| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 517 | If you are curating your social media feed for a guy, STOP! | REMINDER 👑 | truebeauty112 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:02 PM |
| 153 | Lots of pee | FDS MEMES | truebeauty112 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:47 AM |
| 145 | The Look of Desperation 😒 | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | truebeauty112 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:44 AM |
| 39 | Ain't going down! | MOOD FOR LIFE | truebeauty112 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Nothing but the truth! I hear a guy say Elon Musk is his hero, I run. | FDS MEMES | truebeauty112 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:09 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Found on an Instagram meme page... women are waking up!May I ask their Instagram page? Would to have this on my feed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:24 AM |
| 2 | If you are curating your social media feed for a guy, STOP!Sending hugs to you! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:14 AM |
| 21 | If you are curating your social media feed for a guy, STOP!Everyone felt like this at some point! Definitely me too, I curate everything just to look good for others. Now we realize they can like us for who we are or see themselves out of the door.💃🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 11 | If you are curating your social media feed for a guy, STOP!It is stressful! You got this debate inside your head, when really no one would care about it. So let's start taking up our space and voice on our own social media! We can do this, girl! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:30 PM |
| 5 | I design and made this - self love strategy.Breathtaking!! ❤️ ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 05:38 PM |
| 4 | 3 Tips to Stop Fantasizing about Someone You Just Met (Take time to Vet!)Needed to watch this! I can get carried away on the get go and I must stand firm with my emotions! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:29 AM |
| 11 | The difference a year can makeI love how you said this! In the mean time, you have to put in the effort to glow-up if you don't want to stay in the same place you are at right now. Some days are harder and the past few days I've been feeling stuck at where I'm at. I have to keep reminding myself it's okay, not everyday is a huge step but just by being aware is already progress. 💕 Thank you and all the love for you! Better things will be coming in yoir life, for sure sister!! 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 03:16 AM |
| 28 | For those who deleted dating apps, how did you get over the fear of missing out?Hey gurl! I posted a few hours ago, on how i was blocked, unmatched more men in the last 3 months than in the last 6 years. And gurl, I'm in OLD and you aren't missing anything, I swear! 😂 Im there but I know I won't find the one and my HVM there, it's just a training ground for me to know my boundaries and practice them. If we got scared on missing out on "the one" in OLD, it means we agreed to degrade ourselves to just be judged by our looks and 1-2 sentences on our profiles. We are much more,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYou go gurl for calling them out! Im proud of you! 👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inSame with the reddit app glitching and lagging on me! Hope they get it fixed soon! It's closing on it's own and I have to start scrolling from the top of the subs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:33 PM |
| 32 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inJust watched 'MOXIE' ' on Netflix and I feel so empowered and cried in happiness! ❤️ It's everything what FDS stands for and the guy in the movie, 'Seth' is on his way to be an HVM. I just wished we had these kind of movies when I was a teen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:30 PM |
| 33 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.Why is he even in church?? To harrass?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:09 PM |
| 14 | This is why we don't marry men that don't respect and value us. Men should add to our lives. He knows what he's doing. She needs to leave.He is probably here on reddit giving awards to gonewild girls.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:07 PM |
| 2 | If this has been posted before please remove it. But sisters, this is where 50-50 will get you. It's their kid, but her bills.Good Lord, this woman needs help 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:05 PM |
| 24 | Of red flags and scrotes.This post hits home. Same what happened to my ex-Narc, he made so many social media accounts, left nasty, shameful comments on my youtube videos. I had to tell my parents everything. It wasn't pretty, but he was already talking to my parents, so I had to let them choose "Who will you believe, me or him"? When I told my parents and my friends about the abuse that's when I stopped getting scared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 11:26 AM |
| 14 | If this isn't FDS, I don't know what is. What a beautiful quote.💖Leaving that life behind is hard and finding FDS is such a huge breakthrough for me! 💕 Day by day, baby steps, saying NO. Thank you for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:58 AM |
| 82 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactThis, and "let's be friends" is the BIGGEST lie a narc could ever say after your break it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:56 AM |
| 7 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?We go girl!! 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:46 AM |
| 13 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?Omg this, I got friends who'd constantly show how they are doing great and having a blast, but only to find out their life is a mess. And they aren't ok with themselves. Agree on the 2nd one too, there's LV family members, neighbors, workmates etc.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:14 PM |
