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| 0 | I walked away 1 minute after the first date- meeting herI just told her we will go A direction. You claim that unless you submit and follow her, one is an autist? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | I walked away 1 minute after the first date- meeting herNo reason - i just decided i want to go in that direction. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | I walked away 1 minute after the first date- meeting herI told her - i will go in that direction, are you coming? She stood there for whole minute refusing to go the way i want. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Can I Recover After Bad Sex & Acting LIKE A B*TCH the day after?Great comment. But i want to let it be known that after it we will go to chill at my place. "Lets grab a coffee and then we can chill at my place". So she wont think i softened after failing fucking her. Is this ok or should be avoided? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Can I Recover After Bad Sex & Acting LIKE A B*TCH the day after?Now that I think about it - drinks/bar are not an option. I don't drink and I also drive. So impossible. The only possibility is coffee. What can I do? just invite her over? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Can I Recover After Bad Sex & Acting LIKE A B*TCH the day after?From my expirience - if I have sex with a women, and then invite her out again for a movie - they feel like sluts, like you invite them for sex only. So I think - it's better to invite her out the second time for drink / a walk in the park/ coffee. What do you think? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Told Her We Shouldn't Be Texting Until We Can Meet (Corona)Spot on, great comment. What would you do in my situation now to fix "the mistake"? nothing? just hit her up once in a while? | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Told Her We Shouldn't Be Texting Until We Can Meet (Corona)She was texting me 3-4 times daily, every day. Where is her time to miss me? I think texting/talking every 3-4 days is much more interesting that doing it 3-4 times daily. I think when you text so much with a girl - she takes it for granted. Your attention and text will have no value. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 03:55 PM |
| 5 | Willing To Drive 4 Hours + Rent a Hotel Room To See Me - IS SHE CRAZY?How can she pin me after telling me about it? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Willing To Drive 4 Hours + Rent a Hotel Room To See Me - IS SHE CRAZY?Nosense. You can get the real name of anyone in seconds online. All you need is their cellphone number. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Willing To Drive 4 Hours + Rent a Hotel Room To See Me - IS SHE CRAZY?She is still in pain from the procedure, and told me about it... | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | She Texts Me 50/50 - Should I Avoid Games?But what i asked is - should i continue with the 50/50 - she sends a text one day, the next one I do, the next one she does etc | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 06:23 AM |
| 1 | She Texts Me 50/50 - Should I Avoid Games?So you say, be unpredictable, spice things up and go radio silent from time to time - otherwise she will feel comfortable and start playing games? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | She Texts Me 50/50 - Should I Avoid Games?Next time she is coming to my place (the third date), we already set that up. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | From 80% Success Rate To 0% - No Second DatesI gained 15 pounds, but i am not fat. Anyways - in the last 3 month i dropped 20 pounds and will be dropping additional 20 pounds to reach 12% bf, first time in life. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 04:45 AM |
| -2 | From 80% Success Rate To 0% - No Second DatesYou are wrong. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | From 80% Success Rate To 0% - No Second DatesWhat "Chad acts or behaviors" i need to to drop? | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 03:41 PM |
| 2 | From 80% Success Rate To 0% - No Second DatesExplain | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | From 80% Success Rate To 0% - No Second DatesKino. Try to kiss. Get rejected ;) in the past same formula in majority of cases did not end like this and i could kiss close most of dates. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | From 80% Success Rate To 0% - No Second DatesI take them to a walk in a nice park near the beach. 1 hour long. We we have a nice convo. I don't come with beta male energy, and i hold frame. Kino as well. Try to kiss. Then i text 2-3 days later, and get ghosted. Most guys they meet will text the same evening/next day... but i feel like its so needy and thirsty. Yet, maybe this is part of the cause. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 02:38 PM |
| -2 | From 80% Success Rate To 0% - No Second DatesIt also makes me wonder - what kind of shitty person you need to be - to ghost me after the first date.This happened with few girls now. Im not thirsty and i text 2-3 days later. We met, had a nice conversation. Then ghost? I can never imagine behaving like this. This is subhuman behavior. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 02:20 PM |
| 2 | From 80% Success Rate To 0% - No Second DatesI am 21 years old. I dated 25 y/0, as well as 18-19. I am wondering if this is just how online dating works from time to time. Btw - now that i think about it - i did have one successful date recently (let to second date). So not 0 percent failure... but something happened here - drastic drop. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 02:09 PM |
