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Changed my last name to my mom’s maiden name when my parents got divorced. Let me tell you, it’s super annoying to change everything and this was back when I didn’t have much to change. I started the process in 2011 and didn’t change the final thing (my passport) until I had to a couple years ago. So no, I will not be changing my last name again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:04 AM
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Just wanted to share this quote that helped me get through a breakup too <3 Grief… happens upon you, it’s bigger than you. There is a humility that you have to step into, where you surrender to being moved through the landscape of grief by grief itself. And it has its own timeframe, it has its own itinerary with you, it has its own power over you, and it will come when it comes. And when it comes, it’s a bow-down. It’s a carve-out. And it comes when it wants to, and it carves you out — it comes …
/r/askFDS10/12/20 05:03 PM
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Almost a year after breaking up, finally deleted all traces of my ex off my phone (number, messages, pictures, etc). Just wanted to share 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 09:07 PM
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Can I just say how inspired I am by Kamala Harris' performance at the VP Debate? This queen stood up for herself: "Mr. VP, I'm speaking" "I will not sit here and be lectured" "I am the only one on this stage that has experience in/can speak to [prosecuting]" Held her composure in the midst of a rude, disrespectful, lying LVM I want to take even just a fraction of her energy into my everyday life. THAT is what executive decorum should look like. THAT is what little girls should aspire to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:58 AM
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It's taken almost 6 months of therapy for me to START understanding the second part. Still got a long way to go, but working on it <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:49 PM
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ah thank you! i found the tinder one.. it's tindertranslators :) these are awesome, immediate follow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:35 PM
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Started therapy at the beginning of quarantine. We've worked through issues with family, weight, and work. Next step is relationship. She's actively encouraging me to sign up for a couple dating apps to put myself out there.. and I'm just not sure. Then again, how the hell else are we supposed to meet people nowadays?! I'd like to hear FDS' thoughts on this. Sidenote: yes yes, leveling up. I've lost the weight, started a new job, actively working to better my mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:54 PM
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Holy fuck, I feel called out lol. Bought him a Switch for Christmas after he gave me half wilted roses from the grocery store for my birthday. "I was gonna buy you good ones from a florist but I didn't have time."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:50 PM
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Went on a great first date tonight. Conversation flowed, we connected on a lot of topics, restaurant he picked was so good, he paid. Went home to vet and found out he was married and separated (maybe divorced?) his wife around the time their kid was born, less than 2 years ago. Sigh. Blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:37 AM
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..this is how i ended up with 2 dogs. and then when one of them had to be put down, this is how i ended up with a dog and a cat. haha it's not so bad; i just need someone to take the dog out to pee, otherwise they keep each other busy/company while i am away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:17 PM
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Is there a term for when guys do the whole fake sadness/guilt trip thing? Or is it just straight up manipulation? Example: I was supposed to see this guy on a Monday and he asked me the prior Thursday if I was excited to see him. I told him I'm too busy (with work/personal shit) to think about that atm and he goes "Awww, but I thought you were excited to see me!" I didn't respond after that because I kind of felt like I was being manipulated? And/or that he just wanted me to stroke his ego?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:14 PM
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ladies, i slipped and paragraphed. ugh and OF COURSE it's obvious that he doesn't give a shit and is only looking out for himself. on to the next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:36 PM
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holy shit, i didn't even know a cohabitation agreement was a thing!! thank you for educating me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:59 PM
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omg i just wanted to give her a huge hug at the end. queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:57 PM
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Just need to vent. I told the guy that I've been seeing that I was just offered a promotion at work but that I wasn't sure if I was going to take it because it's a lot of responsibility that I don't think I'm ready for. He went off and told me how my viewpoint is insensitive (especially in today's climate) and that if he were in my position, he would be thrilled - and that I should be thrilled given that there are still so many unemployed people out there. Including him - he was let go from his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:14 PM
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Yup, working through that in therapy now. My therapist called it becoming a "parentified child."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:06 PM
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Annnnnd this is why I changed my last name to my mom's maiden name when my parents got divorced. He was an absentee LVM father and I didn't want anything to do with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:39 AM
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Congrats!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:32 PM
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You did the right thing. You set boundaries - don't feel bad about that! If he can't respect your boundaries, he doesn't respect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:33 AM
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I got a Liletta (hormonal IUD) put in when my LVM ex and I started to get serious. The pain for me wasn't too bad - the dr even had to do it twice because the arms didn't deploy the first time. I bled for 3 months straight, but now that it's settled in to it's new home, I barely even have a period anymore. No side effects that I've noticed. I'm glad I have it, because now that it's in, I don't have to worry about getting pregnant anymore, but if I had to do it again (especially after realizing m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:17 PM
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A guy I dated last year and whom I haven't spoken to since June tried to FaceTime me last night. They all come out of the woodwork.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 06:33 PM
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I love how ruthless the comments are so far.. THANK YOU for the constant reminders that basic human decency do not need to be praised. I definitely need to be reminded <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:17 PM
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UGH YES. Broke up in November/December and this sub has helped me realize how much of a LVM he was to the point that I'm almost embarrassed I ever wasted tears on him. The quiet moments during the day are the worst, when my mind tends to wander back to the time we were together. I'm trying to (although it's very hard to do), when I realize I'm thinking about him, MAKE myself stop and busy myself with something else - something that actually needs my attention. Whether it be work, my dogs, or wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:32 PM
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