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"You should have gone for the men"-Thanos
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/25 12:54 PM
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One word: war.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 07:06 PM
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I see you tried posting this on r/askwomen, quite a ballsy move. Naturally of course, it got deleted. I think it's actually a good thing that feminists are now more mask-off nowadays and are just straight up saying stuff like "kill all men", because now there won't be many men who be conned by the lie of "feminism helps men too". They'll actually see it for what it is: a movement towards women take everything, men get nothing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/05/25 10:50 AM
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This thread is absolutely hilarious! Women literally arguing they'd rather pick a man who's raped & killed women over a man who's writing comments on the internet degrading women! Men in prison feel "safe"....that's rich. You never actually cared about safety in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:01 AM
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Are you sure you're blue pilled? If your life is fucked it's obviously because you're not manifesting good things through positive thinking!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:49 PM
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How kind of you to help men avoid online dating scams. Nice to know women like you exist. And btw-nice tits!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/25 04:21 PM
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You've been posting multiple times a day on this subreddit for years. Maybe touch grass, Lilith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:56 PM
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Hey it's really not worth explaining to someone like OP. People who believe success is 0% luck are quite delusional, they may as well believe black is white and up is down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:06 PM
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I find it hilarious that even other Blue Pillers are disagreeing with Lilith's posts!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:59 AM
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I agree. OP is quite ballsy, but is probably going to learn the hard way that it wasn't worth the risk.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/25 05:29 PM
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Usually it has a lot to do with the men these women choose to spend time with, which ironically....is their choice?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 11:58 AM
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You made my day, kind sir. Thank you!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 11:37 AM
6

These women are not being forced to get married. It's not like having a job, where you technically aren't required to have a certain job, but if you don't have any job you'll starve (coercion).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/24 07:50 AM
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This exact same line of thinking can apply to violence against women. 90% of murder victims are men, so how common is violence against women, really? A very, very small percentage of the population suffers from the extremely rare disease Progeria. I guess we should stop caring about people who suffer from Progeria because Covid is much more common.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 08:47 PM
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I hope you never complain about literally anything, ever. Life isn't fair, get used to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:04 PM
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I doubt you've actually interacted much at all with unattractive men, like most women. It's not really fair to deem a man "abusive" if you've never exchanged more than a few words with him. Or wait, you can "sense" it, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:55 AM
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No one is fucking saying this, but great attempt at shifting the goalposts. We're saying that social skills really matter very little compared to looks. The best "social skill" is to just be born good looking. You won't ever get a chance to "practice" social skills if no one wants to interact with you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:56 PM
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You were less than 6 years old and your mother beat the shit out of you? Am I reading that correctly? My heart goes out to you, sir. I have to say I am surprised by your flair.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/24 01:46 AM
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Thank you for sharing your story. My heart goes out to you, sir.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 10:35 AM
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Silly men caring about biological needs! I guess they should just find some magical way to stop doing that, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:57 PM
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Facts. Women are never uncomfortable or afraid of being raped by men they find attractive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/24 11:07 AM
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So you're basically admitting all women are legal sex workers. Feminists would like a word with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:08 PM
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Society probably favors the gender who isn't forced to fight and die in war, i.e., women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:03 AM
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100%. Pretty much my whole life I've been told women are incredibly good at reading people and can "sense" desperation, among others things. I always wondered how they're able to sense desperation from men they've only ever exchanged two sentences with, but they decided to date the popular guy who has "black people suck" as his Facebook status. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:54 PM
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So you're making a post claiming he's the top 10% of men, and handsome, but he's also not your type? That's very contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:27 AM
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Call me delusional then. "Social skills" are more about your looks, whether people want to admit it or not. People have to actually be willing to have a conversation with you first. For example, I have a Chad friend who I've seen greet women he's never met with "Hey honey how's it going?" and he pretty much always gets a positive response, they will almost always have a conversation with him. I would never dare use such a phrase, as I would likely be called a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:59 AM
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If the choice were between a random adult male and a random adult bear, yes, I would pick the "strange" man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:56 AM
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Go be alone with a random bear for at least an hour and let me know how it goes. Tell all your fellow feminists to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:32 PM
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No, but I'm assuming that since she's a woman, she finds bears safer than men. Just like how women assume all men everywhere are rapists, murderers, and thieves. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:36 AM
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You have a fiance that's a man? Strange. Aren't you afraid he's going to rape and/or kill you like every other man that exists on the planet? Shouldn't you be finding a nice safe bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:21 AM
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I guess I'm entitled for wanting to have someone who cares about me in my life. I hope you find a nice bear to care for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:10 AM
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Wow, I had no idea about that, but not surprising in the least. Good luck posting that in any other subreddit, it would just get removed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 10:42 AM
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You hit the nail on the head sir, thank you. I'm no fan of Andrew Tate either but I'd rather watch his show (if it existed) than The View.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:03 AM
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"Do it then."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 08:54 PM
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They're full of shit. If this actually happened, I'd bet money the majority the women saying they'd chose a bear would happily chose a man. If we did a study on say, 1000 women and told them they have a choice to spend one hour with a random adult bear vs one hour with a random adult man, my guess is 995 of those women would pick the man. Note there'd be no option to not pick either, as is the case with most "would you rather" questions. I'm reminded of the Chadfishing experiments, where we actu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 10:31 AM
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u/UpbeatInsurance5358 please respond to these posts that have actual data that you asked for in your post. You're doubting the 80/20 rule's existence and you're replying to only the replies that say "nuh huh" that don't have any actual links or data in them. So please read the studies in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:38 AM
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Where exactly is this unpopular? Surely not in the U.S., unless you spend time with a majority conservative Christian crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:13 AM
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"Body language" is largely nonsensical. It makes a lot more sense to actually communicate with a person than to rely on "body language". People who claim to great at reading "body language" are essentially claiming they can read minds. When I was a kid I heard a lot of this nonsense in school. Teachers claimed they could "sense" that we didn't study based off "the look in our eyes". Also notice how no one ever has an issue with bad "body language" from beautiful people? Hmm......
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:58 AM
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I feel like I accepted this early on in life. Not just dating, but really most of life comes down to random luck. I think those who say otherwise have just had really good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:32 PM
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Of course when you ask women if they hate men 90% of them will say no. It really doesn't matter. Men are still 90% of homicide victims, 90% of homeless, 90% of prisoners, etc. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:41 PM
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Are you sure you're feminist? A post like this in a feminist sub would be like throwing gasoline on a fire!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:16 AM
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Actually, I could see a Gigachad write something like what OP wrote. But even then, it would be very rare. Maybe someone like Sean O'Pry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:26 AM
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Another bi male chiming in here. For me getting attention from men on apps like Grindr was an incredible feeling. I didn't have to do anything but exist. Please don't listen to blue pilled feminist simps like u/Solondthewookiee, I see him in every thread doing his white knighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:28 AM
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Very accurate 👌
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 04:29 PM
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Women would hate it. They now have to actually put in effort if they want a romantic partner, it would be quite a rude awakening for most of them. Would also be tough finding jobs, since they can't use the "I'm a woman" card anymore, they have to have actual skills and talents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:41 AM
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Is this some kind of gotcha question? The only people who society tolerates being high-maintenance, are hot people, simple as that. Kind of why I've always gone out of my way to be as low-maintenance as possible. I don't like to depend on other people if its not absolutely necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:54 AM
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Much respect to you my friend, you're obviously romantically successful but you have empathy for the guys who aren't and you don't just peddle nonsensical platitudes. A rare find indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:45 AM
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Interesting to hear this from a blue piller. I thought we're all just supposed to learn to be happy without companionship and love?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:39 AM
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Interesting because no one can ever provide any kind of reasonable explanation of what this mystical "inner conscious work" really is. Maybe you should stop peddling this bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:55 PM
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This is more of the nonsense that comes along with the bullshit OP is peddling. Why would I need "introspection" and "letting go" if I can just "chose" to be happy, as OP claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:52 PM
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I was upset because I was rejected for the 100th time, but today I woke up and just "chose" to be happy. Now I'm happy! My god why didn't I think of this before? You're a genius Ms. Novel Tip. Can you provide examples of these people apparently living in "squalor" that "swear they're happy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:51 PM
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How is this even measured? But honestly studies like this don't really matter, because actions speak louder than words. Feminists say they don't hate men but still don't allow any male domestic violence shelters to be built.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/24 12:48 PM
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Got a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:42 AM
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That would be hilarious. Let's see women build houses, do manual labor, and go be cannon fodder. It probably wouldn't last one single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:38 AM
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So true. I think most of the victims are also men? But as we know, men abusing men is perfectly fine because of patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/24 02:33 PM
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That's a good point. Eventually he'll realize, like I did, that white knighting doesn't get you dates.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/24 07:23 AM
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Interesting comment from a Catholic. I imagine sharing this opinion in church probably doesn't go very well for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:55 AM
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My friend what exactly were you expecting if you're a Christian man only trying to date Christian women? Were you expecting a ton of casual sex? I mean Christianity has only been against sex before marriage for....centuries?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:05 AM
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Women who have a history of abusive relationships have no right to tell men who struggle to get dates that they're single for their "personality". You've clearly dated many men with awful personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:02 AM
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Are you sure you're blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:56 AM
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Hence why if I had a choice, I'd be a woman, not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:42 PM
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I don't think I've read a single one of your comments that actually has anything to do with the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:29 PM
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Must be so difficult living that life! All the sex you want with whoever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:41 AM
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I guess I'm annoying for disliking the group posting #killallmen on Twitter, then. But oh wait, those aren't the "real" feminists, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:35 PM
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Soo...feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:00 PM
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I mean if they could be bothered to look up actual statistics, men have a lot more to fear being alone at night. What percentage of murder victims in the US are men? Oh, 90%? Guess it really isn't so safe being a man is it? A bit off topic, but this post reminded me of a post I read years ago about a woman who got raped when she was bar-hopping one night. In response, she got her concealed carry permit and now carries a firearm daily. I'm sure feminists must hate her for actually finding a solut…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/24 11:02 AM
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I find this very contradictory. You're admitting "women control the social fabric" which I very much agree with, but you disagree with OP saying men's self worth is tied to their success with women? Also kind of strange to hear a women admit that women are the gatekeepers of social interactions. Most women on reddit are out to make women helpless at the hands of all men everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:58 PM
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Too much common sense for the women in this sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:48 PM
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Just stop being afraid! Got it. I think I'm out to slay some hot babes now. I wonder how women would feel if we advised therapy as the solution to all their problems. "All men everywhere on rapists!!"-just try therapy!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:47 PM
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Feminists only ever see nuances if the perpetrator of the crime is female.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/24 11:04 PM
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Ok, source?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:37 PM
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You blue pillers are hilarious! Of course you love studies on "personality". But all the studies that show the 80/20 rule, of course, are all wrong right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:28 AM
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Also very strange you agree "sexual worth" is a thing. I thought it's all about having a good personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:08 PM
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My friend aren't you the opposite of what OP is asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:59 AM
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So should I therefore hold you accountable for actions taken by your great-grandmother?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:50 AM
