trway14 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
232	The Red Pill Truth that salsa dancers intuitively understand	Red Pill Example	trway14	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/14 12:44 AM
157	Why women don't tell you what they want		trway14	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 03:05 PM
51	A collection of TRP gold from the Comments	Red Pill Theory	trway14	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/14 02:48 AM

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16	Read 15 lessons from Pook, tried few on my standard girlfriend, and was amazed how they work to the letter Funny then how the wholesome "women and men are just humans beings" advice that you seem to promote here, never managed to get the point across to OP. Apparently you know that the things he describes in his post work, but are simply unable to communicate it in an understandable way to people like him. He's had teachers, mothers, Dr Phil and god knows what else give the advice that amounts to "How strange, women must be like human beings" - and somehow it's poor communication, because the message…	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/16 07:18 PM
7	Feminist writes article about cock carousel filled with red pill truths This article shows the hamstering of a girl who simultaneously holds on to two beliefs that are clearly incompatible - and instead of sacrificing one of the two beliefs, she chooses to sacrifice rationality. Belief 1 is the precious equality shtick. Belief 2 is her subconscious secretly holding on to female hypergamy and entitlement: despite all the equality blahblah, she still cannot let go of that deep craving for a man taller than her, more assertive and confident than her, etc. - and for him…	/r/TheRedPill	16/02/16 10:18 AM
5	Textbook Redpill example of hypergamy in r/okcupid Another thing to keep in mind is that even if he does commit to her, that act alone will slowly cause her attraction to wane. A real alpha with options would have no need to commit, and her hindbrain knows this. That is why "abundance mentality" and "dread game" work. Women fight for control, then despise you for it when they win. Similarly, women fight for commitment, then lose attraction to you when they win. She knows she's just a girl, nothing all that special compared to who she thought He …	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/15 11:56 AM
14	Textbook Redpill example of hypergamy in r/okcupid That sounds suspiciously like a woman hamstering to herself how there's still hope that she will find an alpha who will also commit.	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/15 08:01 PM
2	Stoic guy tells girlfriend she isn't 'his', and that if she cheats he wouldn't get overly emotional about it. Her brain has total meltdown. Reason: He indirectly (and without knowing) played a very powerful dread game card. Analysis inside. One day, she will expect him to protect her, but he'll step back and tell her to defend herself and become mature in the process. She'll accuse him of abandoning her in her time of need, using guilt as a way of roping him in. Sounds like the plot of this movie.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/15 09:10 PM
1	Girl refused to accept reality So, is the Brand actually any better?	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/15 02:22 PM
2	Hate is the new love There's a dearth of written material that explains redpill philosophy. There's precisely nothing that covers everything in any real detail; I suspect such a book would wind up being about a thousand pages long. Not everything needs to be covered in detail. When teaching any subject, you are always transferring mainly a way of thinking. University physics textbooks don't cover all topics, nor do they contain great detail - they teach the basic theories plus how to apply them. Students can then ap…	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/15 08:16 PM
3	Special Snowflakes Every woman has tits and a vagina. There were evolutionary incentives strong enough to give ALL women those distinct physical features that men don't have. Then it would be quite extraordinary if those same evolutionary incentives weren't strong enough to give ALL women certain mental/psychological features that men don't have.	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/15 07:56 PM
6	Given the chance, most women will cheat with a man of greater SMV If what you say is true, shouldn't betas have been bred out of existence by now? This is a good question. Robert Wright answers it in "The Moral Animal", which I recommend you read since I can't rehearse all of evo psych in just one post. The main point is that genes which set up flexible systems are more successful than genes which set up static systems. Applied to this case, one must realise that there are more choices than A) genes which produce alpha behavior; and B) genes which produce beta…	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/15 11:27 PM
4	Given the chance, most women will cheat with a man of greater SMV Thanks jac, I appreciate that. I had some people suggesting I start a redpill blog, but this sort of overt discussion is just not the kind of thing you can tie your real name to. That holds me back from doing it. Perhaps I could try writing fiction with some red pill themes underneath. I'm a scientist by profession, English is my second language.	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/15 08:48 PM
8	Given the chance, most women will cheat with a man of greater SMV You're absolutely right: the "good girl" actually never existed. But for stilistic reasons I chose to assume that she did and then write her obituary. It provides kind of a "staged funeral" mental image which may be useful for men who are still working on dropping the blue pill dream. Plus, since it's hard to prove that something didn't exist, it's easier to argue that "even if it did exist at some point, evolution would have selected against it."	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/15 08:12 PM
9	Given the chance, most women will cheat with a man of greater SMV Who told you that? Not me. Female hypergamy and male polygamy go hand in hand. There is no other way if 80% of the women want 20% of the men.	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/15 05:50 PM
4	Given the chance, most women will cheat with a man of greater SMV There is some logic in there, but mate guarding betas would also have sound and touch and smell, so vision is just a small part of the equation. Hence I'm skeptical that a little moonlight would make such a strong difference. Besides, female genes could overcome the moonlight problem by making their host ovulate and meet McThundercock when the moon is at its darker phase.	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/15 05:01 PM
4	Given the chance, most women will cheat with a man of greater SMV If you want to present a theory like that, even just hypothetically without looking at any data, the first question you need to answer is: What kind of selective pressures would make such a lunar strategy beneficial for women? How would women with such traits outcompete women without them? What reproductive benefit do women derive from being faithful around the full moon? Does that give them hotter sons? I don't see it.	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/15 04:11 PM
160	Given the chance, most women will cheat with a man of greater SMV I've often said that many men are beta providers because it is a valid reproductive strategy, and the same goes for women choosing to settle with beta providers. However, an essential part of that strategy on the female's part is cheating with alphas to get good genes. Evolutionarily speaking, women who for whatever reason did not cheat on their beta providers, were less reproductively successful than women who did. The women of old whose conscience prevented them from getting pregnant by a love…	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/15 01:16 PM
1	What makes intelligent men stay blue pill? This might get downvoted, but... every man has a beta inside him, because beta is a valid reproductive strategy. If you're not a very attractive man, beta is actually the most successful strategy for your genes. Fucking many women without commitment is only the most successful strategy if you're in the top 20% of hot guys, so evolution selected for men with self-assessed low SMV to go beta and offer commitment in exchange for a few kids. It's the best they can do.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/15 10:48 PM
8	Scientific proof of TRP: a study about the evolution of human mate choice Oversupply of women results in liberal sexual mores, high divorce rates, out of marriage births, single mothers, increase in women’s participation in the workforce, and lower levels of paternal investment. If that's a quote from the article, then researchers usually mean this quite literally. For example, after a war many men have died, so the society now has an oversupply of women. That means women have very low chances of locking down Mr Perfect Alpha in a marriage, so instead they'll seek ref…	/r/TheRedPill	13/01/15 08:56 PM
0	How dancing turned me from a self-conscious wimp to an budding masculine man There is nothing wrong with operating on an instictive level as you describe it, and that is indeed needed when dancing. But if you can't find the words to convey any of those experiences, there is no point in starting topics here. You say it's impossible, but plenty of writers have done just that: converting their experiences to words so that the reader can relive the experience. Women are not concrete, so no I can't explain it. [...] The body, when it is moving and interacting with people is o…	/r/TheRedPill	13/01/15 01:47 PM
