not value kindness and respect more than looks, money or status. Atleast men will be honest and tell you they like sex, women will BS day and night but leave them alone with their friends and the truth will come out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/21 09:42 AM
13	Do you believe that women select partners based on intelligence? For women Intelligence = Man with a fancy, well paying career that they can show off to their friends (Lawyer, Doctor, Dentist etc.) and even then it's mostly the salary they like. Anybody thinking women are actually attracted to intelligence needs to stop by and take a look at the average guys in a Physics or STEM lecture lol. There's actually been multiple studies showing the higher your IQ the lower your sexual partners and the more likely you are to live a virgin. Dumber men tend to do bette…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/21 07:01 AM
4	How would you want society to address “sexlessness”? lolno. They can go to poor countries and get wives who are with them for green cards. They can't sexually attract women in other countries if they can't do the same in the US. You're delusional, Tinder alone on multiple wealthy countries in Eastern Europe or East Asia is even much easier and they don't know that they are even Americans. I have friends that have visited Poland or Japan (which are first world countries) and talk about how much more receptive, respectful and feminine the women are.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/21 07:03 PM
6	How would you want society to address “sexlessness”? American men aren't the problem, they can go to any other country and have no issues attracting women. It's because women believe that they all deserve a 6'2, muscular, romantic, 6 figure earning Chad when in reality these men represent about 5-10% of the male population tops. The numbers don't add up because of the delusion and will just end with men being incels or women eventually settling or dying alone, the vast majority will never get that HVM.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/21 06:15 PM
7	How would you want society to address “sexlessness”? NO they could discourage people from using OLD and Social Media in order to find partners and invest in programs for singles to meet in person. Social Media has already shown through multiple studies to have a negative mental affect on those who use it any how. This will encourage the platforms to make changes to their software to make things better. Tinder for example is essentially built so that men have to pay money in order to have a chance of getting matches, this is not impossible and can …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/21 06:08 PM
1	Interview with someone who lived during the sexual revolution The communities have existed since the internet’s been around. The communities were also much less significant and were much smaller precisely because of the fact that the amount of male incels at the time was much smaller as well. Nobody even started reporting on incels or TRP until the mid 2010's, to act like these sort of communities were popular among young men in the 90s is intellectually dishonest. Female sexlessness has decreased as well. Exactly. If all your BS about how the lack of sex …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/21 04:35 PM
1	Interview with someone who lived during the sexual revolution Does sexually inactive mean virgins or just not currently banging a girl? It means 0 sexual activity in the past year. Plus we have to take into account that porn and video games have caused men to not really have to go outside and game women and socialize for instant gratification. Video games and porn has been around since the 90's and onward. About 2 decades, furthermore as bad as you may perceive them as being I can assure you our society and gender relations would be much worse if they were…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/21 03:51 PM
19	Interview with someone who lived during the sexual revolution I keep telling the lads here that nothing is new but they seem to think everything is different. Its not. BS. Almost a third of young men (ages 18-24) in the US are sexually inactive. This is the lowest it's been. An anecdotal excerpt from a fringe author does not sufficiently paint the picture, data does and all the data shows that men are having significantly less sex now than they did previously and that it is an increasing trend. https://news.iu.edu/stories/2020/06/iub/releases/15-sexual-ina…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 04:51 PM
0	If it were suddenly possible to change your sexuality, do you think most people would still remain heterosexual? Sexuality is a spectrum though, lots of people change their labels over time (you just have to head over to subs like r/sex to common questions about sexuality). Sure it's a spectrum which is why the study linked categorized said spectrum and found more humans on the spectrum lean towards attraction to men. Given your data (which is fixed on the West and also from 2013, correct me if I’m wrong, fairly recent but I’d say there’s been a huge cultural shift recently — more kids/women/people in ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 04:27 PM
1	If it were suddenly possible to change your sexuality, do you think most people would still remain heterosexual? Hmm, this is anecdotal Nope: https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Average-prevalence-for-each-of-five-categories-of-sexual-orientation-in-recent-Western_fig1_301639075 The numbers are backed up from a study of hundreds of thousands of Western men and women. But yeah you wont find a lot of 100% gay females who are not attracted to the opposite sex, like you do with men. 99+ percent of women are in at least someway physically attracted to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 02:31 PM
6	If it were suddenly possible to change your sexuality, do you think most people would still remain heterosexual? Most people would be attracted to women Your speaking as a man who is attracted to women. Most people, or rather more people are attracted to men than women. Only 0.5% of Western women (as opposed to 2% of Western men) identify as being completely homosexual in a society where being gay is openly encouraged and women face far less scrutiny for it than men. Essentially less than one percent of women are not in someway sexually attracted to men, despite us spending a fraction of the time they do t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 12:34 PM
8	What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating? When most people refer to nice guy they are referencing high school to college aged, inexperienced young men. I've never seen the term used to describe middle-aged, wealthy and sexually active tech execs lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 12:29 PM
11	What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating? Rich tech executives are not labeled as "nice guys", they don't need or pretend to befriend women in order to get in a relationship with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 11:53 AM
13	What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating? Yeah that's called being rich and successful, not a nice guy lol. And who can blame them? Those nerds probably spent a good chunk of their youth getting rejected left and right by girls cause of their looks and status just to have those same chicks come running back the second they made it. These women aren't LTR material and clearly only want to use them, so I don't feel bad if the nerds return the favor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 11:27 AM
14	What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating? Not really.... Idk what nice guys you've interacted with but most aren't befriending these girls for 3-5 years so they can pump and dump her within an hour of sex. Most "nice guys" are genuinely looking for a relationship as a result of shitty BluePill dating advice. Their attraction to the girl based on a naïve, wide-eyed, affection as oppose to some sort of 4-year long pervy master plan to take advantage of an unknowing girl. Women just put this label on nice guys so they don't look as bad get…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 11:01 AM
1	[META] If you answered in the 'worst fear' thread, what can us men do to alleviate your fears? I am not from the West. Never stated you were. Also, I haven't mentioned sexual assaults so idk who you're arguing with. See above title referencing previous thread regarding sexual assaults. I don't think you even know what the thread is referencing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 12:49 AM
3	[META] If you answered in the 'worst fear' thread, what can us men do to alleviate your fears? and if women have to lay it out that their boyfriends shouldn't be violent, unclean, or unable to pull themselves away from their screens or video games to spend time with them - there's really no hope How about women contribute something to a relationship (besides sex) before speaking on what men should do? Seriously what is something that women do for men in a relationship that men cannot do for them. A lot of women nowadays are lazy lovers. One gender is expected to pays for dates, get flower…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 12:46 AM
0	[META] If you answered in the 'worst fear' thread, what can us men do to alleviate your fears? Lmao there is nothing men can do to alleviate woman's fear in the West because that fear is based off delusion and not objective facts concerning their reality. Men are already doing a pretty good job as the most paranoid women in the world literally inhabit the nations with the lowest rates of female rape, sexual assault and murder in human history. That means the measures men take to personally reduce a women's likelihood of sexual assault will not diminish her paranoia, so it is pointless. Me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 12:13 AM
3	Do men generally prefer women with sexual experience or those who save themselves? Right, no man wants to "teach sex" to a prude virgin and deal with blood or her complaining about pain, sex would seem like a chore. Fuck that, I'd rather have someone more sexually experienced who actually knows how to contribute in bed and have fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 07:35 PM
-3	Q4Women: Has a man ever reacted aggressively when you rejected him? I think we can all agree rape is a problem if even 1 person is getting raped. Nobody said rape was not a problem. Being so paranoid of rape that you view every member of the opposite sex as potential rapists despite living in the safest environment for females ever forged is the issue. This is like if men looked at everyday people in public, parties etc as potential murderers. What do you gain from trying to gaslight women into being ashamed for being rightfully catious? Because you're not being…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 03:24 PM
-6	Q4Women: Has a man ever reacted aggressively when you rejected him? Funny how you ignored the rest of the points I brought up. How does a Reddit comment in a niche sub prove anything? Look up statistics, and none of them match your altered worldview. There is not an epidemic of rape and sexual assault of women in Western nations, in fact it is the LOWEST it's ever been in any region in hundreds of thousands of years. For women who grew up in places with record breaking lows of rape and sexual assault to walk around acting like the most victimized or paranoid is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 10:24 AM
