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He's still very interested in you sexually, but is worried about the vulnerability of opening up to someone so young in a committed relationship. Just give it time. The tests of life will always have the answers.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 09:36 PM
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I just can't believe for one minute that's the reason that he didn't try to have sex with you. I know men and this just doesn't sound like a typical man to me. If he really is that good. Girl, hold unto him tightly. Because his self-control is out of this world. Tell him you can only reassure him through your actions, and through his vetting of you. If he trusts his judgement then he should have no problem with giving you two a try.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 09:27 PM
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British men sound similar to American men. I was the total package in my 20's and would've made a good partner. But men didn't appreciate it and do right by it. Marrying super early is overrated.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/24 09:33 PM
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Also, I really don't know what a red pill woman is. But if it's basking in your femininity then I'm all for it. I don't follow tools on men to manipulate them into acting how I want them to. As control always wound up falling in your face.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/24 09:16 PM
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RPW goals. You go sis! 💞 Just please don't go the paid love coach route. It's so annoying and played out.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/24 07:44 PM
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It sounds like you're making your interests and hobbies a personality trait, which is annoying to most people. Just relate to women in ways you relate to yourself as a woman. I'm sure there are things you do around men that totally scream that you're a girl or a woman. Bond with other women through that stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/24 07:42 PM
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What? Why would the strip club be your solution from what I just told you, lol. If seeing women in panties gets you that butt hurt then you need a therapist not arm chair relationship experts on Reddit. There is definitely more you need to emotionally explore there? What do you react like at the beach? When there's a rated R scene on television? When pretty women walk past you in public? Like I said you need more help than we can give you. Because either he has issues with keeping you emotionall…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/24 12:52 AM
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If you can't watch a tv show with your boyfriend out of fear that it's going to trigger your insecurities, then you have bigger issues than Reddit can help you with.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/24 12:16 AM
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Just like men want a virgin in the streets and a freak on the sheets. Women want a 90% good boy, with a 10% of bad boy.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/24 05:18 PM
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All of this class stuff is bs. Just love the man you get. That's it. If he can't accept then fine move on. If he can than even better. You're not guaranteeing a good man just because he's in colonial terms, 'high class'.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/24 05:15 PM
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Tattoos are only a red flag to some men. Any man that has a problem with tattoos would have minimized his dating pool significantly, because most women have a tat by now. Don't remove your tattoo unless it really didn't mean anything to you, and was truly representing a phase of impulsivity to you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 08:57 PM
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Did men tell you this online or in person?
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/24 10:07 PM
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He's negging you way too much. Whether it's intentional or not, would you really want to be stuck in a marriage with someone like this?? The answer should be no.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/24 09:15 PM
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You realize you're expecting the very thing you're going to constantly get and will wound up with, bitterness. You are what you see(k).
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 07:00 PM
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Women like men that respect themselves, not ones that fake virtue signal, give empty platitudes, and put us on some weird god like pedestal. Unless she's earned it or is a narcissist. However, we do like when men have a high sense of moral discernment for what's right and what's wrong. And a good man will not appreciate seeing another human being emotionally/mentally abused and denigrated for being born as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:27 AM
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Whatever, you gals use a lot of words to say you hate poor women and women that actually trust men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:22 AM
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Women I've met with higher education usually have lower street smarts, so another bs classist lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:10 AM
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This sounds like classist bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:04 AM
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What is the imbalance in the relationship you feel that causes the resentment?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:17 PM
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Great now my self-esteem is being blamed instead of looking in the mirror. Just trying to offer alternative perspectives and opinions instead of the common women are good men are bad tropes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:38 AM
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I'm pretty sure that's not what was being said, but that women's sexuality is not driven in the same way as men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:48 AM
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Your assumptions about my relationship is part of the problem. Instead of self-examination or personal accountability you're just turning it all around as a me and OP thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:11 AM
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Lmao, bring my post history up instead of the actual situation we're talking about. What a cheap dig and distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:51 AM
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Stay at home moms could feel pity for the women that have to work underappreciated for a random billionaire than prioritize the well being of their children and families. Stay at home moms aren't pawning there children off to underpaid, overwhelmed, and overstressed corporate daycare workers as their primary caretakers during their most vulnerable years. Most women aren't doing rocket science or anything profound in the workplace. But sitting at a comfortable desk and collecting a comfortable pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:27 AM
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Lol, attention, validation, and loving sex are totally different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:23 AM
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Let's be honest. A man turning us on is fickle. It can easily turn on and off at a moments notice depending on a variety of external and internal factors, and the man will be non the wiser. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:21 AM
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Sounds like you found a rare one. Most men aren't asexual, which could impact the particular drives they have to form a partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:11 AM
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Yeah, if you have a libido that big. Going 3months without touching yourself is non negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:00 AM
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No offense, but your stance is assuming that most women are good and most men are not. When in reality most people suck regardless of gender, yet gender helps them to play out their specific form of suckiness. Decent people that work on their shit and are authentic, empathic, and well rounded are hard to come by in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:57 AM
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Do you think if most men were asexual that they would even bother to deal with women? Hmm, I wonder..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:53 AM
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Might I ask, why are there marriages failing apart?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:46 AM
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That sounds more like a them problem than a general stay at home mom problem. Whatever just say you look down on stay at home moms and their lifestyles, so you can glorify the career mom boss above it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:18 AM
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It depends on what you're seeking. Most women value relationships over sex, which men have the power over. Most men value sex over relationships, which women have the power over. When a man wants sex but can't get it, he can just buy it. But women can't buy their way into a quality connected relationship with a man. These are generalizations of course.
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:01 AM
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What is a "low tier" male from your point of view?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:19 PM
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Because most men prefer white women or women that look closer to white like east asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 06:40 PM
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Is she a black woman or non euro featured Indian?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 06:36 PM
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He actually looks pretty decent, but appears to have low self-esteem from working in a nerd computer job, and so he wound up married to a morbidly obese, white feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:03 PM
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You're a troll. Don't talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:23 PM
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Or just don't settle when you can find your perfect match that worships you like they show off on facebook and instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:47 PM
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Can you show me a link to this study? I'm really curious. I know fertility begins to rapidly decline at age 34 and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:46 PM
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These are average white people. There are more ethnicities than white that are average. The average woman and man in usa are overweight. The guy in your top photo looks average. The guy in your link looks closer to a Chad than an average Joe. The woman looks more european than American.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:38 PM
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This question is funny. Following.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:00 PM
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