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Are you kidding me with this? A ruthless businessman should be President? No a smart successful business man should be President, like Warren Buffet or Bill Gates. Both of whom are 10 times wealthier than Trump and started with less. But they know what Trump doesn't, a successful business offers value to their customers as opposed to taking advantage of contractors and small business owners, filing strategic bankruptcies to leave creditors holding the bag, and taking advantage of customers. Trum…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 10:23 PM
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Oh 5th law, I've missed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 09:51 PM
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He's also killed a fuckton.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 09:42 PM
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I'm trying to understand. Why would they be heartbreaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 06:37 AM
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I would say no, but my definition of rape requires force or coercion. No force, no rape. I think the obsession with verbal consent is insane. It implies that people are completely aware of what they want and never change they're mind or do things they're uncertain of. If you had sex with someone and all you had to do to avoid it was to say no or walk away you weren't raped IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 01:27 AM
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Yeah, that women are wonderful effect is a killer. I didn't even think women cheated when I was younger. I had such a grand notion of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 11:26 AM
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I think you're proving the point that traditionally it wasn't always the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 10:59 AM
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How is bestiality harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 10:52 AM
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So it's like you can't have a democracy of 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 08:13 AM
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There you are again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/15 08:00 AM
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Holy fuck
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 10:02 PM
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You can not possibly think that the absolute domination of feminist theory in academia and popular culture has not dramatically changed the lessons and views of boys and men, often counter to their own best interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/15 12:00 PM
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I'll never understand this obsession with entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/15 11:43 AM
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Well obviously. Problem is we're not witnesses to most of the events that people claim to be victims of. And with "victim blaming" growing as a buzzword anyone that claims to be a victim is beyond reproach. If you ask questions, point out inconsistencies in their story, or demonstrate what they could have done differently, you're victim blaming. Hence, the victim, is now a protected class, so people are lining up to claim to be victims of something. I cannot tell you how many times I've heard pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 08:22 AM
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How can you guys be so against slit shaming and then come out and say yeah, we don't like guys that are overly sexual right upfront either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 07:58 AM
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That's cause a lot of times it's the victims fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 07:30 AM
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Ok, that's either complete bs or the most brilliant thing I've ever heard. Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/15 05:11 AM
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You're a mod now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 11:47 AM
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Yeah, I don't think being black out drunk frees you from child support payments. And your analogy isn't great. You may get an annulment from said marriage but you wouldn't be able to prosecute the person who married you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/14 07:12 AM
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The irony being that in a lot of these cases if the woman physically resisted there wouldn't be a rape at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/14 06:28 AM
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Wow, couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/14 06:26 AM
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You must have missed the rest of the conversation. Black out drunk doesn't mean immobile. Black out drunks get behind the wheel all the time. Its still there responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 11:24 PM
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I didn't say it was a smart decision, just that it was a decision. A decision that you're responsible for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 09:01 PM
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Volunteering is consent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 08:17 PM
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Ok, why were you afraid of expressing interest in girls? Is this an effect feminism had on you? Why are you for feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 06:03 PM
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Brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 05:52 PM
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They do if they walk out to the car get in it and drive away. Blacked out doesn't mean inactive, it means a lack of memory. I've done crazy shit blacked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 04:55 PM
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Men aren't generally emotionally damaged as a result of a girl touching there peepee when their hammered so with men it really doesn't matter. With women, something like 90% of alleged date rapes are alcohol related. Lowering of inhibitions, reduced memory, young women should not drink around men they don't want to have sex with alone. Most consent is nonverbal, that should be understood and respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 11:01 AM
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She wasn't unconscience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 10:46 AM
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Drunk people consent to driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 10:46 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 10:45 AM
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Yes, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 10:43 AM
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Ok, here's the thing, who gives a fuck if it's misogynistic. Equality isn't the goal here. Why does that matter??? My aim is for myself, why should I care about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 10:29 AM
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What about the porn industry makes you sensitive to this issue?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:11 AM
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I worked for me. I've had developing fetishes that I didn't like the direction they were going. I noticed the more I fed them the bigger they got. By only jacking off to porn and fantasies that were closer to what I wanted as a lifestyle my desires changed. It took months but it worked. Nofap talks about this a lot.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 05:05 PM
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Only watch maledom porn, do not allow yourself to orgasm to the thought of being dominated, only to dominating. Eventually the desires will lessen and your focus will shift.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 04:52 AM
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That's BS. Men literally invented science. No one was holding Galileo's hand, he just did it. Since women's lib there has been huge advances for women in all kinds of fields that used to be boys clubs. Yet they remain behind and generally uninterested in these fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 05:51 PM
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I see what your saying completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 02:44 PM
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You should edit this to say 2 years ago. More realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 12:11 AM
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There is no double standard. Whatsoever, full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 12:25 PM
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Women determine how attractive men are. So if your looking for someone to blame, you know who. This isn't a double standard at all. Men have decided what they're attracted to, so have women. Boobs are hot on a girl, not a guy. That's not a double standard. But I agree with you, women need to get some standards and stop finding sexually promiscuous men as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 11:43 AM
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Take a guy that goes out and bangs a 100 women. Is he doing this cause he likes sex? Unlikely. Most likely explanation is conquering new women has taken on an emotional significance tied to his ego. The best sex in his mind would be sex with a woman he views as high value, one that makes him work for it. One of the most common female sexual fantacies is rape. This is a desire to be desired to the point of consumption and powerlessness in the face of that desire. But it's also often a desire to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 11:17 AM
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Because I think that all sex is emotional and intellectual and getting to those roots makes sex better. Controlled chaos. But I'm into BDSM so I've spent a lot of time looking into the psychosexual background of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 10:31 AM
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These experiences have led me to believe that widespread stereotypes are self fulfilling. It wasn't just what I was taught it was what the girls were taught too. So they tended to explain their decisions and thought process using that language which reinforced my own thoughts. If you're taught, day in and day out for 15 years this is how the world works you don't just snap out of it. You crawl out of it like a fog.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 10:22 AM
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I've said here before, but I was raised fundamental Christian which had some old school views on sex. I thought women had sex to please the men they were with. An emotional need, not a sexual one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 10:08 AM
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Well it was a guy with 8 fingers I was sharing a cell with, so a philosopher he was not. But it was still the first time anyone suggested to me I was responsible for the sexual satisfaction of a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 09:43 AM
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I cannot disagree with this more strongly. I did not downvote you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 07:58 AM
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I don't understand how that's funny. You have your mind made up to such an extent that your posting in this thread what you believe to be the rp take on sexually satisfying women. And you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 02:18 AM
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As evidenced by your own narrow mindedness? Of course the sexual satisfaction of the woman is crucial. For what rational reason would it not be? RP is all about what's practically effective to maintain the attraction of females. How would sexual inadequacy maintain attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 02:00 AM
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Well that's narrow minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 01:43 AM
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Yes, of course, absolutely. A woman's a lot more loyal and attached when she's getting the good dick. There's a lot of sexually unsatisfied married women out there and that's a problem. Someone once told me, if you don't water your garden someone else will. A little crude, but you get the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 01:42 AM
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In that case the bp guy would hunt and give the girl food for free to be nice. He would then discover her in bed with the rp guy and she would be shocked that he was upset, despite her having attempted to hide it from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/14 04:04 AM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/14 03:59 AM
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LMFAO!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 11:42 PM
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Ok, what is its actual meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 12:13 AM
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I think it's more true then not. I just picked up a pizza ands totes wanted to bang the cashier girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/14 01:46 AM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/14 04:54 AM
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Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 04:51 AM
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I just wanna say you're awesome. You're approach to femdom is quite refreshing and really leagues ahead of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 05:05 AM
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I have all of these
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 12:43 PM
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Both are synonymous with either a lack of concern about you image or deliberately trying to send a particular image.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 12:56 AM
