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20

god the amount of power pussy holds over average men these days is disgusting but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:57 PM
24

Can’t have it both ways lmao
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/22 04:43 PM
1

genuine mutual connection with someone most of the genuine mutual connections wont exist if a person in the relationship don't look the way they do. dont have the money, the career/ status. we are way more shallow then we think we are. obviously there are exceptions where there is a genuine connection based on personality and character but that's rare and not easy to find. the majority of people you'll date will not fall in the this category. mutual connection without the shallowness sounds good…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:20 PM
2

all this social media/ internet and drastically different lifestyle is fucking with our heads, there's literally no point in dating as an average guy because of all the nonsense you have to deal with. guys just need to get rich and use money as a status symbol or to pay whores to get laid, no point in dating when there's so much shit you have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:25 AM
1

man fuck this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:21 AM
13

pussy protection TM
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/22 05:19 PM
9

dont know if it is sexist but it is definitely wrong because it's body shaming
/r/PussyPassDenied14/05/22 05:13 PM
1

this is why u dont put a ring on anyone, you never know..
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:36 PM
4

the wall was never about 60+ folks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 02:34 PM
1

say what lmao, "i know ur a whore". just tell him ur wife's flirting with me or try to get it in camera or text screen shots. if this was ur wife you would want to know wouldn't you.
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:38 AM
1

tell her husband, save his life.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:23 PM
1

thats the thing u dont know if op actually got a date.
/r/seduction17/04/22 03:03 PM
33

not trying to be negative but it would be better if u posted about cold approaches like these after you go on a date resulting from this approach. otherwise we dont rlly know if victoria thought this was stupid/cringe or if she thought it was cute. also our perception on things people do/ say depend on their looks for the most part, ie ugly person is into something niche they're weird and need to get a life, good looking person on the other hand is quirky and interesting. the same can be applied…
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:28 AM
1

i want to suffer from this, can you tell me how?
/r/seduction12/03/22 10:12 AM
2

if what ur saying is true, then again your lucky. many single moms have a hard time finding someone to be in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:37 PM
2

no some of them get relationships when they want to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:34 PM
5

they like to fuck sluts, but they wont have a relationship with one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:32 PM
1

ur wrong, it wont become the norm just because it is your fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:06 AM
2

it wont become the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:01 AM
3

exceptions will always exist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:54 AM
6

promiscuity was never attractive and never will be. there are obviously free to do what they want but judgement and consequences will always be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:03 AM
1

i'd rather be single, the first girl is no different from the second. she is doing what the second is doing virtually but the emotional and psychological behind it is the same. both of them are not relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:08 AM
1

most young woman are insecure, looking for attention/ validation. easy to get in their heads because of how fragile their self confidence is, heck most of em won't take pics without heavy filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:57 AM
22

imagine thinking your wife loves you but she's posting shit like this online
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 05:34 PM
1

basic and masculine
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 04:02 PM
1

well if we go this route then we'll have to define rich
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:32 AM
1

you don't need to be part of the 0.001% to fuck prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:56 AM
2

Tons of animals abandon their offsprings or even outright kill them themselves source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:55 AM
1

rich 60 year old guys are, even if they are escorts/ paying they are young. as harsh as it sounds no one gives a shit about people in old folks home that's why their in old folks home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:32 PM
2

if we are talking from a wild/ nature perspective no animal takes care of another male's offspring. it's either killed from abandonment or killed by the other male. abandoning your child is abandoning a member of your pack, that isn't alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:31 PM
0

yes but they keep fcking younger cause they're better. no matter how fit a 50 year old woman is a younger looking 40 year old is a better choice. there is no shortage of young women. no matter their age this is fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:40 PM
0

why would chad fuck a woman that old, he's chad. he will prefer younger women who are plentiful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:29 PM
0

guys can be attractive to women while not abandoning their children. but they shouldn't be taken advantage by a woman or stick with her if she's not adding value to his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:24 PM
–

look at tiktok couples, you dont even need to go to the famous ones. if the girl's attractive the guy is reasonably attractive too. if u want slim u have to be slim
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:57 PM
5

perfectly content on raising an alpha seed alone rather than a having a intact beta family wait i thought alphas were leaders who lead the pack and make sure no one messes with them. how is abandoning your child alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:51 PM
1

its funny how the second one is predatory, can't people understand that maybe a 20 year old wants to date someone older/ more mature and stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:47 PM
2

you realized that on your own which is smart some women unfortunately think it's controlling if their partner has the same view.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:59 PM
3

rejection in any scenario is upsetting, it is not beta to feel a bit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:21 AM
2

how should guys let you know early on that they see you as more than a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:07 AM
1

women should either genuinely be more selective while presenting themselves as such or be promiscuous and not hide that. it's the pretending and manipulation men hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:25 PM
1

they should do this as an experiment in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:14 PM
1

making yourself seem more chaste then you actually are is manipulation and you should never take girls who do this seriously. i mean what else has she faked about herself. good thing she told you, focus on yourself and get a girl who wont manipulate you. your gf isn't relationship material. also don't give her the reason for breakup otherwise the next dude she manipulates won't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:50 PM
1

why should i share it with u on a first date when i barely know you, if you expect me to do that then your level of entitlement is baffling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:42 PM
1

