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How do you respond to it? I acted indifferent and cold
/r/askTRP06/08/17 11:27 AM
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To be honest, I'm not a big fan of crowded pubs
/r/askTRP08/07/17 09:38 PM
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That was exactly my question to her....
/r/askTRP31/12/16 12:40 AM
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I have met this friend of hers that is a girl.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 12:27 AM
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Whats the degree in?
/r/askTRP26/12/16 09:07 PM
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Exactly my point. If you have children, its even worse.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 11:42 PM
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Social media, text, snapchat, as far as I know. She suggested I meet one her exes because he is a great guy. I declined.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 12:19 AM
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I don't talk to her any more. Just trying to make sense out of a lot that happened.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 12:06 AM
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This behavior will probably never end. Even if there is nothing going on with the other guys, this doesn't sound like a relationship that he is happy in. Having to check up on someone, isn't a sign of a good relationship. This relationship doesn't sounds like its worth it. He should put his happiness first.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:40 AM
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That's exactly how I saw things going...
/r/askTRP05/07/16 01:59 AM
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I am glad you asked that question. I often ask myself that question, if not for closure, then at least to prevent something like this from happening again. Here is what I have come up with: Her parents were religious and she said they would not approve of us living together had we not married. I was aware of some of the problems in the relationship, but individually they hadn't become deal breakers On some level I thought marriage would fix the problems we have or that we could work at them as t…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 01:49 AM
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We lived together
/r/askTRP27/06/16 01:03 AM
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I agree with you. It's an experience that taught me a lot about relationships. Most importantly about self respect.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 12:21 AM
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I guess that remote possibility that things will change for the better and the uphill battle if we were to breakup is what keeps us in the relationship. When I broke up with her, she also guilted me by saying that I had given up on our relationship and that she has never given up on anyone she loved(I guess thats why she never stopped talking to her exes lol). Towards the end I was even embarrased to be associated with her. Most days I was exhausted working and taking care of things around the a…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 08:19 PM
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Exact same thing happened to me. Numerous fights about this stuff. She would always leave her phone face down. She swore they were just friends. She was like "Don't you trust me?! This is controlling to bring this stuff up." Broke up with her. To me a relationship should be about building something beautiful together. Not constantly dealing with crap like this.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 02:48 AM
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Why is it depressing?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 02:34 AM
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Really eh?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 02:34 AM
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They hung out a lot before she and I started dating. He makes out to be a player. I found it really odd and wondered if they were fwb. If he was telling her all this stuff, got me wondering what she was telling him about our relationship.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 09:17 PM
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As we were planning to get married I saw us a joint unit. However, i got the impression that she the joint unit as a means to do whatever she wanted.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 01:59 AM
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This was a tough one. I saw it as jointly benefiting us both. Helping her would ensure she doesn't get into more debt and can actually pay off debt. However, she didn't really stop her spending so she wasn't able to help out in anyway.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 01:58 AM
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I broke up with her. Every little thing added up and I had had enough. 1. Texting ex-boyfriends 2. Financially irresponsible 3. Lack of ambition to find a real job It came to the point where I couldn't say anything because she would pull the controlling card. I just had enough and asked her to leave. She still wanted to do 'counselling'
/r/askTRP30/05/16 08:05 PM
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The Christmas thing was broke the Camel's back. The not looking for a job/contributing to household expenses, calling me controlling for having a problem with her staying in touch with her exes, all were huge red flags. I felt I couldnt trust her and getting married would have been a bad idea. I wouldn't have minded dating her if we weren't living together. But marriage was definitely off the table.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 01:59 AM
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Yea I cut off contact with every one. She tried to get back in touch but I ignored it. It's tough because there is that small chance that things could have turned out differently.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 01:06 PM
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