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Why gym specifically? Why not attend like fitness events, hyrox, yoga/pilates events, running clubs, day time party events? You'll find tons of womens at those events who are into health and fitness Also events are more social compared to the gym
/r/seduction17/06/26 01:48 AM
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How's that needy ifi meant it and she looked like she liked it? I only think it would come off as needy if i was telling myself that i had to absolutely fire back with a compliment or i would completely lose her
/r/seduction14/06/26 12:56 PM
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i was at starbucks this morning and as I walked in, this girl was walking out and she looked at me and said " i like your tshirt!". I immediately followed with "i like your sweater!" as she kept walking out and kept looking back at me with a smile and so was I....i kept looking back at her with a smile....and kept walking... And kept walking until i sat down... My brain literally short circuited and didn't know how to process this interaction lol i should have introduced myself but my smooth bra…
/r/seduction13/06/26 07:31 PM
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Aaayyy bwoi lemme sit in that face
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:10 PM
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You are so overthinking the whole thing. Try to just walk down the street and just make eye contact with anyone and say hi. Start with that first.
/r/seduction12/06/26 03:58 PM
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Then you compliment him on his face
/r/seduction12/06/26 03:51 PM
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What do I say Well do you like about him? Start with that and make conversation
/r/seduction12/06/26 03:03 PM
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I can’t prove that my comment is what led to the cancellation, Yes. Yes, that was what led to her saying no. Weird thing to say when she doesn't even know you or what you like ...
/r/seduction07/06/26 01:21 AM
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Congrats on the sex!
/r/seduction06/06/26 04:49 PM
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You guys are getting laid?
/r/seduction06/06/26 05:04 AM
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Absolutely!
/r/seduction05/06/26 12:23 PM
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I should add that if you dont feel comfortable cold approaching yet then try attending a singles event. There at least you'll know everyone is single (but you still have to force yourself to approach) but it's very different than cold approaching because you know they're are all single however you're limited to the people who are at the event rather than you going out to meet the women you want to meet. And it'll also help working on your communication skills with women
/r/seduction05/06/26 12:15 PM
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You are definitely overthinking it because that's me too. A good book to read would be Models by Mark Manson. This book will pretty much point out why you're having trouble approaching women. But again, you can read all you want but at the end of the day, you need to take action (just like the book will point out). Books and videos won't magically get rid of your approach anxiety. If going out with your friend will help then do it but be mindful that you might cling on to him rather than getting…
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:59 AM
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Southern Ontario has a population of 15m. Doubt they'll remember you. I dont even remember the faces I came across yesterday. I've been going to singles events in Toronto and rarely run into the same women . If you wanna meet college women then go on king st in Toronto on Thursday nights
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:43 AM
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Ontario is big. You could travel 8 hours one way and still be in Ontario. I think that's something you tell yourself (i know i have) that if i go somewhere else then I'll be able to be my true self and be confident. I don't think your approach anxiety will go away just because you go to another country. You'll still make stuffs up in your head abroad too. That's my take because I've been there and that's just an excuse in my opinion because it's all in your head.