0	How dancing turned me from a self-conscious wimp to an budding masculine man Dancing is a mating ritual which many animals do. Dancing is a way for the female and male to judge the abilities of the opposite sex. I am aware of that, I even had a topic on it. The reason I asked my question is because I would like to see OP describe his experiences more concretely.	/r/TheRedPill	13/01/15 01:41 PM
2	How dancing turned me from a self-conscious wimp to an budding masculine man It was hard coping with all of that feminine energy. It overwhelmed me. Can you explain what you mean by this? How does that "feminine energy" manifest concretely that it overwhelmed you? This allowed me to experience women in dance for everything that they are. [...] I became a rock upon which women could crash their feminine energy up against. Same question here. Concretely, what did you experience them to be?	/r/TheRedPill	13/01/15 10:24 AM
13	Segregate the mothers and the whores: Difference in casual fucks vs LTR worthy women Every woman has a whore and a housewife in her. Everyone, including you, plays different roles towards different people. You act differently with your boss than with your little cousin than with your girlfriend than with your father. You even act differently towards coworker A than coworker B, because their different personalities (public images) encourage different kinds of interactions. So whether she behaves like a whore or like a housewife depends on the image you project. If you successfull…	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/14 11:34 AM
1	moving to USA from EE country? Try Berlin. However, aside from your average "Eastern-European woman perks" (such as her being obliged to cook for you, do house stuff etc), you have a guarantee of her never cheating on you, devoting herself to children 100% and being very committed overall. There are no guarantees anywhere. Just girls who know they have to keep up appearances at all costs.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/14 11:37 PM
2	Whats the fucking holdup with male birth control? Which is exactly why the current most promising method Vasalgel/RISUG, is based on blocking the mechanics of sperm cell transport rather than on hormonal tricks.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/14 01:00 AM
2	A collection of TRP gold from the Comments Upvoted, thanks for sharing.	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/14 12:47 PM
2	A collection of TRP gold from the Comments It's a good book. Google knows where the PDF and epub are.	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/14 06:52 PM
6	A collection of TRP gold from the Comments And the heart jumps ship a couple months before her mouth does.	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/14 02:43 PM
2	A collection of TRP gold from the Comments www.pastebin.com allows you to dump it without signing up. It's literally a matter of copy/paste and clicking a button. I'd be interested.	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/14 12:23 PM
2	[48 Days of Power] Day 30 - "Make your accomplishments seem effortless." Practice in all things a certain sprezzatura [nonchalance], so as to conceal all art and make whatever is done or said appear to be without effort and almost without any thought about it. -Castiglione, The Book of the Courtier The ideal courtier was supposed to be skilled in arms and in athletic events but be equally skilled in music and dancing. The courtier who had sprezzatura managed to make these difficult tasks look easy - and, more to the point, not appear calculating. It should seem like …	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/14 01:11 AM
2	Check out Tom Cruise just elbow out Graham Norton. Scientology is all about covert social manipulation, propaganda, posturing, projecting manufactured images and keeping frame dark-triad style. How else do you think they manage to keep millions of members paying money and believing all that bullshit despite heavy opposition from most governments and societies? Scientology takes covert power games and social scheming to extreme levels. In the seventies they even trained Moroccan intelligence agents in dealing with subversive elements. How do you …	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/14 12:53 AM
14	FR (women choose the men) More accurately, women pick the men that get to have their pick of the girls. It's like they collectively elect a few Kings and then each girl hopes that one such King will choose her of all women to be his Queen. One-liners like "women do the selecting" always get buried in female protests that "they also have to compete". The complete truth is, first the men compete, then the women compete for access to the champions.	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/14 09:41 PM
3	Career Sabotage by ‘Uncomfortable’ Women Point 2 is correct in that companies make a cost/benefit evaluation. But you omitted the fact that this evaluation includes the possible consequences the company may face if a scorned woman decides to sue / go to the media / get her female colleagues involved in a collective outrage / alert a government watchdog / call the local feminist activists to picket the place and write angry letters to the newspaper. You may be a very important and productive guy, but if the company faces a credible risk…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/14 11:21 AM
5	Theory Thursday - 12/11/14 You don't see girls walking on the street with alphas, because alphas have better things to do with their time than carry some bitch's shopping bags. They meet up with the girls in their bedrooms and you don't witness any of that stuff, because it happens behind closed doors (she doesn't want to be seen as a slut). He fucks her, maybe eats a meal and then goes home. No "romantic walks" involved. The guys you see having "romantic walks" on the street are playing their provider role. Not surprisin…	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/14 05:53 PM
9	Theory Thursday - 12/11/14 Because women have different criteria for short-term partners and long-term partners. Short-term have to be sexually attractive ("alpha"), long-term have to be willing to provide. This is why those guys are boyfriends and husbands rather than friends-with-benefits (with the girl forever pining for more).	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/14 04:08 PM
20	Women mentality regarding dating Cosmo is TRP for women. Same thing with girls' nights out, sleepover parties, dinner parties and whatever female-only stuff they do. Cosmo is only for the dumber ones, the smarter ones have their own alternatives. Regardless of where they congregate, girls know exactly what kind of shit they help eachother pull and hamster. Then through projection, they assume men have a similar vile support system set up in male-only spaces. That's why they so desperately want to police and/or ban male spaces, …	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/14 07:25 PM
70	Beta lives with college girlfriend, AF ensues with a surprise twist That whole story is a lesson why you should trust your instincts.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/14 07:21 PM
17	Feminists think the UK is too aggressive in pursuing false rape accusations Don't tell the justice system not to do their job of prosecuting criminals; tell women not to make false allegations.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/14 10:35 AM
1	Seems like "love" and relationships just feel so different once you finish college but can't put my finger on it. (At least for Americans) It's basically the same, except only a minority of men experience it with the same intensity that most women do. Because hypergamy. It's like that feeling of accomplishment you got after you lost your virginity. A few months later you realize that it doesn't really mean that much.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/14 09:58 PM
1	Online social experiment shoot stop signs with a 45 caliber pistol and try to think of ways to stay out of jail. I find myself humming Johnny Cash. I played rugby cuz I wanted to hit a man without pads. Sounds like your profile piqued interest because it was more like a comedy show. Girls like being entertained.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/14 09:29 PM
1	[FR] Girl threw a can of beer at me It'd be even worse if it did actually happen. Being the over-the-top alpha stereotype does you no good, it just shows insecurity. I walk out of the bar smiling knowing that justice has been served. That's fedora-level cringe shit right here.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/14 09:09 PM
1	Seems like "love" and relationships just feel so different once you finish college but can't put my finger on it. (At least for Americans) /r/TheRedPill/comments/2nifoy/50_shades_of_grey_is_actually_kinda_great_example/cmefcbv There's only one thing better than being rich, and that is getting rich. For women, there's only one thing better than knowing you're playing in the top SMV league, and that is discovering it - you thought you were a homely girl, but now that you grew curves in all the right places, against all expectations you're a match for the King. Dopamine rush! This is the appeal of female teenage sexuality: the discove…	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/14 09:02 PM
1	50 Shades of Grey is Actually Kinda Great [Example] Not being married. If you somehow did get married, then it depends on your morals. TRP is amoral so leaves that to every man to decide for himself. If you want to fuck the girl, then you need to carefully consider whether she'll keep quiet about it or not. Personally, I am a man of my word, so if I somehow got married, I'd basically do what this man did in his follow-up thread: get the wife involved ASAP to pre-empt any false accusations and defuse the situation. You have to lay out all the evid…	/r/TheRedPill	28/11/14 02:14 PM
