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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive? >Men just do not like women expressing their desires period. Sometimes it really just seems like men do not like women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 07:14 AM
2	Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative) The 30-somethings got wise after being screwed over and chasing validation for all of their wasted 20's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/22 02:32 PM
37	When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner? >They wouldn't date a woman out of love, compatibility, or any other reasons related to interpersonal human feelings. >They're the ones setteling for women that they hate and aren't attracted to. >In otherwords these men resent the women that choose to be with them because they aren't the women that they actually want. >So there is no way for these women to "do" anything right because these men don't want them. /thread /the whole sub	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/22 02:12 PM
9	Is there truth in this - If a woman doesn't give you her body, she isn't interested in you? Or maybe she is really attracted to you, but she has just had a string of bad experiences from sleeping with guys too quickly. She is trying to learn her lesson. People need to read this and then read this again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 08:39 PM
3	Is it actually unreasonable for men to politely decline friendship with women who reject them romantically? Absolutely not. There're a lot of women that take it as an insult, but that doesn't mean that the guy who has feelings shouldn't get to decide what to do with himself after being rejected. It's entirely reasonable to want to stay away, often it's better for the woman too. Guy needs to get over his crush, and if she has an issue with that maybe she needs to get over herself too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 08:30 AM
3	Do you agree with this divorce lawyer with 13 yrs of experience on the top 6 reasons people get divorced? I find myself agreeing with this. This covers situations leading up to divorce much better than your standard PPD "divorce happen becuaz women/men r mean" take. She goes onto mention that adultery is often the symptom of a poor marriage with people using it as an escape or as a form of therapy. 1000% Agree. Adultery doesn't come into the picture out of nowhere. No, it's not the betrayed spouse's fault and by that I mean the betrayed can't 'cause' something that's ultimately the unfaithful partne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 02:11 PM
2	What were you told about attracting the opposite sex as you were growing up? I wasn't really explicitly told anything by my parents, but girls my age made sure to let me know how absolutely important it is to do XYZ ever since we all started to go to school. My older sister let me in on some tiny bits of knowledge, but she didn't want to tell me too much because she was afraid of me attracting not just too many but the wrong kind of guys as well (in retrospect I think she understood how gullible and simple I was, better than I did, so she was trying to do the right thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 12:46 PM
2	This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER have wonder how my husband feels about being married to a reddit user	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 11:52 AM
5	This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER have this place is full of redditors haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 10:07 AM
31	This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER have This shit reads like an evil genie wish-with-a-catch lmao "you can pick and get any man you want.... but he must be from reddit"	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 09:21 PM
2	Should women contribute to half of all bills regardless of differences in income? No. My suggestion is to instead figure out how many percentages her income is of the total sum of both incomes. Use it to determine the portion of any costs she's supposed to cover. If she makes 31%, she covers 31% of any costs. If she makes 80%, she covers 80% of any costs. E Z	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 11:01 PM
2	If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore? There's the who dunnit. I'd like to hear more from said women about the why dunnit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 02:38 PM
1	Which scenario would you pick? >in this hypothetical scenario, only 10% of men are high value Do you mean 10% are what's stereotypically perceived as high value, or do you mean the 10%ers are the only men that'll you treat you like a person? Makes a whole lot of difference, especially when you make sure to characterize option 4 as a result of 'abandoning all self respect'. So which is it? Is 4 straight up abusive or is he just a humble average guy? Would my husband be a 4 just because we're both in a shitty place financially?…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 07:00 AM
1	How many of you would be pleased or displeased if your son or daughter married or seriously dated someone like you? I'd be okay with it. Just 'okay' with it because I know both my most shining and my most infuriating traits, so I'd intuitively know a great deal about how she goes about issues, how she reacts and what her weaknesses are when paired up with someone [like my son]. But I'd also understand her strengths and know how to root for her when or if she needs it. It wouldn't be so bad, and I think she'd be a fine partner; it's just that I know what's really up with someone exactly like me, and that's a w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/22 12:02 PM
2	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive best energy	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:44 PM
2	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive For both themselves and for others in a sense that it's a safe barrier between the harsh outside judgement and the more internal parts of one's self-esteem. My husband once said that makeup as it is used now seems to be a secular western modern iteration of veiling of sorts, and I think he's onto something (I can't remember if he came up with this on his own or if he was merely quoting or referring to an observation made by someone else, but anyways). Women near-instinctively know that no matter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:33 PM