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This is strange to hear from a blue piller. I thought you make your own self worth? Been told multiple times that YOU are the only person that can make yourself happy. Of course I don't agree with this at all, I think the most important factors in one's happiness are genetic and therefore not in one's control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:13 AM
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My point is you can't just shout "misogyny"! At everything you don't like. For example, men expecting women to actually do equal work if they expect equal pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:31 PM
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Exactly how long was it before you met someone? How many years of your adult life were you single? More importantly, how did your date know you weren't "hyper focused" on the downsides of being single? Did she have telepathic powers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:44 PM
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I think you should take your own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:48 AM
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Ok then. Explain how you personally became more successful with women after "changing your thinking patterns"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:04 PM
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What are you doing on this sub? Go over to Askfeminists or TwoX and you can read about men ruining the whole world to your heart's content, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:06 PM
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This is highly inconsistent with what most blue pillers say about sensing bad personalities. If women can sense through someone's body language within 30 seconds that they'd be a bad partner (as I've heard many claim on this sub and others) then they have absolutely no excuses for getting into a relationship with an abusive partner. They should be able to "sense" it from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:04 PM
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But sweeping generalizations about men are always a-ok! Just go see how many upvotes #killallmen got on Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:01 PM
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Because that's not how it works. You've never been in this situation so you have no clue how it feels, obviously. You can't just "not focus" on it. Would you tell someone who's starving to just stop "hyper-focusing" on finding food? I know you won't agree and will likely just keep commenting more meaningless platitudes, but I'm making the best effort to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:41 PM
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I guess it's so silly and hilarious, all those lonely people. Believe me when I tell you, people like you are only making the problem worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:19 AM
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I'd argue it's not really possible to attain a high "social status" as a man without being good-looking. So they're kind of one in the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:14 AM
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Your entire post is predicated on the assumption because you heard 1 man on a podcast who has a good attitude that is successful in dating that means that all men everywhere who aren't successful in dating all have bad attitudes. Why do you feel this logic should apply to your arguments but not to anyone else's?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:09 PM
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Commenting again because this is honestly one of the most insane things I've ever seen on this sub. Not only do you expect men to "suck it up and stop complaining" you want us to actually enjoy being celibate. I honestly think you just lack any kind of basic empathy for other human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:03 PM
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I'm right there with you my friend. Please don't listen to the morons who haven't spent more than 1 week of their lives single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:54 PM
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Yes. In fact a few years ago I dated a crazy woman who was very unstable. I doubt you have any experience with being alone, but if you did, you'd understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:53 PM
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"Enjoying celibacy" you blue pillers hit new lows every day. That's like telling William Wallace to just relax and enjoy his disembowelment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:52 PM
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According to your comment history you're apparently making a six-figure salary? So please tell me how this "very specific male dominated field" has been so rough for you? Also in your comment history you apparently take a year off every two years? So not sure how this lines up with you being so qualified in your job field and better than all the men. Most men can't take much time off because they're usually the sole one in charge of paying bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:46 AM
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Another insane blue pill mental gymnastics post. This shouldn't be an issue though. As blue pillers you come equipped with personality detectors, so you should be able to sense your partner's porn-watching habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:21 AM
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So true. They hate men because they've been chasing the top 20% of men their whole lives who treat them like shit. They have only themselves to blame. I have no sympathy for them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:43 AM
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Let's do an experiment, I'll take daily cat calls and you can have my endless rejections. Let's see how well your resilience muscle starts stretching.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:42 AM
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A personality where they just happen to be good looking and tall, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:47 PM
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I think the reason content like this gets so many upvotes is because this generally applies only to cases when women accuse very rich and powerful men of sexual assault, such as Harvey Weinstein or Bill Cosby. And since feminists believe that the top 1% of men are representative of all males on the planet, of course they're going to make the claim that women are never believed without evidence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/24 11:52 AM
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This is quite naive. You know women are able to own and carry weapons, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:44 AM
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Very true. I miss subs like BeholdTheChads and Chadfishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:34 AM
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Haha ok. I'd love to see any American woman spend one single day as an average American man. See how well they "adapt" to all the rejections. Honestly think this would be a great idea for a reality show.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:15 PM
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I mean I think my comment speaks for itself? If women can be so happy single and without men then the majority of them would be doing it. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:31 AM
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Probably because it's very difficult to find adult women (at least in my country) who are not in relationships. It's interesting because women are usually the ones who tell men that they need to learn to be happy alone before they can be happy in a relationship. But none of them are leading by example, which is unsurprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:10 AM
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You come into every thread in this sub with some version of "nuh huh". It's quite entertaining honestly. Also a bit strange to see a blue piller acknowledge that "Chad" even exists. I bet women approach him because of his incredible personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:21 AM
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Is this really the issue with blue pillers? I'm as black pilled as they come and this sure as hell isn't the problem I have with blue pillers. My problem is that blue pillers constantly downplay the importance of looks in dating and pretend like men who are romantically unsuccessful are all dirty misogynistic rapists, while also pretending modern women come equipped with personality detectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:51 AM
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Well to be honest I'm definitely not "exceeding" any standards as my dating life has honestly not changed much after getting in shape. But at least I can go to bed at night knowing I actually made the effort in the only measurable kind of "personal growth" that most of the people on this sub will never ever do in their life. And to your point I've actually been intimate with a few overweight ladies, one of which was probably obese. So I'd have to say my standards aren't exactly what you'd call "…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:32 PM
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It's interesting how hearing this kind of message from women is what motivated me to start working out back in 2011. I was never romantically successful so I was told to go and try sleeping with obese women & grannies. 12 years later and I have a six-pack, mainly so I could be an exception to this argument. So I thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:18 AM
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This is spot on!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 09:44 PM
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I swear your blue pillers are just as delusional as religious fanatics. Just keep denying reality, ok!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:01 AM
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So she's not really putting any effort in and expects men to show up on her doorstep. Not surprising in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:28 PM
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Has she ever done online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:44 AM
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Congratulations on actually having a partner that's in therapy while recommending therapy for others (provided you're being honest). And here you're trying to make out men who aren't romantically successful to be devoid of empathy and "aggressive", which is simply not true. But I can tell you your accusations are definitely having the opposite effect. If everything I'm doing is apparently turning women off without me even realizing it, I'm just going to give up and stop giving a shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:07 AM
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A smile means jack shit if you aren't good looking in the first place!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:59 PM
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Therapy is not going to improve anyone's dating life. As a woman I know you think this will help men but it doesn't. A man who doesn't ever get any matches on dating apps is not going to suddenly get more from being in therapy. I'd honestly like to get a poll of all the women recommending this to men on here and see how many of them have partners that attend therapy regularly. My guess is probably 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:55 PM
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"Beautiful smile" means you just found him good looking, simple as that. But I do applaud you on being a blue piller and actually giving actionable advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:44 PM
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Earlier in this very thread you attack someone who makes a generalization about women and claim it's not all women but here you are making a generalization about all men and of course that's all well and good. Great job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:19 PM
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What a bunch of fucking nonsense. Not that the man in the story wasn't wrong, but of course said woman reacts with "wOmEn dOnT oWe yOu AnYtHiNg". Reddit was definitely what made me turn away from feminism. It is nothing but man-hating and those who say otherwise are just lying to themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/24 09:11 AM
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Sounds about right, I'm right there with you. Although I see this happening much more online than in real life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 11:57 AM
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I mean it's literally a graph of the data he collected? Would an excel spreadsheet convince you more? Probably not. Plenty more studies done over at r/BlackPillScience so go ahead and tell me those are all fake if you'd like. Perhaps link me a study of data supporting a blue pill world view? I'd honestly love to see one. I'd honestly love to live in a world where looks don't matter and it's all about your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:24 AM
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It's literally a blog post discussing a qualitative study. I honestly envy you blue pillers. It must be so nice to always be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:10 AM
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Wholesale horseshit that's quite easy to find with a simple google search. https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a But sure, it's just a "cope".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:06 AM
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A lot of women give this advice to men as if it's some kind of revolutionary advice. It's another way to imply that men who aren't romantically successful are all dirty evil misogynists who are planning the next mass shooting. If a woman tells me "Just treat us as human beings" or "Just respect us!" I would assume that she's only ever dated the most kind and respectful men, right? But probably not, as most women have at least one ex partner that was abusive and/or mistreated them. So they tell u…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 03:00 PM
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As a blue pill woman, how did you end up in a toxic relationship in the first place? Shouldn't you be able to "sense" his bad personality from the start?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:41 PM
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This exactly. They were lying. They most likely moved on to the next guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:17 PM
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Haha care to explain the reference here? Or is this just pure randomness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:14 PM
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Haha that's so true! Anytime a guy is discontent with his dating life all the blue pillers shut him down so he doesn't "bring negativity". Seen that quite a few times in my life. Yet once one of the handsome men is mad about anything they make it everyone else's problem because they're so special with their amazing personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:24 AM
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This shouldn't be an issue for modern women. With their amazing personality detectors they should be able to sense which men can satisfy them. As a man, I'd love to have this problem. If women are consenting to sex with men who don't satisfy them, that's their own problem. Plenty of men out there (myself included) who actually care about a woman's pleasure and work to satisfy them sexually, but sadly I don't have a good enough face so most women won't even bother to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:21 PM
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Well but those things are one in the same. You probably won't agree but mental health is largely deterministic of circumstances. You don't have as much control as you think. And as for as "attitude" goes, that's highly subjective. When I was in school I was told I had a "bad attitude" when I simply asked a teacher to move to the right a little bit so I could see the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:38 PM
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Not at all. I'm simply saying that it's not at all realistic to blame one's self for everything that happens to them. Do you hold yourself responsible for your messed up childhood? Probably not, it was likely the fault of the adults around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:10 PM
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The one good thing is now in the age of the internet men are waking up and realizing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:45 AM
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Then go survive the Holocaust and get back to me! Go get forced into a gas chamber at gun point and then, tell me, if you still believe that "you" are the only person "responsible" for your happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:33 AM
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Came here for this. As a man you get the wonderful privilege of being cannon fodder. Very often feminists attempt to trivialize this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/23 01:19 PM
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Hmm I am a bit confused as to how this applies to your original comment? Except for the second to last paragraph. I personally don't really care about a woman's body count, if it was in the 1000's I might be concerned, but most of the time it's not important to me. I am also very open to dating women 5-10 years older, in fact, I prefer them. "Beautiful and dumb" is the complete opposite of my ideal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:23 PM
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Maybe you should shut the fuck up about the wage gap? Or maybe start fighting wars, then you'll see what it's like to actually be "oppressed".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:45 PM
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You claim to be ok with being a kissless virgin in your early 20's but your bio literally says "Please let me eat and fuck ass". You sound like a feminist troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:43 PM
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Typical blue pillers preaching about how we can all just be happy as homeless people on the streets. I'd bet money you've never spent more than a month of your life without a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:58 AM
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Thank you for this. It's nice to see a woman acknowledging that men can, in fact, be victims of sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:50 AM
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With a name like "analsexisthebest34" I have trouble believing you.....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:45 AM
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This is maybe the most brain dead take I've ever seen on this sub. "Just date all the women I've dated lolol" I'm sure you're quite conservative and tell people stuff like "If you're poor just stop being poor". Have you ever considered that some or all of those women just might not be interested in us? Or perhaps that not all of us won the genetic lottery?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:33 AM
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The chubby single moms still have 100's of options via dating apps. Ever heard of the grannypill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:28 AM