| -1 | Second Date - She Rejected Kiss. Did I Act Correctly or Beta?Right | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Second Date - She Rejected Kiss. Did I Act Correctly or Beta?I tried to kiss one hour into the date.. if it was 30 minutes in I wouldn't end it. It was in a park with 0 people around. But I probably indeed "jumped the gun". | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Second Date - She Rejected Kiss. Did I Act Correctly or Beta?Next time indeed I will not acknowledge the rejection like you suggest. But you mentioned your date continued for hours, and you kissed her on the cheek after she rejected the real thing. That's defiantly not how I do my first dates. Around 1 hour and surely no cheek kisses - what kind of bullshit is this. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Second Date - She Rejected Kiss. Did I Act Correctly or Beta?The vibe of the second date was great. After one hour I tried to kiss her. I placed my palm on her cheek, and I saw a soft rejection (that's not how women react to a man they want to kiss). She placed her bag between us - so even leaning in would make me a dumbass. I think she was playing "hard to get"... that's why she wanted us to stay longer. Girls I dated in the past and found me attractive - didn't play "hard to get", it's not what women do to man they are really attracted to. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Second Date - She Rejected Kiss. Did I Act Correctly or Beta?no first kiss on first date is no problem. But this women is not attracted to me, yet goes to a second date and wastes my time. So I needed to continue wasting my time and entertain her instead of just ending the date short? If I continued sitting there like nothing happened - would she magically find me attractive and kiss me? She did wanted me (us) to stay and not leave. Maybe she was playing games - "hard to get". Would she play that game with a man she found really attractive? sure not. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | 3rd Date At Her Place - Invite Myself Over?at second date we were making out, kissing etc. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 05:35 PM |
| 4 | 3rd Date At Her Place - Invite Myself Over?Isn't 3rd date sex "basic"? - so how can it be too aggressive of an offer? | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I Hide My Numbing Spray? Or "Own It"?It doubles/triples the time. Not good for bj, it will numb her too | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Should I Hide My Numbing Spray? Or "Own It"?Stud-100 | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Should I Hide My Numbing Spray? Or "Own It"?It does not ruin the pleasure for me. Especially when applied correctly - just reduces sensitivity. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I Hide My Numbing Spray? Or "Own It"?Second round is short too. Numbing spray solves the problem. Why not own it? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 07:55 PM |
| 8 | Should I Hide My Numbing Spray? Or "Own It"?That's bullshit. Many men suffer from premature ejaculation. Your advice is doesn't answer my question. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 07:53 PM |
| 3 | "Talk to you later, we'll set a date" - did I screw up?You didnt read The Rational Male so completey lost frame, probably fucking Chad. Lost frame? that's bullshit. I exchanged just few messages with her, displayed no neediness. If she texts the day after the date, her interest is high, she is not playing "chase me" games. So I see nothing wrong with sending a message too the next day. A message, not chit chatting ! Other girls I dated that put no effort and never text first? I only text once a week to set the date. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | High Interest After First Date - She Texts Me First, *Should I AVOID GAMES*?so texting her just 2 days after the first date to set the second one? isn't it way too fast and needy? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | High Interest After First Date - She Texts Me First, *Should I AVOID GAMES*?After a date I always wait 3-4 days before contacting. But in this case, she texted first - therefore I am asking. Would really appreciate it if you can answer my questions. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Firat date - is walk in a park OK? Or Change?That's a great option and i have done it before. But as I mentioned - i don't like coffee shops. So many people around, and I just don't feel as comfortable to act as I do when I just make the first date a walk in the park. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Firat date - is walk in a park OK? Or Change?I'm dating many 18-20 year olds without driving license. I never pick them if it's over 15 min drive. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Firat date - is walk in a park OK? Or Change?Since I drive (pick them from their home) I can't drink (that is in addition to the fact I don't drink alcohol). My question was if a first date - a short walk in a park is fine. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | How to invite her to my room.Too soon? You have nothing to lose since very soon you won't see her again. Tell her to come watch a movie / eat something / drink something. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Where do I have sex?Do you have your own room? Then it's not a problem. You tell your mother you are *just* watching a movie with the girl. If she says something tell her "oh mom ! It's embarrassing, I just want to watch a movie, don't make something else out of it". | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Matched with chick on tinderIf you matched on Tinder, any more photos you send are a risk, you have nothing to gain... You already matched. Tell her you don't take selfies. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:04 PM |
