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You seem to have your own personal definition of monk mode. Back in the day monk mode on TRP used to mean a shorter period of time where you stop pursuing women and sexual pleasure and just focus on improving yourself and clearing your mind. 3 months of this actual monk mode without orgasms is already a long time. I think what you did instead is you out your dating life on hold to focus on other aspects of your life. I did that too for a year in 2018 and it was wonderful. It’s much easier to ach…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 08:03 PM
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Exactly. The reality is that sex is so much better when the woman is crazy about you and really wants your dick. However, only girls who find you extremely physically attractive will be like that. If you’re not that good looking, you can still bang hot women if you have good game, and you can still have good sex with them. But they will never be as much into it as when they have that raw physical desire towards a man they find physically very attractive. Unfortunately the 8s and 9s you lust for …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/21 08:44 AM
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How is it helpful with abundance that women need plumbers? A woman comes home from the law firm where she makes 250k as a lawyer, and pays a male plumber like 50 bucks to fix a leak under her sink. How does that help the plumber - or anyone else - get into the right mindset and get laid?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/21 11:54 PM
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It happened to me several times that women approached me, sometimes they even put their names and phone number on a piece of paper and put it in my palms saying call me (without any previous conversation or even eye contact). So yeah this can happen, even if you are under 6ft if you just dress well and are fit. But this is an incredibly rare and unpredictable thing. Never use this as a benchmark for attractiveness or SMV or whatever. The women who approach you like this are also lower quality th…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/21 02:18 PM
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You’re sitting on the horse backwards. Inceldom is the result of inflated SMV of average women. It’s not a driver but the consequence. I also see no evidence for the mjni alpha situation you’re describing. TRP is not that prevalent in mainstream society at all.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 04:48 PM
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The analysis collapses if you just look at it a little bit closer. It is perfectly sustainable for women to (1) in their youth, fuck alphas who are also fucking other women, (2) (optionally have children with these alphas), then (3) find thirsty betas that are eager to marry them when they are in their 30s, (optionally have these betas help them and finance raising their children of alphas), (4) divorce these betas as they see fit and take half their shit to live off of it. Show me how is this n…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 01:38 PM
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Are you the kind of guy who doesn’t cross the road because a bus might hit you? You’re delusional. Consider seeking help for your paranoia.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 03:53 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Do you live in a village of 500 people? How the fuck are random club sluts going to destroy your reputation? Nobody is ever going to figure out. Not even my best friend knows about 90% of the women I bang. How the fuck are other people in your life going to figure out whom you bang and whether they have boyfriends? This is an incel-tier comment.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 10:33 AM
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This is mostly semantics and play on words.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 07:36 AM
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Except women are the choosers due to men's higher sex drive. Women are not shaped by these men, women CHOOSE these men, so other men adapt to what's successful.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 06:52 PM
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I liked the honesty of the post, not trying to make your lays out to be hotter than they actually were. One thing that I noticed is that you are being ghosted quite often after sex. That only happened to me once or twice. Women ghosted me several times after the first date if there was no sex, sometimes even after the second one, but it almost never happens after having sex. Not trying to shit on you, but maybe improving your sex skills can be a good development goal for next year. Maybe use som…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 08:02 PM
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" If you don’t initially believe these thoughts you need to tell yourself these thoughts and take the action that such a thought would trigger until it becomes natural and you believe it. Reinforcing the loop." This doesn't make sense. You are saying that you need confidence to be able to take action, but you need to take action to get the confidence that you need to be able to take action. This is not a reinforcing loop, this is a contradiction. You're sitting on the horse backwards. First you …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 10:10 AM
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If you LTR a woman that needs to be told to stop talking to her ex then you are fucked anyway, that's just retarded.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 06:13 PM
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What the fuck do you want from us? Get your shit together and abort the ship. I assume you are around 40, you can't afford to waste any more of your life on this failed relationship. Stop complaining on the internet and do something. Go lift, get a lawyer, assess your finances.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 11:11 PM
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If you read my sentence again, I specifically say that she will remember the good things during bad times in your relationship. This is “when she needs to” remember the good things in your language.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 10:10 AM
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What you are missing is that a) sleeping around has a different effect on men than on women, and b) the motto of the sleeping around attitude is "enjoy the decline". When you recognize the game is fucked up, you can either change the game or learn to play the game well. There are advocates of both "schools" on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 06:40 PM
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Hot women who have fucked many guys are good plate material, but betting your life on them is stupid. They have a lot higher chance of having already been alpha widowed by the time you meet them. During hard times in the relationship she will remember only the good things about her (many) exes. She will be more likely to cheat or leave you. Having a house together and having kids with them sounds insanely risky. The hard thing is that women don't really want to settle down before their late 20s …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 06:27 PM
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Insofar as we accept that women want commitment and men want casual sex, then yes, it is a zero sum game. When you improve yourself and attract hot women who want commitment from an alpha, but you don't give it to them, then you "win" in zero sum games against both the woman and other men who would happily give her commitment. But, if you actually want an LTR and, through improving yourself, you become attractive to an attractive woman and you LTR her, then it's a win-win situation: you increase…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/20 10:14 PM
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“I am the prize” and “I held frame” are things you’re supposed to think, not say. It’s just cringy, and makes you sound like you have no original thoughts of your own. Good effort putting out an honest field report though. One advice: make sure you are not always available to her on call and avoid only meeting her among her group of friends (=in her frame).
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 12:34 PM
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OP, I understand it's been a while since you managed to get your dick wet, but this one isn't worth it. If you managed to get a date with this one, you'll manage to get another with a woman who will be less risky to bang.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 10:47 PM
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It's important to love yourself and it's necessary to be confident. But a man with a healthy mind develops self-love and self-confidence via achievements, skills and success, by being good at things. If your self-love comes from mental masturbation instead, then it's fake and weak.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 10:27 PM
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It doesn’t matter whether there were selfies back then. There are always signs if the woman is the kind that likes to flirt with other men and/or likes to make you jealous. Either she is that kind of woman, or it’s not a problem that she takes selfies with you because you are clearly no danger to the man. You cannot have it both ways.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 02:57 PM
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Good to hear your opinion, but as others pointed out above, nobody cares about arguments from authority here. It doesn't matter what you studied, what matters is what useful insight do you have? Nobody says that women can't think logically. Of course they can, they can be good scientists or lawyers or whatever. But this is a forum for (heterosexual) men's sexual strategy. What we care about is how arguing about issues affects the woman's feelings toward you. In the end, what you want is increase…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 09:44 PM
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I wish this comment was the post instead, it contains a lot more insight. Indeed, women identify with and differentiate themselves by their feelings about issues. You cannot win by trying to convince her with logical arguments. If you think it's important that she knows that your opinion differs from hers, then state it clearly and concisely. Do not explain how or why you got to that conclusion. If she is interested in some detail, she will ask targeted questions. If she doesn't, then it's enoug…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 05:29 PM
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We tend to project our reality onto the world and assume that what we lived through must be a universal truth. I agree with your point that the lack of male groups and brotherhood has a negative effect on your masculinity and your ability to pick up women. But I disagree that most men don’t have real friends. It’s your problem that you should work on. The last time I heard the “I don’t want to lose her as a friend” bullshit line was back in high school. It’s just plain cowardice when men say tha…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 08:25 AM
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If you're honest to yourself, yes. Is this the best place to get advice on diet? No. Is this the best place to get advice on lifting? No. Is this the best place to get advice on personal finance? No. Is this the best place to get advice on goal setting and self-improvement? No. Is this the best place to get advice on career? No. Is this the best place to get advice on any kind of hobby? No. Is this the best place to get advice on philosophy, psychology or any other social science No. Is this the…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 03:09 PM