/r/seduction05/06/26 10:57 AM
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That's not what he said at all
/r/seduction04/06/26 08:56 PM
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I used to be fat and ugly but now I'm just ugly
/r/seduction04/06/26 06:46 PM
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Make her feel young again 😉
/r/seduction29/05/26 04:59 PM
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It has nothing to do with what you say, fyi. May I suggest the book models by mark manson? I started reading a few weeks ago and it's been pretty eye opening so far for me. Im 39 and i only really started going out to meet women this year and i only had gf for 6mths back in 2016. Between that and end of 2025, my weekends involved staying home. Exciting stuff. Like I mentioned, i didn't start reading this book until a few weeks ago so before that, i was just going out and i was really unsuccessfu…
/r/seduction24/05/26 06:39 PM
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Abs workout i would assume lol
/r/seduction17/05/26 11:24 AM
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Warm up by approaching people you have zero interest in
/r/seduction07/05/26 09:40 PM
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Never heard of being polite bro? Just hi/hello/good morningi is candid camera prank? Where do you even live that saying hi is wrong? I'm walking my dog, someone is walking my direction, i say hello, they say hello back and we go on with our lives. No cameras involved. You might need to reassess how you live
/r/seduction05/05/26 11:29 PM
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You can't fix her
/r/seduction25/04/26 09:48 PM
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I went to a singles event and i invited my colleague because he was single. Women were circling around him like sharks about to pounce on their prey. Just needed Attenborough to narrate
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:02 PM
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They're just as thirsty
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:57 PM
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I understand you're catfishing Big difference between trying to make yourself look better and pretending to be rich - as per your title
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:29 PM
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Poor OP
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:10 PM
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Heard of catfishing? That's exactly what you're doing
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:09 PM
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Hey OP, sorry to bother you but can I compliment you?
/r/seduction14/03/26 06:47 PM
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Check out my Myspace background music that i added with my sick HTML and CSS skills
/r/seduction18/02/26 07:36 PM
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also she has been looking at me, probably since the start of February Bro going for the long game
/r/seduction16/02/26 12:52 PM
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50 per night? Are you approaching from 6pm to 6am? Lol
/r/seduction26/01/26 11:53 AM
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Yes but nothing like a bro who wants the best for you. Hearing it i think makes a huge difference in confidence
/r/seduction16/01/26 02:15 PM
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i imagine you just might be trying too hard if it’s become your entirely personality. Maybe try picking up new hobbies aside from trying to pickup women.
/r/seduction19/12/25 04:17 PM
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Friend of mine is in his 60s and his energy says 20s. Dude is currently travelling in asia and all the women he meets women are in their 20s Me, on they other hand, Im 38 and i have get off my lawn energy 😪
/r/seduction28/11/25 12:00 PM
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I'd say i struggled with it much longer than that actually Sure it's easier to say that you don't mind it because ignoring the problem is a much easier solution than having to fix the problem. Like another user said you can fake it around women and pretend everything is fine but eventually the real you will eventually come out But I also understand where you're coming from so you'll deal with it when you're ready to
/r/seduction28/06/25 02:01 AM
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Then you need to work on yourself and figure out why you feel the way you feel. For me it was that I realized if I don't even feel comfortable with myself then how will anyone else feel comfortable around me?
/r/seduction28/06/25 01:27 AM
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Have you tried improv classes?
/r/seduction23/09/24 03:03 PM
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Do you want to build a snowman?
/r/seduction19/09/24 06:04 PM
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What could possibly go wrong
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:34 PM
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Bowling (6€ per game) $30 by the hour here! damn
/r/seduction26/06/24 12:17 PM
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Malls are pretty bad, I have to agree. I did that a few times and I got nowhere. For me it was walking down the street where lots of people usually just walk around aimlessly and drinking their coffee. This isn't seduction related but have you tried just approaching absolutely anyone as a warm up? I had terrible social anxiety and this is what helped me get over it - by literally approaching anyone. My anxiety comes back now and then and it's approaching anyone always help get rid of it.
/r/seduction15/05/24 08:30 PM
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:'(
/r/seduction27/04/24 01:52 AM
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Congrats!
/r/seduction21/08/23 03:34 PM
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OP is a Saudi prince
/r/seduction02/08/23 11:54 AM
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Lol yes https://youtu.be/q8zwIphm5r4
/r/seduction16/10/22 08:33 PM
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"Once I overcome..." - no my dude. That's the wrong way to think. I've been saying this for 15 years now but I'm still overcoming my anxiety and it's clearly not working out because I'm literally not going out and powering through the fear. Staying put will actually never get you or I over that anxiety. Watch social animal on youtube. These guys are you and me, full of social anxiety and scared to interact with people you want to ask out but they've done it. I think you could learn lot from that…
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:02 PM
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/r/seduction06/08/22 01:18 AM
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