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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 40 | INTJs - Conversations and Game | trp_1138 | /r/askTRP | 13/05/14 03:30 AM |
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| 1 | INTJs - Conversations and GamePurple squirrel is a term used by employme | /r/askTRP | 14/05/14 12:50 AM |
| 2 | INTJs - Conversations and GameI hear what you are saying. And yes, the universal truths still apply. What I was looking for was for other INTJs to explain those truths to me in a way I can understand. Then I went back and tried to apply their advice to general redpill theory so that everyone could benefit. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/14 05:06 PM |
| 1 | INTJs - Conversations and GameThis is pure gold! You hit the nail on the head. I trip myself up constantly with overthinking things. Onward and damn the torpedos! | /r/askTRP | 13/05/14 02:38 PM |
| 3 | INTJs - Conversations and GameYes, lack of feedback. Lack of feedback plus being outcome dependent is what's tripping me up. Using humor and going more physical is a great strategy. I hear what you're saying about external validation, but I don't think it is bad in this instance. We are social animals and I think that the validation is an important part of the interaction. The give-and-take is what makes it rewarding for me. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/14 12:44 PM |
| 5 | INTJs - Conversations and GameGreat perspective. This actually gives me a whole new direction. And coincidentally it ties in with the powertalk thread going on. Rather than trying to converse solely verbally, if I put my attention on the nonverbal communications, this will make the verbal part much less critical. Making it easier to let go of the expectations of quality. Yes I am too cerebral for my own good. Edit: Thinking more about the points you raised, I can see that a large part of what is tripping me up are my expecta… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/14 05:27 AM |
| 3 | INTJs - Conversations and GameWow, thanks for the well thought out response! It's funny, I've actually used similar analogy questions in the past. Must remember to bring those back in to the conversation. If I've known them for a while, I'll do the "How are you doing?" wait for her to respond, then "How are you doing, really?" which can often lead to a deeper level of intimacy. And you're absolutely right. I should just move on. However, I am also trying to see if there is some fundamental flaw in my approach. And as you poi… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/14 05:07 AM |
| 4 | Well, I most likely have herpes. I might be overacting but this feels like a total game changer.Honestly, the worst thing about herpes is the social stigma. It's just a skin condition. Nationally, almost 20% have it, and of those, 80% of those are unaware that they have it. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/14 07:53 PM |
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