1	The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spot perfect flair	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 06:18 PM
3	If you desire a traditional man or woman, you better be traditional yourself I'd add that neither should watch porn under any circumstances. Expect zero room to moan and bitch about the trad partner not wanting porn impacting the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 02:38 PM
4	How do girls tell I have a toxic attitude and mentality through my photos? (20+ dating apps, ZERO likes/matches) How are your photos? Some people tell me I look awkward and dead in photos but IRL consistently people let me know they think I'm nice and kinda cute even sometimes - makes me think there might be a similar case going on there with you. Sucks if you're not too photogenic, but there are videos online for posing and stuff, which is at least a little bit of help. A proper hairstyle also goes a mile for a guy when talking about such look-based apps. Another one would be the text in your profile. How…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 09:07 AM
6	Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside? We're addicted to the mere thought, the idea of having sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 04:20 PM
6	Most sluts are average/underaverage We should be more blunt to girls about how men's sexual attention doesn't equal respect or genuine desire. Sluts are mostly mentally ill and/or conformist women who simply don't understand that men blow their loads probably more than they bother to blow their noses. where are the casually misandrist babushkas with their slippers of steel when you need them	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/22 09:34 PM
2	What Physical Characteristics would make Looksmaxing Pointless? it does if you greet 'em with a dick pic	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 06:43 PM
1	Have you ever asked a guy out or made the first move? Yes. A couple years ago I went up to my now-husband and confessed to him I had liked him a lot for a few months. My other friend told me not to worry, but I was bracing myself for a rejection anyways. We're now married; we married in little over a year after we started out together. I've almost always been the one to initiate starting a relationship. But I've only done it if I've been really interested in the guy, I still don't know why I'd approach someone I didn't feel somehow connected to alr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 03:17 PM
2	If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun? what is the incentive for both sexes to stay in LTRs once these bots arrive? The exact incentives probably depend on the person. There's always gonna be a subset of both men and women who prefer bot companions, but it doesn't really change the fact that the average men and women crush on each other and seek each other out. Human relationships are real in a sense that humans relate to each others experiences strongly, attraction prompts them to seek common ground and as brutal as it sounds, it's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 04:10 PM
1	If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun? I thought that I clarified that cuddling and words would be a service the bot would provide, but ok. In my experience men aren't cuddle robots who're always down for comforting a stressed, burnt out woman. I've been through situations where I've been resented and pushed away for turning down sex during an extremely mentally taxing time and then later after the worst being out of the way I'd go please him and try to show him that I at least care about his pleasure but would still get the cold sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 03:41 PM
1	If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun? But I suspect that the requirements for a real man is far higher. I don't think so. I think it's more of an issue of manbots filling the requirements much easier just because robots can do a lot of things humans can't do constantly. Meaning, keep their performance steady and reliable at all times. Robot guys do whatever they're programmed to, while real human men get bored, inattentive, moody, resentful, sometimes they go through bad shit which makes them lash out or retreat from contact. Real m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 02:51 PM
2	If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun? Robot maintenance takes either intently learned skill or a bunch of money if you're having it made by someone else, but despite robotics being a respectable and valuable craft, machine maintenance doesn't take the same emotional sensitivity and awareness as improving your connection with a human partner. I'd say it's a pretty low risk affair for a woman who for some reason can't take dealing with a real man. The part about easily gotten spooning sessions and words of affirmation was to illustrat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 02:19 PM
9	If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun? You asked how manbots would better than real men and I answered. I think "A woman wants a partner who doesn't treat her like a chore- and robots don't get bored, they just function to their best ability as long as they're maintained. A sexbot doesn't resent you for turning down sex, just like a computer doesn't resent you for having a no-electronics-allowed trip to the woods." and "an attractive option for women who want someone to just easily spoon with and to get words of affirmation from." ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 01:54 PM
3	If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun? I wasn't arguing that it'd ultimately be better than a real man, at least, I don't think the majority of women would settle for robots even if they were built and programmed to be attentive, verbally skilled, intellectually exciting etc. I was just commenting on where the women's focus would be, like how they'd approach the point where they full on go through with having a sexual relationship with a robot. A woman wants a partner who doesn't treat her like a chore- and robots don't get bored, th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 01:41 PM