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It's most likely MILF type stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 10:02 PM
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Never technically married, but had a baby together and lived together 6 years. Baby came first, high school accident. It was hell on earth. Really, really confirmed that there are worse things then being alone. The cheating started the second year, the lying and gas lighting were constant. Constantly claimed victim status and accused various men we knew of raping her whenever she got caught. I bought it all at first, somehow would end up apologizing to her for her actions. Terrible mother, I act…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 11:24 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 11:55 PM
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I don't know what indulgent thing means. Who is that contrary to porn? I've seen some videos of this and it's hot. Especially homemade vids. I've always wondered about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 11:08 AM
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Getting past LMR isn't rape. He'll it's often a test used to see how interested you are. And how a women dresses is a pretty clear non verbal cue on their goals. In the situation your describing an assertive female would be your best bet. But women have no reaponcibility for their own safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 09:00 AM
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Grass huts quote?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 08:56 AM
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Being awash in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 07:29 AM
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You've done this strapon thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 06:46 AM
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Also frees you up to being hated more and responsible for everything. Plus you'd be orgasm limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 06:39 AM
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See my ex would just cum and cum and cum and I was just pounding away like a fool delaying my own pleasure and thinking about baseball. I've always been jealous of women for how sex feels for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 06:37 AM
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Yes, male here. If it was an attractive girl I'd change in a second. Fuck yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 06:34 AM
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Fuck that, if I could be a hot chick I'd change in a flash.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 06:33 AM
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That's not racism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 02:45 PM
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He'll there's a tv show about it. Its called, "the starter wife"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 02:32 PM
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Yeah a buddy of mine is short and he was a man whore
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 02:29 PM
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I don't know. I see it from both sides. My buddy's dating a career woman and she bought him a car. If they get married he doesn't have to worry about her taking what he's got. Plus I hear a lot housewives having affairs cause they're bored
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 02:25 PM
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How would you explain the friendzone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 10:32 PM
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Almost all of my friends have been female. I've been friends with several for years and we have been exceptionally close. I've always gotten along better with females. I've had 4 male friends in my life. My views on women are complicated but of informed with the friendships I've had.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 11:34 AM
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I think female sexual aggression is hot, and all though I'm fairly aggressive myself, I love femdom. The only concern I have is whether a woman would still see me as strong afterward as I have heard women make judgments about a mans character based on his sexual habits. Women enforce gender roles too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 04:01 PM
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Out of curiosity, how is fear of false paternity an irrational fear? Plenty of people are careful drivers and are afraid of getting into an accident, a common enough occurrence. But false paternity happens enough that you probably walk past several people everyday its happened too. How is that irrational?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 03:52 PM
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Beer would have worked infinitely better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 03:07 PM
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Yeah, that's actually really not true. Men do not generally sit around talking about the personal lives of other people. The closest you could come is talking about a women they want to bang. That's why it's called networking and not gossip. Networking is something you do for your career. I see this kinda stuff all the time where women say its the same for men and try to reclaim a word with a completely different meaning to prove it. Gossiping and networking are all the same. If you ever come ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 03:05 PM
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Just out of curiosity, what are the practical downsides of dating promiscuous women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 02:16 AM
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Just out of curiosity, what are the practical downsides of dating promiscuous women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 02:15 AM
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Lol, yes I get the difference. By stats I wasn't looking for anything personal, I'm a 31/m that leans red and I have a son. You don't have a flair yet so I'm not sure what position your coming from. I'm also here to explore. When I think about all the moving parts associated with gender relations and dating it seems almost overwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 10:11 PM
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That's great, I'm also hear to learn. What are your stats? Anything in particular interests you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 06:03 AM
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I'm a little bit confused as to your question or what your looking for, but, I'll throw in my experience. I'm pretty much blonde now, but when I was a kid I was straight up redheaded with big teeth and an outgoing personality. Violence seemed pretty constant. The thing is looking different leads to social isolation which leads to awkwardness which leads to social isolation. It's a vicious cycle and I was a prime target. My parents were married, dad was always around and never hurt me, but was ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 05:05 AM
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A lot of it seems to have to do with women internalizing a lot of there feelings. They start to see there husband as there adversary and they put on an act that they're happy to stave off questions while they figure things out for themselves. They also seem very concerned with what others will think of there actions so this leads to a lot of manipulation to get the outcome they want without there fingerprints being on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 04:38 AM
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Yeah, my brothers gay and he see the drama I go through and can't believe it. He swears his homo relationships are so much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 03:26 AM
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This. In the book "female infidelity" which is a compilation of interviews with cheating wives, several of the wives deliberately withheld sex from there husbands in order to either promote thier husband having an affair or filing for divorce so that it wasn't "their fault".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 02:56 AM
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The photoshop one is not nearly as big a deal as it'd made out to be. You can go to amatuer homemade porn sites or http://buffyshot.tumble.com, a site for female fitness selfless, and see that hot, fit women look hot and fit without photoshop, or makeup, or good lighting. We already obscure the truth enough with kind lies. As has been said here multiple times, nice guys have no idea what they're doing wrong, as far as they know everyone is telling them they're great and to be themselves. All you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 07:44 PM
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Live without it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 07:01 PM
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I'm not saying that rape isn't a terrible thing, but this notion that it is the worst possible thing that can happen to someone is being treated as sacrosanct. I've known plenty of women who have been raped and most see it as a bad experience and move on without descending into tortured madness as some would have us believe happens to all victims. There have even been stories about women being made to feel guilty for not being more traumatized then they are. It is bad, but there are things that …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 09:29 AM
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If I had the choice between being date raped for half an hour or left financially and personally devastated from a divorce rape, I'd choose the former. I don't thing you understand how brutal these divorces are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 02:16 AM
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The vast , vast majority of Americans households are two income with both parties working. The lower income spouse is typically not "giving up" anything, they're just less successful. The alimony laws were created to protect people from being abandoned and left destitute. However, now they're serving as a perverse incentive system to promote the lower income person divorcing the high income person. And what about spouses that deliberately work less and live off the higher income spouse? They des…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 02:12 AM
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I liked that article
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 01:43 AM
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How long have you two been together? And please explain that he generally gives you more than you give him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 08:42 PM
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Society shames people for all kinds of things. Why should slurs get a pass? Is that something to aspire to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 11:51 PM
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Has not influenced the relationship negatively so far. I may lend you my car right up until I find out you wrecked a bunch and have 4 DUI. Just because I trusted you before I found out doesn't mean I do now. My trust was based on an assumption your past was reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 11:37 AM
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I'm still trying to figure out why slut shaming is wrong and should be avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 11:32 AM
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Most women I've met want men other women want. If your ex was pretty they feel prettier for being with you. If you've been successful with women, then other women must want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 10:33 AM
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The first thing we know is that women have been lying for years in self reported studies about there number of sexual partners. Link: http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn3936-fake-liedetector-reveals-womens-sex-lies.html#.U-MbtSPD_fo When they believed they were hooked up to a lie detector there numbers increased. Men's did not. With sexual fantasies they used blood flow and lubrication, the female equivalent of a boner, to measure arousal when displaying erotica. They found that women routine…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/14 07:20 AM
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Statistically men are more likely to admit to cheating in a survey. Men are also more likely to admit to there number of partners and to there true sexual fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/14 12:11 PM
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Please read this http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/1297919
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/14 12:09 PM
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Well ok then. Guess I gave you a bunch of information you didn't really need. Your welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/14 06:43 AM
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The murder rate in Maryland in 2012 was 6.3 murders per 100,000 people. You'll be fine. And if someone is gonna kill you, you probably already know them. Being murdered by a stranger is significantly more rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/14 05:34 AM
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Wow, I just read that. Also I believe you can discriminate as long as your a private club versus open to the public. But you'll go out of business. I wanted to make a restaurant where you can smoke. I'd be surprised if that guy owned his own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/14 05:21 AM
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It's more complicated than that. When someone is "themselves" their true selves they are exposed. Their honest about there flaws, insecurities and vulnerabilities, of course this leads to a lot of heartbreak and a good portion of the guys on TRP are just getting over a painful experience. Just being yourself is not a good way to avoid pain, besides it's not what most people do which means those that do are at a disadvantage. It's terrible advice, particularly when you first meet someone. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/14 05:14 AM