-13	Q4Women: Has a man ever reacted aggressively when you rejected him? All of these seem vague, how did he stalk you? What other things did he pressure you to do? Idk I hear women talk about being super fearful of men which I get if you were living in an crime infested region of a 3rd world country but Western women are more paranoid than 3rd world impoverished girls despite being the least likely group of humans in our 200,000 history to get raped, assaulted or murdered. I feel like they're over paranoid partly due to brainwashing and I don't buy this whole "scare…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 07:44 AM
10	Ex-Red pillers, what made you stop considering yourself red pill? redpill is right about what is attractive to women but it needs to emphasise the maturity in choosing just one and sticking with her. pumping and dumping isn't right. That kind of goes against the whole anti-oneitis, AWALT, don't get too attached mentality of TRP. A significant chunk of RP'ers are also divorcees who caution younger men against that lifestyle. That type of advice, though plausible, doesn't really mesh with TRP's ideology and is the reason a lot of guys became Redpill in the first…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/21 05:49 AM
17	Truth Think about how much of a paranoid nutcase you have to be to think that men will murder you for saying you prefer attractiveness in a partner. Either your delusional or you won't say it cause you know it will taint the overly positive perception society presents women as to men which leaves them with a social blindspot for girls to take advantage of when dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 05:47 PM
14	Truth Apparently everyone knows this except women the second anyone asks them what they primarily desire in a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 04:29 PM
5	Fact For me the incel movement is all about playing a victim Name me one "incel" movement that doesn't make efforts encouraging men to self improve or better themselves. Like I mentioned earlier, self improvement and becoming a HVM was the whole point of the largest incel platforms like The Red Pill, PUA, MGTOW. That was their end goal, the purpose of their movement not "Destroy Women !!1!". The only gendered movements concerned with playing a victim are the feminists ones propped up by society. Take…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 12:47 PM
18	Fact If you tried to do right for years and you don't get the results you want, you did it wrong. Delusion. I've noticed many broke, unsuccessful, ugly, people with no friends who are some of the most kind, upstanding and good individuals you'll ever meet. I also know many rich, popular, high status folks who are selfish, self absorbed and conceited narcissists. You want me to believe that the polite, good natured albeit awkward kid did it wrong but the selfish, attractive assholes did everything did…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 11:19 AM
42	Fact Honestly most incels didn't start off as bad guys or misogynists. Most were the opposite of trouble-makers, jerks and bullies, usually they were just well-mannered, respectful, chill kids who thought that if they followed what their parents, teachers and society asked of them they could live a somewhat normal, peaceful life, have friends, get married etc. If you tried to do right for years only to have your peers socially exile you to the dark corners of an incel chatroom you'd be pissed too. Ye…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 03:52 AM
4	Women DO NOT want you to share your emotions I grew up in the rural rocky mountains. Yeah idk what they teach you hicks up there but most people aren't raised around rural rocky mountains lol, don't speak on behalf of most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 01:07 AM
19	Women DO NOT want you to share your emotions I'm just more surprised this isnt common knowledge. Where the fuck do you live? Lmao, if you said this any mainstream platform you would have your career threatened. Society has always tried to hide any negative female attributes, idk why your acting like we didn't have gynocentric, BP, bullshit shoved down our throats growing up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 07:47 PM
7	Schrodinger's cat is cooming in its grave #2 http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs11199-009-9665-x Benevolent sexism makes men more attractive to women. German female students (total N = 326) rated the likability and typicality of male targets	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 08:38 AM
5	What is your contribution to a relationship? Notice how most of you couldn't genuinely answer this question	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 01:59 AM
1	Currently working as an escort because I didn't get into second year university, feeling lost with life See a therapist, study self-improvement and development, research how to learn properly, comeback to school when your ready and work your ass off to get into your program. Good luck you got this!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 11:57 AM
1	Young male virginity rates are at an all time high and rising. What do you guys think about this? I’ve read the study before, it’s important to note that meeting online does not equal meeting on dating apps like tinder. If you read the study carefully, you’ll realize that a lot the couples who "met online" actually met through mutual friends on Facebook/Instagram/Twitter. What's your point? If anything these may be harder and more superficial than dating apps because you are judged on both your looks and your likes (photos, followers, friends, social media presence etc.). Meeting on Instagra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 11:22 AM
3	Young male virginity rates are at an all time high and rising. What do you guys think about this? They're not more "Conservative" most of their beliefs, music and culture aligns significantly with leftists beliefs. They are just more introverted and less social as a a result of the fact that they literally grew up with technology in their hands, which happens technology tends to do to people. Most Gen Z's lack of sex is not out of some conservative, religious belief but rather not being able to get sex as a result of the technological changes OLD & Social Media had on their generation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 09:12 AM
3	Boy, women do love their "Don't settle" motto. Imagine men had the same mindset. Most women would be virgins. I think it's totally okay to have high preferences as long as you're comfortably with the idea of staying single and you aren't angry with people who don't fit into your standards LMAO Women do not do this though. They're biggest dating complaints is concerning how they can't find anyone worthy of them despite being used up, 30+ year old, post-wall, overweight 5's or single mothers. Women have been bitching about stuff like this for so long they forged the term "Where are all the good men?" and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 09:00 AM
6	Young male virginity rates are at an all time high and rising. What do you guys think about this? Gen Z is notoriously sexually conservative What?? Not really.. If anything earlier generations before were much, much more conservative but even they had significantly more sexual partners then Gen Z now. Also it's been primarily male, not female Gen Z members who have noticed an increasing dip in sexual partners over the generations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 04:45 AM
16	Young male virginity rates are at an all time high and rising. What do you guys think about this? When 65% of straight couples nowadays are matched either through OLD or Clubs/Bars this is what you should expect. Looks are no longer a plus but a prerequisite needed to do well in dating, at least more so than personality. The majority of men are not attractive so as OLD and Clubbing take up more of the dating market, it will segregate more and more of the male population (by order of looks) from finding a mate. There's a reason why the BlackPill was conceived around 2015 when dating apps star…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 04:39 AM
48	You know women screwed themselves over when even the superman is afraid to chase women. I mean the fact that an atractive, tall movie star like Keanu Reeves hoverhands now is proof that not even attractive, high value men are safe. Just look at what happened to Johnny Depp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/21 01:39 AM
1	The red pill is wrong. Women are attracted to weakness and femininity, not strength and masculinity. Some are attracted to the type you describe, some MOST are attracted to the opposite. There you go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 03:57 PM
-1	Legalized prostitution will not dramatically change things between men and women like people on here imply I don’t know much about the porn industry or strip clubs but the point about sex trafficking increasing in countries with legalized prostitution is true. Yeah and decriminalizing it alone led to a 40 percent decrease in female gonorrhea incidence and a 30 percent decrease in reported rape offenses. https://academic.oup.com/restud/article-abstract/85/3/1683/4756165?redirectedFrom=fulltext Anyone who genuinely thinks any country would be better off with a criminalized illegal prostitution industry…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 03:56 PM
12	Legalized prostitution will not dramatically change things between men and women like people on here imply No one simps as hard as Americans. Facts. American 5's have more ego and entitlement than Scandinavian 8's and 9's. The most overweight women on the planet believing they are too good for the most successful men. Foreign women are taught how to treat men, American women are taught that men are meant to treat them. That's why there is a massive mail order bride industry in the states, same reason why most sex tourists are American. They are both importing and exporting dating. The men are literal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 03:30 PM
6	Legalized prostitution will not dramatically change things between men and women like people on here imply The issue with prostitution is a supply and demand one, there are far more people willing to pay for sex then those willing to provide it, sex trafficking helps fill that gap, which is why countries with legalized prostitution have higher rates of trafficking. Not at all, you could have made the same arguments for strip clubs or pornstars but they actually have too many women. Pornstar managers have multiple females reaching out to them, not the other way around. Once it's legal you'd be surpris…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 03:22 PM
2	If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys? What rule states assertive people don't have to be nice? You don't have to be in any position of power to act assertive, it is simply a behavioural trend. The bum approaching me for a dollar could be assertive (and they often are). Also most bosses/managers are notorious for being assholes, idk where your going with this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 10:43 PM
