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Blue Pill Exampletrpbox/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 08:25 PM
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Red Pill Theorytrpbox/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:54 AM
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Red Pill Theorytrpbox/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:25 AM
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Blue Pill Exampletrpbox/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 10:52 PM
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That was pretty much a flawless execution of a couple things. Pressure flip instead of trying to appease her by agreeing about your haircut By overdoing it you showed outcome independence (what kind of a guy calls a girl fat if they're trying to get laid, right?) By walking out instead of volunteering to listen to her you showed that you value your time and probably have better things to do. You don't have to be "mean" to use the above principles, but if you're able to keep applying them you wil…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 09:07 PM
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Whachu gonna do about it Its a really hard one, and I think that's because the dynamic changes the longer you let it go on. If you let her punch you (fake or not) once or twice you can probably do just fine by aggressively tickling her / grabbing her side. I'd expect her to stop after that because she has seen how you resolve it. When it gets to OPs situation, I think if you're in a position where walking is easy (from a bar for example) and doesn't cost you anything, you should calmly say somet…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 09:12 AM
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Of course they're all passable, with the caveat that passing doesn't have to mean she'll stay in. "We're having a girls night out yada yada" "Oh great there's this club I've been waiting to go check out, have fun with your girls" Result 1: Your SMV is high enough to where this counts for dread on your part and she wants to cancel her plans to go with you. This shouldn't really be the goal, though, you can't be so insecure that you need to be around her at all times Result 2: You both go out sepa…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:01 PM
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As of now I don't want children - justifying it used to be very difficult until I realized that your contribution to the genetic lineage is halved every generation, which takes away from that being your "purpose" in life.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 08:53 PM
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Potentially useful tip: Psychiatrists generally don't consider an addict fully "cured" if the addiction is merely swapped for another one. However, doing the swap is incredibly easy! While you might not be "cured", you can immediately begin mitigating or removing the negative aspects the original activity. This can be a useful tool for committing to going cold turkey in the original activity, and avoiding relapsing because of the empty time on your hands. Note: in my personal experience the "met…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 03:41 AM
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Takeaway: asking for them to elaborate in this kind of a situation never ends well. When you're about to go "??", that's your opportunity to choose between stepping into their frame, or going with A&A / silence. Edit: After her response there would've been another (slimmer) chance to turn things around, with something like.. "Oh you got the wrong idea, see people always think NSF stands for <something stupid and sexual>".
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 02:16 AM
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OP: There is a lot for you to learn in your own post, it's good analysis but there are some things in there that you didn't mention, and aren't going to be fun to think about, but you seem smart enough to apply what you'll find here. You already know that in this specific instance, you were mate guarding, but corrected yourself. Make sure you're mindful of it 24/7, and don't get inebriated enough to where feels kick in. Your girlfriend denying you a kiss in front of a guy speaks quite a bit abou…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 02:12 AM
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How people in general think an FWB relationship works: two really good friends who have sex because it's fun How TRP (more accurately) describes it: A guy who only has a limited sexual interest in a girl, and the girl who keeps fucking the higher SMV guy in hopes of locking him down for an LTR. Of course there's a bit of variation, but some form of the latter is the only sustainable strategy for the man.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 07:26 PM
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Yeah, zero sexual tone whatsoever. Bet she didn't get back to you because she has been too busy gasming at the idea of polishing up those lecture notes.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 06:20 PM
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What's with the need for all this online conversation? "Usually they happily agree" - you made plans to have them com e over, now all you have to do is wait. Save texting for logistics, you don't need to know about their day, they have friends to blab about mundane shit to. You're in college, you're putting way too much effort into building some sorts of relationships when all you want to do is bone. After you have sex with a girl, THEY will be the one to initiate contact if they want more, you …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 06:13 PM
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Ugh, either N or S the same point stands (she thinks cuddling has some value to OP.)
