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Yea I’ve run into this before. It can be a bit of a buzzkill. Is the sex still good? Shes coming back for more right? Idk what to tell you. I kind of hate when this happens. Maybe I’m just getting into my own head too much but it always bothers me that I’m not pleasing the girl and that she will just end up lying about it.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 09:14 PM
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I think this is true to a degree but if a girl has been with a really hung dude for an extended period of time she will be stretched out permanently. I’ve experienced what the OP is talking about exactly with a few different short term relationships. And every time I’ve asked the girl and they’ve told me how their ex was super big and what not. Sure, their vagina tightens back up somewhat after sex, but once they are aroused again it loosens back up to that state in which she could take that oth…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 09:12 PM
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Solid advice thanks
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:54 PM
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So what should i say
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:07 PM
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Agreed, she sounds immature as fuck. How old is this girl?
/r/askTRP19/12/17 03:53 PM
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He was a friend. We fucking lived together for a year, partied together, hung out all the time ya know. Maybe we didn’t click super well but regardless I thought of him as a friend. Someone who’s company i enjoyed for the most part. But at this point i just have a bunch of spite built up and i really want him to know hes a POS. Maybe itll prevent him from doing this shit going forward, but not likely. Also she is young and naive and doesn’t realize that what she’s doing is a fucking dick move.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 04:10 PM
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Yea at the end of the day thats really what i need. Some new pussy. I know that will help me moving on. I just really wanted to let this guy know i think hes a lowlife. Maybe next time i see him
/r/askTRP15/11/17 04:01 PM
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Yea and thats what burns me up. I want to let him know what a degenerate he is. Granted it probably won’t make a difference, maybe it does. And he stops treating people like shit. Who knows
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:59 PM
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I haven’t said anything to him yet. I was only contemplating it. He’s definitely out of my life its just that we are still sort of in the same social circle so i may see him at some point in the future.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 05:12 AM
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Yea i think youre absolutely right. Its always friday night after work around 6 or 7 both of my roommates will show up with a bottle of liquor each usually. And what starts with hey want a shot turns into 4 or 5 and by then im just wanting more to erase the stresses of the week and problems in my mind. Its shitty. And theres a bit of peer pressure too. But I’ve got to start somehow/somewhere. I’ve made so little progress in the gym this year and I attribute a lot of that to alcohol consumption.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:33 PM
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This. So many attractive girls in close proximity. and college goes by fast.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 06:08 PM
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Girl I was seeing drinks too much so after a few shots and she falls asleep it's easy. She removed the thumbprint shit though so I would have to look over her shoulder sort of and memorize the passcode. Also I'm with you on this op, but some of the other posters have good points too. The girl I was just with for the past 9 months was bpd/alcoholic and right after we started dating she was acting like she was super into me and wanting to be with me and then I found out she was on tinder behind my…
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:49 PM
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Do you know of any posts on here that go into more detail about these personality disorders and such? Like the cluster b and that?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 01:31 PM
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Do this. Once you hook up with some more girls you will forget about this one. Now that I'm thinking, I assume this works the same way for women right? Idk
/r/askTRP14/09/17 01:17 PM
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Is that like a conspiracy theory or something?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 04:01 PM
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I used the animal pak company's t booster sometime last year and it would make me feel like a beast and so much stronger during my workouts. They seem to have bumped the price since then though. I'd recommend it though.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:48 PM
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I've had the book for months now and just started reading it the other day. But I searched in TRP main sub and apparently there are some flaws to this book and someone wrote an entirely separate book to kind of refute this one. People said sex at dawn cherry picks it's data. So now I'm not really sure if I should spend my time reading it or not
/r/askTRP06/09/17 02:58 AM
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Wow. Number 3. I've been reading red pill for like two years and that was like a mini epiphany. It's the same way you would deal with an annoying child. But I will say. Easier said than done. How does one put this in practice? I guess it's all in frame and staying stoic? Maybe I'll figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 06:53 PM
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I would move on. I know it hurts but if you keep trying to fuck her it will only make things worse. Cut ties and go fuck as many other girls as you can.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 03:00 AM
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I'm the same height as you and similar build. I'm always the smallest guy in the room. The height was never too much of an issue because I would meet guys of the same height and occasionally shorter, but the small natural body frame is detrimental and leaves you looking like a 16 year old, I know. I'm 28 now and have scrapped together a bit of facial hair but I'm still only around ~133 lbs (haven't weighed myself in a while) w very low bf %. How much do you weigh? I think the two mains things fo…
/r/askTRP24/08/17 01:22 PM
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you can search for people on Facebook by their 10 digit cell phone number usually as long as they have it registered w their fb account. Nice little trick once you get a girls number and want to see more about her.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:23 PM