7	If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun? I don’t think women even like sex that much for the male androids to sell that much. I mean male androids with well advanced AIs would definitely sell alright, but not exclusively for the fucc mechanix tm. They'd be a hit for companionship and personal entertainment related reasons, robot sex being an interesting bonus for taking the relationship with the machine to its furthest point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 12:25 PM
20	How can single women be happier than married women? Men often leave taking care of the marriage dynamic itself entirely as something for the wife to deal with alone. Which is why self-help and all these woowoo types of spiritual therapy for married women sells like crazy because they try to fix everything by endlessly fixing themselves. Men on the other hand get shell-shocked when their wife suddenly divorces them "out of nowhere" as they tend to put it (reality: it's not out of nowhere, it's more likely to be the end result of not taking her emo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 07:22 PM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material <sup>(reposted because I don't want it to drown into the replies of the comment I originally replied to:</sup>) My guess is that these women think that with promiscuous guys it's easier to just 'get it over with' instead of getting attached (and they unironically think having casual sex alleviates their loneliness or is empowering) and when it comes to an actually quality guy, they don't want to rush it to the end. Sounds backwards as hell, but if you're the kind of person to think of sex as har…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 09:43 PM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material My guess is that these women think that with promiscuous guys it's easier to just 'get it over with' instead of getting attached (and they unironically think having casual sex alleviates their loneliness or is empowering) and when it comes to an actually quality guy, they don't want to rush it to the end. Sounds backwards as hell, but if you're the kind of person to think of sex as harmless fun, like how it's shilled everywhere in post-modern society, that's how you think of it. It's not a backh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 09:38 PM
–	What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner? no not just any kind of white, a white man from my exact country	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 12:51 AM
–	Every regular here holds a deep resentment for the opposite sex and it makes any 'debate' worthless pretty much	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 12:07 AM
3	What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner? The only thing my crushes + exes + my husband have had in common is that they weren't bald or balding (my husband is hitting his 30's and still has nice hair) weren't fat (BMI always literally almost anywhere under 26, not sure of the exact fat percentages but it wasn't necessarily on athletic levels, just normal) were of the same ethnicity as me	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 05:29 PM
1	Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For Men Nah. Even if women weren't "hooking up with Chads" casually, men in general would still find a way to support and enable sexual slavery and human trafficking because they pp hard. Death penalty to pornographers. Make adultery and premarital sex illegal. Purge all whoredom and help humanity ascend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 03:05 PM
2	Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles? I want to return to the pre world war eras, all the way to the life before Hollywood "reinvented" femininity for idle, meaningless mass consumption. To the life before whole generations and nations were collectively traumatized and detached from their heritage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/21 11:29 AM
1	Telling people "it will get better" is the worst advice I kind of understand what you're saying. The obsession of just having someone drives people to sacrifice what little peace they might have, for something that's essentially a passive daily nightmare. It's just another type of loneliness to be with someone you don't really feel connected to. I see more value in trying to offer validation and support towards people who have a single life ahead of them going to their thirties instead of driving them up the wall and burning them with false hope. I m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 12:41 PM
1	Men really underestimate the power of emotions decreasing sexual attraction for women based and truthpilled	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 12:18 PM
15	Women like all types of guys! but it's so evil of white women to be exclusively attracted to the white men from their own nations, some straight up n*zi shit, they don't show that in porn so why do white women do thiis omg /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 11:35 AM
4	This is the reason why shouldn't date multiple people at the same time and use the other one as an option. I vaguely understand the logic behind this (narrowing down candidates, backup plan so you know who to approach for what in immediate future etc.), but that doesn't make it somehow less questionable. If you're not all for this one guy, why even pursue him? Why pursue anyone if you're not getting that strong, exclusive feeling about that one person you want to try to be with? Why pursue him if you weren't crazy enough about him to just stay on his case relentlessly Sounds like wasted effort to go …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 02:53 PM
1	A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why? based bot	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/21 09:59 AM
2	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive BMI anywhere between 20 and 30, at least 5cm or a couple inches taller then the woman who's being asked, hair still grows on head, no pungent body odors, has an open/approachable body language and a relaxed, peaceful expression on their face. If we're considering only physical side, anything one could gauge all without having a single word, and trying to find universals for all women, these are my guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 08:43 PM
