truffalatrees Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Inquiry from the opposite end of the spectrum.		truffalatrees	/r/seduction	12/01/12 08:36 AM

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3	Understanding women... While it is certainly possible that I missed some of the articles you are referring to during my Google scholar search, I didn't notice anything directly supporting the "men are from Mars, women are from Venus" mentality. The only article I could find actually pointed out that there was no differences in degrees of emotional responses between men and women, just that there were marked differences in the assumptions people made when they saw a man who was upset vs. a woman. Apparently the general…	/r/seduction	03/05/12 05:07 AM
6	Understanding women... Sorry brah, but that is some impressively worded crap. Women are purely emotional, not rational? They don't want to escalate every encounter to sex, because of their silly female emotions? Lord help any lady who crosses your woman-loathing path... Just a heads up: women and men are incredibly similar. Most are riddled with insecurities and emotional baggage and are looking for some form of validation. We may be socialized differently, but we are all actually quite similar when you get down to th…	/r/seduction	03/05/12 03:20 AM
1	Hot girls more lonely than average looking ones? Nope. For all the guys who talk themselves out if it, there are just as many who take the plunge expecting rejection with the thought "if I don't go for it I will always kick myself for it" (or so they say) That being said, guys approaching uninvited doesn't really dictate a girls loneliness. If I am looking to get a guy to come up to me I hold eye contact a blink longer than normal and pair it with a half smile. That does the trick just fine.	/r/seduction	20/01/12 05:25 AM
1	Were these openers too rude? 2 bad blowouts last night, a rarity. Based on the examples you gave I would definitely tone it down when starting off. I can't see that necklace one in going over well, because it doesn't leave room for a response other than getting her offended enough to no longer want to deal with you (unless you happen to be attending Mardi Gras, and then it would be well played). The Mr. Rogers one could come off as cute if it is delivered superbly a little while into the interaction. If you are looking to go the insulting route, attire is neve…	/r/seduction	14/01/12 07:48 AM
1	Inquiry from the opposite end of the spectrum. Oh, noted. Thanks.	/r/seduction	12/01/12 09:15 PM
1	Inquiry from the opposite end of the spectrum. That all makes a lot of sense, but one question: what is this kino you guys are always talking about?	/r/seduction	12/01/12 07:12 PM
0	Inquiry from the opposite end of the spectrum. Bingo. Thanks for sticking up for me :)	/r/seduction	12/01/12 04:27 PM
1	Inquiry from the opposite end of the spectrum. Thanks. And I really will keep that in mind, I do tend to feel guilty. It's something I'm working on.	/r/seduction	12/01/12 04:26 PM
1	Inquiry from the opposite end of the spectrum. Thanks for the input, I will be sure to keep my fingers to myself.	/r/seduction	12/01/12 04:24 PM
0	OK folks. Let's talk gay clubs/bars. (crap smart phone...) *if she is scoping girls at all she is not looking for men -- either that night or perhaps ever, so let her be. We don't get too many chances to let our hair down, so even being approached by a dude with a comment like that will likely put a pretty big damper on the evening. I at least find it far more irksome than flattering. Also note: the more attractive a girl is, the less likely it is that she is looking to bring a man home. Just sayin'...	/r/seduction	12/01/12 07:22 AM
1	OK folks. Let's talk gay clubs/bars. To further what AConfusedGentleman had said: I am a bisexual lady and these are my thoughts exactly. While I accept that walking around in general society I am going to attract a lot of male attention, that is the last thing I want to endure at a gay bar. Sure go and try to pick up girls, it's smart: all my straight girls have their guard down when they come out to gay bars with me. But for the love of all things, please take a moment to watch your target. If she is scoping	/r/seduction	12/01/12 07:18 AM