trp_acct Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Every once in a while I fall for a 9/10 and its really annoying If she's dating you, then clearly you're doing fine. Just treat her like any other girl, otherwise you're putting her on a pedestal. Remember, you can end things with her just as easily as she can with you, she has no power over you. Don't treat her like she does just because she's hot.	/r/askTRP	10/11/18 08:44 PM
1	Experimental Rating System That's because you just gave two weighed personality twice. Nobody actually double counts personality, energy and attitude are a false dichotomy. Being fun to be around (and correctly behaved in situations where being fun might not be the right thing), is the only personality attribute. Should be ((Face/10 + body/10)/2 + personality)/2. Which means, personality is only half the battle. Lifting is a quarter of the battle, and your face which you can slightly influence is a quarter of the battle. …	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/17 07:36 AM
3	Oral completely demolishes dick game. Good or bad? Do you want a 5 minute blowjob? If it's good, enjoying it for 30 minutes is awesome. I have been complimented on my oral skills by multiple girls, and I enjoy out clean pussy. I can take my time and get her to first orgasm after 20 minutes, with a few more in rapid succession. Or, I can take her from 0 - orgasm in 5 minutes. They both have their place.	/r/askTRP	26/08/16 03:54 PM
2	Thoughts On The Sigma Male Dude. This thread is one of the shittiest I've ever seen on TRP. The comments are just a bunch of neck beards going "yeah bro, I'm totally a sigma too".	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/16 02:27 PM
1	Thoughts On The Sigma Male Alphas acting with people as an ends is not acting as an alpha, it's the imitation alphas from this sub. Alphas have always existed, and usually not with the goal of women but of success. This subreddit is mainly focused on being successful for the purpose of women, but that isn't necessary.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/16 04:43 AM
-1	Thoughts On The Sigma Male No. Sidebar definitions may be what they are, that doesn't mean there is room in the definitions. Either women are innately attracted to you, or they are not. People wanting there to be another definition are trying to put themselves there, because it is easier than going through the effort of becoming alpha. There is no sidestepping attraction.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/16 03:49 AM
-8	Thoughts On The Sigma Male No. Nice try though. Are you trying to create this sigma male as the one you identify as? It's not truly alpha or beta, as you're saying. There's a social hierarchy. Every girl builds up an ordering of the males she would most to least want to sleep with. Alphas are the ones at the top, and betas are the ones at the bottom. But it is a spectrum. There is no singular alpha, and no singular beta. To some women even the most alpha person will be a beta, and vice versa. There is no need for success …	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/16 03:03 AM
3	How important is smiling? Mixed results, it definitely seems to depend a lot on the person. Some people can smile their way through life, and others seem to have more success with less smiling faces. OK Cupid did research and found that smiling in profile pictures for men makes you less likely to receive a reply. Whereas every social engineering and body language book emphasize the need to smile in building rapport. If smiling is working for you, keep it going. If not, then don't. I don't think there's a one size fits al…	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 09:38 PM
8	How to stop caring about plates? Sex is better if you care. As long as they're still plates in your mind, them being emotionally attached isn't a bad thing. Caring is built in to you, I can't think of a way to actually stop caring about them. But, I also see no reason to stop caring.	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 05:30 PM
1	After 5 years I'm finally having double-jaw surgery I can't see your face, but it's possible your jaw is holding you back. But, it's not what's really holding you back. What's really holding you back is you blaming your life on your chin, instead of on yourself. Blaming something you have no control over is a cop out, the issue resides in your game more than anything else. I'm going to bet that you'll get the surgery, and you still won't be able to pick up chicks. At that point you can either find something else to blame, or claim the surgery did…	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 03:12 AM
1	Girl asked me to hold her purse at the club, did I do something wrong? No. She rejected you, at worst. But she's allowed to pick, just as much as you are. Or, you didn't even game her. In which case she's allowed to ask for a favor from someone she did a favor for. Either way, it's not disrespect to you as a man. If you don't think that a cigarette for a purse watching is a fair trade, then she was a bitch (in your view). But, nothing about it really has to do with TRP.	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 03:07 AM
3	Girl asked me to hold her purse at the club, did I do something wrong? You're overthinking this. Just enjoy yourself at the club, if you feel the cigarette is worth watching her purse, then watch her purse. If you don't, then don't watch it.	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 02:40 AM
2	I hate how easily I get emotionally invested Abundance is correct, but there's two parts of abundance. You seem to be missing the idea that losing someone you're emotionally invested in isn't actually a big deal. You can be emotionally invested and okay with everything going to shit at the same time. Maybe you need to date a few more girls, and get used to it failing. The girl I'm with right now could leave me, and I'd be fine the next day. It's hard to explain with words, but after you experience break ups enough times it stops impacting …	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 02:39 AM