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I'm not sure if your being sarcastic or not. I want to be clear here, I have been with women that couldn't orgasm. Its just that they said they couldn't orgasm. One women in particular went out of her way to explain to me she hadn't had an orgasm since her divorce some 9 months prior. So I'm not trying to claim here that every woman I've ever been with magically cums or something, and there's a few women I can think of that may very well have faked an orgasm to get the experience over with. Most…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 10:59 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by necessary, I don't think humans are naturally monogamous. They can aspire to be and some can achieve it, but our desires tell the truth we are not naturally monogamous. If we were, once we paired off we would never desire another person, like the way we naturally metabolize sugar and not cellulose. I think cheating highlights the issue because there we can compare actions and not internalized thoughts. When we're framing the issue as men being polyamorous and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 10:27 PM
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The idea is that women are hypergamous and men are polyamorous. Meaning that women will leave when something better comes along whereas men will just fuck it. For instance your ex would probably have stayed with you if he could have been with you and screwed other women. Leaving is the key here, women's affairs are more likely to end in divorce, women are twice as likely to say they're in love with someone they're having an affair with, women are more likely to lose sexual attraction to there pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 09:55 PM
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No I wasn't being sarcastic. When I think about the marketing plans of Listerine, which created the problem of bad breathe and sold the solution, I don't think of a woman. Or the the famous story of the marketer that sold tons of white salmon by putting, "guaranteed not to go pink in the can" I think of a man. Advertisers created the concept of Valentine's day and have tremendously effected our interpretation and belief in romantic love. Women advertise themselves for sure, but I've always felt …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 09:27 PM
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I have such a hard time believing 80% routinely fake orgasms. In my experience, women are pretty forthright when your not doing the job well, some of whom aggressively so. I can imagine a lot women, have at one point in time done so which would explain the surveys, but I doubt it's an ongoing thing. As far as my ex goes, we used everything. Penetration, oral, anal, toys, vibrators, DP, choking (which really helped her) etc. You gotta play all 9 innings if you wanna reach 25. I would guess that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 09:17 PM
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I read accounts like this in magazines and what not, but most girl I've know have been orgasm machines and the few who haven't seemed to have issues that prevented them from letting go. My ex and I would have sex all night, I used to count her orgasms and the highest she ever got was 25. Once a woman has mastered multiple orgasms each following orgasm is reached easier than the preceding one. This leads to a kind of rolling orgasm. But it is a skill that must be learned, the timing of muscle con…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 06:08 PM
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I'd be a lesbian. You don't need a cock, or a person. Check out fuckingmachines.com. Lucky bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 05:31 PM
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Or die trying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 05:17 PM
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Oh God, what I wouldn't give and who I wouldn't kill to cum like a woman. I'd live under a bridge and you'd never see me except when I came out for batteries
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 09:28 AM
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Really, that's shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 09:27 AM
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Their egos are over developed in terms of what they expect or think they deserve in the dating world or from a relationship, but not there ability to build a deck, or fly a plane. If I had to explain a foreign concept to someone who was completely ignorant on the matter I'd choose a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 09:26 AM
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What's RES blocked?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 09:15 AM
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I personally feel that women are more likely to miss single life. They get checked out and flirted with and constantly reminded that they are desired by men other than there husband, and if they leave they can be on the receiving end of all that positive attention. So their husband's just one man that has to constantly prove himself. So as a guy you gotta think your wife's gonna be flirted with throughout your marriage. Your not as meaningful to her as she is to you. Like, there's this girl I me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 09:15 AM
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Its also important to note that the sexual double standards that exists give women a lot of power in the dating market. Most women can have sex whenever they want. The impetus for initiating most contact and pursuing is on men. Men face more rejection. The cost of that power is the responsibility not to abuse it, those that do abuse their position get judged. Rather effectively I might add, its not like sluts are being judged unfairly, they probably won't make a very fidelity minded wife. Societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 04:17 AM
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It used to be way more enforced. I think it's interesting that extramarital affairs are illegal in the military and I think it's because of reasons like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 04:07 AM
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Well, for instance, you don't act rationally. You come to a debate sub, but don't debate. You make snide comments on days old posts that hardly anyone will read. Your comments are hardly ever productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 03:48 AM
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I found a tumblr of a girl like that, it was terrifying. I think it really shows the power women have in the market, when they choose to use it. I'm assuming this girl was loathed by everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 03:40 AM
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Dear God you're right, if I was truly RP I wouldn't be lookin at hot women like that, or porn. What have I been doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 03:32 AM
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Ah, which instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/14 10:59 AM
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Ok, I'll bite, what'd this chick do that was pure evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/14 10:53 AM
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I'm extremely empathetic (not bragging). There's a quote, something like, no faith like that of a convert. Its possible, however surprising, that given their starting position and ensuing conversion it's RP that's more empathetic. But I hate general questions like this because they hinge on stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 09:31 AM
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Not true, emphasizing with you and caring about you aren't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 09:20 AM
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The Story Of Us Most accurate depiction of a couple going through a divorce and a good demonstration of the limits of communication in relationships which gets a lot of traction here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 09:17 AM
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Seen it. That movie infuriated me. It gets porn and relationship sex all wrong. Like Joseph Levit would have a problem getting an enthusiastic bj is ridiculous. It was just created to make people feel better about there lame sex, which is not at all what relationship sex is has to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 09:12 AM
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That's harsh. Dude I grew up in a private fundamentalist school that pushed the whole gender roles, chivalry, girls are innocent shtick hard. There flat out wasn't any other way to think, now I grew outta this in high school but it's hard to realize how you've been taught ain't so, it's like losing your religion. I don't think they deserve to get hurt just cause they don't understand. But incidentally, how did these girls talk about these guys they had around?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 08:54 AM
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I feel like your talking about Narnia. I have never seen this place of which you speak. I can tell you that I've never been a relationship without power dynamics and the effects they have on decision making, affairs, divorce etc. Have you seen the stats on this stuff, it's crazy. Someone that loves you at 25 can loath you at 35 through no fault of your own. This shit is like chess. Edit: I'm at work a few months back talkin to this girl, 35 two kids been married almost 20 years together since hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 08:44 AM
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I'm not saying you gotta like them. I'm just saying you gotta see it the way it is, somewhere along the way they got some bad advice, bad guidance. Just be nice, sweet, helpful, respectful girls will love you! Blah, Blah, Blah. In their mind they're doing the mating dance correctly and they can't make heads or tails of you or why things aren't going the way they expected and were told they would go which leads to a lot of misplaced anger. In there mind their doing what's right, they're following…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 07:55 AM
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It's not just staying in hopes of getting fucked, its also that some guys develop such strong attachments to these girls they think something is better than nothing. It's screws with there self confidence and sense of self worth. They make themselves constantly available for that woman at the expense of other, more fulfilling relationships. What I was talking about in terms of the nice guys is the deluge of feminist articles that suggests any guy that claims he's nice and is unhappy with the sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 07:00 AM
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I have personally met very few "rational" women. Although pure logic can't exist as the first step in applying logic is determining your initial values (what's a 2,3,4 on the priority scale) which is subjective and emotional. So perhaps one of the reasons that women appear illogical is how they value things and how their goals shift more frequently over the long term than a mans. I feel like I've seen a woman's goals change over the course of a few hours. Each of their actions were rational, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 05:20 AM
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Not really, if you said that about an adversarial army it wouldn't mean they weren't formidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 05:07 AM
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A friendship IS a crapy substitute. Its worse than that, it's torture. To watch the object of your affection give to others the closeness and experiences with them you crave. The way a relationship like that steals your confidence. I STRONGLY recommend to any man in such a relationship to cut all ties and if you know a man you care about in a similar situation you should do the same. I cannot grasp the concept that you think such a "friendship" would be of any emotional or psychological benefit …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 05:03 AM
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Why would they be deleted?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 04:38 AM
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It's so much more complicated than that. Nice can mean a lot of different things to different people. A lot of women have unhealthy attractions and charming/nice/witty just doesn't do it for them. In a LTR the power dynamics almost always go against the person that's a little nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 04:38 AM
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This was years ago without any type of support system, no internet forum, no reason to believe anything besides results. It was just me trying different methods. I started out from a position of emotional availability and sensitivity, and consistently noticed those having a low success rate. I tried out different strategies and stuck with what worked best. If in one strategy your pursuing a girl for three months with no progress, so you come at a different girl at the local fair with a new strat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 06:09 AM
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I think what they're saying is that it's ok because it's not inherently wrong to be aware of the nonverbal messages your sending your SO. Your essentially just teaching someone how to treat you, which we all do anyway. Also, girls already do it. So fairs fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 05:40 AM
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As I said previously, this was all before TRP existed. So your arguement of confirmation bias is kinda silly. I tried out different things and stuck with what worked. But if you go from having 1 maybe 2 girls in a semester to 6 or 7 its pretty noticable. Also the speed at which relationships developed improved as well. Secondly, yes there are in fact women that are attracted to misogynists. I believe you would say they suffer from internalized misogyny. But, there is nothing misogynistic about b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 05:36 AM
