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William Singe covers
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:14 AM
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2021
/r/askMRP27/11/19 01:50 PM
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Children, mainly. Byproduct of my Christian beliefs. I know divorce is likely at some point. Frankly, I don’t care - I’ll deal with the consequences when it happens. She’s also agreed to a prenup.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 01:23 AM
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She said she didn’t want to tell me anything more about it because she’s worked hard to put it behind her (through therapy mostly) and she doesn’t want it to affect our relationship. She also said I’m the first guy she’s been able to truly feel comfortable with since the incidence and doesn’t want to jeopardize that by revivifying the experience. As far as I can tell, it hasn’t affected our relationship.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 01:21 AM
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Hmm hot take. Her sexual history in relation to her age is fine with me. We have great sex 7+ times per week. AWALT anyways.
/r/askMRP12/11/19 08:53 PM
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Makes sense. He wanted to date her, but she just wanted FWB.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:05 PM
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What do you think in your gut she's doing? She glances at dudes who are attractive (normal obviously). Never stares, but it's the second or third glance she occasionally shoots that bothers me. She never tries to make eye contact with them, nor does she try to draw attention to herself in any other way. I'm being an over-analytical bitch. DO NOT CONFRONT HER WITH THIS SHIT. I would never do that.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 02:49 PM
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Y'all have an unhealthy view of money
/r/askMRP06/11/19 02:41 PM
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You'll have to take my word for it, but although I do fear the loss, I am confident I could find equal or better very quickly. I fear the loss due to the legal ramifications (i.e. divorce rape).
/r/askMRP06/11/19 02:37 PM
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I don’t understand why everyone’s hung up on the cost of the ring. $30k to me may be $5k to someone else.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 06:17 PM
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I’m not going to have a pissing match with you, but my perceived SMV is very high due to my family’s status - that alone accounts for 90% of my SMV currently. Being 6’6 with a decent face doesn’t hurt either.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 06:14 PM
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Both
/r/askMRP04/11/19 09:28 PM
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I’m still joking with you...
/r/askMRP04/11/19 09:04 PM
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I wouldn’t give a fuck if I didn’t just put a $30k ring on her finger and plan on legally giving up half my shit in two year’s time.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 08:32 PM
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I dropped it after she spoke with her mom mainly due to my Christian beliefs. Obviously smashing 10x/week isn’t biblically sound outside the context of marriage either, but that shit isn’t publicized on social media for my family, friends, and church to see.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 08:30 PM
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100% ... it's a me problem, not a her problem. I definitely have a vision of the man I want to be, but it's obviously going to take time - lower BF%, higher revenue, etc... I want to get married because I want kids. I ALMOST had her on board for having kids without getting married, but her mom talked her out of it.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:55 PM
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So you're saying all girls would happily have a ONS with an alleged "professional" soccer player and then brag to their friends about it? And all girls would text their girlfriends how they need the dick because they're feeling irritable?
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:53 PM
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I was saying that I've been with both types of girls... those who brag about it and those who don't. The latter have always been a better fit for me.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:49 PM
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haha I'm kidding... her name is Alysha and she's a promo girl for a beer distributor
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:47 PM
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I'm definitely insecure, but my perceived value is quite high - prominent family, business owner, tall, good face, endless social proof. Regardless, I have A LOT of work to do.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:45 PM
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Eh, I just feel like the way she was talking about her sexual "achievements" was trashy. I don't care that's she slept with ~10 other people before me, but the fact that she was bragging about ONS and complaining to her friends that she needed to get fucked because she was irritable just rubs me the wrong way.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:32 PM
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...but, long arms... or something like that
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:30 PM
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Thanks for the words of wisdom. I really do need to keep focusing on improving myself physically and mentally. Her past hookups bother me just because of the nature of them. Only two of her ~11 were LTRs. So you have random ONS and short-term fuck buddies who were nothing like me (I'm not a cop, or a juice head). The fact that she did all the stereotypical AWALT shit like fuck her guy friend while on vacay, have a ONS with a random soccer player, and then entertain the idea of fucking some juice…
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:28 PM
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Not fat - wouldn't even be referred to as chubby. But I get what you're saying. It's ME problem, not a HER problem.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:19 PM
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Although I shouldn't have posted this shit in the first place, comments like yours help solidify the fact that this all a ME problem and not a HER problem. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:17 PM
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Fuck. Her name IS Tiffany and she's a makeup artist.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 07:16 PM
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The two things that bother me are the fact that she was bragging about having a ONS with a “professional” soccer player and that she randomly messaged her girlfriend that she needed the dick. I guess AWALT, but I’ve dated girls who don’t verbalize their sexual desires like that.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 06:17 PM
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Accurate assessment
/r/askMRP04/11/19 06:08 PM
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I appreciate the insight. From a strictly physical perspective, she is probably a point higher than me. Everything else considered, I'm probably a point higher than her. I am definitely nervous about the fact she could jump ship anytime. It all stems from fear and insecurity; however, the only reason I'm worrying about it is because I plan on marrying her and I want to mitigate the chance of divorce down the road. If she left tomorrow, I'd have no problem finding another chick. You are right in …
/r/askMRP04/11/19 06:01 PM
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Any amount of time is too long, but it was over the course of an hour or so. Searched her messages by the words "sex" "fucked" "hooked up", and voila.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 05:55 PM
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Thank you for the reply. This all definitely stems from a place of insecurity. I need to keep improving myself.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 05:53 PM
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I’m just trying to predict the likelihood that this girl fucks me over and branch swings to one of the dudes she does find more attractive. If I didn’t plan on marrying her, this would all be moot. Normally I wouldn’t even think twice about someone cheating on me as it would only serve to make my choice that much clearer.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 05:21 PM
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I do want to clarify that all the messages not about me were from before me
/r/askMRP04/11/19 05:08 PM
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I would think the most likely thing is that I’m overestimating how often she looks at other guys due to my own insecurities. Even if she IS looking at other guys, isn’t it normal to some extent? We naturally look at other people we find attractive, no?