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"Has always been pretty with women" there you go. That's what you decided to omit in your original post, I wonder why? Also pretty sure you mean "popular" instead of "pretty" but that's beside the point. It sounds like you're actually trying to help, but saying "Because I know one guy who's successful with women means all you guys on here just aren't trying hard enough" is highly insidious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:25 AM
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Hey there friend, are you me? I'm a bit older but I'm in the same boat. I've been in the gym for over 10 years now and have visible abs, I also have a great career. Yet none of it matters because I did poorly in the genetic lottery for the bones in my face. Be prepared for a lot of comments saying stuff like "I'm sure you're secretly an evil misogynist that women can sense because they all have personality detectors".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:00 PM
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Not according to most of the blue pillers on this sub. Been told many, many times that men are lonely because they have awful personalities and that women can "sense" their evil misogynistic personalities before they even open their mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:35 PM
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This is a cheap excuse given by blue pillers. That might apply to some abusers, but really most abusers give themselves away very quickly, all you have to do is actually observe how they treat other people. "They're good at hiding it", no, you just didn't want to be honest with yourself. And furthermore, I've heard it claimed on this sub and many others that woman can "sense" bad personalities, so I wonder why they're in relationships with abusers in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:29 PM
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As a blue pill woman, why couldn't you "sense" that he had a bad personality from the get go?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:27 PM
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Yes, as a man generally don't listen to any dating advice given by women, or conventionally attractive men. They'll generally say stuff like "Just be confident!" or "Just respect us!". And then will generally go on about how all women have amazing personality detectors, while their own dating history includes many rapists and abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:30 PM
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Ok but it honestly makes sense. If you have a buffet of options (as has been proven that pretty much ALL women have hundreds of options) and you're picking the ones that treat you horribly, that's on you, not the men. And if you've dealt with so many men who don't "show their authentic self" until later, shouldn't you be good at recognizing the signs? And again, this goes back to my last comment. What you're saying directly contradicts the common blue pill talking point that women can "sense" ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:53 AM
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First of all I've rarely heard men tell women to "choose better" in regards to romantic partners. I feel that is more said to men. That being said, it's highly situational. What your "authentic self" means could be completely different from one person to the next. When I'm on a first date I do try my best to be my most authentic self and not pretend I'm someone I'm not, but I also don't feel it's necessary to talk about how I was bullied in school and how it's affected me as an adult. Something …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:00 PM
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It's the reality of all social problems in society. When it effects mostly women, we must change society. But when it effects mostly men, men must change themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/23 01:23 AM
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Speech programs? Wow, you deserve a medal! Do you put that in your dating app profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:42 AM
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I think OP's point is paternity testing could just be done automatically when a child is born. It wouldn't need to be funded by taxpayers, it could just be included in all the tests that are run automatically when any baby is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:47 PM
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Since then you've made 2 new posts, hmmmm? Your refusal to answer this question is not surprising. You obviously don't do any self-improvement that you expect of men. I guess you're so special that the rules don't apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:36 PM
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Would you kindly respond to my other comment about self-improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:07 PM
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Honestly, "confidence" is completely made up, and women use it as a dog whistle for how attractive they find a man. You can try and "fake confidence" all you want, but at the end of the day your looks are what matters. But you're 100% right that Chads are extremely misogynistic compared to incels. Anyone who says otherwise needs to only look up the numerous Chadfishing experiments that have been done on online dating.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/23 11:59 AM
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Lilith would you kindly answer my question about self-improvement? This will be the third time I've asked you this. Several of your posts talk about how men "refuse to improve themselves". As a man who's been in the gym over 11 years, I don't believe I fall into this category. I just want to know-how much self-improvement do you personally do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:21 PM
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You are absolutely not what you attract. I hope everyday to win the lottery. It hasn't happened and I doubt it ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:55 PM
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Haha she posts almost every day now! This is quite entertaining. I find a certain level of satisfaction in seeing all these angry blue pillers. They're getting really mad that men are realizing not everything is their own fault. Kind of strange since blue pillers really aren't allowed to be angry, it would dampen their incredible personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:28 AM
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Here she is again. You have quite a lot of time on your hands to make posts everyday about why men aren't allowed to complain about dating, apparently. You never did answer my question about self-improvement? You mentioned it in this post as well. I'm just curious how much self-improvement you do personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:16 PM
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Here you go: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/181kihd/i_have_no_faith_in_men/ But I already know your pre-programmed responses: "That's not exactly word for word what you claimed above! Women are always right!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:05 PM
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Ohh my apologies, you're literally one of the "black is white and up is down" people. Have a good day sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:56 AM
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Indeed. But it's a good thing subs like this exist. Men are waking up and realizing they can't be blamed for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:53 AM
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It's really not a "small amount" of social media users. If you go over to TwoX or any female centered subreddit you'll find a post every single day accusing all men as being predators-in-waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:49 AM
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Man I'm as black pilled as they come and I very much disagree with this. The vast majority of people I know who got married in their 20's (or earlier) are miserable. They only stayed with their partner because of the sunk cost fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:19 PM
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Why is the top response almost always completely unrelated to thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:17 PM
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Since you expect men to endlessly self-improve, how much self-improvement do you do yourself? How many years have you been working out at the gym? How many exotic hobbies do you do? How many courses on socializing have you taken?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:33 PM
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Of course, I'd go as far to say the majority of American women believe it. What I'd really like to see is some kind of reality show where women try dating women using the same advice they give to men. "Just be confident", "work on your personality", "just respect us". The closest I've seen is Alexander Grace's video, but he easily just gets hand waved away as an evil misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:28 PM
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Haha don't worry I won't waste your time, because I know you're always right!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:23 AM
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Your post history does that already!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:20 AM
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She's like on a rampage, she absolutely hates men and makes posts here 10 times a day to let everyone know. I'm sure she has an incredible personality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:01 AM
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Straight up black is white and up is down, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:58 AM
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As a man, having to "filter" through 100s of people who were interested in me sounds like an absolute joy. I'd look through dick picks all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:49 AM
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This is why it makes absolutely no sense when any woman anywhere uses "women have it worse" arguments. I'm supposed to feel bad because a woman I don't know was slapped on the ass but no one gives a shit when MILLIONS of innocent men are involuntary sent to be cannon fodder by corrupt politicians? I've even heard some of the crazy feminists on twitter asking for a "world without men" lol ok, hope you can handle a machine gun.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 09:35 PM
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If they actually had the skills, they wouldn't need diversity quotas.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 07:14 PM
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Yes this is a better worded version of my comment, thank you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/23 02:01 PM
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It sounds very similar to what happens when very religious individuals (usually Christian in USA) are trying to convince you their faith is "true". They tell you "read this specific book by this one author, then you'll believe in God for sure!" To which my question is: "Why do I need to read a book written by someone else to believe something? Shouldn't it just be obvious for everyone if it's the correct belief system?" Just replace God with feminism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/23 10:11 AM
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Ever been to the doctor anytime in your life? How do you know they didn't get samples of your DNA from any blood test, urine test, etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:10 PM
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Hahaha this is great. Feminists really don't like when you try to make things specific. They mostly rely on blanket statements and when you ask for the details, their arguments break down.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 10:59 AM
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Honestly doesn't even take very long. I learned it at an early age. Listen to what they say when they're not around authority figures.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 03:05 PM
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Not surprising. I don't suppose you have a link to a news story about it?
/r/MensRights15/11/23 12:38 PM
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Whatever you say, Mr. Replacement Pasta. The millions of men out there raising a child that isn't theirs, sure I suppose it doesn't benefit them at all, nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:57 AM
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The fact that there's so many women arguing against this is kind of making me support it more. You should have nothing to fear if you have nothing to hide. Also saying it's a "waste of resources" is kind of odd considering I'm sure you support things like government support for single mothers or other taxpayer-funded programs. It's only when it benefits men that we become very cost conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:47 AM
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They always win. But the good thing is men are finally starting to wake up and realize something needs to be done about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:16 PM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:09 PM
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Nice reference, great novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:09 PM
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I have six pack abs and a low body fat level, and I can tell you it doesn't matter to women at all if you don't have the face & height they desire. I'm 100% positive almost 95% of Billie Eilish's success is because she was born with a good bone structure and was in the right place at the right time.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 08:08 AM
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If you could actually accomplish this it would make the world a much better place, that's for sure. Women would absolutely hate it if they lost the sexual monopoly they have over men, but hey, that's the "equality" they're always talking about, right?
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 08:00 AM
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This is awesome. I'd take the Genghis Khan Pill any day.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 09:19 PM
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Do you mind if I ask how he managed to get inside your apartment?
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 10:43 AM
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My heart goes out to you, but I'm not really sure this is what OP is even talking about? And honestly it's really not fair to respond anytime a man complains about loneliness for a woman to say "but women you don't know have been raped so you can't complain" which is pretty much what you're doing here.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 01:44 AM
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It actually is available in several countries and a few states in the U.S. Link But I do agree, it probably isn't going to become widely available since the government wants the most wage slaves possible.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 03:06 PM
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From the same person who posted "Having a list of positive achievements isn't enough to be successful in dating". Seriously please go find another sub to preach about "mInDnSeT". Trust me, we've all been alive long enough to know that it doesn't make a difference. You're not fooling anyone.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 02:53 PM
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Yeah the sad thing is it doesn't matter how much you spell it out for them. They still keep trying to tell us black is white and up is down. If they had to spend a day in our shoes they'd be in tears.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 02:50 PM
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Well, I agree wholeheartedly, but go over to TwoX with that opinion and you'll be downvoted in oblivion.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 04:17 PM
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So then just out of curiosity, if we're just supposed to accept the "unfairness due to biology" in the sexual market, why should we care at all about things like the "wage gap" which is largely driven by biological factors as well?
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 04:09 PM
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Is your username a reference to Tansy Tea from ASOIAF?
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 12:26 AM
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Yes just STOP BEING A PUSSY! BE LIKE ROB! I bet you drink 5 egg whites for breakfast. Rumor has it Rob has such an incredible personality that just by saying hello he made model-tier girls get on their knees and suck his 18 inch dick.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 12:20 AM
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Hey Rob just out of curiosity, how many doorknobs have you licked?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 08:13 PM
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I support the right to arm bears. ​
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:29 PM
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I could give you many examples of women who use violence against men. Aileen Wuronos, Kelly Cochoran, Lorena Bobbit. Mary Bell is apparently free after 20 years. There's likely more that haven't been caught, since women are much less likely to even be accused of wrongdoing. But that's just a small minority right? Whereas men who use violence against women are of course representative of the entire male population because.....men are in government?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:39 PM
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That sub is still a pale fraction in comparison to the men who are forced into military service and get sent to be cannon fodder each and every day. So when you play the "we have it worse" game, ultimately men win, since men have fought every single war since the beginning of time.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:26 PM
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Probably because it's a good paper trail when feminists on reddit try to argue that "feminism helps men too!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/23 03:54 PM
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I thought the same thing. I remember there was a whole post saying something like "A study of AITA posts with genders interchanged". Or it might have been on the left wing male advocates sub.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 11:56 AM
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Uh oh, Rob, are you angry? You know that's not acceptable around here! You blue pillers can only be calm and pleasant 100% of the time! Make sure you work on your personality to make this happen!
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:03 AM
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I swear this must be RopeorDope's new account. Tries to contradict everything and tries to backpedal every time a generalization is called out.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:58 AM
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In my past workplaces I've been falsely accused of minor things here and there by women. Then I eventually get fired and have to fend for myself.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 01:36 AM
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Rope I hate to break it to you, but no one is actually taking you seriously. Go over to r/feminists or some other similar sub and tell them how great your personality is, leave us alone!
