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Correct. His wife looks at the other women he's fucking as lower value than her, and the men she fucks as higher value than him. She gets to fuck up, while he fucks down. Edit: How can this be tested? Go an extended period of time ONLY having sex with women hotter than your wife and watch her freak the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 06:40 PM
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Ignore those.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 10:14 PM
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Lol I’ve been telling my brainwashed Jesus freak buddy this for years. Seems pretty obvious to me...
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 08:24 PM
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Can you link a post covering breaking rapport? Not sure what that is exactly.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 08:04 PM
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Default feminine abundance and the phenomena of Alpha Widowhood are in direct conflict. If women were truly abundant, they would be impervious to Alpha Widowhood. So one these is incorrect, or at least incomplete. I believe they have abundance mentality with regard to looking at average dudes as replaceable and insignificant. But when they attach high interest / high perceived value to one particular guy... I don't think their abundance is as prevalent as you claim. Which goes back to my origina…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:22 PM
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Right. I get that a dude that a girl barely likes is easily replaceable... But if she has a high interest level and you reject her... I don't see how that in effect closes the door on yourself... She's not going to have a comparable interest level for a dude online. Seems like it would have the opposite effect. Sends the message "I have more important shit going on/hotter girls to bang than you right now." Plus like I said she's very attractive, has very possibly never been rejected in her entir…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:42 PM
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Yeah I get this. But like I said I'm not going to reply. She's since double texted and I'm just not going to reply. I get that logically, replying = orbiting. I still think there's a way to turn the tables but at this point I don't think there's any combination of words I can say over text that will aid the cause.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:41 PM
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You may be right. I still think blocking is extreme. She texted me again just now another long bullshit text about how miserable she is without me blah blah blah. I'm just going to ignore.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:38 AM
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This is the plan.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:22 AM
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I've fucked her hundreds of times. We dated for basically a year, exclusive for maybe 6 months or so. I completely agree with you and your line of thinking.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:20 AM
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because she asked if she could come to my house? To which I said no.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:19 AM
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It wasn't and I don't. Totally amicable. Just said take care and started banging new girls.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:18 AM
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hahaha
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:37 AM
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Yeah I pretty much agree. I'm not gonna reply to her though. I know for this to work it's gotta pretty much get to the point where she just shows up at my place and begs for my dick on the front porch.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:44 PM
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My first ex, the one that sent me here, I blocked immediately on text. Then she started emailing me. After I blocked her there she started hitting me up on twitter, until she eventually tracked me down in person just to tell me to fuck off. True story. I'd definitely like to develop the skills to use this insanity against them instead of just cutting and running when shit goes south. However, I completely accept the possibility that I may be deluding myself.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:17 PM
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Is there any universe in which I end up pumping and dumping or plating her? That's essentially the question.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:08 PM
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Fine. Educate me. Way I see it blocking is just a huge badge of validation for them that they carry around as proof of their lasting and permanent effect on your psyche.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:42 PM
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Meditation.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:55 PM
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Go to therapy. 1 on 1 talk therapy. I had a shitty childhood as well. No dad. After going once a week for about a month now I already feel better and more complete as a person. Try to get a male therapist if you can, but mine is a mid-thirties black woman who I personally think is a genius and so far it's going very well.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:25 PM
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Is there any reading you could link to regarding this? Totally agree that being too available/agreeable is a death sentence.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 03:32 AM
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Yeah, I'm 24. Daily pot smoker in high school but haven't gotten high in years. Mental clarity is much better now.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/18 01:45 AM
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You're not hers, it's just her turn. Provided OP has the balls not to be swayed by any of her antics about getting back together... just for her to turn around and dump him.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:00 PM
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I think because of how badly I got burned the first time around I really don't want to go through that again. But I see how the terminology is dumb.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:27 AM