"it's not about the lines" ofc it is, but you won't say them would you
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:23 PM
1

just dont tell them, get it in secret and be done with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:14 AM
2

it will never be mandatory in our pseudo feminist society. what we should do is make more men understand that humans tend to be deceptive and lying so even if you think your girl is a pure in heart angel, get a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:23 AM
1

I respect if you want to know my sexual history and conclude to what your definition of slut or non-slut is… it’s part of life to navigate what you find acceptable or not didn't expect such a sensible comment in here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:18 AM
2

well these days it's all about equality so he's making you pay half to maintain that.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/22 03:33 PM
4

there are plenty of girls who didn't get passed around by junkies, the bf needs to leave her as soon as he knows before she can bullshit him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 04:45 AM
4

it isn't considered attractive, and if you flaunt it you look and ppl will presume your gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:44 AM
7

most women didn't have to work out even if their a little chubby it's their softness that attracts. men wearing make up isn't socially accepted yet. women increase sex appeal by showing their tits/ ass which men don't have. the fact that women have more emotional affairs prove that it's less physical for them than men when it comes to being stimulated. so realistically working out/ having a better mindset is the only thing we can do because other things women consider attractive like height/ bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:18 AM
1

i never mentioned sex, i said they can have platonic relationships easier than men. ppl to hangout with and have a emotional connection/ bond. this is also the case for romantic. not all guys are trying to shove their dick in random girls, seriously if you think all guys are like that then you're wrong. sure they may have sexual desire but if you don't encourage it as a female the guy won't really make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:30 PM
3

i just don't understand how women can be touch starved? unless you are extremely unattractive or purposely shut yourself in you can always find someone who wants to hangout platonically(guys or girls). i know there are many guys who just want to fuck but at the same time there are guys who don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:02 AM
1

showing ur asshole to the world isn't art ffs. only fans and insta thots are like services, they do something for you( arouse pleasure) and u give them something in return( money), i don't have a problem with that. but these women don't understand the consequences and expect to get treated like someone who doesn't do only fans. u can call yourself whatever you want but ultimately your a whore. you do what whores traditionally did in person virtually thanks to the internet. so if you get treated …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:43 PM
5

white girls missing have so many ppl talking about them whereas no one talks about women of other races when they go missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:41 PM
3

yeah no point in having guy friends, it always causes drama or problems.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/22 05:04 AM
1

there's no correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:56 PM
2

honestly short guys and black women have it hard, both of them are less preferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:52 PM
1

guys what if this was op's girlfriend and he stopped holding her for a second and this guy tries to hug her and pull her away, what would be your reaction as op.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:41 AM
1

u didnt get cucked, the thing is this was a " not your girl just your turn" situation. why are you emotionally invested in a girl you just met?
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:37 AM
2

yeah lol a divorce lawyer called it a lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:07 AM
10

glad u accept it instead of coming up with a bullshit excuse about how women have it hard too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:55 AM
1

the even used to do it back in the day by dropping hand kerchiefs. women made a move or atleast made it clear that she wanted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:48 AM
2

am glad ur introspecting, as for the sex ask him to make u cum first then he can have his orgasm.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/21 05:28 AM
2

i think it also limits their dating prospects, guys not taking them seriously or them not getting the level of commitment they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:08 AM
2

just found someone else then dump her, lack of self awareness is a red flag. plus u can find girls who haven't been the town's bicycle.
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:34 AM
1

i'm entj, i struggle to empathize. when people tell me stuff that's bothering them i try to give solutions which are an attraction killer. empathizing with them is the better option but i don't know how to do that and i just feel awkward af trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:38 AM
7

mostly men don't settle for women especially one they choose to marry but women often do due to things like running out of time to have kids, resources, depreciating looks. also calling a guy husband material makes it look like he's a safe guy and not a fun guy, men want to be the fun guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:31 PM
2

who is a "real" man and who is a submissive man. how do these types play out in a day to day basis
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/21 08:20 AM
0

i think he meant being disagreeable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:42 PM
-1

most of them are a poor judge of character and are bad decision makers, that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:41 PM
1

how is he looks wise? like u described or is he different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:32 AM
2

how old are u and have u found a man that matches this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:59 AM
0

how tall are u?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:55 AM
11

if we're talking about casual sex then it's true women have it easier because this isn't about intimacy or having a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:53 AM
2

marriage will go down because of all its negatives and complexities but relationships won't because people like stability and being as a family. we want to be part of something or be together with someone it's out nature so relationships won't go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:42 PM
2

what do u mean by security?, money? u say u dont need money especially with ur high earning potential and inheritance so what is this security. is it a belief that once u get married he wont cheat he won't leave you?. even in the case get married it will be with a prenup which means after a kid maybe 1-2 years later he can still divorce you. u keep saying how money isn't important, most women marry for financial security they dont have good job prospects or inheritance so rely on marriage to fin…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 04:03 AM
2

u can either convince him or urself, u urself believe in ur earning potential so why are u so bothered about marriage. social recognition? u can have a ceremony without legally getting married.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 03:18 AM
1

maybe he'll want to spend the time alone with her, this one's risky coz some ppl might hate it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 04:42 PM
1