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:37 PM
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/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:29 PM
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She was a plate for 3 months prior to exclusivity. I’m really just trying to determine which red flags increase the likelihood that I’m making a bad investment. I want kids soon and don’t want to miss any glaring red flags before committing.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 05:42 PM
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Hypergamy is indeed a bitch. Here’s the thing, I want children relatively soon and I’ve been actively vetting LTRs for the last few years to find a girl who’s worthy of my commitment and worthy of the responsibility of bearing my children. I believe in hypergamy/AWALT wholeheartedly, but I also don’t think those “truths” are black and white. I don’t think hypergamy/AWALT varies from girl to girl; with some girls being more hypergamous than others. All that to say, I’m looking for one of the leas…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 05:39 PM
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I'm not trying to justify anything, but me being confident and owning it won't stop people from feeling a certain way about it themselves. It's ugly and it's not subjective. I think I will sit her down and tell her I want to talk about the elephant in the room. I'm going to explain why I don't want to take my shirt off and that I'm working on being more comfortable with it.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 09:23 PM
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I've heard that line of reasoning my entire life, but until you are the one getting the odd looks from strangers and getting picked on by other teenagers when you're on the 'skins' team during basketball, you won't understand. People DO give a fuck.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 08:59 PM
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He's just fat.. I could deal with being fat and owning it with my shirt off. But my stomach is seriously fucked up... I can't even really explain it and I definitely won't post a picture... - dark and thick keloid scarring - large folds of skin near scars - reconstructive surgery involved lipo in some areas and not in others, leaving my fat distribution asymmetrical - stretch marks from gaining wait immediately post reconstructive surgery
/r/askTRP25/10/19 08:57 PM
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I understand, and I do have decent shoulders/pecs/etc..., but my stomach is extremely noticeable.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 08:51 PM
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Eventually, I'd like to look into getting another surgery to fix it, but for now I'm stuck with this massive insecurity. But trust me, it's bad enough that no amount of lifting or reduction in BF% will make it look better.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 08:44 PM
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I'm wondering if I should explain to my LTR why I don't take my shirt off in front of her. I feel like it's a lose-lose-lose either way: I say fuck it and start taking my shirt off in front of her. She inevitably loses all attraction because it's that ugly. I explain to her why I'm insecure. Kills frame, shows weakness. She inevitably loses all attraction. I keep doing what I'm doing and don't say shit. She continues to smell the insecurity. She inevitably loses all attraction.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 08:42 PM
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So what are your thoughts on the red flags?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 01:37 PM
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I get what you’re saying, but the definition of lying is not subjective. Just because a girl doesn’t believe she’s lying, doesn’t mean she’s not lying.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 10:25 PM
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Wow, thanks for ruining my night. I’m fat.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 10:19 PM
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When you’re right, you’re not wrong. About to measure now. Thanks.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:43 PM
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Is physical attractiveness not both subjective and important? She takes care of her body and is feminine. That one was actually blocked by the time I saw the message on Instagram (which had been sent about a month into us dating). I found it after she left her phone out a month or so ago.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:21 PM
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I have about 20 pounds to lose, but I’m happy and confident with how I look so I never cared about BF%
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:15 PM
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I’m not so much worried about one girl as I am about how I’m utilizing my time. Once I started lifting and losing weight, the game went to easy-mode real quick. I’m by no means a chad, but due to my social status and perceived value, girls do quite literally throw themselves at me. Clients, girls who were always “just friends”, random girls at the grocery store, the moms of my younger clients.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:14 PM
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Although there aren’t many red flags and they aren’t each THAT bad on their own, as a whole they seem to point to her being a slut. Ergo, she’s more likely to cheat. Which is fine because, other than wanting kids, I’d be perfectly fine alone and single again.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:06 PM
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She first said “under ten” and then changed it to “ten” That’s a lie, no?
/r/askTRP19/10/19 11:53 PM
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I’m genuinely curious, but what would have been the appropriate way to handled being lied to?
/r/askTRP19/10/19 08:24 PM
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I personally believe the context of the lie needs to be taken into account. (i.e. the 'because') She lied to me about her n-count BECAUSE she doesn't want me to think she's a slut. IMO, this is normal. I'm the prize and she'll do anything to stay and be a part of my life. It's almost flattering in a fucked up way. Lying about being at her friends house and really being out at a bar... different story. Lying about an active breach of our commitment to each other, texting another dude behind back,…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:48 PM
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catching her on the lie, and calling her on it (in this particular case) makes you seem jealous and insecure. Had I gotten mad and yelled at her, I would agree it could have been seen as jealous and insecure. I had every right to call her out on her shit, and I did so calmly and authoritatively. I then stuck to my word and denied her my time and attention, albeit for a short amount of time. Upon returning, I did not hold a grudge and have not spoken about it since. It was my choice to stay with …
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:10 PM
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