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While your point is correct that being angry and acting angry are different, your definition of the anger phase is wrong. The anger phase is when you are just angry and fuming, hating on and lashing out at women, WITHOUT actually doing anything about it. Once you’ve started to work on yourself and managed to turn that anger into a constructive energy, and you start to see some success, you’re no longer in the anger phase.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 12:50 PM
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If you think that having your "own crib with a good job" will just magically bring you social life, then you are going to be sourly disappointed.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 08:52 AM
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I think your post is very representative of the experience of many of us who have successfully used the apps for several years. I especially agree with 4 of your points: It's not true that it doesn't take time. Swiping, texting, planning dates and going on dates, having them sleep over or sleeping over, etc, all take time off of my me-time. It's very true that most girls you meet from dating apps are absolutely not LTR material, and yet you keep on going on 2nd and 3rd and 4th dates with them. I…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 02:30 PM
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Read. the. fucking. sidebar. You don't deserve to get women if you are too lazy to read a few hundred pages.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 08:24 AM
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let the hamster work overtime
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 07:03 AM
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Amoral is not "evil", amoral just means that morals do not play a role, amoral = morally ambivalent. Immoral would mean something closer to "evil". Is lowering a woman's ego evil?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 07:46 PM
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This post is very misleading. Don't shit where you eat refers to not fucking your colleagues, not your subordinates. Fucking your subordinates is not allowed in most companies by company policy and only a retard needs to be told not to do it. When it comes to fucking a colleague, I still don't do it because my career is more important. But essentially it's a question of how high your sexual market value (SMV) is relative to your actual market value (job market value). If you can easily find a jo…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 08:33 AM
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OP incorrectly used "immoral" in place of "amoral", but his point still stands. Your comment is basically moral judgement. Now I may not agree with any of what's in this post, and it doesn't fit my personal moral code, but fuck your cancel culture bullshit. One of the basic tenets of this place is that we don't use shaming tactics to make the opposing opinions go away and we don't try to cancel people for their opinions. If you disagree with the main point of the post (i.e. lowering/destroying w…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 10:27 PM
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Excellent post. Informative, short and to the point. Good effort!
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 08:15 AM
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Exactly. Before you fuck her, she has more power. Once you fucked her, she has given up her one and only weapon. Then and only then you can start building a relationship if you want to.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 11:42 AM
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Stop bullshitting yourself. When she said she wants to wait, you should have let her know that you don't wait around for women. When she initiated phone sex, you should have made it clear that you are open to the real thing but you don't want sexting. And for fuck's sake, you should not have messaged her so fucking much. Let her wait for you and miss you between dates.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 09:33 AM
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You need some serious self-reflection. Why are you wasting so much time thinking and writing about this one woman you haven't even fucked? It seems to me that you should have just moved faster and more confidently towards sex. Way too much messaging and talking and then even sexting rather than real action. Your real takeaway here should be that you should not hesitate. You should be more direct, and move faster with determination.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 09:29 AM
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Good post. I like it that you point out that indirect game can get you hotter women than direct game. The best writing about direct game that I've seen so far was the book "Mode One" by Alan Roger Currie. I really liked the way he laid out the benefits of direct game, but something felt off. When I tried it in practice enough times to use it confidently, what I found was that it indeed helps you bang women very efficiently, but the quality of women is generally lower. You can get women 1-2 point…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/20 04:28 PM
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Interesting read, I'm happy you got to the conclusion that you got to by the end. But note that it's not necessary to go through the phases that you went through. People with more emotional intelligence or maturity go straight from your initial state to your final state after discovering TRP. It's not TRP, it's you that caused the issue here. And finally, the women you break up with will be hurt, initially, whether you like it or not. But they heal over time. Breaking up gracefully and peacefull…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/20 03:29 PM
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Agreed. I don’t believe in trying to fix what is broken. You can glue the vase back together but it just won’t be the same vase again. He should bounce, spend a few months in monk mode, then go out there and have a fresh start. I don’t care if he then spins plates or finds a new LTR, the first steps are the same regardless.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 08:59 AM
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Good effort man! Best of luck on your journey!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 08:22 AM
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I spent two months in NYC and used tinder quite a bit, as well as walked around to explore the city. Women are worse than almost anywhere in Europe. They are somewhat easier to sleep with however.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 05:07 PM
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Not trying to offend, maybe you are just wired differently, but: Have you actually been outside recently? Being in nature hiking, climbing, rafting, kayaking, canyoning, doing via ferrata, mountain biking, etc are way more exciting than watching streams. In fact, I would be bored out of my mind if I had to watch streams all day. To me it sounds like you haven’t really tried doing outside activities, you just imagined how it would be.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 09:19 AM
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Fuck her first, think about making her your girlfriend later. If you fuck up and she doesn't want to be with you, you still got a notch out of it. Once you've banged, make sure you're busy with other aspects of your life and do not overcommit or spend too much time with her. Scarcity creates value.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 03:32 PM
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if your maintenance is 2700-2800kcal, then you are one or more of the below: an athlete extremely overweight above 6'5" bad at counting calories
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 03:29 PM
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I think your analysis is correct in many cases. I see four major scenarios when women use this expression: She dated a man who didn't let her do whatever she wanted whenever she wanted. (He probably just told her that if she does X or Y, then he is going to leave her. That was enough for her to register this as "emotional abuse" or whatever.) She cheated and needs some way to justify her actions. She's projecting: she was the one who emotionally abused the man and and this is her way to deflect.…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 03:27 PM
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So if you had $100 million, you'd rather spend 10 years of your finite life in prison than spend less than 6% of your money on a bitch? That's retarded.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/20 01:50 PM
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Why are you posting instead of reading the sidebar? What was the point of this post?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/20 12:57 PM
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A prenup is worthless in most jurisdictions if you get most of your assets while already married.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 01:10 PM
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You guys should read up on no-fault divorce laws. Cheating - or any other non-criminal but unacceptable behaviour on her part - is simply not a factor.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 01:00 PM
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You overcomplicate the concept of frame, but then again many people on TRP do. Frame simply means that you fully understand who you are and you are comfortable with it. You don't give a fuck about what others will think when they encounter you and your opinions, and you don't emulate the people around you, you don't change your personality to try to make people like you. You are who you are, and people can love it or hate it, you still remain you. It's really that simple. What is difficult is fo…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/20 07:49 PM
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It takes a more self-confident woman to do this without feeling worthless. A 5/10 girl would never have the confidence to pull this off, hotter women are more likely to this. She thought you were a "member" of the causal sex club and that you would "get it", but you didn't. In general, I think this is a very hard but important lesson to learn: Less hot women are NOT significantly easier to bang! It's not true that banging an 8/10 is 60% more effort than banging a 5/10 just because 8/5=1.6. 5s an…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/20 05:41 PM
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It's pathetic how many people agree with you OP, but you seem to be relatively new to this and open to learn, so let me tell you what just happened: You were invited into the world of casual sex and you accidentally refused. You failed your initiation. This woman wanted to have casual sex with you: meet up at bar, make sure you're safe, go back to her/your place and fuck each other's brains out, never hear about each other again. You got scared because this woman didn't follow the standard templ…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/20 05:34 PM
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You make decent points. Whether it’s boring or not is quite subjective. What makes it exciting is the progress itself. Both numerically, as in putting on more and more weight each week, and also in terms of results you see in the mirror and people’s reaction to you. The reason I don’t like advanced programs being suggested are that (1) very, very few people have reached the limits of linear progression in your audience, (2) those who have, are not going to listen to any random person on TRP beca…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 02:14 PM