You don’t need these things to have a good relationship but if you plan to have kids or want to legally maximize your wealth generation while in a relationship marriage is a decent option. considering this, it used to be a good option but now people are way too fucked up to even consider this given how easy casual sex is to obtain, the low self control and in general people's moral values seem to hold less importance to their impulses. i don't want to sound like the world's ending(it's not) but …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:09 PM
1

well that isn't commitment. definition is commitment isn't legally binding urself to someone else, that's marriage. just can't twist something to something it's not just becoz u want to. can change lives by causing financial instability. so far u've made no point that makes marriage a better deal to just staying in a relationship becoz there isn't one, especially in the modern world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:39 PM
2

And on the other hand pros: they could be loving, they could save your life, they could change to better accommodate your needs that you can’t get by yourself, they could ask to work with you to be more fit, and they could help financially by paying bills or creating investments. u realize that a relationship has all this right, am talking about a healthy relationship where u guys are together under the same roof like a married couple would be but without legally binding yourself to one another.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:48 PM
1

cons: they could turn abusive, they could cheat, they could change into a diff person who's no longer compatible to you, they could let themselves go, they could want a poly or open relationship(i say they becoz it applies to both genders). all this can happen in a relationship but if ur married separating is more complicated and financial detrimental then if u were only in a relationship. u could be loyal, start a family, grow old together without bringing marriage into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:33 PM
1

i get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:36 AM
1

i'm not trying to put u down but hot women dont stay hot women, what will ur friends do when they stop becoming hot women or when they want a family. this habit will cause problems won't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:22 AM
2

it'll get increasingly difficult to start new when they get older so how will they manage this then?, wouldn't they feel uncomfortable and trapped in a relationship becoz they are so used to always starting new but they can't start new as well becoz of their lowered options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:09 AM
4

it's funny for u becoz u think they are pathetic, if u weren't judging them as pathetic losers u wouldn't find it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:08 PM
3

ok am curious what are their motivations to be sluts?, lust?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:07 PM
1

if she's not acting the way u want her to act, dont give her attention.
/r/seduction12/12/21 05:46 PM
2

in this case the world is the room, and it will never be filled with only homosexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:50 PM
4

u can't have everything u want and if u dont realize this then u'll be unhappy, but that doesn't mean one shouldn't have standards. women talk about how they lost a good long term partner due to FOMO, pressure from friends to "explore", thinking there are better men out there becoz to them "the one" should be an amalgamation of all the best qualities. also like it or not promiscuity is a turn off for most men, and also being a single mom. if u continue to make bad choices when it comes to dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:27 PM
3

Bonding, love, affection there wont be any lust, a guy or girl would want their partner to lust for them and crave sex and sexual intimacy on a deeper level than just i'll fuck you coz i have a bond with you. This is male projection. in her own words, she wants more attractive guys for casual sex which means when it comes to sex she prefers a more attractive face/ body. not that that's wrong but this mentality is bad for a long term relationship and the admittedly less attractive partner involve…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:58 AM
0

It should only be for males who put in equal effort duh. but it's sad that a lot of women are poor judges of character and end up pregnant from a guy who's no good for them and won't stick around.
/r/RedPillWives11/12/21 04:52 AM
1

ur passing on ur genes too
/r/RedPillWives10/12/21 04:40 PM
13

if the guy ur in the relationship with comes to know he's not as hot as ur ONS he won't like that, also since he will be less attractive then ur flings how would u find him hot over a long period? u would want to sleep with a more attractive guy after some time wouldn't you then what would you do? wont this lead to a dead bedroom or breakdown in quality of relationship? this mentality is a recipe for disaster when it comes to long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:10 PM
2

i never become friends with a girl i find attractive, leads to a crush or infatuation situation. being friends with a girl u dont find hot makes it easier to treat her like one of the boys and have the same friendship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:15 PM
19

the ability to pair bond is gone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:54 AM
1

am not saying that u should burn every novel like that and hang the authors. i recommend reading what i write carefully because you are overreacting. just like how porn has various disadvantages and even though it exists it shouldn't be consumed, the same thing with these novels. porn creates unrealistic expectations with sex but novels like these create unexpected expectations with sex as well as ur personal relationships which is just fcked up. this thought that a guy just like in the novel is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:49 PM
1

yes porn is doing that as well but we are not talking about porn here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:29 AM
1

are u ok?, no one is trying to oppress anyone, no one is controlling reading content. reading shit like that isn't good and that's just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:26 AM
0

dont u think it creates unrealistic fantasies and expectations which lead to bad decision making, young girls(and guys) are very impressionable so them reading shit like this is obvious not good. how many times does a kinda dark triad with some issues rich/ hot guy falls deeply in love with an average girl(the usual in novels like these) in real life. they pump and dump for the most part because they can. also another thing that novels like these normalize is that if a guy has issues the girl sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:26 AM
2