| 2 | I (33M) got this text from a girl (25F)I've been hanging out with. She asked me to spend the night with her tonight. I do not want to screw this up. Please see text screenshot below. Any advice appreciated.The advice other gave you regarding how to respond is great. I just want to mention that you are fucking 33 years old, and you text like a 16 y/o girl. You are lucky she probably sees you as a 8/9, other girls wouldn't meet you after your nice guy texts. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:51 PM |
| 2 | When to text in this situation?After she gave you her number on Tinder, you wait an hour then whasapp her - "hey, have a nice thanksgiving, we'll keep in touch". When she is back in town - you text her again (no texting between). This way you are in her whatsapp list. And no, it does not make you needy since you don't text her anything more. Maybe she would text you between... | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:47 PM |
| 2 | We’ll see“Are we going out or what then?” sounds weak, like you are unsure if she wants you or not. You could just text her - "let's grab a drink, what is your schedule?". For me, if a girl says "we'll see" or "I'll think about it" or "I'll let you know" - I respond "Sounds like you are busy, let's try another time", and I don't contact her for 1-2 weeks (depending on the situation). Never accept a maybe date. So at this point, just don't respond to her "We'll see" message. Maybe she will text you in the… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Women who say "lets talk a bit first" in online dating. What do they mean?These are my tips after few months of online dating. Met many girls : Some women on dating sites/apps are there just to experience the "online dating" thing. They will not give you their number or meet you in person. They are just curious and bored and enjoy the attention. My strategy is simple - after 3-5 messages I ask for their number. If they want to talk a bit more - fine. 2 or 3 another messages, then ask again for the number. If she refuses - I'm out. If you got the number, build some com… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 07:39 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to this HB9?Don't be needy. You invited her twice she declined. You stop texting her, forget her. Dont respond. She will reach out to you if her interest level is high | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | I displayed LOW SOCIAL VALUE on the date - can I recover?So if the date was yesterday, I should text her when? Today? Tomorrow? set the date for next week? Or just text her a short ping and then wait few days to set the date for next week? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | I displayed LOW SOCIAL VALUE on the date - can I recover?All TRP advice I ever read tell to wait few days to set a date (this way it's one date a week). Why would you say waiting one day at most? Seems needy contacting her after one day and setting a date. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | I displayed LOW SOCIAL VALUE on the date - can I recover?yes | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I displayed LOW SOCIAL VALUE on the date - can I recover?Not really, but that is what I said... Can't change that.... | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 03:20 PM |
| 2 | I displayed LOW SOCIAL VALUE on the date - can I recover?Well, I know I fucked up by saying that... no doubt. That's why I asked how to recover :) She does know about other things I do and that I have (some) life , just fucked up in the "friends" department, and she is in doubt I have any. Shit happens... But we'll see. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 03:13 PM |
| 3 | I displayed LOW SOCIAL VALUE on the date - can I recover?If someone does not go to bars and parties - he is boring? I have many hobbies and goals I pursue. Not into getting wasted at the club. I see some of my friends living this lifestyle, and knowing them I know exactly where this is coming from - not the mindset a redpiller has. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 03:06 PM |
| 4 | I Will Ask Her To Come To My Place - She Will Resist ("Looking for LTR") - How To Handle?Let's write random stuff and enjoy. Cucumber. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I Will Ask Her To Come To My Place - She Will Resist ("Looking for LTR") - How To Handle?So I ask her to come to my place, she says no with some bullshit "I am not that type of a girl". What do I respond? | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 07:30 PM |
| -2 | Piercings, Drinks, Smokes, Curses, Lives Alone From Young Age, Rebel - YET Submissive & Feminine With MeWhat I asked is if one shouldn't plate one with such a list of red flags. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 01:11 PM |
