| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 362 | Men do have a biological clock...and it runs faster than they think | LIES MEN TELL | triiiiiico | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:51 AM |
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| 63 | Holiday Dating Reminders & TipsSeen so many of the “bump on a log” type at various weddings and gatherings. Even if they are genuinely really shy, do you want to date someone who rebuffs small talk and makes the people in your life feel uncomfortable? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Being skeptical of the advice you get from older women about datingMy mom is a younger Boomer and she honestly always gave me fairly FDS-like advice. She is consistently shocked that when I apply her standards, there are zero male dating options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 11:11 PM |
| 3 | How to Spot a PAUpon first reading the title, my first guess for PA was "pickup artist", then "physical abuser", then finally "porn addict". It's crazy how many things we have to be vigilant to avoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:36 AM |
| 25 | Theory: “Tradwifes” and “pickmes” on social media are CIA psyophttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barefoot_and_pregnant "Barefoot and pregnant" is a common expression. When you don't leave the house (to work or socialize), you don't need shoes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 06:24 PM |
| 10 | For those who might be interested, NYTimes is doing a short survey asking Americans why they do or don't want children.So, The Daily does a podcast. Just this week they had two episodes (on Tuesday and Wednesday) with the birth rate as the subject. When they reported on the declining birth rate in Japan, they did mostly attribute it to women opting out of a system where they’re expected to take on virtually all of the work of running a household. I’m confident they won’t go with the “lazy and selfish” narrative, but I have doubts they’ll mention the “pregnancy is fucking terrifying” narrative without the additio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:36 AM |
| 14 | Not really active in this community but thought y‘all might appreciate my memeHaha we already talk about test tube babies though, they are just embryos produced through IVF that are then implanted into a uterus. What we need is artificial wombs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 12:46 AM |
| 3 | BS Communication Ploy- Delaying Your Address of Disrespect Hoping the Timeframe ExpiresTime shaming. Pretending your timing is constantly bad. It’s always an inappropriate or inconsiderate time to bring up disrespect to you. I've experienced so much of this with a NVX. Bring it up early during an evening we're together = "You just walked in the door and now you have to ruin the mood like that? I was hoping to have a nice evening." Bring it up later in the evening = "Do we have to talk about that now? I'm tired, I have to work tomorrow." Bring it up on an evening we're apart = "I d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 02:46 AM |
| 3 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsI'm pursuing my PhD. This is dependent on program, school, and location, but a STEM PhD student in a moderate COL city will typically receive a stipend that is more than enough to cover the basic costs of living. As long as they live within their means, they should be able to pay off loans and save for retirement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:40 AM |
| 7 | Your job is not a point of conversation. He will ask you where you work, don’t tell him. *TW: violence*I have my job title listed as “researcher”. A good chunk of the first messages I get are “what kind of research do you do?” Even discounting the (very real) possibility that someone could find out where I work if I get more specific, it’s also just so intensely boring. I don’t want to talk about work in my free time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 10:57 PM |
| 29 | Men do have a biological clock...and it runs faster than they thinkGreat link, and a very interesting idea that sperm may "evolve" over time to be better suited to the testicular environment, but in ways that can harm a future child! the authors float the idea that certain mutations give advantages to the sperm in its testicular environment. So the sperm are busy making copies of themselves to be sent out in search of an egg. Occasionally one gets a mutation that makes it heartier in some way and so it out competes its brethren. Now it becomes more common. Unfo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 26 | Fat lvm hitting on fit womenOn dating sites, I see a lot of men who want an "active" (read: thin...) woman, and they list working out as one of their hobbies, but they actually look quite chubby, often with a protruding belly. I much prefer a man who is skinny, rather than supposedly muscular under a thick layer of fat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 8 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"If I wanted to date women and I wasn’t having any luck, I’d listen to what women have to say because it is them that I want to attract. No they fucking don’t! Lmao, they say things like “If you want to catch a fish, you don’t ask the fish. You ask a fisherman.” and “Don’t listen to what women say. Watch what they do.” And then complain when women don’t want them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:22 PM |
| 4 | A little late to the bandwagon, but...💍He wanted to make sure she was worth it first before "going out and spending money". Straight from the horse's mouth!!! They don't want to go on a real date? They don't think you're worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:55 PM |
| 1 | DAE feel like weight is a major filter for LVMs?The key for me is to listen for their "not like other girls" comments. "I'm so glad you take care of yourself" (can he even wipe his ass properly?) "It's so great to finally meet a girl who does sports/fitness!" "I love that you can eat, some girls just eat salads all the time" (in which they shame women for meeting their physical standards, but in a way they don't personally find preferable...as if anyone cares) Is it flattering or reassuring to know that a man judges women on the basis of thei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:26 AM |
| 7 | Creepy guy I ghosted, never dated, still mad months later 😂"If I had to hear about how busy you were one more time I would have jumped off my fucking balcony" = pretending like he's actually the one whose life is improved from not talking to you anymore. "Some of the chats we had were fun" and "you're such a serious girl" = negging in the hopes that you message him back to prove him wrong (The Gift of Fear describes this phenomenon well!) "if you do read this, you really should say goodbye, or that you hate me, or I smell bad, anything. It's tough" = ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:25 AM |
| 17 | Men Have Feared Women for Millennia. Just Look at the Monsters of Greek MythologyThe audiobook is available on Spotify! I really enjoyed it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 06:30 AM |
| 20 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckYes! Wages have not increased as quickly as expenses have - gone are the days when most middle-class households could comfortably get by with only one earner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:25 AM |
| 38 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckThe financial success should be shared between the couple/among the family. She should be able to contribute to her own retirement savings and have her own bank account that is hers and hers alone, not one that she’s expected to use to pay for all the children’s expenses as well as her own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:49 AM |
| 14 | um no tf it’s not. this is the kind of low value “wholesome” things young girls are subjected to all the time. time has shown again and again that love is not enough. men need to bring more to the table.But the woman’s support is actually valuable in terms of the unpaid labor she’ll do, the kids she might raise, the emotional support she’ll provide, and the boost in social status her partner will get by being with her. A man’s love will rarely provide anything so valuable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 220 | How it feels to hear that other women have shared experiences with men/no longer having to gaslight yourself about how you were treated:I’m so glad this space exists!!! It’s so impossible to talk about these things in places where men can butt in and pile on to tell you you’re wrong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:43 PM |
| 84 | Never settle for LVMThe wrong men are attracted to anyone and everyone! It’s just that most women won’t give them the time of day, so they have to cast a wide net. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Absolute gem I found on a newspaper (2021 published!!) It talks about divorce and reasons for it and as you can tell, the differences between the sexes are, interesting.Society has concealed the fact that men’s fertility decreases as they age, to the point that men think they can sire children at any age with no detrimental effects on the child. It’s just not true! Sperm are continually replicating cells, and they accrue defects that get passed along. It’s only recently that research is bringing this to light. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:59 PM |
| 14 | So, FWB = happy life? 🤦🏻♀️They have this concept that women find 80% of men unattractive and use it to say that women are too picky, instead of taking a hard look at themselves. (It’s also not even true...women are still dating a wide range of guys) Also, not sure why they think Brad Pitt is still the paragon of male attractiveness! imo he peaked in Fight Club, over 20 years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:21 PM |
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