trophicsec Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
39	How to prevent burnout?	ADVICE	trophicsec	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/20 02:27 PM

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14	Women who left stressful careers - what did you do/how is life now? I’m 25, expecting my first child in early March, and my last day as a software developer was last Friday. I do plan on going back to work eventually, but not as a developer. I’m currently taking classes to get my Masters degree in education so I can be a high school math teacher. I realize this isn’t necessarily a low stress job, but I realized my issue with my past jobs is that I wasn’t passionate about what I was doing. It wasn’t that being a software developer was the most stressful job ever,…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/11/20 05:57 PM
2	How to pass on my sister's Bachelorette party. My sister lives about 4 hours away from me. When she got married, her bridal shower and bachelorette party were on separate weekends, and she acknowledged that it was unreasonable to expect me to attend both. Even though I did end up attending both, she was very accommodating and invited my boyfriend to the bachelorette party so that I was more comfortable (it was a mixed gender party and my sister is 11 years older than me so most people were much older than me). I really don't think it's unrea…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/07/20 12:44 AM
6	A place for conservative women in tech I'm a liberal woman in tech, and I don't like discussing politics at work.. never had an issue fitting in. I think most professionals realize that some people just don't want to discuss things like that. Some younger people might be pushy about it, but you shouldn't run into issues like that with more experienced/senior individuals, managers, etc. If you do, that's a toxic work environment. I'm also curious why you think web development relies heavily on networking with people. Maybe for your fi…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/20 01:40 AM
4	Low self esteem because of my pudgy tummy. Help. Just to add on to this because a lot of people are suggesting low carb/keto/fasting/OMAD... I think what is more important is just trying different things and seeing what works for you. If intermittent fasting or low carb works for you, then great. However, people make it sound like it's this magical answer that works for everyone. Fasting can be harmful for women and throw off hormones. I'm currently trying to conceive and was warned against fasting. Also, when I have tried fasting in the past,…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/20 10:38 PM
21	Low self esteem because of my pudgy tummy. Help. Is it possible that it's just bloating? Have you played around with the size/frequency of your meals? Some people work better with 3 big meals and some work better with a lot more frequent smaller meals. Also, I've heard some people say that intermittent fasting helped with their bloating. If not, I think unfortunately the only solution is to lose weight, which is hard to do if you're trying to build muscle at the same time. Personally, I first had to focus on losing weight with mostly just cutt…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/20 06:52 PM
1	How to prevent burnout? I keep hearing about Taking Charge of Your Fertility, so I definitely need to give it a read! I really think I need to keep working for a bit, especially since I want to pay off my student loans soon. However, my husband and I did talk more about the possibility of working part-time if things don't improve soon. Thank you for your perspective 😊	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/20 02:27 PM
2	How to prevent burnout? I understand where you're coming from, but I didn't mean to say that my husband does nothing around the house. He does things like house repairs or yardwork which I rarely do, and he will occasionally help clean. Admittedly, I do still do more though. However, we talked yesterday and he is dedicated to helping out more.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/20 02:24 PM
2	How to prevent burnout? I appreciate you saying this. My miscarriage definitely took a toll on me and it was hard for me to not play the what-if game a few times. I don't think that stress caused my miscarriage. However, I do think that reducing my stress will improve my overall health which I hope will help me while trying to conceive. 🤞	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/20 09:25 PM
2	How to prevent burnout? Thank you. While I definitely talk to him openly about my stress, sometimes it is difficult for me to ask for help.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/20 06:29 PM
2	How to prevent burnout? While it is in the realm of possibility, I don't think I would want to do this currently. I would like to pay off my student debt as well as make sure we have healthy savings before we have kids.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/20 06:27 PM
3	How to prevent burnout? This is my biggest fear. My heart is aching for a baby, so I am willing to make whatever changes so that the stress does not affect our chances. Thank you for your advice!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/20 06:26 PM
5	How to prevent burnout? I have talked to my husband. He's great and has suggested that I work part-time if I'm really that stressed. However, I would like to hold off on that if possible since we have a lot going on right now - like saving up for a baby, international vacation planned, and paying off my student loans. Thank you for your advice on how to simplify things. I definitely need to simplify our meals and do more meal prep. Also, the common theme in these comments is that a new job could definitely help, so I'm…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/20 06:24 PM
6	How to prevent burnout? I agree that now is the time to save money and pay off debt, which is why I would like to keep working full-time until we have kids. I will definitely start trying to simplify meals and ask my husband for help more when I need it. Thank you! 😊	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/20 06:16 PM