3	Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating market And as for the actual content on OF, I doubt it'll stop being sexual(ly implied) anyway. It'll probably still be the go to platform for parasocial relationships, the explicit content will just be shared off platform in a different way. Only the 'safe' lewds will be posted on OF. Meaning it'll be women seductively handling, idk, vegetables and fruit?, some ASMR bits, or whatever their creativity affords.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 01:43 PM
3	Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating market Other services to charge for sexual content like in OnlyFans will pop up soon. It's the most lucrative MLM and there are people willing to make money off of prostitution OF refugees. The concept of online/virtual prostitution has already been trended and normalized. People won't stop seeking it out. EDIT: Forgot to close this with 'nothing will change, the dating market will keep going on the same track as usual'	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 01:37 PM
1	In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ? It's almost as if catching real feelings for someone doesn't leave room for giving a fuck about gay ass lists and types people make up while out of love. It's like with money: we don't desire money itself, we desire the freedom, choice and variety that comes with it. None of us REALLY want that 'fantasy person'. We want a life filled with love and our imagination pertaining to what that means is in most cases extremely limited.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 11:36 AM
1	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? Yeah some are that desperate, but in my experience an equally large portion of them get plain uncomfortable or weirded out. I've learned to recognize when a guy thinks I'm attracted to them, isn't attracted back and gets all weird about it. Like trying to 'let me down kindly' or something, when literally all I did was be friendly and try to have a good conversation. Most though are pretty neutral and ok with having a casual, upbeat social moment with a woman their age. The men who know both me a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 09:56 PM
1	Discussion about sexually successful deadbeats He probably met the women's emotional needs. I bet at least three of them seriously thought he was being serious when he said he'd take care of them and be there whenever. He might've come off as a genuine guy at first, and then a couple kids in finally all hope is lost. A lot of narcissistic flakey losers lie, and pick people who are aching for that bit of affection. That's how some end up being sexually successful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 11:10 AM
45	Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what? You elaborated it very well, and 'dark' describes it perfectly. It's dark and also left in the dark because as much as people are not ready to forgive it in each other, they're even less capable of forgiving it within themselves. Nobody wants to feel like they're just a masturbatory animal, it's a very invalidating, anxiety inducing, derealization-inducing experience. I had to go through the process of seeing my bs for what it was too. Like really take my own nose and push it close to the filth …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 12:24 PM
13	Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what? I literally do not care 😹 people are never ready for the truth but it's gonna come for their collective ass anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 11:52 AM
131	Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what? Yes, but I'd take it even further and harsher: Both want to view themselves as special. Neither even want a partner truthfully lmao, just the massive ego stroke but with minimal effort. I wish more people were ready to face this truth within themselves. That they're merely looking for validation and someone to vomit into and use as therapy, instead of an actual companionship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 10:47 AM
1	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. Exactly. It's hard to want a baby when you probably haven't even found a partner who you'd dare to even think of having a child with. I used to not want children at 18-22 but when I got together with my husband, suddenly, having kids stopped being so scary. We're still living a student life but I feel incredibly safe with him. Having children with someone, especially for women, is an initially terrifying change that requires a very special type of relationship to not be as scary. I wish that was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 12:16 PM
7	Q4Women: Have you ever experienced post nut clarity? Same experience. It's almost as if all the 'post nut clarities' accumulated through the years, until the point where I realized I'd made my sexuality into a disgraceful joke. I'm in a better place now though. Idk about men, but for me these post nuts always entailed very, very intense feelings of shame and 'wrongness'. I mean it. I don't want to be in that place mentally ever again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/21 07:08 PM
4	Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker? Yeah, by the sound of that, it's not lazy. It's stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/21 07:46 AM
2	If men want more opportunities for sex, why don’t they put the same amount of effort into grooming, self care and “glowing up” as most women do? Men probably think about these things ('what makes me attractive') mostly through concrete results, which means that getting attention and validation from women is the only 'real' metric of attractiveness. So when we tell them that self care makes them attractive, it might be a frustrating experience to get that response as the only guideline, because 'how does this waste of effort give any tangible results', right? Instead of framing self care as something to help one get laid, it'd probably he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/21 08:33 AM
11	Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)? Men generally don't have much respect for the female point of view when it comes to the perception of reality and the more gender-specific differences in our human experience. It might sound very accusatory, but this is my observation and the conclusion I've come to, when analyzing how men go about trying to comprehend and categorize women. They're just not very good at it naturally; it's more of a cognitive effort for men to remind themselves that they're not in fact the only arbiters of realit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 02:26 PM