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A redpill standards committee is a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 03:07 AM
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Women do it all the time, everyday. And then they brag to there friends about how much control they have over there bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 06:11 PM
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BUT THEY DO!!!!!!! All the time, every day. Have you never seen a girl have a guy wrapped around her finger? Or ignore calls to make him worry, or flirt with others to make him jealous, or withhold sex. Or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 06:08 PM
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Yes, this is absolutely correct. Every minute of every day. But when it's directed at women it somehow inhuman. As if girls never have guys wrapped around there finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 05:59 PM
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Well then unconscious training. We teach people how to treat us. Some of us teach people to treat us badly. All we're talking about is being aware of how we are training others and to be sure to do it effectively. Make sure not to reward negative behaviors and reward positive ones. They skew young because young girls are more attractive. As far as having a preference for passive women, I don't think you know how exhausting it is to date an overly assertive or dominating woman. I prefer easy goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 05:46 PM
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Why would they criticize their misogyny, the point of it is not to eradicate misogyny or to create a better more egalitarian world. The point of it is to make relationships better for men, same as the point for Cosmo and female relationship sites is to make relationships better for females. And there methods aren't bunk, you actually can control a man with sex and bitching. Those are the two sides, help men or help women. You're taking a third approach based on an idyllic view of the world and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 05:43 PM
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The way I see it, everyone trains people they're dating. Whether they're conscience of it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 03:51 PM
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The idea is you guys act like this is monstrous. When women talk about it, do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 03:34 PM
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The point OP was making is that it doesn't matter what you call it, be it dog, parrot, child, or wife. All training is the same. I worked in a mental institution, we used a program called Positive Behavior Supports to control the individuals behavior, but it works on everyone. Basically all it was, was reward good behavior and withhold attention and validation from bad behavior. It's actually astounding IRL how often we reward bad behavior. When my cousin was first dating his wife, whenever he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 03:25 PM
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I wouldn't go so far as to say most. Articles and blogs like that are incredibly common and men are frequently discussed as train able. It seems to me a lot of women think it's a bf/husbands job to do as they're wife/ wants. Pussywhipped, happy wife happy life and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:55 PM
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Here's what I don't get. Women try to train there husband's all the time. There are flippin Cosmo articles about it. So is the big problem here that men are taking notice and applying techniques to there relationships thereby bucking the expectation that they be emotionally supplicating support machines. Because I feel like the expectation for men is that they do what there told. At the end of the day we all train the person we're with. I don't think it's a good idea to reward behavior you find …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:27 PM
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Par for the course in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 07:14 AM
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No question?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 07:11 AM
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I've said this on here before, but for me TRP is a regurgitation of things I realized and tried to categorize 10 years ago, most of it slowly occurring throughout high school. So when I started reading TRP a few months ago, I was like yeah I've thought a lot of this before. So when I first started implementing some of these changes it was long before TRP existed. But yeah, sure you get rejected, but if it goes from 1 in 10 women saying yes to 3 in 10 that's a 300% increase. Following these strat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 07:01 AM
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I'm gonna go re read this story again, but your being ridiculous. If a guy was sitting next to me right and was about to fuck my ass, and I could walk away, I would get up and walk away. And if I don't because I don't believe I should have to I'm an idiot. Again rules the somehow only apply in sexual situations, contributory negligence is a thing throughout the rest of your life. Yeah I know its different then refusing seconds, that's the point. I would expect you to refuse unwanted sex with eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 04:50 AM
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Because in real world situations people change there mind. Just because someone said they don't wanna have sex anymore at 9pm doesn't mean they still don't at 3am. People try and seduce others with touch and kisses and whatnot, particularity those they have a sexual history with. (Even girls trust me) And if you don't want to screw them you've got to reject them each and every time time. She had no reason to believe a second no (which it wouldn't be, she "basically" said she didn't want to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 11:22 PM
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She could have stood up and walked away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 08:40 PM
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I believe in the whole shit test concept, but I feel like the description of them is overly vague. The best example I can think of them is this girl I was friends with for years. We quasi-dated a few times over the years and I would notice that whenever we did she would ask these random seemingly disconnected questions. Sometimes about other women, or the future. It wouldn't even happen in the middle of a related conversation, just random. And most importantly the questions would be camoflaged a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 06:57 PM
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My brothers a gay rights activist. I'll grab a couple when he wakes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 08:37 AM
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Feminism isn't a minority in Scandinavia and outlawing "hate speech" is a dirty messy business that usually result in outlawing messages you don't like. Also, gay men react to the same pheramones women do. There's been a million studies on this, gender is not a performance unless you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 07:15 AM
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What the fuck happened to make bitches so crazy in 1970?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 07:10 AM
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Yes I understand this now. Also some girls do this as a power play, some do it to see how much you want them (fishing for compliment), some girls do it to relieve themselves of responsibility for sex, and a lot of girls do it as some kind of attempt to not seem over eager and slutty or that they're supposed to act uncertain. But think of it from my perspective, I was just as young and insecure as they were so when they start throwin this stuff out there I felt rejected and unattractive, at the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 07:25 PM
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Of course men do. But the idea is to understand why women are less inclined to engage in casual sex than men without resorting to the old trope that men like sex more especially as more women are showing that's not true. So yes a man will like sex more if the girl is hot and she's good in bed, but a lot of men will still engage in sex if the girl is average in looks and average in bed. So why do fewer women do this? The first one is safety, which few men think about. And the second is the qualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 01:11 AM
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I saw a lot of that in high school. Maybe some in early college. It's not usually a straight up no though. Its more, "I don't know if we should", "maybe we should wait" or the most common line I heard, "I don't want you to think I'm a slut" or some derivation thereof. To me it was very demoralizing because I wanted to believe they were as into it as I was and yet at the last second there they were equivocating. I took it as an insult and lost out on a good experience more than once because I lis…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/14 09:02 PM
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It wasn't a rumor. I think I got it from something you posted about being banned there and something else you said made me think you leaned that way. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/14 09:24 AM
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I thought you were redpill like 2 weeks ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/14 09:01 AM
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Sure, but men lean in that direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 11:33 PM
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Word
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 02:04 AM
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RP Take the call, listen for 10 minutes outside gym to establish a convo. Tell her you gotta go to work out and to establish that she's important, but not the utmost priority. Set a time to stop by after the gym before getting off the phone, preferably with the drinks she wants you to bring over. Get off phone, go in gym, workout, but cut workout in half to maintain situational momentum. Leave gym, run to store and pick up drinks, meet at her place a pre agreed upon time. Fin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 10:08 PM
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Yeah, that hasn't happened. Apparently it was shipped unfinished and there's some debate on what it's to be used for so now I'm thinking of going rogue and building a custom center.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 06:27 AM
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What is this person's problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 05:03 AM
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Yeah cuittler I wasn't suggesting there was any malice involved on her part, just that she probably didn't even notice she was denying him that often. Its easy to deny things until they're in front of you in black and white. That's why the spreadsheet would be helpful. The timing, though, was not designed to be constructive but almost obviously was retribution. Edit: Do you not recognize my user name? We've had like 9 conversations on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 04:20 AM
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See I love the spreadsheet, LOVE it. Avoids the subjectiveness of these kinds of things, very clean. And honestly do you really think she would have fessed up to 23 denials if not for the spreadsheet? Probably an ongoing problem to get to this level. But yeah, timing sucked. Very low EIQ. Probably did it to get back at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 03:48 AM
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Because of the spreadsheet in or that he emailed it on her business trip?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 03:34 AM
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Dear God that's perfect, the number of times I screwed myself out of sex by assuming the girl would meet me half way is astounding. Its like they expect you to push and rely on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 09:16 AM
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I think what he's trying to say is that according to the media any outward display of sexual interest a man makes immediately classifies him as a pervert or creep or what have you. And it's incredibly common to hear girls complain about being hit on. So a lot of guys downplay there interest in hopes of not coming across as a sex obsessed man, and to appear as respectful etc. Then, even if you have the courage to ask a girl out for ice cream, that may not be enough to show her your interested, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 09:14 AM
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Dammit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/14 07:24 PM
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Do you remember now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/14 06:16 PM
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It's a AMAA and I think a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/14 04:48 PM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/14 04:47 PM
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Wilt Chamberlain slept with 20,000 women. Gene Simmons almost 4,000. Huge disparities exist. Abd it ain't cause they're so hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/14 07:09 AM
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That was good, but I'm always glad for new content on here. And I didn't get to do one yet. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 06:08 PM
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I'll never understand how girls can be so blind to a guy showing interest in them. Its like deep seeded insecurity. Love your user name. Lolly Badcock one of my favs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 04:53 PM
