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Video games are for children. Grow the fuck up and maybe women won't be so creeped out by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:50 PM
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You can do as you like, just don't whinge about the results if you have no intention of changing anything on your end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:01 PM
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You're a fucking creep if preying on economically vulnerable women and girls makes you "happy".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:28 PM
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Weird, I'm broke and 40 and I haven't been single for more than a fortnight at a time since seventh grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:15 PM
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But if you ever expect to be able to talk about your feelings and get a sympathetic ear from your significant other, that's you demanding "unpaid emotional labour" from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:51 PM
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There's nothing hypocritical about it. Everyone has the right to shelter, food, education, healthcare, etc. You do NOT have the right to sex with anyone who doesn't want you. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:37 PM
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My girlfriend is always showing me posts from "Are we dating the same guy" groups, and I assure you the guys in question are never 10/10 übermenschen. In fact most of them look homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:42 PM
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Good looking guy who once enjoyed a Marvel movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:22 PM
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No, they really don't. In fact it's almost a cliché amongst bourgeois white feminists to complain about how many men prefer no (or minimal) makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:48 PM
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Unpopular truth. Straight men have a wide variety of tastes, and it's incredibly easy to find a guy who's into women who are some combination of chubby/fat, flat chested, short, etc. It's other women who will judge you for going out in public with a slightly passé nail polish colour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:44 PM
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Different people find different features attractive. I don't even really have a type, I sort of get attracted to the sum total of a woman. Personality, disposition, fashion sense, etc can make me extremely attracted to a woman I probably wouldn't think much of if I just saw a photo of her. My most recent ex was extremely pale, skinny, tall, had a very big nose, and suffered from adult acne. My current girlfriend has a very classically beautiful face, but is a foot shorter than me and probably cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:07 PM
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I don't think many porn users view it as a fully adequate replacement for actual sex. What JumboJetz is saying is that as technology improves and becomes more immersive/convincing, that will probably change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:37 PM
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Hetero women obviously have different preferences, some prefer skinny guys, some prefer muscular, some like blonde and blue eyed men, some prefer "tall dark and handsome", etc. But there are traits that are almost universally considered attractive, like tall stature and strong jawline and cheekbones. But arguably a man's biggest selling point is if lots of other women fancy him. A woman in a state of nature can only birth one child every three years or so, and every pregnancy and birth is Russia…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:32 PM
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Almost all of the girls I dated in my teens and 20s I met through friends, or at work. Young adults today seem to have fewer IRL friends, and they're more likely to work lonely gig economy jobs without many real coworkers. At the lower end of the socio-economic spectrum, most jobs are still largely gender-segregated, with men working in trades, and women doing things like cutting hair, housekeeping, and minding other people's children. Across class boundaries, our lives are more atomised and we …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:05 PM
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I honestly don't know any men like that. Many if not most guys actually prefer more 'attainable' women. Like, I remember in middle school, unpopular boys all had crushes on unpopular girls, but the unpopular girls preferred to pine hopelessly for popular boys. What it generally comes down to is the fact that men need women more than women need men, and many women would therefore rather be alone than settle. Which isn't 'wrong' nor is it 'right', it just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:56 PM
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Witches vs patriarchy Wait so there are adult women who think they can do actual magic?