1	This is a story about how AWALT. There are no guarantees in life. The only thing you can do, is not get totally dependent on her. Have other options so it won't ruin you when she cheats. There is no perfect solution, but if you choose to LTR, then this is the best there is.	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/14 01:46 PM
12	50 Shades of Grey is Actually Kinda Great [Example] such horrific grammar and structure If the prose was of novel quality, the book would have sold less. Why? A great part of the appeal to women is that this book was written by a mommy just like them. This is their fantasy, not some ivory tower snob writer's whose medieval words betray how he thinks he understands women better than they do themselves. This book is different, says the mommy's hindbrain. I could have written it. This could be my diary. I could have been Anastasia. This is a book fo…	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/14 12:47 PM
13	This is a story about how AWALT. it would never, ever, ever happen again Before it happened, she told herself "I will never do that". After it happened, she told herself "it will never happen again". (Note the distancing language!) Next time it happens, wait and see what the hamster comes up with. Having said that, see /r/TheRedPill/comments/2mry1o/this_is_a_story_about_how_awalt/cm71ash . If this confession surprises you, it indicates you have women on a big pedestal. Yes she operates under AF/BB like all women, but this one e…	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/14 05:20 PM
1	Factors that effect divorce rate. People with low IQs should not get married. You've posted valuable information, but the reasoning isn't really rigorous. For example, the statistic you mention can be interpreted in multiple ways. Let me propose just one alternative hypothesis: women with a high IQ are better able to hide their affairs, so they have better chances of cuckolding their beta husbands without blowing up the marriage.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/14 04:31 PM
1	RSD Julien has Australian Visa cancelled. Interesting, thanks for sharing. Leaves me on the fence as well.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/14 04:22 PM
2	Is TRP eventually trying to lead us to monogamy or polygamy? TRP has no set goal. It's just a set of information and experiences, shared by an ingroup for mutual benefit. Of course it's still possible to use that information to construct a worldview, or a view of Western society. Personally, I think that if all men were redpilled, society wouldn't function. Society needs beta bucks to selflessly provide for the mothers and children. Even if all men were viciously striving to become hotter versions of themselves, women would still only see the top 20% as h…	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/14 04:08 PM
2	It's OK to Take Advice From a Woman When you ask a girl what a man should do to be attractive, two words of that question stand out to her brain: Man. Attractive. So her brain simply searches through its filing cabinets for the concepts: Attractive. Man. That immediately calls up a mental image of men she's already felt attracted to. Perhaps real men from the past, or men from fantasies. Then she asks herself, what would I like these men to do? Or what did they do to make me feel good? The answer will then be "Ask me questions abo…	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/14 10:57 PM
2	My thoughts on powertalking. Also do you guys believe that the only reason we as human engage with others is to get a leg up in power, social standing and mate selection? This. A lot of the mental processes we discuss on TRP are subconscious. If you explicitly ask people whether they do process X, they deny and think you're crazy. E.g. "do you look for the golden ratio to assess facial aesthetics?" --> "No jackass, do you think I'm carrying a ruler around to hold it to everyone's face?" This is why self-reporting is a flawed way to investigate human drives. People will tell you what they want to believe about themselves. Looking at their actual behavior is more i…	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/14 03:27 PM
1	Self confessed "strong women" queue up to be spanked, slapped, and cummed on in r/sex confirming yet another red pill truth AWALT You clearly haven't spent enough time around members of the BDSM community. On the contrary. But let's not make this a discussion about our "credentials". Plenty of very powerful men are into extreme humiliation the descriptions of which I would not like to repeat here. If you had actually read my post, you would have seen that I never claim that men do not have submissive desires. I am well aware of the most recent research that shows the percentage of men who would like to sub is almost as hig…	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/14 12:08 PM
1	Self confessed "strong women" queue up to be spanked, slapped, and cummed on in r/sex confirming yet another red pill truth AWALT You forgot the part of the stereotype where he pays for it because women who voluntarily prefer taking control in bed are rarer than a can of dandelion & burdock.	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/14 09:49 AM
1	FR: Not sure how I feel about this one. She's giving him shit because he's too jealous. "You need to stop being so quick to get jealous. If you keep getting jealous like that we're through." She comes over to my table and starts chatting me up, next thing you know she touches me on my forearm and her eyes get big for like a split second before her man comes back out with her drink. They finished their drinks quickly and left. On the way out she just starts chatting me up again and feeling on my arms right in front of this guy. He even…	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/14 02:21 PM
266	Self confessed "strong women" queue up to be spanked, slapped, and cummed on in r/sex confirming yet another red pill truth AWALT They always try to hamster away the evolutionary roots and the near universality of female submissiveness by saying "It's just because I have so much power in my real life that I need the opposite in the bedroom, just to take a break from all that responsibility." Hamster bonus: this way they also get to make themselves out to be oh-so-important and successful at work. Meanwhile the men they fuck are also high status in real life, so those men apparently never get to take a break. None of these …	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/14 01:04 PM
1	FR: Successful application of Dread Game The best dread game is based on demonstrating rather than explicating. Instead of telling her that some girl flirted with you, she should see a girl flirting with you. Live action. Of course that's not always possible.	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 04:11 PM
2	Why you should fuck an escort, at least once. One of the greatest challenges to newcomers still swallowing the pill is the realization that women are not delicate creatures that need protecting Try asking girls whether they prefer a male or female gynaecologist. The ones who have been to both, will tell you that the female gynos are mean, rough bitches who have no problem pinching the inside of your vagina with a speculum. Men on the other hand tend to be more gentle, conscious and responsible about it all. Why? Female gynos know that the w…	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 03:42 PM
1	Essential thesis and a few comments about The Red Pill- please critique OP and you are correct, of course. But don't stress out about "the point" being hidden under all that practical stuff. When a father wants to teach his son to build stuff, he doesn't go straight to the core theories of physics and engineering. He does small projects with the kid from which the central governing principles will naturally emerge when the time is right. If the father just tells the kid about the core principles, the kid still won't have a clue what to do. Same thing with TRP: lots …	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/14 01:17 PM
2	Do you have evidence for the claims you make in the Red Pill constitution? Just adding two sources to this great list to specifically address AF/BB. In Richard Wright's "The Moral Animal" it's called dad/cad roles. It's called the Bovary strategy by this scientist: http://www.unc.edu/~nielsen/soci111/m6/soci111m6.pdf Then here's something on the 80/20 rule more scientific than the famous OkCupid "women rate 80% of men as below average" data: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19627993 Preselection reinforces that: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24907050 In final, i…	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/14 01:05 PM
2	You can't make this shit up: You can approach women without being creepy (No. 2 Be A Time Whore) Offer your time and attention freely and without expectation.. I won't take dating advice from a woman until she's spent a year dressed up as a man trying to score chicks. And even then she's only got 1 year of experience against my 7.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/14 02:10 PM
15	RSD Julien has Australian Visa cancelled. Never been to the US, but my impression is that it's similar to Australia regardless of the letter of the law.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/14 01:12 PM