| 5 | Texting 2 days after first date - NEEDY?Some girls just don't kiss on the first date. For me - if no kiss on second date, then NEXT. I appreciate your opinion. but you didn't answer my question (when I should text her). | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | She Refused Kiss TWICE - I "PULL" and then "SHE WAS HURT" - Did I act butthurt?Never feel entitled to anythting and act like a sulky little child, trying to manipulate people with "the silent treatment" intobehaving in a way that you favour. That's what chumps and insecure people do. I wasn't trying to manipulate. I was not feeling it anymore. If a date goes well, and she plays games of not kissing - I lose interest. In the past when women gave me the chick, I didn't care. In this case - she didn't even give a cheek, but just "resisted" me putting hand on her face "twistin… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 10:14 PM |
| 3 | She Refused Kiss TWICE - I "PULL" and then "SHE WAS HURT" - Did I act butthurt?So let's say I did show her that I was "sad/hurt" - how will that effect her? Or I prefer - "not pleased" lol. Date went great until second time she refused... then I went cold, and she went cold. Honestly, I was just not feeling it anymore. Why do I waste my time while she plays games? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 09:21 PM |
| 9 | NEVER Validate and Compliment Women You Started Dating"Nice long eyelashes" is grey area which is fine. Me for example - I don't have a problem saying "what fragrance is it? smells nice". It's validating the fragrance, not her lol. It's feeding her scraps, which is very different from - "wow, what a nice dress, you look amazing" or opening car doors. In other words - let her smell the pizza, don't let her eat it... until she "pays" for it.. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 08:54 AM |
| -1 | NEVER Validate and Compliment Women You Started Datingnothing wrong with a genuine compliment when she has earned it. What do you mean by "when she has earned it"? Give us some examples. Is showing up for a date is earning it? Putting on a dress is earning it? What can women do to "earn it", besides being nice to, do things for you, and sex? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 08:22 AM |
| 3 | NEVER Validate and Compliment Women You Started DatingNothing wrong with complimenting when she earns it. Showing up for a date is not "earning it". Sand is worthless because there are endless amounts of it. Gold is valuable because it's rare. Feel free to validate and compliment her at all times. Don't be surprised when she starts flaking and replaying with "maybe" and "Well see". She doesn't need to put any work any more... She knows what button to press to get your validation. Sooner than you think, you start chasing her ! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 08:16 AM |
| -1 | NEVER Validate and Compliment Women You Started DatingDated a 20 y/o women. No validation given whatsoever. Treated her like - "ummm, yea, you are ok". I kiss her on the first date because her interest level was 10/10. After the date she texts me - "did you have fun?". I give a witty answer, no valiudation. Then she texts - "did you like our kiss", again - I give a witty answer. Even if you make out with them, but behave like a masculine men (not validating and complimenting) - they will be confused if you like them ! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Girl with a bf in other state.If you were a good looking, multi millionaire celebrity - with masculine frame, driving a Rolls Royce and girls chasing you - would she fuck you? Probably yes... The problem is you are a guy asking questions on asktrp, so guess what - probably not. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 06:38 PM |
| 3 | "Why I ALWAYS Text You First - And You Never Do?"Great comment, thank you. You are right. No sex yet, but she can't hold herself from kissing me, hugging etc... Will defiantly try escalate again next time. I am trying to meet other women too, no luck yet. To be honest, I intended to keep her as "backup" (once every 2 weeks is fine with me), but she texts everyday and looks for ltr. I shouldn't just give it away , because it will lower her attraction, right? And in such case, limiting texting her first every 3-4 days if she doesn't first? | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 03:44 PM |
| 2 | "Why I ALWAYS Text You First - And You Never Do?"You are right, I updated my post, check it out please. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Virgin girl advicehahaha you think you will end up in bed with her. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | She Texts Me All Day Non Stop - I Said I'm Busy, She is "HURT"What do you achieve by her seeing ".... is typing..." ? She'll think you are afraid to send the text, or take time to think about what to write. 2. Can you clarify your last line (take it to next level so no roller coaster) - I didn't get it. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | She Texts Me All Day Non Stop - I Said I'm Busy, She is "HURT"Of course not.. she tries to "break me" with "You don't have 5 minutes to talk". Interesting to see how she will text tomorrow. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 08:10 PM |
| 2 | She Texts Me All Day Non Stop - I Said I'm Busy, She is "HURT"80% of communication is nonverbal. Moreover, over text, she'll not see your flirty vibe, most things will come over as dry, you can be misunderstood etc. Same the other way around (she can be misunderstood etc) You are extremely helpful. I think that It's ok to text a bit here and there. But if I, after one or two dates - have to text with her throughout the day, she makes a little bitch out of me. And at that point - flaking, disrespect etc will appear. I think that in this case - I will limit … | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 07:49 PM |