1	Dating apps became a place for people that don’t know any better I enjoyed reading this and found that you managed to somewhat pin down something I haven't been fully able to (since I've only had outsider experience, as an observer of people who use them), about dating apps and the aura, if you will, around them. Dating apps are just a placebo for thinking something is around the corner. This is interesting. How do people feel about the practice of dating itself when they enlist the help of dating apps? How much of it is tiredness and what parts are lonelines…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 10:53 AM
12	Women bully each other into hypergamy There's playful roasting of a girl's taste done by her friends, and THEN there's this whole other end which is what you're talking about. I've learned that it's pretty normal for a female friend to be like "oh he's a dork alright" but not even in a ill-meaning way, more like "my girl out there being a dork and liking another dork oml". But yes, bad friend groups exist and having bad company over no company is overly glorified in young women's lives. Women in general are more likely to be afraid …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 02:59 PM
7	Why does it take longer for men to get over breakups then women (even if the men initiated)? Men disassociate from their pain initially (it is a necessary skill for males), in an attempt to stay operational and sublimate any energy generated by the event to a more or less productive use, in many case it's 50/50 between working hard and partying hard. Then, after a while eventually, the disassociated parts of it hit HARD and contaminate everything, and it causes pain that the man has to finally face head on (or choose to disassociate again, this time it's harder though and can 'bleed' ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 04:29 PM
1	"Rape" fantasies are the result of being sexually repressed. They are not an actual desire to be raped. I'm a bit confused about how being religious has anything to do with this discussion though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/21 10:10 AM
22	Do you think that cheating is different between the genders? Yes, it boils down to not giving a flying fuck basically, but the reasons why people are not able to give a fuck vary from emotional immaturity and impulsiveness to internal moral dissonance and self-sabotage. While those reasons don't justify betrayal, they're a focal part of the truth the cheater is experiencing. Most people who cheat don't think of themselves as people who are about to destroy their spouses, because that's an aspect and a consequence they want to avoid admitting. It is not us…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 04:05 PM
7	Even if men admit that they over-prioritize sexual attraction and promiscuity, they don't recognize the consequences of doing that. Also, men routinely reward women's shallowness over personal development. Even when they don't really want to or mean to, they do. Even when they express they want a 'deep and smart' girl, they mostly reward shallow performances of those qualities because that's what appeals to their limited understanding of what it means to be a woman, to express femininity and have a 'valid, developed personality'. Men are attracted to certain performative behavior along with visual pleasantness and this tende…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 01:53 PM
1	CMV: If you're a man you will never fully understand what it's like to be a woman. If you're a woman you will never fully understand what it's like to be a man. I'm going to akchkchually this one and let everyone know that simp is an old word, not a recently found acronym at all - and in early 2000's it was occasionally used to describe simple-minded women who are dependent, unaware and gullible. Now, it's been repurposed to describe a man who sacrifices his dignity to gain (=buy, simps buy female attention and thus feel entitled to it since it's a 'purchased good' of sorts) crumbs of female respect, while detesting men who don't sacrifice their dignity…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/20 06:56 PM
5	Marriageable men do care about N-count Why do you assume I'm from America? And yes, women have the capacity to regret being intimate with the wrong people, already without being shamed by men who know nothing about them personally. It's just not a topic that's readily aired out because it makes people uncomfortable and regret is often just dismissed as internalized misogyny, which it's not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 09:35 PM
17	Marriageable men do care about N-count Basically this, it's true that it's hardly reasonable to expect a perfect person when you yourself have a past riddled with debauchery and evidence of not being able to commit. You might find an unusual person who wants to take care of you, but they're not going to be objectively high value of course; they're going to be the person you fall in love with and hopefully they fall in love with you as well. To men, N-count is concrete evidence of a woman's credibility as a wife. The sad thing is that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:01 PM
16	Do you think married couples would actually be more happy if they allowed each other to cheat? No. If the urge to cheat is there in the first place, there's a problem random sex could never fix, because sex is intimate bonding. Taking that outside the marriage just establishes that intimacy doesn't matter anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/20 12:18 PM
1	Women of PPD who are against porn, what is your stance on media that are voluntary like Onlyfans or not real like hentai or hentai mangas? Onlyfans is a massive shill for the porn industry and the content creators groom younger individuals into the business by portraying it like a unproblematic, quick way to earn cash. It's used to normalize the notion of women being worth something as people only as long as they're able to sell and market their naked body parts - it's just this "cruelty free option" for the porn industry, since this time the pornographers don't have to be there to humiliate their actors/actresses, because now they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 02:34 PM