59	RSD Julien has Australian Visa cancelled. As a West European guy (not from UK), I've been in Australia and noticed their culture has a stronger vigilante justice / mob mentality than I'm used to. The suits in government don't give a shit about "principles" like free speech, they just don't want rioters to make their lives more difficult.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/14 11:56 AM
6	RSD Julien has Australian Visa cancelled. That being said, the choking thing was just begging for a reaction from even moderates outside of the PUA sphere of influence. I am inclined to agree and my other posts will show you I'm not a big fan of Julien either. But did he simply advocate that "all women like to be choked out of the blue" or something crazy like that, or is there a nuance? If possible I'd like to have a first hand look at the "offending material". If they're just going to ban material that promotes dominance like this, th…	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/14 11:52 AM
8	Guy's gf used to have 3 hour sex marathons with "dbag" ex-bf. She now gives her current bf only 15 min of boring sex. Commenters tell him he needs "counseling", "should be honest" and communicate, and "we all do things when we were younger". The fact that he's willing to commit to her, is already enough to turn her off. The hindbrain of a post-wall woman knows very well that no alpha with options would make her anything more than a plate.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/14 10:44 AM
1	RSD Max gets Assaulted by Feminist Good idea, I'm sure they could learn some more pieces of sly social engineering from RSD.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/14 11:28 PM
7	RSD Max gets Assaulted by Feminist The chant is actually a sly piece of social engineering. If they were to say "RSD promote rape!" then they could be sued or debated over the factual accuracy of that accusation. With this chant, they can't be sued because it doesn't slander anyone. It's not even an accusation, it's just a statement of fact. Nobody can disagree with it, because then you'd be a rape apologist. The tactic is called "minimize grappling points". Meanwhile the subtext of this "factual" message is still clear to the by…	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/14 08:08 PM
3	Julien Blanc, Real Social Dynamics dating coach slammed for promoting ‘sex abuse tactics’ in Melbourne Blanc’s “PhD in female attraction” involves a disturbing fixation with physical violence. Such research is obviously haram, doesn't matter if it's based on hard evidence or not. (I didn't read the thesis so can't judge that.) A major rule of the feminine imperative is that female sexuality must never be discussed without female supervision. Evolutionary reason for that is that female sexuality must be shrouded in mystery for AF/BB to work. (Only the alphas "get it".) Inside a woman's emotional m…	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/14 10:07 AM
37	Getting Girls to Initiate Interaction With You Soon enough OP will be well-known by everyone on his campus as "that guy with the open bag".	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/14 10:01 AM
3	Why women don't tell you what they want Do you have a LTR or plates? What do you get out of the Deida approach, or in other words, what does she do for you in return - other than being grateful that you take care of her? For example, see: /r/TheRedPill/comments/2l9koo/why_women_dont_tell_you_what_they_want/clsq54s	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/14 09:25 AM
2	Why women don't tell you what they want That's why any decent approach that claims to solve the question I posed with this thread, should not involve you allowing yourself to be manipulated. It's a core part of this discussion, because you could argue that in the Deida approach the girl gets away with making you spend more energy on her than you get back. She is like an emotional parasite. Yet, most of TRP seems to favor the Deida approach. I was interested in seeing how people reconcile that or deal with it, and there've been several…	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/14 09:09 AM
4	Why women don't tell you what they want she thinks I'm "too good to be true" and therefor she is doing the best she can to bring as much to our relationship as possible The message here is that, if your SMV is high enough with respect to hers, just about any approach will work. (As long as it doesn't give off beta vibes which lower your SMV.) That's why Chad McThundercock can have 20 girls doing everything for him, basically investing way more energy in him than he invests in her personally. That's the kicker: Chad invested only in hi…	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/14 08:53 AM
6	Why women don't tell you what they want why would I do everything you want? I'll do what I want, and you'll join me because you want to. Would you rather be a lonely crybaby, or take a walk on the wild side with me?" Seems a bit too explicit, like you're laying it down too thick. Her hindbrain may respond well to that attitude, but if you actually say it like that , it gets processed by her conscious brain. That's where the hamster is going to chew it up into all kinds of weird shit.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 06:49 PM
8	Why women don't tell you what they want This is the kind of reply I'm looking for. Thanks for your perspective. Btw, don't worry about not being the "super-dominant alpha who doesn't give a shit about anybody". A good leader has something to give to his audience, rather than taking away from them: /r/TheRedPill/comments/2l31h4/rsd_julien_demonstrating_aggressive_escalation_in/clr1cok	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 06:42 PM
4	Why women don't tell you what they want The "you wanted equality, you got it" approach could actually be less work than the Deida approach. Deida requires you to invest energy to be her strong leader, and all you get back for it is adoration and a cute smile. You're 100% responsible for carrying all the weight. In the equality approach you fuck her, and if she doesn't bring enough value to the table (by carrying some of the weight) you just go drink a beer with your buddies and move on to the next one.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 06:23 PM
1	Why women don't tell you what they want Your point is valid, but in this case it's just a point of semantics. I made it clear in my OP and replies here that indeed, girls say one thing but actually need another thing, and you're supposed to respond to the thing they need. That was never the question. In my previous reply, substitute "want" with "need" and our semantics are aligned again. If you're still not convinced that we agree on this, see: /r/TheRedPill/comments/2l9koo/why_women_dont_tell_you_what_they_want/clst27k Then tell me w…	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 06:14 PM
3	8 Things Women Need to Stop Doing aka I think my subconscious impulses can be controlled... I think women Literally. Just. Must. Stop Writing Like This.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 06:06 PM
5	Why women don't tell you what they want Theres an assumption I don't agree with. The post referrs to women as if they are some criminal mastermind. That idea was not meant to be coming off of my post. I have no doubt at all that the hamster is a subconscious process. For example, from the OP: It means "I don't want to FEEL LIKE a needy girlfriend so I don't want to ask you to cheer me up. That is not meant to be taken literally. She's not literally thinking that in her conscious mind. It's just that I can't describe these subconscious…	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 05:43 PM
1	Why women don't tell you what they want That was my original take on the question as well. This is just a different angle. I posted an answer to that seeking it in the corner of evo psych, but here is another way of looking at it.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 04:51 PM
8	Why women don't tell you what they want Caring what a girl wants doesn't equate freely giving it to her without expecting anything in return like a beta orbiter. That's the point of this topic. Having said that, you do touch an interesting point. In one sense, men who follow the Deida approach are giving girls exactly what they want, without expecting all that much in return other than adoration.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 04:25 PM
14	Why women don't tell you what they want Basically you're saying it's not as simple as "spending energy", because if you're doing manliness right, then taking her along for the ride doesn't actually cost you any energy. There's a controversial idea on TRP that you shouldn't be doing anything for the girls, instead you should be "doing it for you". You go dancing because you enjoy dancing, it gives you energy. (Or as Deida would say, it allows you to express your masculine energy.) So yeah, you're leading her on the dancefloor, but that…	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 04:01 PM
2	Why women don't tell you what they want We're either talking about different things, or it has not yet become clear how your quotes relate to the question I posed with this thread. To see what I mean by that, look at the two examples I gave: the Deida approach and the "equality" approach. Those two bullet points are like brothers, they are different answers to the same question. Your suggestion would not fit in that list as a third bullet point. It's more like a distant cousin: somewhat related, but not directly. I can somewhat see th…	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 03:50 PM