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 11:49 PM
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N was telling you that you missed out on cuddling S? Don't overestimate how much of a Chad they see you as.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 08:26 PM
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Her: Hahaha I don't usually just give my number out like that. But sure, why not? Lol it's (number) The cuteness of this bit of ASD made me tear up
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 03:57 PM
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I agree, but I think it will take quite a long time before the society swallows even half a pill. While feminists can say that they are fighting for freedom or equality, a positive cause, we do not have a cause - the red pill is not the men's rights movement. The feminism that's thrown at you daily does not overtly communicate anything regarding sexual strategy, but it's quite interesting (or ingenious) how it still bleeds over into social interaction. What I mean is that many things such as wor…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 07:14 PM
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Use the summer wisely gentlemen.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 05:08 AM
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One of the hardest things to internalize about the pill is that any girl, will do anything for the right guy. Right guy often being a shredded, dominant dark triad type of a guy who won't give any attention unless it's in exchange for exactly what he wants and nothing less. It's hard to become that guy.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 01:07 AM
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Sure, you can talk about interactions being give and take on a very general level, but mention anything about sexual strategy and you will be burned.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 05:55 PM
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I wonder if DNA testing would be able conclusively to determine the father between the two? If not, this is some next level perfect crime shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 05:10 AM
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I dream of a day when I can just sit outside in the sun with a couple of beers and read RP-minded sexual assault themed articles in main stream news. Not sure if it's going to be during my youth, though.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 05:08 AM
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The male imperative can be viewed as just slimy and fucked up as the female one. Fuck as many of the hottest women possible and invest as little as possible into each of them... But it is time that is finite for both men AND women, a woman getting pumped and dumped loses much less (nothing, really) than a BB who spends years of his life.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 04:11 AM
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Being more or less new to the sub, /r/thanktrp will probably have stories you'll enjoy reading
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 03:37 AM
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Hard to say when I wasn't there, but the ways a guy goes about this kind of a thing in public can be pretty much split into two scenarios: The woman is teasing you, sticks her ass out, says "Why don't you sl-" (slap happens), and the guy takes his pool turn. Off the chart tingles for reading cues and not turning it into an event. The woman has to egg you on and enough time (seconds) passes to where the woman feels like everyone is watching, and you'll get beta-shamed for going through. Sounds li…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 02:42 AM
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Even if a guy has told you you're a 10, don't rule out the possibility that it's flattery to get in ya pants. The only time a guy will tell you you're a 10 is to get in your pants, and only the clueless ones will try that. Over at TRP it's generally acknowledged that the girls just above average have the most inflated view of their beauty and the most stuck up attitudes, because guys find them attractive, but not to the extent where they'd be too intimidated to approach or show interest. A bit p…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 11:54 PM
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There's ethical questions regarding the male alternative as well, but it's a bit different. When people donate to a guy who is streaming, the shoutout or acknowledgement is the end game (or very close) - there is no wishfulness about having the girl fall in love and living happily ever after.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 01:35 AM
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women are deeply emotionally connected to their age, if you haven't noticed this already without the video, but even makeup costumes are enough to set that connection on fire and cause her to cry, I bet she reexamined herself in the mirror for an hour after the makeup has gone off. "Oh no, I can already see X"
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 10:18 PM
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There's been too many topics recently that (sometimes unknowingly) try to tl;dr the sidebar...
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 09:47 PM
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Oh jesus, look at the "Guardian's Pick" comment by mikiencolor under the article. It's unfortunate that these BP guys think that masculinity only has a purpose in manual labor and sports, might as well donate his balls to science...