3	Simp double standard. Female simps are already called pickmeishas and whatnot. What all simps have in common is that they sacrifice their own integrity for the attention of the opposite sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/20 08:29 AM
4	CMV: Women do not truly love Bingo. Too often there are women who are literally too ill to have sex and that's when the man strays or at least turns cold, because he's not ready to confront the fact that he's not a purely benevolent person who's bestowing his love upon a poor, unfortunate woman he wanted to shelter from this cruel world. Not because he's an irredeemably bad person per se, but because he's voluntarily blind to his own opportunistic, self-serving tendencies and moral weakness, also likely afraid of admitting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/20 06:51 PM
2	What type of negging works best for you/on you? My man never 'negged' me on anything, but that's because we're pretty straightforward people and had a little bit of an unusual flirting pattern in the beginning stage. But there sure exist people out there, who won't respond to negging very fruitfully. I know I wouldn't, I'd just be thinking: "Guy sure is awkward and edgy - which does not make him a bad person at all! We all make mistakes sometimes." and then just kinda move on. Well, if asked younger me about this, I would've been far more jud…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/20 09:01 PM
2	Are insecure women more likely to be disloyal? Sadly, yes. Not all insecure women are unloyal and deceitful, but to be insecure and a woman in this day and age means to dwell in neverending thirst for validation. And what kind of things are esteemed as ultimately validating to a woman? To be desired by men, of course. Subconsciously, women think it's all their worth will ever amount to, no matter their other potentials. You can't expect strong resolve from a person who's in a constant crisis, unable to set boundaries and chasing after affirm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/20 03:53 PM
2	Why are so many men so thirsty? I think I can agree with how you put it. It's all just types of porn in the end, just with different itty bitty technicalities and considerations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/20 03:26 PM
9	Why are so many men so thirsty? Fanfiction/fanart is pretty slow-burn though if you think about it. Women especially get very attached to the characters first, start shipping/pairing them maybe, imagining in vivid detail how they'd act, feel or react in certain situations, and it can be a really long lasting, reoccurring source of gratification. Or that's how it was when I was in high school was fangirling and occasionally all steamy over some fictional characters. Also just a guess about that part of hetero women watching por…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/20 02:56 PM
5	Do women actually want to be sexually objectified? Women undeniably want to be desired, there's a difference between that and being just objectified. To be desired is to be recognized as an attractive person. To be objectified is treated like an inanimate object only suitable for one thing. Everyone wants to feel desirable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/20 02:49 PM
0	Why can't women be more honest about their pasts? Correction: show him the type of woman you were* If he's fallen in love with you, he'll respect your regret, the guilt you've felt and your personal growth, and you'll work well together. If not, you'll both just move on. If the love isn't real it isn't real and that's that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/20 08:13 AM
3	Why do so many men find women boring here? Good observations presented in this thread, and there's another thing I've come across as well: Women tend not to discuss their deepest thoughts and systems readily with men (motives can be anything between wanting to fit in as a 'normal' 'easy' person or not finding opening up about everything and anything necessary) and the women who do, are often deemed 'too autistic' to deal with because their thoughts are kinda weird or have a pattern that's counter-intuitive to men. Women and men generally…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 11:05 PM
2	Traveling brags in women's dating profiles A lot of people can't think of much else to put into their profiles to make it interesting, so they put whatever seems easy and not too weird. So they just put that and hope it's ok. It displays a lack of creativity, sort of, but then again not everyone out there is supposed to (or even able to) be super creative, deep and witty. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ So yeah, they do seem to think it makes them more interesting, but in a safe, trendy, stockphoto-esque way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/20 06:25 PM
2	Q4M: "The fact that I'm still attracted to men is proof that sexuality is not a choice" - do you feel the same way about women? Why do you dislike women? If you had to point out 4-5 things that make it especially hard for you to bond with one emotionally, what would they be? If you don't mind me asking, that is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/20 06:23 PM
2	Anyone else likes being boring? I'm pretty easily excited about things other people think are boring (I'm easily exhausted by happenings too), so it's hard for me to fully experience a boring existence even though I can be the epitome of boring at times - but I understand what you're trying to say. I love the feeling of tranquility, balance and serenity when I finally fall into it, those moments are really precious in a way. I for example love how the japanese language has a word for the sunlight that filters between the green…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 12:33 AM
1	CMV: the fact that women complain about double standards when it comes to the number of past sexual partners reinforces the fact that men are not allowed to show insecurity YES! I've tried to tell people that making fun of men who want exclusivity in their relationship is essentially gaslighting them into believing they're crazy for not wanting to "share". It's vile and abusive, it doesn't only happen on social media, but inside relationships as well - and it being done on social media just reinforces the justification for these emotional abusers. And some of this sentiment extends to men being instinctively uncomfortable with something - it can't helped and it doe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/20 04:42 PM