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Lmao idk why but I've noticed this before too. Only been with two horse girls though
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:21 PM
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All about how confidence at its base is about not giving a fuck
/r/askTRP18/06/17 08:23 AM
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I'm 5'6" would love to have that extra two inches you do. Get one inch lifts and you should be pretty much set
/r/askTRP06/06/17 09:26 PM
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Yea the fb phone number trick is a neat little tool a buddy told me about a while back. Super useful. I still haven't given fb my phone number and I've had my account since a few years after it started
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:07 PM
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This. Keto plus keep lifting you'll lose a ton of fat
/r/askTRP07/05/17 06:45 AM
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How do you do the audio? Smart phone or a separate device?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 07:02 PM
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Yea? This has always been a catch 22 for me. I enjoy giving girls head and I feel like it helps bring them to orgasm better once you start fucking, but I get the worst anxiety doing it w a plate or other girl I don't trust. Mainly because idk who they have fucked recently and it makes my stomach sink thinking about it. Could've been the day before or hell even earlier that day. Not to mention the consequences of std's. But I've seen other threads on here where everyone was super gung ho about ju…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 03:55 PM
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The gains are permanent for longer than that once you build up steam I think. I did some jelqing when I was younger and I think you could expect similar results from a bathmate. I saw a 1/4 inch increase in girth and length each after only a couple months.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:43 PM
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But they start to solidify over time I believe. If you use a bathmate consistently (4-5 a week) for around 3-6 months you will see gains apparently. That's what most claim. Usually about an inch. I haven't had the diligence yet to do it that often but I really need to make time for it.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:34 PM
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I tried jelqing for a few months back when I started college about 9 years ago. Saw some slight length and girth gains, I want to say a quarter inch on each. Got a bathmate last year but just haven't been consistent enough w the usage. All said and done it takes a little under an hour a day to set everything up, warm up, and get it done. That's a lot of time for me. I started back up a week or two ago and got some pain on the 2nd day so I quit again. But with that said when I first got it and wa…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:23 AM
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So she doesn't know that you know?
/r/askTRP19/04/17 07:35 PM
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This is great. Any kind of advice on keeping these kind of logistics prevalent in your mind? Or just getting them there in the first place? I want to try to keep my status up to women or at least appear that why. Have no more mr nice guy and a slew of other books just haven't gotten around to reading them.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 07:32 PM
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Hmm not sure what to tell you there. If it's someone you already know I could understand but someone completely new I never worry about that much. I actually love it meeting a totally new girl and she turns out to be a freak or what not. But yea just keep going and try not to dwell on it much
/r/askTRP15/04/17 12:50 AM
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Imo there are but like I said it's hard to find them. I wouldn't bank on it. And by that I mean honestly do not expect it. in college I feel like I was seeing one of them for a short while but I fucked it up. At the time didn't realize what I had. I digress. But I will say this that once you're older they will be near impossible to find. Then again I'm still learning as much as anyone else here so take what I say with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 12:03 AM
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I'm the same way man always have been. I know for me it has to do with the hopeless romantic narrative that I got shoved down my throat growing up. Mom always spouted off about how 'the one' would show up eventually. Luckily you're here and can learn that AWALT and as much as you like any girl she's probably already done some dirty stuff. Granted I do still believe that there are 'nicer' girls out there who are into sex, aren't total prudes and that, but aren't doing things like blowing multiple…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 10:14 PM
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Yea I know how that goes about the confidence. I think the problem is that women are hit with being social early on (teens) where as guys can sometimes take longer to gain social situation experience. I think that's why I'm saying it would be so easy to go back and do it now. I'm 8 years down the road with way more confidence and college just seems like easy pickings. But practice makes perfect so stick with it. Like I said, make a very strong effort to count your drinks and make sure you aren't…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:19 AM
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If I could do it again I would've started lifting asap because you can build muscle so much faster the younger you are. Drop the video games asap. Join organizations. Get involved. Meet people and be confident. Get your school work done earlier so you can go out more often if possible. If you have alcoholic tendencies (I always was the first to black out) keep count of your drinks and timing. Make a conscious effort to stay in control through your nights out. I graduated with a 2.6 and it was em…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:34 PM
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This. I was a 'stoner'. Thought weed was cool. Everything in moderation of course but you don't want to be doing it every day.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:27 PM
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Last minute resistance. Wish I could do college again with the knowledge I have now. Would've been easy mode. Good luck OP.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 01:21 PM
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So true. Both my grandfathers passed before I was born but I was lucky enough to be close to a few friends of mines and they were really great.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:08 AM
