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I will read every word. Thanks a lot man.
/r/askMRP27/06/16 09:23 PM
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I have felt that way about the "wife test" for maybe a year or so now (based on red flags before this) but have never been sure how to handle it. Do you or anyone else have any readings or posts for this type of "talk" it's been bothering me because I feel it's coming as she approaches her mid-twenties, her friends all start getting married, and I get asked where I see this going as I approach my 30's...
/r/askMRP27/06/16 09:14 PM
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Yep. And what seems like almost every time we're out at a club together if I go to the bathroom and she's waiting outside when I come back some guy is hitting her up or just tried to lol. It's just the way the world works in terms of "who approaches who" when out in the nightlife. Thanks for the insight I've had this thought before but for some reason it didn't come up when thinking about this.
/r/askMRP27/06/16 08:10 PM
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Thanks. Thanks. Thanks. You're the first one to touch on the mother crying thing. That always weirded me out and it makes more sense with your comment on it... I've absolutely shown both her and her mother I'd be an AMAZING provider (stable job - I get promoted fast at work and bosses love me, good education (halfway through mba now), doing thoughtful things for her (flowers, all that kind of shit), vacations paid for, etc.). We were already fucking like rabbits before I showed her any of this a…
/r/askMRP27/06/16 07:44 PM
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It did actually, and I'm glad I asked you for more about it. It may be something I have to put out there as well. Thanks.
/r/askMRP27/06/16 07:31 PM
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Yes agree, she should have brought it up. Ummmmmmmm.... yes probably. One of them was also in LTR so that did help. I consider that in terms of thinking of getting married. It scares me for sure. But we have been in a "commitment" (over 4 years of LTR). Sex has never slowed down even when sick or after she got surgery she expressed how much she wanted to get back into it for the whole 2 months she was out of comission. Appreciate the comments.
/r/askMRP27/06/16 07:12 PM
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I read the post you were talking about (8/27/2012 TRM blog?) From the post - " The girl still wants to go to Vegas even if her man were to give her an ultimatum, and in addition he comes off as an optionless, possessive chump. I realize the idea is that if he’s uncompromising and she magically respects him she’ll develop a real interest level in him because he put his foot down as a “real man”, but the damage is still done. Her desire isn’t for him, it’s for Vegas, even if she says “OK honey, yo…
/r/askMRP27/06/16 07:09 PM
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Thanks. I'll search for it.
/r/askMRP27/06/16 06:55 PM
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I appreciate it. And really when I say thanks and everything (to everyone I responded to) I really do read and consider all of your advice. It means a lot to get that from everyone on here because everyone who even takes the time out of their day to comment or post, on my stupid situation, is helping me out or at least giving me different perspectives than racking my own head for hours. The social media sucks. The way my generation has been raised dependent on social validation fucking sucks. Bu…
/r/askMRP27/06/16 06:55 PM
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We've been together for 4.5 years my dick hasnt fallen off yet.
/r/askMRP27/06/16 06:30 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate the advice.
/r/askMRP27/06/16 06:30 PM
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I agree with that. I confuse myself at times not knowing if my gut is right or if I'm being insecure. Appreciate the comment.
/r/askMRP27/06/16 06:29 PM
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What is with that shit? "women in an Ltr don't go travelling with their promiscuous friends across country, alone." I've read that 100 times in some of the other vacation threads. How does that make sense? So if you're an attractive, high-value guy (which a lot of the guys here believe that frame) you can never has a gf that likes to go on a "girls-only" trip? How does that make sense if you're the guy she loves to fuck and fawns over. Why would she jeopardize that? Bull shit. How can I be expec…
/r/askMRP27/06/16 06:08 PM
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Appreciate the advice. Packing it up won't be a problem. Not a lot of shit. Her mom will be home or home at night after work. Can just leave it there. Changing the locks may be a big pita because apartment company has KEY fob locks. I'm hoping not but will have to pay for replacement key fob from hers ($100 = many men have been had for multiples more)
/r/askTRP25/06/16 02:32 AM
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Thanks man. I've been attuned to this type of response for a while... it has basically been a waiting game since the last couple of weeks ago when I saw what I saw on the laptop. Trying to turn on the DGAF, and do what I want. She will know its over as well shes already picking up signs of it.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 02:28 AM
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It really does. I've seen enough horror storries on this board and from others in real life to know I don't want any part of that when there's REALLY assets at stake.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 02:27 AM
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This resounded with me a lot. I really appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 02:24 AM
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Really appreciate it.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 02:24 AM
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Appreciate the advice. I'm not vengeful, I know other posters in here have talked about "getting back at her" and all that. As I read in one of the TRP posts, it's just the way girls are wired, and is reactionary to how I've acted throughout the course of this long relationship - something I can learn from and build from... if i ever decide to have a "next time" LTR (not likely, from everything I've seen, heard, read, and experienced). All of it puts me in a weird spot. There are parts of her pe…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 02:23 AM
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Thanks man. There have been other things before... but this time I truly believe it's reached a tipping point as well.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 02:18 AM
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Thanks, I will absolutely look into this. I really appreciate it. Edit: /u/introvertp you hit the nail on the head with the suggestion. I really, really, needed that need and was able to relate to all of it. I really appreciate it man.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:08 AM
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Thanks. I don't think I was 100% clear in OP, so will clarify. Browser showed her actually searching for flights on her personal computer a couple weeks ago. She was not in her room I went upstairs to grab a blanket for her dog real quick and it was glaring right there as I walked by... literally just scanned it with my eyes saw the dates + destinations. I did not go looking for it - it was out there for all to see. I went back downstairs were she was, hungout - watched TV, as we went back upsta…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:05 AM
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Appreciate the opinion and the advice on what to do next... my thoughts are not all girls that find guys attractive are 100% fucking them. It could be a secret harbored crush or one she doesn't even want to admit to herself and then "op, it just happened".
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:33 PM
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Appreciate your advice.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:32 PM
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Thanks for the help.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:32 PM
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I really, really, appreciate the advice.... from everyone in here (hopefully more comments/opinions will come). I know it probably doesn't mean much, coming from an internet stranger, but wake up calls or honest opinions can be the first step in a long healing process. Obviously it may come easier to you seasoned guys but when you've developed emotional attachments/insecurities, they can be EXTREMELY hard to shake. I will come out a better person no mater what happens, I believe. What do you mea…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:30 PM
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