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 05:16 PM
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They're around, they just don't meet the looks standards of most modern women.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 11:16 PM
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Rob what are you doing posting here? You should be out touching grass, working on your 5 exotic hobbies, and most importantly, constantly improving that impressive personality of yours!
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 11:56 AM
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Women will always try and claim this isn't true. Usually something like "Nuh uh! I don't care how good looking he is, he's still creepy!" But I and most other men have hundreds of first-hand experiences where we've seen Chad's get away with talking to women in ways that would have put us in jail. For example, my Chad friend calls women "honey" and "darling" upon first meeting them. I would never, ever find something like that acceptable. But of course it's well received when he does it. When I c…
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 11:51 AM
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Wow thanks for that link! I had no idea that many studies existed.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:26 AM
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That's a good point. Blackpill really just comes down to basic biology (pick the best looking mate) 90% of the time.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:24 AM
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*claps* Also if women really cared about improving their looks, they'd be utilizing the only means at their disposal: the gym. As a 12 year gym veteran, every gym I've attended has been populated mostly by men.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:00 AM
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Years ago I would have considered you a misogynist. Now I agree with almost everything you've said. Especially what you said above about bones. Holy crap you're right. Just wish I had been born with better bone structure.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 08:02 PM
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Wow, and I thought Grannypill was a joke. I have no words.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 07:38 PM
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You literally don't need to Google any of these articles, his links work perfectly fine. He's "not even trying", no my friend, you're the one who's "not even trying". He just posted several excellent sources and you're trying to claim black is white and up is down, per usual.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 10:40 AM
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I was disappointed to find out r/fuckropeorcope isn't a real subreddit.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 03:26 PM
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Haha typical RopeofCrap response. Maybe actually take a look at some of the posts on that sub? You really take your time to reply to almost all the posts on this sub with some kind of "nu uh" argument. As a blue piller, you should be busy touching grass and learning 5 exotic hobbies, not being on reddit!
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 03:20 PM
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That is sadly true, most people won't be able to tell when you're wearing business casual outfits. It just gets exhausting when Chad's and Stacy's who have never set foot in a gym try to tell me to work on my "personality". I think I should be the one giving you advice ffs?
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 10:47 AM
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Haha I honestly find it comforting how people like you (blue pillers) are getting really angry on social media. Men are waking up and realizing that their success in dating is 90% luck and you're just trying to argue against it with a series of "nu uh" arguments, and no one is buying it.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 02:37 PM
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Thank you, this is helpful. I will have to set my location to the Philippines and see how well I do. By the way I saw a lot of negativity on your last update. Don't let it get in your head my friend. The blue pillers are mad you found something that worked. Take it as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:58 AM
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Try scrolling through r/TwoXChromosomes and see how far you can get before you find a post generalizing men.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 11:49 AM
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I keep hearing good things about the Philippines. I am considering trying it for myself. Would you care to share more about how you got started?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:31 AM
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I sure hope you also apply this logic when the genders are reversed. Women saying all men are rapists, thieves, etc. Can't make a generic statement and associate it to half the human race, right?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 06:23 AM
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As someone with a six pack, I can confirm it's made zero improvement to my dating life.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 06:13 AM
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So true. When I've been out with friends, if I'm talking to a girl and start to notice several other men are also talking to her, my policy is always: just give up. Don't even try. I've never been the one chosen before, so no reason to believe that will change anytime soon.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:35 AM
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That thread is insane. They're trying to claim The woman didn't "intend to cause serious damage", hmm how would you know that? Because we don't have any recorded cases of women causing serious damage to men anywhere, right? The men "cheer" when they see the woman get hit, ok show me the men doing this? The post really doesn't touch on the larger issue, i.e., women who want equal pay as men but refuse to do equal work. Also you're very bold for posting on that thread. I see no one responded, typi…
/r/MensRights01/11/23 01:35 PM
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It likely won't make a difference. I'm sure all the creeps and pedos will find a way around the "sponsor" system. But at the same time, now when women have bad experiences, they'll have other women to blame. So this might be a good thing. People will realize that women aren't these golden judges of character that have a mystical "sense" for bad personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:35 AM
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So as a blue piller you agree the halo effect is real? Interesting.... Also find this comment chain hilarious. Lilith just jumps from one lie to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:21 AM
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Thank you. Same to you. At the end of the day we should really just be happy we made it out, since most do not. I have never assumed life is all sunshine and rainbows for beautiful people. But it would have been a lot easier to have gone through addiction with being able to load up a dating app and get 100 potential matches in a matter of minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:26 PM
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You could go over to r/SupportForTheAccused and read some stories on there. But they're all anecdotal so I assume you'll just dismiss them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:29 PM
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It just so happens I am also in recovery from addiction (to opiates). Having a significant other for emotional support would have made it 100 times easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:10 PM
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My Bumble profile had pretty much one of each picture you're describing. It didn't really matter, I still got maybe 2-3 matches a month. But sure, try and convince us "better pictures" is the real problem, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:50 PM
1

Well put my friend. I could have written this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:06 PM
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As a unattractive man, I'd take those issues off your plate any day of the week if I could live life as an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:05 PM
5

Just curious how you measure "better pictures" on Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:59 PM
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This sub is getting more and more wild. So now men shouldn't lift weights, but should engage in high-risk activities, and that's what's going to make women attracted to them? Also what happened to therapy? I thought that was what men all need to get them laid? Now we need football and rugby? The blue pill is more like a chameleon pill. Changes colors whenever it's convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:56 PM
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Haha, nope. I've been in the gym over 10 years. Much more effort than any blue pillers and their incredible pErSoNaLiTies. Now it's your turn, Ms. LeNoirPetit. Please outline all the specific efforts you've made to improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:25 AM
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We all know Rob has the greatest mental health and never gets offended by anything. Just check his comment history!
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 07:29 PM
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So you're just supposed to have several social circles to be able to "practice" these skills? Totally reasonable /s This is interesting because I've heard some other women on here claim that the only acceptable way to meet women is through your immediate social circle. So what you're saying kind of contradicts it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:19 PM
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Who the hell is actually saying any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:04 PM
1

And if no one wants to even get to know you, your "social skills" are redundant, wouldn't you agree?
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 07:13 PM
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Yep it's our fault we didn't win the genetic lottery, right? /s I've had a few brief situationships over the years, but nothing serious. Even though I've been working out for years and have a six-pack, my face and height are still very average, so it doesn't matter.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:04 AM
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True, that's also the same reason why gay men are much less accepted by society than lesbians. Straight women have much less, if any, sexual leverage against gay men. And when women lose sexual leverage they get really mad, go on rants about "pAtRiArChY" and whatnot.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 05:56 AM
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Really only your second bullet point has anything to do with "personality". I can see your point about social skills, but in my experience it really doesn't matter how good you can hold a conversation. The best social skill is to just be born good looking.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 12:14 AM
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Update us when you successfully find this unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:26 AM
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You're obviously very romantically successful. If you were like me, and got maybe one woman that shows romantic interest every few years, you wouldn't immediately write off entire age brackets of women. To be honest I don't really see any good reason why a 39 year old man would not be interested at all in women 35-40, but you do you I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:20 AM
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Life is not at all what you make of it. I stopped believing that lie a long time ago. The world does what it wants, when it wants. You have very little control over it.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 09:16 AM
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Maybe because there's not a simple way to reduce libido for everyone that's reliable and safe? What if I said I don't understand why fat women want to celebrate their weight instead of reducing it? Does that put things into perspective? Man these posts are getting ridiculous. Aren't you the same person who made that moronic post about "the spark"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:07 AM
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You must be Chad then. If I got 200+ likes in a week on Bumble, I'd pinch myself to check if I was dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:24 PM
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As a man, I imagine it, and it sounds wonderful. Trust me, having lots of not amazing options sounds a hundred times better than literally zero options. I'd also venture a guess all those men "below your league" probably aren't really below your league, they're just not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:15 PM
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Sure a lot of people need to learn to eat less, I agree. But the problem I have is people on reddit preach "calories in, calories out" as if it's some kind of revolutionary advice. It provides nothing practical in terms of how to change your eating habits. It's very similar to when blue pillers tell men who can't get dates to just "be confident!" Ok, but how? Personally I don't think anyone should tell someone to do something if they can't provide a reasonable method of how to actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:29 PM
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It wouldn't make a difference even if there was a 1 to 1 ratio. Women who don't use dating apps have hundreds of options just by existing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:14 AM
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Yep. As a man in today's world I totally decided to give women 100's of options while I can't even find one, sure. That decision was totally made by me and every other man I know, yup. I swear you blue pillers believe black is white and up is down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:57 AM
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It's really not sustainable to track every calorie one eats. I am not sure why this gets recommended so often. It's 100% feasible to have healthy eating habits without spending hours counting calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:53 AM
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Questions like this are the main reason why working out and eating healthy are very important to me. So I can be an exception to nonsense like this. News flash-being overweight is actually something that can be fixed via hard work and self discipline. But I know that's probably a bit too hard to hear for "body positivity" morons. I always find it hilarious that the things women care about the most (face & height) are generally things men have 0% control over, whereas being overweight you have 10…
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 03:26 PM
2

So how do you know what's real then? If all studies are all biased and incorrect, then how do you decide what to believe? By the way I'm not at all saying your experiences in the research lab aren't true, I'm sure you're 100% right. Especially the political correctness part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:18 AM
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I'd suggest he leave the country and become a passport bro, as I am planning on doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:51 PM
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If it were up to me, CBT would be banned. Such psuedoscientific nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:18 PM
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Of course. Any challenge to women being truthful and honest is wrong because all men everywhere kill and murder all women. Hahaha. I feel sorry for you, honestly. Your Disney-like view of reality is going to hurt you in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:04 AM
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He doesn't "need therapy". When your basic needs are not met therapy isn't going to do much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:31 AM
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They should have nothing to fear if they have nothing to hide?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:24 PM
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The blue pill is just another religion.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 02:34 PM
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Both of those are extremely vague and there's no way to actually "sense" either unless you spend a lot of time with said person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:15 PM
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My friend if you're an adult you'd know by now if you were in the top 20% of men.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 02:02 PM
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I wouldn't call him an incel, autistic may be correct though. He's just a really mad blue piller. We'll be seeing more of them in coming years. More genetically disadvantaged men are waking up and realizing there's really no point in trying when the game was rigged from the start. But this is very bad for the capitalist economic engine. They need us to believe we can just "work harder" so they can extract every little bit of labor out of us for the benefit of those in power.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:47 PM
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Wow, that was a sad read.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 10:09 AM
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You're welcome, kind sir. I don't suppose you actually have a Youtube channel (per your username)?
