| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Girlfriend-coworker situation getting out of hand (a follow-up); unsure how to act | trp9141 | /r/askTRP | 24/10/14 05:45 AM | |
| 5 | Girlfriend-coworker situation. Last follow-up. | trp9141 | /r/askTRP | 07/11/14 07:18 AM | |
| 2 | Coworkers flirting with girlfriend | trp9141 | /r/askTRP | 23/10/14 03:44 AM | |
| 1 | Nick Returns | trp9141 | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 07:42 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Nick ReturnsI don't know why I keep seeking validation for obviously wrong courses of action. I think the lack of closure is what has been getting at me. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Nick ReturnsMan, that makes more sense the more I think about it. She was starting to act differently, be it something small like using different emoticons or asking me for opinions on her hair when she'd go out or wearing entirely different outfits and asking my opinion on those as well, or going to the mall to get new makeup... everything makes sense. That was all during those three weeks. Also would telling her I don't want to hear about him anymore at this point be a bad idea? Assuming the branch swing … | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Nick ReturnsShe's actually never directly called him anything but annoying, which was only yesterday. Only indirectly said things like she hates working with him or he reminds her just how much she likes me. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Nick ReturnsHis is higher. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Nick ReturnsPerhaps it has already played out then. Did you ever confront her about it? I kind of want to, but I realize there may just not be enough evidence. She isn't suspicious at all with her phone and lets me use it all the time, so it's unlikely they were communicating outside of the two or three times they worked together. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend-coworker situation. Last follow-up.Some might construe your approach as making it very apparent that I indeed give a fuck about and am bothered by this guy. As for the Instagram thing, it only concerns me seeing as she insists that she hates him yet allows him on her public online spaces and also makes a point to invade his. It's obvious she's being dishonest which raises its own concerns. Thanks for the red flags. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/14 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend-coworker situation. Last follow-up.You hit the nail on the head when you said that a guy won't flirt unless a gal lets him /r/relationships went absolutely insane with that line. It was an enlightening experience. Thank you for your advice. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/14 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend-coworker situation getting out of hand (a follow-up); unsure how to actWhat makes you say that? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/14 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend-coworker situation getting out of hand (a follow-up); unsure how to actHere's an update. She just said this: "Wait wait wait you didn't take that as I think you should be more like nick did you? Because please don't be like Nick I don't want to have to break up with you I like you too much" How do I pass this? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/14 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend-coworker situation getting out of hand (a follow-up); unsure how to actThank you very much for your help; I will refer to this post often. I'm actually living on-campus at my university while she's knocking out some generals at community college. She's 30 minutes away, so I drive down to hang out with her on the weekends. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/14 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend-coworker situation getting out of hand (a follow-up); unsure how to actWhat are you currently doing to improve your SMV? Lifting, focusing on school. Aside from spending time with your girlfriend, what else do you do with you life? Mainly school. A lot of studying. I also do a lot of programming in my spare time. I realize I could be doing better and I fear I may have to step up my game; I'm very sorry that happened to you and do not wish to meet the same fate. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/14 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Coworkers flirting with girlfriendWell she could always tell him to back off, or perhaps mention that she has a boyfriend. If she had already tried this I feel like she would've mentioned it. It's also unlikely that she'd tell me if she were responding positively to it anyway. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/14 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Coworkers flirting with girlfriendWe've already kind of talked about it. She said she's not trying to make me jealous or anything and instead just wants to be open and tell me about everything. I'd rather have that than finding out on my own and getting the wrong idea, yes? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/14 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Coworkers flirting with girlfriendThat's true, but I know that if I acted aloof and like I didn't care I know that she could also construe this as a lack of commitment or care for the relationship. Like a test to see if I'm willing to fight for her or something. That's what confuses me the most. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/14 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Coworkers flirting with girlfriendEh, you're right, he probably would get fired which isn't my intention. I still think it reflects poorly on me when guys are able to just blatantly hit on my girlfriend like that though. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/14 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Coworkers flirting with girlfriendThanks man. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/14 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Coworkers flirting with girlfriendEspecially if he isn't even flirting with me. Wait, how does this confirm the shit test? I'm new to all of this. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/14 05:58 AM |
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