5	Why women don't tell you what they want That is a given most of us will agree on. But being an oak tree is an investment of time and energy. Sheltering her until her storm passes costs you effort. The question is to what extent you expect her to do anything back for you, other than being grateful, pretty and sucking your dick. To some people, that question could be stretched further: to what extent do you expect a girl to take responsibility for her own emotions and life. TRP orthodoxy says see her as a little brat kid, but she's stil…	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/14 03:34 PM
0	[Discussion] Why do women deny their desire to be dominated? Yes, that's the macro view - or at least one way to view it at the macro level. What I'm talking about is at the micro level, i.e. at the level of two individuals interacting in a small social group. Just like in chemistry, the dynamics on the micro level will translate to phenomena on the macro level. While your analysis is valid, the micro level will never lose relevance. More specifically, the position of a society in the global intersocietal competition depends on how the millions of interpe…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 08:22 PM
9	RSD Julien demonstrating aggressive escalation in Tokyo. Tumblrites furious. This guy missed one of the major lessons from Patrice O'Neal. Patrice was a big fat misogynist, and yet many women respected him and defended his ass. What was so different about him? A NY Times article (bot won't let me link) on Patrice contains some hints. “He had the ability to go other places other comics couldn’t go because he didn’t show a lot of bitterness, he showed a lot of curiosity,” she says. “He would keep the ball in the air.” When you're showing bitterness, you're TAKING energy aw…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 08:15 PM
5	On practical application. I call this the Theory Trap. The Theory Trap is alluring because hanging out on online discussion forums provides a safe means of feeling some sort of control. You handled a situation with a potential love interest badly? Go online, write a story on what you should have done, read similar stories by other guys and comment with the perfect game plan. Everyone upvotes you, you may even get a little emblem of "Red Pill Expert" next to your name. There, you've convinced yourself that you took back c…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 08:02 PM
14	Women want to be dominated, but don't want to admit it That is an interesting point. A man taking the risk to be dominant only means something if there are consequences associated with failing. Very related to this discussion: /r/TheRedPill/comments/2kyful/man_creates_a_video_with_him_walking_through_the/clq46ft It's like Louis CK said, "You want me to rape you on the off chance that you're into that shit?" However, I have seen a lot of wiser women moderate this requirement. The BDSM community generally considers a frank discussion of consent before…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 02:55 PM
1	Race, TRP, and attraction: How to overcome limiting beliefs and have success when so much material and evidence out there tells you that you can't do it? This. First thing I thought when reading OP's posts is that Patrice O'Neal might be the inspiration he is looking for. I've seen an Indian who could dance salsa like a pro. Chicks all over him. He did dress like a white guy though, had white guy hobbies like producing techno and other dance music, which is a big thing among the whites in my W.European country.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 11:39 AM
2	My friend isn't beta.. he's a complete eunuch. Your story perfectly illustrates how the root of the problem is not in the way guys like this approach their oneitis. That's just a symptom, and giving him advice on that is just fighting the symptoms. Even if he changes that, he will develop new cringeworthy behavior. Maybe you or that book can teach him all the tricks that make him appear alpha, but at the core he's still beta. He might get the girl, fool her for a while, and then the cringecoaster takes off. What he needs is to become a man i…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 11:30 AM
10	Women want to be dominated, but don't want to admit it Yep, that's consistent with what I'm saying. All I did was link that to evolutionary psychology for a deeper understanding.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 10:59 AM
9	Women want to be dominated, but don't want to admit it Looks like you either didn't get it or are trying to pick a fight, judging from your previous post you deleted. I'm not interested in that. I am interested in genuine arguments that could disprove the theory, but you haven't provided those. The tendency for subconscious drives and processes to be hidden from the conscious through self-deception is well documented scientifically, as you can see in the book I reference in my post. If you want to argue against that, you will have to specifically re…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 10:54 AM
3	TV celebrity / comedian Chelsea Handler throws a massive hissy fit after her nude photo mocking Putin is banned on Instagram...TWICE. By that logic the 120 km/h speed limit on the highway is arbitrary and should be abolished. Fact is the line has to be drawn somewhere. Also a fact is that this is not censorship, because she can publish that shit elsewhere without problem. Just not on a place that includes children in their audience.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 09:02 AM
2	TV celebrity / comedian Chelsea Handler throws a massive hissy fit after her nude photo mocking Putin is banned on Instagram...TWICE. It's the image he projects. You can be alpha on a bike. He looks beta on his bike. Only thing missing is a seat for the kids.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 08:57 AM
44	Women want to be dominated, but don't want to admit it Why do women deny their desire to be dominated? Because a woman's genes can't allow her to hand out the keys to her pussy on a silver platter. It's best if she doesn't even know where the keys are hidden herself. That way, she can't tell her beta bucks how to become alpha, and only real alphas will turn her on for reasons she won't rationally understand. ("I never thought I'd be the kind of girl to enjoy this, but he just blew me out of the water") /r/TheRedPill/comments/2b0bvj/discussion_why_do…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 08:34 AM
4	Man creates a video with him walking through the streets of NYC as a reply to the earlier version of the lady walking through NYC. Results are unbelievable! Your understanding of the ugly feminist's bitching is spot on, but there's a catch. Even normal women don't like bold displays of attention from guys they perceive to be below them. Such low SMV guys are only allowed to show supplicating beta-style attention, if anything, and then preferably in private rather than in public. Boldly approaching her in public is claiming that you're alpha, and if that claim is false, it must be punished. Girls get that "creepy" vibe when they sense an incongruence…	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/14 11:51 PM
9	Man creates a video with him walking through the streets of NYC as a reply to the earlier version of the lady walking through NYC. Results are unbelievable! This is why TRP teaches that you shouldn't make it your mission to get women. Find your passion (e.g. dancing, or sports, or teaching, or whatever). Put energy in it because you enjoy it. The fact that it makes you attractive is just a bonus. Initiating just for the sake of initiating isn't the way to go. The real battle is not about getting the guts to approach a girl: if you don't have any substance to yourself, you will initiate and still get shot down. The real battle is being a man. Having …	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/14 07:33 PM
3	Man creates a video with him walking through the streets of NYC as a reply to the earlier version of the lady walking through NYC. Results are unbelievable! Yeah, that's basically a summary of it. But like I said, it only gets you win if you're attractive enough to back up the confidence. Otherwise she'll peg you as one of the stupid and creepy guys. Like I said in my 2nd reply to gqtrees, there has to be more substance to you than just confidence.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/14 07:24 PM
66	Man creates a video with him walking through the streets of NYC as a reply to the earlier version of the lady walking through NYC. Results are unbelievable! There is some twisted logic to it though: by severely shaming and punishing men who aren't attractive enough when they make such moves, women collectively create a barrier. The result is that only truly hot men will be confident enough to approach women, because the others have learned not to. Hence a girl's subconscious knows that, if a guy makes such a bold move, he must either be really hot and confident, or really stupid and creepy. All the "average" guys have already been filtered out, stuc…	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/14 06:20 PM
348	Man creates a video with him walking through the streets of NYC as a reply to the earlier version of the lady walking through NYC. Results are unbelievable! All the girls complaining about harassment would go full screaming stalker if they saw Brad Pitt in their local Starbucks. The threshold for being the object of such attention is just lower when you're female, because hypergamy.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/14 11:34 AM