5	If you could go back and give you're 12 year old self a talking on reality of sex and relationships/lifes insanity in general as you see it as an adult what kind of talk would you give yourself? Wall of text, but it's more like a serious diary or letter to the past or whatever: "Don't start this stuff too early. It's not worth it. Don't agree to do stuff at 13-15 because other girls do it too and you want to be 'cool', those girls aren't adults or 'cool', they're not fine. Do they really seem happy to you, when you take an honest look at them? It takes time and effort to hone your people skills to the point where you can better judge if a person is relationship material, if you'll be a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 10:12 PM
7	The recent chain of posts reinforces how apathetic women are to men's emotions. As a woman, I have a hunch that men would have an easier time expressing their feelings if women in general didn't assume themselves to be the Experts of Human Emotions ^tm and wouldn't get pissy at a man for saying honestly "no, see, I don't think you understood this at all actually" for once. But it's just my hunch so, I could be interpreting these situations wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 03:35 PM
8	For feminist, blue pill, or pink pill women: How do the views that some of the men on this sub hold make you feel, and how does it affect your view of men? But as men continuously told me that all men are essentially incapable of genuine love and just want to fuck teen girls and don’t view women as people- YUP. All these men essentially boasting about being latent, opportunistic pedophiles somehow proves that us women are the hideous, worthless creatures? lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 02:11 PM
1	Q4all: could you forgive your cheating spouse? It's even worse if he does it even when we have everything going smooth. That'd just mean I'll never be enough for him no matter how well things seem on the surface. Yeet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 12:42 PM
15	If a woman stops sleeping with you she lost her attraction/respect for you and you should leave her Yeah, no lies detected here. It is actually pretty rare to have a fully dead bedroom out of any other reason than the end of attraction. I personally wouldn't be able to force myself to have sex with a person I wasn't attracted to or in love with, and it's actually mentally unhealthy to do so - as is unhealthy to live in an utterly sexless union. People don't want to say it like it is because it can't be said in a way that isn't particularly harsh. Whether she's staying out of convenience, prepa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 02:04 AM
3	Mark my words; in 5-10yrs, we’ll have a new set of words for, “simp”, and “pick-me’s”, and they’ll mean the exact same things Those terms don't mean the same. Pick-me isn't a slut, she's a woman hated by other women because she agrees with men on current topics or otherwise is seen as catering to them. A lot of "trad" girls over the internet get called pick-me's, as well as libertarian leaning gamer girls who are all about "anti-feminizum and being offensive XD". A true pick-me could very well be a virgin, or at least sexually reserved, because simply not being a slut these days is impressive to men. Pick-me is very cl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 10:05 PM
12	Discovering TRP is one of the the best things that can happen to a man. How are future women (now girls, soon to grow up) going to be marriage material if men keep rewarding and validating them for slutty behavior? Look, I don't want to be that person, but I'm going to have to tell the truth: women generally do whatever men accept and support them doing. Treating pre-/extramarital, casual sex as a human right makes everything regarding relationships just worse for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 04:36 PM
1	Men should be virgins at age 35, women should be virgins at age 30 No. Women produce more likely weak and challenged offspring after 30. The correct age would be 20. Between 20 and 30 years old, women have the optimal physique and psyche for childbearing, as well as the condition of their dna (telomeres), uterus and eggs. The optimal time window for men to produce offspring is slightly longer, from about 20 and extending beyond 40 in good cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 11:24 AM
6	Women who falsely accuse a man of rape should be locked in a cage with 10 incels Why you wanna bully incels like that? Cruel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 09:08 AM
1	The future is now I'm more curious whether sex robots will be able to replace human prostitutes in brothels, since they're more convenient and safe for the function - people often argue that using a prostitute service is just masturbation with extra steps and more elaboration, so, wouldn't it make more sense to free human women from the burden and degradation of having to act like literal sex toys for men, and replace them with actual objects, like dolls and robots? Sex robots are probably not going to solve huma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 11:34 PM
3	Hmm... have we hit critical mass where RP-leaning topics are reaching the mainstream/public sphere? absolutely! It's all more like r/secretlykindapopularopinion lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 01:30 AM
7	Sounds about right s c i e n c e	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 09:06 PM
3	This monstrosity got married, cheated on his wife and is about to marry a hot filipina. Whats your excuse incels ?? Yes the fabled power of No-Neck. Attractive and decent ladies, be shooketh. I think he used to be fit though? Or was that some fever dream my mind made up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 04:11 PM
