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With your mouth
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:22 PM
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The most important thing in a lasting relationship is mutual long term goals. You and your current partner do not have that so I don’t think you will work out in the long run. imo, it would be best for both of you if you ended things sooner rather than later so you don’t waste each others time.
/r/seduction30/08/24 04:52 PM
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Sounds exhausting and based on your results like a waste of time.
/r/seduction09/07/24 06:36 AM
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Bro your strategy is crazy. You’re like one of those signature gathers going around with clipboards asking for phone numbers. I think you would have more success if you slowed down and went for quality interactions instead of focusing on quantity. Also you would creep less people out which I think would be positive for everybody.
/r/seduction08/07/24 09:24 PM
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Can’t keep count of 1? Not a good idea to start a relationship with lies.
/r/seduction26/06/24 04:50 PM
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It happens all the time dude.
/r/seduction14/06/24 03:50 PM
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imo, butterflies never last long term, it sounds like she doesn’t have much dating experience and is misguided. If you’re into just being fwb then I’d just continue forward as normal but if you want something more serious then I would tell her that and cordially end the relationship. Either she’ll realize that she wants to date you and come back or she’ll continue her butterfly hunt and you can move on, but continuing as fwb when you want something more serious sounds like it could be disastrous…
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:12 PM
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Or, “after years of fucking around I’ve decided you’re the best I can get”
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:33 AM
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How to win friends and influence people is a good book to read. It helped me realize how simple it is to relate with others, which could help you figure out how to hold/maintain conversations.
/r/seduction30/05/24 03:02 PM
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I think you would dig this book the offline dating method by Camille Virginia, it’s about getting dates from the perspective of a woman. My advice would be to think about your approachability. Camille talks about that a lot in her book, but an example would be how it’s easier for a guy to approach you when you are by yourself than when you are in a big group of people.
/r/seduction30/05/24 02:51 PM
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Come up with a date plan or two and then just reuse for all the girls you date. Once you’ve got your “routine”, you can just follow the same path you took before, rinse repeat until you find a girl you like.
/r/seduction28/05/24 03:17 PM
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Wow, no, those questions are not the same at all.
/r/seduction25/05/24 04:39 PM
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I think you can talk to him about it whenever you want, several months is a long time. It might be a good idea to think of how you will respond to him when he answers your questions. If-then questions, if he says he wants to be exclusive then what, or if he says he’s not interested then what, that way you will be a little more prepared for the conversation.
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:54 PM
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Bro, chill out a bit, 6 hours is not that long, she probably has stuff going on and doesn’t have time to respond. Wait a few days and send a follow up message, you get three strikes before you’re out. Also, you should go for the kiss. Even if you’re looking for a long term thing the kiss shows interest and let’s her know you had a good time.
/r/seduction23/05/24 10:21 PM
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Just go about your day as normal and hit on girls when you see them. Doesn’t have to be a chore.
/r/seduction18/05/24 07:25 PM
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I’ve been learning about attachment styles recently. It sounds like you have an anxious attachment style, I think I do as well. I feel loved when someone gives me affirmations that my relationship is secure, and become anxious when that is in doubt. This comes from a fear of abandonment. To not receive affirmations triggers my anxiety and if I’m not mindful that can cause me to become clingy and do anything to try and make things better, even though in some situations it would be better to just …
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:38 PM
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“Met this girl on snap.” 🤦‍♂️bruh. You’re getting played.
/r/seduction15/05/24 04:44 PM
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You could try just dropping compliments. You can go up to someone, compliment them on something and then just walk away. Nice shoes, I like your jewelry, I like your style, whatever. Build up some confidence talking to strangers. Do it to dudes too, just so you can normalize chatting with strangers.
/r/seduction15/05/24 02:35 AM
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I think you’re making this more complicated than it needs to be…
/r/seduction07/05/24 01:29 AM
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Sounds like she was making conversation. I’m not sure how avoiding trivial questions creates mystery, if anything I would think that would just make you seem boring. “revealed almost everything.” If basic small talk reveals everything about your character than you don’t have much depth as a person.
/r/seduction06/05/24 03:31 PM
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Do it!! Older women know sex better than younger ones. You’ll have fun and you’ll learn some stuff. Trust me, losing it to her will be more enjoyable than losing it with a fellow virgin.
/r/seduction04/05/24 10:52 PM
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Is there a reason you don’t have instagram? If there is, you could just tell them that.
/r/seduction03/05/24 03:34 PM
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Pick one man. You go for two and you’ll get zero.
/r/seduction29/04/24 03:56 PM
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Dude just relax and try to enjoy yourself. If you want feedback, ask her.
/r/seduction29/04/24 04:50 AM
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Bro count this as a win. You had a great night and intimately connected with a beautiful woman. It really doesn’t get much better than that. I wouldn’t stress too much about long term not working out, sounds like you’re better off anyways. 6 hours is farrr. You’ll never get to see her except 1-4 months a year and you don’t even really know her. Fuck that dude. There are tons of beautiful women out there, find one that lives closer.
/r/seduction27/04/24 03:13 PM
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Lol, whatever dude. Keep playing games, makes it easier for the rest of us.
/r/seduction12/04/24 09:50 PM
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That hasn’t been the case for me, far from it. But even if it was, ain’t nothing wrong with having some female friends. Women have friends they can introduce you to, and having female friends makes other women see you as safe and easier to approach.
/r/seduction12/04/24 05:22 PM
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In my experience, the better I treat a woman, the better she treats me. The energy I put in gets paid back 10 fold.
/r/seduction12/04/24 01:52 PM
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Buy a motorcycle and start smoking ciggies.
/r/seduction10/04/24 06:55 PM
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