9	/r/twoxchromosomes find women who work in strip clubs to be "a bunch of hard working, intelligent, motivated women" Any woman will call all other women amazing, inspiring, brave, fabulous, deserving, and so forth. That's just the way the female social matrix works. Having a vagina is enough to qualify. The catch is that they only do this in public. It's all one big play from the female drama collective. Behind the scences of this bullshit play, the woman will subtly imply that all women are indeed amazing except for Sally from the office, Jane from the baking club, her mother-in-law, etc. Those are still amaz…	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/14 09:57 PM
6	David Deida's The Way of the Superior Man is a treasure trove of Red Pill Wisdom. His primary audience is women. Hence the new age language, which implies "this is just how it is meant to be, as ordained by a higher authority" (e.g. divine Mother Nature). This is very different from our masculine pragmatic style that says "this is what works". The new age style is popular with women because if a higher authority made things the way they are, that's the end of the story - no questions or moral dilemmas remain that might make the female mind uncomfortable. It "just is", because…	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/14 11:44 AM
1	Has anybody here ever created a cuckold? Contraception makes it slightly less likely that women will get pregnant while cheating, because now getting pregnant is a conscious decision rather than a by-product of sex. (Choosing not to wear contraception because that feels better is still a choice.) Also, the possibility of paternity tests and child support should make smart men reluctant to knock up the married women who sleep with them.	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/14 10:42 PM
-15	Yet another (rare) example of a red pill guy Straight from the hamster's mouth. That said, this guy is conservative, but not RP. The difference is insecurity, which manifests through his mate guarding. If he was RP he'd just wear a man-slut costume himself and get more attention than she does. Then she'd be pleading with him how halloween shouldn't be about slutty costumes.	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/14 10:31 PM
30	4chan strikes again. Very simple explanation on feminism and "beta males". Desire is indeed the missing link to the feminist story. On a purely rational, or even ethical/moral plane, the story is fine - we can all be equal and abolish roles. Such a society is theoretically possible and on some level of understanding, even noble. But most women themselves will admit that they need to look up to a guy a little bit, or they can't see themselves with him. She will only feel the tingles if he is slightly older, taller, more confident, more experienced; he has to take the in…	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/14 10:01 PM
2	Is there TRP Manual? Here's why you don't want to start reading a huge manual. You think if you can just get your hands on all the knowledge, it's going to be all right. So if there were one condensed, well-organized document - that'd be the magic pill, the instant solution to all your problems. Read it and you're done. But knowledge is stacked in levels which are glued together by experience. First you learn to count, then you learn multiplication tables. You need to process a layer and get some real-world experien…	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/14 01:28 PM
1	Ask Polly: How Do I Get My Husband to Act Like a Man? It wouldn't give you alpha points if it was easy. As always, the point is that the man has to prove himself, so she can't hand him her submissiveness on a silver platter.	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/14 08:29 AM
1	Woman in /r/relationships divorces husband because she's bored and never got to ride the carousel. Her 2 kids keep sabotaging her dates and her ex-husband holds frame when she tries to pawn the kids off on him even though he pays full alimony and child support. What do you mean by "the 47%"?	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/14 04:50 PM
1	Interesting youtube comment depicting some Redpill truths by a woman Still hamstering away her responsibility. Women's fault? Nope, your fault. Why? We're not the ones who take the major decisions But they are the ones who collectively create the system of incentives for men. That's why men in power do what they do.	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/14 04:36 PM
10	FR: Said Tinderella to the bachelor, "I fucked a doctor!" That could be due to selection bias: it takes a lot more to get into a Western college when you're an African kid, than when you're a white kid born in the country with reasonably well-off parents. You're only meeting the ones that went through that filter. Apply a similar filter to a different group and you will probably get similar results.	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/14 04:30 PM
3	An apparent contradiction in what arouses women: affirming her narcissism vs crushing her essence to oblivion The thing about female narcissism is that it is triggered when she perceives she can't wrap you around her finger like all the betas. The betas' validation means nothing to her narcissism. It's a given, it's always there, it's like air - should it ever disappear she'll go crazy, but for 99% of the girls it's always going to be there in abundance, so she doesn't ascribe any value to it. The validation of an alpha means a lot to her narcissism, because it is in scarce supply and she sees other gir…	/r/TheRedPill	20/10/14 09:34 AM
2	People do not want you to become Alpha A woman does want you to become an alpha, but her genes and tingles make her feel that you're not a real alpha if she had to help. It only counts when you achieve despite all the bullshit that's thrown at you. Her subconscious wants to know: are you confident enough in your understanding of the world, and of women, that you know what she wants and needs better than she does herself? In other words, women want to see you being strong and charming because that's who you really are, not because you…	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/14 10:14 PM
1	Some Insight into the Hamster Accurate advice would make the readers feel bad. So to keep selling they tell them what they want to hear. When women accuse TRP of being "a guy's fantasy world" they are projecting. Many of us would prefer TRP not to be true, as evidenced by the many anger/depression/acceptance stage threads.	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/14 11:05 AM
1	The evolution of males in humans Exactly. That also answers the original question by Baylien2. In essence: women are far more likely to reproduce than men even in the modern world is correct, but the devil is in the details, because that statement is binary (it assumes you can only "reproduce" or "not reproduce"). In reality there are levels of success, and although less men will reproduce, the ones that do have a lot of success. That exactly compensates for the failure of the other men, so that this statement is also correct: …	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/14 05:57 PM
2	Beta is a lifestyle of failure The lizard brain works on an absolute SMV This seems to me where we disagree. Your statement is an accurate approximation on timescales of 100 years, because evolution is slow. So it's a perfect working strategy in our lives. On that level, confidence is something special and of absolute value, because lizard brains won't evolve in just 100 years. If you take a pack of girls TODAY and drop them in a magical place with only confident guys, you're correct - they won't know what hit 'em. But my fir…	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/14 03:19 PM
3	Beta is a lifestyle of failure In the hypothetical world where all men are confident, confidence does not equal SMV anymore. There will be other differences that make one man a better genetic father than the other, and women whose tingles tune in to that will be more reproductively successful. Hence comes a new definition of SMV based on new criteria, and all men won't be equal - there will still be a 20%. That is absolutely inherent to the fact that women can carry one baby per 9 months and men can make many. There will alwa…	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/14 02:36 PM
2	Beta is a lifestyle of failure Why do women's bodies and brains have systems that give them those tingles? Because it evolved that way - women who could select the men with the best genes (top 20%) and enlist beta provisioning from the rest, were the most reproductively successful women. The whole point of the tingles is to guide women to fucking the top 20%, that's why they evolved - to implement AFBB, the optimal female sexual strategy. If all men were confident, women would evolve a new way to select the best 20%, which th…	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/14 01:18 PM
0	Beta is a lifestyle of failure Women born in a hypothetical world where all men believe in themselves would still feel tingles for only the top 20%.	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/14 12:43 PM
1	The evolution of males in humans That depends on chance. Nature rolls the dice with sons, so they could be more successful than daughters or less. There is a chance the sons will be very successful at reproducing, and there is a chance they will be total failures. On average sons will have the same reproductive success as daughters (since every baby has a father and a mother) so if you compared 1000 men with 5 sons to 1000 men with 5 daughters, the average genetic quality of the two groups (if you could measure it) should be id…	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/14 11:01 PM