1	Nobody has ever seriously attempted to argue against the child abuser/woman beater/neonazi chadfishing experiments I get what you're saying about hybristophilia in women, but 'online' doesn't exclusively mean Tinder or hook up apps. AFAIK people also get into relationships through running into each other on other social media as well, like forums and groups and such online. I took a peek at the study linked in the article and in its results it showed that smart phone apps are responsible at least half of the growth in heterosexual couples meeting online, which is quite a lot, but still, I don't think it's th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 11:39 AM
1	Imagine how much more attractive everybody would be if they exercised? Caring about your health is an unfair advantage in SMV because most people don't. Yeah, for men I suppose body fat counts are ideally a bit lower than women's. That's at least what a lot of sources say and it does kind of make sense. Hey and, I'm wishing the best for your progress! I used to be over 30% at one point but now I'm around 24% and it doesn't look too bad. Aiming for 20%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 11:09 AM
2	Imagine how much more attractive everybody would be if they exercised? Caring about your health is an unfair advantage in SMV because most people don't. Hardest pill to swallow: 99% of all humans are actually real easy on the eyes when they're fit and healthy. Having a good muscle tone and a body fat percentage around 20% serves your bone structure well, and makes the fatty places look firm, perky and fine. Being quasimodo tier uggo is incredibly rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 12:31 AM
13	PPD women be like... and a woman who mildly agrees with a man online? omg what a pick me ass bitch she needs to relax and get laid or something	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/20 12:44 AM
1	Q4W: do you have this ability? i lack :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 08:49 PM
1	FDS Level Up Bitches! They're kinda leveling their damage output, but it makes them pretty squishy and vulnerable in early game	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 08:38 PM
5	Women like to pretend that men are just as shallow as they are Yeah, well, men rate above average women as average, so yes, they actually do think they're too good for actually average women, they're just mostly unaware of it. Women who think they're too good are mostly coping with other insecurities or failure to grow as a person (and some women actually just are above average and have somewhat "earned" smug outlook, those exist too).	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 11:43 AM
2	Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes? I'm married but I'll answer anyway: If he's left it far in the past and won't do it again after choosing me and I'd appreciate the honesty. To my knowledge, my husband hasn't used any prostitute services before being with me, but if I suddenly found out he did, it's not like I'd be especially happy about it but I'd accept it as it is you know? I don't want to fault people for their past mistakes. Things like these can be a bit touchy (hard to admit, hard to bring up, embarrassing etc. which is w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 12:28 PM
3	Which is worse, being only wanted for sex, or not being able to have sex at all? They both entail different shapes of hurt and it's difficult to determine which one is 'more hurtful'. Being wanted only for sex - well, sure you'll get laid, probably a ton, but in the end you're disposable, don't matter and your pleasure won't either, which means the sex won't be even good enough to fill in the void of being treated like an object and having your whole character dismissed for the one body part you're 'good for'. It feels like your whole existence has one use and the rest is ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 07:41 AM
2	Why are the caring loving fathers against their daughters being a housewife and dating an older man? It could be that a huge age difference sets off his alarm bells? A lot of fathers don't want to have their daughter taken advantage of by some loser who seems semi-reliable at first but is only in it for young pussy and having someone naive enough to boss around. Plus, it might depend on how much these dads have age difference with their own wife - A father with a younger wife might be more accepting of an age difference? Having a young SAHM is one thing, but treating her with the respect, love …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/20 11:03 AM
14	Women don't understand why promiscuity is undesirable because men who are able to cheat are high-value, whereas all women can cheat and those who do are low-value This. Promiscuous men are low value because they're high risk. A woman needs and wants a man who won't dispose of her or replace her even in an abundance of fertile and attractive, more exciting women - she can't just "unhave" the babies they had and cancel the family life and move on, it has already taken a toll on her body, looks, time and mind. If women want to absolutely avoid something in this world, it's having to feel insecure. Promiscuous women and men both seem exciting, but they're bot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/20 11:01 AM
2	If you view yourself as a prize, you're a narcissist. Someone considering themselves a prize usually entails the notion that their partner has to conquer them and compete actively over and over again, endlessly, which is the opposite of a promise of stability and genuine care. Like the first charming phase never ends, and as soon as a better conqueror enters the picture, it's over. That's probably why it sounds scary to some, even if some people say it jokingly (perhaps).	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 12:28 AM
1	The negative observations you make about men/women - do they tend to be "I find it appalling, but it's not unethical so i'll just ignore them", or "it's straight-up unethical and they should be forced to stop doing that"? Surprisingly, a lot of it is B. I try not to look for these things specifically because I don't enjoy being depressed, but when taking an honest look, B definitely comes up often and it puts a big damp on my worldview sometimes if it's especially heinous. Whenever I come across something like A, I'm just happy that it's a mere pathetic A type of thing and not something tearing us apart. And I don't observe only the opposite gender but mine as well. There are many things society can legitimately …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/20 06:42 PM