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The point of this post was because of my own disappointment in my actions. I agree that it was a beta bitch butthurt response. I just want to make all the correct moves for myself going forward.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:11 AM
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I do want children, no more than two, though. I do not want children soon. Not until I'm at LEAST 30. She would be yes, but so would many others out there I'm sure. She was definitely just jealous and insecure that I seemed to be moving on more quickly and efficiently than she was. All of this is irrelevant if she never contacts me again, because I will 100% never contact her again no matter what unless she initiates. I believe she will contact me though... But I don't want to get strung along o…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:50 PM
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same
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:24 PM
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Bro I appreciate this so much. Yeah, it hurts. And I have the tendencies for all of that stagnation and mental masterbation. The distance however helps a lot. She's 4 hours away by car. Will literally never see/hear from her again. And I went through all the "no contact" and bullshit texting breadcrumbs with the first ex (the one who led me here). Which I didn't handle correctly (IGNORE) because I hadn't taken the pill yet. But now I have. I am in INFINITELY better shape (mentally, physically, e…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 01:04 PM
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Yeah I get that. I'm afraid of messing up, which I think is understandable considering the dark place that a lot of us came from before swallowing the pill, but ultimately unhelpful. I'll work on being more sure of myself, thanks.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:37 PM
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Stopppp. Ignore and look elsewhere. Plenty of us have lived with shitty roommates. That's all she is now. Enough bro.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:08 AM
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Yeah. After the break-up that led me here, mastering this shit has become a bit of an obsession. Great advice thanks, will do.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:42 AM
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The formal is a date. Invite her on the formal. "My formal is xyz, you should come." If she says anything other than "Okay great!" Ignore and take the first girl. Once of the formal, isolate, escalate, bang.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:25 AM
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Lol I never knew escorts were so health conscious. Maybe I really ought to try 'em.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:50 PM
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Many, yes, but not as many as an escort. Come on bro.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:28 PM
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Jesus Christ this seems like so much work. If it works for you, great. It just seems like lifting and learning game is a much healthier route than scouring the internet for women that have literally been with hundreds (thousands?) of men.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:12 PM
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Bingo. One of her lower-tier plates as well. The guy she thinks of when Chad's busy Chadding
/r/askTRP20/02/18 06:02 PM
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The lion does not concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 09:46 PM
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Just did this to my ex last weekend. She came up to me, smacked me on the chest/neck area and called me a piece of shit. Eye contact, stone face, side stepped her and went on my way. Only way to do it.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 09:45 PM
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Ignore the other girls if they say anything about it. None of their business. In the future don't let some skank mark you up like that. Edit: I suppose you could agree and amplify as well. Her "omg you let a girl do that to do?! Gross!" You "Haha yeah I couldn't get her off me"
/r/askTRP05/01/18 09:40 PM
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Yes. That shows that your frame is weak. If your frame was strong she would not be on your mind. Block, delete, ghost.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:10 PM
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Don't be dramatic about it. Just do other things and hang with other people. No big deal.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:05 PM
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traitor* If it bothers you just cut him off. A good buddy would know this crosses the line. There's hundreds of other places he could have moved in to. He was probably thirsting over your girl while you were together and now thinks this is his chance.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:00 PM
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Jesus fuck bro. Edit: Lol. Just don't ever talk to this girl ever again. Ever. Again.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 09:55 PM
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"It's totally okay to let people walk all over you! Take the shitburger sandwich your 'friends' are offering you and eat it with a smile on your face!" Fuck that noise. Cuck city shit post.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 09:47 PM
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Shit post. Gtfo social media.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 06:35 PM
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Here's the winning comment. Follow this shit exactly OP.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 05:58 PM
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It is a possibility in literally every scenario, always. Ignore her completely and put your energy towards porking new girls. Happy 2018.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 02:14 AM
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Bingo.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:23 AM
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Put down your computer and go workout.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:18 AM
