trying2behappyinpain Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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10	How can we bring people especially men to care men’s issues ? Treating each other with kindness. Revealing the ways in which we are oppressed (and normalizing conversations about them). Also, we need to tackle the REAL parts of toxic masculinity that plague a lot of men. Masculinity in itself is helpful, but there is also a lot of emotional suppression in bro-to-bro culture. So we need to break through that. We need to allow ourselves to be able to cry to each other when depressed, and be vulnerable in healthy ways. I love stoicism. It can be a great philo…	/r/MensRights	10/02/25 09:20 AM
2	Men/women I’m a man and I fear for my life at night where I live tho lol. This is entirely dependent on geography. I live in Vegas, so there are a bunch of crackheads, and I’ve seen many stories of men getting jumped/ robbed here at night and left for dead. So idk about that….. I don’t feel like what you are saying applies to dangerous cities. Sure, if you live in the suburbs you probably wouldn’t fret going on a night walk at night vs a woman doing the same thing. I honestly feel like men and women in ge…	/r/MensRights	09/02/25 06:55 AM
3	Men created the system so all problems are created by men Nonsense. Men have EQUAL parts in creating children, too! 9 months to carry a baby is nothing compared to living an entire life and having parents be equal in their relationship to raise that child together as one cohesive unit. In essence, either person could take on the “father” or “mother” role. They can be easily played with and switched. A woman’s role in this shouldn’t be seen as inherently more important just because she is the one to carry the child. I think that women just claim that “m…	/r/MensRights	06/02/25 01:31 AM
2	I think this sub should stop negatively generalising women. Exactly! We are all entitled to our OPINIONS. It’s not like we are on here encouraging hate, or hate crimes to be committed. It’s a safe space to have the dialogue that we don’t feel like we are able to have anywhere else. That’s it. Don’t make it into more than that. THAT ideology is what is going to make things seem suspect when there is talk about having safe-spaces. Some places in my community straight up have movie nights where black people are only allowed. How is that okay? My gym also ha…	/r/MensRights	29/01/25 09:13 PM
1	MEN SHOULD LEARN, ACCEPT, & LISTEN THESE ABOUT LIFE Yup. Exactly. And the big problem is that republicans would rather blame “woke,” or the LGBTQ+ for these issues (or even democrats), rather than acknowledging that the biggest threat to our rights actually comes from radical WOMEN. It’s sick. Gay people aren’t doing anything like this. I think in reality they just want to stop being marginalized just like MEN are Marginalized, and their narrative has gotten twisted and added resentment towards the wrong people IMO…. Crazy feminist women seem to …	/r/MensRights	27/01/25 11:32 PM
2	I believe we might end up like the other male subreddits here, as they often find a reason, and Reddit enforces it. How can we avoid this? Hate is a strong word. I don’t like to meet hatred with more hatred; that is not wise, and it would make the world an even worse place. We have to grow our circle of compassion in this world in order to change the future. However, we will always have slip-ups and become angry, or filled with bad emotions. I have good days and bad days with all of those things. I believe that mens’ rights is always something that is worth fighting for— no matter what, but we have to fight for it in a way that is …	/r/MensRights	19/01/25 10:37 AM
6	I believe we might end up like the other male subreddits here, as they often find a reason, and Reddit enforces it. How can we avoid this? Exactly!!	/r/MensRights	19/01/25 05:53 AM
8	I believe we might end up like the other male subreddits here, as they often find a reason, and Reddit enforces it. How can we avoid this? That’s a really good idea :) I agree.	/r/MensRights	19/01/25 05:14 AM
138	I believe we might end up like the other male subreddits here, as they often find a reason, and Reddit enforces it. How can we avoid this? We aren’t being hateful ever, so why should we be afraid? It’s annoying that we have to feel afraid about this. The feminist subreddit actively HATES men, and they would never get banned. If you read their posts, it can easily get your blood boiling. I hope that Reddit would never attempt to shut us down. There is so much evil / man-hating shit actively written about pretty much everywhere else on the internet… This is how DEEPLY ingrained it is that most men feel like they can’t even SAY HOW TH…	/r/MensRights	19/01/25 03:36 AM
23	Extremely tired of hearing the term "rape culture" Yes, exactly! That’s my point. :) socialization and training is HUGE.	/r/MensRights	18/01/25 06:12 AM
44	Extremely tired of hearing the term "rape culture" Agreed. I think it is because women (and men) are indoctrinated from such a young age to believe that ONLY MEN can grow up to become perpetrators of sexual crimes. It’s sick. The amount of women I know that DENY women are active pedophiles, or say that women DONT commit violent crimes like men is insane. People take true crime shows they watch, as well as statistics that they hear through the grapevine, as ‘truths.’ People train each other to fear men and NEVER to fear women. It starts in young …	/r/MensRights	18/01/25 04:25 AM
3	What are good responses to women who say men have it easy / men aren’t oppressed? Ehh. I think we ARE still oppressed. I actually believe this is a good word to use. We aren’t free. We give 5 days a week to business/ work. We only have 2 free days. The second we aren’t oppressed is the second we have balance in the work week and have almost as much time for our families as we do for work… I think the modern world sets us up to believe we have all of these “freedoms,” but it really is just a way to keep us from advocating for ourselves and asking for better lives. If we define…	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 06:24 PM