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 04:12 PM
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Overview from the Amazon page: Young men are failing as never before - academically, socially and sexually. But why is this so? What are the implications? And what needs to be done about it before it's too late? Philip Zimbardo and co-writer Nikita Coulombe examine the modern meltdown of manhood and how this is manifest in the lives of young men today. They consider such factors as absent fathers, and legislation favouring women, which contribute to many men lacking social skills and direction i…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 01:19 AM
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Hard to say without having been there, but it sounds like you didn't make her comfortable enough, and instead skipped steps in escalation. Next time try being more playful, so she can get used to being physically close with you, kiss your way from the neck to the tits etc, make consistent progress. I'm exaggerating but this seems like you basically laid next to each other and then you went "Ok, if it's cool I'm going to put my hand in your vagina" instead of showing desire.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 08:34 PM
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Holy shit, the time whore concept straight out of the horse's mouth. Also, it's worthwhile noting that while the "girls like a challenge" is at least partially true, on the flip side we have that most "nice guys" are not that attractive or high value in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 07:23 PM
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Despite all the fuck ups I have made I for some reason have this small sense of false hope I think that I could still end up fucking her and getting her to chase me. Despite showing some change in behavior, she's still the one in control here, and all she wants from you right now is to know that you still want her. This is your typical daddy issues, abusive cheating ex boyfriend type of girl who is really fucked up. Judging by your own description, she should be completely fucking worthless to y…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 05:35 AM
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Most of the things debated here don't belong under "slut hate".
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 03:01 AM
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You are lucky to have found the place at such a young age, and realistically speaking with minimal damage done. If you start internalizing the material quickly, it won't take long before she will do anything to get you back. Your job is to not let that happen, it's up to you if you want to be fuckbuddies or whatever, but she has proven that she's not LTR material.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 02:58 AM
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If /r/theredpill does get shut down, will puerarchy provide a similar forum for discussion? Right now I can't find anything like that on the page...
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:02 AM
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Man, one of the best things that has come out of being on the pill for a while is that I don't feel even remotely sorry for the people who choose to live in their dream world.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:10 PM
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Great post, I've been struggling to (concisely) put into words many of the things you mentioned above.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:05 AM
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I've seen a lot of similar cases, e.g. girls making fun of shirtless guys on Tinder, proceeding to swipe right and initiate conversation. In general you will be shit tested for any type of self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 02:59 AM
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If you go to a big college you'll know it didn't start on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 09:09 PM
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I think many people here can attest to being showered with "You've changed so much" or "You have become such an asshole" by girls who knew them in their BP days. For me this has always been followed by sex or a more sexual frame with displays of real interest in my life and what I'm doing etc.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 12:16 AM
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I see, thanks for correcting.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 02:48 AM
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In what world are max payments only $500 a month? From what I gather a judge will have a lot of influence on it...
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 02:30 AM
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There's nothing about hating women in it. People on this sub wouldn't be here if they hated women.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 06:06 PM
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Care to point out the misogyny?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:43 PM
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Expect to be frustrated about that realization for the next few months.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:24 PM
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Make that the last time you talk about your feelings to a woman you're interested in - after you're properly unplugged you'll learn to word things better. For example, if she did something that pleased you, you can tell her "good job" or "keep it up" etc. On the opposite end, you're not allowed to get sad (do not let her have this level of influence on you), only disappointed in her (or angry, but in a calm deliberate manner rather than losing frame by screaming like a child). When she rejected …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:17 PM
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Intellectual awareness of your own emotions is huge. For example, one time I recognized that I was hamstering because of dread, I just chuckled and moved on with my day.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:57 PM
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Meh it's a bit hard but you should try to enforce a strict schedule when with someone like her, e.g. tell her you can only hang out until 8 because you're going to the gym or w/e, keep things physical until 8 and then tell her it's time to go. That way she'll most likely start blowing up your phone with the questions instead, and there you can just ignore her after you've said what you need to.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:53 PM
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I could tell even the sex was different, she was talking more, she even complimented my beard (Which I know from past discussions she HATES MY BEARD). When it comes to girls saying they like or dislike something, expect it to be entirely dependent on their current state of mind. If you pay attention, with the amount of time you're spending with her you might notice she will contradict herself a shitload. Also, when it comes to facial hair a girl telling you to shave it is a standard shit test (i…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:21 AM
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Wow, nice catch. The worst part is I can imagine that happening in a conversation between her and her female coworker who was raped - coworker: <cries, talks about being raped> her: He's a monster! I got screamed at and felt humiliated!
