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She did. I was very idealistic and wanted a gf when she just wanted to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 07:56 AM
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I should've put "dating" in quotes. It's more like a Fwb situation than an actual serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 11:55 PM
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As someone who "dated" an older woman. A lot of times ambitious, driven men are just too busy to devote time to dating or putting themselves in situations where young single girls mingle like a yoga class. Older women often spoil their younger men with gifts and affection. To her it's like being 21 again without being broke. In this day and age if you want to excel in your career you need to go to where the jobs are. You can date your college sweetheart but what if you both get jobs in different…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 09:38 PM
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Let's use logic. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Therefore at least 80% of women wanted out of the marriage. Would a rational human intenyually put themselves in a bad situation? No. So are at least 40% of married men such horrible abusers that a huge financial loss is better than spending another day with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 09:29 PM
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You read enough about the redpill, a "disgusting mysoginistic sub" to have discovered and subscribed to a sub dedicated to questioning its merits or advice given on TRP. You must have went through countless pages on this sub to find a 19 day old topic then scrolled through dozens of comments to find my comment. You then decided to write a nice paragraph and scenario because you didn't like a term I used to describe people on here. Does this sound like something a "normal person" does on their fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 11:20 PM
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That's all fine but these girls have no right to deny or hide their past from their husbands. Some of these same women would give judgmental remarks if a 30-something year old man who busted his ass in school, gym and work to lock down a high paying salary in his 20s decides to enjoy the fruits of his labor by going to night clubs, parties, hanging out with a mostly younger crowd and hooking up with early 20 something women. Also a lot of these women settle down for the wrong reasons like societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 10:51 PM
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For someone who doesn't need/use TRP because you are an "8/10 man who is successful with women" and "understand how women women work" you certainly invested a lot of time and energy to arguing with people on the internet.I did a Ctr + F search of your name and you came up 54 times. You could be a troll but most likely you're an incel who either fell for some scam or just completely gave up because you aren't a natural. Let's look at the sub loseit. Yes the average user on loseit is going to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 06:38 PM
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It means she will give you a chance aka go on a date with you. Your posted sounded like another self-proclaimed incel who thinks women are only attracted to the best looking guys. Very few men are actually ugly and most of ugly can be fixed with better fashion, diet, exercise, and a haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 01:32 AM
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Looks gets your foot in the door. They are only so important as long as it is up to her standard. However once you get the date it is 80% how you present yourself, personality, values, etc. This mostly applies to online dating or cold approach. In social circles she knows of you and thus will less likely dismiss you because you're ugly. It's like applying for jobs. Just because you aren't getting through the automated or phone screeners doesn't mean your performance on the interview doesn't matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:15 PM
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Nope. In the US a lot of girls know that high quality men are averse wifing up sluts and hoes. Thus they will hold off sex or slow things down to assure him that she isn't "that kind of girl." Sometimes yes she is a golddigger looking for money but other times she is very attracted to him but is afraid of losing him. The difference is how passionate and often sex happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 08:09 PM
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Nope. And the hotter girls aren't more slutty either. More important are factors like church going, how she views her dad, how often/if she drinks, what she aspires to be, her friends, etc. It works both ways. Hot sorority girls hook up very often with hot frat guys in college. shy, quiet girls tend to be very average in appearance as they do not put on a ton of makeup. Girls who go to church regularly are more likely to take care of themselves or at least not mutilate their appearance than athe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 01:22 AM
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They're angry that their marriages are failing. If their marriages were successful they wouldn't need to attack you. Statistics talk about populations not individuals. Someone in a good marriage would know that they are happier married than single. They wouldn't need to lash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 11:08 PM
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You're looking in the wrong places sweetheart. Get out of your vegan, clubbing, cross fit, and feminist circles and join something where men are more open to something more than a FWB. Granted most men get freaked out when marriage is brought up immediately but most men in the right circles are open to getting into a relationship with a quality girl and eventually marrying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 07:18 PM
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In the 21st century many people have replaced families, and a solid stable company/career with friends and connections respectfully. I get that a lot of people have experienced their parents getting divorced or laid off from a place they worked at for 10+ years, but replacing a solid family or career with a network will make things worse. It isn't a coincidence that people are more lonely than ever. My grandpa was a very popular, social man who had a ton of friends. When he was on his death bed,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 07:09 PM
