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| 3 | I only attract women who have problems and it results in a toxic fallout every time. | Removed: Specific Situation | tru3boy | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:48 AM |
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| 63 | The harsh reality of dating multiple girls at once.It’s fun at first then you realize quickly after having a few women to choose from that it’s way too time consuming and you can’t realistically emotionally invest + waste of $$$ so you end up choosing your ideal girl and moving on | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 02:54 AM |
| 7 | Message for the guys that feel like giving upCheck this guys post history. They’re miserable LOL | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:21 PM |
| -8 | Cute guy at gym: Will he ever notice me?Leave hiveminder? The hypocrisy in your comment is hilarious. I’m the one who went against the grain with my comment, making you the hive-minder not I, weirdo. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Cute guy at gym: Will he ever notice me?:) | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 06:34 PM |
| -146 | Cute guy at gym: Will he ever notice me?Stop your crying. We all know why a man doing it seems much more wrong. Women orbit you when they like you just as this woman said and here this guy goes pointing out the obvious lol | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Many dates but none lastThat also adds to the mysteriousness, although I’m not saying you shouldn’t disclose your name or your town (obviously) just add a little bit of guessing to your game. If she asks, play it vaguely as the person above me said. Say something like “well I’m going with the flow and take things as they come”. Just so she doesn’t feel pressure or think your just there for one thing. | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 12:57 PM |
| 22 | Many dates but none lastdon’t give off the impression you want to settle down early on with women (it’s unattractive, makes you seem desperate/clingy) don’t over-pursue, women love men who have a life and don’t reply so fast every time she texts/calls take the lead whenever possible one thing that helped me with women was not focusing solely on one while I’m dating (now this may sound counter intuitive but when you have things going on in your life and your also talking to 2-3 women, you naturally have less time for ea… | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 10:49 PM |
| 7 | How to reply to this shit testWhy not both? I do think pickup lines are cheesy though. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 07:21 PM |
| 0 | How to reply to this shit testThe alternative? | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by womenOut of curiosity. Did you go alone? | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 03:33 PM |
| 3 | I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by womenWomen are attracted. They just don’t make the first move. You know, they grow up watching Disney waiting for Prince Charming. Then you have the 2% of women who truly don’t give a shit and shoot their shot but you’d have to be very lucky | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Just kind of realized how bad my insecurity around lack of sex was hurting meNursing. I wouldn’t say it was my motivation. But I am fully aware of how uncommon it is for men to take this career path and I’d say it’s an incentive kinda. (I’m lowkey nervous around sexy ass women unless I know them so there some fear behind that). But I’ve had success before, just hitting a dry spell this past year. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Just kind of realized how bad my insecurity around lack of sex was hurting me29 year old here as well and it’s funny because I’m in a similar predicament. Looking to build a new social circle and I’m also debating going to school this year and my career would also be majority women | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Just kind of realized how bad my insecurity around lack of sex was hurting meI like this response. Im wondering where you got that perspective from because I feel as though that’s what I need to focus on (happiness and being a better person) but aside from putting it to action I’d like to read a bit about some tips or advice on how to do it. Im grumpy sometimes and I fall back into this attitude so it’s hard for me. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 01:51 PM |
| 2 | No confidence/female attentionCheck your insurance website and see if they have a doctor finder there where you can search for one | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | The dating struggles of a 29 year oldMaybe you’re right. I do feel entitled in a sense. You think this may have part to do with me not having much success? | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | The dating struggles of a 29 year oldThanks for the advice. You made some valid points. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 3 | You can literally improve your game by 50% overnightWent from “Last night” To “That night” 🤔 Impressive if true. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | What do I reply to this girl's Instagram story?Put her story’s on notification. Forget her for now (trust me on this) and if she’s outgoing, you reply to her story on a weekend when she’s out having fun and message her then. She will probably be in a good mood and more receptive. If she’s not uploading stories out w her girls on a weekend then I guess you can dm her a question about whatever she’s doing or compliment her in a way where she has to reply with more than just “thanks”. | /r/seduction | 16/04/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a relatively recent post (maybe a month) with a video of a woman talking about masculine energyMight not be exact video but I’m sure it’s her | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Looking for a relatively recent post (maybe a month) with a video of a woman talking about masculine energyhttps://youtu.be/OpY9yLgG-08 | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?Well everyone is different and context is also important. Not saying that was the only thing that made her lose interest (in my case). But I know it def sinked my value. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?When we like a girl too much we tell ourselves anything to rationalize texting/calling her back after she already didn’t respond. I’ve been there before and completely lost her interest because of how needy I came off. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationshipTroll | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Why results come when you stop caringPerfectly encapsulates what happened to me. I even told her how I felt (smfh) and she never wrote back. I’d also consider myself pretty average w women. Not a player anymore but not some inexperienced guy either. She just happened to be my type and before I didn’t care about her she would always come up to me. After I took her on a date I became very infatuated with her and I hated it. Now I have to see her daily at uni but it is what it is. I’ve accepted that it’s over. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationshipYou’re absolutely right. I used it but I never knew it was called the touch test. Like I’d make sure when I’d first hangout with a girl I give her a hug and go for small little touches and read how she reacts | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 02:29 AM |
| 5 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationshipIt’s so hard to get a read on her. So I gave up. | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 02:19 AM |