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There's not much wrong with this but (a) its suggestions would cause overtraining for beginners, (b) there's literally nothing in here that wasn't known in 2010, so what's with the "quality of common and academic training knowledge has come a long way since then" bullshit? If you're a newbie reading this, just go ahead and follow the advice from the beginning of the article: "just do SSLP" or "hurr durr 5x5"
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 06:59 AM
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I upvoted this because you added the current most important point that TRP spergs seem unable to grasp: self-improvement will not get you women unless you go out there, make yourself visible and interact with them. If you are an average-looking 5'9" guy with like 18% body fat who has recently put on some muscle, and you even managed to climb up the corporate ladder so now you make 100k, and because of this you think to yourself: "I'm almost there, 8s and 9s will start approaching me soon, I just…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/20 10:09 AM
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It's quite common in Eastern Europe that whores who advertise themselves online (politely called escorts) explicitly state on their profile that they don't accept gypsies or blacks.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 01:06 PM
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Note to readers: please do NOT thrust your guts!
/r/TheRedPill24/08/20 09:15 PM
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I think you're a bit too harsh on the dude. I for one don't mind a bit of weight gain from a woman, I don't care if my girl has 5 kilos (11lbs) extra on her with like 25% body fat (Google it if you don't know how that looks). But 22lbs is already very high and 44lbs is extreme. Maybe he didn't warn her that he doesn't tolerate weight gain because he wouldn't have cared about 5 kilos. Her gaining 20kg is something he probably could not have foreseen as she was fit and exercised regularly. A pande…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 09:02 PM
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That's not a lot. A pack of Pringles is above 1000kcal. A medium-sized Toblerone is another 1000 kcal. A 250g pack of peanuts or chocolate coated brazil nuts is like 1500kcal. If you're snacking in front of Netflix all day then 9000 kcal is not even that crazy, especially if the girl is originally small and has a TDEE of like 1500kcal.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 08:54 PM
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I agree with the message of loving women, but most of your points are dumb and damaging to the noobs who actually need advice. Like "share your pains and emotions" - there are close to zero situations with women where this "advice" is helpful to you. And treat "conservative" women "like queens"? Come on man, have you learned nothing? This will most definitely work against you. Also, there are no special unicorns, your conservative girl probably was or will be fucked by dark triad randos anyway. …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/20 09:51 PM
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I felt that that book is for deep blue pill men, who are much worse than I ever was, and mostly for middle aged men in unhappy marriages. Still, I learned a lot from it, and I would recommend reading it, it's worth your time, even just to understand many other men around you.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 10:19 PM
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A much-needed, nuanced view of your life and goals and how women fit into it. There are two points that need to be made: Often if you remove women and sex as motivating factors, many people are left with no true goals or desires, and only Netflix / video games remain. This opens up a problem that is much deeper and much more difficult to solve than getting pussy: how to find your calling? what is it that you really want to do with your life? what do you want to achieve? These are the real hard q…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 11:08 PM
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There are no magic words because how you say it matters more than what you say. But that doesn't mean game is useless. When you're a frustrated blue pill beta chump, it's useful if someone tells you what to do and say and what not to do and say. The point is that if someone successful tells you to do it, then you will believe in it more, and that in itself can make you more successful. This is the same mechanism in the case of workout plans. Noobs should strictly follow an existing plan instead …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 10:21 PM
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This is an important point. When it comes to business or making friends, I think this kind of small talk can be very useful and the post contains good advice. When it comes to women, doing this is better than not talking to them at all, but it immediately puts you in a position where she is the one worth talking about and you are the one who wants to "learn from her". This can easily backfire.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 10:03 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? This is literally the description of this sub: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. This is the only thing that trp does best: discussing sexual strategy. If you want to learn about philosophy, sociology, biology, fitness, finance or even self-help here, then you're retarded. There are better places for those things. TRP was always and should be about positive masculinity and sexual strateg…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 11:36 PM
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This is side bar stuff I think. If I hard next a girl, I stop communication with her completely and usually delete her contact info as well. I cut her out. If I just next (soft next) a girl, I stop communication with her but leave the door open to her coming back asking for more.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 11:24 PM
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If you don't like her because she's a "random dumb ho" or she's "totally insane" then you politely end the date. But if you do like her, why would you waste time? Also, inaction in itself turns many hot women off, so maybe there won't be a second date at all if you don't act. Women decide in a matter of seconds whether you're fuckable or not, and the first date kiss is a good indicator. If she kisses you on the first date, it's very likely there will be a second one that leads to sex. If she's n…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 11:12 PM
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wtf did I just read? I still don't know what I did wrong. Are you serious? She wanted you to fail the shit test and say "Oh no please, please don't break up with me! C'mon baby, we can work this out!" But I'm sure you know that so what was the point of this post exactly?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 10:55 PM
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Solid advice. Two of your points coincide with my 4 rules of thumb for online dating: If she doesn't respond positively the first time I invite her out, hard next. I never buy dinner for a woman I haven't fucked yet. If she doesn't let me kiss her on the first date, hard next. This is from Roosh from back in the day, and each time I violated this rule, I regretted it. If she doesn't fuck me by date 3, next. Earlier is better, but some of the best fucks of my life had this retarded 3-date rule.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/20 08:28 PM
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I'll go out on a limb here and say: if the filtering criteria are as simple as "she didn't drink, had no tattoos, piercings, was a gym rat and was pretty shy", then why is it surprising if some of them turn out to be fucking crazy? I don't buy it that there were no warning signs that this is the kind of bitch that will burn your car down. You explicitly mention some red flags in your post, but even without those an experienced man would smell this from afar.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 09:35 PM
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My opinion is that the Red Pill "Philosophy" is basically what a strong, confident, extroverted and masculine father would teach his son as he matures into a man. More often the lessons are not given explicitly through words, but rather through the father's attitude, behaviours and habits. But with so many boys growing up without fathers, or with emasculated (or simply loser) fathers, this community came to exist to fill the gap that the lack of strong fathers created. PUA attempts to treat the …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 09:21 PM
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This post is useful because permanent monk mode (i.e. overdoing self-improvement) is one of the biggest problems currently on TRP. But there are also some unsupported assertions in your post. I agree that it's also important to make yourself interesting for social success. N.B.: graduating from a great university, squatting three plates, or climbing the corporate ladder are great for you, but they are not interesting. But doing what you are interested in or "what you always wanted to do" will no…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 10:59 PM
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Your comment is just as incoherent as your rambling post, without anything remotely approaching a reply. I am also not from the anglosphere so fuck off with your victim posturing.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 09:25 PM
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How is this a field report? Why did you feel like you need to write this for the TRP community? Start a journal man.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 09:15 PM
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Fair enough, enjoy your time here then!
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 10:21 PM
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With all due respect, what the fuck is a half tradcon, half feminist woman doing on TRP? I mean, you're welcome here of course (and who am I to say), I'm just wondering what do you expect to get out of being here?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 09:33 PM
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"I thought TRP is about being free from society's standards, being unplugged - but some guys here just replaced that standard with another one." TRP was never about freeing yourself from society's standards. It's about freeing yourself from society's lies, and using the truth to advance your life and help you achieve your goals. Someone can be genuinely happy, and that's great, but his worth is not measured by his happiness. His worth is what society deems it to be. If I carve a wooden horse, an…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 09:11 PM
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Man you need to learn to articulate your thoughts. Way too much useless detail in this. TL;DR: Don’t confess your love to a woman. Don’t date coworkers. Don’t shove your dick in crazy.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 03:52 PM
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Yeah but the point of SMV, income, social status and power, ownership and independence, and other things we talk about here is that they are objective measures of worth. If you define your own worth, then you can be a fat neckbeard slob playing video games, living in his mother’s basement, sleeping with hentai pillows and still think you’re the hottest shit, and the greatest man to ever walk the Earth. Using your own definition of your worth is just male hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 11:57 AM
1