damn that was nice. and also he just asked if ur dtf and u said yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:02 PM
1

is he a guy?, how'd u meet ur best friend?, how did things go from platonic to fwb/ sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:27 PM
1

so did u find what u want
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:13 AM
0

young ppl will mostly be insecure it doesnt matter which generation, so negging will always work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:32 AM
1

what value do u bring to say ur worth the 0.01 percent guy's time, not even close to what he brings. the amount of delusion on ur part is shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:13 AM
1

it's not sad, men say that becoz they've seen/ heard the sadness experienced by those cat women complaining in real life and online about their failed relationships/ what would've beens/ and shitty luck in dating becoz of their age and looks. girls trip to turkey or italy isn't going to fulfill ur sexual needs all year round, and a lot of women can't afford that. life expectancy has increased so think with that in mind and being lonely isn't fun either. there are probably very few women who are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:06 AM
1

hot woman isn't going to work in mcdonald's 9/10 times. she can use her attractiveness to get a better job even if she has horseshit skills
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:37 PM
2

actually i rlly liked some things they said like not to get pumped and dumped, don't break ur boundaries just becoz the guy looks rlly good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:05 AM
12

if u didnt make another guy wait that means sex to you is something casual and that's ok. but if u start acting like a virgin who's not interested in having sex until months in then that's the problem, can't you be consistent? also importantly u said it urself, she slept with some other guy on the first date becoz of a strong sexual connection so if ur not feeling the same with me then stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 12:47 PM
19

guys dont want to wait these days becoz they find out 2 of these things: a) the woman was fucking an fwb or someone else while he was waiting b) the woman slept with other guys on the first date while u had to wait( he usually finds this out later) the problem is inconsistent women, we dont want to find out how you slept with a friend of a friend on the 2nd 3rd date while i had to wait for months or you were seeing ur fwb while we were dating without getting sexual. if u make every guy wait the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:34 AM
7

u have 9kgs to lose whereas those guys dont have that and are in a way better shape compared to you
/r/seduction24/11/21 07:45 AM
1

dont be overweight, dress well and hygiene. try diff settings like diff activity clubs maybe then u can find girls who are interested in you
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:40 AM
1

just go inside and wait, that's it.
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:40 AM
1

what's ur height/ race and where in the world are you?
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:33 AM
2

yeah but dancing even if it's just holding each other and swaying to music that gets to the feels is a good way to break touch barrier/ get comfortable or even kiss close after talking and a couple of drinks at the bar.
/r/seduction15/11/21 05:26 PM
3

date ideas are amazing
/r/seduction15/11/21 04:35 PM
1

only some have, and i get out as soon as that happens becoz i dont have time for that. about drama, i'm not attracted to it. it's just that once i get close with these seemingly "normal" girls with no baggage they hit me with something like i mentioned and that's a total turn off becoz i know these girls are not good for me emotionally. i dont go around looking for them but i always find out that this "normal" on paper girl i like is actually quite the oppposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:49 AM
2

last line is true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:45 AM
1

the girls i am attracted to are always women with past trauma or women who are very weird. 1 had been raped as a kid by her own brother, 2 were secretly dating their first cousin, 1 had childhood trauma becoz of her dad and the same continued becoz their parents never stopped fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:56 AM
1

Yep this is the perfect solution
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:15 AM
0

we dont consider them the enemy, in fact we dont even blame them becoz it is biological. we are simply saying it's a bad idea to open up to your girl becoz they are not as understanding and accepting, that's why u have male friends to confide in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:35 AM
2

women are saying its ok to confide to ur woman, it's not. they'll lose respect/ attraction. they're only saying ok becoz it's the right thing to say, they don't want to look bad. there are very few outliers and don't think you can find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:52 AM
1

companionship and pussy ig?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:46 AM
0

if he's a rich guy he will most likely make the good decision becoz if he is a shit decision maker he wouldnt be rich in the first place. ofc there are outliers but they are rare and mostly it will turn out like i said. he will keep her around as his gf, she wont get shit except maybe food/ place to stay and trips while they are together. she can't even contest his will being gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:17 AM
2

u do realize there are things like will. also only an stupid loaded guy will marry the newer model, most will only keep her around as gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:03 AM
10

u dont see cheating coming until it hits you in the face. many guys and girls get shocked becoz they never thought their SO would cheat becoz these ppl as you said cared for them with everything so they dont expect their partner to throw it all away by cheating. but it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:00 AM
1