| 36 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?Letting myself feel pretty! I've started working out, leveling up my body and looks, curling my hair, learning to make-up. My pickme attitude before is "I'm not like those other girls who are just face and body " and would intentionally downgrade my fashion and how I take care of myself. Also, not caring about other women say. I was too scared I would be judged for my physical attributes. Or if I "show off" then I will be called names. Gone are those days. I just posted an IG story tonight cause… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Ain't going down!Please God no!! 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Ain't going down!I loved that clip of Eartha! It was one of the first HVW women from like decades ago that I saw and I was in awe! 👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inThis remind me of a very pickmeisha friend, we were former officemates with a tight group even when we all left the company. I still check up on her once in a while, but I really don't bother giving any advice or deep listening unless I'm asked for it. No matter how I really want her to see the light and FDS, it won't happen unless they wake up from their reality (like we did). I say don't put much worry into it, it can be definitely be draining, but when asked for your opinion, stand your groun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:09 PM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in2nd night of me reading a book before I sleep than going to OLD to find a temporary chat mate. I haven't felt this empowered in years! Broke up with my LVM last Dec and always felt the need to have someone to talk to, but I'm finally putting my new FDS learnings in action! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:04 PM |
| 29 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesI used to be afraid that I was "too much". Like you I have so many interests and love trying out new hobbies. It's a never-ending list! It made me afraid that guys won't be able to "keep up with me". So i absolutely loved when you said "I don't need you to keep up with me", if a man sees this as intimidating, it's because they're guilty of being a lazy ass and makes us feel bad for enjoying life and trying everything it can offer! Proud of you for standing up for yourself! We have life outside o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:56 PM |
| 3 | The Look of Desperation 😒THIS! 👆🏻 The most thorough review I've ever read of a single post! THANK YOU!! 👏🏻 Those are really good points and how you specified the words is a massive help in decoding these LVMs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | The Look of Desperation 😒Lucky you! Hahaha! I got introduced by a friend to reddit because of that sub. Grabe gurl, take a peek and you'd know what I'm talking about! It's such a blessing to find FDS, cause I started from there. 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:02 PM |
| 2 | The Look of Desperation 😒Siszt, mabuhay!! I'm done with phr4r for reals. That sub is killin me! Hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 31 | HVM will be CONFUSED when you thank them for their basic decencySaving this post as a reminder to my future self! Everything is spot on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:12 PM |
| 18 | Finally HVM on a dateCongratulations on the good date! ❤️ Hoping the next dates will be awesome too. I personally love going to dates and excited to go on them with my newfound FDS principles, just not yet feasible at the moment with the covid situation in our coutnry but im keeping in mind the 1 in 7 statistics! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 8 | The Look of Desperation 😒Ooohh! Hello sis! He does have a lot of post before this for the same, coffee or drink and looks like no one is taking the bait. I say true, not because a woman with all those qualities automatically makes her a HVW. Can really bite you back in the ass.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:32 PM |
| 42 | OLD is mentally drainingOLD for me is a training ground to say 'NO'. I was a pickeme before, I really was giving everyone a chance, even if it was online. Now I use OLD to practice in saying NO at the the 1st red flag/sign of LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:29 AM |
| 53 | The Look of Desperation 😒I don't even get this dad bod thing! They donated a sperm and suddenly they go parading this glorious 'dad bod'. Cause awesome HVM fathers are likely getting all that work out from taking care of their baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:13 AM |
| 48 | The Look of Desperation 😒Riiight?? "I can buy my own coffee, no thanks" 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:23 AM |
| 77 | The Look of Desperation 😒He actually added a little line saying this set-up is SFW. So i was like what? No sex, spend on the woman and then? I'm sure this is gonna go down the rabbit hole as a guilt tripping/gaslighting. "i paid for you and all this, I should get something in return" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:48 AM |
| 21 | The Look of Desperation 😒You are welcome! Sorry, i forgot to translate! But really our local r4r are flooding with scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:14 AM |
| 46 | The Look of Desperation 😒"You should really look like a hot chick, will make me say WOW!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:08 AM |
| 190 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMIf he can't see why we wear high heels, then we're out! Guys like this want an errand girl who'd run for them 24/7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:27 AM |
| 101 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMGurl daaaamn, this happened with my 1st LVM, actually NVM. And he would walk even faster cause he was annoyed! I mean if we were in the mall, and I'm window shopping, why was I being pressured to brisk walk?? It's so evident that they want to take the lead, and for us to follow like baby ducklings. Hell naw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:24 AM |
| 5 | My boyfriend massages my hands in the morningThis is giving me all the hopes! ❤️ Imma hold out and be single till I find my man who'd be like this! Thank you for your story, hope you feel better!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:06 AM |
| 9 | Proud of myselfIt only gets better from here, congratulations! ❤️ You will get sad times during the healing process but trust us, you did the BEST thing for yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Lots of peeLiterally, swimming in garbage! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Lots of peeIndeed? And that pool looks so much disgusting right now during this pandemic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Lots of peeI was gonna say there's some sh*t in there, but Novichok made more sense lol, and i had to google that! That's a new learning of the day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:19 PM |
| 1 | “I cannot imagine another day where I do not strive for the absolute maximum of what I deserve.”This hits deep! 😭❤️ I was that girl, and no, I don't wanna meet her again.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InYessss I'm up for this! Would love to get suggestions on feminist books too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 12:40 PM |
| 6 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?Same with the teenage messy room, my ex LVM whenever we video called has countless soda cups in the background and all his stuff lying on the floor. There's also a big difference between messy and trashy room! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:21 AM |
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