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 12:52 AM
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I thought blue pillers were supposed to all be nice? Man who hurt this guy.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 12:50 AM
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I'm a left-leaning man (wouldn't call myself a leftist) and I agree with this ffs.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 11:38 PM
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This guy Rob is insane. He's out to convince everyone he's always right. Must be such a simple existence.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 08:23 PM
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Evolutionary science...is not true because you don't like it? I swear you can't make this shit up. Good day sir.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 08:15 PM
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And there are actually studies that did exactly that. For instance this study. And yes, I know it's behind a paywall, but you can read the summary. "When considering a potential long-term mate for daughters, both women and their parents state that a potential partner's ambition and intelligence are more important than physical attractiveness. However, both women and their parents make mate choices that contradict their stated preferences, favoring a physically attractive partner for daughters ov…
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 08:00 PM
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Maybe take the time to actually read some of the posts on this sub?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/23 02:36 PM
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Not smoking anything my friend, I just live in the real world and don't believe in fairy tales like Disney and feminism.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 01:54 PM
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Please link your post where you figured out how 10 of the studies on that page were "misrepresented dog shit"?
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 09:25 AM
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Ah sure, you looked at every single study posted on that page I'm sure and discerned that all of them were wrong, I'm sure, yup.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 03:24 AM
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Hi there-do you mind explaining more about what surgeries you had? I am potentially looking into cosmetic surgery as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/23 08:17 PM
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The Barbie doesn't at all highlight all the soft power that men would have in such a matriarchal society, i.e., those "Ken's" would be the gatekeepers of romance & dating. They'd be able to go on dating apps and get 100's of matches per hour from "Barbie's". Also there would be job openings for "Ken's" that they would get just for existing as Ken's, without having to actually be good at the skills required for said job.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 08:11 PM
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Thank you for introducing me to NPNW! I had no idea that existed. Amazing!
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 01:11 PM
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What is this post even asking? I'm sure you must have one hell of a personality, sir. By the way you made a post asking about studies that support black pill, please take a look on r/BlackPillScience. Or just Google. But you know that already.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 01:06 PM
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Yet another common bluepill tactic. Try and make out all men who disagree with you to be murders and rapists. Trust me-no one is buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:56 PM
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Hahaha this is always the standard blue-pill response. "They're gOoD at hiDiNg IT". Trust me, no one is buying this. We know you're deliberately overlooking red flags in men because they're attractive. Why not just be honest and save everyone time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:36 AM
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Honest question, can you walk us through your dating history? I'd assume you have a history of only dating partners that check all five of those boxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:33 AM
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I'd bet money said male friend was also more productive than his female coworkers?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/23 03:27 PM
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If a man talks over me, or I can’t get a word in with a group of men, I don’t assume immediately that they’re sexist, I look at how they interact with others first, and usually they interact with men in the exact same way. The men just are more bold about interrupting, so I start interrupting more in a similar way. and it’s fine. But I know women who will be in that situation and come away talking about how hard it is being a woman and how sexist the world is. THANK YOU so much for THIS! I see w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/23 03:25 PM
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This just in, water is wet.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 03:03 PM
4

Me too! I really do wish I could have been born female instead of male. It sounds so exciting and fun.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/23 11:09 AM
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Pretty true answer. Many of them don't even try to hide it nowadays.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 03:28 PM
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It's because Chads and other top 20% men simply tend to have a higher rate of dark triad personality traits than men who are less romantically successful. The reason is because Chads know they have options regardless of how they treat women, so they're not likely to actually think they're doing anything wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 01:21 PM
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Excellent compilation of contradictory posts from TwoX. I know there's definitely more but this is a good start.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 04:08 PM
1

Tell us about your history of only dating the most kind and respectful men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:56 PM
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Haha how dare you point out that men are the majority of deaths in literally all wars that have ever happened in history! You incel! "Incel" is pretty much any feminist's go-to insult when they can't refute any point you've made. Sex is the only unit of value they understand.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 02:34 PM
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Wow this is a brilliant idea! I'm also looking for work right now and I'm going to have to search for diversity clubs near me. Thanks!
/r/MensRights15/10/23 02:25 PM
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Such classic feminism right here. The man's problem is his own fault but women's problems are society's fault. Trust me, no one is buying it. Especially when you can literally google that ALL tech companies have quotas for hiring women.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 06:32 PM
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Well in a sense it is, yes. It's highly unreasonable to use "body language" and "tone" to determine if someone is misogynistic, as you are implying. How would you feel if I said based on your body language I can totally tell you're a murderer? Also, "body language" has been proven to be unreliable, check out this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y0VQyEY-B2I&t=19s
/r/MensRights14/10/23 11:25 AM
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You know I really wish there was some way to actually measure "good" and "bad" personalities. Then we'd actually have a factual answer on if blue pillers actually date people for their personalities (but we know they don't).
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 09:09 AM
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The worst thing about blue pillers is whenever a thread is posted with studies supporting the black pill (and there are many of them) most of them simply respond with "nuh uh" or "I know one average guy dating a gorgeous woman so that means all your studies are incorrect."
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 09:08 AM
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And you just argued the opposite: Do you think it’s possible women interviewing you are able to pick up on your lack of trust for women?
/r/MensRights14/10/23 09:06 AM
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Haha oh you're right, we know women can read minds!
/r/MensRights14/10/23 08:51 AM
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The vast majority of us (men) have never even known "privilege".
/r/MensRights14/10/23 08:48 AM
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It's kind of already happening. A lot of popular social media influencers are popularizing non-monogamy. If you go over to any of the poly or non-monogamy subs it's littered with stories of women going out on dates every night of the week while their husband stays at home and works (and possibly cares for the kids). This seems to be the ideal end state for most hypergamous women in developed countries today.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 10:03 AM
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This is sad. As long as we keep placing most of the blame on men and allowing women to escape accountability, deadbeat dads will only increase in number. There needs to be a law passed that if the man can prove the woman lied about being on birth control, and she then becomes pregnant, she's not entitled to child support.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/23 09:56 AM
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I heard this advice for years. The "feedback" I got was that I can't do anything right, ever.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 09:28 PM
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Interesting because for me it's the opposite. When I feel the most bitter and resentful I end up having the worst workouts. After 11 years of training.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 09:26 PM
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You know it's interesting, if I recall correctly the killallmen hashtag on Twitter had 1000's of upvotes. If anyone dared to make some killallwomen hashtag it would have been instantly removed and reported for hate speech. Hmm.....
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 10:44 AM
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That's a really good point about intelligence. Another thing women say they want but their actions indicate otherwise.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 10:36 AM
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Years ago I would have said this is too extreme of a viewpoint. After being stripped of my income by 3 different female bosses, not anymore.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 10:32 AM
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So not surprising. Personally I don't believe in things like Dialectical Behavioral Therapy are really effective for men. Feminists constantly parade therapy in front of our faces as if it's somehow a solution to all our problems. But as men, we know, that the only way to fix our problems is to actually fix our problems. I think back to when I was a 13 year old in middle school, I hated every second of it. I was forced into therapy. It did absolutely nothing. I was still miserable. No amount of …
/r/MensRights10/10/23 11:26 AM
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Even if there were no white knights, you'd likely end up in jail had you used pepper spray.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 11:01 AM
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So true. Probably 75% of the women I've worked with have been lazy, entitled workers who got hired simply because of their genitals.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 06:31 PM
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Shouldn't the fact that men have been cannon fodder since the beginning of time kind of cancel out all arguments feminists use about "women have it worse"? How can any of women's experiences be worse than being forced to fight and die in war?
/r/MensRights09/10/23 11:06 AM
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You can shout "misogyny"! in the face of statistics & actual data all day. Trust me....no one is buying it.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 10:20 PM
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There's always exceptions. For example, at many art & design colleges a large percentage of the male student body may not desire women, so that would leave the straight women with less options than normal. I think back to my college days, I was definitely more red-pilled. I thought you just had to have good "game" and that would somehow make a difference. It wasn't until after college that I realized it was all a waste of time if you aren't Chad.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 11:19 AM
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What in the heck is this post even asking?
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 11:11 AM
3

Wow that's incredible. Are there any more comics by that artist?
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 01:03 PM
1

The sad truth. Feminists will fight back against it, but everyone knows it's the truth. Pretty woman = the world is yours.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 07:34 PM
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Wow...just wow! And it's an incredibly active sub. That can be added to the growing list of blue pill cope subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:30 PM
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But the woman could sense his incredible personality! Didn't you realize? /s
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 07:25 PM
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That was quite a read. Not at all surprising, but at least now there's more empirical data behind the claims.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 11:23 AM
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Killing your baby is also, a choice. More proof that women will advocate for literal murder as long as it's done by another woman. I'm not really surprised though.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 06:34 PM
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But at the same time, anything that's "rare" still affects a lot of people. Let's take "rare" to mean affecting just 1% of men in America. If take the number of 164.38 million men in America to be accurate, this accounts for around 1,643,800 false accusations.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/23 07:56 AM
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I've heard the whole "I didn't know who he really was until we were already dating" thing many times, I honestly don't think it happens as often as they want us to believe. Not to say it never happens, but I feel like it's another cop out used by (mostly) women to instill a bigger sense of hypoagency. These same women will claim they can "sense" a man has a bad personality by a single reddit comment, surely they should have an incredible "sense" for a man who'd abuse them in real life?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 09:16 PM
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Actually yes, I'd like to see exactly how many death/rape threats apparently happen from OLD as a woman. I know it's not exactly the same, but as a not entirely straight male, I used Grindr for a bit. I can only think of one man who was a problem, and zero threated to rape/kill me. Of course all you have to do is just.....block them?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 03:57 PM
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I know the Andrew Tate case is an extreme example, but the logic still applies. Women are not forced at gun point to be in relationships with abusive men (at least 95% of the time). If they ignore red flags and end up in such a relationship, I have trouble feeling bad for them. I think it would be interesting to see a study on the dating history of self-proclaimed feminists. See how their actions line up with their words.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 03:53 PM
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I see your point, but it's still not fair to try and minimize any problems men have in dating with the fact that women we have never met have been raped or murdered by men they have dated/attempted to date. One thing to keep in mind as well, women are the ones who make the decision to date/have sex with said men who abuse and/or rape them. I'm not too inclined to feel bad for a woman who chose to go on a date with a man who has "big fan of Andrew Tate!" in his dating app profile.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 02:06 PM
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All they need to do is utilize Google and look at what percentage of homicide victims are men. Oh, 90%? Looks like men have much more to fear, fancy that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 06:18 PM
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I wish this were the case. Just yesterday I commented on a post on r/fourthwavewomen that basically said we shouldn't care at all about male rape victims because...patriarchy. And it had over 100 upvotes. But hey, it makes me a bit hopeful seeing your comment. I guess there are some feminists out there that don't want us all dead.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 11:24 PM
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Thank you for clarifying. I am surprised I haven't heard that one before.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 10:19 AM
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Have you even read the sidebar?
/r/BlackPillScience27/09/23 12:51 PM
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What's misogynistic about a scientific study?
/r/BlackPillScience27/09/23 12:44 PM
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Ok so now you've shifted the goalposts from being "toxic as hell" to not knowing sexual boundaries. Can you produce a study for either case? Note this sub is called black pill science.
/r/BlackPillScience27/09/23 12:20 PM
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What are you using the term "Inkwell" for? Is it some kind of Cuphead reference?
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 10:16 AM
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You come to a sub that shows a literal study proving autistic men reproduce at a rate of %0.2, just to tell us "your toxic aTiTuDe" is the real issue? Show us a study that shows the opposite. Show us a study that shows that attitude is related to attraction, if it exists.