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As an engineering student at a stem school this wasn't the case for me. I transferred in and just about every girl there, at least the attractive ones were taken. It made sense there were 10 men in engineering to one Woman so those women even unattractive ones would get asked out very quickly. However, online I had a ton of results as there were many mostly women colleges where women did not have access to a ton of attractive non-gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 08:18 PM
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In the time it takes to really connect with someone who has potential job leads you can apply for 50 different positions online. However, you're more likely to get an interview from the person you meet in real life and the interview will go better since it isn't a completely blind date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 06:51 PM
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You Bloopers don't get it. We don't care that people could care less about our grievances. "no one cares about your problems" is pointed out in the redpill loads of times. It's that you complain about redpill sites that are helping men get a hold of their sex lives. Until you offer an alternative that actually works, don't complain that men who want to better their sex lives are flocking to redpill sites for advice and applying it. Also like a typical UMC suburbanite white hipster who has never …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 04:46 AM
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Sadly it's the result of a culture that gets offended over everything. These guys are so use to walking on egg shells because other people are so quick to get upset and yell at them. For example polls showed Hillary in the lead but trump won. Why? People did not want to upset others and get ostracized. Look at how people reacted to trumps victory. Look at how violent la raza, blm, and the antifa are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 12:44 AM
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This. The fact that some say only incels/ugly/awkward have trouble getting casual sex is troubling. The whole point of a beta is that he can have relationships but never casual sex. The incels are guys who can't get it period. It really depends on the circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 12:36 AM
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Bper: omg the redpill is a disgusting, mysoginistic sub and dis respects women, OP: ok if the redpill is do bad how come you don't offer better advice? Bper: why should I care about some autistic incel? Well they will keep going to the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 12:23 AM
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Men here come looking for answers and Find thst maybe the redpill isn't 100% effective. Women come here to bully and disparage men. Let's say there was a subreddit for Asian men self improvement. What business does a white guy have on a sub like that ? Same with Women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 11:50 PM
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I meant your typical 30 year old man, not a high value one who lifts weights, and does well in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 07:53 PM
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I'm actually basing this off of someone I know in real life. The dad was overweight and the mom was thin. She divorced him for her high school sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 04:35 AM
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oh yeah. The fact that people here actually think that anyone who is still single over the age of 25 and isn't married or a divorcee by 30 must have some serious issues preventing them from getting engaged just shows how sheltered and out of touch these people are. Do they realize that maybe those well adjusted people dated someone who wasn't well adjusted? that someone lost their long term partner to cancer? that someone had to move around to advance their career? Or even just someone who focus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 01:10 AM
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A lot of it is gas-lighting from women. Yes men look older at 40 and yes a 30 year old man isn't dating 18 year old college students, but only on this sub do people think a 30 year old man is old or that a 22 year old girl wouldn't date an attractive 28 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 12:59 AM
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It does hurt chad because hypergamy can mean his mother divorcing his once tough but now fat father for a hotter, cooler man. There are a growing number of divorced cougars
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 09:33 PM
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Moat of this sub is upper middle class. edit: rolf two replies of people who claim to be working class but had moms who were nurses and school teachers. In what world is a nurse or a teacher part of the working class?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 09:30 PM
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Genuine as in she's doing it because she wants to not because of social pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 03:39 PM
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Her sexual past. Yes we can have a 22 year old girl who hooked up with dozens of guys her college years and a 30 year old woman who has only been with a few men from long term relationships, but just by time the 22 year old will more likely be less experienced sexually than the 30 year old. Age is just one factor but it is easy to hide or withhold your past, and age is the one thing that women do not lie about on their social medias. Also there is very little to no social pressure for a 22 year …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 02:55 AM
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A is able to looks and status max in his/her 20's, and is a 9/10 at 25. Ten years later A's attractiveness has declined somewhat due to age, and A is now a 6/10 at 35. B, on the other hand, is a 4/10 at 25 but manages to improve his/her fitness, grooming habits and status and becomes a 7/10 at 35. I made a peak post and clearly stated this but in different words. I bolded the changes because people here underestimate just how much your fitness and physical health have on your looks. My sisters f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 12:02 AM
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The difference is the target audience: Seduction is mainly geared towards young, sexually inexperienced men who just want to get a girlfriend or one-night stands from women . Many times these men are very socially awkward, overweight, or unhygienic. The Redpill targets mostly white men from metropolitan areas who have no trouble finding a girlfriend or getting laid but struggles with turning women on at a very primal level and many times finds he has to wait many dates and only get boring duty s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 10:59 PM
