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the moment when you stop calling having good time getting lucky will be the moment you will stop getting ‚rejections’ :)
/r/seduction07/04/22 04:56 AM
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the whole seduction movement, is not about faking it, it is about being you but the best version of you. Look at it this way - if you're doing what you're doing and not getting the results you want, then the best you can hope for is to "get lucky" maybe, someday. If you want to have it under control, you have to work on yourself. Being funny, self aware, seeing yourself as a praise, and working on your game will not make you NOT you, it will just amplify who you are and give you options. This is…
/r/seduction22/12/21 05:48 PM
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Brother, don't be so hard on yourself...In your words, there's a lot that gives out what YOU think of yourself : "fucking coward", "fearful", "self-sabotaging", "inadequate". A lot of us have been there, so feel you 100%. What I think you need to do tho, is - screw dry spell (not literally), as much as I get your urge to hook up, you need to take a step back and fix your stuff first. You might not need a therapist, I think you just are too hard on yourself - you have problems walking and you pou…
/r/seduction27/11/21 05:14 PM
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The tricks and gimmics are to give you material and some structure so you can have it in the back of your mind that you have something to rely on if things go south or you want to take it certain direction - and as such I think they are invaluable. However like my man IBSwimn_inOshans said , if you're not having fun this is all useless. Like Todd says - it's good to have an idea how to start and how to end the conversation (ie. close), but rest is just 2 human being having a fun genuine time
/r/seduction27/11/21 12:39 PM
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awesome ! the effort paid off :)
/r/seduction16/11/21 08:24 PM
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That might be you doing something subconsciously to telegraph it, it's her natural shield popping up, dont get scared away - plow through this. Flip it like : “For x sake, why is every woman about sex nowadays ? You can’t have a good conversation and vibe with a human being anymore ? Come on” and just continue doing you. Actually, think about this like this - YOU should feel offended by her IMPLYING that you want to have sex with her. It's like you told her you won't lend her any money out of th…
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:00 PM
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How about just being normal ? My man, if she walks to you, says you are hot..why do you try to find some witty response or to be rude or banter ? It is already ON. Thank her, dont think too much about it, just have a genuine conversation, dont be weird going lengths to find something ‚right’ to say
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:06 PM
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Got ya brother, but trust me - what makes a man from a boy is boundaries - no more cuddling or touching, hang with her on purely friend basis, if SHE starts getting cozy and initiates something, stop her and tell her you dont have time atm in your life for games, you like her and if shes down you are down, but otherwise lets just be friends only. Thatll be hard but this is gold, if she is really wanting something more this will be a deal maker, if shes just playing then it wouldnt get anywhere a…
/r/seduction18/09/21 08:35 PM
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Just reading in how your dates went my advise would be - dude, just focus on someone else. This is not mixed signals but just seems like the girl is playing with you, or is a bit unstable…both cases, youll be better off hanging out with other girls or just going out and meeting new people. Treat Her as a friend if she wants it, if shes really wanting to be friends worst case youll be friends, best case she will gerlt frustrated you play her game and are cool with that and meet other people / gir…
/r/seduction18/09/21 08:21 PM
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And btw some night wed even have fun saying me or my wing are virgins and teasing the girls not to break him or playfully accuse of wanting to get advantage of him before his dream wedding in an irish chappel in the middle of woods with everyone dressed as little cute leprechauns (insert some dumbass shit here u know what I mean). If this guy goes out like he says - Get this guy to take u out to the club, u have an amazinf asset at your hands :)
/r/seduction15/09/21 09:42 PM
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My man, there are 2 options I can see here - the dude is full of it, or hes literally the bigges a hole around. Ive known tons of guys with such success, men with that abundance of girls have no problem sharing where they meet them, I would assume with that success he could easily just take u as a wingman. In my glory days if I had a bloke who was 29 yo and a virgin, Id fucking make sure he scores the next weekend we go out
/r/seduction15/09/21 09:37 PM
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No shame in thanking people for saving you time honestly
/r/seduction03/05/19 03:42 PM
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Thanl her for being honest and be completely fine with being friends - if u guys clicked , she still can have some hot available friends. Never cut ppl out if they're friendly, be friendly and in the meantime - move on
/r/seduction03/05/19 09:47 AM
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This question is what went wrong with the community...you really don't know what you feel about your gf being chased by other guys ? Ffs, some authenticy maybe ? If you lose her cause you tell her you feel bad about it, it's either you don't feel u deserve her and it shows or she really is into some other guy
/r/seduction01/09/18 06:05 PM
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I think the biggest problem man was that you were not really having fun yourself. You went in wanting to get a reaction off of girls - when I was hitting bars more what I found is that if I go with a goal to have fun and fuck around, it did miracles. Sometimes I would just go in, say hi, talk some, make some awkward silences , high five and go to another set but having fun and not.letting anyone get to my head. What was great is that very often, a set that I though I bombed, I could reopened lat…
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:40 AM
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If you have problems timing the kiss - do this, don't ask, jus say -eskimo kiss ! And go for the nose kissing and then lock lips , worked every time for me early on and if she's not ready for kiss or not THAT into you, she'll back off, you'll get feedback and at the same time theres no pressure - it's just Eskimo kiss , no biggie :) Also, most of the girls that are into you will read it as going for the kiss and will lean in so it'll work natural - win win
/r/seduction31/08/18 04:27 PM
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