/r/MensRights29/07/22 06:19 PM
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Yeah when I was a kid, my female friends' mums were always telling them to cover up more. Now my wife is usually mad at my daughter for wanting to wear a sweater in summer heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:28 PM
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Since Victorian times? Sure. Within the last quarter-century? Hell no. Modesty standards for females under 30 have remained more or less the same since the late 1960s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:26 PM
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I've only ever been rejected for my personality and I'm okay with that. Especially since I'm a man and my looks are harder to do anything about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:51 PM
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But isn't the general consensus among guys who post here that dating for straight males has gotten significantly worse in the last 25 years or so in the US? "Welfare as we know it" was ended in 1996, and more cuts to our already threadbare social safety net have happened since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:55 PM
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Antisemitism, plain and simple.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 12:28 AM
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Are people actually claiming that women care more about looks than men? I'd say women value appearance in a potential boyfriend more than was once assumed, especially in online dating, but I think most people agree that it's more of a factor with men. Most hetero dating apps are at least 75% males, possibly even higher, and so a woman needs a way to quickly filter out what she doesn't want. And when you're just looking at someone's profile, looks are the easiest factor to use, along with well-kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:31 PM
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Only if I had kids of my own to whom she was also acting as step-mother. I wouldn't get with a single mum if I was childless, unless she was a widow and was open to us having more kids together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:35 AM
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When/how?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:06 PM
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A man who claims he doesn't care is invariably so lonely and desperate that he can't afford to have standards of any sort, and he's trying the "nice guy" strategy in the hopes of winning over some fair m'ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:14 PM
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Is this really a thing that happens to guys? Literally every single time I've tried to maintain a FwB relationship, within a month the girl wants to have the, "So, like what are we?" talk, and gets visibly sad when I tell her I just want to keep it casual and have a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:00 AM
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At least then you know to start planning your exit strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:47 AM
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Didn't really happen with me, but my drastic weight loss happened fairly young, during my first year of college. Also even when fat I never had a problem getting girlfriends, but suddenly when the weight came off I was getting attention from much more attractive girls than I previously had. I can maybe see getting cynical if I'd lost weight later in life and/or if I'd had less luck getting girls when I was fat. As it stands, I take an "it is what it is" approach to this aspect of life. I definit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:24 PM
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Angry alt-right males are in for a rude awakening if they think they'd have better luck in the sort of brutal neo-feudalist dystopia they long to live in. If women aren't interested in you as a moderately successful wage slave under liberal democratic capitalism, they definitely won't be interested in you as a serf in your neo-reactionary fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:49 AM
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The vast majority of women aren't into guys who look like Ronnie Coleman or Arnold, and most definitely are swooning over powerlifter/strongman physiques. And in places like /fit/ and bodybuildingforums it's commonly and unironically claimed that only an effeminate gay man would start hitting the gym for the purpose of impressing chicks, they do it because they want to get strong and/or impress other guys who are into weight training. In my experience, young women are still likely to prefer the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:24 AM
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Real estate developer/rental property owner and manager. I guess my only "coworker" is my wife. I spend a lot of time dealing with contractors who are of course nearly 100% male. We also deal with renters and potential renters who are maybe 60% female, but the missus handles most of that end. Before I got into this I worked at a trucking company (>90% male), and before that I had basically every restaurant/hospitality job you can think of (80% female front-of-house, 80% male back-of-house). My p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:17 AM
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No, this has always been a thing. Younger women, and women on birth control tend to go for slender, "soft"-looking, somewhat androgynous males. From Georgian era fancy lads to 1970s teen idols, less masculine men have always been popular with a certain segment of the heterosexual female population.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:40 PM
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Wait...what?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 06:18 PM
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Sounds dreadful. I prefer a quiet life where I have lots of time to read, draw/paint, and work in my garden while listening to interesting podcasts. If being "high value" means being the sort of vapid extrovert who's terrified to be alone with their own thoughts, then I want no part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:10 PM
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This definitely isn't a new phenomenon. Over the course of high school and college in the 00s I worked several restaurant and retail jobs at my local mall, and I very quickly came to dread middle class white women 40 and over. Horribly entitled attitude, extremely critical of everything, constantly looking for even a subconscious sign of disrespect (e.g. they frequently accused me of rolling my eyes, or "giving (them) a look" when they made some ridiculous demand), and always itching for a reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:35 AM
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"High Value Male". From the Female Dating Strategy sub.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 04:01 PM
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Lonely, bitter women definitely exist.. Some FDS posters are being satirical, but a lot of them are 100% sincere about feeling entitled to a "HVM".