1	Men are approaching way less than people here think So staring at someone too long or saying hello is considered creepy now? At the end of the day whether or not your considered creepy will be dependent on how attractive you are as that dictates how receptive (or non-receptive) women will be towards your advances. For any ugly man even expressing the slightest amount of interest will be considered creepy to women. Why would anyone consider themselves to be a creep for saying hello? And you wonder why guys approach women less. Most men don't consi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 10:37 PM
3	Men are approaching way less than people here think Most creepy men don't consider themselves creepy. Women will literally call a man creepy for saying hello or walking behind them too long lmao. If your a guy doing legitimately creepy shit (groping, upskirts) you probably know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 09:47 PM
12	Men are approaching way less than people here think Men are less likely to approach random women in public around a bunch of other people out of public embarrassment in the case of rejection. Also people don't go out doing day to day tasks looking to spot men cold approaching women. You rarely hear conversations between people, chances are if you see 2 people talking you'll assume they know each other as opposed to labeling it as a cold approach.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 09:40 PM
75	Men are approaching way less than people here think He got me Too'd. Exactly, in an era where women view most men as being potential rapists, "just approaching bro" wont work. Approach a random women in public most of the time (unless you are a Chad) they will perceive you as being some antisocial weirdo and will be generally unreceptive, especially if you are unattractive. In the case that you do get a number they will be less inclined to meetup, let alone fuck you. In the past you could get away with this because women still desired male attent…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 06:35 PM
3	If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys? Many of the strongest and most influential people are “nice”, see Keanu Reeves or LeBron James. Yeah I can agree Keanu is genuinely nice but LeBron, Brad Pitt or other famous people aren't particularly nice. If you saw them in public they would probably not give you the time of day because you are of no value to them and if anything be annoyed by your presence. It's just in their best interest to portray themselves as nice on a public level and promote themselves doing nice, charitable things. N…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 06:21 PM
2	Gallup Poll Dec 2020 - Is Marriage Becoming Irrelevant? Since were speaking on facts 1.Countless studies have shown that children born to married parents enjoy a number of socioeconomic benefits over those born to single parents. 2.In the 1960s, for example, nearly 95 percent of babies were born to couples who were married. Today, 40 percent are born to women who are either single or living with a non-married partner. 2.Today 1 in 4 children under the age of 18 – a total of about 17.4 million – are being raised without a father and nearly half (45 pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 03:48 PM
0	"Sex is a need", "Sexlessness is growing" etc: what do you want us to do with this information? Yeah, the better thing to tell people is that everybody is guaranteed to fall in love and will have a happy family. Even the most positive, BP, feminized advice was never that delusional. I don't think that we should expend tax dollars to promote being loved by nobody and dying alone as normal, I think it's smarter to work to resolve and minimize the actual issue itself, call me crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 03:37 PM
8	Gallup Poll Dec 2020 - Is Marriage Becoming Irrelevant? Who chooses to consensually allow these trash men to fornicate and impregnate them? Who chooses to carry the pregnancy with this same trash men 9 months to delivery? Who has 100% complete reproductive control over the child's birth?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 03:31 PM
15	If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys? Your premise is wrong. You can be assertive, confident and effective, while treating other people with kindness and empathy. How many genuinely nice people do you see that are very assertive or confident? Personalities are rarely a balance. Women don't like niceness because it's perceived as a feminine trait and they associate it with weakness. Being nice is so low on the totem pole of a women's "Checklist" for a man that it's pointless to prioritize it. Women would rather take a confident, char…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 03:25 PM
10	Gallup Poll Dec 2020 - Is Marriage Becoming Irrelevant? Yeah single mothers raising fatherless children which are statistically more likely to fail in every aspect of life. Funny cause women think that they're sticking it to men but despite all of our issues, girls (not men) are less happy now than ever before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 03:11 PM
6	"Sex is a need", "Sexlessness is growing" etc: what do you want us to do with this information? We need to make it okay for people to accept that sometimes people aren't going to love you, and that they'll die alone. Wow what a great message to put out there! Funny thing is that a guy like you is probably not a fan of the blackpill, or thinks they're to pessimistic lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 03:07 PM
1	Suspicion: A lot of the perspective differences between bluepillers and redpillers are due to varying SMV. If we define FDS as BP (their beliefs tend to align) then they are definitely low SMV. Usually older, postwall, overweight women which makes sense as no high or even moderate SMV women would ever gather dating knowledge from reddit of all places, most don't even know what a subreddit is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 03:01 PM
3	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) I don't see any problem with porn because sex isn't my biggest--my respect, love, and approval is my biggest asset. for sex, get a sex doll. If you turned into a guy today your relationship with your boyfriend/husband/FWB would end immediately. All the other "assets" you listed would become irrelevant. Sexual attraction is the basis of all romantic involvement and dictates who you can or cannot love in an intimate sense. women pornstars should get paid more than men pornstars--it would be an ins…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 10:31 PM
1	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) Cause she didn't have to pay $50+ dollars to eat it. If she had to she probably wouldn't even show up, let alone enjoy it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 10:13 PM
1	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) There's always been arranged marriages, marrying off sons/daughters to secure political and social networking These relationships had little to do with romantic involvement and were often loveless and cold. They were used more as a medium for transferring generational wealth not genuine matchmaking lol. Whether or not the couples even liked each other was irrelevant. Also I said somewhat sexually attracted to. Meaning that if there was some sexual stimulation, most men are attracted to most wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 10:04 PM
4	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) What I'm saying is that neither porn or prostitution id a threat since it's comparing only sexual assets VS sexual and relationship assets. Sex is the relationship asset because it is the basis of all romantic involvement. You cannot be involved romantically with someone that you are not somewhat sexually attracted to. Sexual orientations literally dictate who you can or cannot date. A threat to a sexual asset is a threat to a relationship asset, which is why women will always seek to minimize t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 02:40 PM
32	Men shouldn't blame women for the lack of male solidarity in society. Men should rely on men for help instead of expecting women to solve their emotional and psychological problems Literally every time men set out to assemble and resolve the multiple issues facing our gender whether it be TRP, PUA,MGTOW a horde of angry, unwelcomed women gather and have the groups in question dismantled or outlawed for being sexist. Meanwhile their "equality" groups are free to spew negative ideas about men on a mainstream level and have been for decades. Even on this site TRP and MGTOW are completely quarantined while FDS is allowed to discuss freely and openly. Men do not want women to f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 02:20 PM
10	CMV: Women (In General) Don't Support Prostitution Out of Self Interest doctors don't get raped on the job If you don't want prostitutes to get raped on the job it's actually in your best interest to legalize and regulate it lol. Keeping it illegal will only ensure more STD's, rape victims, prisoners and murder casualties the majority of which will be the females your apparently aiming to protect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 02:11 PM
5	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) In my experience it's a significant part, sure, because I enjoy it and so does he Yeah he just enjoys it way, way more than you. Meaning that he finds is that much more valuable to him. If take a girl to a 5 star, high end restaurant for dinner I'll enjoy my meal too but she enjoy hers a lot more. But my contribution of my pussy is no more or less an asset than my FWB's contribution of his dick. As·set - A useful or valuable thing, person, or quality. No sane human being will ever deny that Puss…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 01:57 PM
5	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) Where are you getting this idea from? Uhh women not wanting to smash on the first date for fear of men leaving after, women justifying men paying for dates by saying they spent time "looking good" for them, women spending hours putting on makeup, wearing sexually provocative clothing and looking their best to go to a club/bar loaded with single, aroused men, women punishing their husbands with a "sex strike" for bad behavior, the entirety of the AF/BB theory lol. I can go on for days lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 01:30 PM
15	Look at r/loveafterporn. SO's porn use for women is like SO's n count for men. Women there rationalize their porn hate. No need to stats to justify subjective emotions. Idea of sexual exclusivity justifies hate of porn watch or n count (explained) Meh. Women hate porn for the same reason they hate prostitution and slutty ladies. It dilutes the value of their biggest asset: Sex. Girls do not buy men engagement rings, dinners, weddings etc most don't even cook or clean. The primary asset they offer is sex, so it's in their best interest to make sure that the value of sex is as high as possible so they can bargain more and expand their hypergamy. They claim porn is abusive despite multiple studies showing no negative side effects. I mean fem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 11:56 AM
11	CMV: Women (In General) Don't Support Prostitution Out of Self Interest the ex prostitutes i do know have all told me that they hated it when they were working as hookers. so in principle, i hate it on behalf of my friends. My ex doctor friends told me they hated their jobs while they were working as on-the-clock ER surgeons, so in principle I hate hospitals on behalf of my friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 11:23 AM