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It's selection bias. The types of women who post on this sub are to some level angry and jealousy of men. Sure you may see an occasional redpill woman or a woman who encountered an already abusive man who happened to follow redpill type blogs but other than that most here are just angry at themselves and they take it out on men looking for answers. Incels do the same thing but mostly to excuse the fact that they are too lazy to fix themselves. In the real world no one cares how old you are as lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 08:52 PM
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Granted it was the worst but most "blue pillers" have no good reason to even think about the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 08:31 PM
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Personally i think you're just a lazy piece of shit who is just using your age and face as excuses to not work on yourself. If looks/race/height are so important and its over if you arent a 6'0" model looking white man explain how My 5'4" Japanese friemd has a beautiful white wife, or why my 5'6" Mexican friend has had several hookups and now has a very pretty and sweet fiancee? You know what they have in common? They are both very personable, easy to get along with,have great careers and have h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 03:20 PM
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Can't say I know too much about plastic surgery or hair transplants but I do know thst elevator shoes work and a friend thought I got bigger. A few inches makes a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:33 AM
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You can't afford hair implants or plastic surgery? Save up. 1-5 years from now your SMV will go up. I don't understand why you incel types can't just get plastic surgery, hair implants or wear elevator shoes instead of winning on the internet that women don't want to willingly touch your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:24 AM
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I worded that wrong. The person who posted the study to prove people with large age gaps are "negatively selected" and "the leftovers" is a dumbass. Just another angry incel or militant feminist. The researchers never said that women prefer men their own age. Instead they said that the richer women who attended college, and worked professional jobs encountered older men less often. In other words if they took ses into consideration them there would be no correlation. Keep in mind the study was d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:13 AM
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If you look at the study, and actually read the explanation they do give a similar explanation to what you gave: "More successful people" encounter much older or younger people less often than "less successful people."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 04:18 AM
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Good lord this sub is a joke. It's like one person points something out that isn't much of a common issue but isnt too or farfetched or uncommon either (some women having too high of standards) then someone else just exagerates the shit out of the statement to show "how ridiculous it is." You know There s a lot of grey area between 6'0" hot, fun, white doctor and "short, fat, ugly, poor, any race, bad teeth."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 12:27 AM
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The OP sounds like an angry woman in denial that women find ambition and success attractive. Like those 29 uewr old women mad that 31 yewr old men woild rather date a hot 21-25 year old. That or hes an incel who blames his failure on "bad genetics" and doesn't want to look himself in the mirror and realize he's a virgin because he's a lazy piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:10 AM
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This is stupid. Yes unattractive guy vs attractive woman question for women, sure. Including he's a billionaire who can't access his money? That's going too far. I get that you think every successful man or woman only got their success because of their parents or some strike of luck but that is not the vast majority of people. Most people become successful because they work hard, take serious risks, think in the long term, and are very intelligent. That unattractive fat guy? On that Island he wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 06:54 AM
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Actually a lot of redpilled sites go into this. http://www.returnofkings.com/16837/24-signs-shes-a-slut http://www.rooshv.com/7-things-i-require-in-the-future-mother-of-my-child https://boldanddetermined.com/shy-girls/ It's mostly about looking for signs and screening than techniques.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 02:40 AM
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These radical feminists and bitchy women mostly exist on the internet. Most women do not hate men or complain about the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 02:21 AM
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Fucking brilliant. He manned up and married the woman who in her college years hooked up with dozens of frat boys, basketball players, and amateur musicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 02:17 AM
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THis has to be a joke. Men had it much easier in the 70s than they do today. Just about every man I know who does very well with women lifts weights more than 3 days a week at the gym and has his diet on point. This was far from the case in the 70s. Yes obesity but also women have much higher standards today than they did in the 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 09:39 PM
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Yeah. Men Google and nasterbate to women they like on Facebook or Instagram. Everyman has done it at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 08:16 PM
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Um you obviously are not a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 06:13 PM
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Guys become redpilled to improve their lives, not become redpill warriors. All the redpill is is a harsh truth that too many women are not holding out for potential suiters but rather having fun with the alphas (confidant, cool, good looking guys) and settling down for betas (awkward, nerdy guys with decent looks). We are aware that there are party girls but most of us did not realize that most girls are like this. First of all you can get married under God without being married under a corrupt …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 06:08 PM
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Keep in mind these short men likely dumpster dived. In fact most men in general who have a ton of sex partners dumpster dived at some point. If I had a nickel for every time I made a conscious effort to not cheat on a gf or back out of a notch because of paranoia of sperm jacking I might have a dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:19 AM