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I guess you could say befriend in a way, as I was friendly. Hell, that was probably the way they saw it. Which is a huge problem in and of itself. I was trying to get them to see me as different, as someone that understood them and took the time to listen. I was trying to stand out and generate attraction. But yeah I guess from their perspective I was trying to befriend them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 04:09 PM
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I don't know if I'd call it a debate. It was about the power of the slut. About a week ago. I've been busy, haven't been able to write anything. Edit: Opps, misspelled word.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 03:57 PM
1

If you remember
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 03:28 PM
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So now your doing it to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 03:22 PM
2

There were no MRAS then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 03:21 PM
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The concept of In groups and out groups could possibly be genetic, as could be the desire to feel superior to others. But where those lines are drawn are completely arbitrary. Almost every racial group has been a slave to another racial group at some point in history. He'll I'm Irish and German. The Irish were hated and openly discriminated against when they first came to America. The Germans were viewed as savages by the Romans. Just please watch the video I sent you. It shows how easy it is to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 03:19 PM
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I owe you a response to a previous thread I've been thinking about for some time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 03:13 PM
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Well I started masturbating at 5 and read joy of sex at 13 plus I think the stat is somewhere around 20% of people have lost there virginity by 15. The mean for men is 16 at last check. But basically I was the class psychologist as corny as that sounds. Girls always wanted my advice and to tell me there problems. That was my "in" so to speak, tried to generate attraction through emotional closeness, understanding, and shared secrets. Didn't work so great, but lead me to some RP truths before the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 03:12 PM
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Well most of it isn't that hard and we'll see if I don't get lost on reddit and how much I get done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 02:57 PM
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What made you co chose to transition? A lot of TRP talks about the relative advantage of being a women, and in the lesbian world I hear it's redonk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 02:53 PM
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Yes, I want an answer to this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 02:47 PM
2

I liked the AMAs. Was I the only one?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 02:46 PM
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Putting together an entertainment center, squaring a crooked door, having a deadbolt rekeyed, ordering a new pair of glasses from glasses.com.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 02:45 PM
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I did. Didn't work, but I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 02:41 PM
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Out of curiosity, why not sleep with men that only want sex? Does that not seem to indicate women are differrnt than a lot of men? I mean I've slept with girls I couldn't stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 02:40 PM
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Discrimination is not evolved. That's why there's so many different types of it towards different groups in history. http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/divided/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 02:37 PM
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This makes me wonder if Mike Tyson did it.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 02:24 PM
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I wasn't talking about me in particular. 6 days is a hell of a delay for a reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 06:11 AM
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+1 for modest proposal In the RP lexicon bluepill has a meaning, generally referring to before RP when the person accepted as true everything society had told them was true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 02:20 AM
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Yes it does smack of religious hypocrisy. And the sex offender thing has exploded like the war on drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 04:19 AM
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Oh I like that: )
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 12:36 AM
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Interesting question. Where are you OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/14 11:47 PM
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I suppose it's a blend between the raw pragmatism of RP (looks, status, assertiveness) and the morality and and consciences of BP (kindness, respect etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/14 11:46 PM
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I got banned. Never seen anything like it. Super weird. It started out a small misunderstanding and then they started taking things I said in other subs out of context to justify the whole thing. Its shockingly frustrating to be labeled. Sigh I guess this is why everyone's got 5 alts. You can't be a complex person on Reddit. Anyways, I'm surprised you know about the pipeline. Its woefully under reported on. The interesting thing is it seems to be generated by rules and beurocracy. So things that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/14 04:56 PM
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Hey I'm assuming your BP, you know anyone over there at /r/creepypms?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/14 02:42 PM
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I think guys are a lot more emotional than people tend to think and I've seen research that suggest men can even become deeply attached to prostitutes they frequent. However, I think this mostly happens to lonely men (there seem to be a lot more than women) who are emotionally unfulfilled and the sex acts as a bridge to a deeper connection. However, when I compared cuckold (wife sleeps with others husband doesn't) and cuckquean relationships (husband sleeps with others wife doesn't) I see a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/14 05:53 AM
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Ha. I found my parents copy of the joy of sex when I was 13. It has served me well. I will say though that one of the things that lends credence to the idea that women are not as into sex as men is how many women I've met that have no idea what the capabilities of there bodies are. So either I'm way ahead of the curve generally or women don't experiment with thier bodies as much. But if you can satisfy a girl she'll probably call you again. Although this mentality has essentially taken most of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/14 05:18 AM
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Which thread? I sometimes wonder about maintaining sexual satisfaction in a ltr and I've wondered about mixing it up to keep things interesting. I also thought that my SO might appreciate me more if they had the freedom to experience other things occasionally. One of the big things is I was thinking is it might breed honesty. People censor themselves a lot in ltrs. But when I look at threads about such relationships it seems to cause a lot if problems for guys and a shocking number of women, eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/14 01:28 AM
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Well helicopter parenting of the female that needed to protect her from her bf. I don't know who created these laws I was just saying that's the perception. I will say that feminism seems to often push for legal action to "protect" women from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/14 01:15 AM
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Oh know I agree. We've created so many laws to protect children we're turning children into victims. You should look at the Florida school to jail pipeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/14 01:05 AM
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I was being sincere. A lot more is hardwired than that. I started having fantasies about women when I was 5. It wasn't cultural. My brothers gay, wasn't culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/14 12:56 AM
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You I like you. I haven't heard a girl talk like that about her SO in a long time. I've been curious about open relationships like this. How often do you sleep with other men if you don't mind me asking? Weekly, daily? Do you spend time with them besides sex? Does it cut into time with your bf? And finally, is he ever there, like a shared experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 11:10 PM
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Another thing to consider is that performance differences are HUGE between men and not as much for women. Most guys will tell you any sex is good sex, not so with women. I've heard a lot of girls that really like sex say that they'd rather go without than get worked up and not get satisfied. I read a study once that claimed to show that women, on average, are just as likely to engage in casual sex as men given that they Believe they won't be harmed Believe the sex will be good. (This in particul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 08:26 PM
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I have to do the same thing before I work on anything frustrating. Although I have heard women complain of being frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 08:17 PM
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I can't remember where but there was a girl arrested for child porn for taking naked pics of herself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 06:52 PM
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I don't know about gate keepers, but definately not equal ground
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 05:16 PM
3

Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 05:07 PM
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It's the perception that a lot of these anti sex laws were pushed for by feminists to protect girls which now hurts boys for doing things girls want
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 04:56 PM
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But that's the 64,000$ question, what's abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 04:53 PM
5

Child porn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 04:51 PM
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It depends on the local culture a lot of places still really think of girls as unwitting victims when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 04:50 PM
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God I used to say this all the time! Ask an average girl all the traits she wants in a man and then compare that list to who she dates and you'll get very little over lap. It reminds me of a female sexuality study where they showed women explicit content and asked if they were aroused while comparing it to physical responses. They completely denied being aroused when they're bodies where lighting up. Or the lie detector study that showed women had been lying for years about there partner count. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 04:32 PM
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I think a lot of this love vs respect thing comes from situations where people are hurt by those who claim to love them. Love is such an amorphous concept that 2 people can claim it and have vastly different feelings. Someone can also, say, cheat on you and claim to love you and you can't prove them wrong. Wanting to believe them makes it all the harder. Respect on the other hand is much easier to draw a circle around and determine whether it's been violated. This can help prevent being perpetua…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 04:11 PM
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Yeah, way more is hardwired than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 03:58 PM
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I think he was referring to the 1 in 10 men raising other men's kids. Women that have children with one man and then look for a "quality" man to help them out. Given the number of women on POF that have 2-4 year olds somethings going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 03:52 PM
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Different views on law and sex crimes presumably.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 04:53 AM
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What about no downvoting confuses you people? Who the hell would downvote this deep in the thread and how are they doing it? No I wasn't being hostile, I was pointing out how they are condescending to people. An idea which was fairly popular. Hell, they've been condescending on here to me. They seemed to take it in stride, but as soon as I asked a real question, BAM, hostile. I'll care about my fake internet point as much as want thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/14 12:12 AM
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Your not supposed to downvote people in here. And I wasn't being hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 10:59 PM
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Can I just ask you, what is your deal? I ask you a question, I get a deflection. You accuse me of just trying to get the praise of other redpillers and calling you out. I try and point out that I wouldn't be here if that was the case. Then you tell me I have no interest In honest discussion. Why? Why do you act this way? Why do you refuse to answer basic questions and accuse me of hidden motives? And dear God, why is your first reaction hostility?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 08:03 PM