2	CMV: Women (In General) Don't Support Prostitution Out of Self Interest The men you mentioned are not the norm are they now? Exactly. They are significantly above the norm in income, status and popularity. If even the upper echelon of men with whom sex from beautiful women is readily and steadily available engage in prostitution what makes you think average or even below average men, who are much more limited in terms of female partners will not. My definition of hv & desirable certainly isn’t rich coke head who are materialistic & dumb. These men are some of the we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 10:04 AM
1	CMV: Women (In General) Don't Support Prostitution Out of Self Interest The law change in recent years in the US made it worse and way more unsafe. They went further underground. Well the real question is why should prostitution be illegal in the first place? If two consenting adults agree to engage in transactional sex they should be able to do so without the threat of being incarcerated or charged. The fact that pornography, which is essentially recorded prostitution, is a booming billion dollar industry shows the lunacy of the situation in and of itself. At least…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 07:37 AM
12	CMV: Women (In General) Don't Support Prostitution Out of Self Interest . Desirable men are not giving up on relationships because they can pay for sex. Desirable billionaires, politicians, moguls, royalty, actors, athletes etc have all engaged in rampant prostitution while it was illegal mind you. This idea that desirable men are above prostitution is a myth. A wealthy, successful man pays for sex out of convenience. With prostitution a man is paying to reduce the illegitimate children, gossip leaks, being caught cheating in public etc. Furthermore there is absolut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 07:19 AM
25	It seems like so many guys' frustrations, insecurities, problems would've been addressed if they locked in a relationship early. What stopped you from achieving this and what would you do differently if you were younger? How about by substantially lowering their standards and going for the invisible nerd girl everyone ignores? Your problem is you assume that the invisible nerd girl will be an easy catch, even these women want a Chad and have been taught not to settle. Also no one advises women to date invisible nerdy men, they advise that if they are going to enmasse overlook men for superficial problems they can't control (height, facial structure) they should keep quiet when men do the same to them. Stop throw…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 03:28 AM
6	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 December 2020) Have you seen Monica Lewinsky? Usher's ex? Hugh Jackman's wife? Do you know Arnold Schwarzenegger put his marriage on the line so that he could inseminate a short, old, chubby nanny? These are some of the most HVM on earth who have gotten into a LTR or risked one over 3's and 4's, if you think your average Chad hasn't smashed a few chubbies on the low now and then you're delusional. Male sexual strategy isn't picky, it's sleep with as many women as you can. Your seeing these good-looking guys sm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/20 11:52 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 December 2020) Bro there's legitimately a ton of obese, 3's and 4's with hundreds of thousands of followers on Instagram. You could literally be female, have a disability and get thousands of matches from men on Tinder alone. Even then goodlooking men will smash a chubby off the fact that it's a better alternative than jerking off, every "player" has had some embarrassing hookups, idk where you've been. All of these women are gassed beyond belief for a reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/20 10:55 PM
6	What’s the optimum N count for a man in an LTR with a virgin woman? Exactly no High N Count man wants a prudish virgin whose completely inexperienced in bed. Best to date a male virgin and get comfortable with each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/20 08:03 AM
2	Why do women need dating strategies to convince men to do something they’re already inclined to do? It's essentially a cycle. BP propaganda creates men who wind up being simps, orbiters, white knights and betas, basically men that women in modern times are significantly less attracted to. This leads women to pursue and date guys with more alpha traits who ignore BP programming. Beta men who had followed BP advice with no success notice this, denounce the BP and promote TRP as they perceive it as yielding more dating success with women. Women become aware of this and feel compelled to make thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/20 02:11 AM
8	Why people say that a divorce usually make men richer but makes women poorer when I perceive that the opposite is the norm? Usually yeah, at least once factoring divorce settlements, alimony and child support most men are left a lot worse then they were or could be following a divorce. There's even a term for it all called "divorce rape" lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/20 11:10 PM
13	Why people say that a divorce usually make men richer but makes women poorer when I perceive that the opposite is the norm? People say this? Most believe the opposite to be true from my knowledge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/20 10:50 PM
11	Women are grounded in reality and are attracted to men who can manipulate the real world. Men live in a world of abstractions and are attracted to women on a fantastical level. ...Or maybe he's just really goodlooking	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/20 05:20 AM
2	Who do you think has higher standards when it comes to attraction? Men or women? You'll find your answer after spending a week on OLD as each gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/20 10:29 AM
1	Who do you think has higher standards when it comes to attraction? Men or women? Just for 40% to end up becoming single mothers lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/20 10:27 AM
16	Research Paper claims: (1) Men tend to fall in love more readily than women; (2) women tend to fall out of love more readily than men. Seems to explain / describe hypergamy (and a few other dating phenomena). I'll start to feel bad about this when earning male "love" isn't contingent on our physical attractiveness and sexual utility. This has been known for years. If you ask any man we will acknowledge this confidently, we won't BS you. We care about looks in women. Girls are not the same, why do you think I said " It's time we get honest with the true nature of women.". We've been honest about our faults, while you hide yours. Women are bigger users than men. At most a man will use a women for sex, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 11:41 PM
47	Research Paper claims: (1) Men tend to fall in love more readily than women; (2) women tend to fall out of love more readily than men. Seems to explain / describe hypergamy (and a few other dating phenomena). "Men are romantics disguising themselves as realists, women are realists disguising themselves as romantics" To most women men are a commodity that they can use opportunistically for their own benefit. A lot of girls are seeing more men then guys notice and when they break up they have a bunch of options planned. It's time we get honest with the true nature of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 11:00 PM
5	Q4W: What are you here arguing against? I can't read most of your artcles, I would have to by an access. Isn't that convenient And how is this a hidden knowledge? None of these studies support the current mainstream good-natured portrayals of women or their preferences and you know it. If you brought half of these studies up publically you would be called a misogynist and people would try and cancel you. Also, how does it make women inferior, unable to have inner thoughts and passions? It doesn't. It actually makes women equals. It …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 10:49 PM
9	Q4W: What are you here arguing against? "What scientific evidence is there that makes the red pill the truth?" https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245?via%3Dihub Women rated male characters designed to capture high Dark Triad facets of personality (narcissism, psychopathy, Machiavellianism) as significantly more attractive". http://digital.library.okstate.edu/etd/umi-okstate-2649.pdf When single women see a moderately attractive male, they are more interested in him if they believe he is already in a re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 05:35 PM
6	Q4W: What are you here arguing against? I don't see in real life anything that red pill says is true and I don't belive in most things discussed here. You don't have to, there's empirical sociological and biological data to prove it. Evidence exists whether or not you choose to believe it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 04:38 PM
4	What is hypergamy such a bad thing? Nice logic there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 12:25 PM
5	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Same way they "know" that the guy saying hello to her was a total creep out to take advantage of her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 04:55 PM
8	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Imagine the amount of mental gymnastics one has to make to come to this conclusion lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 03:56 PM
4	What do you think matters more to women? Income or passion? Idk what people you've been talking to lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 03:49 PM
5	What do you think matters more to women? Income or passion? Say "I like emotionally intelligent man" instead of "I like intelligent men", its not rocket science. Both are a lie either way, women like primarily Chads regardless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 03:12 PM
11	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Just look at Ted Bundy. Dude raped, murdered and dismembered 30+ women and had more success with girls than most men. Then had a Zac Efron spin off that modern women loved and romanticized. But apparently incels are just creepy and have off putting personalities that women can "detect", I wonder where these detectors go for deadbeat dads or abusive boyfriends. All women see is Chad, if you are Chad they will sleep with you, your flaws or positives do not matter, it is the end all be all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 03:08 PM
4	What do you think matters more to women? Income or passion? Then women should specify this before spouting lies	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 03:01 PM
7	What do you think matters more to women? Income or passion? It's like saying that women like intelligent men. LMAO I know right? Go to any STEM lecture and you'll find an abundance of sexless incels, there's actually a positive correlation between IQ and male virginity so this goes right out of the window. When they say they like intelligent men they MEAN is they like intelligent Chads. Same thing goes for "passion". Never take they say seriously, look at what they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 01:27 PM