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 01:02 AM
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From the medium, I’ve had a colleague scream at me that everything good I ever had was given to me because I was a girl and that if were a boy, nobody would even know my name. He screamed it in public to humiliate me. The worst part was that, as I told him to go fuck himself and tried not to cry, I couldn’t prove to myself that what he said wasn’t true. Nor could I prove it to myself later, lying awake in bed. Wonder why.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:22 PM
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I went there to look around, and while their strategy is essentially the opposite of ours, I'm very happy about the type of LTR discussion that's going on in there. Lots of women putting thought into how they interact with their partners, catching themselves before throwing a tantrum over something retarded, etc.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:21 PM
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Holy shit, you need the side bar bad. shes an amazing person she stays the night and sleeps in her clothes, next day we go to the lake for an amazing date, anyways it just feels like the natural thing to start a relationship even tho i dont know her well, her answer is maybe, not right now, to being my g/f i read an article which was awesome about how to make her my g/f basically im being a lil clingy so ive stopped that Yes you are, jesus you fucked a woman, doesn't mean you need to commit to h…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:16 PM
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Fortunately enough many of the comments are actually refuting the idea that sucking a dick to keep a job turns you into a rape victim. This is ridiculous. I'm "economically" coerced into working every day (i.e. if I don't work, my employer will stop paying me and fire me), but that's completely distinct from slavery, which is work forced using physical coercion (or threats of physical coercion), and is illegal. What you're describing is essentially prostitution. While illegal in some jurisdictio…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:11 PM
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You guys will appreciate these: ("I only hang out with guys") http://cdn.funnymemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/funny-memes-girls-who-hang-out-with-guys.jpg http://guysgirl.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/ScreenHunter_22-Jun.-03-19.26.jpg http://33.media.tumblr.com/5971c108c12a70a49e58b845c53a2902/tumblr_nf9i3euMER1u411zxo1_500.png http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-lNF_iy7AFes/VCO68h8HK0I/AAAAAAAALXg/kVv1uzTGZFE/s1600/I-Only-Hang-Out-With-Guys-Because-Its-Less-Drama-Funny-Slut-Meme.jpg http://img.ifcd…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 06:44 AM
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Don't contact her again, if you have any friends in common wait a few weeks to delete her from social media, you don't want her saying shit to other girls about how you deleted her in response to her not coming out (when in reality you just want to erase her which is fine, but hard to explain to people outside of TRP)
/r/askTRP09/03/15 06:41 AM
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Don't compliment (more below). As far as negging goes, I've found that the easiest way to do it is to neg her actions (don't try to neg her appearance or anything that's a "part of her", won't work unless you're significantly higher SMV). For example, if she's being clumsy, call her out. Or if she did something that was only marginally rude ("wow dick move", "you're such a sweet girl", etc depending on the situation and who you're talking to). Don't compliment her, so no telling her she's pretty…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 06:31 AM
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Seems like you passed. There's a lot of people in this thread making a massive deal out of this, it really isn't, and sex isn't a serious thing in general. If you had full on come in her mouth, the only right reaction would have been to go "oh shit (sorry)" while chuckling, she'll make a pouty face and call you an asshole, life goes on. Otherwise you would confirm that having you come in her mouth would absolutely be a terrible fate, and that it was a negative experience. And if she threw you ou…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 06:22 AM
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Keep doing what you were doing as far as getting in shape goes. Keeping a conversation with women boils down to spending up to 20 words to get them to talk about themselves. They fucking love to do it, and will go on forever. All you'll need to do is nod, "oh really?", "that is so interesting", "how'd you get into that" - most guys would recognize that as you being a sarcastic asshole, but doing that to someone who thinks they are interesting and unique (aheem) works just fine.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:54 AM
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Dread is only passive aggressive when done in a clumsy manner ("I'm gonna go hang out with another woman now!"). Most of the effects of dread come from her hamstering, not what you told her. For example, going to the gym is a (low level) type of dread - she will think about a) You're getting into better shape because you want hotter women b) Hotter women will find you attractive because you're getting into shape c) You might meet someone at the gym There is one way to talk about it, which is tha…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:46 AM
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Absolutely, this is just blatant, you'd think a biochemistry professor has enough of a brain to not expose himself and his employer like this.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:39 AM
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I mention that because I am looking for advice on how to always stand my ground when she tries to take control over me/put her emotions on me. If there's a clear case of her trying to get BB out of you, or if she wants to cry on you about some stupid shit, maintain frame and go in with "I don't know if you're used to guys who <buy you shit all the time / listen to your woes for hours>, but I..."
