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Yes divorce is contagious!! Had two couple friends that we used to hang out with get divorced in the same year. Well here her and I are getting divorced. I tried to stay under the radar but they kept angling the radar down at me. Sucks!!
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 07:07 PM
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So I’m 47 yo male. I’ve been married twice. The first was because getting married at 22 felt like the right thing to do. Well we stayed married 7 years. She cheated on me with a guy that made more money and she didn’t have to work. Now the 2nd marriage lasted 16 years. We dated for a year got engaged. Life was good. We flew to Vegas and got married. She’s an eye doctor she owns 2 practices. Someone asked me what did I love about her? Well I could t answer the question at the moment. After some r…
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 12:53 AM
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Made sure my daughter has a gift to give her.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 01:29 PM
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Meh.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 01:43 PM
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Get an attorney. Hope for the best.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 01:49 AM
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If you can file separate. My best friend filed together while going thru their divorce and he got screwed. Having to pay for her portion.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 12:14 PM
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So I’m on my second divorce. Both marriages have kids. Trust me they will be fine. Keep them the priority in your life. Dont make the mistakes I’ve made. You got more time behind you than in front of you. You can’t stay miserable. Life at this point is too short. Good luck brother. We are all rooting for ya.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 12:33 AM
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This!!
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/24 11:14 AM
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DONT TRUST HER. Sorry buddy but she is going to use that footage somehow against you. Keep your guard up.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/24 02:32 AM
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Don’t go you will be out numbered.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/24 03:12 AM
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This is standard. Don’t worry. I got served a week ago and mine said the same thing funny things is the papers that are being served to her say the same thing. A lot of it will wash themselves out. Just breathe Bro. You can do this.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 11:56 PM
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I’m going thru a divorce at the moment and I know it’s not easy. In the past my wife paid the bills and I never looked at the bank statements. Now that my attorney wants the past 6months worth of statements I looked at them and my jaw hit them ground after I found out what all she was spending money on. $600 a month on dog food for two 15lb chihuahuas WTF and not to Mention the people food and floating the car payments every month. Anyway look at the debt snowball. I’ve known about this method a…
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 01:49 PM
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Sue her for your attorney fees. Show her you’re not scared. I think she owed you now. Damn women.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 11:57 AM
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Well said.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 02:18 PM
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I’m going thru a divorce. Mom told me to sleep on every decision and not to sign anything until you’re sure. Hang in there buddy.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 01:00 PM
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It ain’t over until you sign.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 12:55 PM
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I went thru marriage counseling and in my opinion I think it would work if all parties involved would actually put for the work and effort. You or your spouse are just going to go thru the motions and not actually do what the counselor says you’re wasting your time and money. 8 months and over $2k down the drain was my experience. Good luck to you.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 12:16 PM
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You’re the MAN!!! You hit it on the head!!! I’m going to take a screenshot of this comment and keep it as a reminder. Most logical thing I’ve read on here!! Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/24 01:00 AM
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Sorry buddy. Hang in there.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 01:37 AM
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Where’s the alimony she owes you ?
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 01:35 AM
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Think of It this way. If you pay half for the drivers ed don’t you get a break on your insurance for the kid taking drivers ed. It probably would pay you back in the long run if you’re having to pay half for the insurance.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 05:17 PM
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👊
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 03:01 PM
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DUDE!! GO RIGHT NOW AND MEET WITH A FAMILY ATTORNEY!!!! Just go to the attorney for the rest of us guys going thru this. We don’t want to see you crash and burn.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 02:46 PM
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Don’t speak to her directly. Tell her to call your lawyer. Don’t put anything in a text or writing. Watch your 6.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 01:55 AM
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Hang in there buddy. Be cool for your kids. The court system sucks and we are at their mercy.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 01:37 AM
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