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I agree that there is definitely a double standard. There are so many programs that push women into STEM fields because we need more women and essentially having a vagina is more than enough to get offers from great companies I have seen it myself. On the other hand, we do not have programs encouraging more men to pursue nursing, teaching, social work, HR, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 11:51 PM
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Look at it from the outside view or imagine it being someone else. Forcing a woman to mother a child she does not want or cannot afford hurts the tax payers because that child will likely consume public goods like school, welfare, food stamps, health care, etc. Forcing a man to pay child support helps the taxpayer because the mom will less likely need government aid to help with taking care of the kid. Having a father around decreases the likelyhood that the kid will commit crimes, or leech off …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:47 PM
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The Black Pill is people who took the redpill and then gave up. When you learn the harsh reality that women are not as innocent as you think and that the number of quality women is dwindling thanks to a poisoned culture it is a lot and only the strongest willed of men challenge the odds. Thus many give up and either go MGTOW or Incel. The difference between the two is that MGTOW started out as men in their 40s or 50s who were divorced and just done with the marriage/dating scene. Incels are "men…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:53 PM
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It's especially comical when they think a 5 year age gap is "too much." Yeah one linked a click bait article "proving this" but the actual statistical study was looking at wedding expenses and made no mention of the so-called percentages the journalist claimed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 07:41 PM
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ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 06:22 AM
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Date younger. I can give a better response now that I am home from work. When RP guys say they peak what they really mean is if you really work on yourself you will become a better man. Now of course it will be hard for a 30-33 year old to date 18-21 year old women but it isn't unreasonable to go after a woman 7-10 years your junior granted you have your shit together. Now it may seem like women disagree with this but the reality is it's the same people arguing with multiple people about this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 01:15 AM
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I think you replied to the wrong comment. Also it isn't black and white. 15-20 year gap? sure most women aren't into that. 5-10 year age gap? Only on this forum do people think it is creepy. Also there's a huge difference between the average 30-33 year old and a 30-33 year old who is in the top 5-20%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 12:27 AM
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I had a thread about something similar. Same thing it was the same 3-4 people and I'm willing yo bet there is an overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:18 PM
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I think that's an important distinction, these women are not by any means attracted to you. If they were, they would have been attracted to you in your "prime" which you describe as mid-to-late twenties. What a guy can't lift weights, learn to dress better and improve his social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:17 PM
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They never said it was, at least I don't think it is but you underestimate just how lazy the average American is. It's very easy to get into the top 20%, granted you don't have some serious short coming, but even then it is still possible with a lot of effort overtime. It's common in the redpill because redpill men hangout with other redpilled men or men with similar values. Most men can't handle the harsh truths of the redpill and the work required. It is like a punch in the gut or an icy feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 09:47 PM
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Normal weight individuals are not as common as overweight individuals. Most men cannot do more than 10 pull ups or bench 200 lbs. Most people do not exercise regularly. Yeah what most people do is irrelevant as the redpill men strive to be the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 08:26 PM
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Omg yes these retards saying all the LTR quality people marry college sweethearts don't account for breakups, deaths, grad school, jobs in different cities, infidelity, crazy partners, Etc. Mostly angry women, depressed incels, men who cashed in too early or men who got a woman pregnant. Especially since they call self improvement a revenge fantasy. Or think that redpill guys are all virgin incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 08:06 PM
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just laugh when he disowns you then refuse to go back to reconcile So this happened in high school or at the very latest your college years? You're what 40 or 50 something? You're wishing your father the worst because of something that happened 20-40 years ago? Must be painful holding all that hate for someone you haven't seen in 20-40 years. I'm the only kid who bred and I don't visit him despite his threats and pleas and therefore he's never known his grandkids Sounds like he wants to apologiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 07:15 PM
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One day I'll find out he died alone on his floor in a puddle of his own urine after falling and being stuck there for days, and I'll smile and know the universe really does function as it is supposed to. Wow I can't believe you're real. What kind of person just disrespects and wishes the man who raised them, clothed them, gave them a roof over their head, and helped them become the woman or man you are today dead? This isn't about politics, or pill types, but rather just you being an unappreciat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 06:00 AM
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ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 11:49 PM
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Chad is just a saying, a nice one word substitute for a man who is very attractive, charismatic and does well with women. Yes these men exist, they aren't the majority but at the same time outside of nerdy gaming or engineering circles everyone knows at least one guy who always has success with women. However, I would say the big muscly overly masculine type was a recent phenemena because it old books I read as well as old movies the suave guys were actually very thin, and while they may have ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 10:28 PM