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Absolutely. Whenever I have run into stuff like this with girls my intuition and gut feeling are always right. Go with your gut.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 08:55 PM
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Type of penis pump used to make gains over a longer period of time rather than immediate ones
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:55 PM
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I have a bathmate and trying to do that regularly. I did some jelqing back when I was in college and saw some gains then but it's harder to do now that I'm older. I try to work it into my bm regiment though.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:52 PM
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Guess I'm the only one and I'll probably get shit for it but yea... I've been fucking a girl for around 2 months and I come inside of her. She has an iud. Yes I'm worried about std's because there's no way I could ever trust her or be sure that she's not ducking anyone else.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:44 PM
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I enjoyed season one gonna try to wrap up season two soon. I agree it's super blue pill though. It's hard to believe as well because we all know there's no way in fuck a guy like that could ever get a girl like her to stick around for too long.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 09:16 PM
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I think you're good dude. But imo PE works. I did some jelqing on and off for a few months like 9 years ago and saw some improvement. You have to stay consistent though and obviously don't push yourself to injury. You could probably get at least a half inch, maybe more, in 6 months if you do it correctly and consistently. It's easier when you're younger too, I think.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 03:49 PM
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Np man. Just stay confident and you'll be good. You have the above average dong going for you. I wish I had that. That's always been the runner up to my height issues, if not the main issue, even though I'm fairly average myself if not very slightly above it. But yea I think you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 05:43 PM
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Yea I know the lifts suck but like I said they aren't too bad if you ever want to reconsider. Agree and amplify is my go to lately it helps a shit ton once you get it down pat. I'm just sarcastic as shit about everything now. She's 21 kind of immature. Really nothing to right home about, but she told me she likes that I'm so confident. She has low self esteem about her body, very open about it. I matched w her on tinder and then followed her on IG. Kept messaging her a few months later and final…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 04:25 PM
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How tall are you? I'm five six. I rarely meet guys shorter than me, occasionally the same height. You either stay upset about it the rest of your life, or accept it and move on. You can't change it. It's taken me a long time to get used to it. And I still battle with it often. This girl I've been fucking has commented on my height several times now but I just grin and ignore it. "Fake it till you make it" that mantra has been helping me out through life since I can remember. Lastly if you want t…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 03:39 PM
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Understand why you're saying that but I feel like that's a very common misconception. I did crossfit for 8 months and never got injured. If you have quality coaches and know the limits of your own body you should be fine. You can bail out of the majority of lifts anyways.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 03:30 PM
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Some of my buddies who live fulfilling lives are the guys who's parent never would buy them a video game console. They could play while they were at friends houses but never have one at home. One is in Montana hiking, climbing, doing all this amazing outdoors shit every day it seems like. The other is a bit of a functioning alcoholic but he's also working on finishing up his PHD in engineering and almost always has a personal project going. Always building something or staying busy. Now me on th…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 03:29 PM
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Check out the book 'bigger leaner stronger'
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:55 PM
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But technically it's possible right?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 03:30 AM
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Cool post dude. I'm doing keto right now but attempting to bulk on it. Any advice there? I'm curious what your meal plan looked like for bulking (assuming you were on keto then).
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:41 PM
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Thanks for this post. I skimmed because I'm at work but I will come back later to read over everything. I went and checked out a gym that had BJJ and kickboxing about 6 months ago but never joined. I have been debating starting up crossfit again but I like the self defense benefits of martial arts more, considering I am such a small build 5'6" 135 lbs.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:11 PM
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If you have a girl back and you have escalated then yes take your shirt off do your thing you're in the clear. Imo. In the meanwhile focus on losing weight. But if you have got a girl back to your place and what not then she knows what's up and just assume you are the man and go from there.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 03:55 AM
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So true. I fucking hate what society is turning into. I also hate how prevalent the internet and social media is as well. I feel like I need to join and commune or move to a cabin in the woods to get away from all the BS.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 10:24 PM
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I've had the same exact shit happen to me multiple times in college. Trying to make some bullshit long distance (and one time close distance) relationship work when you have a sea of pussy waiting every single night. My advice to you, and I know it's tough, is to move on until you can get your stuff back. Just focus on yourself. Go lift and then find a girl to fuck. Even if that girl is not quite up to par, just get your mind away from the first girl.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:37 PM
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Be really flirty but try to keep an alpha mindset. If it goes well try to get her back to your place (or hers) and then just escalate from there. As far as frame goes I just try to keep an alpha mindset in these situations and be sarcastic when I can to be funny. And if she shit tests just agree and amplify. Good luck
