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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | My STBX filed for divorce and I’m currently working on a response to the complaint. | trickneezy | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/21 03:08 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Really looking for some advice…Some people want the security of having others at their disposal. I find it sickening. She values having options more than she values you as a person. The very least she could have done is allowed you to try and find happiness somewhere else. I'm surprised her therapist hasn't addressed the fact that she is stringing you along | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Will I even get a chance to defend myself?I've been in a similar boat. I have text messages and pictures of things that would show my ex's lack of stability and credibility. I was just barely able to avoid trial and it feels like something's missing. I know it would have cost me a lot of money that I don't have but I was hoping to have some kind of closure in the courtroom where things that she accused me of were proven to not be true. I'm basically being told that I was never on trial for any of my ex-wife's accusations. What it did do… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/22 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Vacationing with young kids as a divorced dad, how do I do it?When I have my kids for a vacation or a long weekend I will often ask them to brainstorm with me of things that they would like to do that their mother would prefer not to take them to or participate in with them. It could be anything from an action movie to in amusement park. I could see where it would be helpful to at least have one other adult tagalong. It doesn’t have to be another family. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/22 11:32 PM |
| 2 | I was cleaning up and the bitch said to meIt feels good to tell someone off but like everyone else is saying, if you let her trigger that kind of anger in you that only confirms what she’s trying to prove or it only reinforces what will be beneficial to her throughout the divorce proceedings. I was treated like shit in some ways for a long time in a similar way and the anger can feel righteous at the time. It can feel like you’re finally sticking up for yourself but your daughter doesn’t have context for this situation and she shouldn’t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/21 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Found out she bought lingerieHow did you find out? I would try to set things up so that you don’t find out any more. I’m separating it and can assume that kind of thing is gonna happen sooner or later but I don’t need to hear about it or know about it. Less I know about it the better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/21 04:38 PM |
| 10 | Is this a reason to get divorced?Man, this hit close to home. I’m sitting at the end of those 12 years. My wife and I are separated and I can tell you it never got any better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/21 10:15 PM |
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