18	I never understood the double standard about promiscuity. No but when women finds out a guy is a virgin they kind of start demeaning him in a "aww, aren't you a little naïve, pathetic, boy" type way, and will slowly kind of see him as less of a man and love interest. And if your a guy who is a virgin and get in an argument with a women knows this, 9/10 times she will use it as a "you can't even get a girl" type insult. So yeah women are as much capable of shaming men for being virgins, idk why this is surprising to so many of you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 07:51 AM
0	Feel like I’ve pissed away my 20s doing long distance Women don't want a man whos entire life revolves around her. It's not uncommon for modern women to get jealous of gaming consoles. You are right though they don't want a man like that, they might think they do up until it happens and then feel he's too needy and its on to the next.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 07:42 AM
43	I never understood the double standard about promiscuity. Regardless of the term incel, I've still witnessed women use someone's virginity as a shaming tactic. Both men and women use it in such a way, same with slut. There is in actuality no double standard, women just complain more about it than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 07:29 AM
0	Feel like I’ve pissed away my 20s doing long distance Then the girl will complain about she feels that your not spending enough time with her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 07:25 AM
11	I never understood the double standard about promiscuity. You are a woman. On. A. Subreddit. You represent such a small minority of your sex that your unique experiences say very little about you're gender as a whole. Every time a statement is made about females here some girl always barges in and says "Not all women I'm different! My bf/husband/SO is short/poor/a virgin". Stop it, your mnior personal exception is not changing anyone's mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 06:37 AM
72	I never understood the double standard about promiscuity. The amount of women that genuinely think that they're the only gender that goes through shit is both eye opening and unintentionally hilarious. Half the girls bitching about slut shaming will call a man a sexless, loser, incel in the same breath lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 06:32 AM
8	Feel like I’ve pissed away my 20s doing long distance Yupp, thats why as a guy you wait till your later years to focus on settling down. Know too many men that wasted their prime youth on a ultimately pointless relationship that ended up going nowhere when they could've spent the same time and energy learning a skill, making friends & memories, working on themselves, traveling, learning etc. Just use this pain as motivation to act now, honestly it's not too late to do all those things but you have to put in work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 06:28 AM
5	The western world is actually the best and safest place for men They are by Russian standards. The average American Woman weighs more than the Average Russian Man, and these are known to be some of the toughest guys on earth. But yet these women have higher standards than Russian women lol! No man would like at you women twice in Russia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/20 10:43 PM
-1	The western world is actually the best and safest place for men Oh these pathetic excuses for “men” would die in Eastern Europe. Same goes for you overweight, mentally ill, unfeminine pathetic excuses of women. What you fail to realize is that Russia is just as tough on gender roles for females as they are for males. Women are expected to be petite & slim, obesity is an embarrassment there for girls and considering average American Woman (170.6 pounds) is HEAVIER than the average Russian Man (76.7 Kgs = 169 pounds) most of you post-wall landwhales would be 1…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/20 10:33 PM
1	Women overestimate men’s attraction to thin female fashion models, study finds http://psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/beauty-sick/202008/women-think-men-desire-skinny-models-heres-why-they-re-wrong Doesn't matter most men aren't rich, if any thing there are more poor guys than rich ones so the point still stands. Generally a majority of studies relating to male body preferences shows that they are predisposed to like curvier bodies. Sure some men like skinny girls, some men also like feet but if you took the same looking female and made men decide between a thin body, fit body…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/20 01:28 AM
1	Women overestimate men’s attraction to thin female fashion models, study finds https://www.menshealth.com.au/female-body-type-men-find-most-attractive https://www.today.com/health/ideal-real-what-perfect-body-really-looks-men-women-t83731 https://metro.co.uk/2016/12/15/why-is-the-dadbod-more-accepted-than-the-mumbod-6322460/	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/20 01:10 AM
14	Women overestimate men’s attraction to thin female fashion models, study finds So I don’t think men overestimate that women in general find Chad attractive, just go outside and see for yourself. Yup I've seen plenty of skinny chicks go unnoticed by guys or even made fun of for being built like a toothpick. I've never seen a Chad have any trouble attracting or dating women even the socially awkward ones. Honestly the only time you'll see a good-looking Chad complain about women is if he's annoyed by the ones he not into asking him out lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/20 04:07 PM
18	Women overestimate men’s attraction to thin female fashion models, study finds If women do not understand that men prefer curvy or fit bodies over anorexic ones then idk what to tell them. Men like sex and it's just enhanced when a woman has a great body, being skinny kind of leaves nothing to the imagination.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/20 03:55 PM
12	Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing? Although, "niceguys" aren't exactly nice, it's an act. Why do people say this?? Idk about you but most "NiceGuys™" aren't looking for a quick fuck and genuinely do care about the girl on a deeper level beyond just sex. I think any guy that has been in that situation was not acting out of some sort of pervy, horny thirst but feelings of sincere, naive affection for the girl. Usually they're more concerned with having a girlfriend than busting a nut. Not saying that niceguys don't deserve to be ro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/20 03:50 PM
8	Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing? Nice isn’t a personality trait, it’s the bare minimum to function in society BS. You don't have to be 'nice" to function in society, you just don't have to be a complete and TOTAL scumbag. There are plenty of people who are beautiful, wealthy, successful with wondrous lives who are giant assholes and there are many ugly, broke, low skilled workers who are the nicest people you'll ever meet. I mean look at celebs. Niceness is a valueless trait and not just in dating, sadly you'll likely get farth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/20 03:41 PM
21	Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will? What’s the difference? Usain’s genetics allowed him to be extremely fast. If a woman’s genetics allow her to be extremely hot, that’s a form of talent. No even with his genetics Usain had to but in tens of thousands of sprints, work outs and dietary changes, the amount of work is nowhere near the same even for a world class supermodel yet alone your average hot person, genetics or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/20 10:13 PM
2	In conclusion most men suffer from dating cause they are NOT “popular “enough If you’re not socially well-adjusted enough to make friends what the fuck makes you think you deserve a relationship, or could even sustain one? Mehhh this is kind of dumb. If your 5'7 and chubby with a large friend group I seriously doubt that you'd get more action than a 6'2 muscled up Chad. Realistically what will happen is the ugly kid will get friendzoned by multiple chicks in the group lol. Most of the guys really running through these girls are not invested in their lives or friend groups…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/20 06:59 AM
3	Genuinely curious if women can understand where men are coming from men and women have to guard their competing interests in dating, there's no way around it. Not really, a good portion of men are active supporters of Team Women™, if they weren't we would not be here. when you phrase female sexuality as a "Reward" to men, it denies womens interior existence and world and reduces them to objects in men's worlds. this is literally part of what feminism means by "objectification". So what women do the same thing and objectify men all the time, whereas instead of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 01:14 PM
1	The next generations will be filled with “assholes” in dating I provided 2 highlighted links in the paragraph above??	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 01:01 AM
0	The next generations will be filled with “assholes” in dating Thats pretty some shitty "evidence" lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/20 09:27 PM
6	The next generations will be filled with “assholes” in dating Any evidence to support that? Back in the day college educated, conservative and religious gentlemen were getting more action than most most men now. I doubt that they were just nerds getting stuffed in lockers, the evidence shows that many college educated men had no issues getting as much sex as their non-educated badboy peers. This trend only seemed to drop around the 70's as non-educated men were still finding partners but their nerdier counterparts experienced a drop in sex. According to re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/20 06:21 PM
10	The next generations will be filled with “assholes” in dating Women have been choosing dangerous, exciting, powerful guys since forever. "Nice guys" have been complaining since forever. Nahhhh, mid 50's tradcon, traditional dating advice were the some of the most BP, simp stuff you would ever hear. Send a girl 50 flowers after talking to her once, take off your coat and give it to her when it's cold etc. Where do you think men paying for the first date came from? The men could get away with this back in the day cause they were still generally the only gend…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/20 05:17 PM
1	The average guy in the real world has no issue in finding relationships. If a guy struggles with women, he is not average; he is like in button 10% and has a combination of many low-quality traits, or he is single because of his own fault. Just cause you've finished school doesn't mean that you can't still hook up with college age women lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/20 09:36 AM
4	The average guy in the real world has no issue in finding relationships. If a guy struggles with women, he is not average; he is like in button 10% and has a combination of many low-quality traits, or he is single because of his own fault. Anyone that thinks College is your last ditch effort to meet women knows nothing about dating. No different than the people who said highschool are the best days of your life. After you graduate and you've get your own place, car and money you can easily score more than your college self ever could, at least if you understand appearances and social dynamics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/20 07:39 AM