And your partner will leave you if they are not satisfied with the relationship. It's that simple. do u realize how much ppl love familiarity and the comfort of a relationship, that's why they cheat instead of breaking up. they are selfish ppl who chase the high they get from being promiscuous but when they're done they dont want to be alone so that's why they cheat rather than breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:57 AM
1

they get caught arguably a lot becoz this stupid girl who just hopped on hot dick for one night will want to do it again becoz she's a cheater. chances are somehow eventually she will get caught becoz she will keep chasing that high but i feel like a lot of times they dont get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:53 AM
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are u dumb? like seriously. am talking about girls who lie about being sexually satisfied. the girls who have sex becoz they have to not because the want to. they aren't honest and pretend to be in love so you can't know if the girl ur dating is dating you becoz she wants you or becoz she wants a relationship. they are manipulating you so you wont know it till its too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:49 PM
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yeah they think they can handle an open relationship but it will quickly ruin their relationship, one may even catch feelings for someone else, there'll be jealousy if one partner likes sex more with the other person rather than their SO. if they decide to close their relationship after trusting may be harder. very few ppl are actually cut out for this because we humans are mostly monogamous(it's ingrained into dudes head coz they have to ensure paternity). the solution to this would be to break…
/r/seduction07/11/21 10:07 AM
2

they are pos assholes for cheating their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:04 AM
3

well if ur bf is bad at it, tell him and if he gets better good but if he doesnt then leave him. dont stick around like a leach giving unenthusiastic pity sex, what guys want is a 100 percent in. u see those girls said i love him but i'm not in love with him, we want to be the guy they are in love with, not the "strong" provider she loves but isn't in love with. honestly staying with a guy despite him not sexually satisfying you for reasons like the security of a relationship/ ur fear of not abl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:11 AM
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women are not pressured by society rather by other women, but i'm baffled becoz if u have self control you wouldn't give into the pressure. also u can just make up hookups if ur female friends are bothering u that much about the fact that u dont let randos fuck you, it's not like they're going pry open ur legs to see if you've been fucked or ur lying. i feel like women having casual sex may come down since the number of single moms raising kids alone is increasing so their children will be more …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:08 PM
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we want consistency, if u liked taking it in the ass for ur ex but for some other reason you dont do it with ur current bf that's the problem. RP guys take it in the sense, she's not as into me as she was into her ex or maybe that she's settling for me because she's getting older getting less attractive so she may have sex with me to make sure i dont leave but she has no reason to be enthusiastic/ kinky about it. and before u say this settling is bullshit, countless men and mostly women have adm…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:49 PM
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he/she put it better than me, consistency is the thing that's missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:43 PM
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nop you've misunderstood. she enjoyed anal with her previous partner but now doesn't want to do it because she feels slutty in a bad way, or because she has a shift in morals and she considers anal as something too degenerate for her. or a reason like i did it before because my ex liked it a lot and i was afraid of losing him. these scenarios are the ones RP is talking about not like if u tried it once and hated it you have to try it again with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:15 PM
0

RP guys arent mad girls have let some guys choke them while the others didnt get to. they mostly mean bjs/ anal and enthusiasm(initiating, being flirty etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:25 PM
1

RemindMe! 5 hours
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:44 AM
3

i think u find cashiers repulsive is becoz maybe u think they have low drive and are less ambitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:24 PM
2

i think this top 10 percent 20 percent is bullshit, maybe true in burgerland but it's so stupid. plenty of guys who arent conventionally attractive are dating conventionally attractive girls. these guys are also average in income/ job/ status but these girls love them(want and desire them).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:21 PM
0

so the guy you date/ wanna date you don't have sex with him early on?, you make him wait?. what is the reason for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:38 AM
1

becoz they want a project/ a challenge. since ur prob aloof and don't want to settle down they want to change you and "fix you" and also they want what they can't have. also these girls aren't high value women(hvm) becoz no hvw would want to pursue a relationship with a guy like you. you dont give intimacy/ mentally stimulate them/ dont validate them/ no interest in monogamy. these girls are prob needy, insecure or low self esteem that's why they think ur bf material.
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:43 PM
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it's not only makeup, it is the hair extensions, fake lashes, heels, push up bras. women say they would date short guys but not the ones who wear elevator shoes, isn't that hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 05:58 AM
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i want to think the same but it feels too weird?/ diff?. i mean what if this guy actually has it this bad like he is able to get along with women platonically but not sexually. is this even possible?
/r/seduction25/10/21 12:24 PM
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u see this is the diff in both genders, men prioritize sex while women prioritize emotional connection. another maybe hard pill to swallow is that if ur hot they'll wait longer but if ur meh then they'll be like she's not worth the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:18 PM
1

making them wait, they need to put in more effort compared to another guy to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:04 PM
1

experienced women making them jump through hoops making them think ur doing the same. the paying part they prob never encountered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:02 PM
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i will never be convinced by what u say becoz judging a person by their actions is more reliable. but since u pay for shit on top of saying that on ur profile i'll maybe take what ur saying seriously. but tbh guys are prob tired of that becoz maybe they experienced it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:57 PM
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The intensity of attraction depends on his energy not his looks. (Men have to pass the looks bar of course did u read what she said, it doest matter how good ur energy is he has to pass the looks bar. so where is the fcking bar that's what i want to know. how average/ not attractive can a guy look while being within the bar, the energy comes after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:54 PM
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u dont play with a man's girl, what goes around comes around isn't a joke
/r/seduction23/10/21 04:50 PM
1