/r/BlackPillScience27/09/23 10:06 AM
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My friend I think you should show her a little sympathy. Any woman showing sympathy for men's dating issues is pretty rare.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:39 PM
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Man these posts about "Just stop complaining" really baffle me. What do you think this sub is for exactly....? There's plenty of other subs to talk about video games, alcohol, etc. Feel free to visit them.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:33 PM
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Ohhh, I suppose I should just buy one of those $10k courses on changing my "mindset", right? I know women today totally can "sense" a bad "mindset", right?
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 11:09 AM
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Go check out any of the women centered subs, like TwoX or AskFeminists. They think dating mostly comes down to "rEsPeCt".
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 11:06 AM
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Reminds me of that famous quote: "Give a man a mask and he'll become his true self."
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:10 AM
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Noo...they just get hired because of gender quotas.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:05 AM
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Good for you, I've considered trying out selling stocks, but my luck has been remarkably poor for most of my life, so I never got started. My career was going well up until a few weeks ago. Yes I honestly think having a fit body only matters if your face is sufficiently up to par. The women who have been interested in me, although not many, never ever gave me compliments on my physique. I think the internet in general has made people more honest. But even on TikTok you see a a ton of women claim…
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:01 AM
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Wow, this sounds remarkably similar to my situation. My body count is a bit lower and I'm a bit taller (but not 6 feet, so that's an automatic no from at least 60% of women). But I've been in the gym over 10 years. I'm still in the hate stage, but I imagine I'll get to the grief stage sooner or later. I also hope to retire to a country like the Philippines where women actually have reasonable standards.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 11:51 AM
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It absolutely does have a logical explanation. It's about how attractive the woman finds the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:19 PM
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Absolutely. Additionally, the most romantically successful men I've known in my life are almost never consistent with working out and eating healthy. And I don't entirely blame them, I probably wouldn't be very motivated to work out if I had plenty of women interested in me by just existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:12 PM
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I'm one of the few that has made a significant effort in "lifestyle" (been in the gym over 10 years, have a six-pack, etc.). I can confirm it hasn't made any noticeable difference in my dating life. I am even more blackpilled now than I was before I started working out, because I've seen how hard work doesn't make the slightest difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:55 AM
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I find this interesting because those same women usually tell men that can't find significant others that "they're single for their personality" but they have an entire history of dating men who clearly had awful personalities. And apparently these women can "sense" men's personalities within 10 seconds of meeting them, because they give off a bad "vibe". Hmm but apparently you weren't able to do this with your previous partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:31 AM
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Not at all...is this supposed to be some big "gotcha" question?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:22 PM
1

No, I'm simply saying this mentality is likely going to cause a rise in incel terrorism in coming years. Men who have tried everything and are desperate for basic companionship will become violent. That's the "free market" for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:25 PM
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I wonder what's going to happen when men receive the same "tough love" message their whole lives? Oh wait, we already know, see Eliot Rodger. He opted out of the "free market", and expect a lot of men to do the same in coming years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:00 PM
2

That's like...the whole point of a discussion forum? Why are you even on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:52 PM
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Shhhh! That's too much critical thinking for the blue pillers. We all know they can just "choose happiness" when living homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:37 PM
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Ohh I've seen so much of this in my life. It applies to both hot men and hot women, but I've definitely seen more examples with women. This is why hot people are so convinced they have great "personalities", because everyone is so kind and friendly to them. By the way your username is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:34 PM
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Very true! In general the "body positivity" movement is really just another movement to remove more accountability for women. Have to teach them that its society's fault for their poor food choices and lack of exercise. Men, on the other hand, are lazy is they don't get their ass in the gym. I say this as someone who's worked out for over 10 years. These "body positivity" charlatans are just making the world a worse place for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:40 AM
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Ok but back when you had a bad personality women gave you a chance? Your post is very contradictory. Personality matters most but you admit women gave you a chance when you had a bad personality. By the way there's only millions of examples of men with looks, height, money and no personality, who have girlfriends. Ever read about Chadfishing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:10 AM
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See this is a great post. I feel like you're trying to argue here that "attitude" and "personality" are what matters in dating but you're also claiming that your attitude only changed because a woman actually gave you the chance. I imagine if you hadn't been given the chance you'd still be resentful. Maybe it wasn't the "attitude" after all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:56 AM
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But what about the patriarchy? We can't be failing but also have all societal advantages at the same time?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/23 11:01 AM
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Honestly not at all. The majority of the women I've encountered on this sub are blue-pillers who preach the same nonsense I've been hearing since I was a kind. "Just be respectful!" "Work on your pErSoNaLiTy" etc. But as we all know, actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:09 AM
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Yes believe it or not, many of us actually have done a lot to improve ourselves. I've been in the gym over 10 years now. As a blue pill man, I sure hope you check all the self-improvement boxes that you expect of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:33 AM
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I honestly thought it was more like the top 5% of men? By "doing better" do you mean in terms of net worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:17 AM
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I'd take the struggles of the hottest and coolest guy any day on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:02 AM
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Always the same nonsense. OP's statement is almost exclusively said by people who have never spent more than 1 month of their adult lives not in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:46 PM
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Modern feminism in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:20 AM
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Hey don't worry you'll find out. Since a lot of women apparently have this mentality men won't be taking the risk. Hope you have fun with your vibrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:44 PM
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Oh right forgot women have "no control" over the consequences. Here's an idea....maybe communicate like an adult? Something to consider anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:40 PM
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So now it's man's fault for expecting a woman to actually be honest about being on birth control? We can't even expect women to tell us the truth? Such an insane infantilization. You radfems are doing a great job of turning men away from feminism, I can tell you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:17 PM
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Yeah a feminist who asserts that "women are more than just their sexuality" just tried to demean you based off your lack of sexual success. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:05 PM
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Interesting because for me I never really noticed a difference. I'm also about 60lbs lighter than you but I've been working out for 11 years and counting. I'm still pretty invisible to women. But I don't disagree with the original post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/23 01:48 PM
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My friend no need to engage with this person. She's an evasive feminist troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:09 PM
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Ahh yes "Just put a silly gif to evade any responsibility" haha so unsurprising. Just get out of your own way lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:59 PM
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I sure hope you do therapy, have platonic friends, work out 7 days a week, eat healthy, make $100k a year, and have interesting hobbies. Lead by example.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:11 AM
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Checkmate, men. Now that I've been enlightened by you I'm sure I'll get more matches on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:52 AM
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She couldn’t seem to comprehend and told me that for girls, sex is a genuine physical need that if not met causes extreme levels of distress. This is hilarious! According to the women of PPD, men aren't entitled to sex, but for women "sex is a genuine physical need". Rules for thee, but not for me. I really wonder what's going to happen to an entire population of men who are constantly told they're potential rapists for desiring sex with women. Oh wait, we already know, see Elliot Rodger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:31 AM
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So incels just need to start a business, got it. I sure hope you're the owner of multiple successful businesses, lead by example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:37 AM
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That's an excellent way of putting it, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:30 AM
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Clementine Ford, who posted on Twitter "The Coronavirus isn't killing men fast enough." And then when there was backlash, said something like "Men quit complaining because we live in a patriarchy." Right. I think men would prefer not to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:36 AM
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Yup can confirm, I was indeed a "male ally" for some time. I thought I had to bend over backwards for feminists and that would somehow make them like me. Because we all know how respect and kindness are the way to a woman's heart....right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/23 07:09 AM
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My friend it's a waste of time. There's plenty of people like her in every comment section on this sub. Men can fix all our problems with mystical magical thinking. We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:54 PM
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I hope I don't hear you complaining about "patriarchy" then. Women should just get out of their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:19 AM
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I find these strange platitudes quite fascinating. "Get out of our own way". I suppose that's another capitalistic magic-wand statement. "Just get rich!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:34 PM
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Absolutely. You will hear a lot of women complaining about "the male gaze" but yet most women utilize "the male gaze" in order to gain various social & professional advantages.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/23 07:22 AM
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This just in, water is wet. As an unattractive man, do you honestly think this is hard for us to accept? I've been well aware of this since I was a kid. To be completely honest, I wish more people would accept that this is how it is. Being attractive is largely a genetic lottery, and has really nothing at all to do with "personality". It's also dumb for you to tell people to not "dwell" on it. Of course people are going to have resentment when others get advantages simply because they won the ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:59 AM
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Wow! That thread you linked is insane! People are willing to justify literal infanticide as long as it's an attractive woman who did it. So disgusting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/23 11:37 AM
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My friend you're the one claiming therapy is somehow going to increase a man's chances at getting a partner. The burden of proof is on you. If you have a study go ahead and paste it below.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/23 07:25 AM
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What a world we live in today. Another man (I assume) is actually convinced that therapy increases your chances at getting a partner. Source?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/23 07:37 AM
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That's quite absurd you believe incels "need" to go to therapy for many months before they can even approach a woman. Think about the most romantically successful men you know. How many of them go to therapy on a regular basis? For me personally, the answer is: zero. Not to say therapy is a complete waste of time for everyone, but I really don't think its the "solution" for incels. Why is it so hard for some people to accept that maybe the reason they have difficulty dating is...because they jus…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 10:11 AM
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Isn't that exactly what the post is saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:38 AM
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Why don't you actually post some sources? Apparently the several sources he's posted are "wrong and cherry-picked" but you've posted none?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/23 06:45 PM
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Waaait a minute? Men aren't allowed to have an "ick" about female aggression now? When women are on reddit all day every day saying all men are violent rapist theives?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:17 PM
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Haha how do you think dating works exactly? You think everyone just has a large pool of people who share their interests that are available to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:33 AM
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Such an absurd distortion. "One male celebrity was abusive to his partner, so no men on the planet see women as full people." Ok. Be aware "all men" includes your dad, brother, uncle, etc. Make sure they're aware of your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:29 AM
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Not at all surprising that women handle rejection better. In general men deal with much, much more romantic rejection than women do. A woman gets rejected? Ok, she can just swipe a screen and have a new partner in an hour or so. A man gets rejected? It might be years until his next opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:28 PM
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My friend please don't listen to crap like OP is spewing. "Confidence" is really just a made up concept. Think about it, how does anyone else really "sense" when you're truly "confident"? Can they read your mind? A lot of people like OP use the concept of "confidence" as an invisible boogeyman to justify inequality and unfair standards in society. Women are not attracted to "confidence", they're attracted to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:20 AM
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Validation and "The whims of others" literally determine if you'll be able to not starve and live a comfortable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:24 PM
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Then this should also apply to feminists saying "kill all men", right? They only produce that "hateful rhetoric" because they hate themselves? Or...wait, it only applies to men who aren't "cOnFiDeNt", right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:47 PM
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How are you so certain that people like or dislike themselves? Can you read minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:52 PM
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You sound like Dave Ramsey. Godspeed and good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:04 PM
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My friend you can't say "life is a meritocracy" and then turn around and say "luck is a factor". That's a contradiction. A meritocracy involves 0% luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:03 PM
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I honestly wonder what kind of life one has to lead to have such a strange, distorted view of reality. The world is far, far from a meritocracy. You get what you earn only if you're in the right place at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:42 AM
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Wait until the asshole starts "handling conflict" with physical violence. Plenty of "nice guys' handle conflict very well, the women in question probably couldn't bear to have a conversation with him for more than 30 seconds because they don't like how he looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:26 PM
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This has to be one of the most hilarious justifications I've ever heard. Having an asshole on your "side" sometimes is ok when you'll have the same asshole at home making your life a living hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:11 PM
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I think more of the issue is people (both men and women) will claim to desire certain traits in a romantic partner when asked, but take a look at the people they actually date. Actions always speak louder than words.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/23 05:14 PM
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Strange that you use the term "mindfuck" here. Personally I find that when I try to "not" be stressed in stressful situations it just makes it worse. Ex: I was feeling down about my lack of romantic relationships. I simply just told myself in my head "I'm not depressed". It did nothing and I still felt depressed. This is what it means by "mindfuck" is it not? Just like, tell yourself that you're not feeling down when you're feeling down?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/23 07:34 AM
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This is very true. When I was growing up most of my parental figures prescribed solutions to my problems that were wholly useless and had no tangible method of implementation. When I was being bullied severely in school I was told: "Just don't let it bother you. They only bully you to feel better about themselves". Of course it was too much effort to actually get the school to intervene to get the bullies to STOP bullying me. I often see women on reddit saying that more men "need to go to therap…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/23 10:41 PM
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Well I wouldn't, but it's more the idea that a bunch of women who may have met you in the past could potentially give opinions on you to potential romantic interests. Imagine if there was a catalog of every interaction you've ever had with women be on display for any future romantic partners. Doesn't seem fair.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 08:18 AM
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I had a friend of mine join one of these groups in my area, it was quite scary. They literally just post a guy's photo and ask "Any tea?" I did a search for my name, and luckily, found nothing. I should note this group had something like 15,000 members. So regardless of how respectfully you treat women it really doesn't matter. Your photo could get posted and a girl you knew in middle school could see it and post "Ohhh he said something awkward in class 15 years ago" and next thing you know the …
/r/MensRights13/06/23 05:42 PM
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I wish I could just not be "needy". I know my only choice is to play stupid games or else I'll go home to an empty house. I applaud you for being successful in Polyamorous relationships. I feel like there's not a lot of men out there that are, but you seem to be making it work.