Stoicism is not a personality, it's a philosophy. You can indulge in those conversations you find silly or or pointless, just for fun. Small talk has an important societal function. The point of stoicism is to help you avoid worrying about these things or react too emotionally to them. Just because you've read stoic philosophy, you don't need to turn yourself into a dull dickhead.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:53 PM
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But deep down inside, they know that they would have great difficulty getting laid this week, and that there is nothing stopping a more attractive man from having sex this Saturday, and still doing whatever "mission" is so important to them. That is very well put. The hardcore "mission" people on here don't realize that other people are fucking chicks left and right, and still get ahead in their missions just as well as these mission people. Or maybe even better, because sexual frustration does …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:19 PM
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Everything you have described will make her more wet than the Nil during rain season, because she will want to be part of your adventure. If your mission is getting a great degree from the best university, or getting higher up on the corporate ladder, or starting your own business, those are not adventures to a woman.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:16 PM
1

The most important thing the article misses is the difference between skill and knowledge. You can gain knowledge from reading or watching videos, but you can only gain skills by doing. You cannot learn to invest, to play the guitar, to build a roof or to weld metal from books. And skills that you can only learn by doing (i.e. experience) are always more valuable than the knowledge that you can gain on your own, by reading.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 09:26 PM
1

The only problem is that now that Im unplugged, relationships just feel fake. They can still be a lot of fun, but I feel no emotional attachment. Maybe that will change over time, but now all the dynamics women use in relationships just feel so blatant and tiresome. That is an important point. It's been several years for me since the relationship that opened my eyes, and this issue is still with me to some extent. Before, I was looking for a good woman who's worth sacrificing a lot of my energy …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 09:28 PM
2

What a badly written pile of garbage. You failed to convince me that you are doing any of the above seriously. You probably just chopped some firewood and now you're LARPing as paleo man.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 11:53 AM
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The most important thing here that I haven't seen mentioned is that you have to get up on your feet and become independent as quickly as possible. You CANNOT depend on your girlfriend "Love" in this scenario. She is not meant to be the rock in your storm, you are supposed to be HER rock in HER storm. Some good women will stand by you for a while, but she cannot support you for very long. If she dumps you next week in the middle of all this, then you will be crushed. Get on your feet, and work ha…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 11:18 AM
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The mechanics is a somewhat different. If you commit to her and you're readily available to her, then you are automatically less interesting and intriguing than the "mysterious stranger". Just think about the times (if any) when you were the mysterious stranger to a girl who was in an LTR. Your value is higher when you still have secrets and mystery surrounds you, no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 10:11 PM
2

How the fuck can he rationalize these two things at the same time: He thinks he's a 5 and his girlfriend is a 9 He's heartbroken because he's not the hottest shit she has ever seen. God, that's retardation-level insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 07:42 PM
10

Or maybe you're one of the normies (NPCs) mentioned in this post who can't see the forest for the trees?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 10:10 PM
1

Yeah but at the same time, the advice people give still gives insight into their thinking, and by aggregating them, the thinking of the reddit community in general. It's like one of those philosophical thought experiments.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 12:09 AM
1

The problem with excluding the "go lift" guys is that you exclude the only people who tell you the truth. You seem to need a safe space where you don't have to hear it.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 11:11 PM
0

Yeah, he might eat a couple of punches, or he might "eat" a knife. There is a reason why you want to keep distance in a street fight. Or there might be two opponents, you go to the ground with one of them, and you're done for.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:55 PM
3

BJJ is cool and great in an "organized" fight, but the last thing I want in a parking lot street fight at night, is to wrestle a guy on the ground while not knowing how many of them are there. A lot of (especially Eastern) martial arts are over-mysticized by martial arts movies, but simple boxing works great in a street fight.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:45 PM
2

Proper fasting (i.e. water fasting) and also intermittent fasting don't allow for coffee, tea, diet coke etc because, even though there are no calories in them, they kickstart your digestion system anyway. But of course nothing stops you from trying it with coffee allowed.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:21 PM
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Some men, mostly the less successful ones, want to feel like life is just and fair: "all those sluts that rejected me when we were 23 will suffer once we are past 30! She will hit the WALL and be miserable!" That's the "dream" of the incel, that they get their "revenge". But the thing is, most women do find a man in their late 20s or early 30s if they want to, even if they had previously ridden the cock carousel for more than a decade. There are also a lot of women who do not really crave securi…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 09:53 PM
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Whether it's creepy or not mostly depends on whether she likes you, and to a much smaller extent on location. At least a dozen women have told me that they would really like it and would find it ballsy and romantic if someone just randomly approached them because they liked them. All of them (mostly 6s, 7s and 8s) said that this has never happened to them. A lot of women in dating apps have bios that go something like this: "I'm here because you didn't bump into me in the supermarket / you didn'…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 09:09 PM
1

That's dangerous grounds, that path leads to one of the biggest mistakes a man can make: going into permanent monk mode. Knowledge and power - and to be honest, even being fit and strong - are completely useless if you don't have social skills. If you don't know how to interact with women (or people in general), your career, knowledge, power, strength, wisdom, etc are worth jack shit. Women are not going approach you or put in the effort to learn what a great man you are. It's your job to be amo…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 08:44 PM
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It's true that arguing on social media is retarded and is a waste of time. It's also true that what you do and how you build yourself has more impact on your life than external forces. Sounds simple enough. Except the authoritarian thinking and cancel culture don't stop on social media. Pretending that they do is just as retarded as arguing with purple haired 38 year old feminists on Twitter. What happens on social media spills over into real life and changes the world around you. And the proces…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 12:46 PM
2

Don’t get back with that woman and don’t let her make you make some fake “confession”. That relationship is fucked and the sooner you accept it the better. You’ll find women to fuck once the divorce is over, don’t worry. I’ll leave here my somewhat similar story of a 5-year relationship that ended some years ago. Not sure there is much of a lesson. “Let’s take a break" – my girlfriend of 3 years said, but even my blue pill self called bullshit. We broke up. I went into no-contact as all bullshit…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 10:54 PM
1

Well, he dodged a bullet there at least. If you had such trauma and it still affects you today, it's highly unlikely it doesn't come out at some point during a marriage. It's better that she called the wedding off than if she would divorce him after two children.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 09:23 PM
1

Stop using the word hustle, it’s pathetic. Are you a black gangster or a prostitute? You don’t need a “hustle”, you need a job. Plain and simple. Work while you‘re studying for your degree and build some skills and workplace ethics. Let’s be honest here: You’re behind the curve and you need to put in extra effort to catch up.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 09:31 PM
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I don’t know man, older men being chatty certainly has some charm, but those lines in the bullet points are extremely unnatural. Some of them are the most generic bullshit one can say, others come across as cringy. Everything depends on how you say it, but not everyone has the charisma to pull off the same lines. That’s the difficult bit: you cannot give canned examples because people of completely different personalities cannot pull off the same lines.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 07:42 AM
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The “dating market” has definitely gotten more difficult for the average joe. On the one hand, people are generally having less sex than previous generations. On the other hand, with the advent of online dating, there’s a larger pool of men available for women. With the known skew in women’s judgement of men, and the difference between men and women’s ratings of the opposite sex, it just mathematically follows that men around the middle of the pecking order find themselves in a more difficult po…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 04:46 PM
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Goddamn it, this comment section is a cesspit of deep blue pill bullshit. The reason your feelz tell you that cheating is bad is that you are terrified that the unicorn you are still looking for will be cheating on you. You still think that setting up rules for yourself about being honest in your LTR will somehow protect you from hypergamy and that this rule will magically apply to the women you date as well. I’m gonna spoil that for you: it won’t apply to her, and there’s nothing you can do abo…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 07:51 PM
2

I have re-read some of these reposts and you got to appreciate the clarity and brevity of them. Straight to the point, boiled down essence with no fluff.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 10:17 PM
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“ I challenge anyone to point to specific content produced by the channel they find objectionable. Not the overarching theme, but something specific.” That’s not how YouTube works. People just report you, you get some strikes, and a machine will decide that your channel is done for, unless you’re big enough, in which case you’ll be judged by some woke progressive reviewers, most likely to the same end result. Think of an alternative from day 1.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 03:00 PM
1

This is very well put. I have formulated this problem for myself, and have been struggling with it for some time. Few things are more disappointing than working hard towards a goal, reaching it, and then getting that “now what?” feeling. The challenge, really, is to find your purpose or calling or mission or whatever you want to call it. Being successful by any number of “objective” measures is no guarantee for any sense of satisfaction.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 05:40 PM
1