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Lol. I hope for your sake you haven't read the sidebar twice. Because if you actually have and are still asking these questions, you're a fucking retard. Edit: "Former" oneitis but you made a askTRP post devoted to her? Come on bro, who are you kidding.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:15 AM
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Rogan's kind of cuck-ish. He had two feminist yentas on his show that wrote some anti-dude book a few months and totally kissed their asses. Hopefully he lets you on the show but his head's gonna explode when y'all get in to it. Adam Carolla might be an easier place to start... He knows bitches. Just a thought.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 12:19 AM
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I'm 23 and do the exact same thing with increasingly better results. This has always been a hot topic on this sub but I agree with you, the less social media the better. It's not real. Go outside.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 11:58 PM
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For the Hebrews among us
/r/askTRP30/12/17 10:12 PM
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I bet you just aren't waiting long enough. You ignore her indefinitely and she'll hit you up. Guarantee it. Try it, some dread never hurt anyways.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 05:53 PM
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Yeah I agree. That's true regardless of whether she's trying to leach onto one new guy, or several. The inability to be alone remains. Edit: Spelling
/r/askTRP28/12/17 08:13 PM
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Regardless. Not really worth torturing yourself with this thought. Bottom line is thoughts of foreign dick(s) have been so prevalent in her mind that she's decided to take action (ask for a break). It's game over at that point, period.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 05:53 PM
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You da man. She will be back, 100%, so be prepared to ignore her for the rest of your life. One chance, per girl, per lifetime. She blew hers. On to the next one, brother. Great job.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 05:49 PM
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It's not free validation. Free validation is what the thots on insta/snapchat get. In this case, the girl is right there in front of you, making eye contact (IoI 1?) and perhaps some semblance of a conversation (IoI 2?). You clearly are just hamstering up a way to not get over your fear of cold approaching. Side bar is thataways --> Edit: Spelling
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:20 AM
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Explain this for the newbies. Why does break = done?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:12 PM
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Hell yeah we are. I think you're on the money with both of your comments.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:30 AM
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Ignore.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:30 AM
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"I will fuck you if you make alpha moves on me, but I will recoil in disgust if you make beta phaggot moves on me." Edit: Bro, she is telling you that you need to improve your kino and escalation skills. You are doing the initiating part correctly (making out) which is why she likes it. But obviously you are messing up somewhere between making out and getting her clothes off or whatever the next step should be. So figure out where the link in the chain is, fix it, and you'll be in that shit. But…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 10:27 PM
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Got a good chuckle out of this
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:33 AM
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Do not buy a gift. Ignore her over the holiday. Edit: Wtf is wrong with you?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:31 AM
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JFK was literally too Alpha to be left alive, and he was a renowned one-pump-chump type, low quality lover between the sheets. Still got to fuck the most beautiful women on the planet at the time. Eat her out if YOU want to. Do not if YOU do not want to. Your needs first. Doing it for her = Supplication = Beta.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:29 PM
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This was hard for me to learn at first. Weeks after discovering TRP I tried to turn a couple of my buddies on to it. Didn't work. It's exactly the "Can lead a horse to water" saying. When they come to me for help, I'll help. Until then, though, nothing I can do.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 06:56 PM
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Lol what? It's 30 years of easy and fun and great life. Post-Wall they're all miserable. Are you new here? Edit: Spelling
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 06:24 PM
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Not sure why this is getting down voted. Completely ignoring her or sending some type of "No" text is what would get her to like him the most. Edit: Not saying he should do that. Personally I would just next. But girls always get wet for you when you next them. That's how it works.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:49 PM
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I'm a lot younger than you so maybe I'm off base here but I would do my absolute best to ignore your ex AND mom for however long you need to scrape enough money together to get your own place. It sucks your mom isn't on your side, but as I'm sure you have noticed from this sub, you can only rely on yourself. Treat your room in your mom's house as exactly that, a room. Sleep, shower, eat, then get out and go on with your day. Hit the gym, take your kid out to parks and shit when you get home from…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 06:47 PM
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"anybody else but her" = oneitis
/r/askTRP14/11/17 06:32 PM
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You blew it when you kept replying to her snaps after the party. Don't do that shit next time. If you'd left that party and gone to plate's house to smash, would you have had had the time to reply to her snaps? No. Hit the side bar, lift, and make better decisions next time you get IOIs from a cute girl. General rule of thumb, if the thought "Should I next this girl?" ever pops up in your head... The answer is virtually always "Yes."