/r/MensRights13/06/23 12:31 AM
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It's another way to infantilize women and instill a sense of hypoagency. They can't be expected to actually communicate & get to know their partner and form their own opinion, it has to all come from strangers on the internet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/23 10:55 AM
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Thank you for this! Everyone please be aware that there's more of these AWDTSG groups than you probably realize! I read the first post about AWDTSG and foolishly thought "I don't think I'll have to worry about it" but a quick search on Facebook tells me, there's indeed SEVERAL AWDTSG groups in my area. Scary stuff.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 07:11 AM
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This was also my experience. I am a hetero-flexible man, and it was so amazing to actually feel pursued and desired for once in my life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/23 10:54 AM
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That's actually a great question. Do the alimony payments received by women worldwide get factored in as income for the "pay gap" studies? I am honestly not sure but I feel like someone else on this sub might know?
/r/MensRights06/06/23 07:02 PM
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Awesome, you went straight for the jugular here, I love it!
/r/MensRights06/06/23 03:19 PM
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Well if the gay man in question had backing from LGBT organizations, sure. But I do see your point, people are very much be dismissive of a straight white man asking for any kind of help.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 11:00 AM
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Honestly, I doubt you'd get much support for either man, sadly.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 07:17 AM
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"Facial features are often reflective of personality traits"-source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:35 AM
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Did anyone see that absurd post yesterday mocking a man for expecting his girlfriend of 3 months to have sex with him? It was another one of those "Look at this loser, he expects to just be nice to girls and then they'll have sex with him, women aren't a punch card lololol". But it's interesting because the same feminists will often go to great lengths to say that "respect and kindness" are all that matters when women choose partners, so isn't this somewhat contradictory?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 11:09 AM
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That's interesting to me, I kind of thought feminists liked cucks? Since it allows the wife "spiritual exploration", apparently?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/23 10:25 AM
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The only way to actually solve the "pay gap" would be to get a 50/50 ratio of men/women in ALL career fields, which is near impossible. That includes all the fields that are 90% men, such as policemen, garbage men, coal miners, etc. Another tangential issue to this-I've noticed how women in tech/science fields almost NEVER have a problem finding work, and if they do get terminated for some reason they have a job again by next week. Whereas me (a man) can put out 100's out applications but it wil…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/23 07:38 AM
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Why not start an "Are we dating the same girl?" FB group? But I can hear the backlash already. "That's not fair because of.....the wage gap!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/23 03:46 PM
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Sadly this isn't likely to change anytime in the next century. I think there probably are left-wingers who care about men's issues but all the prominent ones know the minute you start saying men's issues are important you'll soon be labeled misogynistic, incel, etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/23 10:45 AM
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I'm unsure. I think the risk is too great. I've been extremely romantically unsuccessful for my entire life so the chances of me actually getting married are low. What is honestly even the point of marriage? Isn't it essentially just a contract that makes breaking up much more difficult?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/23 07:32 AM
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Would you rather fight and die in war, or stay home and raise multiple children? Doesn't seem too difficult of a decision to me.....
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/23 11:17 AM
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Why should I put myself in danger for a society that's always claiming I'm "entitled" for wanting basic human needs? The Tinder Translator claims men who desire female companionship are "entitled", so why should they be entitled for me to sacrifice my life for them?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/23 10:57 AM
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Wow. This has to be one of the most brutal things I've ever read on this sub. My heart goes out to you, sir. I hope things are better today.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/23 12:43 AM
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How scary, wishing the best for you my friend. It's almost like we'll soon be at a point in society where men will have to get recordings of women saying "I consent to xyz" before every single type of sexual encounter.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/23 07:18 AM
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Why wouldn't someone make it up? There's literally so many possible reasons. From wanting to get your boss fired to getting revenge on a co worker you don't like. It only takes a baseline level of critical thinking to realize this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/04/23 11:33 AM
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This is probably one of my favorite posts you've done so far. I've always wondered what it would actually mean to "smash the patriarchy" and you've put material data behind it that I never knew about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 09:36 PM
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I suppose it doesn't apply to you then. Go over to TwoX and you'll see endless posts about how "not all men" isn't a valid argument and since some men are bad it's apparently ok to hate all men.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 10:55 AM
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Then shouldn't that also apply to men? Just because a small minority of men are rapists and murders isn't it ok to say "not all men"?
/r/MensRights21/04/23 10:53 AM
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Haha basically saying black is white and up is down.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/23 07:32 AM
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That's insane. All four of those can easily be disproved with a simple Google search.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/23 07:30 AM
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Well that makes it even more difficult to define ot does it not? If "patriarchy" is "a subtle ideology ingrained in all of us" how do they expect to "smash" it? In this post The Tin Men is tackling actual real policy changes, which is better than vague concepts of "ideology". To be honest what you're saying kind of reminds me of the woo woo "energy" concepts I've heard preached by a lot of women in my life (and some men too). The people who say things like "the energy you put out comes back to y…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/23 07:23 AM
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I saw a post on Instagram yesterday saying something along the lines of "Women are entitled to men's money because women 100 years ago couldn't even open a bank account." So mind blowing. By that logic, should I be entitled to veteran's benefits because my grandfather served in WW2 almost 80 years ago?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/23 07:36 AM
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You do an excellent job sir. Never stop making content.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/23 02:20 AM
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The future is female until one of those "females" needs their sink fixed, or a war needs to be fought.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/23 07:32 AM
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You obviously lack empathy and can't see an issue from both sides. Have a nice day.
/r/AntiFeminists22/03/23 02:19 PM
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If you see women as equals then why do you believe that its okay for women to coerce men into sex (which is what I'm describing above), but not the other way around? You're correct that in this particular case I was fine with it, but many men would not be. Feminism always goes to great lengths to talk about how "coercion is not consent" so shouldn't that also apply to women?
/r/AntiFeminists22/03/23 06:56 AM
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Did you even read the whole comment? "It's kind of rude to say no to a lady". My god, imagine if anyone said "It's kind of rude to say no to a man". You'd be arrested.
/r/AntiFeminists21/03/23 07:17 AM
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My entire life I've always felt like women wielded all the power. Women made all the important decisions in my family, at school, and even later at work my bosses were mostly women. In all social situations with friends everything revolved around what the women wanted to do. Even if men are technically the one's who hold the highest offices in government if women are behind the scenes controlling the men who really has all the power?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/03/23 08:32 AM
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This is a great point. Women who's husbands aren't doing their fair share of the house work were not forced at gun point to marry said husband.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/23 04:24 PM
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*Claps*
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/23 07:59 AM
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Well sadly dating apps are the most accessible options for most adult men. Most activity groups tend to be very male-dominated, so that's a no go (depending on where you live), and dating co-workers is generally frowned upon. So we don't really have any other options.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 02:15 PM
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Thanks, but at the time I honestly didn't feel violated. I'm very lonely so to have a girl that was throwing herself at me was, in a sense, quite a relief.
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/23 08:35 AM
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Years ago a woman I was talking to from my gym (and interested in romantically) invited me over to her house. We kissed and made out for a bit, and she started taking my clothes off. I told her I didn't want to rush things, as this was only the second time I had hung out with her, and I didn't want to have sex yet. But she wouldn't take no for an answer. We ended up having sex. At the time this didn't strike me as assault/rape of any kind at all. However after reading some reddit posts years lat…
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/23 12:00 PM
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Does anyone know if there are any studies done on how men are treated in society vs. how women are treated in society? I know it's vague, but the reason I'm asking is in response to a post I saw on TwoX. A while ago there was a bill proposed that would make women eligible for military drafts, and in response there was a long post on TwoX opposing said bill. I didn't read the entire thing but the main idea was that "Because women aren't "treated as well" as men they shouldn't be drafted". So my q…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/23 12:00 PM
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I've visited quite a few restaurants in my life. No need for name calling, I am simply sharing my experiences. I've noticed a lot more women servers & bartenders than men. I'm sure this can also vary depending on where you live.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/23 03:20 PM
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Not sure about this one. The restaurant industry is always going to want pretty girls to be hostesses to bring in more customers. And don't forget bartenders, they are almost always women. But you're not wrong about men being more in the back of the house. Then what usually happens is the men end up in charge of all the heavy lifting when supplies come in (speaking from my experience working in a nursing home kitchen).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/23 12:01 PM
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I think he's taking is slow advocating for men's issues because he's well aware that almost anyone who advocates for men gets instantly labeled as violent misogynist incel. And sadly it's not surprising, since some of the only people advocating for men are far-right nutjobs like Dennis Prager.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/23 01:16 AM
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Sorry to hear that. But sadly the reality is, even though you were probably in the right, women abusing men is always completely acceptable today.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/23 01:10 AM
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Sex positivity is only for women and the top 20% of men. If you're an average or below-average looking man who tries to be "sex positive" you'll just be labeled a rapist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/23 01:05 AM
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Well keep in mind, a lot of those women are choosing to be in relationships with abusive men. No one holds a gun to their head and forces them to date misogynist & abusive men. To be honest I don't have much sympathy for that behavior anymore. Of course this only applies to romantic relationships. They have likely been abused by men in their lives they did not chose, such as family members.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/22 12:07 PM
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Well quite honestly because I'm a very bitter person. I've never had a real relationship at 30+ years old despite putting plenty of effort in. When you're nobody's "type" it really takes a toll on your mental well-being. It's never sat well with me when I see individuals who can pick romantic partners off a buffet. I see that you were a victim of a false accusation. My heart goes out to you my friend. You seem surprisingly content for someone who was put through something so awful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/22 02:24 AM
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To be honest I don't recall where I found the original article, sorry! I was under the impression it was heavily shared on Facebook (which I don't use). I think self-proclaimed feminists are more likely to claim that they value "personality over looks" but in my experience their actions show the opposite.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/22 09:46 PM
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Interesting, that does kind of go against what I would think the results would be. However, any man can self-identify as a feminist. Actions speak louder than words. However, your last paragraph does make sense. They become feminists because they have more sex. I'm pretty sure if I was sexually successful and the majority of women in my life didn't completely ignore me I'd be much more apt to care about feminist issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/22 08:33 AM
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It's really the same as conservatives hating on poor people. They claim its their fault for not trying hard enough. Women have been the gatekeepers of romance since the beginning of human history. They don't have to put in any effort at all to attain romantic relationships. Men pursue women. Men put in 99% of the effort. That's always been my experience. And if feminists have no sympathy for lonely men, why should I care about women's issues that don't really affect me? Such as having more women…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/22 11:32 AM
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Does anyone know if a study has ever been done on the dating history of feminists? Feminists often claim the most important factors in a (male) partner are someone who's "kind, respectful, and emotionally available." And many of them claim to value personality over looks. So I want to see how their actions line up with their words. I have googled and I can't find any studies done on this topic. There was also that nasty article sent out recently about how straight men need to "do better" by beco…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/22 12:08 PM
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My friend, thank you so much for all you do. I love that you back up almost ALL your arguments with studies of real-world data. Interesting how real-world data always contradicts feminism....