ok what is the bar for u, like give a picture(imgur) of the least attractive guy(physically/ facially) you'd date given u like his energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:05 PM
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maybe they think ur making them jump through hoops, some women do this. they fuck some guy the night they meet them within hours whereas some other guy has to wait for multiple dates. there's many posts asking for advice when the second dude discovers his friend or friend of friend got to smash the same day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:58 PM
1

same lol, tired of this bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:07 AM
1

i dont think they want to be raped, the original point op was making was women can't have sex without being aroused first coz it's painful which is simply not true becoz a) they can be aroused quickly after or during penetration b) there's lube.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:04 AM
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u do realize that a lot of victims wont even admit it. also Results indicated that 62% of women have had a rape fantasy, https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/ i dont condone rape i think it's bad but this is just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:57 AM
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they dont enjoy being raped and i never used those words, but they do orgasm from it. from a clinical report that was deleted: “I (have) met quite a lot of victims (males) who had the full sexual response during sexual abuse…I (have) met several female victims of incest and rape who had lubrication and orgasm.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:44 AM
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i've read what other WOMEN with vaginas mentioned, am not pulling this out of thin air. if u can't understand something don't bring in my or any other person's age or background, it's silly and makes u look childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:44 PM
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becoz medical knowledge is available to all irrespective of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:09 AM
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i dont have a fetish, women talk about it. women who are rape victims. they even have therapy for this shit. pain isn't true while ur having sex when unaroused ofc there'll be pain if a something is jammed in ur vagina out of nowhere. u cant understand the distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:31 AM
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yeah op talked about pain when having sex when not aroused, that just causes less pleasure. she wasnt talking about rape in the post more like an annoyed wife who lets her husband fuck her while she's uninterested and not turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:28 AM
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that's just weird, ppl misuse it when they can't reply with a logical response and also even if ur opinion is thought provoking it's dismissed becoz of smth else in the profile. u dont need to understand me, u just need to understand what i say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:12 PM
1

dont u see how ridiculous it sounds, ur significant other jamming his penis inside u out of nowhere causing pain in ur vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:10 PM
1

so u were just chilling then he suddenly removes ur pants and shoves his dick while u scream in pain, yeah sure even if it did happen scenarios like this with partners are very rare so i dont see why ur defending smth that has a slim possibility of happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:41 PM
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can u stop digging my acc history weirdo, and also i turned 18 a while back
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:39 PM
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i dont think a bf or husband who's had lots of sex with you would do that, we can't base opinions on highly unlikely scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:13 PM
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women dont get raped when they are expecting, it is unexpected and the rapist usually jams his penis. women have admitted to feeling pleasure in fact ask other victims to not feel shame becoz of it. also read what u write, u mentioned women having sex when not aroused it was never about their bf/ husband's penis being jammed in their vagina spontaneously in a snap. no partner would jam their penis, please be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:41 PM
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if a woman isn’t turned on by someone she’s sleeping with, that sex can be literally painful u keep mentioning this, do u think rape victims found their rapists sexually attractive?. women orgasm from rape so this whole "literally painful" isn't true. not to be insensitive or to deviate from the current topic but this isn't true. bob is an average guy, u mentioned it urself that he has an average life with a job and is a nice person. these barbs aren't villainized for rejecting bob, they are vil…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:28 PM
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keep vomiting shit
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:17 PM
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so you make the guy u want a relationship wait and jump through hoops?, is he ur pet monkey?. try to use the logical part of ur brain if it is even there.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:38 PM
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she fucked a guy from his friend group on the first night, if she doesn't want to sleep with him why keep showing up; to use him as an emotional tampon?
/r/seduction20/10/21 03:35 PM
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this average number is from self reporting ryt, i can't understand how u think these are reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:34 PM
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then why are there so many women that want to change a guy, these women are trying to make the guy stay coz tingles but in reality he doesnt give shits about her. i have seen many girls irl desperately trying to keep a guy who doesnt want to stay, they cry over him, lose sleep, lose self esteem, self sabotage all for a guy who is no good for them. sure there are women who aren't like this but they are few in number compared to this overwhelming lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:33 PM
2

alright cool with smile, then walk away
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:11 AM
5

he mentioned some girls grinding on him even then he shouldn't go in for the kiss?
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:58 AM
1