I understand your point, but you got to understand that "approach everything you see" is a diametrically opposite advice to "improve yourself, the pussy will follow". In the first advice, you say the same thing as I'm saying: you need to work actively and directly towards remedying your inability to get laid. To spergs who actually would need the advice, the second advice reads like this: Read lots of books, lift weights, work hard at your job/study a lot, spend a lot of time on your hobbies. Th…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 10:49 PM
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"The pussy will follow" is a myth, and anyone who keeps repeating this doesn't socialise in circles of "successful" people. People who have already achieved what you want to achieve with your "self-improvement" and "making yourself better". I don't know how many times I've written this down but, here is some anecdotal evidence again: a lot of people in my line of business take home 7 figure bonuses every year. Some teach at universities as well, some manage 50 people, organise events and lead ch…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/20 11:03 PM
2

You missed the most obvious example "I don't have sex with guys on the first date. / I don't do one night stands" or the classic "3 dates rule".
/r/TheRedPill07/02/20 10:07 PM
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The writer is sitting backwards on the horse. In the TRP sense, the point of being "alpha" is to be attractive to women and be able to easily get laid, not to be alpha for its own sake. TRP is primarily about sexual strategy and being "alpha" in the TRP sense means that your behaviour, looks, charisma and confidence are irresistible to women. Why are we talking about leadership and trustworthiness and stuff like that? Is you primary goal to be useful and helpful? To benefit society, and through …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/20 10:03 PM
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The whole point is that you should have a healthy self esteem. That means: keep yourself in as high regard as you deserve, or somewhat higher. The key is that the important variable is how much effort you’re putting in, not the absolute level you are at. This thinking fires both ways: it’s dumb to think you are the best when you’re fat, jobless and all you do is read the internet. It’s also dumb and hurts you to be afraid that you’re not enough if you’ve been putting in great effort and you’re o…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/20 05:11 PM
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Good effort. There’s a high likelihood she won’t reply to your text, but don’t let that deter you. This is an important step.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 05:31 PM
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The biggest mistake guys make in this is that they try to do no contact and pretend that they don’t give a fuck, even when the girl doesn’t care. These tactics only work if the woman is interested and/or invested. If she doesn’t like you, then ignoring her won’t do anything for you. You’ll just need to knock on other doors.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 12:00 AM
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This is one of the few reports that is consistent with the experience from the point of view of average looking guys. I agree with all the core points: It takes time, more than you expect. If you don’t put any effort in the conversation and you’re average looking, then you won’t get any dates out of your matches. You can get pussy consistently but very low quality. Looks matter even more than in real life, with the quality of your pictures an added factor. Dating apps WILL reduce your inclinatio…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 05:22 PM
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What you say is true, but why is it a surprise to anyone that only those who recognise they need help and who WANT help can be helped. This is literally psychology 101, even if you’ve only ever read pop psychology, you should know this.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 11:21 PM
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Yeah i think it was a funny and friendly interaction but the rando totally pulled Obama into his frame.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 12:13 AM
1

It’s funny how people try to alpha by (often blindly) following what other people say and do what other people tell them to do.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/20 11:14 PM
2

Thanks for expanding on that. I always find it sad and hilarious when people on here imagine that back when men had wives and children everything was hunky-dory. Our grandfathers were probably dreaming about the opportunities we have, living with their miserable wives, looking for opportunities to cheat. Grass is always greener as you said.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/20 10:25 PM
1

Transitional space is like a gap year a broad takes to Spain to get penised by Matador Manuél, before beginning her nursing career and rotting into a Normative Karen who nags Eric Engineer to put the dishes in the dishwasher correctly. This is one of my favourite sentences I've ever read on TRP. So much of the main message of this forum is compressed into this sentence.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/20 06:20 PM
1

So what's your point overall? I assumed the last bit of this was irony: Eat and buy and experience your way through life, always acquiring more experiences yet never quite feeling full or whole or like you're actually a part of anything. This is the way of the world in 2020. If you feel like anything is wrong with that, you should probably see a therapist and take pills. but if you don't care about wholeness either then what's your point? Are you saying things are fine as they are and one should…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/20 06:15 PM
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Do not read this as: “If you can’t get any pussy, focus solely on your mission and pussy will come to you.” Pussy will not come to you, unless you’re famous. Even money won’t automatically bring you pussy. I have several friends in banking who get seven figure bonuses but cannot get hot women, only mediocre post-wall bitches or fatties from Tinder. I have a couple friends who are good looking and run successful software startups, but cannot get laid at all. You need to spend time around women an…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 07:20 PM
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Your gut tells you when something is off. There is no objective “normal”. If your gut gives you a bad feeling, then it’s not normal for you, and that’s all that really matters.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 07:10 PM
1

Why would you ever read such garbage? This is the drivel of a bored mom, it’s not written for you. There’s nothing you can gain from reading this.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 05:38 PM
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SS 5x5 and SL 5x5 are both decent programs for complete beginners, with SL being slightly better due to lower risk of injury from bad form or ego lifting. There are hundreds of us here who successfully used these when we had no idea how shit works. They are simple and easy to follow, have linear progression in them so you feel that you’re improving, and they are extremely good for newbie gains and putting casual gym goers on the right track to consistency. Those who criticise e.g. SL usually fai…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 09:56 AM
2

Half the things you observe are in your head. But I do feel the same, and that’s what matters. The confidence it gives you by changing the way you see the world and people in it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 09:45 AM
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Putting TRP lingo and links all over your post doesn’t make it sound any less cringy. Calling a woman a plate or fwb or whatever cannot mask your overinvestment. Your reactions here were exactly like a boyfriend’s. You just have to admit that you love this woman. You got anxiety about losing her. It’s ok.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 09:23 AM
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I go to the US on business quite often these days and Tinder/Bumble are shocking there. I didn’t notice it until I had to go to smaller towns. I was in Oklahoma a couple months back, and 6 out of 10 women on Tinder were single mothers, 4 of 10 were single mothers under 25, and 8 of 10 were obese (class I or II obese, not just overweight.) With a glimpse of small-town America Tinder I now start to understand what the people from the US on here and elsewhere online are saying. The situation is now…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 12:01 PM
1

I know a year seems like a lot when you’re 19, after all it’s like 5% of your life. But a year is nothing, just be glad it only took a year of your life. You need to learn from this so that next time it won’t be 5 years with you being 29 when you come out of it. Nothing is lost, you gotta have these experiences to become a man.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 08:51 PM
1

Yeah I’m not a native speaker either and I remember back in the day wondering why is it called a barBELL and not just a bar.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 10:16 PM
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I guess the reason there isn’t advanced stuff upvoted here is because a) those who are beginners don’t need to hear complicated programming, it just sounds daunting to them, b) those who have been lifting long enough to be at an advanced level do not take lifting advice from TRP.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 09:55 PM
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Your blog post misses the point. You write a primer to night game for those not familiar with it, but then you go with “That being said, if you’re a player and you have good game, trust your value. Most guys who go out are blue pill pussies at the end of the day who can dress the part, but have no idea how to talk to chicks, how to escalate, etc.” Mostly people who are not players and do not have great game, are the ones to whom your guide could have been useful. This is a constant problem with …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 09:20 PM
2

Lifting is more important than eating right, because lifting is not just about looking better. Of course, lifting makes you look better. Lifting means put some discipline in your life, start doing something right and keep at it. Lifting means to get some confidence by committing to something and becoming better at it. Lifting means to become more masculine, gain testosterone and be comfortable with taking up space. Lifting means to become stronger beside giving your body definition. Lifting stay…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 07:08 PM
0