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I never said a 20 year old wouldn't outperform a 30 year old with a similar rating. The whole point is that most girls are going to choose the 30 year old who is an 8-9.5 aka men in the 85-97% of men over a 20 year old who is in the 5-7 range aka in the 50-75% range. Yes there exist men in fraternities, sports players or simply men who were raised well that are 8s as 20 year olds. They are rare and the exception not the norm. Most normal women will not consider a 5-10 year age gap a deal breaker…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 03:55 AM
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a man who was fat as a 23 year old who lost the weight That's your problem. You're assuming I'm talking about a below average man in the 2-4 range who loses weight like a normal person and becomes a 6 like this guy. No I'm talking about someone like this guy and a better example of a where most men start out. How many early 23 year old men, let alone 23 year old men in med school have a physiques this impressive? I should ask are you from Brazil? Because yes in Brazil I can see why the typical 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:16 PM
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Notch count. Statistically a 21-22 year old woman will less likely have a slutty past than a 31-32 year old woman. It isn't to say there are 32 year old women who have only been with a few men or a 22 year old woman who slept with dozens of men in college, but it is a good measure as the longer someone stays single the more notches they rack and also a 22 year old woman who slept around in college usually isn't looking to settle down at 22 becuase most of her friends aren't getting married or en…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 08:07 PM
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That's interesting. My impression is that there is a somewhat high chance the 26 year old rode the cock carusal in her early 20s. My ideal age was 21-23 but open to a 24 or 18-20 year old girl if the circumstances were right. What age would you say the risk of her having a slutty past is high?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 07:07 PM
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Did you read what I wrote? I'm not talking about your average American who eats all day, gets fat and never sees a raise in 10 years but rather someone who really does well for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 06:09 PM
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I think you and I have a different definition of peak. I'm assuming you're talking about your typical guy who doesn't have any short comings such as aspergers, height or weight. They are mostly in the 5-7 range and then slowly go down hill until they are in the 3-5 range as fat asses. What I am talking about is a guy who really gets on top of his game and may be in that 4-6 range already at 23 but then really improves himself and gets into the 8-10 range at 30. Only a small handful of men can re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 06:04 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:53 PM
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I'm fairly certain Channing Tatum looks better than the average 20 year old man. Also where the hell are these 20 year old med students with rocking bods, and awesome charisma? Most people don't get bachelors until they're at least 22. The average age to enter medical school is 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 08:00 AM
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So Zach Effron, and Channing Tatum are gross? See why it's hard to take a "blue-piller" seriously. Your typical office cubical worker ages poorly but a man who does the right things does not. I can see 40 or even 35 being old but 30 is hardly hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 07:38 AM
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Where do you live that most 20 year old men have great jobs, phenomenal physiques, and awesome personalities? From what I can tell you they have at most 2 of the 3. Also FYI 30 isn't that old, certainly isn't going to be old for a man who makes the right choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 07:33 AM
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Firstly that's retarded because they knew what I looked like before hand. Secondly I never said I didn't hook up with any of them, just that I didn't get a second date. Although in hindsight it's a bad idea to date a girl you hooked up with. Finally how come when I tried again when I was 25 it didn't take me long to find a quality girlfriend, I mean less than a couple months. Sure I got better looking but more importantly my social skills improved?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:32 AM
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yeah it's too late to start a sport at 22 or even 18 and break world records. Most super attractive men do not have the ability to break world records.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:24 AM
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I'm actually 27. I'm in decent shape and just got an offer at a place, for a technician position. I have an engineering degree but I had a friend who got promoted within a year so I figure it wouldn't be a bad idea to work for a promotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:20 AM
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Kid I should tell you this, when I was 23 I got tons of attention online and tons of dates but because of my social retardation not a single one wanted a second date. Yes it sucks that you don't press the looks threshold right now for most girls but that doesn't mean there isn't a personality threshold too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:14 AM
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https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/fundamentals/looks-and-style/how-to-be-good-looking-how-much-losing-face-fat-can-help-your-sex-appeal-with-40-pictures https://www.tallmenshoes.com/winterseries.html?gclid=Cj0KCQiAyNjRBRCpARIsAPDBnn3uIv1PYXl-UcNUc5EJ853Ro-7TXjf3iBXxvYTrnVhMuOmODTwNQDgaAq5OEALw_wcB Not sure about being white but women are a lot less racist than you think. Most women are going to choose the buff, tall indian guy over the average white guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:05 AM
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You sound like an incel and a loser. You become a "1" to more women as you improve yourself which includes getting bigger muscles and losing fat, which improves your face too,
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 02:57 AM