3	The average guy in the real world has no issue in finding relationships. If a guy struggles with women, he is not average; he is like in button 10% and has a combination of many low-quality traits, or he is single because of his own fault. As the cliche goes just take a trip down to your local Walmart and you'll find an abundance of fugly couples. Those couple are mostly 30+ and haven't lived to really experience that full effect of OLD and social media like the younger generation has. There was no #MeToo, Tinder or TRP when they were young kids. Also conversely most average men WILL get in relationships but not while their young and not because of their skills. After women age and all the Chads have settled down, most women will …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/20 07:33 AM
1	Rural SMP is more forgiving. One aspect to incels isn’t their looks, but they’re usually some level of autistic You do realize almost 1/3 of young men could be classified as incels? I seriously doubt most of them are autistic...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/20 07:24 AM
3	Rural SMP is more forgiving. Yes, less people = less competition in terms of dating. Also rural towns have significantly less to do, people will inevitably start sleeping with one another out of boredom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 11:51 PM
5	How much truth is there to this statement? incapable of falling in love with men after a certain age ] No, they're incapable of attracting top quality men after a certain age because as they grow older they lose their biggest bargaining tool (looks). Conversely even if they do look good it will be harder to get these men as after a certain age many HVM will have be in a committed relationship, usually with someone more attractive than the now post-wall women. Y'all really thought each of you could marry a top 20% guy? That just seems t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 07:14 AM
4	How much truth is there to this statement? I see non hot people couples together all the time, like have any of you ever step foot in a walmart? AF/BB, those ugly guys are usually holding hands with post wall, women who have accepted that they will never obtain commitment from the Chad's that pumped and dumped them throughout their youth. While women are young and smashing HVM they fail to realize that in a few years, in the best case scenario the top 20% men will settle with the top 20% women and so on. Chad's will commit with Stacie's,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 06:43 AM
2	If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it. Who cares if I was or wasn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 05:14 AM
8	If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it. No shit, I put incels in commas for a reason as I was referring to the massive rise in the online presence of sexually frustrated men (Blackpill, Looksmaxing, PUAhate, some segment of RP etc) not men who can't get laid. This went completely over your head. Also you must be delusional, there are literally studies showing now almost a 1/3 of young men can be classified as incels and that males now are having less sex/relationships than almost any other generations before them. https://news.iu.edu/…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 04:33 AM
6	If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it. Tinder is only 29% female Tinder is a single dating app, not online dating. Studies show online dating is the most common ways heterosexual couple meet and the 2nd is clubs/bars. Both of which are realms where looks are heavily based. In the past you'll see that friend groups were the most common way which would have been a scenario where uglier more personable men could succeed but now it's fading into irrelevance. https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-coup…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 04:14 AM
31	If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it. However, that doesn't hold up for the guys. We can bring charisma, and tons of other personality traits to redeem ourselves. The ugly guy with personality trope may have been possible around 10+ years ago but you have to realize that were currently in an era of dating dominated by dating apps and social media. This caused women to be much more predisposed to care about and pre-select based off appearance, I mean "incels" weren't really around until 2015, and they didn't just sprout up then for a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 01:30 AM
6	Both genders are at fault for being "Used" : "Pump and Dump" female and "Strung Along Beta" make are both at fault All I’m doing is calling bs on the claim that if a woman puts in effort and puts out early that she’ll get the girlfriend label and then good treatment and effort with it. It’s bs. Goes the other way too. There's no promise that if a man puts in effort with a nice big dinner that women will put out. A lot of times they feel inclined to withhold sex cause they feel like they might be gf material and don't want to seem too easy or know that the man is overinvested and start playing games. Most guy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/20 05:44 PM
1	Ladies, what masculine qualities/male traits do you find attractive, and what are repulsive when it comes to dating & mating? Because attraction isn't a conscious choice. I disagree but I find it funny that you believe that women aren't even conscious of what attracts them yet claim that they will not fuck almost any Chad because of their narcissistic lifestyles...when you yourself admit to liking or are being attracted to Chad's despite said repugnant lifestyle. Maybe, just maybe women aren't so conscious after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 04:28 PM
7	Ladies, what masculine qualities/male traits do you find attractive, and what are repulsive when it comes to dating & mating? Some women will fuck every Chad they can while others find Chad's loose and narcissistic lifestyle repugnant. Most women will fuck almost every Chad they can including the ones that find their loose and narcissistic lifestyle repugnant. I like pretty men, but they are often terrible people, so celibacy is the best option for me like 95% of the time. Why even like them if they are terrible people? Oh right. I'm sure celibacy is also a an option for all the women who keep lining up to sleep with C…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 02:59 PM
3	Why don't men wear heels too? Men aren't insecure about out looks enough to put on a facade and spend hours masking our faces with manufactured paint. Women will hide their true faces and then criticize men for bein ugly. Women will tuck their bellies into their jeans then reject a guy for being too chubby. Women will wear fake hair extensions and then think she's too good for a guy for with a receding hairline. Their so blind to their own hypocrisy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 02:05 PM
47	Ladies, what masculine qualities/male traits do you find attractive, and what are repulsive when it comes to dating & mating? A stingy, selfish and misogynistic man is gross to me. So is a pretty, but stupid and hyper macho man. AKA Chads. Apparently women are not attracted to the men they perform sex on the most. One of the best advice for men is to not take any dating advice seriously from the vast majority of women. They will lie to you like they lie to themselves, look at what they DO never listen to what they say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 01:53 PM
1	Does anyone actually love anyone for who they are? No. Personality is just one component of in an ensemble of causes behind why people may like someone. Other significant factors may include looks, height, income, status etc. which have all been documented to significantly alter not only ones dating success but social interactions and even career performance. The concept that you could be loved for who you are is simply BP pandering like "looks aren't important", or "there's someone for everybody" which are actually just parroted to mask or cope…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 01:23 PM
0	The female equivalent to porn is attention whoring and if more women engaged in it as frequently as men, they would not have it. Maybe the weird, antisocial, chubby SJW tumblr girls. Most girls at that age were more far more likely retweeting or MCM'ing pictures of Zac Efron or Ryan Gosling, than writing fan fiction on tumblr.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 12:18 AM
-1	The female equivalent to porn is attention whoring and if more women engaged in it as frequently as men, they would not have it. 70% of romance readers discovered the genre between the ages of 11 and 18. And what segment of those readers accounted for the young female population? Reading a couple Twilight novels once in middle school is not the same as regularly purchasing romance novels throughout your 20's. Younger buyers (those under 30) are not quite as devoted, reading and purchasing less often. Like I said if you did a survey around a college campus or club 90+% of the girls on there will not be able to even name …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 12:05 AM
3	The female equivalent to porn is attention whoring and if more women engaged in it as frequently as men, they would not have it. I've seen obese, body-positive IG "models" amass hundreds of thousands of IG followers on Instagram regularly, so yeah..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 11:35 PM
-1	The female equivalent to porn is attention whoring and if more women engaged in it as frequently as men, they would not have it. No, bodice ripper romances - including 50 Shades of Gray, which broke readership records - are the female version of porn How many women do you honestly know that regularly read Bodice ripper romances? Lol Maybe it's porn to 50 year old, post-wall, divorced cat ladies but asides from 50 Shades of Grey, most Millennial and Gen Z women can't name a bodice romance novel to save their lives..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 11:25 PM
4	Opinions on deadbeat dads? but why is it no one seems to acknowledge the failure on the bio dad who ditched and barely ever sees their kids while skimping on child support? I think in many of these "deadbeat dad" scenarios it's generally evident from a mile away that the father will not be in the picture, even prior to the birth. A lot of the times the guy is generally irresponsible, not too financially stable and an overall bad partner. Typically they hardly care about the woman, so most people would assume that she woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 01:57 AM
1	Is there any research on if humans are evolutionary conditioned to be monogamous/polyamorous? Didn't expect you to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 11:51 PM
1	Is there any research on if humans are evolutionary conditioned to be monogamous/polyamorous? You do realize there are sources within the articles...	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 09:29 PM
10	Do you think decline in male-only spaces is triggering a crisis in Masculinity for Many Working Class Males? Straight women are a plague on gay bars. They show up sloppy and loud and somehow get offended when lesbians hit on them in a gay club. Don't worry, they do the same thing to men in straight clubs lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 09:05 PM