Or you simply don’t have the abilities to achieve it. Some people just don’t have the abilities (note that I’m not talking skills you can learn but abilities that are given) to achieve what they want. For example, if you have a low IQ, there’s nothing you can do to make it higher. One of the misleading messages on this forum is that you can achieve anything if you work hard enough. No. You can be the best you, achieve the best that your abilities let you achieve if you work hard. You don’t reali…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 05:28 PM
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Trying to blame society or culture or the opposite gender for things that are just natural facts of life, resulting from millions of years of evolution is just a sophist denial of reality. A healthy male derives his confidence from his competence and his abilities: his competence in his career, his physical capability and body, his ability to understand the world around him and use that to his advantage, his ability to navigate the social environment surrounding him, and yes, his ability to attr…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 06:15 PM
2

That’s some much needed honesty on this sub. There are a lot of snake oil salesmen here who tell you that with some work on your body and some practice of game you can get the hottest 9s. The thing is, you’ll always be getting the women 1 SMV point below you. It’s just that if you pull yourself up from a 5 to a 7.5 then those 6.5s and occasional 7s you can get will be infinitely better than the nothing you can get as a 5.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 06:01 PM
1

I'm sorry, are you retarded or something? Don't want to be picking on the mentally challenged.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 07:02 PM
1

You talk like you live in the '90s when online dating was this shameful, niche thing that only a few people, the lowest of the low, used. Wake the fuck up, online dating is mainstream now. Tinder is full of 8s and 9s, and they are fucking around like crazy. The fact that you are unaware of this shows how little your opinion on the subject matters.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 06:38 PM
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Why are you talking as if women were aware of their own inner sexual drives? Why do you pretend that women are these philosophical creatures that have boiled down the true essence of what makes a man sexually attractive? What a BP Beta is is what society perceives a "decent, good, nice man" to be. If everyone would be consciously aware of what makes a man successful with women then TRP would have no place and no use. It's the fact that people - including mothers - are not consciously aware that …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 09:12 AM
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just be rationally, un-autistically cautious and you'll be fine I think that's what this post tried to break down. Also, while the 0.0001% number is even too high, you need to consider bias in these statistics. How many men engage in a high number of one night stands and spin plates? MAYBE one percent of men. If you are in that category, your chance of hooking with one crazy chick is disproportionately higher than that of a married man, a typical serial monogamist, or a beta male who "befriends"…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 12:46 PM
3

It's not just women who created monogamy and artificially raised choosiness in men as a value. It was the work of beta males. The point of monogamy in human societies is first and foremost to ensure that lower value men can get women too. This is important to avoid high crime rates and civil unrest, which are caused by a large number of men in society having nothing to lose.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 10:21 AM
1

On the one hand, most of your examples are not even shit tests. On the other hand, what you are describing here is the message getting lost in the medium: the principle behind A&A is what matters, not the actually style in which you apply / deliver A&A.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 10:21 PM
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There are these few posts that really smell like reality, they resonate with my life experience. Yours is one of those, my bullshit sense is not tingling because it reads like a real story. Good effort man, congratulations on your success!
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 08:00 PM
3

That's a very philosophical way of looking at it. The Red Pill came to exist to help men develop a successful sexual strategy and get the sex life they want. If your goal is self-improvement for self-improvement's sake, by all means, have at it. But if you want to improve your sex life, work on improving your sex life. Posts tell you to ignore women and game, and just do self-improvement, but this will simply not get you women. This needed to be said explicitly.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 09:36 PM
3

I formulated this same sentiment into various comments over the last few days as I also felt it was necessary. It is a delusion to think that self-improvement or mission alone will bring you women. How do these people imagine they will pick up women if they don't go out there and game them? Unless you're famous, women will never just come to you because you have a great career, you're jacked or you dress well. And even if they do approach you, what do you do with them without social skills? Try …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 08:11 PM
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No one is good at game before they're good at game. This a huge misconception that seems impossible to correct on TRP. I literally remember guys having game ever since we were in 5th grade in school. Some boys are raised by confident and caring fathers; men who do not avoid confrontation, talk to any woman freely, make friends easily, have a naturally pleasant personality, the way they carry themselves. These men, if they also happen to be good with kids, raise confident children who are open to…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 05:12 PM
1

Your words sound completely foreign to me, it doesn't represent my life experience whatsoever. I want a woman who DOES raw, anal, cream pies, cumshots, and craves sex - from me. I want her to be horny as often as I am. Alpha widowing does not come from being fucked good. If you can't fuck her good you should practice with more women. In fact, it would be extremely beneficial for you to have sex with the kind of women you described, who require quality sex. Learn from them. Alpha widowing results…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 04:27 PM
1

There's way too much fixation on being "alpha-widowed" and on "pair bonding" in your post. The high n count is a problem not only because of these, but because women sometimes cheat when they are bored, when they are too comfortable, when they are not comfortable enough, when you take them for granted, when you constantly try to please them, etc etc. They simply like variety. The more men they've been with, the more likely they are to get reminded about how it was with this other dude or that ot…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 08:50 PM
2

As a guy who has been struggling with extra fat all my life, I just cannot imagine not being able to gain weight. Simply eat more. Eat a lot of bacon, steaks with potatoes, drink coke if you have to. Eating a lot of calories sounds way easier than cutting it down. if you're 140lbs at 5'9" then you are scrawny. Even if you put on mostly fat, it will still improve your physique I'd imagine.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 07:39 PM
2

I call bullshit on this one. 6000kcal is 1.5kg of pure protein, or about 6.5kg of turkey breast every day. If you ate 6000kcal a day, I guarantee that was mostly fat (or carbs and fat).
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 11:16 PM
2

Yeah I don't know who those people are but I assume they are handsome tall guys with a well built body. Here's the thing: In my gym, I sometimes see 5'6" guys with a big nose, tiny eyes, no jaw definition or some other feature that makes them kind of ugly and I just just feel sorry for them. Even if they are very muscular and lift heavier than me, I just can't help but see a manlet who is trying too hard. And trust me, women are way more cruel than I am. Surely they are much better off than they…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 10:34 PM
2