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:34 PM
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Had a girl who liked to push me away as I was about to start fucking her. Like I had to hold her down and stuff. Would have worried me but she was smiling the whole time and I think it was just a fantasy thing. Plus we had been sleeping together a few weeks.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 10:09 PM
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Thanks, you made some good points. I'll have to keep those in mind. I didn't go out because I was tired from working all week and I have a drinking problem. Id probably be hungover as fuck right now if I had gone out
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:56 PM
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I'd do anything to have found the red pill community at 19. Start lifting right away while your body is still really bendy the next few years (Assuming you already play some sports). It's never too late but you're still super young
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:43 AM
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Hey you were the only one who mentioned the possibility of a LtR so just wanted to try to get your opinion if you don't mind. Ended up talking to her tonight asked her what she was up to and she said she couldn't see me but wished I was with her. I asked why not and she said she had already made plans. It's Friday night and she's not working so i can only assume she's probably w another guy. And I'm like 80% sure she's probably fucking other guys. I know you could probably reply with you don't k…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:39 AM
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Fight through. Even if I'm super nervous I just push through the mental barrier to escalate. Usually the nerves don't prevent me from getting hard or anything though. Try to harness the raw primal energy within you.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 08:56 PM
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She replied saying can't wait w a smiley. But only after I accidentally did one of the new iMessage reaction things lol. So she probably got a notification that I did that.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:55 PM
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I texted her though. Feel like I dropped the ball. Not going to double text at this point though. Hit up 3 other girls to try to set something up.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:31 PM
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Thanks I'm trying to keep an abundance mentality it's just tough when you don't get laid a ton and then a cute girl comes around who is good in bed. I texted her back no reply yet so I'm going to probably go out tonight and meet new girls. I've only seen this girl twice so i think I'd be okay if I never saw her again. Just sucks to lose a good thing. And I def get what you're saying about spacing my time. I'll keep that in kind. Because if not I'll never get the physique that I want
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:26 PM
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Said this. Admittedly I threw in a winky face (which is pretty lame I know I'm an idiot). But she didn't reply. (She has read receipts on) I'm not super surprised though she's an attractive 21 year old I know she has other options. She may reply later on who knows.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:21 PM
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Yes you're right with the first part. Okay if you say so. I guess I am being a little blue pill because I honestly would like to see her again tonight. And I mean sex is awesome. I still haven't replied to her though. Are you saying this from experience or just kind of theorizing that if I'm trying to hang out with her all the time she will be put off by it?
/r/askTRP27/01/17 06:18 PM
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Thanks I was reading back over these and wasn't sure if I had gotten that correctly. I misread. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 06:14 PM
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Only reason is that a lot of RP members have suggested to me in the past that you should spin plates for about a year before trying to tie down a LTR. And I honestly don't trust the beta in me to be able to pull it off. I've never had anything last much more than 3-4 months because I just get so enamored by the girl and start blue pilling hard. Granted, I'm wiser now and older. and if I keep up with exercising and improving myself I might be able to pull it off. I'm really intent on focusing on …
/r/askTRP27/01/17 06:12 PM
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Fuck I really wanted to fuck her again tonight
/r/askTRP27/01/17 05:25 PM
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So only hang with her twice a week? I've already seen her Sunday and Wednesday night this week
/r/askTRP27/01/17 04:43 PM
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Sounds like a crap situation man. Also sounds like you handled it better than I would have. I'd probably try to find a classier bar to hang out at though
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:36 PM
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Yea I used to see those all the time on 4chan. It fucking sucks having an average sized dick. I mean it gets the job done but just seeing stuff like that and hearing how girls talk 'behind closed doors'.. size def matters in my opinion. Blah
/r/askTRP
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Text the friend and ask for the girls number and then text her and see if she wants to hang or get a drink sometime
/r/askTRP
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We'd been seeing each other a while and hanging out fairly often so yea she's a plate but also more than that sort of
/r/askTRP
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Yea I think you're absolutely right in the last paragraph. Part of me wants to give her the benefit of the doubt because we were both really drunk but it seem evident to me she was trying to hurt me whether she did it subconsciously or not. I had hurt her feelings a few times when we were hanging out but I don't think it was enough to warrant her doing this. And also the 'friend' is a narcissist and I won't ever be relying on him for anything. Thanks for the reply
/r/askTRP
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Im in the same boat. I just turned 28 a few months ago and i stopped and thought about it and i guessed i probably haven’t gone sober for more than a week, maybe two, since i was 18. I’m a binge drinker so its only friday/saturday that turn out bad for me but I feel like ive wasted so many weekends over the past ten years or so. I keep telling myself im going to stop and i never do. Im hoping this weekend i can finally get a handle on it and not be hungover as shit saturday morning
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