| 4 | She Texts Me All Day Non Stop - I Said I'm Busy, She is "HURT"Good comment. She asked for the second date herself, it's in 2 days. But from the morning, she texts me and wants to chit chat about different things. I hold myself not to give in to that, because I'm afraid that will lead to loss of attraction. Am I right? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 07:30 PM |
| 2 | She Texts Me All Day Non Stop - I Said I'm Busy, She is "HURT"if she texts so much - her interest level is very high. What are the red flags you noticed? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 06:55 PM |
| -1 | She laughed for 3 HOURS STRAIGHT NON STOPHonestly, i didn't try to make her laugh or be a dancing monkey. As a person, I always talk witty and in sarcasm. Always was like that. It's the first time a women laughs so much from it - so maybe it has more to do with her than with me. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 06:13 AM |
| 0 | Texting After Setting a Date - OK?Texting sure, but not everyday till the date - right? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Texting After Setting a Date - OK?So, in my case -we talked a bit, then set a date 5 days later. When I should ping her / text her before the date? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 08:17 PM |
| -1 | I can see her only EVERY 11 DAYS - What 2 Do?I asked 2 questions : Should I see her day after day when she's home (2 days in raw)? What about texting between? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 08:18 PM |
| 0 | I can see her only EVERY 11 DAYS - What 2 Do?I don't want to control her. I asked 2 questions.... | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 08:16 PM |
| 2 | FIRST DATE - Make Her Come To My City Via Train, or Drive To Her?you dont sound very resourceful... if u want her to come out with u, make it easy for her to say yes Honestly, I see nothing wrong with her taking a 20minute train, and me taking her from the station with my car. And still, chances that she will agree are slim. If I was a multi millionaire celebrity, she probably would take a 3 hour train haha. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | FIRST DATE - Make Her Come To My City Via Train, or Drive To Her?you dont sound very resourceful... if u want her to come out with u, make it easy for her to say yes So you recommend driving to her city... where I don't know any place, while in my city - I already know places for escalation. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 05:19 PM |
| 6 | FIRST DATE - Make Her Come To My City Via Train, or Drive To Her?Do you recommend this concept for every situation? Meaning, always "my way or the highway"? Or is there place for "understanding" in some cases? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 04:47 PM |
| -2 | Contacted Her On Instagram, when to text again (?Will not orbit her. Will invite for a date - if she is not interested, next. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 07:34 PM |
| -1 | Contacted Her On Instagram, when to text again (?What is RL? Will not orbit her. Will invite for a date - if she is not interested, next. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 07:34 PM |
| -2 | Contacted Her On Instagram, when to text again (?Of course your are right. But this is the situation right now - and I would like to hear what to do in this case. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 07:19 PM |
| 2 | "YOU ARE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT, not like other guys, I don't know what DRAWS ME TO YOU"For how long can you take her on a roller coaster for? Is this somwthing relevent in a case of ltr as well? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I WALKED AWAY because SHE IS EMBARRASSED OF MY PARENTS [SEX]She didnt have a problem with sex in car (we did)... but has a peoblem coming home when parents are in it. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | I WALKED AWAY because SHE IS EMBARRASSED OF MY PARENTS [SEX]She was dtf in car. Dont want to come home because of a tradition thing. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 04:10 PM |
| 3 | She Behaved Badly - So I Stopped The Date & Took Her HomeShe treated the date like "whatever". If I prepare, drive to her, take her, and "entertain" her, she needs to show shome reapect and be active. Isnt she? | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:21 PM |
| 2 | She Behaved Badly - So I Stopped The Date & Took Her HomeWe already made out in public more times that I can remember. She has no problem what so ever with that. She just thought she can pull of behaving like she did. As I mentioned - it wasn't just about the kiss. She came with a disgusting attitude, and thought that I will be jumping around entertaining her to get her validation. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 09:58 PM |
| 10 | She Behaved Badly - So I Stopped The Date & Took Her HomeShe texts me everyday... ignoring a good morning messege from her sounds like a butthurt behavior | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | She Behaved Badly - So I Stopped The Date & Took Her HomeWe were in a place with no people. It seemed like she just wasn't in the mood, and felt like she can behave like that with no consequences. I think I made it pretty clear that if we go out - she needs to be ACTIVE. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | After few dates, she is OBSESSIVE and ADDICTED to meGreat advice. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 05:25 PM |
| 4 | After few dates, she is OBSESSIVE and ADDICTED to meGreat tip. I never ask that, and always grab her by the waist or small of back to direct her while we walk. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 05:06 PM |