2	A woman's capacity for orgasm depends not on her partner's sexual skill but on her subconscious evaluation of his genetic merits. During human evolution, people who had traits that made them reproductively successful became our ancestors. So those traits were selected for. You are claiming that this kind of reasoning makes no sense, because you see people consciously deciding that they don't want children. That trait should have been selected against in the past, so we shouldn't be seeing it right now. It should have been eliminated from the gene pool, and certainly not present with the most socially successful people. How…	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/14 10:16 PM
4	What topic gets people the most fired up in relationships? It's similar to dealing with a child as described in /r/TheRedPill/comments/2i150v/treat_women_like_children_seriously/ckysaoi : when adults don't take charge competently and confidently, the child will feel unsafe, confused and subconsciously resentful because she does not feel protected and taken care of like she expects. But the child also wants to feel mature, be seen as equal to adults, be taken seriously like an adult and have the rights of an adult: if you remind her too much that you're …	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/14 10:06 PM
7	Treat Women Like Children. Seriously. To further the analogy: children desire to be seen as mature and equal to the adults. They want to stay up late just like their parents. When they hear there's a movie or a game or a drink or a club that's only for people older than them, they want to try it. They want their opinions to be taken as seriously as those of adults. But when they're allowed to take what they want (e.g. stay up late) they won't take responsibility when shit hits the fan (e.g. they're too tired the next morning). A chi…	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/14 09:39 PM
12	Anyone else feel like sex/lays would have meant more to them growing up than as adult males? I think as soon as you've had sex, it seems really amazing for maybe a few days, then it dawns on you that it doesn't mean as much as you had imagined, and it's onwards to bigger things. That happens regardless of your age. No good feeling lasts forever, that would defeat the evolutionary purpose of such dopamine rewards.	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/14 05:38 PM
2	Lessons Learned From Online Dating PT. I I presume because they're not going to be nice or sweet or girly to you. They'll make the bluepiller who wants to cuddle after sex cry with their masculine straight-forward rejection: "that wasn't the deal. bye now." To OP, there's hardly anything in quotation marks. NOTE - Everything in quotation marks was lifted directly from a profile or a personal message.	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/14 09:07 PM
3	This just happened to a Facebook friend of mine (wall of text) Don't waste your time engaging on a rational level with these people. The accusations they make are not based on rational arguments. They are emotional outlashes converted into some rational-sounding 'argument'. If you manage to corner them so tightly that the argument has to cave, there will be a new argument. But it's never really about what they say - it's about how they feel. Remember, logic has to follow rules that rationalizations can shit all over. If someone needs to believe something in…	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/14 05:31 PM
16	A feminists in the tech industry tries to interview another feminist who runs a feminist site, absolute hilarity ensues The article is a typical female passive aggressive attack. On the face of it the author is sticking up for her fellow feminist despite all the crazy, but that's just plausible deniability. The real message is the dirty laundry: look at how crazy this bitch is, and look at how nice I am for not blaming her too much. If anyone calls her out on it, the author will invoke plausible deniability saying "that's not what I wrote - I actually defended her!" Yeah right, if you wanted to protect her, you w…	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/14 05:22 PM
1	Help! I am now known as "the flirt". It is ruining my interactions with people as they judge me behind my back and stay away from me. Flirting is great, but it's all about balance. From what you write, it sounds like all you ever do is flirt like a player (or play like a clown) with these girls. That makes a man look similar to a hot-looking bimbo without substance. Like a boy with player pretentions, basically. You should be doing more with your (social) life than just flirting. You need some real substance to back up the signals you're sending that you're high value (i.e. your flirts). In case you haven't noticed, girls only…	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/14 02:50 PM
4	What do you consider to be the hallmark of a healthy LTR? 1) She respects you as a man. 2) She gets tingles for you. In other words, you're not Beta Bucks.	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/14 02:01 PM
4	"Who Runs the Girls?" - Surprisingly RedPill New York Times Opinion Piece Sure, girls may run the world, but men* run the girls. And the girls don’t seem to mind all that much. * the 20% of men at the top This statement shows a deeper truth. Women are always talking about how independent they are, how they make their own decisions and how they owe nobody anything. What do they do with that independence? They run after the top guys, let the top guys make decisions for them, and enjoy basically being owned by them. So what this "freedom" really means is that women only …	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/14 02:10 PM
4	Beware the girl who actually likes you So we're talking about a girl who just likes you "for you" instead of for hypergamous reasons. For that concept to really be genuine, this "girl who actually likes you" would have to meet a famous handsome musician who feels exactly where her buttons are, and still get more tingles for you than for him. Does anyone believe this girl exists? Here's the thing: even if she does, she would be evolutionarily disadvantaged compared to other women who maximize their reproductive success. So this type o…	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/14 10:55 AM
3	Why Girls Get Better Grades Than Boys Do - Atlantic Mobile Trained research assistants rated the kids’ ability to follow the correct instruction and not be thrown off by a confounding one—in some cases, for instance, they were instructed to touch their toes every time they were asked to touch their heads. Curiously enough, remembering such rules as “touch your head really means touch your toes” and inhibiting the urge to touch one’s head instead amounts to a nifty example of good overall self-regulation. WTF? It's hardly surprising that such games are w…	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/14 09:20 AM
1	A lesbian feminist writer, once disguised herself as a man to write a book on gender. After the experiment, she suffered depression, and stated that being a woman is a privilege. This is the main thing that makes her believe women have it better, because it's socially acceptable for them to cry, talk about their problems, fears..etc. and for men, it's supposedly not. TRP itself commands you to hold frame in situations like that, because that supposedly gets you laid/makes you look alpha and unaffected. So yeah, I don't really see the point of posting this here, unless you totally misunderstood why she thinks women have it better than men. Her statements and TRP are not a…	/r/TheRedPill	09/09/14 06:56 PM
1	Some thoughts on society punishing MGTOW Then there's no need to renounce your citizenship in the first place. And you'll have to live in a country that doesn't have an extradition treaty and never see your family again.	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/14 06:52 PM
1	Some thoughts on society punishing MGTOW Giving up US citizenship costs money.	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/14 06:46 PM
0	"How much do you love me? Enough to forgive you for asking such a terrible question. Once.	/r/TheRedPill	24/08/14 06:31 PM
7	Arch feminist Tracy Clark-Flory can't stand that Chris Pratt is getting positive attention as a sexy 'douchebag'. This is why the idea of men learning game, taking steroids, etc, is so hateful to them. Because they see this as creating a "counterfeit" high-value man, which might conceivably dupe her into wasting her valuable eggs on sperm that doesn't measure up. It goes a bit deeper than this. Evolutionarily speaking there is no direct reason why women should hate men trying to improve themselves, because (as you said) if a man succeeds, that means he was made out of the right genes to begin with. His atte…	/r/TheRedPill	07/08/14 09:16 AM
1	Vice just released short Documentary on Men's Rights. The Duluth Model considers men perpetrators and women victims of domestic violence, by definition. That's exactly the kind of emotional knee-jerk sentiment you would expect to arise from the minds of humans who are not directly exposed to natural selection pressures anymore. (Why, see next paragraphs.) Sure, feminists codified the "women good, men bad" sentiment - but that doesn't mean they created it. What came first, the sentiment or the piece of paper describing it and giving it the name of D…	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/14 01:25 PM
1	Vice just released short Documentary on Men's Rights. You may be giving them too much credit. It is possible that they're just filling a position that was not possible in the past, but has now become possible due to the industrial revolution and our increase in wealth. Maybe it's not because of feminists that society changed, but rather because of changes in the circumstances in which society exists. The feminists are just following suit. This is just a theory, but in any case: pressure groups such as feminism and MRM can only knead a society into …	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/14 12:40 PM