| 24 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationshipI asked one for a kiss on a date recently and she said “you’re not supposed to ask” and proceeded to get creeped out. Mind you I respect women and made sure I didn’t come off too touchy or abrasive. Date also went really well until that part | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | I only attract women who have problems and it results in a toxic fallout every time.Everyone has problems. I’m surprised that’s all you got from reading this. What I mean is I attract women that aren’t good for me or the inverse. Think toxicity. Think disrespecting each other yet still sharing intimacy with that person. Think only having sex and not having a true connection/bond and it fizzling out at the snap of a finger because they don’t respect me or value me. | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | I only attract women who have problems and it results in a toxic fallout every time.I’m in shape and an average looking man. I’ve had women when I was younger (18-23) but now that I’m older I think I’m a tad bit more desperate because I’m getting older and haven’t had a true relationship in practically 7-8 years now. But thanks for your input. I will go to see one and also check that Dr you mentioned. | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 12:13 PM |
| 1 | I only attract women who have problems and it results in a toxic fallout every time.So get to the source of it w the help of a therapist. Gotcha | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 12:10 PM |
| 2 | If she doesn’t leave immediately after the date for ****’s sake GO FOR ITDid this and she just backed up. Even after staying in my car after I parked in front of her house and stood there for a good ten minutes. Weird how it works sometimes | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 11:49 AM |
| 3 | A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty.Not trying to impress a woman or better yet people in general is sound advice. Am working on it myself. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | What makes some guys don't care when they get rejected and others think about it for weeks?Get out of my head dude. Seriously though this is how I feel about it. Not only do I need to work on myself and build myself up. I’m currently not being paid the greatest and I know this in the back of my head, so I feel as though I project that ‘status’ at all times without knowing. When I had this old job where I got paid way better, my confidence was through the roof and it really does feel like you’re on cloud 9. I want the feeling back, but I know it’s going to take some work. | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | If you're shallow, and put a girl on a pedestal bc of her looks, you will be nervous and try too hard to impress her, then get rejected. If you're not shallow, but judge a girl for what is inside and not outside, your behavior and energy will be different, and your results will be much better.I legit put a lot of girls on pedastools subconsciously. Consciously I’m like “she shits and has boogers like I do”. This incongruence literally freezes me before I can approach | /r/seduction | 04/11/20 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be monogamous ? One girl for life?How do I get a new girl to be exclusive with me if she’s already feeling me, without coming on too hard/desperate? I’ve been single for quite some time now and to be honest my third girlfriend fucked my trust all the way up. (She cheated on me and denied it until it was painfully obvious, then years later she chased me and we only had sex, which became toxic and we eventually left each other) Ever since then, I’ve been afraid to open up but it doesn’t mean I’m not willing to. I attract women her… | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Making female friends goes a long way😂 | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 03:49 PM |
| 5 | 5 stage clinger after just one weekendI’ve had a chick tell me she can’t see me and her together as boyfriend and girlfriend. But moments later tells me I can be her husband. But I’ve known she was crazy before she told me that lol. Nuts | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best.This is stupid. If he didn’t forcefully keep himself busy he would’ve lost her. Nothing wrong with having a plan in place as long as deep down you really like her and have good intentions. Stop guilting him because he came up with a better plan that involves him consciously making the decision to not text her all damn day because it comes off needy. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Not Being a Girls Number One Option100%. I think what’s happening to me is that quarantining is making it impossible to go out and meet new girls so these girls I’m talking to now I’ve already been with and are far from new flings. I don’t want to not talk to any girls, but at the same time I’m not desperate to continue messaging/calling them first. If they don’t hit me back up, then so be it.. I’ll make better use of my time. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Not Being a Girls Number One OptionPrecisely. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Not Being a Girls Number One OptionI’m going through this same thing right now. I’m talking to a few girls. One never has a boyfriend and I’ve slept with on occasion but she’s def a free spirit and likes to get chased (I don’t like to chase) and the other is pretty needy and clingy but she’s pretty good in bed (but she also wants me to chase hard) and quite honestly I’m not even trying to lower my self by pursuing them further when they’re not super interested. I always try to keep the exchange 50/50 | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 03:42 PM |
| 9 | I found a girl with an EXTREME scarcity mindset. Is this a good or bad thing?‘Temporary truths’ | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 10:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I take girls off the "pedestal"?Seriously. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 06:39 PM |
| 3 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I was waiting for his version, or advice. He pretty much wrote this entire thing for nothing! Lol | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Guys who got fit/muscular, how did that help your game?This is very inspiring to me because I can relate (aside from the lifting part). I’m 5’9. 150 pretty skinny dude, (average looking). I too lost my first love and although I can still get girls now, it’s all through girls I’ve hooked up with before and not new women. (Unless it’s via Instagram or something) And I feel I have a lot of confidence issues and low self esteem. And I feel like the 2 main things holding me back from training are 1) I don’t know where to start, I feel like I’m overwhelme… | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 03:25 PM |
| 7 | Go ahead, downvote this😂 sometimes I feel as though that’s how the posters look. But I agree with the person above. Quality advice is quality advice regardless. | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | I finally did itWow that’s actually pretty helpful. Kind of shifts my perspective a bit. Thanks for that! | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 11:40 PM |
| 10 | I finally did itI think it’s a combination of low self-esteem, low confidence and just, I guess I subconsciously worry about people’s opinions way too much. But on my best days I feel I can approach, just don’t ever do it for whatever reason. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 04:52 PM |
| – | I finally did itApproach... if and when I muster the bravery to. Edit: correction. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 12:52 PM |
| – | I finally did itProud of you man. I’m next up | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Some strange things I've noticed about my approach anxietyGood for you dude I can’t approach for shit. | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Today's going to be my third day of approaching. The first two days were flops but I feel good about this one. Wish me luck boysi have a hard time even being mindful during a conversation. im always feeling some sort of anxiety and its worse when it comes to pretty women. Your post has motivated me. | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 05:25 PM |
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