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I think the first thing that should be discussed is that we've allowed child support to be so twisted it's literally something the leaving spouse can get wealthy off of. That's a pretty perverse incentive system. Its important to remember this baby is not hers. They are not related at all and if she was deceived to create this child believing they would be she is not responsible. As far adoption, that's a completely different situation where someone has chosen to take responsibility for a child.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 07:01 PM
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Yeah, I just found it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 06:58 PM
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Wait, hold on. How is it that I have no interest in an honest discussion? When did I say that or even give that impression?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 06:56 PM
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How in the hell did you get that flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 06:44 PM
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If I wanted to talk to redpillers I wouldn't be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 06:38 PM
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That's a deflection. I believe I just asked you what your goal was. I don't think I've ever seen a commit of yours that talks about your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 06:37 PM
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Lol, what is it your trying to accomplish here? You don't seem very interested in learning other people's perspective. What is your goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 06:06 PM
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Oh yes of course. You wouldn't want your daughter to become one of those girls that are dirty and slutty and unhappy and broken. Unhappy and broken are crucial in this understanding because again if morality is rewarded immorality is punished. We all knew that girls like this existed when I was growing up, but I honestly believed they were the sad deranged minority that had lost there way. God, they had chapels where they put up pictures of people who had committed suicide who were gay or addict…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 04:10 PM
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I am atheist now, but when I was younger I went to a private fundamentalist Christian school. The Christian culture really reinforces the idea that women are victims in need of saving. Whenever they talked about infidelity or abuse they always framed it as things men do. I never thought a female aggressor was even possible until I grew up, and then it hit like a truck. The thing you have to understand is that Christian culture doesn't just teach Christian morality, it also teaches that your life…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 03:29 PM
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There's a difference between fame and infamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 01:58 PM
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This is why I prefer relationships with an element of switch in them. Last I checked aftercare was the prescription for sub drop. I feel like that would help with the fatigue as well as you don't have to be ON for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 11:32 PM
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You are absolutely right, its the extremists that define the debate. They work in the background on issues for years while no one is paying attention to there issues and when there time comes they've already framed the debate and defined the language of the story. They've built up allies, written there text books, nudged history in the right direction. They don't have to convince everyone, just the majority of the middle. I tell my mom all the time how shocking it is that, in many ways, the US i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 11:28 PM
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Hahahahaha! So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 06:17 PM
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Holy shit, that rule # 4 read like a how to guide for a communist re-education center.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 06:12 PM
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No, I wasn't being hyperbolic. They have a tremendous amount of power. Here is a list of types of power, its under sources. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Power_(social_and_political) Sluts have resource currency, personal, and some have persuasion. A senator has power, but rarely directly over others. Although by senator I'm assuming you just mean a man in a position of power. The source of there power is authority. Authority has a larger sphere of influence. A sluts sphere of influence maybe sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 06:58 PM
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Having options is always a source of power. It the difference between a buyer and a seller's market. Sluts have a tremendous amount of power. That's one of the reasons people hate them. Women are intimidated and men are either angered they cannot possess them or doubly angered if rejected by them. I read a post a while back where one off the commenters talked about her life when she was younger. She had joined the army after high school and became the base slut (she admitted this was the result …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 12:03 PM
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I just meant that I was wondering if they were gonna get all groupthink on me, but my opinion was pretty accepted even though it deviated from the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 11:39 AM
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Oh yeah I earned 500 points today from opinions I posted on askreddit. My inbox exploded.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 12:06 AM
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I thought we had a good conversation going. Have I offended you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 11:36 PM
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Anything else your curious about? In case your curious, the girls I call sluts aren't just women that have experimented a little and had a few one night stands. I'm talking girls that have been with 50 or 60 or 80 guys over the course of a few years. Usually when you talk to them there's something else going on there besides, "I like sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 10:24 PM
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I will say TRP is not very nuanced for different personality types. I'd like to see more info an discussion on subsets of women. I believe the theory goes that a young, attractive 20 year old girl is as close to her natural state as you can get and so you can make generalizations about them and there goals as a group. In fairness there seems to be a lot those girls have in common and what attracts one will attract others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 06:17 PM
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1.No. Hyposexuality is more common in women then men. Or to put another way, the curve on male/female sexual desire skews male. More high sex drive men than women. Now, this does depend on age as well, women take longer to mature and I think it starts skewing more and more female in the 30s and 40s which is when you see gender ratios in bars and online start to normalize. I don't think public shame stops people from doing hardly anything. With the internet today no one need know. Furthermore, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 06:11 PM
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Chicago craigslist casual encounters http://chicago.craigslist.org/search/cas/?query=w4m Women for men section 2715 posts listed. Many fakes, several prostitutes http://chicago.craigslist.org/search/cas/?query=m4w Men for women section 8422 posts listed. No motivation for fakes. Male hetero prostitutes rare. That's almost a 4 to 1 ratio of men looking for casual sex compared to women in a random city. Top tier guys do not have it, "just as easy". There are fewer women down for casual sex with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 04:50 PM
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Without a doubt in this world TRP. There only concern is effectiveness, if something else was more effective they'd do that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 03:26 PM
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I take it you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 10:57 AM
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I posted this in another thread about slut shaming any why men are less likely to like sluts. I think it applies here: I don't think there is a lot of "slut shaming" going on between guys and girls. Whenever I've seen guys make the determination that a girl is a slut they are usually thrilled, I mean they respect her less and talk about her behind her back, but they don't shame her cause that would make her less likely to sleep with them. But, when it does happen I think its a two part reason, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 08:42 AM
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Her effectiveness in doing a lot of things was less than stellar because of her honesty and directness. I actually like it, but probably because I'd just spent the last few years with a woman that lied about everything, no no no everything. So I didn't mind her ruthlessness, because she was so honest about it. I just saw it as a window into how a lot of women really think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 07:03 AM
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Oh, my new friend I wondered if I was gonna hear back from you. Yeah, Feminism and Christianity both seem to create White Knights (men who always take women's side and think women need defending from the world). There culture's tend to push female victimhood, similar views on porn, prostitution, infidelity for instance. There brochures don't use the same language, but Feminism shares a lot with religious institutions. Most of RPs stuff deals with young, attractive, promiscuous women that are alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 05:34 PM
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Well, that will do it. I posted advice to a guy pursuing a girl long distance that wasn't exactly RP cannon and I got upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 04:56 PM
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I have a think for female abs and Queensnake's abs are phenomenal. Plus her masochism is unrivaled. I've always wondered if she legit enjoys it or does it for money or her master.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 04:55 PM
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Holy shit, you like Queensnake? She so fucking hot. She make me wish I was a woman. Never thought I'd meet a woman into that. Sorry if off topic, I was looking at you comments and saw it on your submitted. To anyone that is think of googling this, don't unless your twisted. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 03:56 PM
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I don't think there is a lot of "slut shaming" going on between guys and girls. Whenever I've seen guys make the determination that a girl is a slut they are usually thrilled, I mean they respect her less and talk about her behind her back, but they don't shame her cause that would make her less likely to sleep with them. But, when it does happen I think its a two part reason, and it took me a while to accept this about myself. First is jealousy. a girl can live with her parents, be unemployed, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 03:43 PM
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I seriously doubt that's all you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 03:25 PM
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In fairness I don't think I've ever read a single comment you've made in here that wasn't condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 03:16 PM
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You know, when I first started on reddit I posted a couple of comments on /r/feminism. I can't remember what I said, but its wasn't very provocative and I got upvoted almost immediately, then the next day banned. I asked why and if there was anything I could do to change it. They never responded. I'm still not sure what rule I broke or if it was personal. It really irritates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 03:12 PM
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"I was a good Christian, but then I swallowed the red pill and now I'm a liberal democrat. TRP: not even once." This made it seem that you were saying TRP made me agnostic. To be clear, I was raised very conservative. I was agnostic by the time I left high school. I'm still agnostic and my politics changed from conservative to liberal democrat. I didn't move from agnostic to liberal. I moved from Christian to athiest and conservative to liberal. All of this happened long ago. I only started read…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/14 04:47 AM
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Um, no. I stopped being Christian long before anything even associated with this. I learned about theredpill 3 months ago I wanna say. I stopped being a Christian like 15 years ago, before I had my son or even met his mother. I lost faith because of experiences I had in my school and church. But, despite losing faith in a personal God, there lessons on how to think lived on. You can take the boy out of church and so on. I don't know why your trying to tie that to RP. And there's a huge correlati…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/14 02:56 AM
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Yeah, that shocked me too. Your married, so you've got the girl. Your committed, your not gonna make the mistakes these other chumps make. Your gonna do everything right. No matter how hard. And they still leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 07:02 PM
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Ok, saying anything will get you called a misogynist. Half of those things weren't even misogynistic, hell the first guy was just asking why misogyny was bad. A pretty valid question considering the number of people that act like they've automatically won an argument once they throw that word out there, which is just preposterous. Some women do act like children, some women have little value besides sex, and they're not hard to identify, all they offer is sex. Some men are only interested in wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 06:43 PM