| 3 | After few dates, she is OBSESSIVE and ADDICTED to meI think that some women, when dating a guy who they see as super alpha (and have access to many other women) - will go towards exclusivity, because "they are not sluts"... So with them, you can't show complete abundance, otherwise you lose them. I mean, be alpha, but know when a test is a comfort test and not a shit test. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | After few dates, she is OBSESSIVE and ADDICTED to meYou can't empathize, if read anything TRP, you'll know women always play the victim. Her last LTR didn't work out, that's the same as bad credit history, there was a reason behind that. She's campaigning right now, she's the best possible version of herself, once she makes office, all that goes bye-bye. Enjoy the early stages, but don't give her a relationship, you've been programmed to be monogamous by society, to your detriment. Overcome the programming. I always keep in mind AWALT. But this c… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | After few dates, she is OBSESSIVE and ADDICTED to meAbundance mentality comes easy with literal abundance, keep dating around, that doesn't mean you have to stop dating her, either. While I totally understand the importance of this, I think I fuck up when it comes to abundance with her. She has some trauma from a LTR that left her, and maybe that's why she throws so many comfort tests to make sure I don't date others. Also texts me A LOT, but that's because at first she lived in a different city, and I had to let it be because otherwise, it would… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | How Many Dates A Week Without Being Needy? She Is EXTREMELY interestedIndeed, no sex yet , but a lot of touching, flirting and kissing. Problem with logistics will be aolved within a week, and we will see. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 02:46 PM |
| 3 | How Many Dates A Week Without Being Needy? She Is EXTREMELY interestedMeeting her parents?? Wtf? Where did you read this? Regarding your advice - thanks, you are right. Will stick to twice a week. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 01:35 PM |
| 1 | How Many Dates A Week Without Being Needy? She Is EXTREMELY interestedWell, she doesnt. But looks 8/10 and to my tatste 9/10. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 12:35 PM |
| 1 | How Many Dates A Week Without Being Needy? She Is EXTREMELY interestedYou are right. I mean more like twice , 3 times a week. Which is still too much it seems. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | How Many Dates A Week Without Being Needy? She Is EXTREMELY interestedUnfortunately I failed her comfort tests BIG TIME (NOT SHIT TESTS), so meeting her this time, only after a whole week, may be a problem. What do you think ? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 09:42 AM |
| 1 | She is against using MORNING AFTER PILL if needed - WHAT 2 DO?Condom + withdrawl method combined. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 08:01 PM |
| 5 | She is against using MORNING AFTER PILL if needed - WHAT 2 DO?Careful. She’s probably going to engineer a session so it “just feels right” to fuck unprotected on a bad day. Two weeks later, oops, pregs, yours. Unprotected? Not going to happen. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | She is against using MORNING AFTER PILL if needed - WHAT 2 DO?U can’t, she’s in control of her body. Even if she agrees to use the pill: in the words of billy Joel....”she just changes her mind”...then your screwed. What I am asking is - how should I tell her (the Alpha way) that if that's her mindset - I will not have anything with her to start with (Will NEXT her). | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 07:27 PM |
| 0 | She is against using MORNING AFTER PILL if needed - WHAT 2 DO?No shit.... But what happened happened - and she said what she said. How do I make it clear that in case the pill is needed - it is used, or otherwise - I would not have anything with her to start with. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 07:21 PM |
| -3 | She is against using MORNING AFTER PILL if needed - WHAT 2 DO?Sometimes things like that can come up in the conversation. This time it did. Now that she said what she said, how do I act to make it clear that it is not ok with me. What I am asking is - how should I tell her (the Alpha way) that if that's her mindset - I will not have anything with her to start with (Will NEXT her). | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 07:19 PM |
| -2 | She Told Me She Is Insulted That I Don't Text HerWell, when I ask her if I can take her shorts off, she says no (after making out for an hour). Wtf should I do? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 12:13 PM |