i dont think commitment is bs but marriage is, high value men usually have a good combo of looks wealth and status. these men have married women throwing themselves at them during their trips abroad and times when their morality is blinded by drinks, the guy's charisma or whatever. other than that flirting with co workers and acquaintances sometimes cheating with them all these things happen and happen in enough frequency for guys to not want marriage. also modern day marriage laws aren't really…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:11 AM
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most ppl on here dont understand what op's trying to say. the guys earlier in her life would have gotten blowjobs and anal whenever they wanted but the guy later in life doesnt get the enthusiasm, doesnt get sex if he didnt initiate it himself, less blowjobs and prob no anal(this is just an example). now this is a real problem dont u think because the girl doesnt rlly like him and she is with him for many possible reasons such as being afraid of being alone, no better choice of partner, financia…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:56 AM
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honestly i wonder what would happen if guys stop calling out rape joke/ cat calling/ insecurity inducing comments(small tits flat ass whatever), media would be talking about it endlessly " men have become insensitive and women are being mentally abused". anyway i think u should stop caring a lot. i am young and i didnt rlly experience any of what these guys say but i have been thinking if u want sex why not use money to get it(gold diggers/ escorts etc). good looking guy has his looks which was …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:46 PM
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doc's dumb. just play the commitment act and keep her around until she leaves coz she wants marriage or until she is no longer sexually attractive, then move onto the next woman. maybe the doc wanted to end the relationship so then he can find a girl in her early twenties with whom he can have kids and stay together for as long as it works out. being alpha has to do with looks as well as the mindset imo so if u aren't then ur best bet is to go this route.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:36 AM
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honestly man i'd kill for a dance mating ritual rather than this mind fuck
/r/seduction28/09/21 08:06 PM
2

rules1 and 2?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 05:43 PM
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ok so how should a guy be in a relationship to avoid this, is it a balance between complimenting her and then not giving her the validation or what is it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 04:05 PM
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let's see the person who makes women exhibit flirtatious behaviour(no need face).
/r/seduction03/09/21 02:14 PM
2

u fat?, lose that fat. u short?, compensate with charisma/ confidence. you insecure/ not confident, pretend till you get with a girl; that will give you confidence(real) and if you build over time no need to pretend anymore. just ask them for drinks dont be serious or nervous, take it easy and be laid back. next time you ask a girl and u get rejected, ask her how you can improve yourself/ something like that a little later or in that instance if you are texting/ already know each other. if you d…
/r/seduction28/08/21 03:48 PM
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there rlly is no difference in physical characteristics between a 17 and 18 year olds even 16 year olds to a stretch these days. they are rlly putting something in our burgers /s.
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:45 AM
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done
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:36 PM
2

solid
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:28 PM
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withholding information that has the potential to alter someone's decision is just manipulating their decision making. In this case manipulating the poor dude's life as the woman he married isn't the person he thought she is, just imagine the other decisions he would've made with her in mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 05:46 PM
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she probably never did the things she did in the video with her husband cause she's a madonna.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 05:33 PM
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u are very smart
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/21 07:30 AM
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i dont make the rules buddy. all am saying is if there is a protocol regarding hair on your head then it must be followed by both genders. if hair is allowed to be kept then it should apply to men as well, not only to women. rules should apply to everyone, why should one gender get a free pass. that's all, now do u finally understand.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/21 06:16 PM
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if u want to walk funny after sex then why are u with this dude, go ride the carousel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 05:52 PM
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hair doesnt make you feminine, there are femboys with short hair who look more feminine than some biological females. thick hair makes a man look masculine and is part of his masculine identity, so in that case men with thick hair in the military should be allowed to keep their hair right. news flash, they dont get to keep it. ur argument is weak, no one cares about your feminine/masculine identity in the military. if men have a mandatory hair cut, so should women. also can't wait to see u guys …
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/21 03:05 PM
1

r u kidding me, they are soldiers. so why tf would looking feminine matter. if you(as in women) are equal to a man then you get the same treatment, why do you need exempts.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/21 02:46 PM
1

why do women get to keep their hair?, why isn't their hair cut very short just like they do for men(compulsorily, unless due to a medical condition).
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/21 01:10 PM
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good work m8, but just want to ask. Are you overweight or skinny fat?, because i want to know if that's the reason girls are uninterested or "running away".
/r/seduction20/07/21 01:57 PM
1

ass too
/r/PussyPassDenied14/07/21 03:31 PM
10

why did he give her 7 mil and why did he only get 500k out of it?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/21 05:56 AM
2

the goal is physical intimacy not being liked. just like dressing for the job you want; behave like the person you want to be to women, which i am pretty sure is a confident man who knows what he wants.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 05:29 PM
1

it gets draining quickly so u either physically initiate leading to her finding another guy to play therapist for her or you don't initiate which will get you in the friendzone being used for validation, tissue paper for sad moments, therapist etc
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 09:40 AM
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or a personal psychologist to talk to you about her problems and fears
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 07:29 AM
1

ok, what did u change and what changed after u learnt this
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:25 AM
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are you fucking them?, am no expert but the wisdom i have gained from ppl who get laid all the time is that u should make a move soon. girls like sex as much as guys so get a little dominant and give her a good fuck(make sure she wants that too! [subtle cues, body language] ). Even if you're average looking it will make it look like you know what you want. also talk to diff girls, don't just talk to one. suppose u fuck one girl out of say 5 girls that you are seeing, the confidence you gain from…
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:24 AM
4

thought the same, op was spooning her and didn't try to kiss her neck start a make out session that would have prob led to sex.
/r/seduction09/07/21 06:45 AM
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am 17 and i am glad i came across this, a lot of ppl including me have had an opposite mindset which obv sets many up for failure.
/r/seduction29/06/21 05:39 AM
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feel sad for black men, they mostly get reduced to a fetish
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 02:52 PM
52