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Do people really look worse in their late 20s? I'm talking about exceptions not typical people who sit around and spend their fridays getting hammered at bars? For me online dating at 23 vs 26 I was much more attractive/had more attention at 26 than at 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 02:20 AM
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Exactly this. I'm assuing the person is a troll or just a woman who has no idea but yes most men have a "Shit" upbringing (mislead). The point of the redpill is that our parents grew up in a vastly different time than our own so the rules are different. For example back then college was more difficult and hard to cheat in so a great GPA meant something, but nowadays people who network do far better than people who focus on school. Even though I knew about weight lifting in high school I had no i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 02:17 AM
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But even physically a man who lifts weights and eats right is going to look better at 30 than he did at 20. Also since most Americans are lazy a 30 year old ripped guy with 10-12% body fat and big muscles is going to be more physically attractive than most 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 02:10 AM
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what was your explanation? you can just send a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 12:08 AM
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You're looking at it too literally. Not everyone starts improving at 20-22, a lot don't start until 25 or even 28. Also It isn't a 9 years of nothing then at year 10 you're on top but rather little improvements and you keep getting better and better. The mid 30s to early 40s are when improvements stop as there are issues with aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 12:04 AM
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Because he is actively improving himself and becoming more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 11:49 PM
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Actually the whole huge steroid look went out the door and is only pursued by men. Now it's all about being ripped and having angular features.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 12:38 AM
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Theoretically? yes. Realistically? No. However, you're using that strawman as an excuse to not approach or ask a girl out. Assuming looks work in a normal distribution, that trollish guy with the stutter is in the bottom 2.2% while those models are in the top 2.2% (mostly). Yes that ugly guy with stuttering issues won't be able to bang or date models with 1000 approaches but he can definitely find a below average or even plain jane type if he keeps at it long enough and learns/improves from his …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 01:28 AM
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The fact you think having a high salary doesn't change anything Get help my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 01:20 AM
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A lot of guys face a lot of rejection. In fact most guys who claim to never or seldom get rejected are full of shit. The most successful people in life get rejected a lot, they have failed businesses, failed interviews, failed career paths. Also you get better as you put yourself out there more. You learn from those rejections and get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 10:25 PM
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Everyone thinks they are mature for their age. A mature person doesn't call themselves a "hopless Incel." Even if you were mature, you still look young so when her friends see her it looks like she is with her younger brother more than a boyfriend. Her nephews, if she has older sibblings, won't take you seriously as an uncle. When you get older your face begins to look less smooth and rounded and you get that more square/rectangular look. Not to mention what will happen when you start losing wei…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 10:16 PM
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As someone who dated a woman 5 years older than himself there was a stigma with a woman dating a younger man. People find you cute and adorable and they will question her maturity. older men are more socially capable, make more money, and are more mature. Not to mention they have more friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 09:37 PM
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It gets easier. It might get harder to find a virgin 20 year old christian but as far as finding a girlfriend, hookup or fwb, it gets easier. Plenty of early 20s girls date 30 something men but very few 30 something women date early 20s guys. So a 27 year old may not consider a 22 year old but she will consider a 32 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 09:03 PM
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This type of thing isn't going to be something that is "screened when someone is young." I had no issue at all talking with other guys or with adults when I was young. It was a problem with being able to communicate with the opposite sex once I reached the age that I was attracted to girls. You have social anxiety with Women which is normal. Part of getting over it is getting rejected. Grow some balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:57 PM
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That's funny. A lot of yoga and gym bunny types are a bit nerdy themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:43 PM
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I agree that it is a vicious circle that is hard to break out of. Don't give up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:39 PM
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Hobbies etc doesn't build sexual attraction. Being sexually attractive does. It can build friendships, but when the physical attraction aspect isn't there, the other side will keep it strictly platonic. Never said they did. Hobbies just gets you in proximity with Women and thus you aren't a stranger. The very slutty girls are not slutty for chad they will hook up with average guys as well. However they will not go after fat filthy neckbeards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:31 PM
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Speed dating online dwting. Same thing. You're a complete stranger and like I said these are the picky women who think men in their social circles arent good enough for them. In the early mid 20s women have the advantage. Younger women find older men attractive but older women rarely find younger men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:19 PM
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Is this some sort or joke? Has feminism really indoctrinated you that mich? Men don't care about a women's finances. In most relationships men are still the main breadwinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 05:31 PM
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