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 03:53 PM
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What does PDD mean in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:37 PM
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Unironically describing yourself as "childfree" is a massive red flag, yes. Even if I didn't want kids I'd think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:19 PM
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Almost by definition you can't "become" a natural. In college a friend of mine used to literally have me talk to girls he liked over AIM pretending to be him, because I just naturally knew how to flirt with and flatter a girl. He was always looking over my shoulder, but he never became good at it himself, because he just wasn't blessed with those instincts. It is what it is, you just have to recognise what your strengths and weaknesses are and try to make them work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:51 PM
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Definitely a lot of truth to this. Like in middle/high school, unpopular boys tend to get crushes on unpopular girls, while unpopular girls would rather hopelessly pine for popular boys who would never date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:02 PM
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No "high value man" would go anywhere near the sort of deranged spinster who posts to FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:39 PM
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Even if you're good looking and charismatic, cold approaching pretty women is going to fail at least 99% of the time. No matter how attractive a strange man is, women are still first and foremost thinking about their own safety, and without "references" from mutual friends, they're unlikely to want to risk it.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/22 12:33 PM
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Honestly I think a woman can be attractive at any age from 18 to 80. It's up to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:26 PM
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'Love Gods', season 2 episode 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:54 PM
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Just curious, what's your community?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:04 PM
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There was an episode of Sliders like that, except the surviving men were basically enslaved by the now-female run governments. They were housed in highly secured facilities, put on diet and exercise regimens to maximise sperm production and forced to submit daily semen specimens, and powerful women like politicians and military officers could come and have sex with the attractive ones if they so desired. I was like 11 when it first aired, and it...made me feel things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:57 PM
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Yes, absolutely. Thankfully we have universal healthcare where I live so money wouldn't be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:23 PM
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Excellent advice that every lonely teenage boy (or man who missed those milestones) should read. Two ways to repel a woman you're interested in are by 1) becoming blatantly obsessed with her, throwing yourself at her, and copying everything she likes in the futile hope that it will seem authentic and make her like you, and 2) being a generic dirtbag with generic dirtbag hobbies like getting stoned in your basement room and playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:08 PM
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Legs are the only part I require shaven. Pubic/armpit hair can actually look nice on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:20 AM
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If cargo trousers have indeed come back into fashion then we live in an even grimmer age than I'd thought. The rest have been popular for decades, but they make one look like a generic male who doesn't care about his appearance. Which of course isn't a problem if you're doing fine socially/romantically, but the OP was about young men who want to improve their prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:59 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:15 PM
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Hard truths. Things no man should leave the house wearing: *Wire frame glasses *A goatee or "chin shrub" facial hair *Sweatpants or gym shorts (when not exercising) *A plaid button up shirt unbuttoned over a t-shirt *Oversized t-shirts *Most legible clothing. Don't wear a sports team's logo unless you are currently playing for them. *Pullover hoodies *Ill-fitting jeans. Also carpenter jeans of any sort. *Pleat-front trousers *Cargo anything *Baseball caps (unless it's to keep your hair out of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:09 PM
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I see plenty of greasy neckbeards walking around in stained sweatpants and t-shirts. So apparently plenty of males haven't gotten the message yet. No matter how ugly you are, you will benefit greatly from getting in shape, getting a decent haircut, showering daily, and dressing like a successful grown-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:59 PM
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I assumed that would be why you weren't familiar with a common word like 'homely'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:24 PM
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I'm afraid you're in for an unpleasant surprise if you think majoring in 'STEM' is going to turn you into a chick magnet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:22 PM
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Is English not your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:46 PM
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Casual sex requires a certain level of emotional callousness when you're in the upper percentiles, because they all want to be your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:45 PM
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It seems like it's tougher than ever to find someone if you're young and single right now. When I was in my teens and 20s, I met virtually all of my girlfriends via LiveJournal, MySpace and eventually Facebook. None of which are used by young adults anymore. And I don't really see how the apps that have replaced them (e.g. TikTok, Snapchat) are conducive to dating and meeting people. It makes me glad to be happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:43 PM
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I was obese in high school, and frustrated that I wasn't attracting the sorts of girls I was into. Over the course of my first year of college I managed to lose well over 100 lbs, and it turned out I was reasonably good looking under all the fat. I've kept the weight off for over a decade and a half since, and life has been good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:19 PM