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:27 AM
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Dude. How about you lead by example and tell him bits and pieces as if you knew them from experience and being a man, instead of saying he should consult the internet over his father? (I assumed by breaking the first rule you meant actually talking about the red pill, the society lying etc)
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:59 AM
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Thanks for the write-up. I suspected it would involve withdrawing attention, works wonders
/r/askTRP27/02/15 04:40 AM
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Now, it's gotten to the point where she gives "soft no's" here and there and is generally not as eager to please as she used to be. I have dealt with this. The very first time she even tried to give me a soft no, I fucking stamped that out hard. She was begging to repent via my cock the morning after. How did you go about this?
/r/askTRP27/02/15 01:36 AM
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I said there is a lot of rock and metal that doesn't talk about women
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 01:16 AM
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Tears don't fall is close to the polar opposite of what you'd consider TRP music, consider the emotional investment in a woman that the lyrics describe. I'd say "TRP music" either doesn't include women (a lot of rock and metal), or does but not in the BP manner of current pop music (compare it to what D12 has to say about women, for example).
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 01:08 AM
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Moral of the story: don't ever be afraid to draw a line. Don't be afraid of letting the women in your life just how easily you can walk away if they behave in a manner you do not accept. I think this is one of the many TRP points that doesn't only apply to sexual strategy, people fall in line fairly quickly when they understand that you will not give in about something.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 11:58 PM
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You can lean pretty heavily on "women will rather share an alpha than settle for a beta" or w/e wording you like, so if she's this interested in you I don't think you need to be concerned about her dropping even if you don't show more commitment
/r/askTRP18/02/15 11:52 PM
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I've said the "L" word to her before but I don't quite 100% know, and don't like saying it if I'm unsure. How can I mitigate a situation like this, where she's calling unto question alpha status about doing something beta (saying I love you)? A fundamental TRP concept is that there is no such thing as "true love". Men seek the similar unconditional love and affirmation they received from their mother (you will not get this from anyone else, though), and women only love the way you make them feel…
/r/askTRP18/02/15 11:27 PM
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I agree it'd be weak asking directly like that, what usually goes down is something like "Where are you from?" "Hmm how do I know I can trust you, you seem like trouble" etc
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:50 PM
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Nah, I try to lead them away from it quickly to not lay everything out at once, but I want to make the most out of giving the information Edit: This is college, these girls think anything outside their state is exotic which I know is silly but I don't mind
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:47 PM
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Not being AMOGed, they dont dominate the conversation and I'm often visibly higher SMV. It's just this one detail that I'd want to go differently. I do introduce myself, but obviously I can't go out of my way not to be introduced by others.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 09:00 PM
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When I said it's a problem I meant it's not the ideal situation.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 08:57 PM
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Are you blind? There are probably more than a few threads a week reminding people to lift, and everyone knows it's important.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 11:10 PM
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Do nothing, at this point you need to be outcome independent and not catch oneitis. How do I recover Recover from what? Her not flooding your phone...?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 05:45 PM
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About a year ago I switched to mostly drinking water (talking about general daily consumption, not going for drinks etc), and it only took a few weeks to see some serious changes. The craving for something else you might've been used to, like soda (diet or not) will go away fast. It feels good to have something so fundamental where you simply don't care for anything else.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 03:04 AM
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I don't see why you think I see it as a huge problem, I just came here for good ideas, not every asktrp question needs to be on nuclear scale man
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