He made the very legitimate point that the general "community opinion" here is that if you do what TRP says, and you are successful, then that is because you followed what TRP said. But if you follow what TRP says and you are not successful, then you are doing something wrong. There is no consideration of the possibility that even TRP is just not enough to help SOME people. Some people are just starting from such a low point that no matter the effort they put into self-improvement and practicing…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 10:23 PM
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This is one of the dumber posts I've seen on here. All your conclusions, especially the 68% one, simply demonstrates that you are REALLY bad at imagining the average man. For one, if you check people on instagram, you already have preselection, a sample bias. That's a well-known statistical error. The second biasing error you make is that if you are a reasonably attractive young man then this same group will be over-represented among your friends/acquaintances. So even though you have such a bia…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 10:33 PM
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It is not illogical, and you make no counter point. That is not an argument.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 09:47 PM
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" I simply think it's not healthy for guys to judge their self-worth off of how much pussy they get " That is literally the way men are supposed to judge their self-worth, it is biologically hard-wired into healthy males. If you believe in science, that is. Btw, keep up the healthy scepticism. Your point about an unfalsifiable hypothesis of TRP is well made.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 09:45 PM
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I know many such people. You completely forgot to mention anything about the simple necessity of MEETING women and TALKING to them, as well as having the social skills. I know many successful lawyers, bankers and management consultants who lift heavy, earn a lot of money, run marathons, eat healthy and are not very successful with women. The simple explanation is that they are not socially skilled, their social circle doesn't have many single women, and they do not have the time / do not put in …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 09:40 PM
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It paints a sad picture about TRP that your comment has negative points. And this is supposed to be the "community" that knows how to accept hard truths.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 09:32 PM
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The difficult part about this is that you can say whatever you want on the internet. Back in 2015 when my LTR started to deteriorate and I first found myself reading books that are popular on TRP (and then the TRP reddit itself), I remember wondering how much of the things said here are true. You just cannot know, I - and you - can say anything here and people will never know if those things actually happened. I have had tons of success since I started down this journey, but I will always keep m…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 09:26 PM
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That is actually a factually true statement. Some of these are the Christians who will be cheated on, and they won't understand how this less successful, less attractive, less wealthy, lower-status male managed to just casually bang their loyal and loving wives repeatedly.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 09:52 PM
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It's good to point out the "dark side" of TRP. I have been loosely following this sub for 4 years, of which I spent 1.5 in a long-term cohabiting relationship; I've come to TRP as that relationship gradually went down the shitter. I've read pretty much everything there is to read on TRP, including only loosely connected scientific literature, "self-help books", and some PUA stuff. It helped me get better at getting women, but most importantly, they helped me stand up straight, both literally and…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 11:04 PM
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Yeah but how does that Chad who ploughed his girl respect him enough to stay in touch or be friends? Because the fact that your girlfriend cheated on you doesn't say much about you. Women don't just cheat because their boyfriends are beta, they cheat because they can, because they are bored, because they feel they are getting old, because they enjoy the attention of a handome man, because they crave adventure, because they want to branch swing... there are a million reasons. If you think you can…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 12:37 AM
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This is not that simple I'm afraid. I personally know a female recruiter who regularly recruits for part time jobs exclusively from Facebook groups for women who are currently stay-at-home mums but want to return to work into a part time job. It's fine that they want to work, but it's not okay that recruitment happens through channels where men are automatically excluded. It's not necessary for Bumble to have companies use their service, all they need is female recruiters using this rather than …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 12:15 AM
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They literally create a platform where they can recruit their "girlfriends" or "like-minded" feminists rather than the most competent person for the job. Incredible that we are so cuckolded that this goes on virtually unchallenged.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 12:11 AM
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It's very easy to spot "beautiful" even if she's fat. Also, the way she puts on weight also matters: some girls put weight into their ass, thighs and boobs, and still look kinda nice overweight. Others put it into their arms, belly and face, those look terrible when overweight. Pure genetic lottery.
/r/BlackPillScience05/02/19 10:29 PM
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Great post. I'd add that as with many things, err on the side of going too quick rather than too slow. It's better to be thrown in at the deep end than getting stuck in the educating phase.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 10:04 PM
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That's true. You need to be at least 3-4 points above a woman in SMV to have the same amount of attention as her (as in getting laid being as easy as it is for her). Consequently, when it comes to getting laid, it's virtually impossible for a man to have it as easy as an HB7 or 8 woman.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 09:56 PM
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You should write a post about that story, I'd love to read it.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 09:26 PM
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I am happy for you, not only for having that encounter with that girl, but mainly because you realised this "flaw" in your post without being explicitly told. Self-improvement is important, and I understand it's hard to get rid of the mindset where women are the goal (but it's still better than when one particular woman is the goal!) You can look at it this way: self-improvement is only actual improvement if it brings results. You need external "validation" of the improvement you've been going t…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 05:21 PM
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I have one question for you, and it's in good faith: Why did you feel like you need to write a post about this? To me, it doesn't sound like the fact that a girl liked you and kissed you had anything to do with you wanting to improve yourself "on your own terms".
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 02:48 PM
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Charisma needs to be mentioned here. It's a skill that lets you mingle with men and charm women. Charisma will let you advertise yourself and "radiate" the value that you were born with or have developed (i.e. salary, height, handsomeness, muscles, career, hobbies, etc). We men on this sub avoid the expression "charisma" like the bubonic plague. I suspect the reason for this is that there still isn't an alchemical formula for developing it. I still don't see any quality advice on how to improve …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 10:02 PM
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This is by far the most important comment here. If you have discipline, your intelligence is above average, and your looks (face, height) are about average, then it is fairly easy to build a body and a career that puts you in the top 20% of men. The hard bit is to achieve social dominance, that is, to have a group of "cool" friends among whom you are the quasi-leader. Or similarly, to develop a personality that lets you make friends easily and kind of "dominate" in a group of strangers that you …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 10:05 PM
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Dude, pre-nups cannot overwrite a country's laws. E.g. you can't agree in a pre-nup that you won't pay child support if the country's laws mandate it. None of this will hold up in court. But more importantly, you cannot control a woman's behaviour for life with a piece of paper signed years or a decade earlier.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 09:57 PM
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ou the secrets to success. It doesn't owe you shit. The true solution is to take ownership of your growth and to start picking yourself up after you fall down, and learn how to learn on your own for damn sake. Once you're able to understand how your own actions lead to the outcomes of the situations in your life can you start to This is not far away from the esoteric bullshit women in their 40s are attracted to. Some things you cannot control. Some things are not your fault, but you have to deal…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 04:20 PM
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I agreed up to the point where you started talking about women lifting stuff. Sure, she should be able to carry her own backpack or whatever, but you are the man and you have to deal with the housework that requires strength. If you can't accept that, then why would the woman accept her responsibilities as a woman? How many of us are REALLY working at construction sites? Most of us go to a special place with iron plates and bars just so that we have some physical activity in our lives. A woman w…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 09:13 PM
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Classic case of “they are not real Muslims”. You think that your way of looking at the world is objectively correct. Don’t preach, argue.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 06:55 AM
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While I agree with everything this post says, and it is very well written, it completely misses the fact that feminism is a political movement. Feminism in 2018 wants to do away with competence hierarchies altogether, which is basically doing away with western civilisation. As much as video games, porn and podcasts are delusions of success in manly pursuits, this article is a delusion that a political battle can be fought on an individual level. The article asserts that if men embrace masculinit…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 06:37 PM
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So at least the answer to “what to do / what to write” is really simple: write nothing, immediately ghost and next. Other than that, here are (some of) your mistakes: - If she doesn’t like your wine, you don’t buy her some fancy expensive shit, she drinks water or whatever and you drink your wine. - When she points out her mistakes / weaknesses (I.e. talking too much), you don’t lift her up, you tease her about it. - You shouldn’t give her this much validation, you’re as good as her, she has to …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 06:57 PM
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How does this not have any votes? If you want to get married, move in together when you already put a ring on her finger, few months before the wedding just to try it. Otherwise don’t move in with her at all.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 05:10 PM
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g any new information with this FR but I think it's good to remind the newer guys on here of the basics sometimes. I don't claim to be an expert on TRP, and definitely I have a ways still to go. But when this happened I knew I had come a long way since my beta days in high school. Strongly disagree. There is definitely puss I don't even bother with anymore because I know that a glass of wine and a book will make me happier in the evening.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 10:05 PM
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Good post, there is just one thing missing. If you are the top option of a girl, it is quite likely that your SMV is 1-2 points higher than hers. Women date up, men often date down. Almost all 7.5-8/10 women will have a 9 guy "willing" to fuck them. If you are a 7/10, it's highly unlikely that you will be the top option of an 8/10. That girl that gives you the obvious signs that you are her top option is going to be a 6/10. This does not invalidate this post but puts a huge dent in it. The reaso…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 10:35 AM