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I'm very happy with my wife, who's also the mother of our two kids. But if, God forbid, something happened to her, I would look for a new prospective partner to be either a widow herself, or simply a young woman who always wanted kids but is unable to carry pregnancy to term. But I certainly wouldn't have high hopes of finding either of those options and having good chemistry with them. So I'd probably just hire a nanny or an au pair until the children are grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:54 PM
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Men have evolved to be less picky, and to make the most of what they can get, therefore a lot of men actually have a thing for women who are fat, or past their prime, or otherwise not "conventionally attractive". While I'm sure there are a handful of women who like fat guys, it's safe to say that in general they're extremely rare, so you really have to make up for it by being charismatic, successful, funny, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:48 PM
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You're free to have whatever standards you want, just don't go blaming the opposite sex/feminists/MRAs/society in general when you end up alone because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:58 AM
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I always had mostly female friends, from preschool through college. Once you're married and into your mid-30s, it gets harder to maintain opposite sex friendships, unless they were friends with your spouse first. Like no one comes out and says, "I'm jealous of your friends and worried that they want to sleep with you, get rid of them", but it always seems to involve a lot of unspoken hints adding up over time. I always wished I could have more male friends, but that's always been wicked hard for…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:41 PM
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I assure you men in their 20s can have FWB too. I always had them when I was young, the trouble is you'd be having a good time for a fortnight or so and then she'd drop the whole, "So, like, what are we?" talk on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:19 AM
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If the first two were universal then I'd have called things off with my now-wife as soon as I saw her house for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:06 PM
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I hate to be that guy, but the username, in this case, does in fact check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:08 PM
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Too common for my liking. I'm 6'2, a gym rat with a physique like 90s Brad Pitt (albeit veinier and hairier), a face like the Mediterranean Chad meme, and a thick, full head of hair. I dress nice, I do ~70% of the housework, I try to be a loving an attentive husband in every possible way, and yet my wife has virtually no interest in me sexually. I hate it, it makes me feel depressed and alone, and I don't know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:31 PM
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Women, in general, care less about looks than men do. However, online dating has led to women placing more of an emphasis on looks, because that's what you see when you're swiping. And even an average looking girl is getting way more matches than she knows what to do with, and so filtering out the less-than-hot guys is an easy way to narrow down her prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:43 PM
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I'm happily married thankfully. But if, God forbid, something happened to my wife, and I felt the need to date again, I'd want it to either be a single mum (whose kids got on with mine), or a young woman who always wanted kids but was unable to conceive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:48 PM
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I'd say it's more that women are pickier, rather than less horny. Most men would rather settle for an ugly/otherwise undesirable woman, rather than remain forever alone. This is significantly less true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:00 PM
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You don't think women like agreeableness? Pfft, apparently you haven't read much Jane Austen. Women in her stories are constantly gushing about how "agreeable" some handsome suitor is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:41 AM
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When a particularly fair m'lady walks by, I always grab my crotch and yell "YO YOU WANT SOME OF THIS?!" Results have been a bit lacklustre. Should I not do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:51 PM
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These people are all profoundly fucked in the head, and they desperately want to project it onto everyone else. "All men secretly hate womxn" nah bro, that's just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:23 AM
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Try saying that you're "on the demisexual spectrum" and would prefer a partner who is as well, and therefore isn't into casual sex. That will make it more palatable to the sort of person who'd otherwise find your question offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:48 PM
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Tumblr Stalin sentences you to 15 years in an emotional labour camp.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 11:27 AM
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You should try seeing a doctor about what sounds like adult ADHD. I did when I was 19 and the medication completely changed my life for the better. I'd probably have ended up in a situation like yours if I hadn't. 28 is still young, definitely not too late for a fresh start.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:22 AM
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1) Your teen years are tough, things get much better (at least on the dating front) in college and beyond. Don't let your immediate situation bring you down, always remember that it will get better. 2) Cultivate your hobbies, interests, and friendships so you have a strong sense of who you are and what you're worth as a person independent of any romantic relationships, and of what you hope to eventually achieve. Girls go for guys who know who they are and what they want out of life. 3) The last …
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:44 PM
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You'll get used to it. The absolute last thing that most women want is a bloke who's throwing himself at her.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:06 PM
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Good on you mate, you're doing all the right things. Making your own life your first priority is best for you, and it's best for your future dating prospects. A girl wants a confident guy with a lot going for him, not some clingy orbiter who's going to make a girl the epicentre of his entire life. You'll find that it's easiest to get a girlfriend when you feel you need one the least.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 02:14 PM
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