0	Getting over the anger phase Briffault's law is a molehill guys here make into a mountain but if you get to know culturally non-american women you will see that hypergamy can be controlled via internalized social/cultural pressures and that it is a simple yet gargantuan task to move the goal posts of derived benefit. I have never even been in America, but I have lived in Europe, Asia and Oceania. Your assumption betrays that you are talking towards a point you want to be true, and are making up arguments along the way.	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/14 08:13 AM
1	Getting over the anger phase I don't think his presupposition is what you claim it to be. Women are able to control their urges, but when it comes to sex and dating they don't have to. There is no pressure on them, no incentive. Their position in the sexual marketplace ensures that. In all cases where humans control their urges, there has to be some sort of incentive. When that incentive is gone (such as in Africa) you'll be shocked to see how quickly humans (men and women) go back to their primal instincts. The old "patria…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/14 12:38 PM
2	What does Fifty Shades of Grey teach men about women? The gay porn women like to watch (or more frequently read) usually revolves around dominance/submission. It's often two strong men fighting to see who gets to be the top. Many women say they like it because they can identify with the experience and feelings of the submissive, but without the guilt of succumbing to the patriarchy. Hey, it's a man being dominated instead of a woman, so now it's okay! Basically, it's one big rationalization to get around feminist guilt. It's the exact same story: p…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/14 12:47 PM
1	Women are Incapable of Change. They latch onto something and claim it is their identity because society has made them feel they need to care about these things most do it for feeling good or for their reputation of being admired To be fair, that's how men get into things too. As a kid you try some shit, you find out what you're good at, and the accomplishments keep you going in that direction. Eventually it becomes your identity. The difference imo is that there is pressure on men to perform (or it'll cost you SMV) while that…	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/14 06:44 PM
12	The major difference between Men and Women re: AF/BB Opportunities for sex are scarce for men and abundant for women. Opportunities for commitment are scarce for women and abundant for men. A sane person will only dispense his/her scarce resource, to a high value partner. That's why women will only fuck alpha's. That's why men should only commit to high value women (if at all). The ideal solution for a man is to fuck multiple high value women, but that's hard to achieve. The second best solution is to fuck multiple low value women, or commit to on…	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/14 06:28 PM
16	Agree & Amplify Proven Scientifically Thanks for this link. As I discussed in another thread here (bot won't let me link), this is also why you shouldn't debate women/feminists using elaborate logic. You may be right, but you're throwing pearls in front of the swines. They are emotionally invested in their worldview and for every rationalization you spend 10 minutes disproving, they will make up another one in 10 seconds. Basically they can spew a fresh load of new bullshit for free anytime. You'll never win if you stay on the defen…	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/14 06:12 PM
1	TRP Sets the Floor for Interaction, Not the Ceiling. [wall of text] Well then, you may want to read this. Traditional approaches for dislodging strongly held attitudes have proved stubbornly ineffective; numerous studies have shown that confronting people with information that challenges their beliefs often has no effect at all, or even strengthens their initial position. But in this study paradoxical thinking (agree and amplify) seemed to encourage some people to privately reevaluate their strongly held beliefs or political narratives, authors said. It may succ…	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/14 04:54 PM
3	TRP Sets the Floor for Interaction, Not the Ceiling. [wall of text] For someone who has done so much introspection and research, you must have noticed that most people have huge emotional investments in their worldview concerning these things. For example, the entire identity of a large demographic of Jezebel depends on their status as perpetual victims of evil men. You can write large stories like this and stuff them full of disclaimers in an attempt to make them bullet-proof against any "misunderstanding" or accusation, but for these people to accept the red p…	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/14 09:59 AM
2	Up close and personal with a friend's BP-style marriage. Dude, you could at least take photographic evidence of the bruises and encourage/help him to keep a log, i.e. write up the story with date and all. When shit keeps hitting the fan, at some point he's going to have a brief moment where he'll consider getting out. That moment will be much easier to capitalize on if he knows he has evidence to back him up. You don't have to force him to get out - just make the barrier lower.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/14 09:02 PM
3	What does TRP think about women on birth control preferring feminine men? It's all in the word "prefer". Yes, she'll prefer to be with him - but not to fuck him. Boys make this mistake all the time when they ask girls "what do you like in a guy?" The answer will invariably be, the kind of stuff she likes in a cute caring boyfriend. The correct question would be: "what kind of man makes you so wet you want to jump him?" It's not that hard to become a girl's boyfriend - the real challenge is actually turning her on. Anyway, this answer can be found also in the article. …	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/14 08:50 PM
1	Conflation of Evolutionary Advantages and Personal Happiness? I think the article is saying those things just DONT give people the satisfaction they hoped for. It almost sounds like you're saying: whatever our impulses drive us to--that just IS happiness, by definition, regardless of how it feels. That's not what I'm saying. I am making a very clear distinction between "our impulses" (A) and "our happiness system" (B). The latter are our buttons, the former are our instinctive ways of getting them pushed. They are not the same. With that in mind, I encoura…	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/14 12:54 PM
1	Conflation of Evolutionary Advantages and Personal Happiness? You cant really believe that the same impulses/urges/instincts that helped our ancestors survive are now optimized for your life-satisfaction and sense of well-being. Reproduce with reproductively successful offspring. Not survive, surviving is just a part of it. Other than that, again I agree with the quoted statement. Both the mental systems that determine what makes us happy, and the instincts that used to be good strategies at getting there, evolved in a very different time than ours. The ke…	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/14 12:23 PM
1	Conflation of Evolutionary Advantages and Personal Happiness? The point is: the satisfaction we are looking for cannot come by blindly following insatiable urges. (Yet those urges may offer a huge survival/reproductive advantage). I am not refuting that point. It is fully compatible with my original post. A good balance between short-term accomplishment and long-term investments, is an evolutionary advantage. The person whose brain was only fixed on short-term pleasures, is not our ancestor. Hence our brains are adapted to find a good balance, they don't e…	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/14 11:52 AM
1	Conflation of Evolutionary Advantages and Personal Happiness? If not in our brain, where does happiness, whatever you define it as, exist? Every single system our brain has, is a product of evolution.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/14 09:04 AM
3	Conflation of Evolutionary Advantages and Personal Happiness? Why do human brains have happiness systems (based around dopamine, serotonin, etc)? Because we evolved them. Why did we evolve them? Because they provided evolutionary advantage. Their advantage is in focusing our energy on things that are evolutionarily important, e.g. eating and fucking, or the things that lead up to that. In other words, happiness systems are just there for motivation. They reward when we achieve, but they don't reward for no reason. Why is that? If you were always happy and …	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/14 07:52 AM
12	[Discussion] Why do women deny their desire to be dominated? Okay, long ass post incoming. (Edit: key points highlighted for convenient quick-reading.) I recently bumped into some logic-defying hamstering on /r/sex (look in my post history if you want to see it in action). Here's how I explained it through the lens of evolutionary psychology. Background reading on that field of thinking can be found in e.g. The Moral Animal by Richard Wright (pdf is on Google). Especially note how natural selection is not the only source of evolution: there is also sexual…	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/14 06:58 PM