having both parents raise a kid in a healthy household is so crucial to prevent the kid from fucking up his life and also the life of others
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 06:45 AM
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just be at ur best physically and mentally, don't simp. be a charming and fun to be around type of guy, that's all; reading stuff like this will turn your mind into dogshit.
/r/seduction02/06/21 07:13 PM
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false rape accusations
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 04:09 AM
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it does ig, or just get any one that does. we are just enabling them to live out their fetish, u know girls lie too about their age sometimes to get the guy excited(18+obv). "shy 19 year old looking for daddy uwu"- could very well be 21 or 22 who knows
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 09:32 AM
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https://ring.com
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 07:43 AM
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he is wearing a ring because he wants to, if the girl thinks he is married/ engaged just because he is wearing a ring then that's on her. also get a ring in ur apartment/ room so that there is no false accusation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 05:21 AM
3

shouldn't have let douchebags cum in u
/r/PussyPassDenied19/05/21 05:35 PM
3

she would have been a single mother now if she wasn't so ugly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/21 09:14 AM
3

followed through by "men bad" because she can't find a guy to date, reason: chad just knocked her up and already took off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/21 01:10 PM
3

true, naive men are falling into this trap. since the age of technology females/ society as a whole significantly changed the way they treat relationships. we got to spread awareness and end beta orbiting/ and other stupid mindsets that does no good to a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 10:24 AM
3

there is if they choose to raise the kid
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 10:14 AM
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the audacity of women who are like this baffles me, don't they see the irony.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 10:13 AM
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why do they fuck up this young, smh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 06:19 AM
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once you go tyron, you become single mom
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 06:14 AM
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i can't believe i used to sympathize about stuff like this
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 09:11 AM
2

right, i thought this meant smth else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 03:36 PM
2

p+d?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 03:23 PM
2

just curious, if u guys have a chance to date a girl like her(same attitude); would u pump and dump or just avoid her all together.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 01:18 PM
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leaving means losing money, she filed for the divorce
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 07:56 AM
9

ruining someone's life is not only very bad but very fucked up
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/21 10:21 AM
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i pray that the 7 dates guy discovers this sub
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 06:00 AM
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the weird thing is the eldest son said he wouldnt speak to his dad if he sued his mom and remained true to his word, what even went through his mind to side with his mom who clearly is a very bad person. maybe he hoped to get that 5 mil?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/21 05:04 AM
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why is that although many powerful people are men, the system is rigged against us?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/21 05:02 AM
1

stalin was the cherry on top
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/21 06:01 AM
1

adam johnson had sex with a minor, 6 years in jail, had to sign sex offenders list or smth like that this bitch gets a pussy pass feminism is a joke and its supporters are either misandrists or stupid since we got some trolls from fds, am not raging or angry. simply stating the facts so that dumb feminists can realize they arent striving for equality but pussy passes instead
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/21 06:36 AM
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the lion, the witch and the audacity of this bitch
/r/PussyPassDenied03/04/21 10:41 AM
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u k how there are sexual predators and they gotta sign a register they should label ppl like this as life predators make them sign some shit that is as serious as being a sex offender so their entire life gets ruined as well
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/21 05:39 AM
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maybe nicoles are perceptive, like karens are stupid
/r/PussyPassDenied19/03/21 05:20 AM
3

honestly some women are just crazy i never expected they are willing to steep this low first time i saw of one of these it just blew my mind
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/21 05:15 PM
1

fcking white knighters
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 02:55 PM
2

all of them look like trash bags who never take care of themselves. lesson: dont let trash bags be ur kid's nanny or let them near ur kids.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/21 06:14 AM
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karens gonna freak with guys but old guys wont when girls do
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/20 05:14 PM
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ikrr but the sad/bad thing is guys will face more repercussions if they did it compared to a girl doing this
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/20 04:20 PM
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like i can't believe ppl like these exist i have never seen or heard this happnd america crazy
/r/PussyPassDenied11/12/20 07:45 AM
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she lied he was harassing her edit: i meant lying to the police
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/20 06:43 AM
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i'd turn bi for him anyways i think its good for him chick's way ugly compared to our greek god here i hope he finds a beautiful girl with the same mental dexterity and perseverance as him and they start a family together he deserves so much more than this cheating overweight turd
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/20 06:42 AM
1

my man looks as hot as a hollywood celeb i can't believe that dumb bitch cheated on him
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/20 06:38 AM
1

ok remove this its a girl
/r/PussyPassDenied24/11/20 06:27 AM
1

its just science females in our species are weaker in strength compared to men some girls just need to get this shit in their head if they go around saying females are just as strong as men why arent there f vs m mmas or boxing matches another species for example the black widow spider is stronger than the male and can easily kill it with its strength but when it comes to us man> women in strength
/r/MensRights23/11/20 08:04 AM
1

its amber turd bro
/r/PussyPassDenied23/11/20 05:49 AM
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u mean peter tingle
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/20 10:56 AM
1

some women are so stupid they try to shame male genitalia even though we can't control how or how much it grows
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/20 01:25 PM
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