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trifle_truffle/r/seduction24/06/17 05:04 AM
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Where are you based out of? I had much better success with women when I was in Europe compared to India. Sometimes, its just geography. ​ Ps: FWIW, you're doing far better than me at that age, if you've hooked up with 4 women. I was at 0
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:00 PM
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Yeah happened with me once. We went out very clearly as friends, she was acting super relationship-py, while I was only being friends. After that she blocked me.
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:57 AM
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escalate slowly. Drinks, hugs, kiss. Ask her to kiss you. Start exploring her body with your hands. remove her clothes. Calibrate as needed.
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:49 PM
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I won't say I'm great at texting, but I've gotten a few results and here are my 2 cents: ​ Before I get into specifics, here are two basic rules: #1: Don't worry about losing women. You can't get them all. And you will lose some. #2: The texts you get will determine the type of women you get i.e. if you send texts that are sexual, you'll get girls that are sexual, not necessarily ones looking to just be friends, long term relationship types ​ With this out of the way, let's get into specifics (T…
/r/seduction03/11/21 05:48 PM
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Are you okay with girls rejecting you, if you told them your true intentions?
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:46 PM
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let go. ​ But since you say "everytime" - do you make the conversation more fun and engaging? Do you talk on phone / video call?
/r/seduction20/09/21 01:51 PM
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Limerice man. There was a r/bestof post on it too. If it helps, I'm in the same boat of limerice too, so I understand what you're going through.
/r/seduction08/07/19 05:30 PM
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She's your ex. Let her remain your ex.
/r/seduction08/07/19 02:20 PM
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better at building attraction and framing the interaction please explain how. I need it
/r/seduction10/05/19 06:02 AM
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Here's the thing about PUAs. I used to try to be one. Only two good things came out of it : I spoke to many girls, secondly, I recognised the importance of escalating. I'd suggest to drop PUA stuff for now. If one is uncomfortable going out on a date, then its a long way to hook ups, etc. Hence I said to focus on the basics. Go out, have a good time. And thanks, my friendships with women are a cherished part of my social life.
/r/seduction07/04/19 12:15 PM
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Here's what I've found: Focus on the process, not the outcome. It doesn't matter if you're getting shot down, keep approaching. Similarly, don't focus in the sex part, focus on talking, enjoying yourself. Let's just be friends. Tough one. Some say to drop it easily. My personal feeling is that you can ask for some space before deciding to go out as friends, if you want. Hope that helps. Best of luck
/r/seduction06/04/19 07:58 AM
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This hits home way too hard.
/r/seduction10/02/19 05:00 PM
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You can also ask for help from girls, such as asking for directions (even if you know them). Just anything that makes you talk to them.
/r/seduction08/11/18 03:40 PM
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Hey u/raspberrylemonade56 ,I reformatted your document a bit; added in a table of contents. Hope you don't mind. Here's the link if you'd like to look at it: https://www.dropbox.com/s/h6hpgtrmrv6rkcc/models.pdf?dl=0
/r/seduction18/06/18 04:35 PM
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Hey, that has happened with me as well. And a mild anxiety disorder doesn’t help things as well. Recently I’m looking to manage expectations a bit. Before getting down to business, (at some point during the drinks / dinner) I casually be let it known (truthfully) that I love variety in sex and that how there’s no one way of pleasing a partner (especially via PIV sex). Having lowered expectations, I don’t feel so pressured to perform.
/r/seduction01/01/18 06:33 PM
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A bit delayed from my end, but thanks :)
/r/seduction22/12/17 03:24 PM
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Could you elaborate your comment? You're constantly thinking about having sex when you should be escalating to the next step in the process. If I understand you correctly, its best to stop thinking about the sex and focus only on the next step?
/r/seduction20/12/17 02:12 PM
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Well, hopefully you've built up some commonalities via text or phone before you meet them. But yes, the first meet is always awkward.
/r/seduction10/11/17 01:51 PM
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Thanks.
/r/seduction06/11/17 08:34 AM
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Any tips for good tongue technique ?
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:07 PM
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Here's an approach you can use: "Hey, don't I remember seeing you at _______" If she doesn't remember, then say "Oh well... maybe I'm wrong" or says "Yes" either way carry on a conversation as if you were talking to a friend. You're too focused on her not remembering you. It doesn't matter, its a small thing. If she doesn't remember you, just plow through it. Let it be like water off a duck's back.
/r/seduction25/09/17 10:11 PM
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Message right now. Delay is usually seen as a sign of disinterest.
/r/seduction25/09/17 10:06 PM
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Don't ask for her number for the sake of it. Ask because you ant to do something with her. For example: you can ask her to go out with you some time or go to any event. And if she agrees, just take her number to setup the time. Alternatively, just say to her that you'd like to stay in touch, and take her number for that. Plus, ask for her number every time till it becomes a natural habit; and not having her number feels weird.
/r/seduction04/09/17 12:23 PM
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Haha. yes, I need to learn that.
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:38 PM
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That's an interesting point, about girls not being therapists. That also includes not hoping for a successful outcome just to feel better about yourself.
/r/seduction24/06/17 09:42 AM
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Thanks! Still working on both.
/r/seduction24/06/17 09:41 AM
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Thanks! That's true
/r/seduction24/06/17 09:08 AM
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I think you might want to ponder over the following questions "Why do you want to give her shit? Just because she didn't reply?" And secondly, "Apart from deliberately ignoring you (which I assume is what you feel), what are the possible reasons she hasn't replied to you?"
/r/seduction24/06/17 06:04 AM
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Thanks for this! It's truly useful. I really liked your sentence "That is to say I'm not just asking these to give the impression I care, I ask because I'm genuinely curious." That's a thing which is so obvious, which I normally forget.
/r/seduction24/06/17 05:30 AM
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