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Yeah, it seriously feels that way. Anything, anything and you a misogynist. And they act like saying that proves you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 06:11 PM
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If you've ever taken like a political science course or followed politics (I'm serious not trying to sound condescending that's just where I learned this) you'll often find that people's ideologies (moral, gender, religious, societal, whatever) don't just exist on a left, right axis. This left-liberal, right-conservative way of thinking makes people think you can get away from something by going in the opposite direction, but often time you go far enough left, you come out right. There's all kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 05:29 PM
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See this drives me crazy. Just because someone on the internet said that RP is misogynistic doesn't make it true. Hell, that should go on a list of the top 5 most overused words of all time. Criticizing women or female culture or feminism isn't misogyny. Just like criticizing MRAs doesn't make you a man hater. You don't have to have a docile woman. RP is more about projecting your best self and protecting yourself from abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 01:36 PM
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I'm not bitter. I put my feelings behind me long ago. And I'm not and wasn't Christian. I was pretty much agnostic when this all happened and am a liberal democrat now. Anxiety, eating disorders etc. a lot of these things are brought about through conditioning and most cognitive therapy aims to change the thought patterns to aid the recovery. If your misunderstandings of relationship dynamics leads to continual pain and abuse why can't that be classified as something that needs therapy? There is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 01:31 PM
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You kinda sound like your already red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 12:40 PM
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I didn't. I realized years ago. My son is 13 now. TRP didn't even exist when all of this happened and I was a completely different person as a result of it. But when I found TRP it articulated so perfectly the beliefs I had long ago come to realize were true. In essence these experiences pushed me in the RP direction, even though at the time there was no label for it. Hell, at the time broadband internet wasn't a thing. As far as standing up for myself, I did that all the time. Progress would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 12:31 PM
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Well, I consider myself pretty BP when I was in High School. So if I had taken the red pill back then a lot would be different, my whole life in fact. I wouldn't have proposed to my high school gf when she got pregnant. We wouldn't have moved in together, I wouldn't have put off college for 5 years because she felt uncomfortable raising a baby on a college campus. I wouldn't have stayed through all her affairs and the near constantly lying. I wouldn't have believed the lies. I wouldn't have blam…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 10:23 AM
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Funny little anecdotal story: when I first went to college, the first girl I met who invited me back to her place asked to look at my phone. I asked why? She said she wanted to see how many friend I had to see if I was popular and had as many friends as it sounded. Apparently, based on the way I talked she thought I a lot of friends, but she wanted to confirm it. She also asked me a bunch of questions about which classes I'd taken to confirm I was a science major. Apparently guys had mislead her…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 09:38 AM
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The thing is, starting from the TRP or "bad boy" position doesn't cost you anything. You'll get your start up with a ONS and casual sex and since the girl is attracted to you, if you have a decent job, money, and she wants a relationship she will push for one. She will entertain dreams of "changing" you. And if you like this girl you can always choose to let down your guard and let her in. You can always choose to be blue pill later in any relationship if you want to. In other words, there's no …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 01:10 AM
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That's heavy man. I had a similar experience when I was a teen, but slowly started to figure out the game. Did you not have any clue before you were in your late 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 10:23 AM
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Are you me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 10:16 AM
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I think it was the same reason I was attracted to the tattooed girl who snuck smokes behind the school in middle school (small school she was in high school I was in middle). She stood out, was exciting, didn't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 10:10 AM
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If you mean just personally, my brother is gay and lead the gay alliance on campus and I've met a lot of really cool gay/lesbians that I could totally understand. They were men and women that just weren't attracted to the opposite gender. However, I have never met a transperson that did not have "issues" other than just there sexual identity. I don't think I ever met one I ever got along with or could understand and generally I think of them as the black sheep of the LGBT community. That said, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 10:08 AM
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TRP is a sub for male sexual strategy. They wouldn't want a woman to be "alpha" because it would give her more control in a relationship. When you look at a relationships power dynamics and your goal is to be the one with the most power you wouldn't want to start with someone already in a power position.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 10:02 AM
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Because its not clever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 08:37 AM
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This is very close to what narcissists do and with the right partner it is very effective. It's strange that we sometimes love the most those that have hurt us the deepest. I know its been true for me. I would say that "dread game" exists on a gradient, but it begins with being selfish. Not giving a fuck, and being willing to leave at a moments notice is step one. From there refusing to give or do things to help or uplift the other person, even when it costs you little, as a powerplay begins the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 11:55 PM
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Not really life in general. Maybe at a workplace where you can be punished for disagreeing with consensus. In general life I have no fear of speaking my mind. But yes, there are consequences to award systems. I wish some controversial threads or subreddits could do something about that. And negative reinforcements have very unpredictable results.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 11:15 PM
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I wasn't trying to talk down to anyone and I prefaced my statement with "I think" demonstrating that it was just my opinion. I don't know how I retreated into egocentrism, I was responding to something someone said to me. Are you even disagreeing with me? Much of the things I've read on thebluepill indicate that they believe RP to be evil or immoral at best. I'm sure you give your opinions and interpretations of RP, that doesn't make you egocentric. Honestly, I'm having a hard time understanding…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 11:10 PM
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I don't think evil is hyperbolic at all. I think that's exactly how BPers see it. I see a BP thread once asking If RPers should be put on a pre-emptive sex offerenders list. I don't think they were joking. I wouldn't really call it a relationship at that point, atleast not one a traditional one based on mutual concern. More like a seduction, or exchange of services. Its I want xyz from you so I have to do abc. I wouldn't say I use dread game. Conversations and relationships are fluidic and tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 08:07 PM
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Upvotes don't prevent people who want to contribute to a conversation from making a comment, but the fear of losing huge amounts of karma by being downvoted to oblivion makes many subreddits circlejerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 07:36 PM
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It took me a while to understand what he was saying. I think he means a gender reversal. In an orbitor scenario you never feel secure or sure of your future or what your relationship even means. The same is true with the whole dread situation. I think that's what he meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 08:49 AM
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That is some high brow academic thinking you got goin on. I don't know how you analyze people's emotional reactions in a depersonalized sense or people, for that matter, in a depersonalized sense. An orbitor doesn't accept "any condition" to maintain "equity", that in an of itself destroys equity, they accept "any condition" to maintain access to their hearts desire. I guess you could say dread game is similar, in that both people on the receiving end of these games, orbiter or dread, feel used,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 08:43 AM
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I don't know what a flair is. I said that to indicate which direction I lean when not obvious by context. I've said it twice so I'm not sure what your problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 08:01 AM
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I think they view it as highly manipulative. And perhaps also evil, the act of someone completely emotionally disconnected like a narcissist or sociopath. P.S. I'm more RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 04:06 AM
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I think it's the same reason prochoice people would probably be ruthlessly down-voted on a prolife thread. They don't just disagree with you, they think your position is immoral and perhaps even evil. Edit: I'm more RP, so maybe I shouldn't have answered this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 01:52 AM
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Yes, its an integrated workforce, but not perfectly integrated. Women still out number men in social work, nursing, teaching etc. and men still out number women as doctors, lawyers, engineers etc. This discrepancy is one of the biggest contributing factors to the "wage gap". This annoys people because the wage gap is so talked about, yet most of the factors that effect it are choice related. Now some say men and women are funneled into those careers, and perhaps that's true to a degree, but ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 10:56 AM
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Ok. I think you misunderstand. The point I was making is simply that something can be noble and also bad for you. I wasn't saying that those two situations were in any other way related, except that they're both noble and both bad for you. Also, to title of the post, "continuing to raise a child after realizing it's not biologically yours" implies a very specific situation. I have no ill will for those couples and people who choose to adopt and I'm sure its a great decision for all kinds of peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 01:27 AM
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That would turn me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 09:17 PM
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Sounds like you've had a good life. May you never have to look behind the curtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 11:59 AM
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Ok I gotta know. Why in the world, would swallowing the Redpill not be better than divorce. We're talking divorce here, the most emotional, brutally painful thing you can go through short of the death of a loved one. Hell, some would say worse than a death. How can Redpill not be preferable???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 11:58 AM
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Its a slow process.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 11:37 AM
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Ok. I've been a father for 13 years. So first, I think a fathers name shouldn't be added to a birth certificate until a paternity test has been done. I think it should be illegal to falsely convince a man of paternity and there should be real consequences if done. Second, yes its noble to raise another man's child. Its also noble to jump on the grenade or live a life of poverty while giving all your money to others. Its also stupid. Also if you read on female infidelity you'll find that very few…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 11:13 AM
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I began noticing that things were not as I had been led to believe years ago when I was in high school. I could see that things weren't adding up, but had no other philosophy to go on. I started working up theories and putting them to the test. Things got better and better. I came up with names for all these different theories, I actually thought I'd invented the phase friendzoned at the time (all though I had actually called it friendboxed, it was before the movie and Scrubs so the term wasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 10:20 AM
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Ok. Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 09:18 PM
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Well your interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 08:21 PM