| 1 | She Told Me She Is Insulted That I Don't Text HerSo i shouldnt change anything? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Told Her I want "Something Serious" at beginning. HOW TO FIX? (took red pill)Both 20 yo. How do you actually become exclusive? Only after talking about it? Kinda strange | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Told Her I want "Something Serious" at beginning. HOW TO FIX? (took red pill)Hahah nice. But does not answer ny question | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Told Her I want "Something Serious" at beginning. HOW TO FIX? (took red pill)And that means what... Being able to date others in my situation? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Told Her I want "Something Serious" at beginning. HOW TO FIX? (took red pill)We don't tell you what to want, only how to get what you want. So it doesn't matter if what you want is "acceptable." I'm looking for an LTR, but after dating this girl for a month, I do feel like I still want to go on a date or two with other women, so I have the option to choose. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Told Her I want "Something Serious" at beginning. HOW TO FIX? (took red pill)At our second date, she asked what I am looking for, and (stupid) me answered - "something serious" / LTR (which as I can tell - probably also means for her - dating one person only). We didn't talk about being exclusive after that at any point. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 04:32 PM |
| -1 | Told Her I want "Something Serious" at beginning. HOW TO FIX? (took red pill)I took the red pill recently.... Sex is going to happen within the next 2 dates. No problem with that whatsoever | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 04:29 PM |
| 0 | Told Her I want "Something Serious" at beginning. HOW TO FIX? (took red pill)Obviously I am trying to get answers from people who took the red pill for much longer than I do... Nothing wrong with hearing other opinions. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Gives Only Cheek Kisses - BUT TOMORROW COMES FOR A MOVIE. What 2 Do?Well, from what I can see - it is very reasonable that she is inexperienced. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Gives Only Cheek Kisses - BUT TOMORROW COMES FOR A MOVIE. What 2 Do?You only read the title my friend. She comes for a movie AT MY PLACE. Not going out with her to the theater. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Gives Only Cheek Kisses - BUT TOMORROW COMES FOR A MOVIE. What 2 Do?You are 100% correct, very helpful comment and that mindset is defiantly something I will adapt. But if the date at my place ("a movie") is already set (tomorrow) - I see no reason to cancel it. I will try to escalate, and if she still "cheek kisses", I just NEXT. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | SHE FELL ASLEEP And didn't show up for the 4th dateShe just texted she is so sorry (3 messeges). Didnt offer another time. Isnt it too needy to continue as nothing happened? Should i escalate with - no worries, come oi my place (its a huge escalation for her. Probably wont accept), or wait if she texts again and suggests somwthing, otherwise NEXT? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 10:21 PM |
| 3 | SHE FELL ASLEEP And didn't show up for the 4th dateShe cancelled one date 40 minutes before, and then forgets about the next date and sleeps? She is just not mature enough I would say. But maybe indeed, sending her a message like you suggested (come to my place or NEXT) is a good idea. What do you guys think? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | SHE FELL ASLEEP And didn't show up for the 4th dateThanks. Got it. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 08:32 PM |
| 3 | SHE FELL ASLEEP And didn't show up for the 4th dateGreat advice, thanks. After she fucked up twice, if she wants to date with me - she will have to prove she is serious. So in case she texts - I answer- I have no time to waste, if you want to take this seriously - come to my home for a dinner. But in case she does not texts - I shouldn't send that text above to her after few days, right? Because it indeed looks like she is very sorry for what happened, but it's possible she is too "shy" to text me again. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | SHE FELL ASLEEP And didn't show up for the 4th dateHaha I'm laughing here . You are right. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 07:07 PM |
| -9 | SHE FELL ASLEEP And didn't show up for the 4th dateI am not looking for a 18 yo slut | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 06:59 PM |
| -2 | SHE FELL ASLEEP And didn't show up for the 4th dateIt's correct for mature women - above 20-23 for example, no doubt. But a 17 year old women, who is still in high school and seems like a "good girl" - it's just not true. Anyways - what would you suggest me to do if she contacts me in few days saying sorry again and suggesting to meet? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | SHE FELL ASLEEP And didn't show up for the 4th dateSo if indeed, she contacts me after few days - saying (again) she is sorry and/or let's meet in few days. What should I answer? She looks amazing, fun to speak with and fairly smart... and on the other hand, I am no fucking garbage to toss around. Just seems like she is not really mature... like many 17 years old women I would say. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 06:44 PM |
| 1 | SHE FELL ASLEEP And didn't show up for the 4th dateShe is just 17 years old, and "conservative". You can't compare a 17 years old women to a 25 one. If I would meet a much older women, there is no question I would escalate 5 times faster. I got to the point she doesn't have a problem with me touching her hands, hair, back etc. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 06:37 PM |
| 2 | SHE FELL ASLEEP And didn't show up for the 4th dateWhere I live, at 17 years old - there is no such thing as fucking on first or third date. You can't compare a 17 years old women to a 25 one. She even had a hard time with a cheek kiss. I escalated slowly - to the point she had no problem with me touching her hands, hair and back. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 06:32 PM |
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