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It’s because it is easy for women to sleep around as they have lower sex drive, all they need is to be willing. If they are willing, any woman can have sex with virtually any number of men. Men have to prove their worth and their skills at wooing or picking up women, therefore, for them having a lot of sex is an achievement. As a thought experiment, think about what would happen if an 4/10 woman would publish an advert that she is willing to bang anyone who want to bang her: she would have hundr…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 07:12 AM
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I cannot think of a book specifically focussed on this. But this is a good starting point about testosterone, the things it affects and the things that affect your testosterone levels. It also has lots of references if you are comfortable with scientific papers: https://www.bodybuilding.com/content/all-about-testosterone.html
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 10:15 PM
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Masculinity involves taking risk. Why is everyone so risk-averse? When you get into an exclusive LTR, you take a risk. You gamble. You put your money on your favourite horse. Of course she can cheat. Of course she can just "fall out of love" or bring up whatever bullshit excuse. There is literally nothing you can do about that beside working on being the best you you can be. You need to accept that you cannot control a lot of shit. Sometimes things happen that are 100% out of your control. Avoid…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 10:08 PM
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A healthy male with healthy levels of testosterone - a hormone which makes you more confrontational and more confident, makes you take more risks, makes you healthier and livelier and thus helps you reach great heights - has a high level of sex drive. If you have a sex drive and you cannot get laid, your brain gives you feedback: it makes you feel like a failure and reduces your confidence level. This has obviously detrimental effect on your ability to succeed in life (not to mention it reduces …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 08:48 PM
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I think the point here is that it works great as a way of making someone's day and working on our approach anxiety, but this is not good as a pick-up strategy, unless your smv is considerably higher than hers (i.e. anything you say would work).
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 08:41 PM
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You are trying to tell illiterates that they should read high literature and science rather than pop magazines. You cannot get to the point where you can chase "higher awakening" before you satisfy your more primitive urges. Fewer people are on that level on this sub than most people seem to think.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 05:44 PM
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There is no point in comparing men to women when it comes to being a whore. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. For a man, it is an achievement to fuck many women. For women, it is only a matter of willingness how many men they can fuck. As such, even if OP admits he is a "whore" in your terminology, that does not defeat his argument.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 10:49 PM
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He didn't miss your point, you simply didn't make a (decent) point. I would LOVE if a woman was always there for me, would support me emotionally unconditionally, and fucked me anytime I wanted. In fact, it's hard to imagine anything better than that. But women work differently.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 10:18 PM
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There is nothing wrong with a "loving, supportive relationship", the only problem is that it doesn't exist. You feel you are in one, because your gf sees value in you. You quite likely are her best option right now. Let's hope it stays that way. But don't make the mistake of believing in unconditional love. She can be invited into the bed of someone she can't resist. It might be a guy with a Porsche, or a guy who dances salsa REALLY well, or a guy who doesn't seem to give a fuck about anything a…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 07:23 PM
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This is like saying to the child who discovers Santa doesn't exist that "well, pink lion-headed dolphins don't exist either, duh!". True, both of them don't exist, but your parents / society only made you believe in one of those fairy tales, nobody ever told you there are pink lion-headed dolphins.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 07:10 PM
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While you have correctly identified certain stereotypes of men that find their way to TRP, I don't think you've understood the core principles of the red pill. Nothing that you've mentioned goes against anything the red pill says, if you base your understanding on the sidebar or any well-respected literature (rather than random men's comments on this sub). You imagine that you're gonna have a beautiful life with this woman and raise great children, build an amazing future together. Then suddenly…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 07:04 PM
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This. There is no way to learn charisma, extroversion, handsomeness and height.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 07:21 PM
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True story. She should be a writer! I see the hamster if I close my eyes!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 08:37 PM
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He's fucked either way. This woman will go out whoring sooner or later. I guarantee it! The guy can only be worse off by having children with her.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 08:32 PM
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Exactly. She goes out riding cocks, comes up with some retarded hobbies, takes up painting or knitting or cosplay or yoga or some shit to pretend to be a unique personality and a happy single woman, she keeps doing this and riding until she's 35, when she starts looking for her "soulmate" and the "one", who will marry her and give her stability and support her. But it's too late by then... Or at least I hope it is.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 08:30 PM
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There is no wall for her in the next 10 years, maybe 15 if she keeps fit. There's a lot of cocks to ride out there for her. And she's a whore, so she will. "I guarantee it!"
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 08:24 PM
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I think what you are saying is the general wisdom, the way the average person looks at this. But I worry that there is a bit of solace in it for us, or for angry men who got rejected many times or for whom a relationship did not work out. We might accept this a bit too easily, without enough skepticism. Let's hope it is true.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 08:10 PM
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Short answer: no. This assumes that beta males have some sort of hive mind and they act like one. The reason this will never happen is that betas are so starved of pussy that they are willing to do anything to get some. If a beta can choose to make a difference together with all fellow betas, or experience feeling like an alpha for a short while getting some attention from women, then he will choose the attention of the woman 9 out of 10 times. Bros before ho's don't work that well in larger soc…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 08:01 PM
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Women don't care about how long have you been lifting or how much you can squat. Women care about how you look. This dude's upper body looks good, and if he achieved it in 1.5 years, great!
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 09:46 PM
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I have long held a view that seems to be incompatible with red pill - if not with the philosophy itself, definitely with The Red Pill community: I do not believe that being alpha is a "mindset" or that certain actions or behaviours can be alpha. While there may be a point in talking about "alpha-like" characteristics, only people can actually be alpha. I have a radical view that if you ever had to think about whether you are alpha or beta or you ever had to do "self-improvement" to attract women…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 09:42 PM
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I opened this thread to find out how to notice all the chicks that want me without me knowing. Instead I've found that I am actually quite well-versed in these cues and women just give me fuck-off signals all the time. Sad!
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 12:14 PM
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The way I see it, getting strangers' numbers on the street is not analogous to getting "leads which lead to potential closes", but the correct sales analogy is more like giving your business card to people on the street - as if it was a flyer - or getting their email addresses - and expecting them to buy your product.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 01:32 AM
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There's nothing funnier than seeing complete newbies curling. Most guys think that's the muscle women care about most - the wrong answer to the wrong question. You need to build strength before isolation exercises start becoming meaningful.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 06:53 PM
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While I understand that the key point of TRP is not pick-up, and being better at picking up women shouldn't be your end goal as it is a consequence of getting your shit together, we need to see who this post is speaking to. People new to TRP and people who ask questions typically find TRP because they want to get better at picking up women. As we learn more about TRP, we understand it better that picking up women is not the main goal, but a consequence of doing things right. So I think it's reas…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 06:45 PM
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Good message, and I also hate missing a workout in the gym, but some explanation on WHY you should treat lifting like a meeting with the so-called "love of your life" would have been useful.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 06:29 PM
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Abundance mentality like anything worthwhile takes a lot of effort and sacrifice to attain, and when you get it, it's one of the most fulfilling male feelings that exist. Exactly this. This is the classic "just be more confident!" advice made sound more important by extensive use of TRP jargon. The problem with giving the advice "just be more confident!" to a person who is lacking self-confidence and/or self-respect is that confidence is not something you decide to have. Confidence is the result…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 12:15 PM
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Sorry to hear your story mate, but look at it this way: having a beta experience early on in your life helps forging a man out of you. At 22 you've had this experience somewhat later than some people who live through this in high school, but not too late anyway. The important thing is to learn from your mistakes, which you apparently seem to be doing, you've even highlighted the most important lessons: (1) You are not her texting buddy. Your time should be more precious than having hours and hou…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 10:09 AM
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I thought this whole reddit page is to find out what to do in your situation. Start with building yourself up before trying to date chicks. Go do jiu jitsu! Start paragliding! Learn to fly a plane! Hit the gym! Start going to swing classes or salsa classes! Start playing rugby! Go play some tennis! Find some hobby to do, and stop with the effin complaints and excuses! We don't care how shit your phone is. We don't care how shit your town is and how the salsa classes are 40 minutes away. Deal wit…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 10:37 PM
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Technically speaking, with a divorce both the man and the woman lose the sex. Even though it's admittedly a lot easier for women to find a cock to ride than for a man to find a hole to fill, it's unreasonable to expect the court to "compensate" the man for the lost sex as it's something lost by both parties. Regarding the housekeeping, that's a legit argument, the man now has to do that for himself or hire someone to do it. The value of it should definitely be extracted from any alimony paid to …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 10:13 PM
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I'm not strictly speaking on the Red Pill journey, but I am quite successful in my professional life as well as with my relationship. I am also somewhat older than you and I think I am ahead in my journey, even though it is obviously not the same journey as yours. One advice I would give you that profoundly changed my approach to life is to "STOP READING, START DOING". Stop reading "self-help" books (note that the expression itself is an oxymoron!), stop watching TED talks, stop obsessing over g…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 10:08 PM
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Isn't bitching about others bitching about bitches more beta than the betas bitching about bitches bitching? It's gamma. And MY bitching about your bitching about others bitching about bitches bitching is then even more beta, it's delta. Hope you are catching my drift?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 12:49 AM
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