2	Is there any research on if humans are evolutionary conditioned to be monogamous/polyamorous? This is ridiculous. Most research points out to humans being polygamous, somewhere in between or having multiple pair bonding strategies. If you scope the scientific literature by and large most agree that humans were not designed for monogamy on a biological level. https://slate.com/technology/2012/10/are-humans-monogamous-or-polygamous-the-evolution-of-human-mating-strategies.html https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn14817-polygamy-left-its-mark-on-the-human-genome/ https://www.washingtonpos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 09:03 PM
1	Hey guys share your thoughts about this perspective - Do you consider sex as merely a form of action or is it more than that? Can it be equated to activities like Dancing or Singing? However, lots of men view it as just an action for them, they get to treat it as just an activity, but view it as much more for women. For me but not for thee mentality. That's what happens when women perpetually use sex as a treat to reward their partner for doing something they like or a penalty after doing something they dislike.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 10:17 AM
3	Why is virginity shamed? For shaming virgin men, however, its a part of actual toxic masculinity culture. In that case I guess slut shaming is part of toxic femininity culture, since 90% of those doing the actual shaming are women lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 10:13 AM
2	When you and a man start going on dates, what makes you decide you want to sleep with him? I decide if I want to sleep with a man or not BEFORE we go on our first date. I don't bother going out with men I'm not attracted to. And this is why looks matter lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/20 11:41 PM
4	Do you think women's breasts are way more sexualized than they should be? This is a bad analogy because boobs/nipples are a common erogenous zone for women which makes them inherently sexual Who cares there are plenty of sensitive parts on a woman's body (inner thighs, neck etc.), that doesn't determine whether or not a part of the body is sexual. Again it's about sexual selection not sensitivity, it's the fact that these features are seen as sexual pleasing and in part selected for by the opposite sex which makes a difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 09:30 PM
26	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Exactly, people seem to forget that looks play a role in how people perceive your personality. Heck if you're attractive enough you literally do not need a personality, people will have already decided they liked you just by looking at you. Imagine 2 guys, one that looks like Brad Pitt, the other a short neckbeard. If both were bold women would say the attractive one was confident, and the ugly one was cocky. If they were both quiet they'd say the attractive one was mysterious and the unattracti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 10:41 PM
11	Most women I know are not as funny as the men. Why do you think that happens? That said, I have noticed a phenomenon where men are like blind to women making jokes No not really, we can pick up on humor it's probably just not that funny. Men will laugh at a woman's jokes if he likes her or is trying to sleep with her but besides that honestly most women are lacking socially. The amount of girls whose personality is their phone is astonishing. It's almost like they find it cool to not be too interested or try to participate in a conversation cause they're so used to people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 10:28 PM
6	Are people this days less "datable"? Highly sought after men have high standards, highly sought after women too have high standards when it comes to dating Notice the highlighted wording. Highly sought after men have high standards, not average or below average men. Conversely, what planet do you live on where "highly sought after" women are the only females with high standards? Woman who are straight 5's and 6's, single mothers and drop-outs will have standards just as high. Funny you for you to speculate on my personal life and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 04:28 PM
11	Are people this days less "datable"? people woman these days want to find the perfect partner instead of a good partner. The bar for who men would date is definitely not as high, please don't group us in with this nonsense. Most men would be fine with a nice looking, kind, and gentle woman to settle down with. It's only woman who approach dating envisioning themselves as protagonists in a generic romance movie, searching for their mythical prince charming they were told that they deserved since childhood. Expecting to find their pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 07:42 AM
19	Do women want to be sexualised and why/why not? Woman in tight pants and a white shirt showing off her nipple piercings through it is showing off for the good looking guy not your ugly ass. Or for "herself". Yeah Sarah I'm sure you left the house with your face caked inch deep in makeup, a push up bra, waist trainer and 2 inch heels that are "killing you", so that you can feel comfortable in public. Why can't women just tell the truth, it's practically out, like why deny it? We already know why you do what you do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/20 12:09 AM
10	Do women want to be sexualised and why/why not? Guys do- girls do not, even a less attractive or "heavier" woman will believe the delusion that they are better than most men absolutely within or even slightly above their league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/20 12:02 AM
39	Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers? Men see them as cucked out Beta Bucks. You're essentially dating an older, less attractive, used up woman while taking on the financial and familial burden of raising a child that's not even your own. It just looks bad in a way, like your getting played, white knighting or that you're a sucker y'know. She let a guy who can't even bother to raise his own kids impregnate her but puts all these standards on you. You're over here giving her your all, while the other guy gave her nothing. It's like a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 12:42 PM
0	CMV: TRP and FDS preselect for women and men who are fundamentally not healthy for a LTR There's a big difference between dying alone after decades of marriage and dying alone after being single for several decades, nice try tho lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 10:04 AM
2	What is social media and dating apps doing to young women? attractive frat boys are memed and called creeps still. And still get laid and have sex lives, funny how women are actually rewarding all these creepy fratboys/badboys/deadbeats that happen to be sexually forward AND attractive. Women seem to have a bad habit of sleeping with all the men they call misogynistic and sexist. Also women will call almost anything creepy. They'll call a man creepy for existing around them too long but grow up keeping 50 posters of a teenage boybands in their room, obs…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 09:09 AM
2	What is social media and dating apps doing to young women? Of course, getting complimented or hit on is nice sometimes, but a lot of DMs or catcalls are sexual in nature which is NOT what most women want. Nooo women just don't want DM's or catcalls from men they find unattractive, if it was Zac Efron doing this most women would be flattered and happy for the interaction. Imagine - you get groomed and dress up to go to an event/party. You shave, put on some nice clothes and cologne. Now once you're walking, people start hitting on you in a degrading ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 06:50 AM
5	What is social media and dating apps doing to young women? I mean if this was so true why do women frequently go out of there way to attract male attention. They don't mind creating an Tinder or bumble account, leaving the house caked with makeup and a tight dress or posting provocative photos online for the sole purpose of garnering male attention. I mean they're literally using this attention to make a nice living for themselves now. But whenever this desire for male attention is bought up women are swift to deny it. I think men are skeptical as if wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 01:36 AM
4	CMV: TRP and FDS preselect for women and men who are fundamentally not healthy for a LTR but I have a feeling most woman would rather be alone than stuck with a big, fat negative. Thats what they say now but how many women outside of nuns and cat ladies do you actually see dying with with no partners. Staying single for 10-20 years is a soul crushing endeavour for most men and were mentally much better suited to be alone. Think about a woman having 0 love interests, companions, romance until she withers and dies alone of old age. No flowers, proposals, engagement rings, honeymoons, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/20 11:47 PM
19	CMV: TRP and FDS preselect for women and men who are fundamentally not healthy for a LTR I used to think FDS offered smart strategies but after checking out the sub it's actually quite delusional. The sub offers little advice to no advice on making women more attractive or self-improvement to attract the men of their dreams but rather convinces them to take an all or nothing approach and hold out until a tall,handsome,attractive, high-earning, beta-alpha, simp Chad decides that a overweight, post-wall, 30+ year old bitter woman is who he wants to spend his life with. They don't seem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/20 09:56 PM
16	What is "bluepill" philosophy exactly? What beliefs are associated with being "bluepilled"? Basically blue pilled men are just slaves. Exactly, slaves to women They essentially worship them and view women as some sort of pure, divine beings as opposed to regular people, causing them to always overlook or make excuses for their faults. They views themselves as being beneath even the most mediocre, average woman. A BP man would let a woman pummel him before lifting his hands to defend himself and would place a girl he just started dating above his friends, families and personal prioritie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/20 12:32 AM
48	How much do (or should) you sacrifice your lifestyle choices just to conform with what the opposite sex finds attractive? I'm not going to do anything I don't in particular like to conform to the opposite sex's beauty standards. For example if girls really like man buns or designer clothing, I'm not going to grow long hair or buy Gucci just so that I can attract some women, at that point I'm kind of sacrificing my own interests for others. However if it's a beauty standard that I myself enjoy that women seem to appreciate, like having a fit body or getting a nice beard I have no problem "sacrificing" some time and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/20 03:00 AM
3	The reason why most men struggle with dating is because OLD doesn’t work and cold approaching doesn’t work Better yet Steve Buscemi. Lifting weights is great and will improve your rating but lets not kid ourselves it won't compensate for an ugly face in most cases. If men really really want to improve their dating they need to focus more on hair, skincare, fashion etc and less on vague bs like hobbies or focusing on yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 12:22 PM