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To me Redpill is a burgeoning philosophy for cultivating female sexual attraction of men. The philosophy pays no mind to political correctness, chivalry, or morality. The only metric of any concern is effectiveness. Redpill also gives examples of how seemingly "proper" behavior can have tragic consequences for men. It highlights male victims of female abuse. Redpill also encourages men to see women as people who possess agency over there decisions and discourages men from seeing women as victims…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 08:17 PM
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No, I know you want the best for your family. Do you believe that every woman with a beta provider is unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 07:29 PM
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The lock and key analogy has to do with the belief that male and female personality traits compliment each other and aren't exactly the same. I'm not sure how you see that as an argument in favor of male promiscuity. As I said previously, I personally wouldn't set up a man whore with my sister. But I don't think that male promiscuity says as much about a man as female promiscuity says about a women. I don't think they're looking for the same things or get the same things out of the experience. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 10:01 PM
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I wasn't suggesting they were serious. Just that they affected the way they perceived people and threats. It effects there interpretation of events. And could lead them to feeling persecuted or used when they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 09:41 PM
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Yeah that's the irony. For you sister, mom, daughter, you'd probably push them towards "beta providers". And steer them away from users. I wonder if there's a correlation between strong family connections, particularly with male family members, and promiscuous behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 08:23 PM
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Reducing the shame women feel for taking advantage of there position is a major push of modern feminism. The so called anti shut shaming movement. This is an attempt to remove the stigma from female behavior outside of traditional gender roles. However, they still benefit from a culture that pushes men to pursue. In other words they get the best of both worlds. 2 to 1 male to female ratio on dating sites. Women receiving far more messages on sites and offers of sex in all areas of there lives. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 10:02 AM
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I don't know the average age of some of the guys on there. Most of the posts I see the what they'd accept at between 10-20 partners. They also have a big problem dating single mothers which I don't. But I have a child. Double standards are everywhere and I've learned its a hell of a lot easier to learn them and use them to your advantage then to try and change them. A guy can set whatever limits he wants on partner counts. And go out every weekend to get laid, IF a woman with a low count will ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 08:48 AM
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I don't think RP says it doesn't matter for men they just don't care about what it means for them. Its not dedicated to whats best for women. Its dedicated on how to get women and what women to avoid. So they only talk it in terms of the female. I ran into this problem the other day when I was talking about the number of women the have mental issues. I said something like 25% of women have them and they countered with, "oh so they have more than men". No. I didn't say that. That's the rate in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 08:16 AM
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What bluepill means to me is those people who believe the culturally acceptable, usually politically correct, notions on life, love, sex and gender as correct. Such as you shouldn't judge a woman by her partner count. A bluepill would say absolutely not that's sexist. A redpill would say that a sexually unrestricted person is more likely to cheat and divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:55 AM
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The was a recent study, I think out of Japan, that showed men can and do develop strong emotional bonds with prostitutes they frequent. Some men have been known to buy expensive gifts for pros above and beyond what was required for sex. And the most common sex act requested is the "girlfriend experience". I just meant though through there profession they have a certain power a certain allure. A bad girl effect. Maybe a damsel in distress for some. Actually men who try to save hookers are called …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 11:24 AM
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I'm assuming your being sarcastic. I didn't make any reference to evolutionary psychology. Doing scientific research is incredibly difficult on social subjects like this because they hinge on self reported surveys which are extremely unreliable. But the notion that having women interested in you elevates you status with other women is hardly controversial. Who wants a man no one else wants? You think the 3000+ women Gene Simmons has slept with did so because of his looks or did fame play a role?…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 08:19 AM
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No. A lot of girls want guys other girls want. The idea that your so desirable a woman would cheat to be with you could be a turn on. Also some girls like guys that don't "follow the rules".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 06:58 AM
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What bluepill means to me is those people who believe the culturally acceptable, usually politically correct, notions on life, love, sex and gender as correct. Such as you shouldn't judge a woman by her partner count. A bluepill would say absolutely not that's sexist. A redpill would say that a sexually unrestricted person is more likely to cheat and divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 04:30 AM
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I wasn't implying the rate was higher for women. I never said higher. 25% is the rate of mental illness in the general pop. The point is, the rate is high enough that people (including women) you pass everyday have issues. Mental illness isn't rare so you can't write off false claims as well they're just crazy. There's to many crazy people for that. There's probably people you know, that are perfectly nice, that you shouldn't trust. The current belief is the rate of sociopaths in the general pop…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 01:37 AM
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We were teenage parents and after a couple of years together the glamour wore off. She wanted to party and sleep with other men. Once things stopped adding up with her stories she'd claim rape. She'd never take it to the police though. If you look it up,covering for an affair is one of the biggest reasons women lie about rape. Its also important to note that the 8% figure only applies to rape allegations turned into the police. It appears the more hoops a woman has to jump through the more likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 11:42 PM
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I was very BP when I was younger. One of the things that moved my way of thinking was my baby mama lying about being raped. 5 times on, 5 different days, by 5 different men, over 2 years, while we were together. Before that I trusted women's claims by default. Afterwards I started wondering why I trusted women's stories without question. The only answer I could come up with is that feminists had been working for years to make women's claims of rape unquestionable. This appeared to me to not be e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 07:27 PM
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I mean some of it is bitterness for sure. But the purpose is to be mindful of the women around you. That when they start calling and facebooking right around that age its not that she's suddenly realized she loves you, but that her options are changing. Which I guess is fine if you don't mind being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 06:12 AM
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I'm hetero male. I could see sharing my gf with another girl but not another guy. A lot of this has to do with my beliefs on female sexual attraction towards men. I can't stand the idea of being cheated on again so I looked into a lot of these communities, cuckolding, hotwifing, poly, open relationships etc. And I consistently saw was that a woman's sexual desire for one man can plummet when another man enters the picture. Women who have affairs are more likely to leave their husbands than men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:41 AM
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Hmmm. This is why I hate the whole game talk, cause its not one thing and conversations with women are fluidic. You've already expressed disappointment so I think its to late to go the aloof route. You'll probably just have to play it straight. I'd admit I was disappointed but (and this is important) you realize she can't promise you that she'll be attracted to you and you realized this was silly for you to get mad about when a friend pointed out that you can't guarantee you'll be attracted to h…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:59 PM
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Dead on
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:16 PM
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What did you say to her after the whole I may not be attracted to you thing? Were you insulting?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:06 PM
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Everything that guy said is dead on. This guy is lookin for way to firm of a sex commitment from a girl he has yet to met. Especially a girl that lost her virginity like a couple months ago. He's got defeat in his head and was just waiting to be rejected.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:00 PM
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Yes. Or atleast mostly based on what you've typed here. But I hate hate the phrase I still have a chance. I don't like the connotations of it. Here's a story. When I was 16 I had a long distance gf and we agreed to lose or virginities to each other. We talked about it all the time. Then as the time approached she said she was having second thoughts. I lost my shit. Called her a liar and she'd broken our agreement as if we'd signed a contract. She cried. I didn't talk to her much for like a month…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:53 AM
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As soon as she said, "I may not be sexually attracted to you when we meet. I just want friendship." you should have responded with, "yeah I may not be attracted to you either, we'll see how it goes". She's young, inexperienced, and insecure and just doesn't want sex to be automatically expected the first time you meet. Girls respond very negatively to expectations real or imagined. It feels like a manipulation to them. Like force. And you don't next a girl for saying that before you even meet. E…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:22 AM
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And did she get that after she left him? Like follow my logic here, but very very few women earn enough money for that lifestyle on there own. They're either model quality trophy wives or they met there husbands before they got rich. Even being model beautiful isn't a guarantee of anything as at that point its a business translation and putting a ring on it is all downside for the man. Plenty of men at that income level simply have gfs they support but never marry. So to me the question is, she …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:28 AM
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Was he not successful in the new business?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 10:53 AM
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I completely understand why women in general and feminists in particular want the "nice guy" culture. (Although as much as they bitch about nice guys I wonder. I guess they don't bitch about nice guys in general so much as nice guys that have an expectation of intimacy as a result. So its kinda like please act this way and expect nothing in return. Thanks!) If I was them I'd probably want it too. But this is also where a lot of animosity is created towards feminists. Because a lot of men increas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/14 10:40 PM
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In what way do you feel that dating advice is invalid? Yes I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/14 11:12 AM
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First of all your in no danger of losing the right to vote. I think the social effects of rad fem are way way subtler than that. You are right that the friendzone thing is complicated and I think there are plenty of men who misuse the label. But there is an element of entitlement to it but it doesn't feel that way to us. You touch on this in your other post about men feeling lied to which happens in multiple ways. I don't know if you can understand. As a young man the advice I was given about gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/14 04:41 AM
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Oh, I want to join the discussion!!! 31m here. College educated blah blah blah. I actually joined reddit a couple months ago specifically to read about feminism and talk to feminists. I was sitting around thinking about life, love, and relationships. Basically wondering to myself if and when I was going to get married and what I should be looking for. I thought, "my old way of thinking didn't work I need a new way". So I thought I need to speak to some educated aware women that know what they wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/14 02:58 AM
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I'm a dude and read theredpill. I loved your apology post. If you have any questions I'm here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 10:25 AM
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I'm a guy, I read your post on theredpill and I believed you :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 10:16 AM
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