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/22 12:00 PM
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I've heard this a lot, women will say "I didn't know he was an asshole until we had been dating for a while" and while I'm sure its true to an extent, I feel like what's really going on here is women are ignoring obvious red flags. The men I've known in my life who are highly desired by women generally have this kind of cocky overconfident persona. They know that since they're attractive that they generally don't need to be respectful (at least most of the time). When I've hung out with these me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/22 11:35 AM
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Hmm not quite sure how I feel about this one. Normally the people shouting for "Freedom of speech!" are usually right-wingers saying "Please let me have no consequences for saying bigoted and racist things!" But at the same time, we definitely don't need any more affirmative action and "diversity" hiring programs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/22 07:11 AM
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Thank you for shouting "misogyny!" at me when I was simply asking for a source. Why do you feel "encouraging and even occasionally enforcing diversity is a good thing"? Let me ask you this, if you went to the doctor for a hip replacement, which would matter more: Your doctor being able to fix your broken hip Your doctor being female You tell me?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/22 06:44 PM
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Thank you so much, sir, for being a voice for men. I've only been following your page for the past month or so but you've opened my eyes to so many misandrist policies I had no idea existed. Also-isn't the big increase in women in STEM fields mostly due to forced hiring policies? I don't have a source for this but I would be surprised if I was wrong. I work in a STEM field and I never stop hearing about initiatives to hire women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/22 02:39 PM
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People who have unlimited access to sexual & romantic partners (most women alive today) are probably less inclined to commit crimes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/22 07:39 AM
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To be honest, the Straus paper surprised me. I'm somewhat new to the men's rights community (and find it hard to fit in as someone who leans left) but I kind of always thought men were the ones who did the assaulting most of the time. It made sense, since men are 90% of prisoners, soldiers, policemen, etc. But apparently I was wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/22 02:21 PM
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I'm a left-leaning working for a STEM company, and I despise forced diversity. Hiring should be based on ability, NOT if you have certain body parts. I remember hearing about that blind hiring experiment that still ended up hiring more men, I wish they would make policies like that more widespread.
/r/MensRights16/09/22 02:45 PM
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Interesting because it's a fact that American teaching is female-dominated profession (75% when I google). But of course when they find abusive teachers they only pick the men....interesting.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 10:58 AM
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I put a picture of myself on a face rating site and received a 6.2/10 rating. I was honestly surprised. As a 32 year old man who's never had a real relationship, I always thought I was lower than 5. So that technically puts me....above average? Which is insane because most women have ignored me for as long as I can remember. If I had been born a 6/10 woman, I'd be pretty much....set for life. I'd have hundreds of potential suitors reaching out to me. But as a man these days even slightly above a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/09/22 07:57 AM
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The forcefield is only for men they don't find attractive. Once an attractive man approaches them that forcefield will go away instantly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/22 10:56 AM
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Here's an idea, they go on Facebook and find a bunch of the women who shared the original article about "men need to do better" (I forget the title exactly). I assume there has to be several thousand of them. Next, interview all of them and take a look at their current boyfriend/husband AND their dating history. Do they actually date "emotionally available" men? Then publish the results so everyone can see how their actions match up with their words.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/22 05:26 PM
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I'd love to ask those same women about their dating history. How many emotionally available and kind men have you dated? Who are you with now? Oh, your husband calls you worthless and beats you? Good to know.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 04:33 PM
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No women will ever care in the slightest about a potential romantic partner's "emotional availability" unless she finds him physically attractive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 04:31 PM
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Obviously it depended on which friends, but in general, yes I did. I was always willing to go out of my way to help my friends.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 03:13 PM
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I've had plenty of platonic friendships over the years, I just don't feel like they're worth it anymore to be honest. My "friends" were always people who have had easy access to relationships, despite not having done anywhere near the amount of self-improvement I've done. It got exhausting after a while.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 02:01 PM
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It's actually pretty common to see feminists on reddit proclaim "feminism helps men too!" but in practice that almost never happens. I am one of the lonely men. Despite being a man who works out 7 days a week, has an excellent paying job, and is self-sufficient, I am still very much struggling with dating at 32 years old. I remember reading a post on TwoX once that said "Men, if you want to date women all that matters is RESPECT!" I died laughing reading that one. Literally my entire life I've s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 10:23 AM
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This is something I've known exists for a long time but have never had the words to describe it, thanks!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/22 02:14 PM
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You're welcome. Do you have anything to say about my post?
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 12:31 AM
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I actually considered myself a feminist for some time. I used to often read TwoX. Then over time I realized how often I saw man-hating posts on that sub. I saw myself as one of the "good men" but I realized they would probably pick apart every single one of my behaviors until they found one they didn't like, then deem me a misogynist. Anecdotally, growing up I realized my voice was never heard. My sister, female cousins, aunts, were always talking and my opinion never mattered in the slightest. …
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 07:43 AM
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Thanks for your response. What you're describing as "emotional labor" was what I believed most feminists refer to as the "mental load". I definitely agree the division of household chores becomes a huge issue in many relationships (it was probably the central issue that caused my parent's divorce), and women are definitely the ones doing most of it probably 90% of the time. But what galls me is when I see women who end up marrying men who refuse to do ANY cooking, cleaning, or chores around the …
/r/MensRights16/08/22 07:19 AM
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If healthy relationship standards are increasing, shouldn't that mean there are less women out there dating abusive men? From my anecdotal experience, it seems like there are MORE women out there dating abusive men since Covid.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 11:03 AM
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My god I'm tired of this bullshit. "Women do all the emotional labor". Usually feminists equate "emotional labor" to when their husbands/boyfriends want to talk about their problems with them. Apparently this is too daunting of a task. Heaven forbid your own significant other is asking for emotional support.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 02:15 PM
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As a black male, if most of the women I dated were only interested in me because they thought I'd have a large penis, or wanted the experience of sleeping with a black guy, would you say that I'm privileged for having access to 'loving partners'? Yes. I would absolutely say you're privileged. I mean, do you hate sex? Try being me, where you swipe right on anyone you find halfway decent looking (I'm not picky at all, I don't swipe left often) and are lucky to maybe get 2-3 matches a month. Would …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/22 09:29 AM
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Women don't have access to a buffet of options when it comes to love; they have a buffet of options of guys to sleep with, and they have to sort though all of those to find one who will actually care for them beyond what sexual gratification they can provide. This is simply not true. Having access to more potential sexual partners automatically means more access to loving partners. This is a common feminist argument used in an attempt to trivialize men's struggles in dating. As a man who's strug…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/22 07:36 AM
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This is very common, I'd see this applied to all sorts of different contexts when I used to read TwoX. "X" bad thing happened to me, it MUST be because I'm a woman!
/r/MensRights14/06/22 06:45 AM
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Your first paragraph is incredible. That's what I've wanted to say to feminists my whole life but I couldn't find the words, thank you!
/r/MensRights06/06/22 06:56 AM
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As a man, this is what I've always thought would happen if I kept asking questions in the way u/gamerlololdude is suggesting. It would completely ruin the moment. Glad to see at least one woman out there agrees.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 10:36 AM
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This is quite disturbing. Apparently now any woman can "fake" consent and send men to jail. How terrifying. You are asking a lot of great questions. My experiences are similar. The women I've been intimate with (although not many) I usually go mostly by body language & how it feels. I might ask "Is this ok?" if I am trying to take things a step further, but most of it is usually implied. And I have always trusted that if the woman is not comfortable with anything I'm doing, that they will just t…
/r/MensRights03/06/22 10:34 AM
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At the same time I've seen a few posts on TwoX about how women are apparently "the real victims of war". Makes no sense to me.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 10:59 AM
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Gala sisters are awesome!
/r/MensRights19/05/22 10:02 PM
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Yes I know exactly how you feel, it's like when your anecdotal experiences almost always contradict what the mainstream media tells you, it's hard to believe we are the privileged ones. However, I do think there's a lot of truth in women expecting to be paid the same as men, but at the same time expecting to do less work than men. I've seen it in action in almost all my jobs. Of course there are exceptions out there, but equal pay should come with equal work, it's very simple. One thing I wonder…
/r/MensRights19/05/22 06:47 AM
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I worked in a nursing home kitchen for a few years where there was about 50/50 men and women employed. We got our delivery weekly which was an arduous task involving moving and putting away quite a few heavy boxes. Who do you think was in charge of this? The men, the women never lifted a finger to help, despite making the same wage as the men. Of course, I stupidly volunteered for it early on, this was early in my work life, before I learned that volunteering for extra work just gets you more wo…
/r/MensRights05/05/22 10:22 AM
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This is a great point. Upon reading this post I realized I've been seeing this in movies and TV my entire life. Had this trope had the genders reversed, feminists would have written 1000's of articles of why it's wrong and going to apparently cause real violence. Personally, I think people need to just learn to separate fact from fiction. I do not think violent movies (or video games) are in any way to blame for real life violence.
/r/MensRights28/04/22 10:17 AM
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I'm sorry that happened to you. I see a ton of posts about men's rights get cross posted to r/TwoXChromosomes in an attempt to shame and belittle us. Not just from this sub either, posts from r/AskReddit end up there as well if it's a question where men ask women how they want to be treated, what they like in bed. etc. It's almost like there are zero ways of responding that they will find acceptable. I recently commented on a post on TwoX about a certain post on r/teenagers where apparently a gu…
/r/MensRights25/04/22 06:46 AM
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I appreciate it. But sadly the answer is no. My childhood bullying is still very much ingrained into all my habits as an adult.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 01:46 PM
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I absolutely agree with this. When I was in school I always felt like the girls were so celebrated. Everything they did was praised and commended by the teachers, but men's accomplishments never seemed to matter as much. TwoX will always complain about women being "harassed, talked over, bullied" by men. When I was in school, this was rarely the case (not saying it never happens at all of course). The men bullied the men. I should know, I was a frequent target.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 10:57 AM
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