3	Question about holding my frame/am I being immature? Not directly, but if/when she asks why you didn't show up to hang out or whatever. Just say something like "I asked if we were still on, and you didn't reply. So, I went and did X instead" That will let her know that if she doesn't spend time with you, it doesn't phase you. You have something else to do. Maybe next time, or the time after you can turn her down because you have other plans. But don't retaliate by backing out like she did, that's just a dick move.	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 02:33 AM
1	Gettin shit tested non stop If her comments are sexual, sounds like you need to escalate. If she escalates in turn, then close the deal. Otherwise, drop and dread.	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 02:08 AM
6	Question about holding my frame/am I being immature? Chill. If you come off over invested this will never work. Read the messages, reply if they are worth replying to, and carry on with your day. Don't go hang out with her tomorrow, make other plans. Even if she confirms, tell her that you can't because you have other plans. Make her see your time is valuable, because she clearly doesn't value it. But, you do need to work on not just coming off over invested and actually being less invested. Find some hobbies, some other girls to spend time with, …	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 02:06 AM
6	Either im an outgoing asshole or a kind quiet guy. im like afraid to let it out. You're not a narcissist. You're a beta. You're hamstering your way through life, "oh I'd be so successful if only I could be in my comfort zone" etc. Truth is, acting normal and being comfortable around girls or other social situations takes work. You aren't afraid of what will happen, you know you can't just hop into it. It's scary to expose yourself, it's hard to be that comfortable, and you're worried that you might still suck with girls even if you act as your true self. My advice for you, d…	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 02:02 AM
1	Big argument over my girlfriend not getting her way. Staying non-reactive. This sub is for getting better, the more you learn the better you get. Keep on the path, and don't let the anger phase get you down. You'll get through it eventually, and one day you can laugh at this.	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/16 11:19 PM
1	I Can't Date Girls Who Have Sexual History I don't know what age range you work in, but from experience I've had girls who are virgins or even me being their first serious relationship from 16-23. I'm 23 now, and I still know quite a few who are virgins. Don't expect to find virgins at clubs or bars, you gotta look elsewhere. If you're in college, campus groups are a great place to start. Otherwise, I'm not sure yet, haven't gotten into life off campus yet.	/r/askTRP	03/08/16 10:48 PM
5	I Can't Date Girls Who Have Sexual History There's two types of girls, those that are pump and dumps and those that are worth your time. You get to choose who these girls are. Feminists of this world will love to tell you that their history shouldn't matter to you etc. etc. Truth is, history matters to a lot of people. Myself included. And, if you are following TRP, how much it matters and what you accept gets to be entirely up to you. You get to set your own standards, and don't have to settle. Hot girls with history are a pump and dump…	/r/askTRP	03/08/16 08:28 PM
2	Have I gone too far with ignoring her and being too "rational"? So, you had a perfect relationship. That you were happy with, and she was okay with. You chose to meddle with it for no reason, and now these people here are gonna blame some random guy she met at music camp. You followed advice on the Internet, that isn't guaranteed to always work. You found a girl it didn't work on, and might have fucked it up permanently. Odds are that in 18 days she didn't find some new guy, instead she just grew distant from you emotionally. Just rebuild your connection and…	/r/askTRP	03/08/16 03:44 PM
2	College intellectuals who can pull? They exist. Found in most college town's bars and surrounding areas.	/r/askTRP	03/08/16 01:09 AM
2	"LTR" left for a month Sounds like you're starting to get oneitis. You chose to not be exclusive, so go deal with the implications of that, backpedaling on that is not something you can do. Go pick up and fuck chicks for the summer, might as well enjoy the other side of not being exclusive. Otherwise, why even ask to be exclusive?	/r/askTRP	03/08/16 01:08 AM
4	I am a Red Pilled person held back because of looks. What to do before my surgery? Go after her anyways? Don't get oneitis for a girl you haven't even fucked yet. She might not even stick around for a year. Don't let your looks stop you, use it to your advantage. If you can pick up chicks while ugly, you can pick up any girl you want while attractive.	/r/askTRP	03/08/16 01:05 AM
41	Big argument over my girlfriend not getting her way. Staying non-reactive. This is a complete shit post. You said you'd take her to get food, and then just decided you wouldn't, without giving her the option to get food along the way? I'd be pissed if you did that to me too. Sure, it's ridiculous to be angry about it. But if I was with my friend, and he just randomly pulled this on me I'd be pissed; I think most people would. You're remaining non-reactive bullshit alpha move is just that. It didn't get you real results, it got you a long argument and your girlfriend to…	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/16 12:58 AM
12	Is my friend an alpha? The alpha is the one that gets the most sexual attention of the women around him. Full stop. In TRP, we try and reach the set of attributes that are most likely to get us this attention. But, these attributes are not the only ones that work. An alpha can be someone that just has lots of confidence and is fun to be around just as easily as being the strongest guy in the room. If your friend chooses to go after fat chicks, then that's his choice. The alpha gets first choice, but his first choice c…	/r/askTRP	02/08/16 06:01 AM
9	What are some LTR green flags? Offers to split bill Able to hold a conversation Doesn't get offended about gender differences related to genetics	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 07:08 AM