0	"Women prefer assholes"; a more well rounded perspective those who have had childhood trauma often are raised by psychopaths and narcissists, so they’ve been made for psychopaths and narcissists in a sense. Yeah but plenty of men have been raised/abused by psychopaths and narcissists but they're not more inclined to date women with said traits. Also these studies were conducted in fairly developed countries, so the number of women raised by average or loving parents should make up for those that came from trauma.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 06:37 AM
55	The reason why most men struggle with dating is because OLD doesn’t work and cold approaching doesn’t work When will you people learn that in 2020 looks are damn near a prerequisite for men to have success in dating. You can have all the hobbies in the world but if you look like Harvey Weinstein in the face your going to have a rough dating life. If men want success in dating the first thing they should do is undergo a makeover and get better looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 06:32 AM
3	Equality Never raise your hand to a woman anyone. Periodt. FTFY	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 01:12 AM
4	Is it a dealbreaker for you if a man is too messy/nasty? Speaking from a guys perspective, every man has heard of or experienced stories where a dude was initially very physically attracted to a women and then in the bedroom may have noticed some sort of gross vaginal odour during sex. Pretty much all of these end in the guys never hooking up or meeting with the chick again. So the fact that smell can relinquish even the "unquenchable" male thirst to the point that they no longer desire sex with a women they were chasing tells it all I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 09:44 PM
3	How often do you see a handsome man with an unattractive woman? Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard They're looksmatched for sure, Kristen Bell is not that much more attractive than your average women. If you go to a nightclub in any mid to large sized city you'll find a decent number of girls objectively better looking than her	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 11:31 AM
7	How often do you see a handsome man with an unattractive woman? Yupp that's definitely why women spend hundreds of dollars on it, to have their wrinkles stand out more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 07:48 AM
10	How often do you see a handsome man with an unattractive woman? Most couples are looks matched or the woman is better looking. Disallow makeup for a week and you'll see a significant shift in this. For some reason people take a woman's face powdered in foundation, fake eye lashes and mascara etc. as her final rating and her actual face as her being "not ready yet". Cosmetics are a cheat code. Men go bare faced their whole lives and cant cover acne, blemishes or wrinkles so of course there will be a difference. Doesn't mean the women is better looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 11:31 PM
1	The more physically attractive a woman is the more shallow she’ll be in her mating choices To be honest in my personal experience I've found good-looking women (8 and up) to actually be easier to pickup and conversate with than more unattractive ones. More attractive women also tend to be more upfront and respectful with rejections, likely because they are used to men approaching them. I believe less attractive women are worse to deal with because they realize that most men are usually only looking for a hookup, are cautious that men will reject them later on or are either looking for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 10:46 PM
5	Many people here talk about how well women have it, how men are judged by so many things, status, etc. but what can be done about it? What can you do if, for example, as a man you envy women for their power and options? Men should really start transitioning into focusing more on looks. Seriously, behind all the smoke and mirrors, 90% of dating in 2020 (especially casual hook ups) comes down to attractiveness. All this pick-up, pseudoscience, mumbo jumbo is causing more harm than good. It's like watching a scrawny 15 year old with a diet of mountain dew and doritos believe the reason for his lack of progress is cause he isn't doing the proper exercises.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 03:30 PM
3	CMV: Men who complain about getting rejected are pathetic. As long as you improve yourself and focus on bettering your life, it shouldn’t matter how many times you get rejected. This is sounds like something an out-of-touch, middle aged mother would tell her naïve, pre-teen son. Look rejection is part of the game, you cant expect to fix your jumper without missing a couple shots. The issue is that the proverbial net gets higher every season. As the dating standards for women increase, men find they encounter rejection much more often in clubs, parties, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 11:44 AM
5	Girls vs guys and double standards. Tell that to the lady comparing it to being sold as a product, not me	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 06:45 AM
3	Men who don't watch porn are mostly abbormal/baggage-laden They could be learning a skill or perfecting their craft. Who says they don't? There's 24 hours in a day, it's not all devoted to porn lol. Heck walk into the lecture hall of most computer science or engineering class' and I can guarantee the vast majority of the men there are probably frequent users. Does that mean they aren't learning a skill? This notion that only successful men don't watch porn is laughable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 12:35 AM
11	Girls vs guys and double standards. And women love it. Which is why they spend hours getting dolled up, show up, get free drinks and validation from men they've rejected and sex with a Chad if they can find one. Stop acting like women are some sort of objectified victims in all of this when they're actually the willful participants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 12:23 AM
3	Men who don't watch porn are mostly abbormal/baggage-laden they don't want to spend hours wasting time sitting with one hand busy when they can chase real women and have fun with their hobbies. Most men will waste a lot more time and money "chasing women" than watching porn, that I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 12:15 AM
3	Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards. I don't even know what forums your talking about, this is the only forum I frequent which is related to gender dynamics, take that however you want. Whether they do or do not discuss those thing I do not know as I don't venture there and I find it weird/off-putting that a women would have such in depth knowledge of such things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 12:02 AM
5	Are pornsick men that common? Have you ever dated one? How was the experience? BBW, Slim, Amazon, Mature, Interracial, Curvy etc are all normal porn categories that one can find on any major site. Most mainstream sites target a multitude of those categories to their viewers so idk what your talking about. Porn actually makes sexually frustrated men worse, just look at the Elliott Rodgers of the world... What an outrageous take. Elliot Rodgers was literally clinically insane for years prior to the shooting, porn or not he would have likely killed people. If porn did turn …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 11:49 PM
5	Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards. I'm surprised I was able to read that much of your mind-numbing drabble honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 11:14 PM
3	Are pornsick men that common? Have you ever dated one? How was the experience? . I’ve heard tons of stories of even virgin dudes having unrealistic expectations, esp of women’s bodies Not really.. sane men are able to differentiate literal pornstars from the women they see everyday, no one expects to strip an average girl down to find the body of Jenna Jameson. Ironically porn is one of the few forms of mass media which actually presents a diverse variety of body types for women, with wide distinctions in height, weight, race, curves etc. If anything porn has confused wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 11:10 PM
9	Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards. The reason men get backlash for their movements is that their groups are very much focused on breeding hate and negativity aimed at the opposite gender. Meanwhile FDS's 112K "Queens and counting" are able to expand freely, do women seriously not see the double standard here? You've been allowed to gather on every level and slander men for years, the second men do it you have a massive issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 10:58 PM
11	Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards. Tell that to the heads at reddit, apparently they can only notice "hate" groups when they're centered around males, while letting FDS say whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 10:52 PM
24	Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards. If men cared enough about it they would do the same. I don't understand why men complain that there isn't a body positivity movement for them. Literally every time men set out to assemble and resolve the multiple issues facing our gender whether it be TRP, PUA,MGTOW a horde of angry, unwelcomed women gather and have the groups in question dismantled or outlawed for being sexist. Meanwhile their "equality" groups have been spewing negative ideas about men for decades on a popular level. Even on t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 10:02 PM
4	Why do we always talk about female hypogamy and not male hypogamy? Basically: a higher earning woman makes them feel emasculated. You say this as if women themselves are not less attracted to men who earn less than them. Speaking as a male (for what that's worth), the AVERAGE women has a very high ego in the sense that she feels that she deserves a man whose qualities surpass her own. The average women feels she is better and deserves more than the average man, no guy wants to deal with the ego of a high earning, high maintenance, hypergamous female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 09:56 AM
31	Why do we always talk about female hypogamy and not male hypogamy? Male hypergamy is the polar opposite of female hypergamy. Women pre-select for men their status and higher, men pre-select women their status and lower. Males prefer not to date women more "successful than them". If you mean hypergamy by means of looks, then society already accepts the fact that men will always try to sleep with women better looking than them, it's so obvious that no one bothers discussing it so much, what's understood doesn't need to be explained. Women until recently were beli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 07:43 AM
-2	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Women are kidding themselves if they believe that they'll be able to remain single till death. Heck, that's an endeavour difficult for most men and we're much better adapted to deal with loneliness. So much of a woman's life revolves around dating, all the women past 45 who are still single are mostly crazy cat ladies. It's easy for girls to say this in their 20's and 30's when they're still getting some male attention, but they will get significantly less notice with age. It is what it is, I be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 09:56 PM