/r/askTRP14/11/17 04:16 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 03:12 PM
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Men don't.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 03:05 PM
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"My beta male hamster is rationalizing my beta oneitis as 'competition'" Edit: Spelling
/r/askTRP14/11/17 03:03 PM
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One chance, per girl, per lifetime. You are the prize bro, if she missed you the first time 'round that's it. Gg. On to the NEXT.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 03:01 PM
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If you've been on TRP for a year and are asking these types of questions, oh man. Dump her and GFTOW. Don't hamster a way to ignore our advice.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 02:55 PM
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That's withdrawal and will subside. Happens to everyone. Stop being a bitch.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:29 PM
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I've been paying my own bills for 5 years. Minus the phone bill, as mentioned above.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:18 PM
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She doesn't think there's anything wrong man. Once every few years she'll break down and cry and apologize and say she'll stop drinking, but that only lasts 24-48 hours or so and then it's back to the regularly scheduled programming. Edit: I should say, she knows that something is wrong but is not motivated to do anything about it. She has a new bf now after recently divorcing my step-dad - who's a real nice quality dude (beta) - and is still drinking a ton.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:47 PM
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This made my day.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:45 PM
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Respectfully disagree mate. But to each his own. They may deny it their whole lives but the girls know instagram is bullshit. Ex-LTR always put more work into her online profile when things weren't going well for her. When she was happy she posted less and cared less. We should be the same way. Unless each post literally translates into sex or money, STFU and focus on your mission. Is your mission to take a million selfies until you find the right lighting? I guess it is. Sounds pretty pathetic …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 04:24 PM
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I'm sorry but where is the advantage? Serious question: All else held equal (looks, grades, money etc.), does the kid with an active social media presence do better with women/in life than the quiet, stoic kid who hits the gym and eats right without posting flexing-in-the-mirror pics and food selfies? I think not. The former is an open book while the ladder is a mystery. Women (people in general I would argue) want to figure out the puzzle for themselves. Or am I missing something?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 03:14 PM
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This is a horribly cancerous post and should be removed. Social media is the single greatest contributor to the cultural and societal rot the West has been experiencing for the last decade plus. This post screams "Plug me back in! I just want my penthouse apartment and steaks every night!" Who gives a fuck what women and the beta cucks think about the pictures you take of yourself. Edit: If you are dependent on your social media game for status/women, much of the information you should have lear…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 02:17 PM
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I go to a big school in the South and it's a lot like Animal House... The US is a big place man, college life various regionally.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 08:44 PM
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American Beauty is a GREAT representation of the Beta to Alpha transformation in my opinion. Watch it because it's an excellent film, if nothing else.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 02:21 AM
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I have tremendous problems with this. Obviously plates/FWBs are nonexclusive but do you really want to be banging some sloot that's getting 4 way'd in a bar bathroom? Call it ONEitis but if I found out a plate/FWB was taking all KINDS of dick... that's a next. No?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 08:50 PM
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Thanks. Yeah her loss. And the HB5 I did manage to bang is actually a law student... I don't like dating within the law school though (shitting where you eat, you know?). Not to mention, there are maybe 10ish HB8+'s in the entire law school, compared to the endless supply of babes that frequent the bars here Wednesday - Saturday night. I am going to lay back on the drinking.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 09:40 PM
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I'm considering monk mode. Or maybe just limiting the amount of drinks I have when I go out so I can improve my sober game.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 07:45 PM
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